Actions speak louder than words bestie, and you know how easy it is to show love and be transparent.. listen to your heart! The right person will reciprocate.
@heather_huff_8 ай бұрын
true🥺
@discoistrendy8 ай бұрын
Sweet girl, in 10 years you will be looking back and longing for now. It's easier said than done but try not to rush to the future ❤️ there's so much time ahead of you!! You are not supposed to figure out your life in your 20s regardless of the pressure you may feel.
@VOsTravelwithKIDS8 ай бұрын
Give yourself more time! You are so beautiful! I am praying for you!
@laurenramsey678 ай бұрын
What’s funny is I moved from Florida to NY to be with my best friend. At first I had regrets because I was so homesick even though I didn’t like my home. I had no one in NY besides my best friend but I gave it time and it turned out for the best. I love my job and my new friends and it’s been so good to get out of my comfort zone.
@AnnetteCoombes8 ай бұрын
You need to give it time when I moved it took me a while to find friends and happiness in my new place . Please know that we are xx
@heather_huff_8 ай бұрын
thank you❤️
@TarotTea8 ай бұрын
Hun I didn’t figure out my life until my 30s. And that was after 2 marriages and 2 kids lol. Your energy is what is most important. Nurturing you no matter where you are. I’ve been a subscriber for awhile and I always want to tell you “let’s hang out!” But I’m all the way in California, but I’m actually moving to Salem in the next few months lol.
@Pumpkinandgray8 ай бұрын
Ps: I vote you and Ben move to Salem together. 😂
@heather_huff_8 ай бұрын
i second this!
@maggieritchie93828 ай бұрын
one of my fav things after weight loss surgery was the chick fil a mac and cheese literally so yummy and soft! gunna have to try it combo
@daisygirrl12348 ай бұрын
34 year old here…. I didn’t have my life figured out until just recently! Cut out people who don’t nourish and water you. Because you do not want to drain youself 🩷 leave whoever is not meeting you in the middle with the love and attention behind you and keep pushing forward do not allow anyone to treat you less than you deserve babe!!!!!! 🌞
@farcuri8 ай бұрын
i totally feel you w, the anxious phone checking and wanting attention and it SUCKS lol. i think you should go to the book club and start doing things to distract yourself/meet more people! some say it’s best to distract yourself but i struggle with putting a lot of my energy into others too 😞. i’m glad your job is going well i think you have a good plan and you might like florida if you give it some more time ❤
@TheAnglsun7157 ай бұрын
Don't move back to NY! Stick it out, you're just home sick, YOU GOT THIS! I check faithfully every day for a new video. Florida is so beautiful you should start vlogging 😊
@heather_huff_7 ай бұрын
thank you
@TheAnglsun7157 ай бұрын
@@heather_huff_ I will!!! 😊 Can't wait
@buturfliechaysur8 ай бұрын
kinda saw this coming
@buturfliechaysur8 ай бұрын
3:03 ....100 percent
@buturfliechaysur8 ай бұрын
a little context - i moved to Georgia from my home in Wisconsin when I was 20 to run away from my problems (and cuz i didn't have a job, couldn't pay rent, and my mom wouldn't let me live with her) and my problems followed me there. I moved back home after a month
@pumpkinpatch58 ай бұрын
@@buturfliechaysurBecause wherever you go, you take yourself with you. 😞
@heather_huff_8 ай бұрын
this honestly makes me feel better. sometimes things just don't work out and that's okay❤️
@buturfliechaysur8 ай бұрын
@@heather_huff_ I am glad that helped
@amberteague21238 ай бұрын
Chic fil a and Target sounds like a perfect outing to me!! LOL Nothing too wild and crazy! Like others are saying, give yourself some time to adjust. Your feelings are valid and real, the sadness/loneliness will subside in time. Don't stress about having your life together, I am 38 and still trying to figure it all out. Sending you love and hugs!! ❤
@jenniferlowery65868 ай бұрын
Good things come to those who wait! Give it time, things will work out you just got there and still ironing or all the details and thoughts. If you do move back you'll see things time and people stand still. Embrace change. You just got the job in the field you went to college for which is awesome one +, you have a lifestyle situation that allot of people would give their right arm for, it's a prime opportunity to restart rebuild rebrand and restart everything in life! You get to where you wanna be try making a 6 month n a yr plan for ideas and such then go for a 5 yr plan. You're not alone in feeling like you moved out n away quickly. I did as soon as I graduated HS in June in July I was at Ft. Jackson 96' in the RA. I had nothing going for my life that was the best option at the time. Try working down your feelings a couple times a week on these topics and compare on how they change and you feel. You'd be amazed. You'll be fine it's like having cold feet.
@bonnielunday81628 ай бұрын
Please give this move a chance. You will start to meet people. Give it some time.
@Pumpkinandgray8 ай бұрын
It’s so crazy to watch this as a 34 year old because I just want to hug and tell you it’s ALL ahead 🤍 and I mean that. It’s ok to not know right now-even though I’m a Virgo and that’s easier said than done lol. But it is ok. Always here, boo!
@heather_huff_8 ай бұрын
thank you bestie🥺🥺❤️
@samthenotetaker18 ай бұрын
Hun you just moved there, you haven’t given it anytime to even settle into your new life and job. Definitely hope you’re not moving for some man. I thought you liked your new job? Why give that up? Especially when you have nothing set up in New York job wise. Making friends in new places takes time and effort.
@heather_huff_8 ай бұрын
oh my goodness no not at all!!! i wouldn't let anyone influence my life choices especially not a MAN lol i was mostly joking but i'm just overthinking a lot🙃