"I STOLE A STRONG BLACK MAN FROM THEM." | Uncomfortable cringe with a black man | Emmanuel Acho

[@PatienceXina]

Date who ever you want to date just don't degrade and demonise the people in your own race in the process... That's when it becomes problematic

[@puremoi8449]

Yes!! I dated a black guy who had nothing but negative things to say about black women and it just made it uncomfortable for me while in his head he most likely thought I would take it as a compliment...while I understood he had. Some bad experiences dating he made me feel like he was only dating me because I was white.

[@imanigordon6803]

@@puremoi8449 I hate those guys like dude you realize your not making a point in fact your making a case to why you hate yourself 😂

[@randolphwh9551]

If the place he cane fromsuwed he can sane with Kodak stfu about how we treat people

[@realdreamerschangetheworld7470]

It's such a simple concept. This video should not be a thing (along with half of all human history).

[@southhour5241]

Facts it's mega cringe!

[@kunnykuni]

The interviewer being like : "You got a white man? How dare you?" "You got a white woman? Congrats! How is life going? Not too difficult I hope?" Hypocrysis and tribalism at their finest.

[@user-lu4xp7iv8c]

Literally

[@mt-zf6xp]

I've seen this attitude from men and women of all races. My theory is that these people see it like THEIR options are being taken away which is really insecure.

[@Bufekana]

Preach 👍👍👍

[@kunnykuni]

@@mt-zf6xp Of course ! Idiocy comes from every gender and race. The thing is they limit THEIR options because of their own racial bias. This means they consider that people from this demographic should only date people from this demographic, which is kinda bad.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@mt-zf6xp well ya, if one only dates one type of man and that man doesn't date them they'll feel some type of way. But instead of blaming others they should date PEOPLE that like them

[@jordanbronner3752]

So the black dude in the middle can disrespect the sister dating a white dude but then turns around lowers his tone and acts all nice with the black dude and white chick that’s horrible very disrespectful WE GO WAY BACK WTF 🤬

[@foreignziksk6182]

Exactly!

[@stacymuse5783]

Thank you! That energy changed QUICK. TRASH.

[@girliejax]

Right smh

[@deboraking7223]

They hate sisters getting a white loving man. But yet they put black women on display and choose a white woman over black women. They just hate to see a sister happy when they wouldn't treat us right. That white guy kinda cute u go sis. Black men white men are winning. Sit your dusty ass down. U had your chances lol

[@tammtammlove3210]

@@deboraking7223 💯❤❤❤ they take the dust. He wears her swimsuits😳😳😳....I'll pass.

[@MIXooNooMATCH]

The way he came at Rachel for "betraying" black men, and then spent the rest of the video focusing on how blessed and saint-like and evolved and unfairly persecuted the black man and white woman are, while ignoring Rachel and her husband... smh it's so typical. Meanwhile, Rachel and her dude are still happily together so...

[@hellohey000]

😂😂😂 yep. I knew all that lovey dovey schmoozing the bm/ww was doing , was fake and only for show.

[@SupernaturalLove100]

@@hellohey000 why was it only for show? they couldn’t have been in love?

[@hellohey000]

@@SupernaturalLove100 who said anything about them Not being in love? I said, " all that extra" was for show. I never said they didn't love each other. I rarely see couples do PDAs and to see them do it deliberately in front of three ppl after EVERY QUESTION is a bit much thats all.

[@charminglove8594]

@@SupernaturalLove100 they ended up divorcing later on

[@dustbgone8435]

Black women and white men statistically stay together longer than Black men/white women. Not sure why.

[@em.415]

Can we eliminate the “strong black man”, “strong black woman” phrase? We are human beings with vulnerabilities and weaknesses.

[@lavender1653]

Yup

[@Toxic_Femininity]

Yessss

[@candyluna2929]

Thank you!!! Is a stupid term

[@lavender1653]

@Cut&Share because a lot of black ppl esp black women are denied basic human decency because of that serotype. A lot of black women die during labour

@Original Video Game Whizzkid exactly, it’s like the saying:” the more you know, the more you know how much you don’t know”

[@james970027]

"how can i love my black husband better?" - well for a start maybe treat him like your husband rather than "black husband"

[@franciscolaurean8550]

Ty I said love him like a husband bro what does it matter if he's black or any other race

[@seansyw143]

Gotta make sure she doesn’t confuse her black husband with her other husbands

[@Anonylll-c4o]

Sincerely my similar thought process james97...

[@nightgoggles9931]

She's probably like, "should I make more of an effort to make sure there's always coco butter at the house" 😂 It's almost like dating one as a form of virtue signaling like, "look everyone, I'm not racist"

[@ivri7191]

This one RIGHT here! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

[@staneishah2668]

She spoke like she captured a strong black man and is holding him hostage lol its giving Get Out

[@jadesmith7983]

😂😂😂

[@MJ-SCUTI]

He had a hat on, probably hiding his transfer scar 😂😂

[@CashCowz962]

PK Suban seems like a cool dude tho..he is square...the type the sistas despise...so sostas..please let the man go after his beckies...and it brings me to this point...NOT ALL BLACK MEN HAVE THE SAME CULTURE....there are sub cultures....and also the the sistas have a very low tolerance for any differences....in looks...voice...muscle tone..physical masculinity....its still very primal..more primal than in most other cultures where a woman can be with a non ultra physically masculine brotha..becos he is actually a good person to her....or luvs kids..or whatever...PK doesnt seem to me to be the type of look sistas would be proud to sho off...so please sistas....leave the dude alone

[@staneishah2668]

@@CashCowz962 bless your heart lol this is one long response that has nothing to do with the joke 😅

[@sofialoren6846]

Omg so trueee hahahahahha

[@datmesay]

The fact that their relationship is over makes this AKWARD

[@prettyxbonez96]

L 😂

[@mahadsaid74]

🤣🤣

[@Megan6772]

Awkward*

[@radjabhussein8810]

Jealous 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@jagr06]

Positive this video didn't help their relationship either.

[@Ducky190]

This lady took nothing from black women. Black women also have options. Like what is this🤣Very cringe

[@nadiayofav8]

Right

[@OkNikaOK]

Girl yes! I kept thinking “nobody want him but you booboo” 😭😭

[@Millie_the_Mermaid]

Thank you

[@musadays8083]

Well, She's Still Hotter Than All Of You Though 🥱 Now, Let The Poor Guy Be. Your Options Deserve Your Negativity Way More Than He Does 🤷‍♂️

[@OkNikaOK]

@@musadays8083 “hotter” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭 That right there says a lot. Have a good day. But enjoy your women how you like. I support your decision without tearing you down.

[@random3263827]

"Stole a black man" What does that even mean?? Was he on a shelf and you snuck him into your purse? Wtf

[@23rdcenturyhobbit]

😅😅😅😅😅😅 seriously like she robbed him like an Elf on a Shelf.

[@the-based-jew6872]

@@23rdcenturyhobbit lmao

[@beekeeper2036]

She sounded dumb and racist af when she said that.

[@markbell1089]

Lmao

[@nopeninja9765]

Maybe he was on sale?

[@Zee-ob1pe]

You cannot “steal” someone. They go with you willingly.

[@Tjlive-zm7us]

Ms Stacy thank you that's what I say all the time to that situation I've said this many of time to people

[@nantaylor9938]

Abduction is an instance where people are literally stolen...there is a such thing...ijs🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jibjamaicainformationbroad1891]

Yes it's called kidnapping

[@nadjiguemarful]

Agamemnon stole Achilles' bitch

[@jmillzzz3732]

@@nantaylor9938 she’s obviously talking within the context of relationships. Don’t be so knit picky in life.

[@zoinktv]

“How can you love your black husband better” the most dumbest question I’ve ever heard 💀

[@mercy8669]

Exactly, I was like wtf this dude just asked??????

[@jermainebarham3907]

Leave him a send him back

[@vivic4617]

@@mercy8669 😂😂😂😂

[@olivetaylor4514]

The energy is off. The black woman was told “you hurt me” but the couple black man/white woman got the deep questions WTF

[@jjhghaqacvcoomnm]

This is pure evidence that black peoples just hate themselves...

[@deltanoctis]

@Hussein Mahaoud The comment above me is evidence of a racist, ignorant numpty. This idiot should either take their head out of their butt or take their crap elsewhere.

[@sillyyyluvr]

@@jjhghaqacvcoomnm how the fuck did you get that from this comment?

[@hazeelkhan4734]

well i think he should be asking more question to other women because she probably face more criticism for dating white man but instead he start with criticizing her him self (sry english is not my language )

[@lamargordon6017]

I thought it was standard practice for an interviewer to keep their personal issues out of it

[@Dragondw11]

“Did the white guy even speak?” “Who?” “The white guy” “Who?” “That’s my whole point”

[@maxwelllutomski7855]

That "who" was so believable, too. It sounded like Preach actually forgot there was a white guy there.

[@lifegoeson1007]

@NonCaptatMuscas 94 what? 🤨

[@lifegoeson1007]

@NonCaptatMuscas 94 but how are they being racist? The people in the room of the original video

[@TiTi-pm4my]

@NonCaptatMuscas 94 Yeah, I find it pretty damn offensive that we have to talk about interracial relationships in this day and age like they're scandalous. That video was whack.

[@bobshenix]

@@TiTi-pm4my As normal as they have become on the surface, and in general to an extent, the media still knows IR relationships are a hot-button issue that gets people clicking/watching... so it will always be presented in a provocative manner, even if for no other reason than $$$. It is what it is.

[@hamiltonchampagne5025]

I laughed every time she said "strong black man" because most likely a woman isn't gonna be like "oh, I'm with a strong asian man" or "oh I'm with a strong indian man."

[@WaffleHouseYellow]

If I have to tell everyone my shoes cost $1k, I'm probably actually broke or didn't grow up with money to begin with....

[@manda7047]

Or hear "I'm with a strong white man" because then I'll start thinking shes trying to play some American history x shit lol. It's like she thinks hes an accessory & I am embarrassed there's "woman" out here doing this 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@navonmyhand7999]

It also makes the side-assumption that "weak black women/men" exist smh

[@manda7047]

It really just comes across like shes undermining him, well to me anyway. I dont know I just cant understand it lol

[@MJ-yx2fk]

My girlfriend has a strong white man starting today

[@haraldisdead]

Black woman, how do you feel? White woman, how do you feel? Black man, your thoughts? Ok, that's our show, folks.

[@user-ooop]

Lol the white dude wasn't even mentioned.

[@mercy8669]

Exactly he acting like the white guy is a ghost that he can’t see, that is some bs. I hate people like that

[@haraldisdead]

@@k.p6258 👐🙌

[@misstiff29]

Lol e.g didn't let that fione man speak.

[@sdaniel123]

lol

[@Lima_beans94]

Im a black women, and this reminds me of when me and my boyfriend who's Mexican were walking into a restaurant and this black man looked at us and then at me and said, "you should be ashamed of yourself"...as his white girlfriend walked up by his side to hold his hand. My boyfriend and I just looked at each other in confusion. What!?

[@missraeray]

One sided loyalty that crazy in the black community.

[@abbygailyoung-beaulieu460]

@@missraeray Yes especially on Black woman it’s sad.

[@23rdcenturyhobbit]

I believe ya

[@therealtrissmerigold]

That's ridiculous, people are idiots.

[@ashleyduffy2088]

I get the same but from other black women. I was helping my mother in law clean a table and they looked at me as if I was a slave working for a slave master. Btw I’m black with a Colombian man that just so happens to look white american

[@jazs2300]

Lol the “interviewer” started off so messy. I definitely feel like he had more tension with the black woman than the black man.

[@MZDezi1010]

Right! I saw that too

[@HXCORNERSTONE]

Facts sis, dude was low key disrespectful to the sister and her man.

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

That interviewer was goofy. "Black king and black queen". Lol. All black folks should date/marry out if they can, since none of y'all like each other anyway. Js...

[@MrShitfire]

The series is called uncomfortable conversations with a black man so I'd expect it to be a little messy and cringy

[@phoenix-king779]

@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 yoooo 😂😂 fax. I dont have a problem with black woman. If you got a nice bunda I’m gettin your number. Fr maybe we should all just date outside the race 🤣

[@divinepipkins]

“I felt some kind of way when you didn’t choose a black king” ok Walmart Umar Johnson

[@amiedaniel1591]

Noooo!!!😆🤣🤣

[@lovely1641]

I think Umar would have answered that statement with: "but you're fine with him dating this white woman here? I beg your pardon?"

[@GoldenBoyDims]

Lol I like umar

[@divinepipkins]

@@GoldenBoyDims yeah I agree with Umar on most things, but sometimes he can be a little unrealistic and extreme

[@bigsmall2842]

@starving artist Umar is just a meme at this point lmao. I don’t even know if people take that man seriously😭

[@HopeElayne]

He “felt some type of way” that she chose a white man instead of a “bLaCk kInG” but no one is talking about how the black men in her episode expressed they didn’t even like black women, which she came out and admitted😑😑 So what choice did she have?

[@TouchofShunshine]

I don't watch that show. If it is true, why are people surprised that she picked a white man? I don't understand how black men can feel that they don't like black women. What color are their mothers, aunts, sisters, and daughters? I imagine them telling their daughters, "Well, my child you are not good enough because I am your dad."

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

One black dude on her show even cheated on her with white girlfriend at home.

[@Ask8613]

They want us to want them but they don't want us. How is that ok?

[@wildman3359]

it's always interesting to see this stuff play out in comments, like I'm black, love all colors of women, but all my life i have heard bm aint shit. ok your opinion is noted ( not you Elayne ) just the people who have said that. but when it comes to dating its somehow a betrayal of race if either bm or bw dates outside the race? Best question no one seems ready to talk about would be why is there a gender war in the black community?

[@Ask8613]

@@wildman3359 there was a flip in gender roles during slavery, civil rights movements, and introduction of government welfare programs that disproportionately affected the black family. Once that started to fall apart we stopped having a solid foundation or clear guidance on working together and everyone is blaming or running instead of fixing. We are not a real community. We are just people with common struggles and traumas based on bad treatment due to our physical appearance.

[@caylajohnson8825]

" I took a strong black man from them ". We have options sis. Just like you. Wow that's alot of likes thank you guys.

[@coolcat6341]

I would say better option she is at the end of her market life cycle

[@joshmoore850]

Exactly Idk Why they feel like they scored or something, This whole interview screams I took something from you She act like there aren't a billion other people BW could date

[@LizzyRants]

He was so strong that she broke their engagement 😂

[@joshmoore850]

@@LizzyRants Did she Really??

[@LizzyRants]

@@joshmoore850 I'm going correct myself and say it was a mutual break up but I have my theories. Here's an article on it people.com/sports/pk-subban-speaks-out-after-lindsey-vonn-split/

[@alexandratavares6612]

It's ridiculous how people think they are special for dating outside their race. They think being in a interracial relationship is a personality trait. Edit: for those of you who keep saying "let people love who they want to love" or "as someone who's in an interracial relationship". I DON'T CARE about how much you love your partner, literally no one cares. I don't hate interracial relationships ( I have a mixed family). Fuck who ever you wanna fuck. I cringe at the way some people flex and brag about their interracial relationships as if they are superior to everyone else. All I'm saying is that you're not special for banging someone that's a different colour than you. If this doesn't apply to you, then there's no need to get offended.

[@stephaniecontreras2695]

As someone who married outside my race, I see that mentality ALOT and its mind blowing! You 💯 on that!

[@RelevantEd_DrHenderson]

facts

[@Smulpaap123]

A lot of Americans consider skin colour itself to be a personality trait...

[@missysummertime]

You see this on KZbin all the time. Whole channels dedicated around interracial relationships lol.

[@austins.1102]

Facts like the white broad in the vied she kept saying she was dating a “strong black man” like BRUH WE HEARD U THE FIRST TIME🤦🏾‍♂️

[@heffasaywhat8259]

What I don’t like is how the questions were so pointed at the Black woman and her husband and with a lowkey shameful tone, but they gave the Black man and his wife the floor for his experience.

[@vipr1142]

Blk guy is more racist than normal white person

[@TripsCloudsPureBliss]

You should see the video. It actually gets worse. The host starts explaining that he dates/dated interracially because he saw it as getting back at the "master". Very disturbing interview.

[@lisa_squared]

@@TripsCloudsPureBliss lol what?!

[@Khyboh]

@Zoey Asher Thank you.💕

[@narivenus-21]

@@vipr1142 lol what?!

[@theinvisiblewoman5709]

My dad lost me in a Target once. He is half Korean and half black and he looks like a tall Filipino and has monolids. I asked a employee to help me find my dad and she pointed out the first black man she saw lol her face when my dad came to the register still cracks me up to this day.

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

What did she think you looked like? Just black?

[@cutienerdgirl]

The interviewer is *SO WEIRD AND HYPOCRITICAL.* He said that he watched the Bachelorette and expected that Black bachelorette to end up with a "Black King" and felt disappointed that she didn't, but had no problem with a Black man marrying a White woman. Like he listened to that White woman's speech about "stealing a Black man", but barely listen to what the other couple had to say.🙄 People can date and marry whatever race they want.

[@imanigordon6803]

I was like bro you spoke out of two sides of your mouth 😂

[@davidhughmiller]

He sounds clearly like a Racist to me!

[@dirtdiv3r]

@@davidhughmiller Yeah, I mean just the terminology of 'Black Queen' and 'Black King' are based in black supremacy. I mean, if every black person is a queen and a king, who are their subjects? Who do they rule over? It's a detrimental mindset stemming from racism. Also, they love capitalizing 'Black' and writing 'white' in lowercase... this is also an attempt to make black seem more important than white instead of equal. Black supremacist ideals.

[@Annie-gq8df]

@@dirtdiv3r Queen and king is used to lift people up. Nothing to do with being superior over others. We do this with other races too. Don’t get mad at just black people

[@ShayLikeButter]

@@dirtdiv3r That's NOT the point being made here. 1st of all, we started using that term to uplift each other and remind each other that we WERE kings and queens and our lineage didn't start with slavery (despite what they love to teach in schools/media). 2nd, we kept the term to remind young people of their power, because our features are always considered less attractive to other races and the media loves to be one sided. Portraying us as mean, aggressive, insensitive, hard to deal with.... and that's the WOMEN. So if they wouldn't uplift us, we decided to uplift each other, the best we could. A simple Google search would tell you why we're doing it, yet you're talking about "who are our subjects"....🙄 Seriously? Black is only capitalized at the beginning of a sentence (like this), or when referring to African-American (just like French, Chinese, Indian are capitalized). They teach this in grammar school, but nice try. Youre determined to find things to complain about. Please go educate yourself. It's 2021.

[@jamalclark6208]

I hate the phrases “queen” and “strong black man” it’s just doing too much

[@bigdirtyfo5658]

Intelligence and rational thoughts are strong qualities. Youre limiting yourself by thinking strong only means muscle. The word strong has a broad range. On top of that, why cant black men be physically and mentally strong?

[@xitcix8360]

Why do they feel the need to call minorities "strong"? Like it's literally a stereotype that black men are stronger than white men, why is the fact that he's strong so significant? And why do you even need to be strong? Because in most cases people who call themselves or others strong are incredibly fragile.

[@Onelovekeepcalm]

King and Queen is Cringe!!! I always cringe when people say that

[@sweettea3879]

I cringe everytime someone says it unironically.

[@TheBanditoLad]

@@xitcix8360 Google worlds strongest men competition and look at the dominant ethnicity, it ain’t black. The only people who fall for those stereotypes are the ones that live in sheltered bubbles that haven’t got a lot of life experience and let social media influence their views.

[@beautifulbird]

“I’m taking a strong black man.” Taking??? Sounds like a fetish to me.🙄

[@maybrezzy]

Right??? We (I’m a black woman) don’t own black men and neither does she, he’s not an object to take

[@teresam5199]

And "taking" from BW. Gurl.plz, he don't belong to nobody ...lmao

[@MsJoyce31202]

False guilt like taking an extra slice of pizza is what people feel sometimes. It's wrong but that's their feelings. If you wanted him then you wanted him or her. Who knows why you want the people you choose?

[@debangxin6539]

@Mony Mon shit😂

[@AnonYmous-xt2xr]

I’m pretty sure his women are not noticing he’s gone.

[@jean-francoisduval1907]

I lived in Senegal for a couple years when i was a teen and when i came back in my country, i used to be attracted by black women so i dated a lot of them even if they were a minority. I can confirm it as a white guy, a lot of black guys are really pissed and feel threatened when a black girl decide to date a white guy even if they are dating a white girl themselves.Most of the time their fathers and brothers were freaking out...I never really understood the reason behind that but it really seem like a machismo complex with a lot of black males.

[@UnitedPacci]

that's quite funny since its white men who say "once you go black we dont wang you back". Projecting your own behaviors to others.

[@jean-francoisduval1907]

@@UnitedPacci I'm just telling my lived experience here and confirming a behavior that seem common. About what white men say about you, i have no fucking ideas...I'm from Montreal, a french quebecer, i'm not american and i'm impervious to all that racial tension bullshit.

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

It has nothing to do with black males, that’s not the right conclusion. ALL males are protective of their women, why do you think black men were killed for hundreds of years over false assertions of rxpe by white women? A black guy got killed in China a few years ago for dating a Chinese girl. Men are naturally protective of their women, do not make it a black thing

[@D_Thang]

🧢

[@sixk8333]

@@D_Thang shut up

[@samahj8567]

Rachel’s man barely spoke. This interviewer is bias.

[@sweetwonkahallelujah7016]

We already know why she is wit the W dude...HE IS HER ZADDY SAVIOR

[@EcoMouseChannel]

No, the interviewer exposed his racism.

[@user-lu4xp7iv8c]

@@sweetwonkahallelujah7016 lmao I love how you fail to talk about the black man dating a white woman

[@user-lu4xp7iv8c]

Exactly

[@DoDaDaDaDaCaDa]

@@sweetwonkahallelujah7016 You was a white colonel in your past life and haven't learnt a thing. I'll pray for you bru

[@michealcampbell7038]

As a white man whose been with a beautiful black woman since high school, this video did nothing but piss me off

[@Thekingkhari]

It should

[@naijaboygangsta]

It should my friend. Shows the hipocrisy we live in

[@streetside2833]

Why?

[@michealcampbell7038]

@@streetside2833 the entire video is regressive as hell. One, they completely ignore the white dude, and the ONLY thing the interviewer asked the black woman is do u feel bad for picking the white dude. The ENTIRETY of the rest of the video is simping to the other couple like they have it so so so hard. This "double standard" that everyone keeps pointing out definitely exists. Do you know how many times ive been to walmart and had some black dude come at my wife bc she has a baby with this white dude. Meanwhile, from my personal experience, the only thing ive gotten from white people is a few sideways looks, and MAYBE been asked abt it once. But the difference is the white people are always older, born in a different time, and typically more confused or maybe curious than angry or bitter. However weve had POC literally our age try n tell us how we are wrong for this that and the third.

[@chrisvs1893]

@@michealcampbell7038 Don’t let other people’s opinions affect you dude. Seems you have a happy, loving family. Let them be jealous.

[@greatscott7003]

“Well friend. Mind your own business.” 😂

[@BattleBladeWarrior]

THat was great!

[@beekeeper2036]

That's our response to any jerk that feels compelled to comment on our relationship...mind ya business,friend, nothing over here concerns you.

[@rubybrown1676]

That's why he wasn't asking her no more questions😂

[@BattleBladeWarrior]

​@@beekeeper2036 And thats the way it should be. The only time I think anyone should say something is if someone in the relationship is being used and abused, (I.E, in an abusive relationship, being taken advantage of, etc) Then yea, by all means say, you need to leave him/her, and here's why, cuz we all deserve happiness especially those we care about. But to feel like you have the right to shame someone for having a relationship where they are happy, their needs are met, etc, all because they're with someone who may look different, have different views, etc, that is petty. And I'm sorry, but that host needed to check himself. You can't stand for acceptance and equality with other races, and then shun those from the black community who are in a relationship with someone from another race. Its mind boggling, like that is the very embodiement of someone from another race saying "I accept you, I love you, you're more then just a shade of skin" and yet somehow thats a bad thing? So shortsighted. . .

[@XIStEw13IX]

The moment he told the black woman he felt "some kind of way" for choosing a white guy, I knew which why this was going.

[@funkinelle247]

That first question he asked, was one of the most self-entitled things I've ever heard.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

That was such a chauvinistic thing to ask... As if you're entitled to people just because they share the same race with you.

[@the-based-jew6872]

@shaynah kowitz no, it's a tribal thing. He is mad at the opposing tribe the wm with his bw (as he sees it).

[@carmel2r]

I get his point of view when he said he hoped she would have picked a black man. The current bachelor is a black man and as a black woman, I also hope to see him pick a black woman but thats much less likely to happen. (I'm not actively watching this season though so I don't know anything thats going on) This feeling stems from the fact that we like to see examples of black love on television.

[@wonderingmind8547]

@@carmel2r He is biracial and his mother is white. He just has dark skin, so I wouldn't expect anything from him. He already said he doesn't want to be pressured to choose a "certain kind of woman".

[@markstriker925]

Yea fr. Bro, u don't own her

[@mcpp501]

I am Latino and I am currently dating a black woman. I've gotten looks from black men that do not respect our relationship to the point where they try to flirt with her. I also notice Latin women that look at my partner in a manner that is not polite. Like if they were thinking ",why is he with her and not with one of US." Yeah racism is shit. Being in a relationship with someone who is not your skin color has its ups and down.

[@ichoosemysanity6467]

It sounds about right. Well I am always single but most couples are same racial and most IR are WM/AW and BM/WW. Whoever you don't as long as they make you happy who gives a flying fxxk?? Coming from someone whose perpetually single.

[@chattingman8546]

@@ichoosemysanity6467 it doesn't work like that with black people and white people in America. How can u procreate with an oppressor ur seen as a house n word or a mama until the issue is resolved it extremely frowned upon by both races.

[@ichoosemysanity6467]

@@chattingman8546 Ok but at the end of the day every body can't find someone from their own race who loves them. A lot of people my age 27 already got kid(s) or taken so yep. And don't you think every human has tried to date someone from their own race?

[@Jay_490]

went to dinner with my gay white blonde guy friend who appears straight and I literally had black guys come up to me and ask why are you with him and I shouldn't be dating him. I was shocked because I wasn't dating him so I didn't prepare myself for that type of reality. I was caught off guard and shocked.

[@ichoosemysanity6467]

@@Jay_490 If any black person is with any non black person people assume they're a couple.

[@slickreeeck7514]

“Nun yah business”. Should be the average response to this question.

[@austins.1102]

🎵“That’s none of my business, that’s none of my business”🎵-Mr. Hotshot

[@thadonjuan2339]

Exactly

[@haraldisdead]

I swear, the comments sections on this channel are the most wholesome on KZbin.

[@JadetheGoober]

Ive noticed this too. You gotta have a certain level of intellect to follow along with their videos, so i guess that weeds out the trolls

[@AmaryllisTV]

"Rachel picked a guy who is seemingly white". Correction: Rachel picked a guy who has great qualities and whose values aligned with her own. She chose character over colour. Therefore, she made a good choice for herself.

[@seattlewashington8998]

FOH lol... U goofy just like a flat foot Texas girl

[@zitamalaykhan5711]

And some time you make bad choices by choosing what you thought was character. As a Black women its unnerving to hear how so many Black women is praising white men as if they are a upgrade. They are blessed in a culture that took from others is what give the illusion of qualities and standards. It's kind of annoying, and the crazy part yall have no clue the bs that goes down in IR relationships. Maybe if yall heal yallselves and yall children yall can have a preserved future. And by the way that's reality TV, that ish ain't even real, but the matrix is.

[@joshmoore850]

I agree Color shouldn't matter as much but more times than not when a Black Man Dates a White woman People always assume it was a fetish or Racial Preference when oftentimes it's actually not ( Though at times it is). Yet Black Women who date out get worshipped because they "Upgraded" They always portray it as Real love all the time and Act like some of the White men that date them don't have a fetish. Every Race/Gender does this but Black Men get Crucified for doing so.

[@frankwil21]

And now they live seperately lol

[@audreymai2773]

I have watched the most beautiful relationship blossom. My son has known this girl since they were 6 and 7 yrs old. They have been the very best friends and then at the age of 16 and 17 their feelings started to change. They are 18 and 19 now and madly in love. They havent seen each other in a year because of the pandemic, but they talk every day via face time. My son is white and she is black, but it is something they themselves dont even think about, because it doesn't matter. They love each other for who they are, not what they look like.

[@gotwolf3863]

I like how he ignores the white dude The whole time and doesn’t ask him anything, dudes butthurt AF.

[@Heevvyy]

Right he’s insecure af and giving kinda deep questions to the white girl black men couple and giving you betrayed and hurt me attitude to the black woman white guy couple

[@bronichiwa984]

Ironically this is how Asian men feel among the whole Asian/White mixing, when that type of dating outside your race happens overwhelmingly with Asian Women/White Men. Everyone celebrates it as some multi-cultural victory... It's the most often used couplings used in advertisements. You rare see an Asian Man/White Woman coupling on product advertising. Cringe.

[@teresam5199]

@@bronichiwa984 Interesting. Any insight as to why almost half (according to stats in U.S.) marry WM rather than AM?

[@MsJoyce31202]

🤭

[@hardybryan]

As a white man married to a beautiful black woman, I hope he feels some kind of way about us too. Clown.

[@iifguo8531]

Same…First black girl I ever dated I ended up marrying. Her race had nothing to do with it. We just love each other. Just that simple

[@rockysalvatore435]

He's a beta bruh. Don't mind em losers

[@Blackbirdinthedeadofnight]

Lol

[@zl1gee]

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@frontdesksomervilleparc804]

lol love the comment

[@MachineGunKali]

“I took a strong black man from them.” Then they broke up. 😂😂😂😂

[@blvalverde]

She gave him back

[@oz_jones]

@@blvalverde sho she loaned a black man?

[@blvalverde]

@Osmosis Jones maybe she loaned or rented, but with this took talk... Maybe she stole and then felt bad?

[@theezenriarinze9203]

Why did he even have the bw and her man there if all the questions were geared towards PK and Von??????

[@Losdayeti4]

Because Emmanuel Acho is a joke

[@theman9048]

That was a clip from the show not the entire show.

[@KatieNicolexx]

@@theman9048 sadly I watched the entire show they did and they mainly had questions toward pk. Not to mention he almost completely ignored the white guy. (sorry I forgot his name)

[@finallyanaccount]

@Creative Innovative This is really sad.

[@jennyma.1699]

The whole interview was very black man centered.

[@charlieswimbait707]

You feeling “some type of way” about the color of the person I date sounds like a “YOU problem.”

[@mentalalchemy4819]

I was just gonna comment this. That says way more about the person bothered than it does about anyone out here following their heart.

[@trapkingproductions]

But you’re putting it on TV for the whole world to form opinions on. I don’t get why people get shocked when people start saying their opinions. It’s literally what shows like that are made for. I would get it if this was some normal couple seemingly off the streets. But they signed up for this lmaoo.

[@bridgetbrownvargus]

@@trapkingproductions see thing is thats creepy that u feel entitled to see a black women be with a black man

[@bobshenix]

I agree but we need people to be honest about how they feel. Making people censor themselves might be satisfying in some ways but it doesn't help in the long term IMO

[@silentbobbeartankesquire4001]

@@bobshenix don’t get me wrong I don’t believe in censorship at all, but how far is your statement going? Is it only ok to express some type of way because a black man/woman dated outside their race or is it equally ok for someone to expressly say they as a person of another race (white for the sake of argument) would NOT date a black person?

[@hunterkiller1440]

That reminds me of those white guys on 4chan who fetishizes Asian girls while complaining about Asian guys with white girls.

[@wellthatgotweird]

This!

[@jebes909090]

Who would complain about asian guys and white girls? Its so rare its like seeing a unicorn.

[@jebes909090]

@@Mr-my8kx more like welcome to the internet where small groups of people act like everyone thinks like them.

[@chanelghostin6060]

@@jebes909090 white girls who like kpop n anime or whatever love dating asian guys to fulfill their kpop fantasies 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@jebes909090]

@@chanelghostin6060 thats exactly what happened to my neice 🤣

[@jlupus8804]

It’s actually hilarious how this video is an example of why the interracial couples that fail the most are bm/ww while the ones that succeed the most are bw/wm. Now we know why.

[@raunchyfigzlewis9025]

BW act differently in interracial relationships

[@jlupus8804]

@@raunchyfigzlewis9025 I am very curious about the details of that

[@raunchyfigzlewis9025]

@@jlupus8804 they are more agreeable in IR

[@jlupus8804]

@@raunchyfigzlewis9025 interesting. any idea why?

[@huldah1605]

@@raunchyfigzlewis9025 Ok let's say black women do act different why is that?

[@cainsalim4802]

I love how when a black guy dates a white girl is all "let's fucking go you get that chick" Then a black girl dates a white guy and "you really did that?" Like why?

[@Goldenxbih]

Idk what it is with black men..

[@cainsalim4802]

@@Goldenxbih I just don't get this fixation on race for people. Just love someone for who they are not there looks.

[@Manic_Panic]

When I used to leave school, a friend of mine who was a black girl always wanted me to take her to the bus stop almost every day and I agreed because we liked each other's company. One time, I guess we looked close because noticed I got strange looks from some black dudes along the way. It looked pretty obvious that they didn't like what they were seeing. I wonder if she ever noticed that.

[@Goldenxbih]

@@cainsalim4802 It’s not as easy as that.. idk if you’re black but we have a big history with black men interracial dating and the slander of black Women.

[@Goldenxbih]

@@Manic_Panic I’m sure she probably does notice it sadly.

[@brittneypine6628]

She didn’t steal a strong black man from us, definitely not from me 🤣

[@jrjoseph9213]

Tell them!!!!!

[@Minsi40]

"I took a strong Black man from them." Did anyone notice her theft? Just asking...

[@wiseonwords]

LOL! I guess that's why she gave him up! LOL!

[@dorianquinn6633]

She gave him tf back it’s not theft it’s borrowing without permission 🤪🤣

[@sashakimi31]

Not even

[@Minsi40]

Wow, lol. I didn't know he was returned, lol.

[@wiseonwords]

@@Minsi40 - To me, that comment by Lindsey Vonn just underlines how truly shallow and stupid she is! "Returning" him when the going got tough is about what I'd expect from such a shallow twit.

[@hannahhelton3789]

It’s like saying only a black man knows how to truly love and appreciate a black woman. Which is so so screwed up. But he’s unbothered by the white woman being with a black man. And she said some ignorant things. Bottom line, it sounds like, it really doesn’t matter what a woman does or says. To him at least.

[@nataliesparks4829]

They did not even interact well with the white guy?, .....like he's just sitting there

[@ggslife5482]

Bcs they hurt

[@CrowJam]

his girlfriend pretty much covered anything that needed to be said in first sentences

[@kilimanjaro5537]

Yes, I’ve come to recognize how interracial couples between ww/bm don’t seem to mingle with bw/wm couples. I’ve often wondered why considering both are involved with partners of the same race 🤔. ☕️

[@SuperMissRain]

@@kilimanjaro5537 I’ve noticed the relationship between bw/wm is more about love and genuine, healthy relationships. When more often than not bm/ww there’s always an underlying sexual energy that’s not healthy.

[@dinchakno]

As a black woman in an interracial marriage that my own father refuses to acknowledge even though he’s on his second interracial marriage....I can say based on his behavior and what he told me as a teenager.... The double standard is about conquering the women of your oppressor as a way to get revenge. And since that mentality is present in some black men dating white women, it’s reflected in their fear that the white man is still “conquering” them by dating black women.

[@robertcortez3526]

There is no double standard. Both sides do it. Especially women.

[@missme9650]

@@robertcortez3526 especially what women??? Black men date out more than black women.

[@robertcortez3526]

@@missme9650 BM date out more. BW f*ck out more and then act like it didn't happen.

[@missme9650]

@@robertcortez3526 do you have any proof of that???

[@robertcortez3526]

@@missme9650 The sneaky way you go about things. You do realize it's not a secret right?

[@iTzOddbaLLKING]

Martin Luther King didn’t die for this shit

[@Sybilgause]

Nor did Malcolm X 🤣🤣🤣

[@simplykula8475]

💀💀💀😂😂😂

[@zukoher]

Dr. King didn't die. He was murdered by a white man.

[@iTzOddbaLLKING]

@@zukoher but did he still dieded tho

[@CliteTMSUBSCRIBE]

@@zukoher uh... He still died tho.

[@miketacos9034]

Can’t believe this interviewer arranged this whole thing just to blame a Bachelorette for not getting with him, a nobody. lmao

[@Spartucus101]

When I joined the Army I married a women of color and had a son. for the better part of 2 months, no one at my first assignment, had met my wife. When the fist "family day" came. She pulled up and my son ran up to me and jumped into my arms, she walked up and smooched me. My section leader, a very overtly "proud black man" was pissed. Yelled at me, "You never told me your wife was BLACK!!" I simply replied, "You never asked." and walked off. I'm not a vengeful person typically. But the look of shame and self reflection on many of the black guys faces was smugly enjoyable. After all this was in 1999, and me an her where from a small town in the Midwest, so we'd taken heaps of shit just for dating, from both black and white people. "Casue' fuck em'" was our constant mantra whenever someone tried to educate us.

[@walterjones3971]

Fisters are the worst sometimes

[@champ1ontryymegaming304]

Correction: "educated"....in quotes, because...well, you know.

[@TMBALAND319]

Keep doin’ you, bro

[@sorchx]

It's so weird that people don't see that they're doing the exact same thing they're trying to move away from. Dictating who should be together based on skin color. So strange.

[@TheOriginal_Unaleska]

My partner is half (not black and white, as it doesn't matter what half he is, because it still relates to how people just don't like interracial couples), his parents experienced the same thing when they dated. They were given looks and spat on, because they were not of the same race. (recently watched a segment on the Fresh Prince of Bel'air, when Will's aunt brought home her fiancé whom was a white man. Everyone was in shock, and specifically, Will's mother said she will not go to a wedding where her sister is marrying a white man.) Nothing pisses me off more than seeing people have such adversary towards interracial couples. It actually makes me happy to see interracial couples, because it shows that they fell deeply in love despite the boundaries placed on them, despite families disowning them, despite a lot of factors that come with being an interracial couple, and they can look past any prejudices that come with having a different skin colour, that they also came together despite their different cultures and upbringings. Like in Africa, apparently you will not see interracial couples, even today, it just doesn't happen, only IF its a foreigner, like European or something, but you will never see a white African and a black African dating. My mother even had a co-worker who was African and when she moved to Australia, she could not believe the amount of interracial couples she was seeing, because it just doesn't happen in Africa. This makes me feel like segregation based on race is still very alive and well in todays society.

[@td605]

Lindsay: I'm taking a strong black man away from them Black Women: Apparently he wasn't strong enough. She can have him.

[@ShaeNik]

WORD!! 💯👏🏽👏🏽 I cringed when she said that. Like honey, you've neva taken a thing or being from me! And from the sound of him, I'm sure other black women are totally fine with his decision! Yuck.

[@ichoosemysanity6467]

@@ShaeNik 😂

[@goldennugget6054]

😂😂😂 facts

[@papanotdaddy1012]

Same things with the black girl nigga don't care about who you dating stop pretending that we really cares

[@anna-wt2tz]

lmfao while I was watching this i was like, BABY I DONT WANT HIM lmaoo he's all yours 😩 girl go away.

[@michelle-leebell8373]

You know , I think the issue that most black women have is the fact that black men not only date outside the race but also find it important even essential to put black women down in the process. There is more often than not some disrespect. I think everyone should date who they love but with whomever you date you shouldn't have to put someone down to appreciate someone else

[@mjfedup6853]

Right! Date who you want to date, but why go out of your way to put down the opposite gender of your race???? What is the point? Are you dating out to find love or are you dating out out of anger?

[@imanigordon6803]

Literally their are black men that legit don’t put down black women at all and black women somehow still have something to say for example Michael B Jordan, but I also get where you coming from.

[@mikasjewels5772]

@@imanigordon6803 Michael B. Jordan does have a history of flaunting his snow bunnies and actively not dating black women which is why his relationship with Lori is speculated as a stunt.

[@triplemoyagames4195]

This is a west issue tbh. however in the west whatchu mean? BM aren't putting BW down, it's been the other way around for years. Most BM want to date in their race, the issue is with a lot of BW;s attitude and such. For example 80% of BW are overweight in the states. How is that desirable? There is the exception always and yes you should date who you vibe with. If you vibe you vibe, that's what matters

[@natasharules770]

@@triplemoyagames4195 ...and you proved the point.

[@bangem1988]

“What can I do to be accepted by more ----?” When I first stopped being a scared bitch and started dating the women I was actually interested in this was also my first question. 15 years later I found the answer is simple, your acceptance is not required. Love who you love and if they don’t like it fuck em.

[@sunshinegirl563]

Honestly the BM/ww couple just seemed so tense. They hand clasping hanging on for dear life. The other couples body language was so relaxed

[@coolcat6341]

She left him,,, 😂😂✌️

[@sunshinegirl563]

@@coolcat6341 as she should have

[@DanielleAshlyn]

Lol it reminds me of when Normani was on dancing with the Stars with Val and she was so cool, calm & collected they both were always minding their business but the black man that got put with a white woman he would always mean mug them and he would always grab and hold on to that white girl for dear life for no reason whenever they were on camera it was so cringy

[@coolcat6341]

@@DanielleAshlyn ugh dear God the desperation

[@s619baby2]

@@sunshinegirl563 why should she have left him

[@1OnlyGot7]

Why does the color of his skin matter? You should love him for who he is

[@skimpanana9499]

it should be that way but its not that simple 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@ree2453]

Fetish for something "foreign", not individual

[@GoldenBoyDims]

In a naive view of the world this would be true

[@wks6034]

Black men often are seen as status symbol, arm candy.

[@Napalmdog]

Culture does that to humans.

[@zachjennings5320]

That video was trying to be deep but failed miserably. Also super weird how they weren't letting the white guy talk

[@bufoot19]

his privilege spoke for him...nothing more needed to be said

[@Superbatmanbro]

Yeah each community has a Colorist situation

[@SilverMoon459]

The worst thing about the video trying to be deep was the music and the tone of the guy who asked questions at the end. "LOOK AT ME IM SO DEEP I MOVE YOUR VERY SOULLLL". ugh

[@bUwUmer1260]

@@bufoot19 Yeah man. White men are to be seen and not heard. Right?

[@paigelovette8156]

@@bufoot19 Then why have him there?

[@destinecassady5576]

This happens a lot with interracial couples. I'm white my bf is Hispanic and we live in a Hispanic area and so many women have something to say. Little do they know I know what they are saying. 🙄

[@markaym3735]

The white woman sounds depressed. He’s happy, she sounds like she’s miserable...”she wanted to give that “strong black man” back. And she eventually did.

[@dlilwon]

😂

[@GabrielleTollerson]

LOL 😂

[@melanatedintelligence6977]

😂wait they not together anymore ?

[@Ascension1004]

@@melanatedintelligence6977 no. They broke up a few months ago.

[@tobib7143]

The old heiffa was just trying so hard to make it seem like black women have to try and compete with her in order for her to not seduce the “black kings” she’s “taking” from them. She’s singing her damn praises subtly by making herself appear “depressed”. Lowkey a sociopath tbh.

[@problactive285]

A STRONG Black Man cannot be stolen. But a broken buck or a simp can.

[@shar1202]

Omg 😆

[@michaelbishop3439]

Shhhhhiiiiiiiiid you sir never lied.

[@coolcat6341]

She left him... Look at her body language her feet are directed away from him

[@shar1202]

@@coolcat6341 I love how you see how the subconscious mind works. Her hand was over his as well. So she is the dominate one in the relationship.

[@wherezmemallet4879]

Nobody can be stolen everybody has free will it’s on them who they choose to be with.

[@dustfreequeen5151]

"Stole a black man"? That's what the slave owners did!🙄 Make better choices people!

[@briannajohnson85]

🤣

[@misselle1430]

The bm is so proud hearing that lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@jonathanandrada1807]

😂😂 funniest comment here so far....yall help A REAL BLACK WOMAN get 10 billion likes 👍👍👍

[@asmranonymousgaming901]

This!

[@thecensoredmuscle563]

Some stole, others bought. The question is, did she steal or buy him? Lol

[@posajnejkwahb]

His "I feel some type of way about that" is basically "I'm not racist, but..."

[@RochellB46]

Never understood why black men and women always had to be described as STRONG like no one says she’s was a Strong white woman/man 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@amilliontubes123]

I am just guessing but word on safety the term strong black Woman/man may have evolved within American society dating back to the period of African enslavement during the colonial era. During this time they were auctioned off and the auctioneer perhaps was very descriptive of the people to get a higher price. Of course the stronger males or females (25-35) would go for a much higher price then say a young slim teen male or female (13-19) idk 🤷🏿‍♂️ ijs

[@RochellB46]

@@amilliontubes123 oh shit 😮 that was deep 😂👏🏽

[@Bignawright]

@@amilliontubes123 hope she learned something. I hate ignorant people.

[@RochellB46]

@Michael C 😂😂😂😂 I’m proud of you for being a strong white man

[@sohniya7681]

@@RochellB46 what’s funny about slavery airhead?

[@chetthomas9995]

My wife is black and we get lots of white people come up to us supportively calling us a cute couple. The only negative or hatful comments we have ever gotten is from young black men!!

[@random_meta]

@Andre MATTHEWS You good man?

[@sbss924]

Them White women are mad-maybe it's because you are more familiar with their language, "sarcasm" the passive-aggressive negative or hateful language of White women/folks. Maybe you have heard it so much in your life that their hate or negative comments roll from your back. idk. But I think you are in denial.

[@maineman5757]

What's the worst thing a black man has ever said to you?

[@omzy8700]

@@maineman5757 he is probably lying lol

[@theeyesbutterfly6089]

Oh is there whether you see it or not trust and this isn’t coming from someone who takes an issue with your situation no not at all I am a product of mixing I have a very diverse ethnic background but do not think for a second that they are not thinking about how you having a kid with her or children with her is not going to better their chances of survival look at the statistics you guys die at a higher rate and your women aren’t able to reproduce at a steady rate. If anyone takes issue with what I said please look it up do not @ me. With your emotions, I work in the medical field this is no hate

[@SIMJM27]

Am I the only one noticing that he’s asking all the questions to one couple lol

[@MeMe-ht2hd]

😁 No. I noticed too. It is a bias interview, for sure.

[@Bowraga]

I'm a white dude married to a black woman and for me it was pretty frustrating how they just focused on the one couple way more than the other. My wife has told me several times about how the double standard exists for men and women with regards to dating out of their race and it's sad to see they didn't even try to explore that.

[@paserock4361]

"I STOLE A STRONG BLACK MAN FROM THEM." She just exposed her own fetish.

[@Noemieorokia]

She might not even know she fetishes him.

[@paserock4361]

@@Noemieorokia 👀 bitch please!

[@kennethsinger561]

YESSS!!!! LMAO! GLAD YOU SAW IT TOO! 😂😂😂😂

[@godlovescouture8605]

You know they broke up

[@Noemieorokia]

@@paserock4361 I assure you it’s possible she might not even know she has a fetish. As much as it’s difficult for people to know when they are being fetishised.

[@gwynnethmceachrane3819]

I was done with the interview the moment the Emmanuel said that he felt some type of way when Rachel chose a white man.... Black men date interracially - perhaps more than black women. I'm tired of the hypocrisy.

[@SP-td9xj]

Not to mention it's disgusting, who cares who she wants to date, sounds no different than some hillbilly back in the day being upset that his daughter was dating a black man, and that dude has the audacity to call himself a thought leader who brings people to the table and has discussions, hes a racist and a bum

[@TMA2NC]

I wanted to hear him fully express what he felt instead of “not betrayed but I felt some type of way”. That was not meaningful at all. It was a missed opportunity for him to clearly identify and examine his feelings and way of thinking.

[@SP-td9xj]

@@TMA2NC problem is he shouldnt be bothered at all, who someone dates is none of our business, especially with something as trivial as skin color

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

@@SP-td9xj and that is a two way streer

[@jocelyn2953]

It is so insane isn't it?? Black men date out more than we do but still get mad when we date out?? I remember once I was on a walk with a male friend who is white. Let me tell you the staring and side eyeing I received by black men was so much. You'd think I did something to them personally.

[@tiffanyp7670]

I'm in an interracial marriage and my problem is people assuming I hate black men or have some kind of "self hate" because of it. I've dated almost every race out there, I just happened to marry a white man, but it had nothing to do with the color of his skin. People put too much importance on the physical attributes of others. I've seen my friends stay with men who absolutely disrespected them at every turn because they "looked good"🤦🏽‍♀️

[@TiaNichole17]

Tiffany as a black woman I agree with you. The biggest problem in our community is we accept black men dating outside the race and call it “preference” and because they are so open of their distain for black women, the assume black women have the same distain. Im happy your with a man that appreciates you and loves you.

[@niwreyentihw1496]

Now that's cringe.

[@mustbeheard9834]

Me too sis! The black men I dated didn't treat me like they should. My husband was a friend, and it just developed slowly. I began to see his good qualities, and what his lifestyle offered me. I took the plunge and we have been happily married 9 years now!!

[@SweetTooth8989]

I totally agree. This perverse infatuation with race is unhealthy. I've dated pretty much every race as well. Race is irrelevant to me. The fact there is still a certain stigma around interracial couples is not good, but it is slowly going away. I've had very meaningful relationships with all races. Just date who you are attracted to and screw the people that have issues with it, at the end of the day that is their problem not yours.

[@readyroc7845]

@@mustbeheard9834 the difference between your statement and the initial comment is that she didn’t have to speak negatively on the black men she’s dated, because if she did it would be counterproductive to her point about colorism. However enjoy your plunge without disparaging an entire group of people because I guarantee you haven’t dated them all.

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

He would never have said “well let’s talk about how a white man can love a black woman the best” never! This is annoyed me on so many levels

[@shaniquequaeakin564]

When she said she was taking a strong black man away was cringe. Hunny, he's one man. We'll be fine.

[@Mvrko.J]

Thank you 😂at least you said he’s still one 😂most of the top comments the sisters taking niggas whole black card.

[@lprice2353]

A man she put in a bikini and calling him strong. lol

[@DTreatz]

Not by the numbers you wont 🤣🤣 That data from Kevin Samuels hits different

[@huldah1605]

@@DTreatz Looking at statistics it's not looking good for anyone

[@AsharntayKingston]

😂😂😂😂

[@godisgreat982]

I like how Rachael is unbothered 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nishisalott1839]

I feel like this clip was not a real conversation, because not everyone had the chance to speak.

[@GOREFEAST]

"Well friend..." Damned. Dude got friendzoned faster than speed of light..

[@PragmaticProminence]

Did he beat tho

[@daxtonlyon]

Did the white guy ever get to say a word during this "interview?"

[@elle.roiproductions]

He did. He talked about how he’s been educating himself on Blackness in America because he wants to be able to understand and support her more

[@daxtonlyon]

@@elle.roiproductions Must of literally been all they allowed him to say, verbatim. How long was the video? Wouldn't an expression of equality, for the sake of "unity" be to let each participant speak relatively equally, and among each other? They spent way too much time talking to the white girl about being with the black man than was appropriate, IMO. Cut the dumb music, limit the engagements of the host, and que in the meaningful discussions from the group!

[@elle.roiproductions]

@@daxtonlyon agreed. I think it was about 13 minutes and yeah that's all he said pretty much. The "host" barely talked to him. This guy channel in general is trash. It's a bunch of "uncomfortable" conversations videos but the only thing uncomfortable is his ability to do a proper interview.

[@fudgesickle352]

Nope!!!!

[@Misbehavedcollection]

Hes a Colombian

[@Pr0digy47]

Y’all notice the white guy didn’t say a single word lol

[@yeniheriyani6640]

dude afraid gonna get canceled by whole twitter lmao

[@blackmoor40k]

White guys know that they only get in trouble when they say anything about race.

[@terynb4407]

Cause white people can't be honest without others thinking they are racist. Like I wouldn't even blame him if he did because he basically just insulted his marriage and his wife because shes not with a black man

[@vinciroth]

Hes not allowed to

[@ScottieDPOYY]

@@blackmoor40k yet the person who isnt speaking gets all the fingers pointed at them as if they are the racist. Ive been called a racist for many years now. As a white person i hear im racist daily after all

[@achinthmurali5207]

I’m glad someone is calling out these uncomfortable conversations. They have their good moments, but also their cringe. It’s nice to see nuance.

[@urbanfrugalfranny5172]

That's the point, people 'cringe' when they're uncomfortable! What those conversations are, are honest.

[@letshawdesee]

I see your like Of India characteristics, I've noticed A Lot Of Indian men trying to talk to me and I'm a Bkack woman. How do u guys view Black women?

[@80beanz]

@@letshawdesee so you're asking one man's opinion as if he represents all his people😅

[@letshawdesee]

@@80beanz it's just a statistic Lol u tryna be smart like Hes the only one I've asked ?😆 Mind ya business if U one then answer if u want.

[@achinthmurali5207]

@@letshawdesee Honestly, Indians, like all groups, vary by generation. But most Indians tend to respect people who respect education and tradition like we do. So if you're college educated, maybe in STEM, and you value your culture we will respect you. This is the reason why we respect, Jews, Nigerians, etc. If you don't, we may not respect you. Again, it depends.

[@robertrollins9068]

This was the last bit of racism that I consciously got rid of when I was young. People don't like the idea of losing options, but that's a very selfish way to look at it.

[@mdlizzy]

The music trying to manipulate the emotions of the viewer was so cringe.

[@meanieeheart4236]

DEADASS

[@amydickenson2597]

That Part

[@christinechance8263]

Yeaaaaaah

[@bp8300]

OMG PERIOD!

[@Jobe-13]

Interracial relationships isn’t the issue. Everyone can be in love with whoever they’re in love with. I think the real issue is that there are a lot of people doing it for the wrong reasons. E.g. personal insecurity/self-hatred, fetishization of mixed-race babies and/or the race of their partner, bitterness/hatred towards the opposite sex of their own race, etc.

[@the-based-jew6872]

@starving artist nice name lol.

[@beekeeper2036]

How would one know "a lot of people are doing it for the wrong reasons"?

[@MsElizaRae]

@@beekeeper2036 Honestly just talk them up on these topics (IR, Mixed children, etc.) People tell on themselves with ease lol

[@jhunsen1]

I'm not black. But as an Indian man, I have had indian girls tell me that they prefer to date white men because they look better, are taller, have bigger di$ks etc.. all while trashing the men of their own race. It was shit like that caused me to spiral into depression so I definitely agree that having preferences is natural, but you do NOT have to be an a-hole about them

[@sabrinastarks7868]

@@MsElizaRae They really do.... but in all fairness, people in general hop into relationships when they haven't even figured themselves out fully. It simply goes exponential when they go for "something new"

[@paigelovette8156]

Coming at Rachel all hard like she was the one that got away or some shit but had a completely different demeanor with ol dude and his girl.

[@MelaninBae90]

Typical

[@ZoraSearch]

The BW had ONLY dated Black men before her husband.

[@pascaleelliott63]

Whenever I see anyone who gets uncomfortable/frustrated/feeling"betrayed" when they see someone of the same ethnicity or skin colour as them, in a relationship with someone outside of their ethnicity or skin colour, I just wanna ask them "Are you just racist?" or "How insecure are you?".

[@moonbaby6813]

I love how he only asked the black man if he's uncomfortable with the black women not being with black men. Like is it not racist and sexist to force only black women to only date black men without getting attacked socially.

[@Residentanimalz]

yeah Acho is a shithead

[@JohnSmith-pt4gv]

Think about it, black women being with white men has a weird feeling to it going back to slavery when it was a master vs servant type of relationship so it creates an u easy feeling for most black men.

[@JohnSmith-pt4gv]

*uneasy

[@Residentanimalz]

@@JohnSmith-pt4gv 200 years ago? lol its 2021 love who you love

[@eliselol85]

@@JohnSmith-pt4gv kind of the same with white women, given there were more white women who were slave masters. Alsp given that a llt of black men got lynched due to false accusations from white women... Slave master goes both ways- be hknest you just want fhe perks of race loyalty and divesting. Well thay security blanket is well and truly gone...

[@jongraves3097]

If this is the future conversation of humans with different skin tones then I'll just stay in lockdown lol................

[@celeste3100]

Amen

[@logoski589]

It's been my favorite year so far honestly.

[@quanzy121]

Lmmmmaaooooo .. my tummy hurts 😂🤣😂😄😃🤣🤣😂😂

[@paigelovette8156]

I'm with you

[@sandrallewellyn2632]

only thing is this isn't future, these conversations are OLD

[@beautebelle7243]

Strength does not equate to money. That is a not a "strong black man" he's a rich black man...big difference in mentality.

[@LiquidfirePUA]

Just curious what is a strong man for you then

[@she4136]

Indeed🙏🏽

[@lenorahummell1580]

When your mind is strong, then you have strength.

[@lenorahummell1580]

Reading the comments in here, replies etc. Can we all just admit, squabbling over people dating outside their race/culture is exactly what the elites and politicians want you to do. Make more laws, give them more power. United we stand, divided we fall. Don't give the 1% that much power. We all pretty much agree racism is horrible, the whole world has a horrific past, but let's focus on what we can change right now.

[@ItsLayla305]

As a black woman who dates white men, I will say I get a lot of flack and scrutiny from black people (black women included for those who think it’s only the men). Hell I get called all types of racial slurs by other black people for my choice in dating white men, it’s wild. I have dated other race of men outside of black as well but what I’ve notice is that black people are way more triggered by me dating a white man verses when I’ve dated an Asian or Hispanic man. Despite what others may say, feel or think about your healthy dating choices, I always encourage for people to never limit your dating pool because you never know what who may await you.💕

[@paulziiee]

“ I felt some type of way about it” i really hate how black men feel some type of way about black women dating out but its fine to love who you love when when a black man dates out, that’s the double standard I hate. My brother even told me not to date out despite making a family with a Filipino lady (who btw is really lovely), I found it super hypocritical.

[@ChrisAIO]

I’m pretty convinced it’s a guy. I’ve seen and talked with quite a few guys from all different races about it and it’s a common knee jerk reaction. Not saying it’s right and all of them tamped it down. Just a common thought

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

Thing is, is does he date out? If not, then he has a right to say that though to be honest, why care if that black woman chose a non black man? Plenty of other races of women for him to choose from.

[@jjhghaqacvcoomnm]

It's because the bw will reproduce with non black babies ( at least 100% ) women control a race population if all bw decided to date out what would happen to the black people in the near future?

[@paulziiee]

@@jjhghaqacvcoomnm so do bm who date out not produce non black babies too? Why is it the responsibility of bw only to preserve the black race, all you did was prove those double standards i was talking about

[@jjhghaqacvcoomnm]

@@paulziiee it only takes few bm to stay with the bw to preserve the race as a man can get multiple women pregnant at once, therefore 5 bm= 100 pregnant bw. But in my opinion I feel like bw are just jealous/copying bm in these swirling ways, we as black people need to stop hating on each other.

[@HeyoitsJay]

They didn’t even focus on the black womans experience tbh. I don’t think that was fair.

[@cousinkyle3153]

He was fasho bitter at the bachelorette couple

[@kikical6699]

@@cousinkyle3153 talking about I would think you'd pick a black king, then the rest of the vid is why the WW explaining why she picked a black king smh

[@dapras]

She Gucci there are scores of black women out here that want a white Zaddy. She good they have no problems...

[@kikical6699]

@@dapras except for we wouldn't know they have no problems because they didn't get to really speak. You'd think the other couple would have no problems considering how they spoke but oops 🤷🏽‍♀️ they divorced rn

[@MelaninBae90]

@@kikical6699 lol

[@kywii85]

The interview was a hot mess, the entire setup was trying to get Rachel to apologize for other black women actions and raising up BM/WW relationship. Brian said very little but when he spoke ot was elegant and to the point. Like why would you welcome adversities into your relationship...pk subban. Sounds ridiculous and she low key admits her family is racist.

[@blungalblorg]

Im white n shit and i got no issues with ppl dating outside they race but when ppl start talking down on they’re own race and or putting another race on a pedestal i have an issue because generalizations lead to nothing but ignorance 🤷‍♂️

[@justmyopiniontv9567]

She didn't steal him. Its a short sale.

[@ajq4389]

It’s a short give away

[@alexaculver1033]

I bet she got with the host

[@denisearmstrong1973]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@allthatsheiz]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nicholalewis8698]

Damn! Well said!

[@Cippy33]

This black dude states that he feels some type of way when he sees a black woman with a white man. Reminds me of the kkk interviews where they say we do not hate but every race should stay only with their race. Same shit

[@AnadroJ_TV]

Ding ding ding, we have a winner. The people who are like this dont even know what horseshoe theory is and don't understand they are the same as the Klan.

[@dialiann]

I've dated men of almost every race. The only differences were culture. It's easier for me to date people who are also "westernized" but I don't mind learning new things either. Men are men and women are women. People are overthinking things

[@EriPages]

Agreed.

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

Exaccccctly.

[@imlikett5293]

‼️

[@Sapphirezkillahitz13]

I agree

[@Halimah525]

So true!!

[@cptfarzkizz8823]

I feel for these two as I was in the same situation twice . Society is immature ,we seem to go more and more backwards year after year . Also ,that white girl definitely broke up with that poor guy because of ignorance and pressure.

[@CasualGGP]

I'm a black guy and us black guys can't get pressed about black women dating out and not keeping the same energy on our side

[@jaylaav1166]

Exactly.. some brother can be hypocritical 😭

[@johndoeiii6103]

Honestly i'm white and have dated black and native chicks and the men generally feel some type of way about it and are not shy at all about it. I've had random ass dudes try to step to my girl just acting like im straight not there. Almost gotten in fights at the bar and all that shit. Man i dont get it personally cause my cousin who's like my sister, her husbands black and her kids are black and i never was concerned about nothing besides if he was a good guy and a good father...and he is a great dude.

[@CasualGGP]

@@johndoeiii6103 it’s some form of hurt or pain id try not to take to take it too personal but it has more to do with those particular people in that situation being over protective when nobody asked. Obviously it’s not all of us but it’s enough of us that it ends up being this weird problem

[@johndoeiii6103]

@@CasualGGP Yeah it used to happen quite a bit. I'm sure white dudes have these feelings aswell, they just dont feel comfortable just saying it to a bm/wf couple.

[@joffre55]

@@johndoeiii6103 I have been with multiple black women aswel, as a white dude, and this shit happens on a weekly basis, I can keep things cool if it's a fling but when I'm really in love with someone of a long lasting relationship, I lose my cool when they start groping her in front of my nose. Cost me a lot of money already, even got my ass kicked multiple times. Not only that, everyone just seems to have an opinion on it. My fuse has gotten so short to the point it takes 0.2 sec for my fist to make contact with their temple, if they think they know hurt, I'll show them hurt.

[@missme9650]

“How can I love my black husband better” wtf that’s so cringe 😂😂😂 you love them the same you would love any other man that’s in a relationship with you.

[@markaym3735]

She realized that a fetish isn’t the same thing as love.

[@sungaze342]

🤣🤣

[@Strictlydibes1]

"I stole a strong black male from them", as if he's the last Black rhino, and we were counting on him to preserve our "species". Girl bye, homie will not be missed or mourned🤣🤣 PS- sorry to hear about the breakup, I hope it wasn't based on guilt 😬

[@alexaculver1033]

"Not sad extreme guilt, because she's still the person." I don't think she should have to be penalized for it! 🥲🤣🤣🤣🙃

[@lorebay2593]

Lessen your guilt hon, Probably stole one we would not want😄

[@gilbertwilliams7306]

what about PK choosing a white woman makes him "strong"?

[@bettysintheloop]

🤣🤣🤣

[@methatguy5996]

Hes not dead, maybe his next girlfriend will be black, or maybe she'll be asian, or maybe who cares?

[@1988Adorable]

Did anyone notice the the difference in comfort and happiness between the two couples?