'I want to cheat on my husband to avenge his infidelity & I want to cheat with his close friend!

Dear Marriage Coach,
I recently discovered that my husband has been cheating on me. I feel so bitter and am planning to avenge. I have actually started flirting with one of his friends. Will this planned vengeance ease my pain? After all, don't they say: an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth?......

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[@JUSTWANGUI]

Wakiama is not living in obvilion, she states real life issues zenye hatutaki kusikia and I love her message about forgiveness and kuvumilia unless Kuna violence

[@ruterewanjiru9575]

Heheh women are still in marriages as kuvumilia?.

[@gracewairimu937]

Sex is not a game of chess , it’s all the feelings involved , you become one with that person Ephesians 5:31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” Note those two words “One flesh” how many people do you want to become one with, you have no idea what soul ties your entangling with , if you can’t handle the truth instead of revenge walk .

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[@dedankamande7718]

I know wa Kiama since I was in Secondary school she speaks the truth. She is my mentor. I got my Ph.D. due to her advice and teaching.....

[@nancywambui746]

Hello Monica! I sometimes feel so disturbed seeing an older woman like wakiama telling young women like us on how we should settle in marriage where infidelity is involved,this is so wrong..why is it okay for men to cheat nd women not to, remb even if its not physical abuse , emotional abuse too kills slowly.. infidelity should not be a one sided discussion to have.. ND Monica allow me to say this, alot of women who are okay & support this they have passed through it so they don't see a bid deal.. Infidelity is wrong for whatever reason.

[@jacintamagiri6161]

@nancy I understand you na doh apo mwisho akasema,,she can't tell you to sit and wait for the diseases,,,if you see it's like a habit to"your" man she said you can leave

[@nancywambui746]

@@jacintamagiri6161 okay,but still

[@janemwangi6932]

We're not of the old covenant of akina solomon, moses David etc. We're of the new covenant of Jesus Christ. New creation created in christ Jesus. Evn the virtue woman of Proverbs 31 was a woman of old testament, the woman showered by works not love. Bt the woman of new testament the woman of Christ is showered by love and unconditional love. That's why Jesus started by a dressing men to love their wives like christ loves the church Ephesians 5 : 25 - 33. When cancelling using the scriptures, we must differentiate btwn old and new testament believers and never read one verse only bt the whole chapter otherwise evn when reading the Bible we must know the message and the audience the message was reffered to. That's why many people are manuplated and enslaved thro the scriptures taken out of the context. There are those also enslaved by covering their head with vitambaa whereas the paul clearly has explained that the hair of a woman is her glory and given by God for covering otherwise its not vilemba na vitambaa. Hata ame malizia mna kusema, mwenye ako na other views it's not so kwa church ya God Read 1 cor 2 : 1- 16 and repeat verses( 11 - 16.) and realise how dangerous its to read just a verse and become contented. Many false teachers dnt read to people verses 11 - 16 so that they can manuplate, brainwash, enslave and control people.

[@janemwangi6932]

I never listen to marriage chancellors. If we dnt sought out our issues me and my husband, not evn my parents nor bishop can solve our issues otherwise one of us might not be willing to change no matter what and nothing the other can do. Evn this cancelors wako na the same issues in their marriages it's only that wako job ya cancelling and they must please men in marriage cancelling to portray humbleness of a woman like a virtual woman in Proverbs 31 which churches and society use to enslave and abuse women. Bt the woman of Christ in the new testament is showered by love not works of the law and regulations unlike women of old testaments. We now have freedom in christ. Only a mad woman cannot humble to a loving husband bt unfortunately wako bt are minority. Women are created to be loved and men to be respected. So by loving a woman the respect comes automatically. That's why Jesus started by a dressing men to like love their wives just like christ loves the church. Then women humble to your husbands. Any forced humbleness is an abuse. Humbleness is byproduct of love. A man who hates his wife hates himself Am addressing to born again believers in Christ otherwise every religion has different beliefs.

[@wambuinderitu2461]

I support you fully 💯 Nancy....I also don't get it why infidelity is right for a man but wrong to a woman......I personally can't advise anyone to stay with a cheating partner....you should leave him or her coz if that partner loves you him or her couldn't cheat 😃... anyway that's my stand and everyone has their opinions but women should be wise n don't lower their standards

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[@margaretwanjiru451]

Weh you cheat I know I cheat back infact ntazalia mtu mwingine nikiwa tu huko kwako what you were going to get out is the same thing I will be going to get

[@fk-wl3kh]

hii kichwa ngumu yenu na ujuaji mingi ndo inawaumiza

[@margaretwanjiru451]

@@fk-wl3kh weh sai pia Wanawake wanamalizana so let people live the way they want after all no one is going to get out of this life alive

[@estherwanjiku414]

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[@francisndiranguq975]

Mataaro mega....thanks

[@marykamau2764]

Am a widow, but I concur with Wa kîama100%.

[@njokeyrg]

Its well and good to make your rebuttal, but not necessary to psycho analyze the lady who made that comment.... Proverbs 6:32-35 Having said that; women who 'cant handle it' are in good company, Sarah in the Bible couldn't handle it either, she asked her husband to send hagar away; God said to Abraham to do as Sarah had said and Abraham married Keturah AFTER Sarah's death. If men were taught and obeyed Gods word this conversations would not be necessary.

[@jonnyaga8904]

I love Wanjiru KIAMA because she is very open and sincere and her advice is in most cases spot-on. As a man, I know both women and men sometime play mischief with their partners and whenever that happens, the couple should always sit down over coffee or tea or better lunch outside their home where they can have a candid talk in privacy and discuss the issues facing them with a view to resolve the matter between them. This is to a large extent the first option before they seek other options.

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Very nice

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Am here single and happy

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Nuu wakuhenia gutuaka muthuri ni kugia na aka aingi? Okorwo kristo niwe muriithi waku mandiko maugite ucio wikaga uguo ni mundu mukigu

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The woman today is empowered and knows what she want

[@Christmas211]

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Hiidi ya amami maudu nimekagwo official na nikwali na itiyo....thikoici arume mureeda kurugaruga na motikweda majukumu

[@COUNSELOR_WANJIRU_KIAMA]

Thanks everyone for the comments. I take both negative and the positive feedbacks it's very healthy. But make sure you are not fighting because of the unfinished businesses you have from men or women. Instead of that seek therapists and you will be okay. Both negative and positive especially from women make me stronger coz I fly high above them like an Eagle. You can never live a positive life with a negative ming. Be blessed.

[@jacklinemutie8901]

Am here but single

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Why are u single.

[@jacklinemutie8901]

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Mithari 6:30-35

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