"I've Been Beat, Spit On, Punched In My Relationship. I Sent Him To Jail!"

Episode 36 | Domestic Violence | On this episode of Trappin Anonymous we speak to a Domestic Violence victim. An issue that’ll knock on the doors of so many, learn her story and the steps it takes to put an abuser away. 100%
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[@CurvyKeto]

She was trauma bonded. I did it for 14 years. The ups and downs pull them closer together. Toxic relationship has the same effects as heroin on the brain.

[@AshleySantiago-lv7es]

The fact that so many of us women have gone through something like this breaks my heart 😢 I too used to say “could never be me” and then it ended up being me. Smfh just remember ladies, we deserve the world! Don’t settle for the bare minimum ❤

[@sfwatxyo2162]

Do these guys typically have a criminal past? Do you even try to find out before it's too late?

[@jasminsantiago1390]

​@@sfwatxyo2162my bb daddy didn't have one and I never knew he was a women beater I was 15 when it started intill 30

[@jasminsantiago1390]

We women deserve so much better am domestic violence surviver was 15 when it started ended when I was 30 and am 48 now so we can do better and it never happened again

[@sfwatxyo2162]

​@jasminsantiago1390 I am so sorry you endured that for 15 years! Did you ever tell your parents or another adult you trusted?

[@jasminsantiago1390]

@@sfwatxyo2162 yea but afterward made excuses for every bruised for a long time

[@Lucky_Gurl-Luna]

When she said she was the “It girl” I could relate! These men don’t always go after weak women! They go after strong , confident and happy women and their goal is to break them down!! Trust . Plus when u do fight back u get punched or hit ! I’ve fought back tbh and they still hit u bc they don’t want u to stand up for yourself. I sent him to jail too after he spat in my face !! Smh they do get worse after u call the cops on them !! They never learn and will blame you!! So if ur gonna get them arrested you better leave them alone bc they’ll hold resentment towards you and might end you !! My story is similar to here unfortunately I’m glad I got out alive with no children. I moved to a different state and changed my number!!

[@naturallybella]

I’ve heard this be the reason a lot

[@shaketaturner8029]

❤

[@Lucky_Gurl-Luna]

@@naturallybella yes it’s true bc they intimidate you. They will physically beat you down until u submit.

[@reinasanchez1718]

Yes! They hate happy women

[@mellabeautynyc8587]

So true. Been there.

[@lolabunny1157]

💔💔💔 I’m so proud of her for going to the police. When I was in a DV relationship I never called the police neither do a lot of other women. Very courageous!!!

[@nyaverwillis]

she need to leave because when he get out he coming for her

[@christinetaylor6460]

EXACTLY

[@Allinmyworld]

She needs to move to an address where he doesn't know and keep that order of protection, change her phone number, keep her son school notified everything. I wish abusers like this would be publicly named and BASHED. Make their shit public so they can't continue to do this to anyone else. Sometimes family gets pushed away because they get scared or they get tired of the person going back. They can't stand by while their loved one gets hit and continue to go back. It's a sad cycle. Until the abused gets tired they're nothing they can do.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

This PART

[@breakbeatmedia]

Definitely

[@MarieThomas-rs5nq]

Yes I feel like she is not taking this tragedy serious enough fr

[@Goddess-Reign]

💯

[@reinasanchez1718]

I went through this at 15-17. Had a child with this person (not by choice) & I remember being in high school making up stories about how I got bruises. He really messed up my childhood but I’m so glad I was able to leave b4 I was killed. I hope any woman or man In this situation gets the courage to leave & doesnt get hurt in the process.

[@dhalladay27]

YES!! Men too!;

[@timicacollins9530]

I went through this in high school as well.

[@jasminsantiago1390]

I was there and I understand it it's hard but we can make it out

[@thatswhatshesaid6326]

What do you mean “not by choice?”

[@reinasanchez1718]

@@thatswhatshesaid6326 sex wasn’t consensual.

[@PlentyOfFreaksStore]

She should definitely get therapy for her son. I had to get therapy for my daughter when I realized i didnt hide the DV as well as i thought.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Did it help?

[@PlentyOfFreaksStore]

@@TrappinAnonymous It did.

[@breakbeatmedia]

Therapy is a great tool

[@Lucky_Gurl-Luna]

I’m in therapy as well ❤ I’m soo glad u and ur child are healing together ✨✨✨

[@trevingodbolt-ep3pg]

God bless her my heart goes out to her she doesn't deserve that all its crazy that it's common

[@mekamathis821]

I am survivor of domestic violence. When we got married he became abusive, physically, emotionally, verbally, and controlling.After three years I finally got up a nerve to finally leave and now I'm living in my truth and talking about it loudly. Its a different level of healing to speak loudly. I love the fact she is telling her turth!

[@ShizisTruth]

❤. I currently in healing from a narc n dv.. Waiting on trial now. I will not give in!!

[@preciousjahi8524]

Most men wait till they marry you cause they “think” by y’all being married he have control over the whole relationship

[@msjvaldez]

In my early 20s, over 30 years ago, I met a guy. Didn't know him too well, but went to his house. During a conversation, unprovoked, he said If we ever argue, he would beat my ass. He was a little dude too. I NEVER saw him again or communicated with him again. That was pre cellphone/social media days Thank God. I took that very seriously. My father would have killed his ass. My advice is to NEVER give excuses and pay attention to the signs upfront 🙏🏾 for the people who go thru DV

[@phoenixherbert]

Glad she survived and she doesn't look like what she been through. Amazing woman.

[@user-bd6yr5et1z]

To God be all the Glory

[@ShadayNicolette]

I truly enjoy the interview set up vibes. The white/black color scheme, the way the questions are set up but also your mannerisms, the engagement, the topics. Giving me Hood Barbra Walters but the Male version…I wish you the best in your endeavors, this is dope!!!

[@joycewilson7045]

I empathize with this young lady but many many innocent people have gotten killed by another woman's choices to stay with an abusive person. I don't blame her sister for backing away.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Sheesh

[@breakbeatmedia]

🖤

[@nolabae]

Very true. I almost was ended because my best friends husband. I survived but he ended her about 4 months later.

[@joycewilson7045]

@@nolabae so sad.

[@cabcab2204]

Listening to her was like listening to a show on myself. I am so happy she made it out of that. I too was at the point of “it’s him or me”. And I also thought about dying because it was better than living another day with him. It’s a shame that so many of us share this same story.

[@dhalladay27]

That's so sad 😢...Much respect for your strength 💓

[@stormyrebel7088]

I lovvvve Chris’s authenticity and patience, it really shines through when he’s speaking to his guest. He always asks the right questions and the subtle way he leads in conversations helps to keeps things flowing and interesting. I love it hereeee 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@queenfacebeautyemily]

His family is definitely enabling him and either afraid of him, I pray she & her son get therapy and continue to live a safe good life.. she such a strong woman to get through it

[@Sapphire_16]

I can relate to her story so much. I was involved and fell inlove with a psychopath. I was 18yrs old and the firsrt year was good then after that he started with a smack in the face then it just escalated. I was with him for 4yrs but just like her I had enough. It got to the point that I sorta got used to being punched in the face. He threw me down stairs, spit on me, kicked me and harassed me after I broke up with him. He was calling threatening me and my family and tried to kick in our front door. He threw something in the window and broke it. He made my life a living hell. I had a restraining order, went to court and was done..so I thought. I went back to him after all of that. (STUPID!!) I realized things weren't going to change. I would bring knives with me when I went to go see him. I really had enough when I put a knife up to his throat and dared him to move. I was going to cut his throat. He for once was scared to even blink. When you had enough you had enough. If I would have killed him it would have been self defense but I would have still went to prison. I broke up with him for good. I never had any kids with him thank God. You never know what you'll do in a situation unless your actually in it. Its so easy to tell someone what you'll do and not put up with unless you were in the same situation so don't judge. Eventually the woman will come to her senses and will get tired of being a man's human punching bag. Its better to leave than to defend yourself by killing him though. Ladies be careful and don't allow it to start because it will continue and get worse. Love don't hurt and a real man wouldn't put his hands on a woman regardless of the situation

[@starr6465]

This woman needs serious counseling after all she’s been thru her little boy needs counseling also. She cannot heal herself. She has to dig deeper into her past.

[@Lucky_Gurl-Luna]

Btw they do use tactics to distance you from ur family. My abusive ex would say I needed to focus on our relationship. So every time I would try to have friends or spend time with family he would say I was neglecting him !! Then the arguments would start . Definitely when I would try to go out he would hide my keys . So I had to stash them in the house somewhere bc if I left them out he would hide them ! He even threw my phone out of the car window on the freeway!! Pulled my hair and dragged me out of the car !! It was just insane!! I truly hate him to this day!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@sheenaontheinternet]

He asked every question I was thinking after her answers . Great job!

[@jabellatv3240]

Why be mad at your mom for moving on but not your day for knocking up a young girl and having a baby on your mom I guess she was too young to understand but to say you lost all respect for her is crazy you watch him beat her and cheat on her she had every right to be loved. Only when you go through the same thing then you understand what your mother did this is why I watch what I do in front of my kids because even though they are young that doesn’t mean their dumb or oblivious of what’s going on around them. I grew up in a toxic household and I promised myself that I wouldn’t ever put my kids through that.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Yup. And the way a child reasons and a person with wisdom is very different

[@szasremmurd8002]

It’s because we live in a black male worshipping society and it is socialized into the black community at birth.

[@breakbeatmedia]

Forsure young and without the guidance needed

[@tpowe1983]

Exactly

[@theguyshepassedupfortyrone4043]

The biggest questions are, "Why did she CHOOSE him, and why didn't she leave after the FIRST assault?" I guarantee you she knew he wasn't worth Porta Potty water, from the jump.

[@bellamonroe7322]

The part that resonated with me the most is when she said she lost people because he beat her I remember this feeling of sadness too it’s not our fault we are scared to death to leave don’t cut off love ones because of dv 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@terricastaples852]

I was stabbed 7 times while I was 2 months pregnant in 2021 By a Narcissistic Man ,Me and my Son Survived, in my teens i was Abused mentally and Physically by My Mom and it went on until i Left home, and it followed me throughout my life, The cycle ends here 💯

[@tamtampin3490]

I love how he asks the questions! Like when he said. This isn’t rejection??

[@sherriekimberly6122]

Glad you made it out safe,I made it out as of #2023 after 30 yrs,I nv consider myself a domestic survivor and I cried and cried,now I'm starting too heal ,had to leave my state . I grew up watching domestic violence so I thought it was normal 😔 Hugs ❤️

[@dhalladay27]

💕✌️💫💓 Way To Go!!

[@keeshalabridges7056]

She calls the father of her child a MF, like he was the abuser but not the abuser. That’s crazy

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

He doesn't have to be the or a abuser to be a MF 😂😂

[@sweets20062107]

My heart goes out to her because no one deserves that treatment and I pray she knows she deserves so much better…I appreciate her sharing because she may have saved someone else blessings on top of blessings to her🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@breakbeatmedia]

🖤

[@mariehunt8904]

​​@@breakbeatmediacan I come on trapping anonymous the show and tell my story?

[@naturallybella]

Idk if she reads the comments but I am happy for her! She is so beautiful and has a beautiful heart. I’m sorry this happened to her but I prayer for better experiences in love ❤ and an abundant life

[@n.g.3741]

I'm glad she is alive to tell her story. Unfortunately, I don't believe her when she says she wouldn't go back. It's the pauses, like what is there to ponder? (rhetorical ?)

[@superniggaroach106]

I don't believer her either. She keep smiling like she like dat shit

[@LyntonyaB.]

You Have Some RAW content ❗️ 💯

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Love

[@breakbeatmedia]

Tap in for more!

[@ashleymorgan9187]

Yea he do

[@moniluvv]

Great interview!! I'm so happy she made it out of that situation. I really hope she can move on with her life and never see that weirdo again.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Facts!

[@breakbeatmedia]

Thank you for watching!

[@dhalladay27]

This is a life, I personally have only seen on YT. Thank you all for your honesty & vulnerability 💕✌️🙏. Your videos bring something new to learn, appreciate, understand. My city has Many Native reserves. I have great respect for all Authenticites. We have so many different backgrounds and yet, without each other, we are Nothing.

[@andreacaughey6761]

So much of this goes on and it takes a lot to speak on it .. I had a friend many years ago ,her partner abused her and she begged me say nothing until one time he kicked a baby out of her and I was so angry I confronted him.. she never spoke to me again and is still with him,I’m talking 30 years she’s lived this life 😢

[@TrappinAnonymous]

wow

[@lawrencehill2693]

She truly kept it very honest! As a friend of someone who went through something similar. It’s hard for them to get out when they’re scared, when there’s no help from the police because they have to “catch” them in the act or you have to keep filing police reports. Sometimes calling the police escalates the violence especially if they don’t keep them locked up. So many women have died trying to get out.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

yessss

[@brittanielove92]

Glad she did what she had to do 🤞🏾🙏🏾

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Facts

[@breakbeatmedia]

🖤

[@bxbydior586]

I can relate so much being a spoil girl coming up! And going through abuse whew! I need to come tell my story up here!💔🙏🏾

[@lnbm-eq8nk]

She enabled the abuser loves him more then her child but she doesn't want to enable a relationship for her kid and his father. She said she hates the dad but he never did anything to her...wow

[@BlackAbyss25]

Not surprising honestly alot of modern woman are backwards these days

[@SoulSearch1111]

​@@BlackAbyss25yeah because of her trash dad

[@qianahill3590]

yea she is blowing me

[@jadahill832]

You’re beautiful and strong ladies. I hope y’all actually listen to her story it can happen to anyone.

[@fantishasherifa8251]

I soooo relate when she said she had 2 make a plan to get out. I made a plan 2 leave my ex n it was because of my job as a live in caregiver I was able 2 leave the relatioship. My son was never there 2 experience what i had went through n i Thank God for that!!!! That man broke me down sooo bad!!! Im glad she got out when she did. This story brought tears 2 my eyes!!!!!!!!!!💜💜💜💜

[@TheYoulante]

God bless every man and woman who has gone through this. It hit me when she said that no one will raise our kids like we will. It's so true. I saw my sister and mom endure this, and I never understood, but I can now empathize.

[@melindamullins9272]

this story will help so many women its mind control these men have over women then the horrific violence to your own significant ither is demonic so happy this beautiful woman got away from that demonic person good luck to her she is so very strong. God bless you.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Amen!

[@breakbeatmedia]

🖤

[@angelaholmes6374]

He was an amazing dad but on drugs hits mom and has a kid on her sorry not sorry but that's not the definition of amazing, he had a baby on her and she only saw what her mother did DV mentality

[@keeshalabridges7056]

It’s like she loves the abuser

[@DivineHer]

yeah, she had me so confused there. she has a deep father wound.

[@patricesneed1149]

Love what you are doing.

[@Goddess-Reign]

So proud of you, keep ya head up always ❤🥰

[@unicoh972]

They don’t want us to disagree with anything they say and if we do they lash out ! My last straw was when my narcissist got mad at me because I was on KZbin looking at videos and when I told him no I won’t get off he rushed me and body slammed me in the middle of my bedroom floor and my autistic son that suffers from anxiety, that was 11 at the time saw this happen and I screamed because I thought he was going to beat me half to death again, but I was screaming, biting, kicking and punching at the same time because I refused to be beat like the last time and especially in front of my son and have my son traumatized by me being beat and bleeding. I fought so hard that he jumped off of me and I was screaming so loud that my niece that lives downstairs from me grabbed her gun and ran upstairs to my door and my autistic son was able to open my door and my niece told my abuser that if he didn’t leave at that very moment she was going to shoot him and call the police! Of course he tried to lie to her and say that I fell and from what I hear that’s the same lie he’s been telling everyone since that day ,especially his family but his family lives in Indiana and they just believe whatever he says . His mom enables him to be a narcissist because he grew up watching his dad beat his mom all of the time and one time with a car jack!! She actually told me to forgive him while he was in jail and of course I did because the forgiveness was for me and to keep me from being stressed but he has lied to people that I don’t even know talking about me once I went no contact to the point that these strangers are calling me warning me about him because he gave them my number. But it’s fine now because I am armed legally in the state of Nevada, I pray that I won’t have to defend myself against my sons day and he loses but if it comes down to it I will

[@royonyeka9172]

No human should be victims of domestic violence, but I think she enabled him , allowed him to stay longer in her life . She loved an abuser that’s deep .

[@unicoh972]

I am a survivor of DV from a narcissist! I was with this man on and off for 26 years and I have a 10 year old son with him. I never understood how I put up with his lies , love bombing and then discard whenever he didn’t need me at that moment. I loved him to death and would take him back every time. Except in 2020 I refused to take him back and we were coparenting and he basically tried to beat me to death! I had stitches in both lips, he beat a hole in my jaw from the outside in and I had knots all upside my head. I lost so much blood before the ambulance arrived that I passed out! He did two and a half years and caught two felonies for that BUT I still took him back after that because I still loved him! Long story short I finally realized that he was a narcissist and the more I did to make him happy he would never be happy. I put him out in June of 2022 and I’ve finally got back to loving me. Unfortunately we have a 10 year old together that has his own iPhone and this man doesn’t call him at all because his narcissistic ass doesn’t acknowledge our son at all if im not dealing with him . Its sad for my son but im actually happy because I don’t have to worry about him trying to use my son to get to me

[@celiafeliciano3894]

😢🙏 god bless u, never look back

[@hoodspiritualist6109]

Great interview! I’m binge watching your channel. I went through physical, financial and mental abuse for 14 years, had 6 children. When I finally left I didn’t complete the job. Left too much room and he ended up plotting and taking my 6 girls. I’m still fighting that now. Ran into another Man who was abusive in a different way. I thought I had learned but because it wasn’t beatings I went back and forth for 2.5 years. Abuse can be tricky. I hold them accountable for their actions but I really had to get to the root of what it was about me that attracted and entertained them. Tough look in the mirror, tough road to walk . Still learning. Sending her and her baby so much love. Sending all the ladies going through anything similar so much love.

[@ShizisTruth]

❤ my journey right now bc I don’t ever want to deal with this again. He story is definitely mines except I was dealing with a covert narc. Never did anything in front of ppl tho!! That healing be real. Accountable for you choice is important but he’s gotta go to jail. It wasn’t my fault

[@ManuellaObeng-Nortey]

This sorry touched me because as a 21 year old going into social service worker I’m going to be experiencing women who been homeless, DV etc it’s a sad cycle that still happens today 😢 and women end up dying due to this I feel how can you just put your hands on a woman it’s like putting hands on your mom !! Because I know some man’s would not lowe that shit and end up killing a man for that shit yk I pray she gets therapy and healing from this. I pray theses DV abusers deserve every karma they get remember god don’t sleep y’all.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Karma always finds its way around

[@breakbeatmedia]

I'm sorry you had to go through that 🖤

[@MindlessVIRUS143]

He gets out of jail soon you should’ve blurred her face . Wishing the best for her

[@breakbeatmedia]

🙏

[@meoshahudson7034]

I stayed in my DV relationship for years because I hit him first and the abuse never stopped from there. I was 12 years younger than him and very immature, not excusing my behavior but that one time certainly opened the door for him to hit me any and every time after that. I often wonder how the relationship would have turned out had I never done that.

[@HealingIntentionally]

I also did the same thing. But after I hit him first I swore to never do it again and I had to control my emotions. It took a lot of work but he did not do the same and he never stopped hitting me. I wondered why he couldn’t do what I did. One day he even ended up cutting me. I still think I started it but he also had a choice to stop which was what I did.

[@meoshahudson7034]

@@HealingIntentionallyI’m sorry we had to experience that sis. 🥹

[@chicparlor7590]

He would have been the same because it wasn't you. It was him.

[@risiwilkerson8460]

50:40 yesss they always telling me u just gotta be tired 🥹🩵🩵🩵💯💯💯

[@katrinathomas7291]

I’m very tired 24 years

[@waynejohnson2894]

You are an awesome interviewer!

[@DreadheadMimi]

I feel her pain 😢😢😢😢 i’ve been in abusive relationship to

[@Tikilyalevon]

Everything she said I’ve been there it started at 16 and he was 22 yrs old it’s definitely a journey everybody don’t survive plus more survivor of many blessed 🙏🏽💪🏽❤️

[@norajewels3362]

I HOPE SHES GOOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS A UPDATE IS NEEDED SOON

[@craigphillips8492]

Yo Homie, I like your style I like your demeanor, and I like the way you get down homey keep doing your thing

[@luvlyez]

Definitely turned me into a beast 😥 Great episode ❤

[@CarinRenee]

The vision of this nigga keep running everywhere like a track star is WILD 🥴

[@TrappinAnonymous]

That shit kept playing in my mind

[@breakbeatmedia]

🤣

[@MegaKrytonite]

😂😂😂

[@latoyarichardson1048]

I also been there salute Queen ❤❤❤

[@elijahford489]

She completely lost me when she said she felt a way about her mom having sex with another man after her dad passed away that man had a baby on your mom & brought a baby into the home smh she's sick In the head , I blame the parents for sure

[@icequeen1439]

Hmm she was 7 years old when she felt that way. She was a child., not understanding the full concept of things. She said when she became an adult, then she understood the totality of the situation (because she was in her domestic violence relationship). You lost yourself , when you hold a 7 year old accountable for way her thinking at the time.

[@bekind6684]

@@icequeen1439 Exactly what I was thinking.

[@icequeen1439]

@@bekind6684 right, because what do people be saying??

[@asiayoung86]

Thank you for sharing and educating us. Some many people are too assumed to speak about what they went through. I can’t imagine living in those moments. I’m happy you were able to get away.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Absolutely

[@breakbeatmedia]

🖤

[@dhalladay27]

💕💓💫 Shame & Guilt is behind much of this for the DV survivors.

[@brandonwill2977]

It’s something wrong here.. everyone she deals with is toxic including her.. she makes bad decisions and puts herself in bad situations constantly.. even when she talks about her son she says my son. I needed my son even when she clearly said they wasn’t feeling each other and it was a mistake… therapy is needed not new relationships.. I couldn’t even finish the interview before I wrote this comment.. it was so many red flags

[@sentelnbalivebolton7399]

Woman will stay with this kind of guy forever and wont even look at the opposite guy

[@helgapataki4156]

It's like a demon is chasing you & WON'T LEAVE YOU ALONE; you're literally trapped & suffocated. After awhile "your" people will shun you & get agitated w/ you; & while I understand, its another layer of loneliness. God & whoever God sends is your way out. I hope no 1 moving forward wld ever exp this, b/c you die each day until God moves on your behalf.

[@dasavvyexperience]

I feel her its fucked up and takes alot to heal from 🙌🏿

[@angelaholmes6374]

And I definitely know how it is when the police don't get involved because when I went to them when they didn't see any bruises it was like oh go cool off

[@camara1x]

Im proud of you sista..period ive walkrd this journey We can ask why you didn't do this or that when your in it the situation your mind is warped and your scared

[@gogiphum915]

He did it once and that was not even on my face and that was the very last time cos I left his sorry ass, even after a 5 star safari vacay.. I left him. I'm no punching bag and I don't care who a partner think they are

[@chosen3258]

They say it’s the women who cause divorce rates to be so high… but they don’t speak on all those women who stay no matter what and don’t know how to leave because their moms stayed no matter what…. The reason the divorce rate is so high is because these men don’t love or respect their wives and women need to also learn to respect themselves first before enduring all this trauma and then try loving and respecting the man who reciprocates it.

[@mischarashann778]

The signs beforehand is what we kinda ignore. After going through counseling, I learned the small signs in the beginning that I totally overlooked. I would say first time you see anything in initial dating stage run for hills. Ask about him, check his track record etc.. I thank God I’m a survivor. Everyday I count my blessings

[@dfordonnn]

This really is my story… damn yo 💔💔💔

[@TrappinAnonymous]

😢

[@dfordonnn]

@@TrappinAnonymous ❤️‍🩹🙏🏽

[@shadesofatlantashadesofatl7890]

Her Story, Others Story & My Story. Thank You For Sharing

[@TrappinAnonymous]

100%

[@breakbeatmedia]

🖤

[@asiamarie4]

It's wild how it often starts with that extra hard shove/push..... That's my story as well, and I got up apologizing for pissing him off.

[@naturalbeauty637]

Wow, I just can't imagine living like this. I'm glad she survived and can live to tell the story.

[@2x._jaydontplay234]

Wow, just wow

[@reddwarrior2249]

Idk why I got pissed when you asked what did he overdose on after she said he did drugs

[@BetsyWells-od6nf]

First time my man hit me was around Christmas sent that a** to work singin all I want for Christmas is my 2 front teefusus🤓.. Eye for an eye toof for a toof

[@gogiphum915]

I can't help the silly imagination of him coming out of nowhere running towards you to do his business quickly just to bolt off again😂😂😂😂

[@LyntonyaB.]

this is so intense already

[@breakbeatmedia]

Definitely a rough one

[@mellabeautynyc8587]

I been wanting to tell my story for the longest but growing on these platforms is so hard 😢😩

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Truly is

[@alanfortune3092]

If you really want to tell your story and exhale, try it with the camera 📷 on and then review it with the person doing the interview. You will not discover your strength until you test your strength... You can and will make it through! Hang in there!

[@mellabeautynyc8587]

@@alanfortune3092 Thank you for your kind words ❤️🙏🏾

[@mekamathis821]

I just recently did it, and trust me, it's a different levely of healing, but your story is also needed

[@alanfortune3092]

Watch "The Burning Bed"

[@Hairbyabby]

Its the "potential" for me. We as women always gotta see the potential in a man. Why cant he come complete? I had the same problem. Saw the potential that never came. SMH. I got out

[@ShizisTruth]

That will get you everytime!! We gotta !! He he ain’t whole he gotta go!!

[@dondattaford5593]

Its amazing how they stay and oick some clown whipping their ass and why cause fine or something stupid she ain't telling how many times she calls the police

[@TWats1]

I really hate this line of questioning... 🙄🙄... Yeah, leaving is the most dangerous time for victims

[@mlove8158]

It really is. One time my ex broke into my bedroom was sitting on my bed after I broke up with him. I had to act like I was happy to see him but I was really scared. These type of people that hit women don’t like to be left.

[@gabemeadows2087]

Hope she healed, learn choose better

[@user-mw8oh8pq1g]

I always wondered what happened to Michelle.Happy to see that she is doing well …

[@Sirrah9]

These stories need to be heard as a warning to women but also for abusers who think violence is okay. I see comments and judgment on why women stayed, why didn't they take heed to the red flags but where are the comments and suggestions for abusers to stop and get help. Telling a survivor to just leave and not involve the cops is crazy. Why do abusers need to be protected. The accountability scale is so lopsided when it comes to survivors/victims vs abusers.

[@dreamboyce5698]

This girl so lost feel so sorry for her

[@tyrajenkins9665]

Exactly knowing he is dangerous and kept going back

[@stopthebsplease1643]

2 sides to every story

[@unicoh972]

When they try to contact us it’s never about our kid it’s always them trying to be with us!

[@yakitajohnson7804]

Honesty he cheated on her beat her had a baby on her hell soon as that bastard was in the ground i would of being celebrating not necessarily with another man but just happy to be away from that dog

[@nikkinic2269]

The law of ATTRACTION is real, in good and bad ways. She internalized the abuse she WITNESSED her mom enduring and attracted a similar ENERGY to her father (someone she loved). We are existing in a SPIRITUAL world, in physical form. She CREATED that experience, just like all the other women (and men) that have had to deal with this. Be mindful of your thoughts, they become feelings. Be cognizant of your feelings, they become vibrations. Vibrations are frequencies that ATTRACT like ENERGY!

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Yes

[@tamekajamison8742]

Definitely went through it all

[@TrappinAnonymous]

hell yea

[@tyrajenkins9665]

Your responsible for how people treat you going back for more bearings this man is also wondering why are you allowing him to continuously abuse you at what point was enough you kept this man around after even having him arrested so honestly going back for more abuse was something you chose to go back to it makes no sense to deal with someone that is repeatedly violating you and you keep feeling sorry for him i hope you heal those wounds because you will keep attracting the same abusers you have a weakness somewhere in which you need to check to see why you think you deserve this and that’s why your family walked away from you cause you kept going back

[@QurlyChic]

I’m hanging onto her words of “no one would help me” but she negotiated with her abuser about hitting her in the leg because they’re asking questions at work. Also when her big sis would be intrusive. Isn’t this people offering help? Please help me to understand

[@camara1x]

Yep 1 year is all they get

[@brownskinlady]

Im sorry but this interviewer isnt very good. All over the place, asking obvious questions, no follow-up questions to gain more insight. You can tell hes just coming up with any/every question just to keep her talking. And how did we get on the baby's father and his child support? This very serious and real issue should be explored- just get the appropriate ppl to do it.

[@evesgene3455]

I officially knew I wasn't crazy that he was actually abusive when we were in a corner store with some friends of ours and we all playfully spoke to a crackhead that wasn't making any trouble and we were just laughing with him because despite his addiction he is a person and it was a simple human exchange, got back to the car and he whispered in my ear so the other 2 couples with us couldn't hear him tell me that I talk too Fu#@& much and he wishes that man grabbed me and tried to S.A me and he would have let it happen. 😢 that exchange with him was scarier than any other episode i can remember having with him.