I Was R*ped By A Woman - Benjamin

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[@MinentleThwala]

Pp

[@User08882]

Almost all guys i know actually lost their virginity to older women (an aunt, family friend, helpers etc) . This is sooo problematic. Women are just as dangerous as men so i hope this raises awareness for many. Boys must be protected

[@IamBarati]

Yes, most guys I met lost their virginity at a very young age to older women too. They don't seem to see a problem. I wonder what type old 16yr old girl finds a 13yr old boy interesting

[@Gorillax335]

16 18 20 year old ​@@IamBarati

[@User08882]

@@IamBarati exactly. They all brush it off as jokes but its soo abusive and wrong. These people were violated by “trusted” women. It happens way more than it’s acknowledged

[@kankazesolomon1900]

This is a very powerful message to the society I hope the message reach the so called leaders to change their perceptions regarding men against women

[@thaaLoverboyy9944]

Even older sisters bro

[@tebogomaphephe3470]

Women get away with such things all the time it gets swept under the rug....even when a woman falsely accuses a man of rape nothing happens to her no punishment whatsoever. I'm glad this gentlemen is talking about this because theres alot of men out there who experienced similar things and are dyin in silence because of fear of being Judged , clowned upon and embarrassment.

[@thembikunene4531]

You are so so right. This was a clear child abuse.

[@LTBL769]

Mr Benjamin's voice is perfect for radio hey... its very easy to listen to him

[@peachberrypie]

Men get r@ped too, especially as teens, this man was groomed, what a sh!t woman, sies! Hoping for healing for this brother. Don't allow anybody to shame you.

[@Kusanagi7618]

Omnye on a different show said she's looking for a young boy and "If una 18 sekamdala" and no one batted an eye, BATHONG I was shook more at peoples lack of acknowledgement of what she had just said phambi kwa everyone!

[@watsonnyathi5133]

“Stop exposing your boy child to your naked” that’s powerful 😢

[@GabisileKhoza-l1u]

I been preaching to his to my friends. How do you bath and go naked from a boy child ...no ways

[@katlegoalphinah4800]

My father once said the same to my female cousin and they laughed at him

[@m18m40]

Happened to me told my my mother and wife didn’t help much I also don’t know how this affects me but I’m a dad now and I’m super protective over my son I’m always with him

[@anthonytesla8382]

I'm sorry for the abuse you suffered. Society's attitude definitely doesn't help either.

[@onelove6971]

It’s about being vocal with your son & educating him. So others don’t have to educate him the wrong ways.

[@xuffler]

All those who believe him gathered here ✍️

[@Mamesh92]

from the minute he introduced himself

[@chumisambiza619]

✋🏽

[@PeterMnisi-o3e]

It's better to keep quiet if you have never gone through this experience because am one of the victim i was raped when i was 9 years by my step sister who was way older than me so please it's better not to comment if you have never experienced it

[@sindiswadlamini1494]

🙌🏾

[@SomXee]

Oh man, How did she rape you? ​@PeterMnisi-o3e

[@Tshepo22]

We need to be careful as parents some predators are people we trust, we must pay careful attention to our kids

[@thembikunene4531]

So true, abusers r always people that r known to the abusee.

[@Shantz-rw1xi]

He speaks so well, I can listen to his voice all day long❤ My brother I wish you healing, thanks for sharing your story...your story is helping a husband/brother out there that went through the same.

[@CarlMarlonMagobe-mr5jz]

God is good all the time 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@chisonimponda363]

May the good Lord continues protecting him

[@eddietheafrican1102]

Thousand likes . I lost my mom at a very at a tender age , wont talk about my dad becuse he died before he died . I pray fathers be there for their kids . I got severely abused my aunt who was married to my uncle , shouted vulgar in my face , beat me up too bad for small misdemeanours. It was bad , i relate to this guy

[@emilymokoena9842]

May the Holy Spirit continue to comfort you 🙏

[@thembikunene4531]

I'm sorry and hope you have considered to get counselling.

[@Maneomosala]

This interview triggered my emotions so much.....I found myself crying

[@kaycara5333]

I am triggered

[@chisonimponda363]

Tears 😢indeed

[@AndileMkhize-i5c]

Thank you for sharing, i wish to confront the source of my trauma someday most of all heal from it, be better for it

[@slimtonthegreen]

I hope this video finds those seeking closure and may it inspire revelation and healing

[@sandrabeck8035]

Thank you for this video. I was really crying sometimes. It was very sensitive and interesting. Greetings from Berlin/Germany

[@mncedindovela1227]

I tried it all in my 2022, 2023 till 2024 Feb dating someone who has childhood traumas. Never experienced such a disrespect in 5 years younger woman than me, turning every chat to a fight, every story she tells she is a victim at work and everywhere, a pathological liar, don't listen a thing but ready to say "Oh it means", very lazy, no shame at all, not taking a little responsibility as little as washing her own dish, she will make you feel like telling her stop I will do it myself, I later learned about gaslighting! I tried everything until I googled her behaviour and knew about NPD. It was my first time reading someone's exact behaviour on the article like that. Long story short I found that all the things she is doing to me she is telling her sister from foster parents that I am doing these things to her. She knew me as a very terrible bf to her sister because of my behaviour that is hers. I haven't recovered but I thank the experience!

[@Lucienne-b3v]

damn brother that is insane, love is a mental illness and women are toxic as well no doubt. Women need to also call out women for their bombastic and toxic behaviour at times. Now I ask the question to any woman I am potentially wanting to date, "do you have any unhealed trauma because if so, will it affect our relationship?" Many times the women say no trauma and then bang on the money trauma speaks. It is damaging to men because I also experienced dealing and dating someone with trauma yet that person could not apologise to this day for their toxic behaviour. I let her go and now she is heading back to South Africa 2025 Jan, no way in hell will I take a woman like that back. It took me a while to heal until I could finally say I am ready to mingle again. I have recovered but will never forget.

[@bhekikhayamabizela]

Iv been watching this podcast for a while but this episode was one of the most informative and thought provoking episodes iv come accross.Iv never learnt this much watching this podcast. Best episode by far.

[@ZionVibesofficial]

This testimony is an eye opener, some old women are predators...Many of them even bath naked with their boy child.

[@Lucienne-b3v]

haibo, for real?

[@taasolesela3157]

Most people don't know how common this is in society. A lot of teen boys are having their first sexual encounters with grown women.

[@Facelesssceneary]

We KNOW Men are told they've " scored " they're told by THEIR OWN PEERS that it's normal and they should be proud etc

[@KhupeAmija6405]

Who will cry for this young boy?

[@SelloLebea-yd2pq]

Cry? Men don't crypto broer

[@bekiekeys5249]

Young man

[@chisonimponda363]

So sad

[@assurancemagaya7477]

God preserves his people through trials and He is Faithful.His name is Faithful.

[@cynthiar6917]

I applaud his strength and courage to share his story. May God continue Bless you 🙏

[@ChwayitaMboxela]

Your story is painful Pastor but you're so resilient and God is good at the end thanks for sharing your histoy🙌🏿🙏

[@jaylem6291]

23:43 great episode. We always learn from these things. Just an advise to not include that trading app ad. A lot of people have lost money when they try to withdraw and got blocked with funds still there. A lot. But great content still.

[@astrochild1575]

This was hard and uncomfortable but necessary to hear. What you've gone through is a lot but choosing to be a voice for positivity and God is amazing.

[@thembikunene4531]

So so true🤔

[@zanne9124]

i thought the story was disturbing on its own but after reading the comments it got worse. I really feel for the boy child that goes through all this. I hope you guys can heal one of these good days.

[@nicosekano5942]

it happened to me, i dont have the strengh to tell anyone. this is the first time ive ever disclosed it here as a 24 year old man & thats because i know nobody here knows who i am

[@MagaselaThato]

I'm sorry man, hope you heal.

[@ditshwanelolepheane6167]

🫂

[@Ghost2709-y3e]

Sorry bro...Love and light❤🫂

[@Funquka24Basingi]

I'm glad men have courage to tell ,.. too😢

[@EC-Youtube]

I needed to see this, to know im not alone, and be more stronger than ever

[@palesaneo3817]

Hugs

[@NompiliciousM]

I’m in tears, thank you for speaking bo Baba, thank you to the people who are bringing this incredible show to us. I know about this kind of trauma, hearing it from the victim’s always breaks me. In you I see Kings Bo Baba we thank you for allowing yourselves to be Gods Vessel’s, the solutions you are giving are coming from a higher place. It takes a lot to speak 🗣 about such traumas especially for Men because of that awful statement “ Men don’t Cry”. May our Good Lord Bless you and all your loved ones abundantly 🙏🏾🙌🏾 I’m so sorry about what you went through Mr Motloung😢 such a coincidence, My Surname is Motloung 😁😁

[@Tebogo.Mash91]

It's about time women takes some accountability, this is a common story for most men but men stories get overlooked by society and communities.

[@kgothatsomodisane]

It's mostly men who make fun of other men for saying such. Us women we'd never,if it's so it's only a few mentally disturbed ones. Honestly no one deserves to go through such. I wish him lifelong healing

[@leonardkagiso6014]

Yeah I get your mentality that conforms to our society everything wrong is a man

[@Kusanagi7618]

You just displayed the problem with you as women when it comes to these matter. You guys are more than happy to insert yourselves in the centre when a woman is victimised. You want men to only be the perpetrators. No man laughs at a man for getting raped, they think you are lucky and that is equally fucked up. Men will make fun of you if you get raped by a man, and thats fucked up too. We get it, there's a lot of men who are a problem, but I notice that when men ra'hpe other men, women remove themeselves from the equation by saying, "He was ra'hped by a man, you men deal with it coz this proves us right that you are always the problem', but when its women who rah'pe men women still wanna shirk responsibility by bringing the light back to men like "Men are the ones who usually laugh at other men for getting rah'ped" Yekani lonto. Acknowledge the wrong that a fellow woman has done without trying to shine the light back on men being the problem once again. I promise you won't die.

[@hawed19]

speak for yourself I am a man and would never make fun of man being raped by a woman

[@madimetjapoto7075]

​@@hawed19The operative word being "mostly" although I don't support her assertion. She can't extrapolate the negative comments made by few men on social media media and infer them to the population of men. Social media commentators are too small a sampling size to draw an inference on.

[@kgothatsomodisane]

@@hawed19 I said mostly and the reason why I've mentioned this is because men are now afraid to go open cases for women to expose them. They deserve to be exposed as much as men are, right in society we're not used to 'women being rapists and pedophile ' and there are many of them . Hence it's a problem that some men are told to enjoy the 🍑 instead of crying grape

[@sibulele7237]

This guy is smart, and a good story teller and props to the host for not allowing him to speak without destruction.

[@ismdoko9681]

Congratulations On Your 100K Subscribers "Steezy" 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@dancunchiriga]

This is unacceptable. and pains me to know some kids even today are experiencing this trauma. we gotta do something for our sons and daughters. Society we must weed out these abusers and be there for the kids.

[@noxzienocturnal4544]

I commend this brother for having the courage to speak out and be the voice for many others who can't however, I am going to have to disagree with some of his views that a boy seeing a sibling or a parent naked can turn them into rapists or have them see their siblings as women they can have feelings for.

[@Princess_Lehlohonolo]

Dear men, name and shame your abusers

[@KennethZikalala]

It's sad coz how do you get someone to believe you or even just listen

[@Princess_Lehlohonolo]

@@KennethZikalala you start by talking

[@lesibangwepe6732]

SO THAT YOU CAN SHAME US?

[@Princess_Lehlohonolo]

@lesibangwepe6732 a women who does that does not deserve to be a parent. I have 4 year old son I want him to be able expose such if he ever encounters abuse

[@lebohangm7252]

@@lesibangwepe6732women are shamed daily for speaking up but that doesn’t stop them from speaking up. They are told that they wore a short skirt, they threw themselves at the man, they wanted fame when they speak up but that doesn’t stop them from speaking! Do the same and speak up despite being shamed

[@tumelo7898]

😢😢 i hated my father for not being available in my childhood... after watching this i think it was a blessing to not have him around because my mother raised me and my siblings by herself and i never witnessed her taking any type of abuse.. am married now to a women raised by a single mother and we are raising our daughters quite well..

[@snekhathi2275]

He speaks very well 💯

[@sifisodube4686]

Please we man stop abusing us as man.

[@mpumimdluli5894]

Yaaa ne hence we have a 21 year old serial killer sentenced to life in prison. We are a sick society that breeds such people. Some have turned into drunkards and drug addicts. Brother here must thank his lucky stars to have overcome this

[@lebohangm7252]

He is lucky because he speaks up instead of keeping quiet and letting it turn him into a killer or rapist. Men need to learn to speak up and SUPPORT EACH OTHER.

[@liyathembapiliso4977]

Thank you so much guys, this interview has been eye opening & I’m going to start implementing the lessons in my real life❤️❤️✌️

[@blessingbreakthrough4199]

I'm just 13minutes into this and I feel so hurt, what a sad testimony. I am really sorry for whatever you went through in life😢😢, so sad

[@abelyinkwana165]

Waking up in the morning knowing grace. Amen

[@SiphoMosea-df5hz]

Sorry to hear that. Anyway its time to accept Jesus Christ by saying this word Lord Jesus Christ come into my heart be my Lord and my savoir amen Romans 10:9-10

[@sirndlazi3814]

He's a pastor 😅

[@thulizzondi2381]

My heart is shuttered and im crying,

[@snekhathi2275]

Absolutely horrific 😢

[@stymokolo2443]

i remember my ex boyfriend once told me that he was also raped by a woman and i also took it for granted,besides that he had a very painful background.he was 12 years older than me,he was so abusive,arrogant and defensive.i was young and new in relationshps.i still have drauma of so many things he put me through.may God heal him where he is now.Benji thank you for sharing your story with us,also Molimo a u folise and u sebeletse Molimo ka pelo e thabileng.you are amazing.

[@nyikosnizz9130]

My brother you need to work hard on your interviewing skills because you have the best guest telling the most amazing, inspiring n enlightened stories. That's the main reason y I'm still subscribed to your channel

[@sirndlazi3814]

For real he's such a bad interviewer shem

[@maburwanejohannes4647]

One day we’ll talk about how many women are actually predators out there, especially the friends of our mothers and the old sisters. Most guys would agree that growing up there were older women who used to play sexually play with their penis and saying disgusting things. vividly remember my moms friend telling me that “It’s still small one day it will grow and i’ll know how to use it”, I was 5 years old.

[@palesaneo3817]

😢😮im sorry.

[@EngineerYLShow]

Justice Tshabalala, the best facilitator of storytelling to do it 🤌🏿

[@refiloediutlwileng5169]

Benjamin is a great storyteller.

[@leratomaseogane]

What if this dysfunctional behavior of sexual immorality mostly done by men are as a result of being sexually abused and raped by older women whilst still young? I always struggle to fathom how perversity is rooted in men. I didn't know women could be that cruel. I need more men to come out. We need a better nation. This brokenness should be confronted. I am so sorry, Mr Motloung. May you heal the voiceless as you heal going forward. Thank you for sharing your story with us.

[@mphomatlou3923]

Not what if. This is the exact reason.

[@Ingoduso]

You could be right @leratomaseogane i think we're expecting the opposite of what men were actually given from childhood.

[@lebohangm7252]

It really needs to be confronted otherwise the femicide won’t end.

[@Dr_V5_ZiK5_li5.]

Ewu uJehova mKhulu ..Amen ..This interview triggered my emotions so now I feel liKe I can cry too ..😢😢😢

[@MkhuseliXaki]

man in this country are going through a lot

[@sifisodube4686]

Eish a lot thanks we are suffering

[@jeisonkunene6376]

Well done on a 100k brother

[@yvonnemdaka3125]

His life story is touching,especially when after losing all family members ,he got into sex slavery,to all women let's try to look for men of our age because both of us women and men daily , rapist and criminals are produced by the bad conduct to young children, this is bad😭💔

[@SelloLebea-yd2pq]

Women should be younger than men, I cannot date someone of my age,, imagine me as a 35yrs old dating a 35yrs old women, that will be a disgrace

[@yvonnemdaka3125]

@@SelloLebea-yd2pq exactly 💯 we have to respect the younger ones

[@SelloLebea-yd2pq]

Yes women should respect young males. Men marry and date young,, a 35yrs male must be able to date an 18yrs women

[@sesethu8571]

​@@SelloLebea-yd2pqpredetory behaviour, Why are you going for a teen?

[@sesethu8571]

​@@SelloLebea-yd2pqwhy is it a disgrace?

[@Aya.msani_official]

46:02 he’s telling the truth about the spirit that is carried

[@rootedmop8457]

That woman was evil.Sorry for what you went through, brother.

[@nkosicele1344]

kumele sigade labo abahlezi be ncoma izingane zethu

[@leemo3583]

It’s sickening how a lot of men i’ve met were preyed on by older woman and they brush it off as an achievement of sorts😢😢😢

[@lydiatselane1680]

May the hand of God continue to heal you from all this trauma you had to endure 🥺😩💔

[@Mamesh92]

it also doesn’t hurt to press the “like” button bathong 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@bitsokunene6327]

Over 34K views but only 800+likes..We need to do better... Great story, eye opener too.

[@Nunec]

Beautiful and powerful interview. How and why did rapes stop after 6 months? How did he get by living alone, rates, food, school fees etc? How and when did he become man of God? Where is he today, has he remarried?

[@refilwenetta6136]

remember the couple helped him and he mention he went to people houses asking to work in exchange for food stuff veggies in gardens

[@Facelesssceneary]

Listen with intent on understanding he said all these things in the beginning 😂

[@thembikunene4531]

Thank you Abuti Benjamin for sharing such a story. I hope you have received counselling, Abuti. Both men and women to start talking about the rapes they encountered from their fathers, step father, neighbours, family friends, uncles or grandfathers. In the UK or western countries would report such (both boy and girl child) abuses to police and police have to do investigations. They regard such cases historical child abuse cases.

[@zindela210]

The Presenter looks like Gregory Hines 🎥 and Scottie Pippen 🏀

[@philiswadyan6580]

Eeehy i have learnt a lot in this episode😢😢😢 am so sorry my brother about what you went through😢

[@SiboMfeka]

I can tell you now, the husband knew, he just kept quiet as he was diabetes and his secret was kept within home fencing

[@Keitumetsemulaudzi]

Watch ppl make fun of him

[@beatzofthegodz1210]

Not here, On instagram bro

[@beatzofthegodz1210]

Bro is solid for speaking on it.

[@Keitumetsemulaudzi]

@@beatzofthegodz1210 fr

[@Keitumetsemulaudzi]

@@beatzofthegodz1210 what's happening on insta?

[@tebogomaphephe3470]

To be specific men

[@mzamongwenya-o5p]

It happen to me also,took me years to realise that it was rape and i was under 10years of age

[@peachberrypie]

Lord cover you with healing and love, you did not deserve that 😢

[@Aypee.]

Wow this is so informative. Thank you for sharing 🙏♥️

[@nomamabila4490]

I never thought man do gets abused, experience all the things we go through as woman, including being molested before getting a job

[@DarrylPeter-d6t]

You have no idea 😢

[@lebohangm7252]

They do get abused. Some even get abused by other men who are in the closet and haven’t came out as gay. Sick world we live in

[@kdiutlwileng]

While I appreciate his trauma I reject the notion that women turn men into rapists. Him being groomed almost turned him into a serial killer of women? In a society where innocent women are murdered and raped everyday? Basadi baimetswe.

[@palesaneo3817]

Now look at it spiritually. Most male sexual victims pass on the trauma. The serial killing part talks about the hatred for women. There is an american serial killer who killed women because he hated his mother. Its a spirit sis

[@kdiutlwileng]

@palesaneo3817 I hear you. There's that pastor he spoke about who abuses his wife and daughter behind closed doors. What kind mother/woman must the daughter become when she is older? She must magically become a loving nurturer when she has lived through abuse, lest she has a son and turns him into a rapist or killer? Girls get abused too but there is an expectation that they must grow up to be amazing obedient partners and mothers in society. The same standard we have for girls, we should have for boys.

[@ncebamvula3356]

Sorry brother i can fit your shoes verry well and i am a true reflection of the same dis functional background i thank God who found me 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@khumbudzomulaudzi4475]

Traumatising 😢

[@Teetee-hed]

This is sad😢!

[@gracemac994]

I never used to think men can be raped. But with the many stories that i have heard even the story of Joseph opened my eyes and being a mom of boys i want to protect them at all costs men can not deal with wounds very well all they think is suicide

[@NomsaMkwali]

This is sad but God is faithful all the time

[@BaileBaloyi]

Captivating story teller of a sad tale😢 I disagree however that exposing young boys to nudity(boy seeing mom/sisters naked) grooms a potential r@pi$t 41:42. I'm not saying the females should always strut their stuff but it shouldn't be taboo. If a mother falls ill and she only has boy kids and no one else to nurse her back to health. Does that mean the boys shouldn't even bathe her because their not used to seeing her naked?

[@tshepangpilane9256]

Is it ok for a girl child to see his father naked? If not, y shud it be ok for a boy child to see his mother naked?

[@JudithDamane]

True to the statement of u saying pastors are human they just fell into temptations

[@sifisodube4686]

Please lady's stop abusing us

[@tshegosethosa6359]

What a great story teller

[@naitonchihosani3235]

Went thru the same cant hold my emotions...crying

[@chisonimponda363]

The voice is so beautiful and tye speak 😍

[@veronicahthandiwe6562]

Eish I’m a woman and this is breaking my heart yoo 😢

[@thabanimhlongo7801]

Flash backs, flash backs!😢💔

[@ramaselaviolet2993]

Wow, God so help us we single mother's 🙏😭

[@mrx3mohls703]

this is sad indeed.... it sticks

[@SethuNtshuntshe]

I believe him 100%

[@RicardoT-mx1tp]

nah this was a W bro. U won

[@Bruzconversations]

Been waiting for a new episode since Monday 😅

[@genuinejay7696]

This is going to be an interesting episode.

[@MrsAmandaM]

😳😳😳😳Yoh hectic! This is sooo sad

[@sihleqengqeleka7125]

My brother, you are so eloquent. Your command of the English language is top tier. You really were an eveready power plus! Wishing you all the best my brother and sorry for everything you went through 👊

[@thaaLoverboyy9944]

Glazing

[@niklaskhathutshelo]

Was hesitant to watch, ey people are going through sh*t 😢🤦🏾‍♂️

[@gladysmkhize4085]

Thank you Mr Benjamin 🙏

[@sanelisiwemkhize6544]

Most men have experienced this in their childhood

[@reaneysh]

Even if they offer help or bring gifts let's NOT trust them 😢

[@ruachhakodeshliveth3966]

same with alcohol fam, adults speak of this excitement that comes with alcohol infront of kids and how they had fun with so and so and ended up sleeping with who n who who got them excited, now the child wanna do practical of this and we end up with abo cyan boujee n co.

[@onelove6971]

The world is a dark place because of a lack of Jesus Christ. Our only healing and solution is Jesus Christ. In the kingdom of Jesus Christ, he will restore every good thing to perfection.

[@bazookamedia1]

Lets not just comment please like, subscribe and don't skip ads

[@theone7797]

It’s funny how I thought that I was the only guy taken advantage of by an older woman 😢💔