I NEVER thought I would do THIS

[@AyshaLovesYou]

You do not need to give anyone an explanation on why you wanted to have another child, or why you made your decision. It’s your body and your life. You did what was best for you, and I’m happy that you made the best decision for yourself 😊❤

[@tinatwine137]

Perfectly said.

[@holyone48]

Amen to that I touch and agree with you on your message. You don't owe us anything. Praying for you and your family's healing. 🙏

[@patricedelaney179]

God Bless you and your family 💐 🙏🏻 ❤️💛🩷💚💜🧡💙 Sydney 🦘 🇦🇺Australia

[@theriaspinner07]

I agree with that. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@chicachonga]

Thank you for sharing your story about your difficult decision. Even though you don't owe any of us an explanation, I hope it can help someone else who may be facing something similar. Wishing you and your family light and healing and hope that you can get some answers so you can have a better experience if you decide to try again. Also, know that there are support groups for parents who experience the loss of a pregnancy.

[@Gigi-rj3dj]

I love that you trusted us with such a personal decision. After a quick scan of the comments, it warmed my heart that everyone is so loving and supportive. You have built a wonderful community. We are here for you. 🦋

[@nataliesharif2167]

Precious, it's always a tough decision. You are brave and wonderful. I made that same decision twice. I will never apologize for it. I was addicted at the time and had a daughter already I couldn't care for. We are all good now and that daughter graduated college and is a nurse, she is now my best friend. It was the best thing for us at the time as well. You have a beautiful life and family. Do what's best for that, always.

[@jeanwiggins6800]

How is your husband say any think your husband always mlove you did you have the baby I pray for you and and your family

[@erinpartyof6795]

As a fellow HG mama who was knocking on deaths door(literally) throughout my pregnancies and am still dealing with the repercussions 15 years later, I stand by you and your choice. Unless someone has been deathly ill by a baby growing inside them, they can never begin to understand the complexities and severity of this disease. You are brave. You are strong. And im thankful for you sharing your story.

[@applepie6559]

HG Happened to my Daughter in her First Pregnancy. I Never knew Pregnancy could abuse you, Literally!! It was Absolutely Horrible! I had to bathe her( and I had to beg her to get a bath at least once a week) It got so bad, I wanted her to Terminate, because the baby was killing her😞 I Now know what HG can do to a Woman, and there needs to be more awareness about it…

[@darlene9145]

I had never heard of this til just now. 💔

[@VideogameSho420]

@@applepie6559the baby isn’t killing you. It’s 2023. You go in the hospital about 50 times the last 3 months and they hook you up and take care of you. I have never heard of someone killing their baby for HG sickness. It’s not actually gonna kill you.

[@brittanyC_]

​@@VideogameSho420Source that it can't kill you? You believe that the mother should spend the last 3 months going to the hospital FIFTY times? Have you dealt with HG? Have you seen what it can do to the woman's body?

[@VideogameSho420]

@@brittanyC_ yes I have dealt with it I have a 3 year old I was pregnant during Covid and had this severely. Was in and out of the hospital 100 times. The hospital says it’s normal. It’s not life threatening with modern medicine. Yes you’re sick but that’s it. You won’t actually die.

[@alinebereniceherrerarangel2489]

My heart goes to you. As a physician, I sadly witnessed the loss of a mother to HG, leaving behind her 3 Y.o. Daughter. HG is to be taken seriously.

[@LadyEliza7]

I’m glad you as a MD spoke up about HG. Many women have no idea what it is or what it can do to the pregnancy. I worked in a large county hospital in the south and saw many cases. I appreciate your input.

[@thegfamily7511]

I had it with my first child and I went through hell but I would have never ended the pregnancy but everyone is different and some women are stronger than others ig

[@Eheh980]

I think it takes alot of strength actually to think about yourself and the children you already have if you're not coping.

[@chlowong6302]

​@@thegfamily7511heh well aren't u just the most condescending darling. choke on spit.

[@mama.danni.bell17]

​@Chizzboss 🤦‍♀️ from. 1989 there has been less than 150 ppl in the US that have died from legal abortions in the US. More than 1,200 mothers die each year from pregnancy complications. Gets your facts straight.

[@tymothyyoung1530]

I understand your loss. I hade HG with my 3rd and 4th pregnancies. My 3rd daughter was born early ish at 35 weeks. And because my HG was so bad with my fourth I went into liver failure and my 4th daughter died at 23 weeks while I was in a coma. I spent most of my 3rd and 4th pregnancies in hospital. My 4th daughter would be 4 now and just have started primary school. But Instead i grieve her loss every day and always will. Time helps you carry that grief better but its with you always. I completely understand the choice you made, and why you made it, it's your body and your life and health. Sending love ❤️ 😍

[@LiVnReal]

I am so sorry. I never even knew HG could be this bad.

[@Happy._.LittleBean]

Sending so much love to you

[@laketac]

❤

[@terrancejohnson4657]

My wife did not have HG with her third pregnancy (it was our fourth child; our first children were twins), but she had a myriad of complications that resulted in her water breaking three months early, and our son was delivered a month later. He lived two days before he went back to God. He would be 4 in June. So yes, I understand the grief...it is real and permanent and there isn't a day that goes by when we don't think of our son.

[@adriennem7927]

No one told you it wasn't a good idea to keep getting pregnant?? Great docs!

[@cnow82]

Women are not just vessels to breed. We deserve love and care. Our lives are important. HG is not just a little sick. This is why the only people that should decide are the parent(s) and doctor. You are important! This is so hard. Love to you all❤

[@jenniferalexander773]

Beautiful comment!

[@AnAdorableWombat1]

Actually, we are. That's why we are the ones who can bear children.

[@michellecox379]

Oh sweet momma. Words fail at a time like this. So sad.

[@wilmaallen9872]

Lady you don't owe no damn body explanation for what happens within your heart and body. You're very brave stay well. Continue to heal... ❤❤❤❤

[@brenettaglass2509]

My niece had the constant spitting and carrying around a bag for the extra saliva. Her baby was born with a severe form of spinal bifida. My prayers go out to you and your family. May God bless you and know that God knows your pain and has your baby in perfect peace.

[@angelacleveland75]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

[@kokuhakuqiun4215]

I’m sorry your niece and her baby had to go through that.

[@cupcakejg1]

Baby girl, we love you. I can’t imagine how hard this decision was. You are an amazing mom. This baby was so so so loved. We are concerned for you not your decisions. Concerned in an empathetic and loving way. You got this mamas thank you for sharing something maybe many women have been through but it isn’t talked about enough for people to know. ❤❤❤

[@janicemabrey5659]

You did exactly what you needed to do, for yourself and your children, Mama! That includes children born and unborn. I terminated a pregnancy between the births of my two children for health reasons. I know how a decision like that can tear a Mama in two. The right thing isnt always the rasy thing... but the right thing will always yield more benefits in the long run. So much love and strength coming your way! ❤ Blessed be! ⚕️☮️

[@lexberndt4079]

as a mom who made it through an HG pregnancy with my second child, it genuinely deterred me from ever trying to have another baby because it was so horrible. i am sending all the love i can your way. it’s your body, your choice and all the feelings right now are so valid.

[@legendarymayormarylikestur8874]

​@@queenkamie1743they do not have medication for an unborn child's hydrocephaly (Momma explained baby's extremely rapid head growth, which is typically encephaly) Unborn babies with this super excellorated head growth, have severe brain issues and commonly do not live to be born. So yep, meds for HG can help mom. However, baby was going to, in the best case, be severely, severely disabled. NO JUDGEMENT is appropriate.

[@rangerreddog]

I suffered severe HG with all the same symptoms you've described. It was utter hell. My Dr recommended termination, I didn't do it and obviously love my daughter, however, I/we barely survived and suffer the effects on my body still 13yrs later. It is no joke and you did what was best for you. Always applaud that. #support

[@PinkFluf]

I can't imagine how hard HG must be, especially if you already have children that need your care. I was lucky to not have much morning sickness with either of my pregnancies, but I know I can't handle plain old nausea. So the thought of going through all the physical and mental changes that come with pregnancy, plus HG, plus your day-to-day life... it just sounds like a lot.

[@karendenouden9670]

I feel so sorry for you, but also for your husband and children. You have the right to make those hard decisions, but I wish you never had. I wish you all the best and lots of ❤

[@Ladycrafty6]

So sorry to hear this sad news! I’m praying for your recovery and that of your family! Virtual hug! Sad😢 You are such a great family and you have to do what is best for all! Much love sending your way! ❤

[@heelthyself1258]

My condolences for your loss 💔 . You and your family are in my prayers. Sending you love.

[@drucella5581]

And the Supreme Court has abolished Roe vs. Wade !!! Men need the capacity to become pregnant. It is YOUR body, YOUR choice. You not do have to answer to any of us. Praying for your strength and healing.

[@meilanipang9196]

Precious, Thank you for being so open and vulnerable with us. I’m so sorry that you had this experience. You made the right decision for you and that’s all that matters, but for consolation, this doesn’t change my view of you at all. You’re an incredible human being and an amazing mother. I can only imagine how painful this must be. I hope that you and your family are getting all of the support you need to get through this. Sending love your way ❤️

[@EagerPug-sh8gx]

I don’t believe a lot of things you say

[@SaikoSenpai]

Sending you all love from here. That was a very hard choice to make, but you made it for your family and your children. We can only respect it from here. Best wishes on the healing process from here on out.

[@negril7446]

Prayers for you and family.❤

[@GratitudeGriot]

💔I can only imagine how difficult this was to share publicly. Thank you for your transparency and willingness to educate your audience. I’ve never heard of HG. Sending love to you and your family

[@ellechance2344]

+1!!! Ditto

[@triciafrancisjones4682]

You deserve privacy. You deserve all the support that anyone can get in this circumstance. Just know that there is a whole community off your people who support you and your family. You were faced with two tough scenarios at the same time and you made the best decision that you could. You provided all the information that you needed to provide, and I dare say that you didn’t even need to provide all of this information, but you did need it so graciously. If anyone has any questions beyond this, feel free, for your own sanity, not to engage.

[@Dollicakes]

They put their business out there and exploit their autistic child.

[@sandrabowman8935]

God bless you and the family!! 🙏🏽❤️❤️ love you guys😍

[@jenniferalexander773]

I just came across this channel and I fell in love with them already! This video breaks my heart for her, I know the decision didn't come easy. She could have easily told us she had a miscarriage but she didn't! I'm glad she spoke out for any mom's feeling the same as her.

[@lindatohara6438]

If she wanted privacy why put this on KZbin?

[@tinamarie8061]

Im glad you had the OPTION to do what was best for you & your family. *hugs* praying for your heart to heal.

[@monkeyfish0317]

😢I’m so sorry for your devastating loss. Gentle hugs to you and Chris.

[@daniellepollard989]

Your level of vulnerability is so brave…I’m sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family 🙏🏾

[@PinkFluf]

Having an abortion is a decision that is usually surrounded by many complex issues and circumstances. Some people act like this is a decision that women make lightly and it isn't at all. Take care of yourself and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss, please don't worry about anyone who thinks they have a right to judge or shame you.

[@averyshenandoah1637]

Girl bye u put that out there to be judged

[@PinkFluf]

@@averyshenandoah1637 people will judge, they always do. Doesn't mean you have to pay them any mind.

[@anbonner17]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@thegfamily7511]

Don't say sorry for your loss you only say that when somebody dies she had an abortion that's completely different than losing a child there's many women out here he have had felled pregnancies so she shouldn't consider herself as one of those people

[@kytruth1027]

Sorry for your loss doesn't apply to this situation. She terminated a viable pregnancy and future baby. If she had gotten hit by a drunk driver on her way to the abortion appt that person would be charged with homicide if it had killed the baby. There's an Unborn Victims Act and it legally defines an embryo, fetus, at any stage in utero as a protected individual... the double standard has to stop! My second pregnancy was an absolute nightmare also. I was sick 24hrs a day for the first 6mos. It completely crushed my body and took away time from my oldest who also had learning difficulties but never was I selfish enough to consider killing her for my own comfort. Abortion should be outlawed.

[@GayleStaff]

OMG.... YOUR FAMILY is the bravest, strongest and most loving group of people I've ever seen. I also lost a baby and was never able to bear another child so I don't know about morning sickness but I have stage 3 lung cancer and during my chemo I felt like you described you were experiencing. Had a spit bucket and just wanted to lay there and die. But again I can't even imagine how you have made it through this. Every member of your family shine like the sun with the love you all have within. I wish you all the love and blessings that are possible. Stand tall and shine on Precious..you made the right decision. All my love and energy are sent your way❣️❣️❣️

[@persephonebailey7292]

Thanks for being authentic and sharing your story. No one has the right to judge you for a decision that you made for YOU! Sending HUGS and PRAYERS for you and the family♥♥♥

[@EstelleM.Carter]

Much love to you and your family. I am praying for your family. I am a 81 year old active elder. When I was in my late 30's and being diagnosed as a severely high risk Mother I had to make decisions to terminate several times. Before that I gave birth to a lovely daughter and then a son. Much love and prayers got me through. You are a wonderful loving Mother and wife. You are truly the Matriarch of your family.❤

[@rosecollins5824]

Father God, please bless Chris, Precious and their family with the spiritual, mental, emotional and physical strength to endure the grief and pain that they have and are experiencing due to the decision that they had to make for themselves and their family. Please comfort each one of them in a way that only you can. I empathize and sympathize with them as they move forward in their life’s journey. Shield, shelter and protect them from depression and oppression. We trust and believe in you and we thank you in advance for honoring and answering this prayer. Amen 🙏🏽

[@vagabonddeesadventures8491]

Amen

[@user-xyz411]

Amen!

[@NikkiMason1906]

In the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.

[@iteriatodd3838]

Amen!!!

[@katrinarepine3879]

Terminating a pregnancy is a very difficult decision and for some can leave an emotional scar. You did what you had to do for your health and I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I had to terminate one to have my appendix out. It’s never easy but know that you are never alone.

[@kokuhakuqiun4215]

You wanted that pregnancy but had no choice to get your appendix out? I’m sorry you had to go through that.

[@KB-90]

YOUR body, YOUR life, YOUR family, YOUR choice. Much love and respect to you and your beautiful family 🙌🏿

[@tinatwine137]

FACTS.

[@MsTammi125]

So who stands up for the unborn? They are a life as well. A life that should be cherished and protected. Abortion is ending life and being a woman has nothing to do with that. Nobody is telling a woman what to do with their body, just don't end the life of the unborn. Simple. Murder is murder.

[@helixmoore7636]

@MsTammi125 Did you not listen to this mother? What point are you trying to make? You're only here to stir of trouble and hurt this woman who is already grieving. Her body wasn't ready. She already had young children she needs to take care of. Seriously what were or are you try8ng to accomplish? Youre.not really about protecting babies because if you were you would be advocating for the mothers health

[@ladydyett9410]

Hugs! Prayers for healing!

[@AllyWen]

@@MsTammi125did u not even watch the video? did you not even listen to her? with the pregnancy causing her to be so unhealthy, the baby probably wouldnt have lived, and couldve even taken her life. have some respect

[@ambycat3]

I wish I could take away all of your pain! You are an amazing mother! I’m 20 now with severe ADHD and on the autism spectrum. I am so grateful for my patient, loving, understanding parents everyday! I see the way you are with your daughter and it reminds me of the intense bond I’m so lucky to share with my own mommy because of the unconditional love she has never hesitated to show me. If I ever had to see her close to death due to a pregnancy, it would have caused so many terrifyingly complex emotions that I could never have possibly dealt with at your daughters age! I’m sorry you were in pain for so long, and I’m so grateful you made the decision to stick around to continue to be a wonderful mother! ❤ thank you for sharing. sending love, light, blessings, gratitude, cosmic kisses, and infinite appreciation! Nothing you are doing is easy! I can’t imagine how exhausted you are… I wish I could give you a ginormous heart hug ❤

[@janicesaunders4769]

You just blew my mind with the most Motherly sacrifice I can think of. I can't imagine having to make this decision but I admire your strength and love for your family. I hope that you, your husband and your kiddos heal from this lose and become even stronger. You have my condolences and my respect in opening up about this struggle when you have chosen to share so much with us already. Thank you for your vulnerability, openness and grace. You are one strong Mamma!!

[@WantedCornet290]

@amberfarwell6588and they call it a sacrifice.

[@kellyj.azania4371]

Your health and wellbeing is priority...period. Know that you and your family are loved.

[@laroyav.jordan169]

“….and God said My grace is sufficient “ Keeping you covered🙏🏽❤️

[@nuwon8154]

That's bs. God doesn't give you grace to kill your kid.

[@lindatohara6438]

@@nuwon8154Amen

[@LadyEliza7]

As a nurse I have witnessed many moms hospitalized with HG and it was extremely tough on them and the pregnancy. As for the termination it is a tough decision. It appears that your pregnancy was abnormal and best for you and the baby. I do understand your grief and thank you for your transparency. It will take some time. My prayers are with you and your family. Time does heal…I did not get triggered. Take your time and process things on your terms. ❤🌹❤

[@lozl3]

@@Chizzbosswe all know that

[@neri3376]

I’m so sry for your loss, you are so brave to come on here. I lost my Noah, (his heart stopped) my first and only son at 5 months this past June and due to the umbilical cord being to high around his neck and it still hurts so bad. I went through the whole process, labor and then the funeral. I still cry at night and I have no family support. Please stick close to your loved ones during this time. I have my husband but my family looked at it as it wasn’t a big deal because he wasn’t full term so they didn’t come the the burial or anything. I’m glad you have a strong support system because it’s def needed during this time.

[@Boricua..4]

My sincerest condolences to you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 May God give you strength and guidance and comfort you during this time

[@neri3376]

@@Boricua..4 thank you so Much❤️

[@joanna0988]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I experienced 3 pregnancy losses between my 1st and 2nd daughters so I understand your situation completely. My family and inlaws weren't very supportive at all but a friend of mine told me that although those babies didn't get to be born and grow up, they still experienced so much love while in my body for that short amount of time. That gives me comfort when I feel the loss of not being able to mother them 🙏

[@Boricua..4]

@@neri3376 no need to thank me, My heart truly hurts for you. God bless and thank you 🙏🏻

[@neshieg]

We cannot blame you. I went through a similar situation and it was awful. I pray for yalls healing and when the time is right, God will send you guys another rainbow baby

[@kittykat5197]

I’m so glad you aren’t apologizing for doing what you felt in your heart was best for you and your baby. I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️🙏🏼

[@EM-dw2ix]

I'm sorry you had to go through what you did. My prayers will be with you & your family.

[@moniquewilsonwilson2355]

I know the feeling. Praying for you all.

[@denisehowell6005]

Thank you for sharing this. More people go through this than you know. Sending you light and love as you move through this season. And so many hugs, all of you.

[@callmekeke92]

Hey mamas, giving a virtual hug! I know this was hard for yourself and Chris and I'm sorry you had to go through any of this. I'll be praying for you guys. ❤

[@Nacolamoon]

I went through that with my last(3rd) pregnancy.... felt so sick, they refused to give me the IV bags & gave me pills that could cause defects, so I didnt take them but only once or twice... terminating a pregnancy crossed my mine once, but I could never.... I said Ill leave it to God... she was growing perfectly, but I was just SUPER sick... were both fine & healthy... but I still feel the same after, minus the HG... they say Im beyond fine, but being that in 14days marks 2years since her birth sucks to me because Im still dealing with this & did not with the last two... this healing process is like torture this round, to the point im like NO MORE as much as my Husband & I wanted a big family & he also agrees... we have three beautiful baby girls & are happy & blessed with what God blessed us with!!!

[@kellyheffner5965]

I am so sorry you had to go through that. Many prayers for you and your family.

[@michellequinn2160]

First of all, I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby and the grief you all are/will go through. You had no obligation to tell us anything, and your chose transparency. You’re a young and beautiful family. HG is no joke. I’ve been there and understand everything you said. Please protect your family and your peace as you move forward. Nothing has changed for me. I love your channel, because it’s truth! You’re an amazing mother. ❤❤❤

[@Inamichan]

I’m sorry you had to go through this. But im also glad you were able to get the healthcare that you need! This is why women should be able to take autonomy over their bodies and health. It’s a hard decision but I was what’s best for you and your family.

[@loiswms8303]

Thank God your recovering mind body and soul you and Chris did what was best for your family don't worry about what anyone thinks

[@embassybeets]

You don't owe anybody an explanation for what happened or what you had to do or anything really. No judgment here either but I am very sorry for what happened still. I can't imagine how you feel. Sending you and your family so much love and healing💜

[@cicelysells_atl]

There is no judgment from me, you don't owe us an explanation, I have miscarried, and had an eptopic pregnancy, so I understand grieving a child you never knew. I send you loving virtual hugs. You are a very strong woman, Mother, and wife. AND you made the right decision for you and your family. ❤

[@lisaclark7103]

I'm so very sorry for your pain. You are an amazing person and mother. ❤

[@AllyWen]

this is why im pro choice. let people say or think what they want, but they are not in your shoes. you know your body, you knew something was wrong, you needed to make the choice that would keep you alive. the hardest thing a mother may have to consider. you are so so strong, and im praying for your recovery. god bless your family ❤

[@janetmoreno5536]

Exactly we should have every right to live whatever we want

[@janetmoreno5536]

@@Chizzboss I can’t believe you said the most sexist thing you say to her pls respect her and us women for making the choice that we have and in her case she has every right to do what she wants with her baby

[@charleswhit150]

@@Chizzbosswish your mom closed her legs but she lost a bet and you was born

[@WantedCornet290]

@@janetmoreno5536the person is right. However, the lady in the video obviously didn’t know she was going to be sick. She most certainly didn’t know that the baby was going to be harmed too. I don’t agree with abortion, however this whole situation was difficult.

[@janetmoreno5536]

@@WantedCornet290 well let me tell you something then if you don’t agree with abortion then what happens if you end up pregnant for example and your partner decided to s/a you how will that make you feel

[@rhondajohnson39]

I cant imagine your pain. No one has a right to judge you and you have no need to apologize. Feel your grief as often as you must and trust that what you and your husband decided was the best for you and the family. My sincerest condolences to you and your husband and your family.🙏🏼

[@chrissy7033]

sweetheart.its no one elses business what you and your husband decide..i am so sorry you both had to go thru what you have.im sending so much love and healing for you both..blessings.

[@s.c.2424]

Hg mama. 3 out of 4 kids. I couldn't even sit. Stand. Bathe anything. And being a miltary wife with no help, on a picc line, boy you talk about depression. So I understand mama. Listening to you, brought back all these memories. Horrible memories. I am sorry. Termanation is a rough word. It makes you feel awful. It makes you feel shame and pain and just everything. You do not owe anyone a reason. You do not owe anyone more info. Women that understand just want you to heal. Mentally and physically. It's okay mama.

[@robinsmith3987]

Be blessed Precious....Chris and you made the decision that you felt was best for your health

[@yalondalawler1359]

I'm so very sorry for your family's loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God knows ❤️🙏🏾

[@smiley6168]

I suffer from anxiety depression. I'm getting alot better by getting help. Ok I'm be frank with you. Ok you need help with baby mikko. It's very very good your doing most of the work but there's nothing wrong with letting a teacher work with her as well. If you don't save yourself who will? There is nothing wrong with getting help otherwise it can go down hill. Please keep being loveable and pray over it

[@abigaildoria1246]

I understand, and respect your decision. I’m so sorry for you and your family to have to overcome dealing with something like that in life, and the emotions that followed with something you wanted that wasn’t headed in a healthy direction. I wish wellness and healing on you and your family. We all love you Precious

[@marybowen1630]

Precious, sending you love and hugs and blessings. You are so courageous my dear, sharing your struggles. You don’t owe anyone anything. Know that you are loved, take care of you! I’m praying for you and your family. Love and blessings. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Jazmine0923]

I’m sorry you had to endure that pain and make such hard decisions. I’m also glad that you had that option available. Sending you love and healing

[@kathynorris5064]

You and your family does not owe the internet any reason for anything. What happens in you and yours life is your business. I simply appreciate what you do share with us. Thank you for that.

[@turtusswimus3292]

I'm so very sorry for what you and your family have been through. I'm going to say, for what it's worth, you will ALWAYS have my support. You are a beautiful person with a beautiful family, and the sharing you have done thus far has helped me with my own adult autistic daughter. I hope your heart and body heal with time ❤

[@KaitlynG18]

People don't realize that complications involving pregnancy is so common. Termination is something that a lot of people have to choose, even if that baby is planned and wanted. Mothers health is the number one priority. HG is incredibly serious and can have serious repercussions to you and your baby forever. Insufficient nutrition to mom and baby for an entire pregnancy is going to have lifelong consequences for both. The physical and emotional toll is so great. I know this decision was not easy for your family, but putting your family first is the most important thing in the world. Proud of you for sharing this difficult decision with the world. Maybe it can open a discussion on termination and how it's not a black and white situation.

[@mikaelabailey423]

Do what is best for you and your family. Thank you for your bravery. Sharing something so personal, I can only imagine, is not easy. Your family has all my love in support ❤

[@wlachappelle]

God bless your family and just pray for healing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Miriam-yx3wr]

Eres muy valiente por contar tu historia de forma honesta. Espero que te recuperes fisicamente y emocionalmente lo antes posible.

[@kash_out_kennels_2500]

I am currently suffering with HG and it’s awful being pregnant and this sick is different it’s not a normal morning sickness the bad taste in my mouth that never goes away I feel you so much it’s so hard especially with a nonverbal 4 year old I have my husband to help but it’s a lot of work !!! I am very sorry and hope it gets better ❤

[@TheeCiaraJenae]

Sending you so much love. I know that decision wasn’t easy but you had to do what was best for you. HG is no joke. I had really bad morning sickness my first trimester. I contemplated many of times just ending it when I found myself sick in the emergency room. Thankfully the medication prescribed to me was able to help. I am currently 18wks and I still get nauseous but it’s bearable. I couldn’t imagine dealing with HG and nothing helped. Just know you are not alone and it’s okay to grieve ❤ Thank you for sharing.

[@skprazen]

You are so Brave! Bless You and your Family!

[@nifferscritters]

Sending much love your way 🧡🧡🧡 I hope you receive more compassion and love than you do judgment, this is hard enough for you to go through without having to worry about negativity from others. I’m so sorry for your loss. I had to terminate an ectopic pregnancy many years ago, it was early on in the pregnancy and I wasn’t in a good place in life so ultimately it was what I believe was meant to be, but it was incredibly painful emotionally. It’s such a strange and conflicting experience and the grief is not something a lot of people understand unless they’ve been through it. I hope you have a good support system to help you through your grief. Take your time, let yourself feel, and know that you’re not alone. HUGS💖

[@johanagonzalez2912]

I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that, mama. Thank you sharing your story.

[@janiah423]

I know that this had to be so hard for you to make this video. I don't care what anyone else thinks. I stand with you both. That had to be devastating for you both to have to have made that decision. My heart hurts for you both! Sending you all love and prayers. ❤❤❤❤😢

[@ashleysanchez7543]

Thank you for including both parents. In the moment I made my comment, I only thought about how mama felt but not dad. I now realize this had to of been hard on him also.

[@averyshenandoah1637]

@@ashleysanchez7543 y’all are sick

[@mariamorgan9230]

Thank you for choosing love. I say this because we didn't need an explanation, this was a decision that you made and no one has the right to judge. I just thank you for making your decision from a place of love because the love you receive from here on out is one of the pillars of strength to help you heal and move forward. Please take as much time as you need to grieve and heal and be good to yourself and again... Regardless of what anyone says you made the decision for you and your family and you have nothing to prove other than continuing to live your truth and stay surrounded by love.

[@afaithleary]

Sending so much love, light and healing to you all! ❤✨

[@anthonymckenziesr.4138]

I am so in love with Mikko. That little girl warms my heart. You don’t even know. Thanks for sharing her with us.

[@aprill7592]

Hi Precious! Sending you so many hugs right now! My heart hurts for you and family. I just really want to hug y'all right now. I completely support you and the hard decision you all had to make as a family for the safety of you and your health. No judgement whatsoever here! I love you guys so much. Take all the time you need to step away. I am here for the long haul. 💖🙏

[@batmanpancake96]

So so so sorry dear ❤❤ my love goes out to you and your family

[@topazprincess2002]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 praying for you all and know that you are not alone. This touched my soul, because I went through something similar earlier this year and it was quite difficult. You made the best the best decision for you and your family and that's all that matters!!! ❤❤❤

[@mlo7205]

You should not feel guilty for what you decided. You saved yourself and you saved your baby from probably a horrible and painful life. You were brave to make this decision and I wish I could hug you to make you feel better. Please please do not even read the negative comments about what you did. They were not going through the hell that you were going through. I think you were very very brave to do this. I send you lots of love and hugs.

[@ladydi-lynn]

Praying for you and your family. Your body, your choice and I am sure it was a very decision for you and your family. Blessings.

[@serenelibra61]

Thank you for your bravery and vulnerability. I'm so sorry you and your husband have experienced this loss. I'm praying for healing for your hearts and family. You did what you had to do. What was best for you and your baby. It's not always going to be what others would do, but it's not about anyone else. Your strength is admirable ❤. Take some time. Heal. Celebrate the love of your baby. He/ she was with you for the time they were supposed to be ❤

[@ereka333]

I had HG with my one and only child, who is also autistic. She is my pride and joy, but pregnancy was hard. I remember when I had my first ultrasound I was so weak I had to go to the hospital for fluids. I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a missed miscarriage last year and had to have a D&C. I understand completely when you say you’re grieving someone you don’t know but love so much. I really want to give you a hug. I’m sending so much love to you and your family. I’m praying for comfort and healing in your mind, body and spirit.🩵🤍🩵💜

[@JJ-fh2pl]

I'm so sorry. You make decisions based on what's best for you and your family. That's all that matters. Prayers for you all.

[@hannahchapman8696]

Grief is all the love you had for that person, and no one to give it to. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts ❤

[@Sumrayss]

You made the best decision for you and for your children, notnjust the unborn child but the ones who are already here. Stay strong and i pray you are blessed with another healthy child if you so wish.

[@virtuousgardeningmore3551]

I understand where you coming from with the sickness you felt. I was in ER 3 times in my first trimester and thought I or the baby wasn’t going to make it. It puts you in a difficult headspace which is hard to explain. I am currently 34 weeks, all thanks to TMH! Thanks for being transparent with us and my prayers to you and your family. ❤

[@littlefixeswithheidi1267]

And you are in Texas, thank God you found a way to make this choice at all. I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope that the next time you try for another little one, that he/she will be easier on your system. Your babies (here) thank you for such a brave choice, and your little unborn kiddo willbe yours again one day. No loss, just a see you later! If you have any isues down there, you can come atay with us in Boston. Two full families with ASD in one amall apartment, should be a unique blast, 😂. Take care of you!

[@user-fc2xk3uv8y]

you're grieving the potential for the future life you desired. you did what was best for yourself and your family. sending love ❤️❤️

[@BrownDoll28]

I had HG with my twins and i couldnt help but to nod yes to every symptom you mentioned! I got through it but it was probably the hardest thing ive ever gone through. I also felt completely alone at that time because how do you explain to people that what is supposed to be the best thing in your life turned out to be the most miserable! Prayers to you and your family❤

[@coyote_uglee420]

Sending all of my love, hugs, and support for you all ❤

[@victoriasvloggs57]

Sending you and your beautiful family so much love and healing. You don't need to justify your decision. Your amazingly brave to share. ❤❤

[@poshkiki]

I am so sorry for what you were going through and let people say whatever they want. They were not in your shoes, and you did what you needed to do for yourself. All the best for the future.

[@ms.will-i-ams1711]

Sorry for your loss & praying for your family's continued strength.

[@jessicaconley2212]

My heart breaks that you feel like you have to tell the world this private decision. I hope that you find healing end happiness again. Whatever YOU decide that looks like.

[@momdukesandson9855]

I’m so sorry for your lost. Only you knew how you felt. You didn’t and don’t owe anyone anything. God Bless and stay strong.

[@ashleysanchez7543]

As a fellow HG and disabled mama, I know how horrible you felt. Thankfully, I had HG in my 7th/1st rainbow pregnancy. I literally had a 1.5 hour window almost every evening where my body gave me a break with nausea and vomiting. I ate all the spicy, carb foods my body allowed just so I wouldn't lose weight. I ended up in the hospital one time at 15.5 weeks to get a few bags of IV fluids. My HG lasted until 22 weeks which then started back up again around 32 weeks until I gave birth at 36+2.... I thank God so much I had one friend who had HG 15 years prior who I was able to talk with daily to get me through. If this didn't happen when I already had kids, I more than likely would've thought to possibly terminate. It actually crossed my mind many times and understood those who had went through what I did and did terminate. We all love your family very much. Thank you for being vulnerable and open even though we truly don't deserve a word of explanation. Although, I thank you for opening up because your story could help another mama struggling with the same. ❤ We miss your family and pray your body and heart becomes healed. ♥️

[@ashleysanchez7543]

Edit: If this happened, when I already had kids***

[@bethanwylie757]

You are so strong, I'm so sorry for what you have had to go through. Please seek any additional support as and when needed. I hope if nothing else you can know how important this story is to share and how many people you impact. Sending you love and best wishes xx

[@Thr33bies]

You will never forget your baby and grieving your loss is entirely normal. I have been in a similar position, and its not something I ever thought I would go through. You did what was best for your health and your family and that's all you can do. X

[@TheCw1941]

No judgment here. God bless you and your family.

[@injoyable]

Hugs and Love to you and your family❤

[@tillyyyyyyyyyyyyyy]

My sincerest condolences to you and your family! No judgment to you because you did what was best for you and that’s all that matters. I know it’s hard but always bear in mind you did what was best for your health. I pray for your healing physically, mentally and emotionally. Loss of a child no matter how it happens hurts. Take as much time as you need to heal 💜💜 I went through HG too and it is no joke! It takes a serious toll on your body and even your mental. Take it easy on yourself during this time.

[@JanelleBearden246]

No judgment here momma, just love and respect for you and your beautiful family. I’m so sorry for your loss 😢

[@remandamiller4808]

That is your body no apology necessary 🙏