I RELAXED MY NATURAL HAIR OF 9 YEARS | It wasn't serving me anymore 💔

After nine years of being a devote natural hair community member, I made the tough decision to relax my hair. I just felt like at this point in my life having it relaxed was the best option for me and to keep it natural would be a great disservice to myself.
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[@unbreakable9922]

I've had my natural hair all my life and that's approximately 25 years. I don't think I'll ever relax it cus it's truly beautiful. I do my hair myself with minimal manipulations so I understand how hard it was for you. You're an actor and having that hair manipulated regularly, would hurt like hell. You made the right decision!❤

[@marthaehinome]

It hurt so bad, especially as I have a really soft scalp. Thank you! 🤗❤️❤️

[@ScripturetimewithLizzy]

Your hair is beautiful ❤

[@mercytemilade2848]

Tumi why did u relax it nah 😢😢 i love u though 😊

[@celi9133]

Martha your hair looks amazing - before and after. Thick and healthy!! You look beautiful!

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you! 🥹

[@Stella-995]

My hair has been natural since 4 years now and I don't think I will ever relax my hair but Martha just do you girl.. you don't have to feel bad about it

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you guys so much for all the reassurance 🤗❤️

[@GospelChick_]

I'm glad you got to talk about this. I love my natural hair, but it's not very practical in a fast paced life. I'm really thinking of texturizing though. You look so beautiful, skin glowing and the relaxed look is really beautiful as well. Enjoy. 🥂

[@marthaehinome]

@@GospelChick_ I totally understand. Thank you! 🤗❤️

[@loideenkono4679]

Ten years later, I also betrayed the natural hair community and I can say it’s the worst decision I’ve ever made.😭😭 I am happy for you thou sis.❤

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... Sorry about that ❤️

[@chiomateresah3269]

Your skin is popping 😍❤️ Wura made me love you a lot 🤗😍

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🤗❤️

[@baraketaddwunmi3827]

I also relax my 5year hair, and i don't regret it, it looks like this bcos this is the first time you are relaxing it after so many years

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@opeyemieniola2961]

honestly I know the pain of having a thick natural,I must say you did a great job 👏🏽

[@marthaehinome]

Tell me about it... Thank you ❤️

[@olufolahanakanni4340]

For about 4years now, I go on low cut almost every 6months and grow my hair all over again, and I'm cool with that. As long as you feel great with yourself that's fine. You look great all the same ❤

[@oladipupomutiatbolanle9397]

I cut mine every year and start all over again , but this year i didn’t

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@bessredz211]

I feel you Martha. I literally relaxed mine yesterday! After 5 years of locs and 5.5 natural with 2 big chops, I'd had enough. 😓 My kinks were beautiful but i have two little girls with BIG hair to manage. I'm also almost 30 and the high puffs and jumbo twists weren't giving sophisticated, professional hotgyal for me, I looked 15 😩

[@marthaehinome]

Aww 🤗❤️

[@temitopeomilegan8268]

I love you in your natural hair. One of the things I like about you apart from your smiles and the way you talk. I feel you, natural hair can be painful and difficult to manage.

[@marthaehinome]

❤️

[@user-tx7xw7hh2t]

Awwww natural hair has a way of making u feel guilty when you want to relax them....i keep natural hair too and am still keeping it but its not up to 9years its just 3years and i love it....by the way am your biggest fan....you gave that WURA movie a big lit with your skill ❤❤❤

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️ Thank you 🙏🏽❤️

[@naomizzy]

Same guilt I felt when I was about to relax mine too. I began to have massive breakouts after the birth of my second child and my hair still hasnt recovered. Do you and be happy, you're still as beautiful as always.....😊

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🤗❤️

[@oyindamolaolowookorun-dm2xd]

Martha,you made the right decision, don't feel to bad about it... My hair has been relaxed all my life and it feels good over and over again so welcome to the chilled side of life💆

[@marthaehinome]

Haha! Thank you 😀❤️

[@RM-nn9gf]

Love this ❤ Your story is too crazy similar to mine. I had my last relaxer in Dec 2014 and grew it out before “big chopping” few months later. Mum and sisters followed after as natural. 9 years later (as in 2 weeks ago) I relaxed my hair. My hair has always been thick and longish too but never felt it was giving 9 years “natural” at all. I’m also seeing that my hair isn’t quite relaxed right now lol.

[@marthaehinome]

Haha! Look at that 😀

[@rutholarinre4336]

I was natural up till i was 19, I've relaxed my hair 2 times after that but i wasn't just feeling it i had to go back to natural. I understand your struggles and your hair still looks good, semi natural

[@marthaehinome]

Hmm... I understand this. Thank you ❤️

[@0tismadaline]

Welcome to the relaxed hair journey ❤

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🥹

[@margrettecaulker6013]

I've had my natural hair for 5 years 6 months now and I've been getting some temptations to relax it. But I think I'm betraying myself. Now that I've seen this video I think I might just do it already it's about me and what I want and I'm not letting any feelings get in my way

[@marthaehinome]

As long as you're sure ❤️ Plus, it's hair. You can always transition back if you don't want it that way anymore.

[@Otto8845]

Ms. Martha, your relaxed hair looks beautiful & NO need to feel bad because you did NOT betray anybody. You have every right to style & wear your hair however you choose & if the natural hair community has a problem with it, they just gonna hafta be mad because they don't dictate what you do with your hair, they only dictate what they do with theirs.

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🤗

[@Otto8845]

@@marthaehinome no problem at all.

[@sweswe3186]

Go girl!!! I definitely can relate. Exactly two years ago, I cut my hair and went on locs. I rocked my locs for a year and half, and then I took it out. Then I joined the team 'natural' for a few months. For my type of hair (4C), it was really painful, and the length was not evident. Although I have a very good handler for my natural hair, but it just was not giving. Guess what.......I relaxed my hair a month ago. Right now, it soooo giving and no more pains. And the length, wooowwwwww, it is so long for a two year old hair. So girl, EXPLORE!!!! PS-It's always your dimple for me.

[@marthaehinome]

To each his own. As long as you're happy with it 👏🏽

[@olaniyanmayowa1934]

My natural hair has been for like 10/11 years now, and I don't ever think of relaxing it. Anytime I tried to think about relaxing, I feel like that's another stress, coz for me, during those times, my hair will get burnt, not fully relaxed again, after I will have to be dealing with the burnt, the bruises and all, so I feel like it's better natural than going through the stress of relaxing. True, NH is stressful but I feel I prefer the stress to that of relaxing. Since the purpose of you relaxing is that that you mentioned, is not bad. I root for you still 😍😍. Your conveniency matter and I guess anytime you're not feeling the relaxed one again, you can always do what will make you happy. Love from here❤❤❤❤❤

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@AjibadeAbosede-ry6uj]

I love the way you relax it, is not too soft ✌, there's a lot of relaxed hair that are under treatment and yielding to good results with good length 🤗

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@user-uf7kl8cz2q]

I had my natural hair since 2018 and up till now. I once had the thought of relaxing it like you but decided not to anymore. Am the only one with natural hair in my family😮😮😊😊

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Tara-xt2un]

This may not concern the vid but immediately as I saw your face I recognized you from a series I enjoyed, you look so great❤

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🙏🏽🤗❤️

[@EpellePrecious]

You inspired to go natural and now you're leaving me , i really loved the way the hair was styled when you went on a date with dimeji (in wura) .i love you❤

[@marthaehinome]

🫠🫠

[@akinfeleyeoluwadamilola9843]

I feel like I needed to see this video 😫 been battling with my mind about relaxing my hair. I’ve been feeling like I’m committing a sin and betraying myself or the community but this hair is painful especially because my scalp is soft, so I don’t have the luxury of packing my hair for too long and when i do and eventually make it, the pain is worse 😅 I’ve had this baby for 5 years, I don’t think I want to go on 😢 Thank you so much for this motivating video 😊 New Year New Hair 😂

[@marthaehinome]

🫂🫂🫂

[@Ebitibi_layefa]

It's a no stress zone fav. Anything that's stress you should be gotten rid off, glad you made your decision❤.

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🥹❤️

[@ireneorotalks]

I loced mine after 10 years. But it was due to my hair breaking more than it grows. It tangles up easily. My hair dresser told me three years ago that my hair is better for dreads cos it really knots up. Protective styles were dangerous. I later loced this year. I've always wanted to rock dreads so it is a win win. I miss my afro occasionally, but I'm happy with my new hair. I know I'll never relax either way. I don't even consider it.

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@AbigailAgbeve-ji2dh]

I walked to a saloon with the mindset of using a natural hair relaxer to just make it soft n easy to comb cux my head was banging but it seems the hairdresser over do so it turned out just exactly like yours n yes I don't regret at all cux it's more comfortable n the end appears natural so I can style it any way I desire

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@tinycoloredmiracle]

I love relaxed hair and I won't have it any other way💞

[@marthaehinome]

❤️

[@amybecca2575]

Wow, I didn't even know there was something like "texturized" hair...will check that out cause my 4C hair is super difficult to manage

[@marthaehinome]

There is 🤗❤️

[@eniolaafolabi2299]

I started my natural hair journey since 2019 I bought relaxer already but it feels like I’m planning to cheat or break up a relationship I feel like I’m a traitor Seriously Martha I really needed this reassurance Go girllllllll rock your hair Joining the relaxed hair clique soon I’m still contemplating

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... What did you decide? ❤️

[@odugbesanodufopehan1609]

Babe! I really know how you feel. Chimamanda was one of my greatest motivation. My natural hair has been on me for 7 years, I had a big chop once. The times I was still using relaxer, I get bruise all over my scalp and I can’t go through chemical burns again. I really don’t know what to do about my hair right now, I love my hair length a but I don’t even get to show it off only because of the shrinkage. I make my hair myself but I can’t even part it these days the pain is too much.

[@marthaehinome]

I can imagine. Just don't rush to make a decision on what to do. I'm sure it'll come to you soon 🥹❤️

[@ajimatimotunrayo7775]

You’re so pretty 😫❤️

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🤗

[@ameyedivineonome5009]

The way i immediately clicked on this video ehnn😊i know I'm digressing but i can't help it but i fell in love with Martha after i watched madam koikoi🥺 she's such a natural!! you're so pretty Martha ❤️ Nd i support any of ur decision Cux you kno what's best for u😁

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽❤️❤️

[@OfureEhicheoya-pg6pz]

Omg🥺🥺...you are from Edo State🥺.... you bear my elder sister's name....I was wondering why you were so beautiful I never knew you were from Edo State. Edo ladies are Soo beautiful.. Much love Tumi(wura)

[@marthaehinome]

Yes, we are! Thank you 😀❤️

[@temiloluwa3331]

I've had my natural hair for over 5 years and 2 months ago I had to textlax it... Its just easy and manageable for me and I feel no shame at all.

[@emze.6516]

Please what’s textlax it and what product did you use?

[@marthaehinome]

You shouldn't ❤️

[@guinevererichard398]

I am currently at this very impasse with my hair and having been a naturalista for over 14yrs. I usually do a big chop every 3-5 years because when the hair grows to the point where I begin to struggle with manageability (usually bra band length), I give up, cut everything off and start over. I don't want to chop it all off this time and I'm contemplating going the texturizer/ relaxer route. Thing is I have lost faith in finding a hairdresser that is truly knowledgeable and patient enough to work with natural hair. The ones around me have better experience with relaxed hair and it's glaring their knowledge of natural hair comes from KZbin like myself. I've always done my hair myself since going natural and I wonder if I will ever find a truly talented but affordable hairdresser to give me relaxing treatments going forward. When the hair is short, I can't wait for it to get long and when it's long managing it just stresses me out, takes the whole day and hurts my scalp.

[@megaladdy]

Texturizer is good

[@adebankeotolulope5269]

Pls how do I watch Wura season 1 complete

[@marthaehinome]

I can imagine. What did you eventually decide to do? ❤️

[@guinevererichard398]

hmmnnn my sister my sister, I have given up finally and texturised the hair oh. Tbh I regret not doing it long before now, the ease with which I get through wash day these days ehn, a whole day has shortened to an hour or two max. Chai🙆 so is me like this that would have still been dragging comb with my hair every two two weeks say wetin happen, mbok oh no more. Ndi naturalistas and umu natural hair journey una bye bye oh 👋 good luck but me I don commot for Una what'sapp group

[@marthaehinome]

@@guinevererichard398 😅😅😅

[@ezi5900]

Been looking for you since I saw wura. Subscribed already.

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you... and welcome! ❤️

[@folusekealuko7517]

It’s a nice decision I understand ur pains sis

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@christianazanu2642]

So sound so eloquent. I love how you talk

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@busolamiadenike7947]

I saw this video right in time. I am so emotionally attached to my hair. I've had a million and one doubts whether to relax It or not. I've had my natural hair for 6yrs now. The guilt is so much!😂 Well, In order to be more subtle with myself, I'm going ahead with the shea butter texturizer first tomorrow. Wish me luck 😊🎉

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... Goodluck!!! Please let me know how it goes 🥹🫂

[@Giftie-concept]

If my babygirl could relax hair, who am I not to 😂..Just came across the video as I was still thinking of relaxing my hair ..you still look beautiful 🎉❤

[@marthaehinome]

Don't make me feel bad for being the one to convince you 😭

[@diywithlots3870]

First of all, your skin is so beautiful; I couldn't help but notice. And year your hair transition is 🥰

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you ❤️

[@josephinearinze]

You skin is popping❤❤

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you ❤️

[@fatimaholamide5141]

Funny how I stumbled on this😮 after relaxing mine few hours ago. I feel bad and wish I never did but I needed to do it(my long natural hair of 21 years is now relaxed😢). It feels like a dream to my mum and siblings even though they’re happy I finally did after years of encouraging me. Anyways it’s well😊❤

[@marthaehinome]

It is well 🫂🤍

[@goodie6636]

You look amazing!

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you ❤️

[@familonioluwadamilola]

I relaxed mine about 7months ago. I felt exactly this way, cause funnily, there was a time I kept advocating for natural hair, I had a platform I shouted day and night there. But this things isn't a crime , so I told myself i want to get this hair relaxed and I was convinced about it. Na so i follow my mind pls myself. I'm still much better with it today, tomorrow ft come make I transition back , but today today let's keep enjoying relaxed hairrr..

[@marthaehinome]

I totally get you...

[@ochogadeborah3468]

You are so beautiful 😭🥺

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🥹❤️

[@Biggdammy]

You are good both ways. I have a natural hair and I don't think I will ever relax the hair.

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️

[@user-uf7kl8cz2q]

The first day i saw your relaxed hair,i was like whaooo hi ould Martha with long natura hair relaxed it😢😢😢😢 But i reasoned with you that natural hair are indeed painful. Still hoping of relaxing mine shaaaaaaa but some of my friends were like 'dont, don't don't. So,i still have my natural hair!

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... Just think it through and if you're sure it's what you want, go for it ❤️

[@fredanwokobia2610]

I'm doing this soon. I've carried mine for almost 10 years but it's stressful maintaining it. Really not worth the stress.

[@marthaehinome]

🫂

[@Isaacblessing498]

Same here am now pumped to relax my hair 😅😅

[@marthaehinome]

🥹

[@omotuyolebenita4483]

This woman is insanely gorgeous

[@marthaehinome]

🥹❤️❤️

[@TalesofVictorare]

I just transitioned in a different way. I shaved my hair guys!! I couldn’t manage it again, it’s so stressful looking for African saloon to make it here, I was tired and AS OF NOW ALSO, I HAVE NO REGRET!.

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... ❤️❤️❤️

[@sesimphiwembatha]

I’m seeing this after relaxing my hair a few hours ago (after 5 years of natural journey). Honestly, living in Arizona only made the natural hair journey unnecessarily difficult and way too costly for a college student. I felt like I was cheating but I’ll take the relief.

[@marthaehinome]

I can imagine ❤️

[@tias.6675]

Especially the awful water.

[@omohbhollah]

I felt the same way when I had mine relaxed but I regretted it sadly now I’m on low cut to start my natural hair journey all over again 😊

[@Didi_paul]

Me too....I joined the natural community 5 years ago but I relaxed my hair in 2021. April this year i cut my hair and I'm starting the natural hair journey again. I missed it

[@vickyd9584]

I relaxed mine after two years but back to natural

[@Oma_Sky]

Me too but I haven't cut mine yet cos I don't know what I'll look like on low cut. I'm so scared Update: 😁 I actually cut it in May this year and I've started a fresh

[@oluwatosinadeniyi6268]

Me too Now I'm bringing it up back

[@marthaehinome]

Aww 💔

[@O_TaiwoVictoria]

I'm joining you pretty soon 😂 I'm now tired of it! 3 years now.

[@marthaehinome]

🥹

[@Oma_Sky]

I relaxed mine two years ago and I can tell you for a fact that i regret it 😂. By God's grace I'm cutting it off next year to start afresh. I don't know if i can really stand cutting my hair but if I'm going to keep making it then this relaxed one has to go😂

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... Sorry about that. At least, you've tried it and know for sure that it's not what you want. You can always just transition bit by bit though ❤️

[@solapeolaiya1466]

I can relate to this so much 😂😂 I had natural hair for like 6 years and just texturized it 2 months ago, at first I felt like I was betraying someone 😂 but in the end I loved it. I love it much more now, I can do ponytails and other styles without feeling like my hair will get rough so fast. The only thing I miss is my fro 😢 but it’s all good. Thank you for sharing your experience ❤

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ogemotions1]

Asweeeeeeeear, #Americanah initiated me into the natural hair geng ❤❤❤

[@marthaehinome]

😀😀

[@FavourChiamaka-uj5ip]

I love natural hair And i love ur hair and skin A friend was even like "ur tumi has relaxed her hair and u are still struggling with natural hair" But i will rather barb than relax just like urs my hair will always return to natural hair after relaxing so i don't think i need to relax

[@marthaehinome]

Don't let anyone use me to drag you o! 😭 Keep your hair as you prefer👌🏽

[@pressybae]

I ve been watching wura for two weeks now and I'm in love with Tumi and dimeji 😅I'm a big fan ❤

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽❤️

[@tvs9978]

Cute dimples. When you said this is all i have to show for it after how many month, I died of laughter. One thing you should be aware of. There was a suit in the US where a woman proved from research that relaxers increase your chances of getting two types of cancer. Theres a law firm currently soliciting black women to come forward to make a claim against the manuafacturers so just be aware of the longterm health side effects of using relaxers. I struggle everyday with not reverting back to relaxing but everytime i remind myself that i dont need to endanger my health longterm.

[@marthaehinome]

Definitely something to think about. Thank you ❤️

[@estherolusola9654]

I also relaxed my natural hair of 10 yrs ...When I relaxed my hair two months ago, I was relieved from pain 😥 😕

[@marthaehinome]

I can imagine 🥹

[@adedejioyindamola]

I so much love this girl

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Recapps]

Just came across ur video I will call you tumi, thank you for loving jeje in wura 😂 as u refused to live him it was hurting me

[@marthaehinome]

Lmao!

[@favourtochukwu1306]

But I'm going to miss seeing that hair🥺 I really loved your natural hair😢 Anyway, do what makes you happy😊

[@victoriaekperezie3869]

Favour, is that you??? 😂😂

[@favourtochukwu1306]

@@victoriaekperezie3869 🤣😂 yesso

[@marthaehinome]

Ehyah

[@UnapologeticallyMuslimah]

These comments are me! I just bought a texturizer today, because I am tired of fighting my hair. I decided to choose between relaxer and texturizer, and i chose texturizer. Let's see how i like it sha. I feel like I'm cheating too, I've been on the natural journey for almost 8 years. I relaxed it at the end of 2019 because i felt like it and i cut it almost a year later, so let me say 7 years. So the current hair on my head is about three years old, and I'm tired of fighting the hair. When i have money, I'd pay people to care for my hair, because i don't have strength again.

[@marthaehinome]

🫂🫂

[@ibidunniadeyemo3650]

It is beautiful, just condition it often like you do when it was virgin. Planning to relax mine soon.

[@marthaehinome]

👍🏽

[@comforterpeace8558]

I will be relaxing mine next week. The stress of wahing, detangling and styling. It's very painful too. I'm sure I'll cut it off after relaxing and go natural again but I need this break now please.

[@marthaehinome]

I understand this ❤️

[@aderonkeolubanjo]

Yeah, I saw they used a texturiser at the salon. The one you had on your laps. Which is better cos it will probably keep going back to the full texture. Better than relaxers. I had my natural hair for years and went to texturisers cos my salon wouldn't allow me to use relaxers to keep the hair healthy. Then, in 2022, i cut again 😂 back to natural. If I'll have to transition, I will go back to texturiser, never relaxers, so go go go Tumi! ❤

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you! 🤗

[@Elsdelight]

I relaxed my hair recently and i felt almost the same way it took me a long time to make the final decision but after relaxing i have no regrets and i found out it was also texturized meaning i can still do the natural hair style and its softer and sleeker💃

[@Hadassah_Space]

This serve as an encouragement to me, am so exhausted. Have been natural for 10years but I think I have to let go now. Though I feel like am going to regret it but then the pain and all. So confused right now even though am at the salon already

[@marthaehinome]

👌🏽

[@marthaehinome]

@@Hadassah_Space 🫂 What did you decide?

[@irawoKristi]

Still on Natural hair. I think I will carry it for a long time though. I condition and wash and twist before any main event so the hair isn't as painful. If not it's always in a twist or bantu nut

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@EstherIsaac-we3ki]

Best decision I ever made was to relaxed my natural last month,very easy to comb,so beautiful and very long now.

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@blessingbliss460]

I can relate. I feel like relaxing my hair but I feel I’m betraying it and it makes me feel guilty but I want to 😪

[@marthaehinome]

Girl, that GUILT! But take your time and don't do it till you're absolutely sure it's what you want ❤️

[@fay_gail]

Yesss, they used Olive oil texturizer not relaxer Adviseable for anyone who is not sure about relaxing their hair but wants an easier hair process❣️🌹

[@egerton-harryegerba587]

Can you use a texturizer after relaxing your hair? Relaxing my hair has made it so fragile

[@Anuoluwapo]

You can, but usually, it is not necessarily the relaxer that makes your hair fragile, it might be the process and style of relaxing your hair (1.do you relax your hair roots only when reapplying or you relax everything including your hair ends? 2. How long does the relaxer stay on? I don't have enough information about your hair, I would have loved to help more 🌹. Don't mind me I JUST LOVE HAIR 😂❤

[@abayomiopeyemi6586]

Where can i dm please

[@Anuoluwapo]

@@abayomiopeyemi6586 instagram.com/faygail_hairandbeauty/?igshid=YTQwZjQ0NmI0OA%3D%3D you can dm me on Instagram

[@marthaehinome]

👍🏽

[@adetutuoluwaga7253]

I relaxed mine last month… had my natural hair for 10 years and honestly it wasn’t serving me anymore 😩

[@marthaehinome]

🥹💔

[@lheezhyomoh2626]

Yeah it was texturized not relaxed and it's beautiful💖 ORS texturizer is really good 👍

[@marthaehinome]

Yes it was!

[@ToluwaseTaiwo]

How did I just stumble on this after doing same last week? 😊☺️Went natural in 2014 too because my hair was too soft and hairline was kinda receding. Well, I got my hairline back but got tired of the hair itself. So, I said bye bye to my 9year old natural hair (after over 3 months of back and forth) and texturized as well last week. Also used the olive texturizer and I love the results because it's like halfway relaxed/natural.

[@marthaehinome]

😀😀😀 The natural hair gods were tailing you. And yes, it's like the best of both worlds ❤️

[@somyiheji5606]

My Tumi❤...Did I tell you I loved you since Wura then Madam Koi-Koi...More heights hun

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🙏🏽❤️

[@theruthiesam]

Congratulations @martha😂, I can relate to your situation, I also had that cute weird natural hair look for years but managing the pain and the stress of loosing and basically managing the hair was really tiring, plus when I finally decided to relax the hair it didn't straighten, and I kinda like cos till now people think my hair is natural because no matter the relaxer I use it still has that natural hair texture and it's kinda cool😊 I like it!

[@marthaehinome]

Win win 😀

[@araoluwaaderonke]

Well, I'm still keeping my natural, I wish I have this strong will to relax it. But each time I think about it, I do have this kind of pity mind for my hair, as if I'm breaking up with my lover 😂. My natural will be 9 years this year too. 😁

[@temisonianelson8314]

Whoohhh... I love your natural hair.. which I can make mine natural too

[@marthaehinome]

Go for it!

[@johncordelia9250]

My love I was so happy to see you the other at the beach I love you so much keep been you we love you 🥰

[@marthaehinome]

Lovely to meet you too ❤️❤️❤️

[@babatundejane924]

I love your natural hair and style in wura ❤

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you ❤️

[@veronicetobi6201]

Tumininu kuti in the series movie "Wura" my gorgeous , cute tumi, i love ur role in wura.

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Isaacblessing498]

I love your role in the movie 🍿 WURA😊

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you 🙏🏽❤️

[@blessingajibade7491]

Training natural hair no be work for the lazy o just start mine thou but the problem is that it strink too much but both your natural hair and relaxed is fine❤❤

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@thisgirl1896]

Cut my hair today to start a natural hair journey cause honestly relaxed hair wasn't serving.. breakage and all ..I can't!

[@marthaehinome]

💔🫂❤️

[@mercysoschristopher]

How did I stumble on this 😢😢 I am thinking of relaxing my hair of 2 years and I feel bad without even doing it yet 😢😢😢I don't think I should go ahead with it 😢😢I don't know 😢😢 it's so beautiful 😢 It's soft and so slik. I'm serious contemplating relaxing it😢😢

[@roseykelechi9828]

Same here. 2 years 😅

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... What did you eventually do?

[@elizabethsolomon400]

I just cut off my natural hair of 6yrs last week Monday,so complicated and always painful.

[@marthaehinome]

🫂

[@marypearl9827]

For the past one month I've been back and forth about relaxing my hair, after watching this video I'm definitely relaxing my hair.

[@marthaehinome]

🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@jane.under_construction2]

Girl, just do you. It's your hair ❤

[@marthaehinome]

❤️

[@oreoluwaoyadiran]

Please guys if you want to relax your hair, this is a sign, relax it if YOU want to, be natural if YOU want to, we don’t care if your natural hair is soo beautiful you can never relax it that is your business, we won’t force you to relax so don’t force us to stay natural, I just relaxed my hair and I miss being relaxed my hair should serve me not me serving it

[@marthaehinome]

👍🏽

[@Ritexhub]

Nine years is far ooo,mine is just five years nd am so tired,but i keep getting comments like don't relax your hair. I am just so hooked up with this whole natural thing

[@marthaehinome]

I can imagine. Just be sure about what you want and do what's best for you ❤️

[@Olawandeadetula]

Wow 😂😂🤭🤭 I absolutely love it for you ❤❤❤❤

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️❤️

[@odeguaevbuoma807]

Welcome to the relaxed side of life! Congratulations 😊 My 3 year old daughter had natural hair and I just got tired of the struggle and crying on hairstyling days. So I cut it! Since I gave birth to her 3 years ago, I have never cut hair hair. It's so relieving right now, and I intend to relax her hair once it starts growing back.

[@marthaehinome]

Aww... Thanks for sharing! ❤️

[@jesutofunmimargaretaluko-yt2jc]

And about that hair making. Someone can't just have an urgent occasion and say u want to make packing jell It will not stick and if I see some Fyn hairstyles and I will be like Omo see hair . The person will carry it fo one month I will carry my own for two weeks. But now like this I can make any hair I want

[@marthaehinome]

❤️❤️

[@tosincrispy2130]

It's better this way. It looks like it was texturized. So it's better. That's what I do to my daughter's hair. If your hair is very thick and hard, better to texturized. It looks good on you though ❤

[@marthaehinome]

Thank you ❤️

[@iam.Nafisat]

I just started this natural hair journey and I think I’m liking it🤭

[@marthaehinome]

I'm happy for you! I honestly loved my natural hair. People always handling my hair was just mostly the problem. ❤️❤️❤️

[@azakatega8101]

Me too