I Went Back To My Ex Again… This Time He Messing Around On Me! 💔

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[@nosiphoradebe6297]

All this for a guy with 5 BM's and not even living with any of his kids. Yikes. Standards are low, Priorities are upside down.

[@lornaturner7]

NO ONE CAN DO ANYTHING TO YOU THAT YOU DON’T ALLOW. This is the second time you went back just for SEX, because he doesn’t want you.

[@Charmaine302]

It's you that has the low self-worth.

[@mr.t_kinkytail2853]

Bruh..... this chick has serious issues. She seems slow. Being in a relationship, using other cats for rides, smoking with them all the while, your man knowing your background(with sex work) and her not seeing anything wrong with it is insane. 🤦🏽🤦🏽

[@gregoryburkhead7813]

Preach

[@Lysanderharris]

And is still doing porn 😂😂😂

[@youngtimer7531]

How can an EX mess around on you? You are not mentally stable and make some of the worst mistakes,

[@godevil2260]

This 304 is a bird for sure. Nothing cute about that.

[@SlimSassyClassy]

Damn

[@pillcosby3967]

A whole emu 😂

[@TrizzTwiceAzNice]

Stop thinking about a man and focus on betting yourself and your kids

[@EI_24]

Yeh yeh yeh we heard you BUT You got to do better! how are you spending money on a man and your kids dint even have beds yet ??

[@shannonsmith-hd6ct]

Stop entertaining this liar … she telling all he business… no one want to know what y’all did in the bed… just nasty

[@ellierollz]

then why are you watching

[@theresalewis8662]

I’m 61 years of age Please move on.

[@UsNeverThem]

I understand really loving someone is hard to let go! But a man who doesn’t do shit for you are the boys, isn’t shit. He clearly doesn’t love you the way he saying he does. He’s using you, and he know, he could tell you what you wanna hear in you fall for it. Do better for yourself. Cause I be damn if I’m over here wasting my money on a man, but my kids have no beds🫣 That’s wild girl

[@DianC-yn4ei]

You two deserve each other. Stop complaining and stay with him. Good luck!!!

[@leannmccellan2732]

Girl. I understand you being a content creator but you give out to much personal information. Stop leaving yourself wide open for people to judge you. There's alot of negative things I could say about this video but I see your in a hurt place and don't want you to feel like I'm tearing you down..Just focus on your beautiful babies and building a foundation for them right now.

[@LADYJJ2U]

I Agree 100%

[@SlimSassyClassy]

Agreed, I’m actually shocked she’s this open being a Virgo chiiii I get mad that ik my own business sometimes let alone thousands of strangers 😂

[@Itsnolovebitch]

Word

[@tarra808]

@@SlimSassyClassyRight! I was thinking the same thing. Normally Virgo’s are reserved.

[@gailainsley6939]

@@SlimSassyClassy. Probably her moon sign making her talk like this. 😅

[@angelaw435]

Go To the Doctor and Get checked out. Because you never know what he’s been doing

[@cindyjones8378]

Right! But accused Marcus of giving her an STI or BV or something like that. But had slept with this dude in close proximity.

[@mommyof3gmomof3]

You are a little slow. It’s extremely frustrating watching you. I will not unsubscribe, but I cannot watch. You have a beautiful life.

[@gregoryburkhead7813]

Lol

[@Pearl1215]

@@mommyof3gmomof3 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BuuGeeBuDDhist]

😂😂

[@marianantionett-inspired24]

Westindie, yes, PLEASE move on. Remember, YOU teach people how to treat you. If he's sleeping around, he was never your dude. Make better choices for yourself and your two boys. Moments of (unprotected) passion can lead to a LIFETIME of regret...

[@shanellecunningham5635]

your not use to how men move. he never took u as his woman and hes been messing with other chicks. thats why he didnt want u to move in with him

[@TrizzTwiceAzNice]

Guys, do not forgive you sleeping with someone else, really.

[@chadrawls2262]

Both of you are insecure and all he have to do is give you im a sorry story and in my opinion you will go right back

[@gregoryburkhead7813]

The girl on the comments will be like girl leave him. U can do better. We got u. 6 months later. Saying thhe same shit. He cheated. im going to leave him this time watch. Over and over. She likes the toxic stuff

[@pettybetty1958]

Why you still messing with him he been showed you who he was 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@gregoryburkhead7813]

They like that toxic stuff

[@d.m.mullings7549]

I only wish children wouldn't have to be involved in this mess of a life that modern human is living nowadays.

[@MizzFireRed]

After the interview he did that wasn't enough?

[@samanthamaxwell4991]

That part

[@gailainsley6939]

Where can I watch the interview?

[@asianesmith8149]

I want to be a mentor, please 🥺 as a older chick I will say this , don't waste your best year's on nonsense, its sumbody good out there for you !!!

[@IsThatTYRA]

@@tinamarie5005 Preachhh !!!!

[@floorjab]

Stay away from him. He ain't shit. Be patient please. Your young and beautiful

[@BeTheChangeYouWantToday]

Dont keep playing yourself girl. When a man sees he has a certain power over you and he don't really care about you, he gon playing with you, to see how far he can (and will) take you. N keep kids otta grown folks business. Have some self respect n leave him be. Look up the aids rate in the ATL. Dont be a causality.

[@lj6916]

You had no business going back to him and spending money on him while you and your kids were sleeping on the floor. You need to go get tested out here begging asking everybody for donations and money. You played yourself big time. You need a real man like me hit me up.

[@DaeMurda]

You don’t need that

[@geraldharmon9170]

Oshay Duke Jackson! Where you at!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@dadefope80]

LOL! Don't worry Dr. Oshay is all over it.

[@cammia8940]

You are playing yourself

[@cherylrleigh1912]

We all make relationship mistakes, but as a mother of minor children, your decisions can deeply affect them. Please pray for divine guidance to find someone who will love, respect, and protect both you and your children. Your happiness and the stability of a secure home, food, and life's essentials are gifts from God. It's vital to carefully consider who you allow into your life to preserve this harmony. Take this time to grow and seek discernment through prayer for better choices in your intimate relationships. Lastly, please avoid inviting men (intimate partners) into your home unless they are the children's father or someone they already know and trust. Your home is a safe and sacred space for your family, and it's important to protect that environment.

[@MsThemjs]

When someone shows you who they are believe it. You’ll be fine just move on and block him 🙏🏾❤️

[@ericat6097]

Naw sweetie, he not insecure lol

[@chadrawls2262]

This man got five kids and five baby momma's do you really think he wasn't cheating on them and plus he is doing it un protected and he sleeping with you and some other random chick un protected all the good men in the world and some oy of you women and men choose the bottom of the barrel they want a high value person when its to late

[@arlyprice3443]

It wasn't that hard to tell that your ex was messing with other females at this point he got his own crib so he's doing his own thing. Please go to the doctor and get tested and after this make sure you never go back to him again and please use protection from now on...Smh 😑🙄💯

[@westindiecollection]

So just cause a dude got his own crib means he messing around with multiple ppl?

[@louholmes7731]

@@westindiecollection He said you're not his type during the interview. In the very beginning maybe. He was not for you when you did his play date interview. He is getting you back that's all. Men lies all the time.

[@arlyprice3443]

@@westindiecollection Never put nothing past nobody not even your ex. You can't keep defending somebody that's not for you at all. Plus you definitely found out for sure what he was doing after the story you told us. 😑🤔💯

[@pillcosby3967]

​@westindiecollection no but his interview said he don't respect u loud and clear

[@shakiramcgee2023]

You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. Jeremiah 29:13

[@niecyh5299]

You need help but helping him, Girl please do better hes a Narcissist

[@asianesmith8149]

It's allot of guys taking advantage of females and playing off our emotions 😔, I live in Atlanta I know

[@gregoryburkhead7813]

She one too

[@tammyh.4768]

Girl leave him alone block his number, He use you, and he don’t love you…smh no way I will let him disrespect me like that.

[@TaneshaBeverly]

I honestly think you need to leave that man alone he don't love you girl. It all about minds games look at how many children he has stop giving men your body and having unprotected sex with men thats not your husband or at least a committed relationship. If you don't leave him alone you will be a single mother again for the 3rd time. Move on stop wasting your time with men that don't care about you and can't help you.

[@mlwbyrd]

Encouraging words: you doing everything right. You’ve peeped him for who exactly who he is. Now adjust your crown and keep your head held high. Sit firm on your pedestal, look high and never low. You’re very confident and deep down know you’re actually above this.

[@godevil2260]

Lies like this is a main part of the problem… 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@mlwbyrd]

@@godevil2260 people live and they learn…hopefully TODAY she makes better decisions regarding men. I don’t even think this woman is 30 yet. No one has life figured out and she isn’t doing anything any other loving black woman has done. Don’t beat her down while she’s trying to sort life out.

[@godevil2260]

@@mlwbyrd 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@sheilaannramirez8674]

You need to say goodbye to this man and you try your best to MoveOn honey!!!! you can do way better, you don’t need him, you don’t need him for anything!!!💯💯💯

[@BlackOutlaw_]

Why u coming down on all men because of who u choosin to deal with. U need find your worth.. and telling u what u wanna hear isn't gonna help. U need to listen to words that u need to hear. All do respect Queen. ❤🙏🏽s

[@Blacklove254]

You got problems

[@margiedrizz4482]

i’m sorry i mis spelled the word but you get the point.don’t allow a man to dump waste in your hole because he can also dump an unwanted pregnancy or an STD i think you are an awesome mom and you deserve SO much better.

[@westindiecollection]

Thank you💕

[@Superstargram]

My app messed up as I was leaving the comment that I originally wrote . What I said before is why not choose abstinence. You can’t afford another kid or risk your life for disease . Isn’t the dude almost 50 years old with 5 kids? He don’t even have his life together . He is just using you for sex, it seems like he has no other intentions at his old age. Focus on you. He can’t even help you with your rent . Ain’t no point of you giving your body up for that . You work in a hotel . Get cute when you go to work. You may find someone decent there .

[@killadawgs456]

Sounds Like He Got His Cake And Ate It Too!! Definitely get checked out though!

[@dadefope80]

Dr. Oshay Jackson

[@931Mike]

She don’t want much in a chump 😊

[@shamekiagant8981]

Hey sis you have to set boundaries for yourself, a man will only do what you allow. Any man that's in your life and around your boys should be a positive role model for them. No real man will sit around a woman and watch her struggle, let alone look for others to help take care of his woman. I been in two relationships and they wouldn't dare allow me to pay for anything even if it was their last $2, please don't allow any man to upset your children to the point your children feel that they have to defend you put your boys first baby you can please your damn self. You live and you learn. If you don't love yourself no man will ever love you stay blessed boo 💯🥰😘

[@TrizzTwiceAzNice]

You posted that you slept with Marcus, I promise you he lost all respect for you after that, if he ever truly respected you. Just chill be by yourself for a while, if you are meant to be with a forever guy, he will find you stop looking.

[@GodFavorsMe444]

Its time for you to look past this guy and concentrate on your goals and well being...so sorry to hear he is messing over you. Thats part of getting in a relationship..nothing is guaranteed. Be encouraged and stay prayed up...kick dude to the curb forever...he hurts your heart. You dont need that.

[@beulahthebride8465]

Did he win the lottery or something? Because what in the hellll 😂

[@Tashadblessing]

Move On!!! God has better for you.❤🎉❤

[@williamking8464]

This girl sounds dumb

[@ramel4122]

Hey Ms.Westie, of course we all saw your video as your followers and of course you get a lot of feedback some sincere and others not sincere. I just want to say to you as a grown woman you’re not perfect no one is but we should strive for perfection. keep striving for your life to be better keep a positive mindset. Yes I know it’s difficult. I’ve been there with a relationship. You truly need to take time and turn to prayer at a quiet time because God come first, then you and then your children.❤❤

[@mschasityholmes]

you are a beautiful young woman don’t let him steal your joy there is a blessing in the works for you . keep smiling keep loving yourself you will find a man who respects you and deserve you. you are beautiful always remember that and your kids are beautiful too. I am a content creator also i am a subscriber of yours I enjoy your content. god bless you 💕🙏🏾

[@westindiecollection]

Thank you💕

[@mschasityholmes]

@@westindiecollection you are welcome pretty 😊🙋🏾‍♀️

[@bxlly4006]

You know you can do way better you have a lot more potential to you I can tell 💯

[@His1nonlyMWwilliams]

Alot of us has been there before but just be careful and know your self worth😊💖💞

[@josephinefernandez7478]

I’ve been there , and those kind of men don’t change.. His jealous. Of your accomplishments.. His losed…

[@igorcimerman3790]

I think its your Ego thats getting you where you are and its guiding your decisions.you come across as some who hears and advice but think to yourself but i know better when deep down you know you are just guessing.you will start doing better when you stop listening to yourself and ppl who dont know you but will take an adice from someone who you trust and knows you.if you havent got anyone like that then suggest you get a boyfriend who is stable or at least was brought up by both parents.i think you opt for guys who are from same background which you said you were abused so technically you are attracted to what you shine out.do me a favour next time you date someone make it to be someone who is nothing like you but make sure he is at least christian please

[@Da_Real_Ak]

He probably thinks he could get a 3 sum because he watched some of your videos. Smh

[@sssssrrrrrrrtube7521]

Trust me baby girl, he doesn't want you! Older women know, most have been through this. You can't "save" or "change" him. He will keep using you as long as you let him. You're wasting your time, y'all will never be together. 🤷 He's just telling you shit to satisfy himself!! It's your fault, not his. You let it happen. Just keep tricking yourself, until it's TOO LATE. Aids is REAL!

[@AnthonyFrazier-wt9gu]

Don't be no fool for any one you can bad and good by yourself you don't need him just makes him take care of his kid that's all and you get ajob so you don't need a men

[@enochshabazz9171]

Y'all Let her do her

[@veronic1673]

If and when you go back to him cause you just sound like you.Waiting for him to call you.Please, please use protection.He is not to be trusted like that and the rates for h.IV is high in Atlanta and the majority of the men in Atl are bisexual Don't rush a relationship.Do what you gotta do for your kids.Concentrate and put all your stuff into them right now.Because those are the ones that need you the most right now.And god will send the man that's for you sis And don't worry about those people at the clinic If you go back ten hundred times at least you going the check going in vjj

[@candicesolomon]

Stay strong we all have to make mistakes to learn ❤

[@BeTheChangeYouWantToday]

Im sorry if i came off harsh. You clearly love this man. Ive been in a relationship before and allowed things to go on and he lost respect for me and treated me accordingly. Never again. You will be okay trust me. You seem like a nice woman and deserve better. Do settle. You got this. Block him and dont give him that access

[@rahmecarodriguez7205]

4:38 u was with Marcus too

[@Brian_Phillips01]

I was looking for this comment

[@BobFiercetube]

Didn't you say you messed around on him in another video? Respect your relationship by not taking a ride from a guy who trying to shoot his shot at you.

[@marcusbollar1960]

Hey I just want to share some knowledge with you. 1) don't put all your business out there for the world. You have people praying, manifesting, even spell work to keep you down. 2) there's people who used your videos to make content off of. I know you sensitive about it but at the end you giving them ammo. Don't get offended. 3) put your kids first. You posting all of this, your kids will grow up hating you because of your choices. Trust me my mom was doing the same bullshit you are doing now and I resent her for all the times me and my brothers were homeless and how she put drugs and guys and partying over our safety. Changes your ways.

[@tammywebb2929]

Hello! please know you worth! is this a click bait or skit!? doesn't really sound real!

[@BobFiercetube]

You spoke about the mans business so he chose to go on a platform to speak his side of the story.... what did you expect?

[@SlimSassyClassy]

Girl block that man and move on with your life!

[@asianesmith8149]

You don't deserve that type Energy,!! You need sumbody who will respect ur boundaries,!!!

[@lamarhansell3459]

u went on a trip with a guy and stayed in a hotel for the weekend videoed it to KZbin how is he cheating nobody can trust you u to easy anybody can get u trick !!!

[@Comedytok138]

Indie, Hey beautiful ❤I just want to say never confuse when someone lust after you for love. A man who loves you respects you in every way. If you know what he has to offer is ONLY what hes giving which is sex then that’s LUST. This why it’s so important to be careful of who you lay down with simply because you will gain a tie to them. Love doesn’t hurt and it sure ain’t going to make you guessing. A real man puts God first, His family, provider, etc. a real man is Honest and have absolutely NO TIME FOR GAMES! this guy your messing with seems envious and maybe trying to get you back based off how he thinks you made him feel about something, and it’s a game to him. The only person who going to end up hurt and depressed is you. LEAVE HIM ALONE! Definitely ain’t worth it LITERALLY ❤ I wish the best for you and your babies ❤❤❤

[@westindiecollection]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Comedytok138]

@@westindiecollection ❤️❤️🙏

[@westindiecollection]

💔

[@kevionegoosby2648]

Let me take you out

[@dtwr]

This sounds like some Highschool shyt. Leave your kids out your personal business. Definitely not boss moves

[@kenvirgo17]

you are pretty. keep your head up. i stay in the Atlanta. i would like to be friends and get to know you. i am a virgo !

[@Shebolder]

I love your personality ❤do what makes you happy now and for the future.

[@westindiecollection]

Thank you 💕

[@dtwr]

No you Got To Do Better.

[@geraldharmon9170]

😂😂😂😂

[@Ooo_ooVIP]

4:32 😂

[@marcopolo2913]

Ayoo😅

[@dabedroomkillah24]

Wait you have an instagram!? 🤔