ill save you the waste of time. pretty sure i already read this on reddit or something very similar. The TLDR is that the guy she slept with was not conventionally attractive at all, i think the OP said he was balding and out of shape. Standard divorce stuff happened after and OP said something along the lines of she downgraded hard compared to him and apparently the only reason she slept with the other guy was that he was flirting with her and gave her attention. Tbh even if the actual story is different ive seen so many variations on reddit that all these stories seem the same now lmao