I Spent Years Figuring Out Why Black Women Ignored Me

[@thestoryofkt]

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[@MPzoid]

I'm a white guy living as a foreigner in germany (I'm not german but southern european). I'm just like you described yourself. Always friendly, polite, respectful, careful not to hurt others, introverted and i like whoever likes me. I've had same experiences with women in general same as you. Women don't like me either, no matter if they are white, black, asian or indian women. You mentioned yourself in the video that they prefer "gangster" type men. Women simply prefer "assholes" and macho! I expierienced the same with women. This is a common trait in women and not exclusively to black people. The same with white people.

[@thestoryofkt]

Sounds like we need to start a support group for the "Nice Guy Club”! Maybe we can throw in a few lessons on how to be a charming “macho” while still being polite!

[@drdre8321]

Nice video brother, I am tall, dark and always had a good job and I felt invisible to the black women. Bro I found a beautiful Filipina who is next level Bro. Finally got my plan together and I'm moving to the Philippines in 2025. I'm out!! Best wishes to you in the New Year!!!!

[@thestoryofkt]

Thanks my brotha 🙏🏾. I truly appreciate your comment, I feel you my boy. Glad I'm not the only brotha sistas were ignoring. Good on you for locking down a 🔥 Filipina. Best of luck to you and yours and your experience in the Philippines definitely keep in touch. Maybe I can have you on as a guest on my live show and hear more about your experiences.

[@gurujaketube]

Very interesting. Back when I lived in the U.S. as a young man both in NYC and in upstate cities such as Rochester and Syracuse, I found that Black women gave me a lot of attention, much more than I got from white women. Moreover, Black women didn't beat around the bush or act shy the way white women typically do. They made it clear they wanted to get down to business, which I appreciated. White women tended to be much more neurotic and hung up on all sorts of petty issues of class and "coolness" that the Black women I knew didn't care about at all. Granted, this was all a long time ago in the 80s and early 90s. So things are different today I'm sure.

[@thestoryofkt]

That's very interesting points you make. I totally agree. Appreciate your comment my brotha.

[@thestoryofkt]

Where are you living now?

[@darling4713]

Excellent! Well spoken truth. It also happens to black women. I grew up the same with multiple cultures and somehow wasn't black enough for black men. Now that we are out in the world maybe we'll find each other.

[@thestoryofkt]

Well said my sista!!

[@eio1971]

Melanin in you skin is brown not black.

[@thestoryofkt]

Appreciate the comment.

[@blackrampage2]

Man this was so real…I’m all for us sticking together but romance shouldn’t be a daunting task. They didn’t check for you so you checked for who checked for you. In cases like this what else were you supposed to do? This honesty was raw, real, and sobering. 🫡

[@thestoryofkt]

Thank you for your kind words Rampage! I’m glad you found the honesty resonant. It’s always good to share these experiences together.