I keep telling folks, these new babies not gon do it. They rather be broke than unhappy. Good for you hun.
@dj_here3 жыл бұрын
U right auntie
@yanikeonpurpose3 жыл бұрын
Baaybaay!! These babies about to fuck up the whole globe! I’m a millennial, self employed, spiritually awakened, 1/2 mill in assets, & I’ve only just started let alone the gen x ers. They on some next level isht 🚀
@BoudoirBoutiqueNC3 жыл бұрын
@@yanikeonpurpose Yes honey! I can't do the spiritual lock down. I'm Gen X.
@denajahthomas74073 жыл бұрын
@@yanikeonpurpose you betta tell her 🙌🏾
@denajahthomas74073 жыл бұрын
It’s called be smart why work a 9-5 instead of being self employed did you know you can get rich from real estate without using your own money ?
@ayandaxaba35393 жыл бұрын
I have quit two jobs already! No one is about to fuck up my mental health.
@shineonyoucrazyalmond Жыл бұрын
I quit one a year ago with encouragement from this video and am about to put in my 2 weeks at another one! The role is so boring but somehow so stressful at the same time and it's trashing my mental wellbeing 🙃 + I get paid minimum wage and am expected to carry the work of 4 people after just staring the position a few months ago and not being trained. Really good stuff
@idi.h54603 жыл бұрын
Girl I was 23 making 100K a year and now I’m 25 and a freelancer for a year making 25K but I live a better life now lol I lost 100 pounds, got my menstrual cycle back after it being gone for a year due to stress I fixed my teeth, grew out my hair, got therapy, stopped eating out and eating unhealthy and I’m really excited for my next chapter in sha Allah, I’ll keep you in my prayers sis
@graciegyimah24833 жыл бұрын
What job were you making 100k ? I’m looking for a job like that
@theanswersisinsideu3 жыл бұрын
Wow 👏👏👏👏 Blessings
@idi.h54603 жыл бұрын
@@graciegyimah2483 software sales 70K salary plus commission
@LynetteAdkins3 жыл бұрын
This is amazing, mental wellbeing comes before money any day🙏🏽❤️
@graciegyimah24833 жыл бұрын
@@idi.h5460 did you need a degree for it I want to get into it
@ADCIC3 жыл бұрын
You're going to be fine. I quit my job 4 years ago with a child. Listen, God is REAL and He was there always have been way before Amazon so your job is not even your source of living. At least you checked your finances, you had time to have fears. I was numb yet never ever been more certain that I can no longer work for the bank. My story is similar to yours, toxic work environment, just learning about my job and how the bank operates challenged me morally and ethically and religiously so I chose my faith. I chose God and my life hasn't been so blessed. From that decision I learned and saw God being God in every aspect in my life. He even opened a door I never imagined, I traveled abroad for the first time, all expenses paid, nice hotels, in and out board rooms mingling with important people in spaces I never ever imagined I would, never even dreamed actually but God is God and you will be where He wants you to be. God is so big He can do anything. If I never quit my job for the reasons I did, I would have never known there are doors God can open we know nothing about. You will be fine. Enjoy your new journey!
@Lilliana993 жыл бұрын
That’s seriously amazing I’m so happy for you. This comment literally made me take a deep breath and helped me to trust gods plan.
@Paradiselife-133 жыл бұрын
Well said AD well said!!! God is great!!!
@ADCIC3 жыл бұрын
@@Paradiselife-13 God is so BIG and our fears limit Him because if can't see how big He is then our world remains small and limited to only what we can imagine but if we TRUST GOD and OBEY Him, HE will do the things that only GREAT JEHOVAH can do. After my experience, I am convinced God does not like cowards but the brave and courageous, oh He loves. You see, when you are brave and courageous, you are moved by faith, the substance of things unseen, and that places God in His position of Creatorship where suddenly doors flung open, doors you knew nothing about. God has a million ways to provide for us, a job is only one of the million ways so TRUST GOD. PRAY UNCEASINGLY AND COMMIT ALL YOUR PLANS TO HIM. Oh you also need to be patient because it won't be easy but try to look for God in every situation, everything because one thing I know, the Devil loathes people who take a stand and who won't allow him to dictate and abuse them by inflicting fears in our minds of ''what will you eat?'', God already told us, ''DO NOT WORRY ABOUT WHAT YOU SHALL EAT AND WEAR, GOD KNOWS YOU HAVE NEED OF THESE THINGS. LOOK AT THE BIRDS, ALL THEY DO IS WAKE UP AND PRAISE GOD. FOOD IS READY AND ALL THEIR NEEDS FOR THE DAY ARE MET.'' I paraphrased this verse but if only we can learn to TRUST GOD! It shall be well.
@ADCIC3 жыл бұрын
@@Lilliana99 God is so BIG and our fears limit Him because if can't see how big He is then our world remains small and limited to only what we can imagine but if we TRUST GOD and OBEY Him, HE will do the things that only GREAT JEHOVAH can do. After my experience, I am convinced God does not like cowards but the brave and courageous, oh He loves. You see, when you are brave and courageous, you are moved by faith, the substance of things unseen, and that places God in His position of Creatorship where suddenly doors flung open, doors you knew nothing about. God has a million ways to provide for us, a job is only one of the million ways so TRUST GOD. PRAY UNCEASINGLY AND COMMIT ALL YOUR PLANS TO HIM. Oh you also need to be patient because it won't be easy but try to look for God in every situation, everything because one thing I know, the Devil loathes people who take a stand and who won't allow him to dictate and abuse them by inflicting fears in our minds of ''what will you eat?'', God already told us, ''DO NOT WORRY ABOUT WHAT YOU SHALL EAT AND WEAR, GOD KNOWS YOU HAVE NEED OF THESE THINGS. LOOK AT THE BIRDS, ALL THEY DO IS WAKE UP AND PRAISE GOD. FOOD IS READY AND ALL THEIR NEEDS FOR THE DAY ARE MET.'' I paraphrased this verse but if only we can learn to TRUST GOD! It shall be well.
@Paradiselife-133 жыл бұрын
@@ADCIC AMEN!!!!!! Trust. Trust!!!!!!!
@erikaa72533 жыл бұрын
My boss held a company wide meeting talking about how many young employees were quitting and how our generation is different from the older ones. So proud of u for quitting! It’s time for employers to step it up and accommodate US.
@madamextraordinary5113 жыл бұрын
As a Gen X'er, I am so proud of the younger generations taking control of their futures and not being beholden to the company line. Lynette made sure she could financially do it and that's fantastic. What would be a HUGE help, and this is my opinion only, would be if healthcare wasn't tied to our jobs. The possibilities for citizens without that heavy burden needs to be explored instead of being dismissed as "socialism". Good luck to all of you taking the plunge like Lynette has!!
@taoist323 жыл бұрын
@@madamextraordinary511 Yep, I agree 100%. As a fellow Gen Xer, I can say that company loyalty has gone out the window and hopefully for good. The youngsters are coming into their own and the work place will be far different than the last 50 years.
@bumbleeistheequeen40523 жыл бұрын
that’s the card business owners like to pull but they never want to discuss their part in the situation like I don’t know treating their workers like valued employees, showing compassion for their employees and the circumstances they might endure
@vivianochieng74113 жыл бұрын
@@madamextraordinary511 why do people always make comments that are country specific. Outside the U.S, we watch KZbin too 😂🤪
@kimberlykimbrough12713 жыл бұрын
all generations quit....i'm 53 and i quit jobs and started my business
@1endlesssoul3 жыл бұрын
If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive. If you aren’t happy, it’s not worth it. ✌🏽 -love from a growing youtuber💚
@tackydidie3 жыл бұрын
I love the way you said that...literally poetic
@allygarska3 жыл бұрын
It's that simple. Beautifully put, brother!
@micaharchive3 жыл бұрын
I love that! So true!
@marcoAKAjoe3 жыл бұрын
Lol jackass...true though
@alexaxroseo3 жыл бұрын
I NEEDED THIS
@thejasonmichael3 жыл бұрын
This “chase the bag” culture is so damaging. I’ve learned that so many more rich and fulfilling opportunities unfold when you chase your passion. This is dope Lynette. Praying for yours and everyone else’s journey as they discover their true callings, whatever that may look like. 👏🏿 👏🏿👏🏿🎉 Congrats!
@timcareer67043 жыл бұрын
YOu can't see that she is chasing the bag too, lol.
@LynetteAdkins3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!❤️
@faithaffirmationswithmiah66283 жыл бұрын
Yuppp completely agree. I went through a phase where I went crazy and was obssessed with trying to make money online for like 2 or 3 months. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about making money online, so happy I am over it now and just living life, ofcourse I wanna make extra income but I am crazy about it anymore, I dont choose to be.
@jenniferdelgado28343 жыл бұрын
Yes my bf is older than me and makes high six figures and he tells me do what you love and you’ll be exceptional which will help you acquire wealth
@becomingkaylanice13513 жыл бұрын
"no one knows your situation except for you..." THIS.
@rl72203 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am! I’ve had many low energy people try to keep me down with their limiting beliefs, it’s not ever easy to move past that, but it is possible. And the other side is so nice!
@friendlyfiresyeah3 жыл бұрын
Yes only you know what’s best for you!
@kimayaknight71803 жыл бұрын
I'm not afraid of loosing my job or quitting my job, I'm not gonna freak out because while doing my 9_5 job I'm also investing putting my money back to work, I'm not just after the money but the freedom to live on my terms
@yvonneerik25103 жыл бұрын
Yeah and 9-5 cant give you the freedom you need. An extra income stream passive income is a great option, keep it going
@gracedaniels61723 жыл бұрын
I love the spirit keep it going
@kimayaknight71803 жыл бұрын
Yes I make 2k weekly as extra in come from my In vesting trying so much to build more side hustles and extra in come
@yvonneerik25103 жыл бұрын
@@kimayaknight7180 you're going great, keep the energy going
@theresanuel45403 жыл бұрын
Hey speaking of investing, I have heard many people talk about it. But I really dont know how to start and make a good investment. Can you Share more info please
@dameonaquest76073 жыл бұрын
I was in the hospital for 16 days last month and as a result I missed my last 8 shifts. Today was my first day back at work and they had a write-up waiting for me. This job don’t give a fuck about me.
@fracturecomics41173 жыл бұрын
Oh hell no. Fuck that noise.
@alexandra4real3603 жыл бұрын
Nope you need to find a new job ASAP!!
@ideefineme1003 жыл бұрын
If you die, they will step over you and keep operating as usual. Why do we care about something that doesn't give a fuck about us?
@roxcyn3 жыл бұрын
Did they really write you up?
@jlita97793 жыл бұрын
😆. Yeah, it's time
@MrCAppiah3 жыл бұрын
I submitted my resignation this past Monday. Wasn't happy, bored AF, my time was being wasted, and I was working under someone who clearly got their job thanks to good 'ol nepotism. Looking forward to July 12th!
@gorgeousfrazier59033 жыл бұрын
That's amazing
@srod313 жыл бұрын
My last day is also July 12th! We’re all definitely on the same wavelength
@saara62843 жыл бұрын
Same!
@LynetteAdkins3 жыл бұрын
CONGRATS!! Good for you❤️🙏🏽
@dafnenoel98253 жыл бұрын
Omg my Birthday 🎂 July 12th Blessings to you All.😇
@LexieWolfgong3 жыл бұрын
“No one else knows your situation but yourself” that hit HARD
@MyiiLife3 жыл бұрын
i think the pressure people/society put on us on “not having a job” is why we get so nervous when we ready to quit “our job’s”.
@eeeyooohoh3 жыл бұрын
omg YES!!! no matter how miserable you are people cannot believe you'd actually choose your mental health over money.
@nicolea82053 жыл бұрын
@@eeeyooohoh there’s more to life than just working and people are finally starting to realize this
@yourekacoaching59613 жыл бұрын
The fear of what society might think of you, your friends/family but also the stigma you might feel to carry around has an effect on the decision in staying in your job or not. There are too many people miserable in their job, that it became a new norm. So quitting your job because it affects your mental health feels selfish... What is your work situation at the moment and how do you feel about it?
@tommycscat3 жыл бұрын
As long as you can pay your own way... Just don't feel entitled to other people's money they paid in taxes if you run out of money and are unwilling to work
@soulsister48983 жыл бұрын
So true!
@rainbowlibra3 жыл бұрын
I quit too back in April. I literally had this feeling that I wasn’t allowed to quit, right before I did it. Had to keep reminding myself that this employment is AT WILL.
@rebeccalavoy66553 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@jenniferandre17753 жыл бұрын
Companies are starting to understand that as well
@LifeWithMimi443 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!! 💯
@shelbyklassen82773 жыл бұрын
Money isn't worth your mental health and values. I recently quit a job that paid well but was destroying my mental health for another job which pays a bit less but I am so much happier.
@livingwellbyjustin3 жыл бұрын
I also made the hard decision to leave my 9-5 $80,000/year job to improve my quality of life, so I completely understand the emotional roller coaster that goes along with the process. It's tough. I actually made a video on it too. I think your videos helped me accept that life isn’t all about the work grind, which is ironic because I was employed as a Career Coach for the last 10 years. Career and life is much more then a compilation of actions and accomplishments at work. And burnout is particularly a challenge if your in an organization or department that doesn't align with your values anymore (which seemed to be your and many other people's case). Good on you for having the courage to create meaningful change in your life!
@shxrry3 жыл бұрын
was a silent viewer but wow my jaw literally dropped I'M SO PROUD OF YOU
@eimanraphael85023 жыл бұрын
I’m 25 and I quit my job last month. It’s the highest I’ve ever been paid but I felt so unfulfilled. I prayed and asked God to help me reach my target of $60,000 by October in my business, but I changed that to $100,000 I want to break the barrier of 9-5 and relaying on jobs. I still applied for new jobs but my goal is to dive deep in my business. Long story short so far so good and I only had that one pay check. You will be okay and will blossom the more 🌸
@avinashbowers86183 жыл бұрын
Bless you dear ❤️ such words inspired me to push for more! I’ve been doing it. Working and maintaining my business. Been a hell of a stress but I’m grateful. I found a good IA lead me through investing that has been a good decision. I’m growing! So far so good making good returns and looking to build a good retirement portfolio from now
@eimanraphael85023 жыл бұрын
@@avinashbowers8618 That’s amazing 😃🙏🏾
@iamBlackGambit3 жыл бұрын
Whats your business?
@AM-ge8up3 жыл бұрын
I literally walked out today at my job . I gave her a week notice . I had my own reasoning and then she had the audacity to say “You screwed us over” making me sound ungrateful . Jokes on her cause I found a new job literally perfect timing! This job wasn’t my career path . I’m so happy I left . I didn’t wanna leave like this but I have no regrets ❤️
@zptro63163 жыл бұрын
Amazon really do be hiring smart people. The thing is they're often smart enough to move along, especially if they can resist the golden hand cuffs
@StephanieRaza3 жыл бұрын
Wow I officially quit my job, today was my LAST DAY. 🎉 I'm Workin on my dream to become a singer songwriter. It's scary and it won't be easy but If i don't make the first step now I'll never know what it's like to even try to chase my dreams .
@Yourfinerfaith3 жыл бұрын
All you need is faith and it’s yours!
@msbarb13 жыл бұрын
Sending positive energy to you and your dream
@LisaBre3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome congrats hun!
@becomingkaylanice13513 жыл бұрын
"The way God works..." GIRLLLLL I can't wait for my time!
@donnettadavis68093 жыл бұрын
Amen! Same here, sis.
@marcoAKAjoe3 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@Somewherreonearth3 жыл бұрын
Same here ugh!! 😭😭😭
@jodieglowz3 жыл бұрын
Subscribed to your channel! Got to support a fellow micro influencer 🤗
@me1223 жыл бұрын
I also subscribed good luck girl 😊
@NoThing-nk3wx3 жыл бұрын
I just quit my 9 to 5. All it did was drain me, I got treated like crap and it caused me to be sick. It goes against what I stand for and soul purpose. It was time. Life is too short to do something you don't want to do or something thats not meant for you. 💯
@Sldindpunjab3 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? I hope you are okey and healing ❤
@NoThing-nk3wx3 жыл бұрын
@@Sldindpunjab thanks for asking. I'm doing fine and healing
@MindfulMoments14443 жыл бұрын
I applaud you. The younger generation are going to break the curse of selling your soul and peace of mind for the sake of money. For all the people cautioning her due to finances, the decision is already done. I'm sure she figured it out before posting this video so keep your opinions and reservations to yourself. We are not always meant to be doing, sometimes we need to just be. Be happy, be peaceful be present, not slaving away for someone for the rest of our lives. By the time we retire, we are to ill and tired to really enjoy life. So enjoy life now!!
@jenniferjemison636 Жыл бұрын
You are so on point!
@jonellsequiraxo3 жыл бұрын
Watching this literally right after quitting my job. Shoutout to us for prioritizing ourselves! 🥳
@Afrogirlvibes3 жыл бұрын
Ikr!! I read some articles saying thousands of people are quitting their jobs!!!! mental health for the win!!
@treasuredgold88883 жыл бұрын
I quit my job a day ago too! 🎉
@Grace-Grace-3 жыл бұрын
Also resigned this month, two days ago, and like her I legit argued w myself so many times but I did it! So glad. It was the right choice I needed a break!
@timvantori3 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how many people actually feel this way with our modern society…good on you for taking the next step!👏👏👏
@kitanadiaries3 жыл бұрын
I was in this exact same position. Iquit my job last year. Everyone told me not to do it. I still don’t have a job but I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life. I’ve found myself and I stood up for myself in that process as well. I’m so happy for you. I love how we’re prioritizing ourselves more now. I love this shift of consciousness we’re going through. Infinite love and gratitude. I wish you nothing but the best.
@votesudanusa3 жыл бұрын
Bum.
@prettyfly78733 жыл бұрын
@@votesudanusa sounds like you're projecting
@votesudanusa3 жыл бұрын
@@prettyfly7873 perhaps you need to properly define the term prior to it's use
@jmaldo922 жыл бұрын
@@votesudanusa are you ok?
@bashirauwal58252 жыл бұрын
After nearly 9 years as a registered nurse, I retired two years ago. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work every day. No amount of money can buy real happiness Lol. But, friends, I'm not asking you to quit your work or forsake your business, but rather be wise!
@bashirauwal58252 жыл бұрын
@Olivia Jayden While I was still in the service, I prepared for early retirement, earning roughly $2,000 per week from my investment portfolio and working hard to establish new side hustles and extra income
@bashirauwal58252 жыл бұрын
@Brown Jones There are numerous investment options available, including real estate, exchange-traded funds (ETFs), stocks, and cryptocurrency, but my best suggestion is to hire a professional to guide you through the process
@bashirauwal58252 жыл бұрын
@Brown Jones I recommend the services of Jennifer James, she's a licensed financial expert and she has been very helpful in my financial journey
@bashirauwal58252 жыл бұрын
@Ava Alice you can reach her on telegram
@bashirauwal58252 жыл бұрын
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@TheMirandalorian3 жыл бұрын
Our generation is waking up an I'm SO HAPPY!
@mandysays81603 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!!! ❤❤
@arizhanee3 жыл бұрын
@@user-kk5ep8sk6z you’re weird lmao ...
@jmaldo922 жыл бұрын
@@user-kk5ep8sk6z just because you choose misery doesn't mean the rest of us do lmfao
@tackydidie3 жыл бұрын
Stay positive girl. It's always scary at first. But when you know, you know. It's important to honour how you feel, and value yourself and your happiness over a job. There are plenty of jobs out there, there's only one you; and most importantly, you've only got one life.
@bexlgem3 жыл бұрын
Well said. I needed this too.🤎
@tackydidie3 жыл бұрын
@@bexlgem
@mercedezp.62893 жыл бұрын
Yes, God gives us signs. So glad you came to peace with your new journey. Being quiet, not asking for everyone's opinions, but praying to God and listening was exactly what you needed. Best of luck beautiful.
@jenniferswinton88533 жыл бұрын
She never mentioned God tho
@rebeccalavoy66553 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferswinton8853 ...Hopefully, she does or will know in time, that God (Jesus) is the Power behind all righteousness and truth.
@rockdiamond19933 жыл бұрын
You're an inspiration, I've been following for a few months now and quit my job about two weeks ago. I want to own my time. Congratulations 💪🏾
@becomingkaylanice13513 жыл бұрын
"own my own time" I love how you phrased this!
@_kmogelo3 жыл бұрын
Omg I'm cryingggg. Congrats you guys💪
@MaryesaAnteya3 жыл бұрын
I just quit my job today haven’t told anyone and I’m so nervous yet so excited to create more content and really enjoy my life I was so worried about money abs paying bills and u know what ima let the universe figure that all out for me that’s not my job but im free !!! Mental health was my main priority
@lageena86423 жыл бұрын
Congrats! 👏 wishing you all the best!!
@marinachristodoulides39143 жыл бұрын
why did u quit
@heyitssheaxo3 жыл бұрын
How’s it going months later? I didn’t work for months last year. Due to Covid and I needed a break I was happier not working. But got really depressed when I didn’t have a schedule and enough money for things. I would like to quit again have my own schedule and work on my small biz.
@marinachristodoulides39143 жыл бұрын
@@heyitssheaxo hey i am currently not working and even though i love to be a lawyer ( i studied law ) the work environments were toxic and did not give me any work to do just sit on the pc and do nothing ;g i am doing art now and trying to keep a schedule while at home while i find something ! i go get coffee - do workout read news - art etc ! why did u stop work if i may ask ?
@madalynrozell39313 жыл бұрын
I’ve had so many jobs that just make me feel miserable deep down. I quit so many so soon when I would first start because of my anxiety and I just can’t work for shitty companies anymore. I’m starting to see that 9-5 jobs just don’t do well for me and I have BIG goals in life. Found one that I feel sorta content with for now so I can have paychecks and stuff but I cannot wait until I reach my goal. The outdated ideal world of school-get a job-work til you die just isn’t acceptable anymore cause we too smart for that shit. ❤️
@rejectionistmanifesto88363 жыл бұрын
Just dont buy a house and keep your car like I did with a toyota more than 15 years. You will realize you can live on part time work especially if you have a roommate or wife in an apartment or rent part of a 2 family house.
@remixtape36773 жыл бұрын
I have been in a toxic work environment, it takes so much of your energy and time. When I left mine, those first few days free, I felt skittish like I was out of place and it let me know just how much it affected me. Then it felt so liberating! I'm happy for you. 🤗 Caring for yourself will always be more important than working for someone else.
@nazjaa3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations omg! 💙
@winonae.b3 жыл бұрын
I love you naz💗
@LynetteAdkins3 жыл бұрын
Thank you love!🥰
@dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla16643 жыл бұрын
feelings mutual from our end as well :~)
@yourekacoaching59613 жыл бұрын
@alien house Hi Alien, how did it go on Sunday? How do you feel?
@kennayakimble3 жыл бұрын
Mmmmm when you said I got promoted the week George Floyd died with no pay promotion, was a aha moment. That’s fucked up! They literally moved you up to save face. Smh. New subbie here. Congrats on taking a big step 🤎
@5Luckyducky3 жыл бұрын
A lateral move higher title same pay. BS
@makaylaknight74723 жыл бұрын
I just put my two weeks in yesterday, and I am proud I made that decision for my mental health, as I was crying on and off the job about the job itself. So stressed out and depressed, dreading and crying while getting ready for work. All for a job I got a degree for. It was not worth it😂 but I’m happier without.
@sandilem59443 жыл бұрын
I remember leaving my retail job, with absolutely no plan, no savings, but I had had enough and was on the brink of going crazy. when I walked out of that place I felt such a palpable sense of relief. It was almost like literally physically feeling lighter. I totally resonate with this. ps God had bigger plans for me that's why he gave the courage to leave despite having nothing to fall back on.
@mandysays81603 жыл бұрын
Honey you have HIM. That's why you could leave❤
@richieroof52473 жыл бұрын
YES! I work retail now. I'm praying God will let me be a bank teller at my credit union. I actually am close with someone who's been there for years and will give a great recommendation to the manager. I want out of retail and some people who have worked with me are creepy as heck! I've had to complain to HR for men sexually harassing me and I've had quite a few try to date me there. I hate that. I really want a sign but only if God allows it for me. The best of luck to YOU, hun. 😇
@sofiee4463 жыл бұрын
I also have retail job. After corona lockdown i still staying at home . Company still quiet no plan reopened soon. I have fear and bad feeling i starting to thinking about myself what im gonann do in my life . Im 25 i feel fear
@lunaas10293 жыл бұрын
I’m leaving my retail job in 2 weeks and I’m so scared but I am so depressed by this job but I know God has a plan in my life where I won’t be so depressed
@sunshinew3272 жыл бұрын
This resonated with me. Been through this too.
@marjanifairchild20183 жыл бұрын
Sucks that this world makes people choose money over morals and comfort. It is never worth it to do things that don't make you happy and make you miserable.
@TheSorrel3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm working in customer tech support atm. (I'm actually an actor) So, yesterday I actually heavily implied to a customer that another provider might have more to offer for him at the place he's living. And I think I kinda crossed a line there that I shouldn't cross very often.
@laurynjohnson59663 жыл бұрын
This is on a smaller scale, but I’m a college student and I recently quit my job that I’ve had since high school because I wasn’t being treated well and def wasn’t being paid enough and lemme tell you!! Quitting a job is so empowering!! I didn’t even have another job lined up but I still did it, It was scary but I’ve already found another job that aligns more with my values and I’m already so much less stressed! If you’re considering quitting a job 10/10 recommend doing it, things will work out eventually if you put in the work :)
@yzma61423 жыл бұрын
I’ve been here before and felt such relief when I finally quit. I’ve just started a new job and it’s soooo much better already. You’ll be fine. God bless you!
@jessicapena21423 жыл бұрын
I saw a meme that said “we need to normalize leaving after the first red flag, I won’t but you can” 😂😂 Im so proud of you for leaving after only a few flags.
@shopnicolets3 жыл бұрын
😂
@nagisa09313 жыл бұрын
“I won’t but you can” 😭😂🥺 why is this so true like I want to quit so bad but I need the fucking money 😂😂😂😂😂
@yourekacoaching59613 жыл бұрын
It can feel that we can't quit our job, because we are so afraid of our financial state. And then quitting a job, because we didn't "like it" (because you can't ignore the red flags) can feel childish right? I've had to listen to so many conversations where people say "ah, get over it", "be an adult and take on responsibility". BUT honestly, the moment I quit the jobs which didn't align with my values and said NO to situations/people, my life started to change. I started to see and interact with clients and jobs that align with my values, without any red flags.
@kevininsales3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@karmenjane12573 жыл бұрын
@@yourekacoaching5961 blessings, this gives me hope!
@jaygoldie3 жыл бұрын
Good for you on taking that step. I quit a job this year I was only at for about 4 months but within that 4 months I was subjected to so much workplace hostility and sabotage. I knew I had to leave because I would be soo angry and depressed each morning. I also stopped eating because my anxiety was out of this world. I quit without looking back. Honestly the best decision I made!
@Adrene3 жыл бұрын
So proud of you Lynette, I feel like every single video you’ve made since “I don’t have a dream job” has been leading up to this moment and I’m so glad you came to this decision! When you trust God and walk in Faith things will fall perfectly in place💫 excited to continue following you along this journey! We need more transparent, courage and honest content creators like you, much love😘
@LynetteAdkins3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much. It's been a journeyyy but so grateful to have this community to do it with❤️
@karmenjane12573 жыл бұрын
I have like 12 versions of my two weeks notice printed and ready to hand In 😂 My work is so high stressed and I’m severely underpaid compared to my peers.
@lageena86423 жыл бұрын
Same here! But you're ahead of me with the two weeks printed. I need to get mine done today and turn that s--- in on Monday! Cheers to our mental health and regaining control of our lives! 👏
@BackFromTheBorderline3 жыл бұрын
Early in my tech career (around 2014) I got to the final stages for an interview to work at Amazon. I was living in London at the time. Looking back now, the entire process was the most intense, cult-like experience ever. I didn't get the job in the end. I've spoken to countless friends who have worked there who report the same thing as you - overwork, overwhelm, no work-life balance, feeling like they're working for a toxic machine, etc. You are so incredibly inspiring. Showing up so vulnerably and taking this brave step will create ripple effects that will positively impact others. You're not afraid to shake shit up. We need more people like you in the world. I rarely ever comment on videos, I'm normally a pretty passive subscriber. But you are one to watch. Thanks for showing up for all of us, Lynette.
@nubianpwr3 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on the level/area U work in at Amazon. But, ur points r well taken... and well written;0
@ambersdew29072 жыл бұрын
Had the same experience working in trivago ( a German start up). Had to work 8-20 and join the “team-building events” afterwards regardless of the fact that I was married, had home I wanted to actually go back to.. if you don’t spend most of your time with them, you are frowned upon and not a team player.
@IHeartUTatyana3 жыл бұрын
This is such an inspiration for me. I have been going through so much BS at my current job that has been taking such a toll on my mental health. The pay allowed me to live comfortably but it’s definitely not worth the stress and anxiety I constantly deal with on a daily basis. This video was my sign to follow my dreams and quit my job. Thank you 💕
@sacdiyaahmed28103 жыл бұрын
May I ask you what kind of job you were working?
@IHeartUTatyana3 жыл бұрын
@@sacdiyaahmed2810 yes of course, I do staffing for a nursing agency. We would be required to do this thing called “on call” where nurses are able to call after hours if they needed the call out or had any specific questions. The worst part about it is that if there was a call out, I would have to drop whatever I am doing to find a replacement for that shift.
@classicasi883 жыл бұрын
At least you gave a 2 week notice because I don't give anything. When I'm done, I'm done. There's nothing to discuss. 🤷🏾♀️ Good for you! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@mandysays81603 жыл бұрын
Oh wow...
@wwefuture013 жыл бұрын
Exactly, no one needs to give an explanation. If your not happy and you know you don’t want to be there anymore there is really no point in putting a two week notice , just leave .
@autumnharding38413 жыл бұрын
I just quit my job the other week and didn’t put in my two weeks. I was uncomfortable asl there and didn’t want to deal with more retaliation.
@cosmicsea73 жыл бұрын
I've done that before for the sake of my mental health. Quit before it causes me a mental breakdown. The downside is burning bridges. :(
@mandysays81603 жыл бұрын
@@cosmicsea7 Yeah that's an awful down side. I'm glad you left though.
@inactive21903 жыл бұрын
I am not joking, the universe is lining up for ppl all over the world! I quit my full-time job yesterday! Bigger things are coming for us 🙌🏾 Don't beat yourself up over working for that horrible company! You did what you had to do to make a comfortable living, but you ALWAYS tried to leave, and now you did it! It's not your fault or your duty to change this horrible company, you're changing the world for the better with what you're sharing here on KZbin! Really, Lynette! You're an amazing human because you tried your very best to escape this toxic environment, and that shows what a good person you are! Now you'll show your old job, that being kind will get you places, you don't have to follow the system to survive, but never live.
@simplybriannab3 жыл бұрын
When I quit my waitressing job, I was still in college and had NO IDEA how I was gonna make it. Now, I have more money in my account than I ever had while working a regular job. Congratulations on quitting and starting this new journey! Your peace and happiness will bring you everything you need 🙏🏽
@puregem883 жыл бұрын
Would you mind if you can tell me any tips on how you made money?
@simplybriannab3 жыл бұрын
@@puregem88 I did DoorDash until I graduated college, then I worked a sales job for a week until COVID shut everything down and I’ve been focusing on my KZbin channel because I was able to get unemployment. But I was denied several times, kept my faith and it finally came through 🙌🏽
@eeeyooohoh3 жыл бұрын
literally just got sabotaged by my "manager" and then got blindsided with a PIP and was forced to resign from my demanding but lucrative startup. i feel you completely! im literally going back to working at a boba shop and chillin cause i am burnt tf out. but honestly im so much happier unemployed stuck at home than i was with the highest paying job ive had in my career
@desireemoyiare3 жыл бұрын
This is my life right now but I am hopeful that everything is going to work out for the best sending you love and peace
@lizzysarealtornow26823 жыл бұрын
Did you get unemployment?
@eeeyooohoh3 жыл бұрын
@@desireemoyiare oh no!! i hope that you can at least get unemployment benefits and rly screw them over LOL. im just glad to not be working there anymore it was a nightmare
@eeeyooohoh3 жыл бұрын
@@lizzysarealtornow2682 unfortunately no i was only there for two and a half months :/ basically the reason i resigned early was so they couldnt fire me cause it was pretty obvious they were plannin to fire me even before my PIP was up
@alexandra4real3603 жыл бұрын
@@eeeyooohoh If this happens again don’t resign, let them fire you so you can collect unemployment. And then just tell new employees that you were laid off.
@LanaOkeaness3 жыл бұрын
You were feeling so anxious the day of quitting because you are literally saying goodbye to that part/version of yourself! It is only natural to feel that way for a little, because I don't think you will ever be working a 9-5 again!!
@nathananderson8720 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 2 months ago about self development and now have more than 100 subs and almost 70 hour watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so much lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place
@sorennastewart3 жыл бұрын
Lynette, I am smiling extremely hard rn watching this. I am genuinely SO proud of you. You deserve everything you desire. You inspire me to never give up and not settle for less.
@h.e.r93683 жыл бұрын
Sis it was probably the best decision you’ll ever make . And baby when One door closes God will open a window . The 50 year old you will look back and smile
@hay_tater3 жыл бұрын
the funk is totally normal. we live in a world where we are use to being in a high energy state from work. so when you remove that it brings your body and mind back to homeostasis which is a natural thing we should all feel and not be worried about giving other people that dont care about our well beings energy that dont deserve it. I'm so happy for you, glad this is my first video watching of yours and def not my last. everything is happening for you not against you.
@rebeccalavoy66553 жыл бұрын
Love this comment
@KourttneyL3 жыл бұрын
I quit mine during quarantine. It was such a emotional roller coaster. I wish that I had something to back it up because I struggled for food and living after that.
@RukkyDINMA3 жыл бұрын
I recently quit my job. And My employer said"there are no jobs in the Country,would you want to come back" I instantly said, "God Forbid" He legit Screamed!
@rtlau-mk4di3 жыл бұрын
Screamed from laughter or anger?
@squidwardtentacles42343 жыл бұрын
I quit my job a couple months ago and it was terrifying but was the most relieving and freeing thing ever. Im happy for you!!!
@xomaiyanichole3 жыл бұрын
really needed this video. I’m going to college in the fall and I very much want to quit my job and focus on my passions and work on finding myself. I’ve been back and forth for months and the fear and unknown holds us back from a lot of things but I take this video as a sign❤️
@kellikellisha27793 жыл бұрын
your going through a financial transition, never broke! broke is something that cant be fixed
@kelsdun76023 жыл бұрын
Omg I love that. "Broke is something that cant be fixed". Thats some great words of wisdom
@jenniferandre17753 жыл бұрын
I just LOVE how transparent you are with your life. I quit my job around the same time you did and it was literally like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Trust me girl, God’s got us and there’s nothing we can’t do if we manifest it.
@sbb.86773 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, it's about getting comfortable with being uncomfortable and watching the wheels start to turn in your favor.
@StephTiger273 жыл бұрын
I feel like this video is so raw. I haven’t seen something this raw on KZbin in a long time. I am so happy for you leaving your job and I’m glad you didn’t fake all the emotions and your fears. You are human and I wish you nothing but the best✨
@biancayukkei3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!! Ive been a silent viewer but wanted to let you know how inspiring you are.🤩
@L0velyLadyL0cs3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your transparency. I quit around the same time due to similar reasons. I refuse to continue putting energy into someone else’s dream when I can contribute the same energy into self employment. The stress and anxiety associated with corporate America is ridiculous. Self perseverance, self discovery, positive experiences, self care, and mental health maintenance are key. Congratulations on your new found freedom 💕
@leftykeys69443 жыл бұрын
The labor market is a cesspool of toxicity. I feel your pain.
@shanelshalini3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so candid about your journey. I know it took a lot of strength to do so. I feel that a lot of the time, the topic of pursuing what you're passionate about can be glamourized, which is great, but the struggle to get there isn't shown as much. We appreciate you sharing this journey as you go along 💕
@melisdantou3 жыл бұрын
the fact that growth happened _so_ fast that u could do it in half the time you expected, there really is a plan out there for you, i’m rooting for u 🤍!!
@katiepretty69793 жыл бұрын
I quit my job last month, I totally get this feeling. Good for you! It feels so freeing.
@LifeWithLocc3 жыл бұрын
When you said you believe in signs and I’m here thinking to myself, “this video is a sign” 🥺😭 thank you so much for listening to your heart and sharing this! 🤍✨
@the_bush_family3 жыл бұрын
Those "signs" are called burnout. And when you're burnt out you see signs everywhere! Good for you! Wish you all the best!
@astoldbyanisa3 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling of going back and forth with your thoughts of quitting in regards to playing it safe. I quit my job 2 months ago and I’ve never had more time for myself to pursue what I actually want to do. Im learning to trust the process and have faith that everything will work out. This video was very inspiring and encouraging. Thanks for sharing!
@thebeautyrumors3 жыл бұрын
so proud of you! I quit a job last summer that didn’t align ethically with my beliefs and was truly ruining my mental health. It was the best decision I’ve ever made. You’re gonna do great. Love your content ❤️
@RonnieWisdom3 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day you followed your heart and sacrificed comfort! This takes so much strength! Much love to you! ♥️
@astrodrea_3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you for getting over the fear and being real about how you went over finances to make sure you were financially stable. You got this!!! You weren’t happy it was time to go 😅👏🏼👏🏼
@sherbert5113 жыл бұрын
I quit my job about two weeks ago now, i was working in the cannabis retail industry. Its crazy hearing sooo many similarities to your story. Im currently gardening while i figure out a career path that better matches my values. Money was a concern for me too, i didnt want to take a pay cut after landing what seemed like a great job after college, but I truly realized just how much happier I am with more freedom. Im so happy for you girl!!! I love your content, and resonate with you so much
@jackiek59243 жыл бұрын
I quit a couple of weeks before my scheduled time. Because of the jab, I've decided to do something totally different. My boss asked me if I had another job, nope. I've been off for almost 2 months. I have faith in God, I've been applying for so many jobs. Something will come through.
@Ms.O0 Жыл бұрын
@ jackie k … just reading your comment on 4/27/2023 and I felt the need to reply to you just to say… I hope you are well. The fact that you do have faith in God alone and did not give in to get jabbed that resonates with me. So just wanted to let you know I hope you are well and always always always count on God. Be blessed.
@sacdaabdurhman3 жыл бұрын
“If you work on something a little bit every day, you end up with something that is massive.” Never doubt small changes sharing some love from small KZbinr
@missjadabeta3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these encouraging words.
@sacdaabdurhman3 жыл бұрын
@@missjadabeta you welcome much love
@eionanevaeh43513 жыл бұрын
CONGRATS!! after seeing the title of this video I immediately had to watch lol!! 😂😂😭 Leaving a job is like leaving a toxic relationship, but it feels so empowering to quit💕. I'm so happy that you made this decision for yourself because it will definitely help your mental health because it has helped mine every time I walked away from a job that was causing me stress and anxiety. Your such an ✨inspiration✨and have no worries this will def be your last 9-5, you are onto great things☺️☺️
@AlyKat_XD9153 жыл бұрын
So proud of you girl! For years I’ve been seeing your content, everything from real estate to college to manifesting… you always seem to pop up on all my socials, even before I started following! I’m in the Austin area now and would love to learn from/be mentored by you♥️ your content is amazing and I feel like the universe is telling me you have some valuable ideas to share 🥰
@DrEziaku3 жыл бұрын
This new generation has life shifting energy.
@sean40603 жыл бұрын
I’m 36 years old. Juggled 3 jobs for the past 12 years. I managed to invest and buy 3 properties during this time. One of my jobs working for the government was so draining. The other two are great because they are my Own business. I just sold one of my properties and will have 1 million in cash once it closes. Plus 2 other properties that I rent out. Next day I quit my 9-5 job I’m super happy now. The key to get to this point is not needing them. However I had to hustle extremely hard for 10 years to get to a place at 36 where I’m financially free for life
@MalaikaNeferu3 жыл бұрын
This is actually the first time I’ve EVER watched you & the universe & God connected us for a reason. I literally just left early from work because of DAMN NEAR the same reasons! As soon as I got home to unwind, to think, to plan my next steps, when am I going to leave, what am I going to do etc - THIS video pops up. Wow. I am baffled. And congratulations dear. 🤞🏾
@lilylozano76823 жыл бұрын
I will be able to do this within three years. I'm speaking it into existence amen!!
@KeyzDesignzLLC3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! “Everything you have ever wanted is on the other side of FEAR”
@honeydipjames98243 жыл бұрын
This hit me hard 😭😭😭
@tanyalasagna_3 жыл бұрын
Another option that may be helpful is to find a temp job that would interest you that’s not intensive. This would allow you to continue making content while still having a paycheck from a job you’re not committed to long-term - which will also give you space to continue to work on yourself and what you wanna try next! Just a thought!
@asadb19903 жыл бұрын
what you are referring to are either very temp and stress you out looking for next pay or a steady low pay mindless job that the bosses still require full attention and effort.
@tanyalasagna_3 жыл бұрын
@@asadb1990 I see the point you’re making and that’s one way to look at it. But speaking from the perspective of my own experience, there are recruiters out there who will help in keeping you within temp jobs only if that’s your preference, you just need to be transparent with them. Let them know you’d like to start interviewing once the contract is coming to an end. Not all companies are looking to expand head count permanently especially for short-term projects. Also, of course any job requires focus and attention, and you’d still need to follow an interest/strength which will allow you to perform naturally. That’s why I mentioned she temp to try different things of interest, which can help broaden her experience and bring clarity to her vision.
@asadb19903 жыл бұрын
@@tanyalasagna_ i get your way. but in my experience even for temp jobs they want highly experienced folks who are desparate for work. and if you lack the desparation to work like a dog, they will end your months long contract in a few weeks. i have been hired a few times in the past where i was let go soon after and excuse was "i lack the urgency and drive". i worked my ass off. but i never ran to finish work early because that just meant more work. as far as recruiters are concerned they have all mostly been a waste of time. they would pitch me for jobs but after interviewing it was clear client wanted someone highly experienced for little pay. and that level experience only came at desparation
@tanyalasagna_3 жыл бұрын
@@asadb1990 sorry to hear you’ve had such a bad experience. I can see why you feel the way you do. But not all experiences will be bad, it’s worth trying if it helps to move closer to the greater goal/vision.
@NOCLUEinvalid3 жыл бұрын
have you had a temp job before? if so, what were your experiences like?
@robiness5344 Жыл бұрын
The relief from quitting a job you hate is another level of satisfaction👍
@lifestyledbyerica64533 жыл бұрын
Ufff, I FELT this video! I quit my job this past January. I had ten years in, making over $100K, had tenure, health insurance, job security the works but in the end I had to choose myself. Soon after quitting so much of the trauma I had endured in this position came rushing in and I knew after about 1 month of being unemployed I had to seek professional help. Today, I am writing this comment from my AirBnB in Accra, Ghana where I am working as a management consultant with two clients! I am no longer chasing money or titles, I am chasing integrity, purpose and meaningful work. I had to trust that I had what it takes to figure ish out and I did and I am. Proud of you for choosing you! Cheering you on from Accra!
@UdoADHD3 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of when I was at engineering school and my professor told me to work for Lockheed Martin and the pay is 6 figures out of college and I was like “but… they would be hiring me to make b0mbs…” and my professor was like “I mean, yea. You just have to remind yourself it’s just work” 😩✋✋✋✋✋no ma’am
@asadb19903 жыл бұрын
well i find most of these youtubers find too much passion at work. remember a job is there to pay bills while you do what you want after that.
@UdoADHD3 жыл бұрын
@@asadb1990 in not even talking about passion - me and this video is about not working for a place that you feel is morally wrong…
@asadb19903 жыл бұрын
@@UdoADHD ok to each their own. for me a job is morally ok as long as its legal.
@yzma61423 жыл бұрын
Oh hell nah. You made the right decision 😩
@asadb19903 жыл бұрын
@@yzma6142 well to each their own. but morals, principles, etc don't pay the bills.
@DaysyRosas3 жыл бұрын
You’re being divinely guided. Don’t worry just follow your heart mama 💖✨
@shinigamani3 жыл бұрын
I got sooo emotional with you at 16:08 when you started shaking! Congratulations on making your dream a reality, and thank you for being an inspiration for those of us trying to find our place still
@KaliAlexandria3 жыл бұрын
I love this! One of the best quotes I’ve learned through my entrepreneurial journey is to never take advice from someone who isn’t where you want to be. You were smart not to tell anyone that you quit!
@tvdavis3 жыл бұрын
Sis, if you could see the way I was nodding my head along with your entire video. I'm in a similar situation: Only POC, one of only a few women who aren't support staff, not an inclusive workplace, soul-destroying, more work/no raise, no opportunity, being passed up for growth, yet being told you're doing great... I feel you. Good for you for leaving! Wish I were young enough to take that leap.
@IssySanaa3 жыл бұрын
I found this video exactly when I needed it 💜 I’m graduating college soon and I’ve been struggling with trying to find a job or choose to follow my dreams. The people in my life don’t understand how badly I just can’t work a 9-5, but need to follow my passions. I don’t want to settle and this video reminded me that I don’t need to. Thank you so much for sharing and congratulations! You are being divinely guided 💜💜
@JourneywithKasitti3 жыл бұрын
I suspected that you'll leave. you didn't sound happy anytime you mentioned your job lately. God has a perfect plan for you dear. Keep going.
@AlexanderReyPerez3 жыл бұрын
seeing you is so affirming. I am in the process of unlearning what I thought was was normal in terms of worknand progress not just for my body but for my spirit. I had this moment and have been feeling so many different things and realize that its not strange to want more and to not be okay with complacency.