I wish I didn’t have siblings… [Trio’s Childcare Challenge/ENG/2019.10.30]

[@janewow77]

She is the first daughter in the family when the family wanted daughter so much. When she was born, she received so much love. As she got used to receive so much love, she became older sister to 4 more younger siblings. She also becomes the middle child. She ended up having to carry responsibilities as the eldest daughter of the family. Mom and dad have to care more for younger ones and older ones. This situation is just heartbreaking...

[@TranAnnette]

The middle children always feel like no one cares about them. Parents put their expectations on the older kids and tend to care more about younger ones

[@MK-sv9ee]

Yes that's what I was thinking, the middle child is always oppressed

[@jungkookdontknowme483]

Yes it me

[@dimasharmy3734]

I'm a middle child and I cry with frustration with how differently my mum treats me and me little brother who is almost 10 years younger

[@briseflj6161]

I feel like she feel sorry for my other siblings and not for me. And when they raised her voice to her the next day they are ok and talking but if I raised my voice to her it would be days. And im always the one who is helping her with chores a lot.

[@dimasharmy3734]

@@briseflj6161 that's exactly like me. My mom will go out and expect me to tidy up and my older and younger brother will be in their rooms and when she comes back if it's not tidy she shouts at me and if it is tidy but I've not done something up to her standard she complains. I cant win

[@annylee7102]

Chiyuel has a gentle way to let the little girl open up and talk about her frustration.

[@hotgoblet]

I want to make a statement here. The parents have 8 children and the eldest daughter is the responsible one. It may look like the parents are stubborn for having a lot of children and also unfair for the girl to hold the stress but we also have to look at the situation in their own perspective. The father is sorry about his family's situation is giving it all for his family, even if he had to work far and anywhere. The mother is sorry for having burdened her daughter but God knows how stressed she is to take care of the children. She must have seen her daughter as responsible and appreciated the latter's maturity, thus depending on her. The eldest daughter is sad and stressed, feeling burdened and isolated. But looking at their situations, can each of them do much about the issue? Mom does not have the luxury to provide them equal attention because of the varying qualities of the children. Dad can't instead stay home because he has to feed his children. And poor daughter has no choice because if she rebels, she knows her mom will be more sad and burdened. So she is aware that she'll have to sacrifice.

[@jule12ify]

Soo happy she was able to go out by herself no siblings to enjoy a treat and talk about her feelings. I think the mom and dad are doing their very best by ALL 8 kids. Which mean you have 8 different personality to cater which isn’t easy. I’m the youngest of 5 girls So I get it complete.Something I think would be good for the mom to do is; once in while take this daughter on like a little date just them two. Even if it they go food shopping together n get ice cream or dessert afterward n talk for a bit idk. But I think something like that would help with there communications and stress on both sides. Again I’m very happy to see sooooo much love from this family it warms my heart n I hope that the mom n dad will remain healthy n happy to continue caring for there kids well-being and mental health. 💪🏽💕

[@rakamu2940]

Asian conservative parent is like this. They tend to make the daughter to do more works than boys. The eldest daughter will hv more responsibility than other. As asian i was brought up like this. It just im lucky to hv only one younger brother & 3 more sister. For me its either one or more siblings its depends on how their parent take care of them. Even with one child if u not attentive to ur children it just the same. I've seen my friends with 15 sibling, they all are very happy and hv their own career. Another friends as a single child always feels lonely. Its all depends on the parents.

[@michellewu55]

I don't want to judge but in my opinion, she shouldn't have had so many children if she doesn't have the means to make sure each child is taken care of. It's better to have a few children that are well taken care of and looked after than having a lot of children and not being able to give them the care and attention they need.

[@moonlight_sparkle6659]

I'm new to watching this show and don't know a lot but I got to say, if the mother is so worried about the extra costs, why did she have 7 kids to begin with? I feel so awful for the poor girl, it's not fair

[@jellojiggle1]

Exactly my thoughts. The girl is already maturing and still a child. She will look to get out of that house asap. Even thought this type of thing happens with just 2 kids it is even worse with 7.

[@jhenjhengiftgivingchannel8212]

maybe havent have enough budget for birth control? no money to buy pills or have ligation or whatever? this is the problem also in the philippines. poor family have more children to feed and ends up being starve from being poor.. thanks to those irresponsible parents..

[@MissZinatul31]

Her husband tried to stop her. He brought the issue to Hello Counselor. He wanted to stop at 5. She still wants more. She choose to want more.

[@itslonelysaram6722]

@@MissZinatul31 i think you got it in reverse. If i'm not wrong it's the husband who wanted more.

[@MissZinatul31]

@@itslonelysaram6722 Are you sure? Where did you see he wants more? Even the mother kept saying she is the one who wants more. She even said whether she was selfish for wanting more. Did you check the other video relating to the children's childcare? This is not the only video.

[@lunaplaysgames7674]

I feel so bad for the little girl and I can totally relate to her. Parents are so irresponsible. If you can’t afford to care for one child, you shouldn’t be making more. Seeing things like this as an adult; makes me so sad and angry. I wouldn’t bring a life into this world unless I knew I could provide them a decent lifestyle. I grew up in a family of six and we never had nice things or went anywhere. My parents couldn’t even afford to send us to college and money was always tight. Plus add to that being made fun of in school for being poor....... People really need to think before they breed.

[@haileyum5087]

i just cried laughed cried in the span of 5 minutes

[@dimasharmy3734]

Her parents decided to have 8 kids so they need to take responsibility for a *ALL* of them not just some of them!!! This made me sad for her😢💔

[@shehrinnewaz2835]

I feel so bad for the kids. Your wish to have a hundred kids shouldn't mean you make other ones feel left out and sad. She is having to carry a burden that shouldn't be here because of her mother. If anyone is to be blamed for her stress disorder it's her mum.

[@roshnipa3414]

Playing with siblings is different from child care it must be so stressful for a little girl to go through this, please dont have babies if you can't have time for them.

[@lxnnie272]

Aww..😢 I wish she was my sister. I'm an only child, so it's not always fun because you're lonely and don't have anyone to hangout with at home. 😭💓✨

[@wendykkiew8546]

Love watching 황치열 on the show 🙆🏻‍♀️❤️

[@dimasharmy3734]

I'm a middle child and I cry with frustration with how differently my mum treats me and me little brother who is almost 10 years younger

[@mannbartolome7067]

Almost Korean kids is so mature with their age 😔

[@garbage_child6528]

I understand being a middle child can be sucky. I’m a middle child and I think i subconsciously try to stand out from my older and younger brother. But I think that it’s what helped me become independent and explore my interest when I was left alone. Like how I like drawing and painting, I even wanna go to a art college and work in that field.

[@kewdoie]

*She Really looks like the artist KIM SAERON i thaught she was Saeron shes pretty but i feel upset to her and her family.. Fighting!!*

[@janistam9596]

Come for Hwang Chi Yeul Love watching 황치열 on the show 💖💖💖💖💖

[@jemimaestrada6860]

They're so adorable!

[@fannylau6334]

Hcy, you are the best！

[@aishah3408]

Oldest daughters always have it the worst

[@xoxochungha4047]

I see alot of comments saying "the mother shouldnt have more children" and keep focusing on the mother, when it take TWO to tango. Just saying.

[@syafiraazzahra5118]

Her husband went to Hello Counselor to begged his wife to stop asking for children. They agreed on 5 children, and here they are with 8. I would still blame him, but it’s mostly her fault.

[@xoxochungha4047]

@@syafiraazzahra5118 I don’t know why your like “it’s mostly her fault” HE STILL COULDVE WORN A CONDOM. or not have sex🤷‍♀️. Nobody can get pregnant “accidentally” without having sex. It’s always a aftermath you should think about having sex. If you can’t deal with the “consequences” of having sex then don’t have sex.

[@onion4464]

@@xoxochungha4047 the woman wanted more and there’s noting he could do about it but give in . I understand the man. He simply tried to make his wife happy

[@bluebloom5174]

Oh my heart breaks for her... oh jeez.

[@Woozi_Lover]

people are mad at the parents and I think by this point they probably wishes that they didn’t have more kids after having 5 but that means that 3 wouldn’t be here in this world. The parents already feel bad as it is and probably would feel worse if they see all of the bad comments and think that they don’t deserve the children and put them for adoption or foster care (I don’t know if they have foster care in Korea) or maybe once they get older put them in dorms like the 2 eldest and I get that people feel bad for the girl but what about the 2 eldest yeah their free but think about how it feels like to probably receive the least love of the family. And not see their family all the time.

[@showshowchiu6410]

黃致列好有愛❤❤❤

[@jasminesjher]

Omg his reaction @2:11 is me!!! Lol

[@yayahamid6270]

Who know what ep is this?

[@Crazygirl123xD]

It’s disgusting how the mother insisted on having more kids after the 5 they already had when she knew they wouldn’t have the means to take care of them. Irresponsible and selfish :/

[@kristinesharp6286]

So they should not have had child 2 and so on? I worry for the world.

[@rebeehcelin1138]

better cheer up the little girl.....

[@ruthkim4452]

I wonder what is her oldest brother name??

[@priliae]

Siapa yang naro bawang disini haih