I'm Right Here | Comfort for Social Anxiety (caring girlfriend) (F4A) [ASMR]

[@mislav1120]

girls:men only want one thing and its disgusting men: *listenin to this*

[@kayjasmr7174]

Sadly, there are a lot of people on both sides who seem to fit that "bracket" of people who "only want one thing. Good thing not everybody is like that. ^-^

[@kao3580]

ok i'm a man now

[@cheesebottle2844]

BillyBob Jr thanks man you too!

[@TThief]

I haven't heard a woman talk to me directly in forever. It feels so nice to feel loved and accepted by another person. I've been struggling with social anxiety my entire life and it's why I struggle to attract females but hopefully I will find a girlfriend some day :( Edit: I GOT A GIRLFRIEND :). People always be looking and trying to find people actively and it worked! Thank you to everyone who encouraged me!

[@kayjasmr7174]

Im sure you will find a woman who will love you, no matter what :) just be patient, enjoy your life and the right one will come along :)

[@TThief]

@@kayjasmr7174 thanks for the boost in confidence :)

[@ghostie5923]

I have almost every form of anxiety and I've met many people who liked me for who I am, you'll find the one don't give up! You may never know if the one who likes you is right in front of you. Just watch for the signs

[@TThief]

@@ghostie5923 actually I found a girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. I should update the post :)

[@Blazequine]

Awwww yay congrats!!!

[@chrisgale2361]

Your comfort video for "Social Anxiety" was wonderful. If anyone is suffering from social anxiety my heart goes out you, but you can overcome your social anxiety by taking baby steps with a friend or a loved one. Happy independence day to you all from the USA.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Thank you so much!! And you're so kind :D

[@chrisgale2361]

@@kayjasmr7174 much obliged

[@robin9321]

I really agree with you! It's just really painful if you don't even have a friend like that...

[@Blazequine]

Hey usa buddy

[@imcarolean]

tfw no friend or loved one

[@heir.of.regulus6924]

I heard someone say once, "relationships aren't about compromise. They're about collaboration." And this video showcases that so much, she could've been upset and complained that the listener has anxiety and might want to leave the party early. But instead she meets the listener as a partner. Supporting them, and making sure they're loved and supported. Showing that the listener isn't in this alone and that they'll get through it together.

[@user-rn5xy6gm9z]

My Social Anxiety is ruining my Highschool career. When you avoid eye contact with everyone and never talk to anyone except your friends, you get somewhat of a reputation. Listening to these really help. Even though it may seem sad, I sincerely thank you for making these. Not alot of people tend to cater to us group of people.

[@tedphipps660]

My social anxiety kicked in at a music festival once. I told my girlfriend at the time that I felt uncomfortable but she said that I ruined her day, called me a wimp and broke up with me. So thank you for helping me realise that it's okay to feel this way. It really means a lot 😊 EDIT: 69 likes? Cheers you legends! 😁 EDIT #2: 103 likes! Thank you so much again guys- you are all so supportive! ❤

[@vortex-6307]

Dude I'm so sorry for you press t dude

[@tedphipps660]

@@vortex-6307 I don't understand your wording at all... 😂

[@kayjasmr7174]

It's perfectly okay to feel that way! I'm sorry about your ex treating you like that, she clearly didn't understand that it's a normal thing to experience. ^-^ i hope you can go to a musical festival again without that worry of having someone be so mean :3

[@tedphipps660]

@@kayjasmr7174 thank you for your words- it means so very much. You're a wonderful person!

[@vortex-6307]

I meant f stupid auto correct

[@bruhnling33]

Having the constant feeling of somebody caring about me feels foreign, feelsbadman This vid honestly helped so much. I felt so much better afterwards and had to find it again to write this comment. Thanks for doing this! Edit: had to come back, i don’t really feel more confident per se, just more whole, it’s weird and satisfying and i love it, i feel like i’m just gonna keep coming back to this vid over and over till its effectiveness for me just dries out

[@kayjasmr7174]

Well, I hope the effect never ... Dries off? Is that what you said? Either way, i hope it still holds a special message to you in your heart. :) I'm glad this video has helped you so far, and i hope it'll continue to help you a bit more each time you return to it :))

[@princess-celestia]

oh, heck. my joys multiply.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Hehe thank you so much for the suggestion!!

[@TotallyNotSomeTerrarianBoi]

Expectations: *girls cares for you and loves you* Reality: *leaves you alone and scolds you* Me: *reality is often disappointing..*

[@evil_morty28_23]

When ever I have a girlfriend I treat her very well and I get guess what it is I get nothing nothing

[@jeova0sanctus0unus]

Reality is a badly designed game with frustrating game mechanics.

[@pavlo3511]

@@evil_morty28_23 when you care about girls they leave, but when you treat them like shit, they love and care about you....something i still can’t wrap my head around. we’re just animals, and this is nature, i guess

[@evil_morty28_23]

@@pavlo3511 ok

[@ugh5281]

@@pavlo3511 that's not true, at least not for me lmao. i would 100% prefer a nice guy over one who treats me like shit and i would say its the same for most girls.. like why would they want a guy to treat them badly? might as well stay single forever then

[@eatthebana]

my dad thinks that if i socialize more itll cure my social anxiety

[@kayjasmr7174]

Oh my... Well sometimes, it can help if you have the right people to go with you, but it's never that simple. I'm sure itll get easier for you in time though, dont give up :)

[@vortex-6307]

I have crippling anxiety

[@saintpoli6800]

Ashiwol It will help. Therapy can help. But anxiety stays with you, but you can reduce its’ potency

[@jarritos-br6ym]

Talking and a fidget device might work that's what I do and I've actually improved

[@ryx964]

My big sister says the same dude

[@onlythedeadknowpeace3833]

Man i wish i could have a girlfriend

[@kayjasmr7174]

You will get one in time ^-^ don't give up

[@onlythedeadknowpeace3833]

@@kayjasmr7174 thanks, hopefully you're right

[@markcuskelly9166]

only the dead know peace got one yet?

[@riddlerrl]

Move to the UK

[@amtrakisveryepic]

I'm pretty lonely too😂

[@dracoorientalis6059]

I think I need a girlfriend like this ☺️

[@thefriendlyelephant9837]

We all need one like this. We don't need some drop dead gorgeous girl. We need to someone to love us for who we are and that will help us through tough times.

[@shadowmaster4184]

Me too, I wish you Luck in your adventure for a girfriend like this Sorry if I write something bad, I dont talk English

[@trexoil7774]

we all do pal...we all do

[@BigNate5404]

As someone with high functioning autism, this is very much appreciated! You have no idea how much this helped me through the stress of life. Although having a girlfriend seems like only a dream to me, it always heartwarming seeing people making these audios to help people who need someone to comfort them. Thank You!

[@mesabeanimatingnow3140]

Her: you look a little pale. Me: I’m Irish!!

[@standpire]

Accurate and I would know since I’m Irish to

[@heisenbergpinkman2265]

The amount of times you said "I love you" ❤

[@kayjasmr7174]

Hehe I hope you enjoyed that :3

[@heisenbergpinkman2265]

I loved it ❤

[@ghostie5923]

Just went through a rough breakup, this is really helping, thanks. I think I needed this pampering, haven't had it in a little over a month now. Sincerely, thanks

[@kayjasmr7174]

You're very welcome my friend. I'm sorry you went through a tough break up but hey it's not the end :3 hehe keep your chin up! The right one will come to you in time

[@standpire]

I’ll be honest I’m very introverted and I deal with social anxiety so this has actually helped me a bit to come out and I’ve made quite a few friends

[@wizardwastaken]

HOLY I FINALLY FOUND THIS VIDEO I first saw this video back in peak Corona times and haven't found it since, so glad I found it!

[@savix7201]

i lay in bed and listen to your videos all day just so i dont lose my marbles, thank you so much🖤

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm so glad I can help you not lose your marbles, because those things are important hehe ^-^

[@savix7201]

KayJASMR you’re the best

[@BOOitsaghost]

Oh jeez, I'm sweating like crazy at just the thought of being at a party... And now I want to hug and cuddle someone as caring as you 😫

[@kayjasmr7174]

I know I'm a bit late but ... *Big hugs!!*

[@austinhorn8323]

These videos are truly comforting, i always worry about if a potential girlfriend or date might recoil or laugh in response to my anxieties, one being social. Hope there are people out there like this video describes

[@kayjasmr7174]

I know there is :) just can't give up. I'm glad this video is comforting to you :3

[@vampirelord454]

I have social anxiety bad and this helped a lot thank you . (subscribed)

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm so glad this helped you :) And thank you so much!

[@youzettasonsofdigits1639]

Hope I find a gem of a gf like this one day

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm sure you will in time :3

[@tylerfrazier8737]

I need a girl like this

[@thefriendlyelephant9837]

We all do

[@KingQwari]

This is great I'm so anxious and lonely and hurt...

[@kayjasmr7174]

It'll be okay my friend. Take social situations one small step at a time, take your time and don't give up :3

[@Knuckles8864]

Being one with social anxiety, this almost made me tear up... in a good way.

[@weptbigfoot892]

Knuckles8864 oof same tho

[@kayjasmr7174]

Apologies for being so slow to this ^-^' but I am happy that it made you tear up in a good way :3 never forget you're not alone 💜

[@Knuckles8864]

@@kayjasmr7174 Aww, thank you so much for the kind words. Your voice is quite nice, and made me smile. So, thank you so much.

[@100Puffo]

Hope your crazy day goes well :) Stay safe! :)

[@kayjasmr7174]

Awe thank you! You as well :D

[@miracleace8157]

Bring it in "raises hand for a high five"

[@kayjasmr7174]

*high fives*

[@heftymagic4814]

I actually cried when she was listing all the things that were great about me

[@kayjasmr7174]

Well, you are great, no matter what you think ^-^

[@milano8286]

Heh come to think of it that this was my first ever video i've watched from you @KayJASMR /angel Kay,it was really a wonderful day to have found this wonderful channel of yours and also meeting you

[@bayman918]

i can't even imagine getting a girl, let alone someone like this. gettin a little teary eyed at this tbh. reached a new low lads

[@EvileyeV]

I am so happy I found your channel you're voice is so soothing and calming.

[@barns612]

Your asmr is always top-notch and perfect keep making the best asmr I know

[@kayjasmr7174]

Awee thank you ^+^ I know I'm a little slow, but you're too kind! ^-^

[@stalinglad]

Next time im at a party ima wear headphones and put this on repeat

[@kayjasmr7174]

Do it if it helps :3

[@stalinglad]

@@kayjasmr7174 aight fam Seriously though. This audio was amazing. Thank you so much

[@BOOitsaghost]

I think everyone's social anxiety is different. When I feel my social anxiety it's usually when I'm around strangers and we are close and they look at me or I see them and I'm doing something stupid I want to leave and I start sweating a lot and I just want to be away from the place and like today at the store I bought something with my own money (I was with my mom) and we had to do two separate groups (my item is one group her items are the other group) and I had her hand the cashier my money as I hid behind her and she said the thing was mine and I was too shy and the cashier and a stranger in line looked at me and I just wanted to cry/die/leave and I started sweating like crazy (especially in the palms) and it wasn't fun 😭 But from what this audio is like I would think social anxiety attacks you (like having a panic attack) and you start shaking and struggle to breathe but it isn't like that for me? Or maybe I just don't have social anxiety maybe I just don't like people I guess idk but I get nervous just thinking about being in a room with strangers 😫

[@alextheconfuddled8983]

Im introverted as shit and always forget i have social anxiety until i go out for the first time in ages to a place that isnt school and i literally avoid talking to anyone. I swear even if im in the shop and im there for a while i get uncomfortable because i feel like people are thinking im taking way too long looking for something and looking weird. When in reality i know literally noone gives a shit about me and what i do, its just my social anxiety being a wanker.

[@sevenbicycle7165]

KayJASMR thanks for this asmr, because when I very sad for the life this audio help me to know that is more things to live and help me with my Social Anxiety. Thanks

[@cyupafilms6141]

I wish someone would comfort me like this

[@templar_1138]

I used to be engaged to a woman who was from Manhattan. We loved each other very much, but one time, we went into a grocery store that was much smaller and cramped than I was used to or expecting. It triggered an anxiety attack and I needed to head outside. She wasn't sure what to do with that. I don't fault her for it, but I wish she'd been able to address the situation like this character did.

[@kayjasmr7174]

It's lovely and very kind that you dont fault her for something she didn't know about, or at least how to respond to this kind of thing. Not everyone does, and that makes you very kind indeed :)

[@templar_1138]

@@kayjasmr7174 I'm not kind, I've just had a lot of time to process what happened. Also, I have a hard time taking compliments.

[@thatoneguynoonenotices3200]

I see and hear about people romanticizing social anxiety without understanding it's literally living hell to deal with

[@nazmanrashid7830]

I'm have social anxiety too.So hard to feel alive.😥😥

[@onurklc5781]

Woah thats awesome friend 😊

[@kayjasmr7174]

Thank you so much!

[@Jooders]

I’m 21yr old guy. 11 electroconvulsive therapy procedures and 33 Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation sessions later. I don’t know how it got like this. I wish I knew what the good old days were before they past. I’m already showing early symptoms of Dementia, I’m diagnosed with Depression and PTSD.........

[@kayjasmr7174]

I am sorry you are going through all of that.. please remember you're not alone, there are people who care for you. Take things one moment at a time, and embrace good memories as they come.

[@littleflower787]

I'm so sorry for what you have been through. ❤

[@ImperialGuardsman2]

You probably won't ever see this but, thank you. I really needed this.

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm glad you enjoyed it and I'm happy it helped :3

[@sampopursiainen6462]

4:01 beep

[@lovi6879]

*B E E F*

[@thecaptain596]

All I want is to feel loved and your videos have helped me a lot thank you

[@strider1trigger]

This video was wonderful I absolutely loved it

[@kayjasmr7174]

Thank you so much!

[@strider1trigger]

KayJASMR your welcome I'm gonna have a great Fourth of July I'm proud to be American and I'm thankful for the brave men and women who protect America they are the reason i have the Freedom to do what I want

[@gmx06]

5:43 the car horn was a paid actor

[@omnipotententity131]

Wow i have social issues and this genuinely helped me a little, bravo!

[@omnipotententity131]

Hey omni potent entity

[@omnipotententity131]

Yea

[@omnipotententity131]

Are you scared of yourself

[@omnipotententity131]

What? No

[@omnipotententity131]

Do you hate yourself

[@SuperJacob2006]

Thanks So Much For Comforting Me I Needed This

[@Conordavefoster]

Having regular anxiety, social anxiety and depression makes socialising a no-go

[@glitchedred3809]

I'm so very very late, however: *N Y E S*

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm glad you enjoyed!!

[@crazyoreocookie938]

Hey girl! Nice video (as usual 🤗) love your videos and your voice, keep up the good work and don't listen to the haters! 😁❤️ Happy 4th of July!!🎉🎉

[@kayjasmr7174]

Thank you!! Love ya and happy 4th!

[@crazyoreocookie938]

@@kayjasmr7174 love ya too girl!❤️❤️❤️

[@supahjadi8944]

I needed this.

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm glad you found it ^-^ thanks for listening to me hehe

[@holloway3768]

Channel under-rated

[@kayjasmr7174]

Awe thank you so much ^-^ I just hope I can help more people

[@kwikza-gd3426]

She’s a keeper

[@solararmor3961]

I hate crowds... I have a panic attack in large ones

[@solararmor3961]

My scocial anxiety is massive... I can barly handle groups

[@SC_Silver_99]

​@@solararmor3961I'm the same way, even around my family and the few friends I have. I've never been able to have a normal conversation because I can never think of anything to say and start panicking inside, I'm lucky if I can force out more than a couple words to anyone.

[@TheRanchiestMan]

After: I feel trebon! Before: BREAKDOWN BREAKDOWN!

[@acl1504]

It sucks that most girls aren't like this in real life.

[@kayjasmr7174]

That's not true. There are quite a lot of females like this, they're just difficult to find nowadays. Just don't give up ^-^

[@acl1504]

@@kayjasmr7174 I try not to, but you're right. It's not easy.

[@thesmallkitchen187]

I once passed out at my brothers graduation party so this helped a lot thanks 😊

[@thesaltbucket324]

I severely need a grounding figure in a relationship..somebody who can keep a level head but totally understand my issues and support me by literally always being by my side and helping me out not leaving me on my own like everyone else does :/

[@kayjasmr7174]

The thing about relationships, my friend is nothing is going to be perfect. They will be there for you, and by your side.. but there will be moments you will need to be there for them, or allow them space while you stand alone for a little bit. Don't give up though, you will find the right person :3

[@thesaltbucket324]

KayJASMR You're right. relationships are tough especially when you don't have a good grasp on your own self (or selves), but recently I've been discovering that I really do hate he feeling that the chemical we call love gives me, it's like a full on panic attack cause what if I'm not really in love ya know? most times people act on impulse and that causes alot of issues for both parties so I try to stay away from relationships nowadays. but who knows, maybe one day I'll make it but for now I won't go chasing ya feel me?

[@kayjasmr7174]

@@thesaltbucket324 I feels ya man. Haha when it's meant to be, it's meant to be. ^-^ that's what I always say. I also say never try to force anything as it's never authentic. :3

[@thesaltbucket324]

KayJASMR i agree, I often can feel right from the beginning if someone will connect well with me or not and most often, it's a biiig nope. But at least I know alot more about myself and have some semblance of self control, by the way, it's been nice talking to ya I'm glad I commented in the first place.

[@rexivivi]

I read the title and the only thing i can think of is... *RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW, RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW.*

[@paolopinoargote]

Thank you.

[@1999_reborn]

Social anxiety is so fucking annoying. I just can’t talk to girls it kills me. And it makes me ignore my friends and they think it’s cuz I’m cutting them off but I’m just nervous.

[@fatithfulwarden3352]

I have social anxiety and it’s bad

[@Sandman382]

Going through these in succession you start feeling bad for this boyfriend. Seems to have every issue under the sun. :p Been going through these to calm down and for help sleeping, and they've been fairly effective. Thank you for the help, I'll keep looking forward to further videos.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Hahaha well ddaeng, I never thought about that xD but I'm so glad they're helpful for you ^-^ hehehe

[@cyberdazer7415]

Thank you.. this made me sub!!

[@kayjasmr7174]

You're very welcome, and yay! Welcome to the family :3

[@cyberdazer7415]

@@kayjasmr7174 yay thanks! :D

[@todorokisfavouriteobject9109]

*”You look a little pale”* *Me* : U-uh, well u see, where I’m from there is no sun...

[@jasonenglish3713]

No Soical Anxiety here,just shy around people at first. But you do read me like a book honey;whenever I am with you feel like I can be your shining knight.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Awe I'm happy I could help ^-^

[@jasonenglish3713]

@@kayjasmr7174 ❤

[@alastor8091]

Why is this in my rec? Don't give me hope. ;-;

[@onajourney645]

This is so niiiiiice

[@HyperformA1]

Flawless 👍

[@cmdrgarbage1895]

My girlfriend lives across the damn border... Why is life like this

[@kayjasmr7174]

Keep fighting for each other, and you two will be able to be together soon enough ^-^ Just don't give up on each other :3

[@cmdrgarbage1895]

@@kayjasmr7174 yeah... She broke up with me...

[@kayjasmr7174]

@@cmdrgarbage1895 Awh, man I'm sorry to hear that. :( Don't let that make you give up though, take time to heal and eventually, when you're ready, I'm sure you'll find someone :)

[@davishmayo1643]

That one very specific three years ago comment really hit.

[@dragonsrule2505]

S-tier waifu

[@haiikulogic8295]

I accidentally clicked on this vid, and I dont regret it one bit, especially since I have Social Anxiety

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm glad you found this video on accident, and I hope it helped ^-^

[@_Glockyy_]

I have one question to anyone else who has anxiety when you feel it start to come on do you get a weird feeling in your stomach or is it just me?

[@kayjasmr7174]

Nah, I get that too, it's pretty bad but it can be helped I time ^-^

[@sullivanwilson6665]

You my friend...are a angel...

[@kayjasmr7174]

Awwh thank you ^-^ you're so sweet! I try to be :)

[@sullivanwilson6665]

@@kayjasmr7174 yeah,im a biiiiit lonely and stuff sooooo this helps a ton,thank you...

[@tzokaniku6385]

I'm trying to prepare myself for tomorrow coz I'm going out with my dad for my birthday because he will be out on my actual birthday to get presents

[@Blazequine]

How come people make us out to be sex-driven psychos?? I mean like here I am over here having panic attacks because I feel lonely and people are out there thinking "Men only want 1 thing."

[@kayjasmr7174]

I know I'm a bit late... But do t give up! You're a sweet kind soul, and you're not alone :3 small steps, and remember not everybody is the same

[@theirishskeleton0521]

The character I see on the screen why isn't it in the velvet room

[@shawndurling5849]

Im just unstable

[@piteon3060]

Lol i was that depressed that i accidently got a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend

[@kayjasmr7174]

Well... Ddaeng haha! I won't say anything xD lol

[@piteon3060]

@@kayjasmr7174 well y-yeah kinda embaressing

[@m3redgt]

but what if i really need you to go back in for my peace of mind? not because i don't want you here but because i really want you to have a great night without having to put up with me and ruining your get together this time you might be ok with it .. but what about the 10th time? you will get annoyed about it eventually so please forget about me for few hours and enjoy the night with your friends i will be there when you come home

[@muzzledfern1109]

Only 1000 subs this is a problem

[@zamok4829]

kay is this u talking

[@kayjasmr7174]

Indeed it is! :)

[@georgetd8623]

You can't possibly exist! lol

[@kayjasmr7174]

Lol oh but I do exist. I exist very much haha

[@DRshaneLOLOLOL]

Do women like this exist in real life lol

[@sebastiankonstantinou1383]

Do people like this actually exist?

[@nazmanrashid7830]

I wish man.no one understand me.😥😥

[@kayjasmr7174]

Indeed we do :3

[@mcmadbear1514]

KayJASMR I need someone like you in my life, are you single?