I Surprised Him With A Secret Vacation Getaway For His Birthday!

[@ah-chakhan682]

The enemy is always going to try and destroy what God is creating. Your relationship and the family that you both have created is apart of God's creation and plan for you both. Whatever happened, Give it all to God and glorify Him for all he has done and what he continues to do and just put your relationship in his hands. Sending many prayers to this strong couple xoxo

[@D4SH19]

ah-chakhan682 What enemy? Yall believe in some unseen spook who try’s to destroy people and hold them back. Not realizing that the real enemy is people and the way they behave. She was the enemy here not some spook.

[@QueenSoonToHaveHerKing]

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[@lydiabernard9397]

All these comments are wild. This is a real couple with real lives. They are moving forward and as “supporters”. We need to speak positivity and move with them. All those extra comments feelings bad “xyz”, don’t help. Let them do them and we do us. Which is support clap it up for the vacation. Clap it for the love, Clap it up for the realness. Stop bringing up 1 event. This couple has brought us through seasons of bliss. Support them through this reminding them off the blisses. Some of y’all know better! Just wanna insight drama it’s sad. I thought some of you supporters were better than this. I truly hoped they enjoyed their solo vacation and ignored the ignorant comments. Happy Birthday Quan. #TeamRissQuan

[@Louisa7223]

@@lydiabernard9397 I’ve been saying this for the past week lol people just be reaching.. like damn do y’all not want them to move forward and be happy??

[@kylissasimmons342]

Well said! My man and I been together 10 years and have gone through a lot of hard times but we had a strong relationship and worked it out and getting married soon. People need to be positive and stop focusing on every detail ❤

[@jemip716]

True let them be them support the making up and stop dwell on the one hick up. And embrace the whole relationship

[@zairehill4092]

I usually never comment , but I’ve been watching yall for years & I really hope that yall read this comment and receive it with love. I’m not sure what truly went on , and I personally don’t need all the details, however as content creators you guys share part of your lives with us which is completely understandable but from a true supporter .. I do see and feel the disconnect in Quan. I know Rissa loves Quan dearly but sometimes loving your partner requires loving them enough to allow them healing space. Distance from your partner can be scary but it’s necessary sometimes for personal growth and happiness as well as in the relationship. Maybe not even vlogging and surprising him with the trip but maybe just letting him do his own thing to clear his mind. You cannot heal in spaces that caused hurt. Rissa I humbly suggest just being patient for Quan to come around . Be present , show up for him just like he does for you , go the extra mile but without trying so hard to be forgiven. I’m not saying that you aren’t , but may your actions be genuine in true hopes that your partner recovers from this hurt and not for your own benefit.. & again that takes time. I truly do wish your union love and abundance ❤ I wanna see yall win 🥇

[@Janee_Doe]

“You cannot heal in places that caused hurt” That’s so true 💯🎯

[@hauwawaziri5817]

I agree totally..I have been watching u guys since 2020 pls I tnk Quan should heal so he can come around..risaa pls get ur head and family straight pls DNT listen to friends if u leave quan even I will go for him and I knw a million women will so pls protect ur family with everything.

[@chelseahayes4073]

​@@hauwawaziri5817u can dream girl ... there's no woman on this earth for Quan than RissaG ... 😅❤

[@zhanemoussa6006]

I feel like although your comment is important and necessary she may know just what to do to make it up to her man considering this might not be this first time she’s had to make it up to him

[@zairehill4092]

@@zhanemoussa6006 oh absolutely ! Everyone should do what works for their relationship

[@dijengmk7735]

Quan is so me😂 can't hide whatever his feeling on his face🙈 this vacation was definitely needed and I hope it became a spiritual and mental trip as well❤

[@dontcrossme4120]

Yes, I agree ☝️ Whatever happened between these two, Quan is definitely feeling it and is not his usual self. Rissa has the nervous laugh and she’s trying her best to overcompensate to show that they are fine 🥴 Relationships goes through ebbs and flows, so they should just be honest with themselves and their supporters because right now it’s looking like Quan is going through the motions to satisfy whatever contractual agreement they have. They are very young and relationships are hard, especially when you factor in kids. Wish them all the best 🙏

[@BeBe-BerniceEdzordzinam]

​@@dontcrossme4120 you are not in the position to judge them.... Come on this is just a phase and they will get past it. Love is full of ups and downs and they're definitely going to conquer ❤❤❤

[@katiephillips3922]

Pp​@@dontcrossme4120

[@thatobasetsanamasela]

Y'all are so annoying. Just move on already argh💀

[@tonjahooper1502]

I was just thinking the same thang

[@ntohkpulovelineshiylajing148]

Quan can't hide his body language. They say time heals. U'll be back on ur feet again nice man. Happy birthday QUAN🎂🎊🎉

[@GloriaMorazann]

Nah Quan definitely looks different. He used to be extra cheesy and lovey on surprises like this especially around his birthday and he would always say how much she love Rissa and this video just shows how he still affected by whatever happened.

[@kayshantiehinds]

That is so true. He still does not look happy. Rissa on the other hand is forcing him to be normal. Is like in his mind. The memory is still there. He is not cheesy he is playing along.

[@rysvirgos5477]

Dang it just happened can the man have time to get back right I been into it with my man before and it took, me about a week or so to bounce back

[@rysvirgos5477]

Sometimes longer

[@diamondg64able]

He look emotionally tired and going through a rough patch can do that and Rissa is doing what she need to do to make him happy, it goes both ways, there going to be okay. It takes time. I will pray for his family, Quqn, Rissa, Shine and Savi

[@alexusjackson8741]

I was thinking the sameeee thing she’s all happy and he’s just sad looking

[@LeilaMorel]

Remember why we’re here! I want to start my messages by saying we love you guys together and individually. Back when I was 13 now 21 rissa was my first example of a strong and respectful and woman with power just when she walks in the room. And Quan my first example of how a man can be masculine and not disrespectful, you guys have showed me what love looks like not the love and abuse my parents showed me you guys are strong and always have the lord with you guys! No matter what’s going on we love y’all and want to help as much as we can thank you guys for pushing through an obviously hard time and still putting out content for us. I can still hope for y’all videos like I have for the past few years! Watching you guys grow as adults has been a blessing. But if you guys need time a few weeks a few months anything.. to get to yourselves take the time! The real ones will be here waiting for when you arrive at 110% like I remember y’all. You guys are full of light and joy we are here on earth for a good time not a long time. Nothing is more important then family you guys are RICH not because of money but because you guys loved one another long before your beautiful family. Show your sons what forgiveness and love looks like. Not to judge others for there mistakes we are human. NOTHING you guys did can change the unconditional love I have watched grow. Thank you guys for being amazing pure hearted people the only ONLY KZbinrs I know that respect themselves and there loved ones still share with us but still are private! I admire yall relationship! Please stay strong guys. pray for him to lead you and he will. I love you guys so so much more than you could imagine. You guys are the only people I had most nights.. please stay strong I’m praying for you guys❤(not saying anything’s wrong you guys are still putting out amazing videos, but I am seeing more of you guys on TikTok them in the past 8 years keep that in mind that people can and will send very negative energy and it’s important to stay connected to the lord so he can steer you clear of the fogginess of earth)

[@cathlynnewton9553]

Most meaningful comment I've read!💯💯💯

[@Mysticsofine]

Yesss🤍🗣️💯

[@ieshastewart810]

I wish Riss and Quan would see this. You've expressed exactly how so many of us feel.

[@sireeshak1979]

​@@ieshastewart810 exactly ❤

[@BudgetwithLadyk]

I love your whole message I agree with you

[@kellyvibes]

Yes Rissa fight for your man!!! Keep it together 🎉🎉🎉Happy Birthday Quan 🎉

[@kenyattamarsh1383]

I love them. Relationships go through hard times. Him being there and trying their relationship will definitely make it. It seemed like he brightened a little the pool with Rissa. They need to create a lot of good memories now and just bond.

[@angryken]

Everyone fights and goes through bumps in their relationship. I admire how they both handled things. Despite Quan’s outbursts on social media he still kept things respectable and that speaks volumes about his character and their relationship. Ppl need to understand that if Rissa had another dude they’d be over. So whatever they went through must be just exchanging hurtful words gone too far. Anyway, glad they’re working through this!

[@nessysherry343]

Rissa is an amazing woman.why is Quan so dull..we need better vibes,be happy you have a very nice wife😮😊

[@Entertainmentshowroom]

@@nessysherry343delusional 😂, Rissa should be grateful for having someone like Quan.

[@rosemariejohnson7005]

​​@@nessysherry343it seems as if you've just gotten here. Dont wash your poison mouth on Quan because you know nothing. You are more DULL than Quan. You will never know what he went through. He's healing gradually. So leave him alone.

[@Louisa7223]

@@nessysherry343wth are yu talking about? Quan isn’t dull.. ur just rude

[@Louisa7223]

⁠​⁠@@Entertainmentshowroom do yu think she would spend her own money for his birthday vacation (especially after wht happpened last week) if she wasn’t greatful?? Come on now

[@Louisa7223]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUAN! This proves tht y’all can work though any obstacle! And he even said he’s happy to go somewhere alone with her! See this is wht I love to see😄😄

[@justinreacts8171]

It's crazy how many ppl here and on ig want him to stay in the relationship but if the roles were reversed it would be "she deserves better" "leave him" "mental health" "you deserve to be happy" "you don't deserve this" but because he's a man y'all want him to stay and put up with it but y'all wouldn't want her to put up with it

[@nyomeharmony7972]

⁠@@justinreacts8171Bro you don’t even know what happened between them, and women have been working through obstacles in relationships with men since the beginning of time, so your point is invalid. Are we forgetting it was normalized for men to have second hidden families in the 50s? Or that marital rape was legal until 1993?

[@kayladavis7140]

That's when it comes to cheating and unforgivable type stuff. According to him she didn't do anything they cant move past.@justinreacts8171

[@Alessia_cara]

Have they settle

[@Louisa7223]

@@justinreacts8171believe me I believe in their relationship.. I don’t want them to fail, but there’s always someone who wants to be negative

[@LoapiLegodimo]

Keep fighting for your man my gal Rissa. You are a woman of substance. Love from Botswana-Africa

[@hluvukanioscar1107]

We live in a world where our pain give people joy n our joy give people pain,all the best to this wonderful couple🎉

[@sarahmuzaki4656]

Shaquan is so so hurt!!!! The body language clearly communicates. No kiss, no usual warm closeness, no nothing. The smiles are so plastic. I am praying for them to go through this phase with a lot of bravery and sober minds🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@khandiekane5509]

Yes and we CAN'T possibly expect them to bounce back so quickly and be back to what they were initially....it's going to take time that's normal. Let's just pray that they make it through and continue to heal day by day.

[@TheDivineblessin]

He’s a Leo they can show love and be withdrawn also I’m going through it with mine but I just let him be when he’s ready to talk we will but she gotta keep him happy for social media so I understand

[@ellyjessy5044]

Its not so much the hurt i think its the awkwardness and embarrassment after all the drama he put on social media. He loves her im sure he forgave her

[@NicoleSanchez-i2y]

Wat did Russia do

[@NicoleSanchez-i2y]

Wat did rissa do

[@caribbeancactus4732]

Man, I’m rooting for them all the way! Space & time heals! But personal and couples Therapy for each individual in this unit is needed!! ASAP. Ya’ll got this! 🙏🏾

[@SheaLove-su5gp]

It doesn't matter the circumstances on what happened as long as he forgave her and they are good and working things out. I'm happy to see them happy and may God continue to bless y'all relationship... ❤❤❤

[@isaid-c9s]

oh it matters , some things cut deep ..

[@SheaLove-su5gp]

@@isaid-c9s if he haven't went anywhere yet then it obviously doesn't matter that much cause if it did he would be gone by now duh so just let it be and be happy that they happy and working it out.. Smh.

[@isaid-c9s]

@@SheaLove-su5gp it will always be in the back of his head .

[@Pysnpai]

Forgiveness isn’t instant. He’s trying to. He hasn’t yet.

[@chillvibes3031]

They said unbreakable and meant that shit, glad things are getting back to normal. You guys give so many of us hope!!

[@justinreacts8171]

It's crazy how many ppl here and on ig want him to stay in the relationship but if the roles were reversed it would be "she deserves better" "leave him" "mental health" "you deserve to be happy" "you don't deserve this" but because he's a man y'all want him to stay and put up with it but y'all wouldn't want her to put up with it

[@perplexed3789]

@@justinreacts8171💯facts

[@TUMELOSIANGA]

​@@justinreacts8171 you don't even know what happened though

[@TaheishaLake]

@@justinreacts8171 ikr xd

[@BTradez]

@@justinreacts8171yeah double standards are too real. it’s only on the media though in real life it’s always diff

[@ShaciraDondley]

Rissa is a very very strong woman and maybe she has her way of dealing with whatever is bothering or hurting her her own way...I salute the two of u fr being so REAL!...WHAT U GUYS HAVE IS RARE...IM PRAYING FR YOU TWO!❤❤❤

[@oliviaisbored]

Wasn’t she the one who did something no ?

[@realbosstakea]

@LuisLopez-sq9fb sounds like a made up rumour, and u can tell she cheated cuz while hes down shes trying to brighten the mood and changes the subjects, usually women will be asking whats wrong and being sad with they man tryna figure it out, instead rissa not trying to cross into that territory and trying to keep the vibes positive

[@realbosstakea]

@LuisLopez-sq9fb source?

[@malikamckinney7044]

Rissa, you did so good. I hope you guys have a wonderful wonderful vacation and enjoy yourself. Relax you did so good baby girl.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@charlenehayashida5883]

Quan can't hide how he feels....his body language speaks loud & clear. Hope he figures things out. Time heals almost everything!!!

[@mario6150]

Ain't nothing wrong Quan they ran game on y'all and y'all fell for it

[@purposeandgoals1189]

​@@mario6150you must be an inside source? You know them?

[@mario6150]

@@purposeandgoals1189 it's call common sense. They and there family was just unfollowing and exposing each other a couple days ago. Now they on vacation. Bro if y'all think they had broke up fr y'all dumb asf. Only thing they did was pull a Carmen and Corey. I don't knock them for it tho. Cuz one thing about y'all delusional people y'all gonna believe anything they tell y'all

[@lanaeblease3203]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@purposeandgoals1189Do you? To say that he’s not okay?

[@ainetoile4787]

I think riss and quan did all the drama for a boost viewers likes. Maybe they didn't actually have problems and besides now after a few days they post videos again like it's so fast and simple like I mean it's kinda suss.

[@Peace-d9y]

Leo's can not hide how they feel. Especially, Leo men! Glad you guys are working it out though! Healing takes time. ❤🙏

[@TheDivineblessin]

Exactly my Leo is currently mad at me and I know deep down he ain’t happy with me at the moment so I just give him space but she gotta keep things going for social media uno

[@rockayjohnson5375]

I'm a Leo and I definitely can relate

[@Franciscasanga-gt7gx]

You guys should stop commenting this kind of text coz they are humlike us Rissa asked for forgiveness alredy and as you can see she is trying her best to save the relationship

[@Shawn-f8q]

This is not a zodiac sign thing. Please.. Lol

[@EmilyNoel-y6k]

Yes. Her annoying family is be everywhere.

[@Moonchild.513]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY QUAN! 🎉 Real healing takes time. And real relationships have low points. Remember as parents that part of providing a happy household for your kids is catering to the relationship! Try to do more solo trips! ❤ love it

[@myrnawilliams4415]

I love seeing you guys! Stay strong we got y’all and are always pulling for you guys. This is the best way to move forward. I’m not sure why people keep bringing it up that’s what prevents them from moving forward. I enjoy watching this it’s clear you guys are moving thru this like the bosses you are.

[@keytalks4905]

That’s what I’m talking about. Happy birthday Quan. That’s sweet Rissa.

[@dmm950]

Happy Pre-Birthday Quan. Glad to see just you two and no other outside family. You need it, you deserve it and keep it that way. You are a family of 4 and not 5,6,7 people. Make time for the two of you. Unstoppable and Unbreakable. Time heals all.

[@rosemariejohnson7005]

I am with you on this. Everywhere this big crowd of her family as if her mother and her family have to be living off them too. Rissa and her family ganged up on Quan and EMASCULATED him and so he left them in the Bahamas and headed home to his pareñts.

[@jaylarae295]

Honestly it’s a positive thing for viewers to see this … to see how to come back together and work together after something that could really break u guys up … I hope u guys heal and give viewers a better and new perspective on relationships

[@nonhlanhlanxumalo9552]

Now this is what pushing real positivity is❤❤So much Love unbreakable family from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@AndrianaLea]

I love that you guys are taking care of each other and spending time together alone I think that’s what is needed so at times I am very proud of this relationship publicly let go of the stress and have fun love you thank you for sharing such intimate moments with us thank you for bringing positive content and allowing yourself to be vulnerable with us. Wishing you both love and peace.

[@paulafrater1770]

I'm so proud of you Rissa and Quan you guys deserve each other, stay bless and be safe now 🙏😊

[@backbonedray7612]

No one is perfect! Praying for healing for this beautiful couple!

[@judithwekikye3553]

Prayer is powerful! God is merciful and loving.

[@sweetmisstea]

Its really nice to see Quan smile again and love on Rissa. Man, ya'll are inspirational. Love to see it! Keep pushing through. You have more positive support than you know.

[@oluwatoyinsalami4964]

Thank you guys, this is the beginning of the new chapter, keep loving each other, with time Quan will heal, well done Rissa

[@LeShanAri]

I absolutely ADORE seeing you guys working things out! We all go through it! Thank you for sharing the good and the bad with us! We love you 😘

[@venicefrancis6479]

Happy birthday Shaquan 🎂. I pray that whatever the devil meant for bad, God will turn it around for good. All things are possible with God in it. I'm happy that you decided to go solo on this vacation. Enjoy every moment of it.

[@lucindanoel-bobo6091]

Y'all wildin 😂 Quan has that "I'm chillin" face. Like "I'm here here because I want to be here" That man loves his girl and most importantly his kids. Let him fight his demons. ❤

[@Iamq714]

Like I always, "If you dont have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all. Mental health is real.

[@realbosstakea]

his demons? lmao she gave him the demons... he only staying cuz they got 2 boys together

[@RealShalarea]

💯 right he’s human

[@Iamq714]

@@realbosstakea Anyways, "Not my prpblem that-thats just not my problem....NEXT!

[@realbosstakea]

@@Iamq714 you type like someone who should be in a mental asylum

[@SabriaLashaa]

I noticed he doesn’t even smile the same , lord bless they marriage ❤

[@nanabosefe.danemark8]

Give them a break Ohlala why you guys want Quan to look weird so bad ? It’s just tired

[@Brookeeats247]

Marriage? That's if there will be a marriage and even if they do, it won't last. Quan is low key suffering in that relationship, rissa is trying look good for the camera while actually she's trash

[@rosamaundallen1035]

They are not married. She is just a baby mama and he just fathered some kids out of wedlock like everyone else.

[@lifeascort2788]

@@Brookeeats247 you know them? Personally?

[@chrisgreatness6953]

@@Brookeeats247why is she trash? What did she do to become trash? What happened?

[@stephanieboney4015]

I’m glad to see you both pushing through. Nothing is easy but just remember you always have to take time for your romance. I love it!

[@justinreacts8171]

Y'all wouldn't be telling her this if he did something to hurt her. It's crazy how many ppl here and on ig want him to stay in the relationship but if the roles were reversed it would be "she deserves better" "leave him" "mental health" "you deserve to be happy" "you don't deserve this" but because he's a man y'all want him to stay and put up with it but y'all wouldn't want her to put up with it

[@stephanieboney4015]

@@justinreacts8171 so you are in every person’s mind? I don’t know you and you don’t know me. However, misery loves company so you can stay in that funk by yourself. I love to see couples work it out whether it is male or female in the wrong! If you can work it out, then that is great! It’s called being mature and making decisions that is based off their wants and needs and not based off what others may or may not think. Ultimately, they have to live the decision they make and not us! It’s easy to give up than to put in the work and try. That’s why the people of today have a hard time making real relationships work. Just because you go through a rough patch doesn’t mean that it is all over for the relationship. Every relationship has tough moments, but that’s only for mature people to go through.

[@maryandreadavis]

@@justinreacts8171why you keep commenting everywhere they both clearly wants to work it out chill

[@georgiagordon3368]

Guys, I hope whatever is going on with you both will sort out itself. I am rooting for you two. Blessings always

[@charlotteoteng6157]

Thank God for your family. I believed in love because of yall. Unbreakable family

[@charlotteoteng6157]

@Anonima-Beech every relationship has its flaws and I don't think yours is like heaven either.If love is a joke to you,then am sorry for your life.

[@charlotteoteng6157]

Do you even know what happened. I pray your woman won't also have issues with you.She might be rotten and hiding it.or you as well. None is perfect.

[@tanishabafford1020]

So many people in this thread that has never been in a true loving relationship sitting here thinking that things cant heal. People saying things will never be the same, guess what youre right however i see it as, they wont be the same because they will be stronger and better than before. True love and a real relationship, these things happen. My husband and i have argued before where i thought we wouldnt make it but in the end, we came out stronger, better, happier, and blessed!! When youre willing to work at it, the reward is great! Quan can be sad for now, but this wont break them! You people need to learn to pray instead of putting that negative energy on them. I respect Rissa and Quan both for trying and still creating content through it and hopefully people like you negative Nancy's will learn what a mature relationship can do!!

[@cinnamoncake4564]

Some with common sense is a blessing. I don't know why people can't understand growth. Like we only see a snippet of their lives. We don't know everything neither is it our business too. They are going to be just fine.

[@tabithadavila7640]

I've been in a 15 year relationship n still have no respect 😂 lol wish them well cause them lol boys but when everyone gonna realize it's about the money not the next person or themselves just number n money

[@notestingme]

​@cinnamoncake4564😂😂

[@notestingme]

They're are obviously faking it for the bag even blind freddy can see quan ain't feeling her like he use t0

[@TaheishaLake]

But if this was the other way around and Quan was the one who messed it up with Rissa. You all would have been in the comments hating on him and be telling Rissa that she deserves better lol

[@ambersample3354]

I’m happy that y’all are spending quality time together. Enjoy and always remember that the parents have to be mentally stable for the house to be mentally stable. So make sure y’all love up on each other during this vacation!!

[@itszorozco]

Mental health is real and deep. I'm praying no matter what comes their way, they stay strong. Keep God first amen ❤ always.

[@Iamq714]

Most def keep God first! Kudos to you

[@gordonskitchen8110]

Can people stop bringing up whatever happened under like everything they post now? Let it fade away, I'm sure they don't want to be reminded and having enough of a hard time not thinking of it themselves. Things happen, and the way I see it is you learn lessons and you grow stronger in the end. No one wants to keep being reminded of something they are trying to move on from. Can everyone just pretend like nothing happened and move on with them. Energy is powerful and speaking on it all the time keeps them in that energy. I am so happy to see you guys. Love is work, nothing worth having is easy. You fight for things that's worthwhile. Praying happiness and strength to you guys. ❤❤ Happy late birthday Quan.

[@langutelanikukwane8158]

What happened

[@eniolatolu3751]

Exactly my thought too, all video now, y'all be bringing up stuffs that's not necessary, see them heal, watch them heal, allow them heal. Please, stop typing under each post about Quan not being himself and all.

[@gordonskitchen8110]

@eniolatolu3751 Yeah , seriously. Especially those who call themselves supporters and still do it. Any real supporter will just be happy for them taking a step forward and let them flourish.

[@essiemwiza9410]

People over do it please let them be

[@CruzxJess]

The relationship is 👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽 it seems force now.

[@kadmta1]

It’s so nice to see the two of you enjoying each others company! Stay strong💕🙏🏼💕🙏🏼

[@lynnettejfloyd7657]

It is very important for couple to have alone time whether it’s trip or staycation. Quan obviously had been wanting this but Rissa wanted her kids and family on every trip. I’m so happy she is trying to keep Quan.

[@Jayxlee.]

Quan is gone but he still trying and putting n effort he not has hype as he used to be I hope whatever Rissa did to him they heal and move on they are so young hope you guys don't give up on each other 🙏🏾 real love is hard to find now days please don't throw away something that could be Easley fixed 🙏🏾

[@shanequaheadley3581]

God bless you both. Rissa, I love the gesture. Baecation needed. Hope Quan will loosen up a bit. Stay focused Mr. Roberts. You guys got this.

[@mariamawitwole4510]

Quan will never hide what he feels, but don't worry you will get through it. Happy birthday 🎉🎉🎉

[@terrywambura5431]

My favourite couple . The unbreakable family love you all❤ from 🇰🇪🇰🇼

[@marlynmeadas3420]

Praying that you guys work things out. This is a great opportunity for you to bond and heal to work out your problems. Love you both.❤

[@SelvieRamsamy-s4c]

Happy Birthday Quan...We can see Quan is not da same he's still hurting...Rissa as to her best she can

[@s6009]

Rissa is so naturally beautiful. Happy birthday Quan!! ❤

[@rexellacervantes7]

True healing takes time and true love will always win in the end … continue to fight for your love … your both going to be stronger than before … God bless your future together … love your little family ♥️🥰

[@youlondamason2316]

Look at Quan sitting there looking like Shine with Glasses and Rissa looking like Savi with curls 💖💕🩷 Love ya’ll and your smiles!

[@brendabrown5758]

I think the other way round 💕

[@Xxbbyblue]

Their the parents 😅

[@youlondamason2316]

@@Xxbbybluethanks genius. What would we do without you? 😐 #SSOB

[@Louisa7223]

@@youlondamason2316🤣🤣

[@Louisa7223]

@@Xxbbyblue nah really?? We had no idea!🙊

[@ARROW2260]

Things aren’t perfect but yall love is for sure worth it… Happy early birthday Quan 🥳🩵

[@justinreacts8171]

Y'all wouldn't tell her that if he did something to hurt her. It's crazy how many ppl here and on ig want him to stay in the relationship but if the roles were reversed it would be "she deserves better" "leave him" "mental health" "you deserve to be happy" "you don't deserve this" but because he's a man y'all want him to stay and put up with it but y'all wouldn't want her to put up with it

[@Brownskindollxhajoy]

@@justinreacts8171dude get tf out of every one comments get a life

[@lumishemckay7762]

I am so proud of the two of them. Will forever be a supporter.❤

[@breeamor5241]

Can we just wish them the best…and stop throwing negative energy towards the relationship…they are trying to heal and mend their relationship let these people be For Heavens sake ❤…Anyways Happy Birthday Quan…wish yall nothing but more blessings to come ❤

[@janaedelaney2552]

This is heartbreaking to watch bc the vibe off. I think y’all should take a break and forget about us for a minute. Enjoy your vacay and just talk and vibe with each other. Rooting for yall

[@TheDivineblessin]

Yeah I feel it too the energy is off

[@Lya254]

For real! Like it should have stopped at the apology/explanation video. This time is so personal and should be between you two and God. Rooting for ya'll!

[@aireusstevens97]

I literally said the same thing! The vibe is definitely off. 😫

[@SibsM93]

True

[@kickingitwithtay7312]

Total agree

[@thobimakama3745]

I'd say put the camera down and just figure things out and work on each other and come back when you better because right we're just reading into everything and makes it hard to watch. I love that you both putting in effort and not giving up on your union. I believe you will be good. I just feel for Rissa she is trying.

[@sibonelo_dacu88]

I agree

[@rosemariejohnson7005]

She and her family caused everything, so she needs to try to fix the mess.

[@thobimakama3745]

@rosemariejohnson7005 I don't know about her family being a reason. He just mentioned her. I know she needs to fix it hence I'm saying they should take a time out and deal with it 1st.

[@sakuraesther6309]

​@@rosemariejohnson7005She is trying to fix things but y'all don't find it enough 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@langutelanikukwane8158]

What happened

[@LALUXINFINITY]

GOD IS SO GOOD THESE ARE MY FAVORITE COUPLE. I WAS HEART BROKEN BUT I GENUINELY PRAYED FOR YOU TO TO FIGHT THROUGH IT. TRUST ME YOU WILL BE STRONGER THAN EVER.

[@TiwinetashaMvula]

You guys should continue with the line, " together we are unbreakable and ....."" that line is spititual mahn, keep saying it and it shall manifest in your relationship..... much love fam❤

[@tsheppy1995]

I wish Quan can be back to his bubbly self but overall im happy y'all are well....happy birthday Quan

[@kereshakerr4879]

Keep fighting for each other. Young love like yours is so rear. Dont give up on each other.

[@justinreacts8171]

You wouldn't be telling her that if he did something to hurt her. It's crazy how many ppl here and on ig want him to stay in the relationship but if the roles were reversed it would be "she deserves better" "leave him" "mental health" "you deserve to be happy" "you don't deserve this" but because he's a man y'all want him to stay and put up with it but y'all wouldn't want her to put up with it

[@TaheishaLake]

@@justinreacts8171 ikr

[@TaheishaLake]

@@justinreacts8171 People can be so biased

[@Nikola_340]

@@justinreacts8171it’s funny how males take isolated situations and make blanket statements. It’s also hubby how males only care, empathize and have any feelings when things either happen to them or other males. Women have been cheated on, abused and treated like less than since the beginning of times. And you’re wrong. 9/10 when women cheat, they are bashed, ridiculed, mocked, and constantly talked about, some are abused or k!lled, when males cheat, women are the ones told to stay and suck it up or get over it, even if he had a baby due to the cheating, regardless of how hurtful, and it’s especially much more pain during or after a woman’s pregnancy. Males NEVER care then!!!! And if women are the more emotional ones, although do Ames are much more sensitive and emotional, but just much more stronger and scarier, then it should women more than men when cheating is involved. Matter of fact, it shouldn’t hurt males at all. But somehow you all make it seem like it only hurts ya’ll and not women at all when it happens to them! Smh lol

[@christinenzamuranga9366]

​@@justinreacts8171quan is a grown man. He can make decisions on his own. Relationships have ups & down. They will be fine ❤

[@georgiagordon3368]

Please take the time to sort out your problems. Talking always help. Get the support you both need for your love and family. Praying for you both 🙏 ❤️

[@FoodForTheSoulByWalterRush]

I pray you two can work it out and please put God in everything you two do

[@Louisa7223]

If they didn’t work things out, why would they go on vacation together.. come on now.. rissa did something nice for his birthday

[@justinreacts8171]

It's crazy how many ppl here and on ig want him to stay in the relationship but if the roles were reversed it would be "she deserves better" "leave him" "mental health" "you deserve to be happy" "you don't deserve this" but because he's a man y'all want him to stay and put up with it but y'all wouldn't want her to put up with it

[@Davis-carmencita]

​@@justinreacts8171there is not one couple in the world that does not have ups and downs in their relationship but if they have forgiven spirits and forgiving hearts they can forgive each other and not let anything stop them from caring for one another and loving each other again, because only unforgiving and heartless people that hold grudges against one another ruins their relationship forever because they're too proud to forgive one another and forgiving someone doesn't mean you condone the actions they did to you it only means that you're giving them grace Mercy they don't deserve just like Jesus gives us grace and mercy we don't deserve when we mess up and do something wrong to someone because forgiveness is the beginning of healing a broken heart and mending a broken relationship

[@kaylaaaaa1212]

@@justinreacts8171 we dont even know exactly what happened to be saying that regardless of the roles being reversed or not .

[@Blindedbylove32]

Whatever She did he definitely '' Has This Vibe where he cant stop thinking or Letting Go of ----

[@kayshantiehinds]

True.

[@MichelleS19]

Girl!! Give him some space… He needs to heal💔 I feel so sorry for him. He always had a spark in his eyes, now it’s missing❤️‍🩹 At this point we all know that, he’s only there for his children…

[@markelabanks4808]

Its sad because when its the Woman going through it, its a totally different narrative.

[@mekarobinson9584]

Long time don't watch, can I ask what's going on with them both

[@ayandamsweli7954]

He definitely doesn't have anymore spark in his eyes. It's really sad to see.

[@vildarline2026]

Men are like when they finish give babies to a girl suddenly she is not good enough anymore

[@lynisawhinfield9815]

If he wanted space u think he would’ve been there? ..he’s a grown man you guys need the stop . Every relationship has problems their ppl not robots nobody int prefect just cuz they had one problem means that they don’t love each other

[@princesslss]

Thanks for sharing. ❤️ So glad you both have time to yourselves to connect. Blessings to you both.

[@nashimgaya744]

I would suggest Quan to take a mini vacation alone for like a week to overcome whatever is running is his mind. To heal properly and miss his family too. Much love and blessings ❤

[@JayClearman411]

Bro needs to send her off to her parents house for a couple of days get some space.. cuz she pushing an it’s coming across very inauthentic.

[@cmeq9572]

B S​@@JayClearman411

[@ellsnuna23]

​@@JayClearman411Send who away? doesn't she own the house too ?

[@tiegregory5540]

@@JayClearman411I as thinking and feeling that too I feel like she pushing and instead of taking genuine time and space to allow him to be in his feelings and to truly forgive whatever happened

[@nashimgaya744]

@@ellsnuna23 in good faith so that Quan gets personal space to heal because now his forcing himself to be happy in the face of the route causer.

[@jenisblessed2200]

He looks like he is over her sh*t. I feel him because my man sometimes can’t stand me either. But people grow and change every day. You either grow from whatever happened together or you grow apart. We choose who we want in our lives. And sometimes they are taken away by force. Let them be. Let them grow. Either way they will forever be in each other’s lives they have kids.

[@MaxinePickersgill]

A breath of fresh air for you both. Stay prayed up guys. ❤❤

[@cantayveeuhsaunders8348]

We’re called Turks Islanders!! So happy you enjoyed my country. Happy birthday Quan! Sending love from Turks 🇹🇨🇹🇨

[@Dijone_1]

The eyes of a man who realizes what it is now and would be over her, but he already has children with her and wants to do right by them. Most people will never understand how hard it is for men with conscience and a sense of responsibility. We suffer in relationships we would rather leave, but we understand that it is not about "I". It is about family (especially the children). It is a thankless job, but the truly great ones do it. I understand it is not easy, Quan. Prayers.

[@shakakasenzangakhona1787]

Man I know this feeling well really tuff

[@CruzxJess]

I doubt that is the reason. He clearly still loves her but they’re “trying” to make it work again lol this isn’t the first time they separated.

[@Saisaysso]

& sadly that’s how affairs happen

[@lizneidarodriguez9537]

I agree but he has so many support he really should just work on his own channel and focus on his kids. We're gonna still be here happy and supportive for him. I just think he needs to believe he doesn't have to feel worthless to be a family. He should be happy with his boys and the support of everyone who will stick by his side. I think he needs to experience more before he truly decides this is what he wants and deserve. Right now you can tell he is lost hurt and putting a face to get through it for videos while she is trying to extra cheese 😁 while his facial expression clearly show the opposite.

[@nietzscheth]

🤝🏽

[@amphodithnkomo9885]

I see growth from both of you. Am glad you're working at it, no one said forever is easy.❤

[@foodiehaven1]

Glad you guys are fighting for your relationship. It's worth fighting for.

[@Michelle-vr7rx]

Quan needed this can see a little self returning and whatever it was over him leaving little by little

[@oyinphilips1690]

What happened 😢😢😢

[@user-hu3ps9qx5b]

You guys will recover, no doubt about it. Keep being strong Rissa, and Quan take the time you need to heal. All relationships worth fighting for have ups and downs, times of closeness and distance. Take it one day at a time and be grateful to have one another!

[@LordanaCloete]

Hey riss and Quan,I know this is a hard time for y'all but i send lots of love hoping all goes well , focus on the positive times not the negative time's, remembering that y'all have children that are looking up to y'all as their mother and father ...going to church and praying to god with actually help gods ears are open his waiting for y'all to reach out to him for him to understand the problem nothing he can help you through this hard time...I wisshhh all the best on y'all's vacation!!!!!🙈🥺💗 HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY QUAN TO MANY MORE BLESSED BIRTHDAY'S TO COME !!❤️

[@QueenSoonToHaveHerKing]

GOD!! IT'S GOD/God keep & put respect on his name BCUZ he's important! Plus much more! Buh Amen yu mentioned major facts! 💯😊❤🙏🏽📖

[@Tifegbadas]

I like the fact that you guys went on a vacation without Rissa’s family. I don’t hate them but I desperately just wanted to see you guys on a vacation on your own. They just be everywhere all the time😭. And you guys now did one without the kids too? I love it! A much needed alone time for you both👏🏽 P.S. Quan and I share the same birthday date 😌🤩

[@ritawoodberry727]

Yup👌🏾

[@samanthadoll3077]

Well said and after that comment her mother made on ig I feel like this whole situation was about her family,which I wld agree becuz they don't go nowhere without her family like plz

[@VONiiE8]

@@samanthadoll3077what comment? 👀

[@Tifegbadas]

@@samanthadoll3077 yes I also feel they were heavily involved. Even Quan’s brother started talking at some point. They just need to be able to live life without family being there all the time. Because sometimes those “family” can intentionally or unintentionally start trouble. Take vacations without all that crowd all the time.

[@samanthadoll3077]

@@Tifegbadas thats why when ppl keep asking for quan family they always say they live far,it doesn't matter how far family live they wld always show up for u ,but rissa behaves like there's no life without hers and quans family don't ever be around

[@Efya_Pristie]

Happy birthday Quan … you two are just amazing I pray this makes you stronger ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 and Rissa you did very good ❤

[@ZeekeFraley-zu8dm]

It’s so Awesome seeing them cuddling in the video and hugging in the pool Rissa calling Quan Babe Quan Calling Riss Babe THIS IS THE RISS AND QUAN US FANS LOVE TO SEE!!!!! The queen and The Don ❤

[@agathakaluki5087]

I loved that too, praying that they bounce back ❤

[@KeepItCuteBB]

You can still tell Quann isn't back to 100%, he was hurt, & it's gonna take him a minute to fully heal, Rissa is really trying to get it back to normal quick! I pray yall truly work it out and never have to go through that again ❤🙏

[@idek_lol123]

what happened??

[@GT-mc9eg]

​@@idek_lol123 Rissa and Quan got into some kind of argument (not known) and he went online, swore on his sister's life. That the relationship was over. He removed rissas photos off his IG. And then they made up.

[@umehnonso]

Quan is hurt? what did rissa do?

[@princessa42631]

Yes I agree completely I was hoping she redeemed it after this video I still as if she plays entirely to much with him

[@peaceifunanya4924]

U are d only one noticing everything...leave them, they will be fine abeg

[@mmartinez2404]

Every couple needs this. I'm praying for y'all. I'm dealing with the same thing right now.🙏💜 Stronger Together💜

[@PorshayHarris]

Yes I noticed that too. I also noticed how upset he looked 80% of this video. His energy is low. I feel bad for him. I can tell he's trying his hardest. Rissa definitely did a whole lot of begging to keep him. She's not ready to lose him, she's not ready to lose this KZbin money and lifestyle.

[@MissGloria]

Rissa so beautiful naturally :) she’s really trying her best 😊 every couple goes through thick and thin and I will still support them ❤

[@justinreacts8171]

@@MissGloria You wouldn't be telling her that if he did something to hurt her. It's crazy how many ppl here and on ig want him to stay in the relationship but if the roles were reversed it would be "she deserves better" "leave him" "mental health" "you deserve to be happy" "you don't deserve this" but because he's a man y'all want him to stay and put up with it but y'all wouldn't want her to put up with it

[@MissGloria]

@@justinreacts8171 do you even know what happen? Nope . So jut hush it and let them live their life .

[@justinreacts8171]

@@MissGloria Point still stands. Y'all wanna know that happened because it affected him not her. If it was the other way around and she's looked how he looked y'all wouldn't care and would come up with a whole bunch of reasons to what he did wrong and y'all would be telling her to leave him but y'all don't care because he's a man

[@MissGloria]

@@justinreacts8171 good for you to make YOUR point in somebody ELSE relationship. Hope you got a trophy 🏆.

[@JadaquaJones]

I really hope you and Quan have a wonderful time together talking to each other laughing and having some well deserved make up time with each other ❤❤ I'm loving this yell

[@MariaBrown-b5k]

Happybday to you ...May God bless and keep you all the days of your life...Asking God to restore all of this with a fresh start! Time will heal ...if you truly love one another ...which I know u do so many times ppl take things for granted ... so hopefully things will get bk to the way they were. .Keep God in and ppl out negativity. .we love all. ..God bless

[@rikkieerchul12]

Happy Early Birthday Quan 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 its almost Leo ♌️ season hear this lion 🦁 roar !!!!!!! Have a great weekend 😀

[@Memory_2-q9k]

It's really good to see you both building up and patching things up trust me it's not easy and you both just proved how this relationship, the family which you're building means to you❤ just focus on yourselves and don't pay attention to these haters ❤ love you too

[@aaliyahna5463]

The way I love you guys ❣️I’m happy you have allowed yourselves to feel , to hurt , to love, to let out all emotions but in the end letting love outweigh all the pain. LOVE YOU MY UNBREAKABLE FAM! Happy birthday In advance to a wonderful man Quan🎉🎂!

[@jordanskyfinding7767]

Riss and Quan didn’t even need to tell us about their rough patch, but they did, because they care, and because they’re getting through it. Please respect that even the best couples have difficult times, and allow them to navigate and heal from that without your negative input. Stop speculating. Trust what they say is truth. Support them, and be happy that they’re still strong. ❤

[@kaylahernandez7765]

Well, they told us because Quan made a post stating that he was single 4 lyf, which in turn made rissa talk bad to a fan (which I'm not surprised because me and her had a few words in my dms) so that made them make the video about them going through it.

[@Babygirlllashley]

I feel like once you’re a content creator you out your whole life on social media. Some parts I agree with but the whole “they didn’t even need to tell us” is crazy cause the owe us some kind of explanation especially for the ones that been here since day one. They ain’t need to tell us every single detail of they personal life but don’t keep us in the dark.

[@marskeins]

​@@kaylahernandez7765that maybe so all that. However I don't know why folks feel they are obligated to share every little about their relationship. It's really nobody's business no matter what they think. As far as Rissa getting smart with a fan. When you are frustrated and dealing with stuff crap happens. She is human!

[@pondechuba]

Love you guys together 🥺 please work things out 💖

[@afeshiabullen6117]

Couldn't of said it any better

[@unbecoming_tobecome]

You'll overcome it eventually, TRUST in GOD at ALL TImEs❤ happy belated birthday Quan❤ love from South Africa ❤

[@maaziahsmith1098]

First and foremost, Happy Birthday Quan!!! I still see the spark in his eyes but I know he is still hurt. Rissa is trying to bring them back together and I’m here for it. We love you guys the unstoppable and unbreakable family❤️❤️

[@JayClearman411]

Yo I don’t know what your looking at but it’s no spark in his eyes at all bro is super closed off an aloof

[@Entertainmentshowroom]

@@JayClearman411😂

[@atoomercy989]

The old quan would be saying this is the king size bed where all the magic happens 😢

[@ndanji8234]

Give them a break They did say they’re going through things! It’ll take some time

[@mercyleonards-mv7lb]

Is this Atoo Mbogo or

[@idelecapoiel5518]

I love how they’re working this out together.you both inspire me a lot

[@Kbear95]

I don’t understand how nobody can see they are ACTING and NEVER broke up and all of this is for CLOUT! 😂

[@realbosstakea]

imagin just cuz they views going down they did this bs haha

[@shavonnelue8632]

Thanks you! Finally someone sees it too! We just paid for their planned extravagant wedding! Lol

[@sylviahkeswa8042]

Love y'all but I feel you guys need a break off social media for a few months. We appreciate you bringing us along with you but it would really do you guys alot of good to turn off the camera's for a minute especially now that you have some time away from the boys and away from the hustle and bustle to just spend uninterrupted quality time together and just reconnect without having to pick up a camera. You both are only human and we know you to be the most hardworking and consistent people but you deserve a break especially now. We will all be here when you return, when you both are in a better place and feeling like yourselves again ❤

[@mapalokabwe3465]

I agree with you because Quan is literally off it's like his forcing himself to smile when he doesn't want to

[@zanitamadson]

I agree on this❤

[@ndanji8234]

@@sylviahkeswa8042 This is a nice thought… and I’m sure they’d love to… I’m assuming you’re offering to pay their bills yes? They don’t need this sort of advice… they just need you to understand that they are human beings… and they’re going through things…. I’m sure you’re mature enough to understand that right? …That relationships have their ups and downs? I don’t think Quan is faking anything… neither is he forcing anything…. Let them be! Maybe you should take a break from watching them until you feel like they’re feeling like themselves.. We’ll be right here..

[@GetItTogether911]

Yes, please take a break!

[@sarahc.2644]

I totally agree! I been rocking with them for years. This video and whole vibes are way off! No more camera, just relax and heal your relationship. Filming yourself everyday like nothing happened doesn’t help.

[@shanda287]

Love you guys. I been following since before Shine was born due to my daughter. I don’t want to be too intrusive but please use this time to reconnect with each other. Please talk to each other, listen completely and validate each other’s feelings. In every relationships you have ups and downs. What matters is how you handle your problems as a couple. Please remember and talk about why you both fell in love with each other and why you still love each other. I’m praying and rooting for you and your beautiful family 😊😊just some Big Auntie advice 🫶

[@Suga_T.78]

I am so happy you guys chose to come to my beautiful country of Turks and Caicos #TurksLove 🇹🇨🇹🇨🇹🇨🇹🇨 ENJOY your birthday Quan🎂

[@yolandacanelamk8434]

Hey so what are you all called?

[@ferzyjele]

Yea like what yall called Turks and caicons? Caicions? 😭

[@thamalouis7733]

@@ferzyjele Turks Islanders 🇹🇨🇹🇨Welcome to our beautiful country 🇹🇨🇹🇨

[@Suga_T.78]

@@yolandacanelamk8434 Turks Islander or Turks and Caicos Islander

[@Suga_T.78]

@@ferzyjele Nah 🤣

[@XoticJazz]

If unamused was a person. Can’t wait for quan to get back to his bubbly self. ❤😅

[@zechariahhoward9722]

Thankkk god is some good energy in the air between them. I’m happy for them honestly ❤