I WISH I knew THIS before getting DIVORCED in THAILAND!

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Greeny Travels

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@lostboi3974
@lostboi3974 8 ай бұрын
Im 43 and on marriage number zero. So far its working out just fine.
@nunuvyurbiz123
@nunuvyurbiz123 8 ай бұрын
Same but I’m just getting tired of condoms.
@andrewcasesjr
@andrewcasesjr 8 ай бұрын
Ditto. I'm 44 and have never been married myself. I feel like I dodged a bullet there with the piss poor quality of women nowadays in the U.S. (not all, but a vast majority of them that subscribe to the feminist ideology).
@markadler8968
@markadler8968 8 ай бұрын
Great line.
@Ukboss1
@Ukboss1 8 ай бұрын
Yh it's worked great for me
@inspyr9
@inspyr9 8 ай бұрын
Same here but the family and the societal pressure is getting to me.
@david-reason
@david-reason 8 ай бұрын
A) Don't get married B) Don't buy property C) Keep your home country bank account D) Keep a home country address E) Maintain payments to OAP/Social Security F) Keep money on Deposit/Investments in your home country (to avoid poor interest rates) G) Life your life . . . . .
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Good advice David.
@donpardo1
@donpardo1 8 ай бұрын
@David, Yes you're smart man, I agree 100,% I like to add: Keep your property and/ or assets in the country where you are a Citizen! Especially in tier 1 western countries cheers 👍
@gregsmitz6310
@gregsmitz6310 7 ай бұрын
​@Corgi_Saurus use your daughters or sons or family members address. I use my mother's address for my bank/passport
@edgregory1
@edgregory1 6 ай бұрын
I'd not even cohabitate. No vehicles, not even bicycle. Act like Cheap Charlie even if you're not. Learn Thai so that they'll avoid you.
@RobFomenko
@RobFomenko 4 ай бұрын
Why would you want to live in a country and then want them to avoid you ?
@jamesc2545
@jamesc2545 8 ай бұрын
Bottom line on marriage…whatever country, dont do it. Been there done that, always favors the woman.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Generally.
@vytautasezerskis2314
@vytautasezerskis2314 8 ай бұрын
In Thailand I keep my rules ; ''dont invest , dont mary'' [ farang has nuo rights] . Good luck Greeny !
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Pretty sound advice
@ubiquitousdiabolus
@ubiquitousdiabolus 8 ай бұрын
Been married to a Thai woman for 15 years and have never regretted it. Depends on who you are and who she is.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I know. Many work out.
@kwarmrakseadum9083
@kwarmrakseadum9083 8 ай бұрын
I like your response! Having a life long partner is always important especially when we grow old. Our health won’t always be the same and it’s always best to have someone that cares and loves you by your side through difficult times, especially when you’re sick can’t move or when you’re immobile. When we die we can’t take any assets with us what’s most important is having someone we love and they love us by our side till the end. I’ve worked in healthcare for so many years and it’s pretty heart breaking to see older people come in through ambulance with no family or friends and they were lying in urine for days because they fell and no one there to help them. People don’t realize this till it’s too late.
@A_Sen_0
@A_Sen_0 8 ай бұрын
@@kwarmrakseadum9083 life long partner, LTR is gd But married is bs because marriage is not garentee the wife will take care when old. I know many man & women who r married with kids but when old no one take care of them But i know 1 person where his gf of last 6 year took care of him in his poor health
@RobFomenko
@RobFomenko 4 ай бұрын
​@@kwarmrakseadum9083I agree. I worked in healthcare for 39 years. Sometimes I was the only one at the bedside when they took their last breath. No family. Or family but they didn't care. Or sometimes they just didn't get there in time. I've been married twice. I've been divorced twice. I thought never again. After 4 years and getting ready to move to Thailand. Hopefully permanently, my thoughts have changed. You Do you You I'll do me is what I think. I'm looking forward to being with somebody again. The last 4 years alone were good and I needed it. But I'm ready for lov Love in my life again.
@bobbruce4135
@bobbruce4135 Ай бұрын
Glad you got lucky. I tried the PH and make the big mistake. From now on DINK (dual income no kids lifestyle and no rings). Oh wait.... most ladies don't actually love us and most just love what we provide (not my cup of tea).
@liamdoherty4723
@liamdoherty4723 8 ай бұрын
Sorry, but your divorce seemed almost predictable given what seemed like a quick courtship with a younger woman in a foreign country. It would be interesting to hear what your cost of the marriage/divorce was and may help chaps in similar situations who may be considering marriage in SE Asia. Still though, I love your honesty and straight forward videos, always look forward to your travels. All the best!
@markadler8968
@markadler8968 8 ай бұрын
It is not predictable it is guaranteed.
@Ukboss1
@Ukboss1 8 ай бұрын
These guys are silly that do that open your eyes u go over seas with resources that most men in thailand don't have meet good looking young women get married 😂😂dummy
@StevenSacto
@StevenSacto 8 ай бұрын
Easy to say that after the fact. I've been going to Thailand since the late 80's. Always told myself, don't marry one lol. Married a farang in my home country, USA and that lasted 17 years. Started traveling again and found myself back in Thailand. Met a lady on TF app. And met in person without thinking of marriage. Best person I'd ever met, beautiful inside and out. She was 23 years younger and had one daughter. I was still working so I brought them both over to Calif. They're so fun to be around and have adapted amazingly fast. They work in Thai restaurant and step daughter goes to college too. Being single was an option and thought about it but when you find someone that fits you perfectly, stupid not to go for it. She pays bills, buys and shops for get own things but had built herself a life unattainable in Thailand. And I'm more than happy to help her. We're heading back to Thailand for 6 weeks to visit family and house hunting. Be realistic and open minded about foreign marriages. My mom was from Denmark so my dad do the same thing 👍
@rdefacendis
@rdefacendis 8 ай бұрын
I tend to agree. Why get married? That Thai person knows you are the best thing that is going to happen to her financially. She'll take any deal you offer her. Tell her to come and live you for the weekdays and send her home on the weekends. No suitcases please. Bring what you need for the week. She may gripe but she will accept the deal. Why? Because you are the best on offer. If she does something untoward, wait till the weekend, then change the locks ! Move on to the next lovely lady. Issan is full of well intentioned lovely ladies...
@Ukboss1
@Ukboss1 8 ай бұрын
@@rdefacendis facts just have them at your house part time don't get married
@rickmoody6984
@rickmoody6984 8 ай бұрын
Usually Free advice is worth what it cost you but I got some free advice from a car dealer down in Florida. He said " Don't argue over anything you can replace in Wal Mart". " Eventually she will ask for something you really want to keep and you can tell her that you gave her everything she asked for and you don't think it's asking too much to be able to keep that particular thing." It worked perfectly in my divorce. I'm so glad I listened to him.
@realpropertymangement7640
@realpropertymangement7640 8 ай бұрын
My philosophy... don't buy anything you're not willing to walk away from on short notice, at a total loss. Condo, car, bike, and most of all, companionship! 😊
@patienceobongo
@patienceobongo 8 ай бұрын
From the movie Heat?
@realpropertymangement7640
@realpropertymangement7640 8 ай бұрын
@@patienceobongo The heat of Thailand, perhaps. 😉
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
😂
@stevensgoodallsg
@stevensgoodallsg 8 ай бұрын
Don't get married. Have multiple girlfriends in different locations
@Ukboss1
@Ukboss1 8 ай бұрын
Yes my type of plan
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I can’t deal with one.
@Ukboss1
@Ukboss1 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels just have fun your in pattaya lol 😂 very silly
@jamesc2545
@jamesc2545 8 ай бұрын
True player :-)
@rayodesoona750
@rayodesoona750 8 ай бұрын
Most foreigners come to Thailand because of SEX. the purpose of the visit is sex, but want true love when lonely. lol bruhhh
@paulhefner2813
@paulhefner2813 8 ай бұрын
Money is not everything if you find a nice woman. Just give her money each month and do it as a cost for not being married. That way she is happy and you are happy. Marriage is a horrible contract arrangement. You know a woman does not love you when she keeps asking to get married. It is not that she loves you, but she loves your bank account. It is not 60 years ago when marriage was a sacrament. Those days are long gone. I much rather give money than spend months and possibly years in court continually being threatened by attorneys and kissing the judges ass. Usually no one teaches guys about life for various reasons. I am surprised that there are not more western guys defenestrating after living 50 years in this world. Have a good one and thanks for the video.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Definitely a viable option Paul.
@svenw.6918
@svenw.6918 8 ай бұрын
Yes, my Girl wanted to get married after 6 months... Told her to wait a couple of years. She said oke. She has a good life 😊
@Goldfinger555
@Goldfinger555 8 ай бұрын
Thank goodness for the pre-nup. Sounds like it could have been a whole lot worse. I can imagine most guys are so in love they don’t even think about it. Nice video.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@bsmiddy236
@bsmiddy236 8 ай бұрын
Never make emotional decisions about money
@briansouza8528
@briansouza8528 Ай бұрын
Didn’t even know you had married a Thai woman. Really appreciate you sharing your experience.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels Ай бұрын
Yea. I tried it for a year. Probably won’t again
@waldopepper1572
@waldopepper1572 4 ай бұрын
Another very good informative video Greeny. More of these please.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@EasternDreamer615
@EasternDreamer615 8 ай бұрын
First! I'm a single guy in Thailand but this is helpful if I decide to get married in the future.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. You never know what may happen.
@paulcousins1371
@paulcousins1371 8 ай бұрын
I always admire your honesty Greeny, marriage isn’t for everyone,glad it’s all worked out, hopefully you’ll meet another lady👍🏿🍻🥰
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
What ever happen happens. Just trying to enjoy everything here
@ejwrigley
@ejwrigley 8 ай бұрын
I found meeting a rich educated Thai woman made divorce less likely 😊30 years still going
@roblacyclist1170
@roblacyclist1170 8 ай бұрын
Good informative video, Greeny. I would like to see a future video where you discuss “what you should know before living with your Thai girlfriend”.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
A lot to know. I don’t even know where to start
@davidleister3574
@davidleister3574 8 ай бұрын
Thanks! I'm looking forward to you expanding on the other topics that you mentioned. Moving there in 2 months and don't want any problems down the line. Thailand is where I plan to die. Not going home.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thank you. I appreciate it.
@jamesc2545
@jamesc2545 8 ай бұрын
Your stats are on point, divorce rates are 80% with a partner that works or worked in law enforcement
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. Ain’t that true
@Resmith18SR
@Resmith18SR 8 ай бұрын
Book him Dano!!!
@luisRoma747
@luisRoma747 8 ай бұрын
Married once for 5 years, never again staying single to enjoy Thailand and world ladies.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Not a bad plan
@A_Sen_0
@A_Sen_0 8 ай бұрын
How can we get screwed if break up happens after cohabitation , no marriage & promise of marriage? Pls tell
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Ok will make a video. Let me get it together
@markbm1
@markbm1 8 ай бұрын
It was great to meet you yesterday in Jomtien. Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge with everyone, it’s much appreciated!
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Defy Mark. Great meeting you too !!
@eddyk564
@eddyk564 8 ай бұрын
When I got divorced in Thailand, we met a random couple at the divorce office who was also getting divorced and we just agreed to say we knew each other. Overall, the burden is often on the Thai partner if she/he doesn't agree to the terms of the divorce. Legally they have to say that they're married if they haven't gone through the procedure and this can affect taxable income as well as the ability to marry someone else. That being said I was a teacher with almost no assets to my name.
@A_Sen_0
@A_Sen_0 8 ай бұрын
What about Alimony/ spousal support in Thailand Usually ?
@eddyk564
@eddyk564 8 ай бұрын
@@A_Sen_0The officer asked both of us when we were getting divorced what the separation conditions were. It was up to my ex-wife to say whether she was satisfied with what had been offered. There is no set amount expected from my experience.
@A_Sen_0
@A_Sen_0 8 ай бұрын
@@eddyk564 that even scarier is not it? If life time payments of 50% pay slip of ex hu sband as an al imony is an option why will any ex wifi will not claim that?🥺😢
@A_Sen_0
@A_Sen_0 8 ай бұрын
@@eddyk564 is it really common in Thailand, husband’s paying ex wife money even if no kids (ie. Al Imony)
@eddyk564
@eddyk564 8 ай бұрын
@@A_Sen_0Not from my understanding. There is a point at which you agree to the terms of your divorce. If she wants a million dollars, you can just refused and then no divorce
@michaelorfanos7416
@michaelorfanos7416 8 ай бұрын
Greeny, I would like to know what it cost you and how you knew it was not working out. Why did you get married and why did it change so fast?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
All good question. I will cover what I can on here.
@davidthomas5679
@davidthomas5679 8 ай бұрын
Another great informative video. Keep up the great work Greeny. 👍
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thanks Dave!!
@kennethpaulsen5407
@kennethpaulsen5407 8 ай бұрын
hope you make a video about how much it cost and how cost for lawyer etc.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Ok. Thank you.
@Luke-ri5fo
@Luke-ri5fo 8 ай бұрын
Good to know for your next Thai marriage Greeny.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I got it down now.
@svenw.6918
@svenw.6918 8 ай бұрын
You're married with a Thai Lady before you know it 😂. I've seen guys getting married after 4 months, the lady did all the Paperwork 😅 I call my Lady my wife and im her husband. We are wearing rings but that certificate she needs to earn that. Maybe after 5 years i will sign it ...
@SlimGlynn1
@SlimGlynn1 8 ай бұрын
YOUR BEST ADVICE SHOULD BE "DONT GET MARRIED, PERIOD"!
@Albert-o4b4d
@Albert-o4b4d 3 ай бұрын
Greeny, I have two words of advice for you to remember for the next time you think about getting involved in a relationship anywhere: Baggage, Drama ❤ Best of luck
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 3 ай бұрын
Yea. Always
@youtuber-MGTOW
@youtuber-MGTOW 8 ай бұрын
Don´t get married. It´s never a good idea to make a contract with the state involved.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
That’s a good point
@jamesgrossman2894
@jamesgrossman2894 8 ай бұрын
Great advice, Greenie! This is certainly one of your better videos. This is unique and expert information you can’t get somewhere else. You are candid and detailed. and we all appreciate it.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. No doubt
@gorillapancake
@gorillapancake 8 ай бұрын
Hey Greeny, I'm interested in how you feel about it all in hindsight. What the experience has taught you about yourself.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
For one that I suck in relationships. I already knew that though. I’ll probably cover more.
@jamesmorrin2729
@jamesmorrin2729 8 ай бұрын
Probably because your not a simp. Stay well @@GreenyTravels
@freddyjingjo
@freddyjingjo 8 ай бұрын
Havent been keeping up with this channel regularly enough .. sorry to hear about your marriage
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thanks. Water under the beige
@jamesmorrin2729
@jamesmorrin2729 8 ай бұрын
Even a lot of Thais don't register marriage with the ampur. They just have a sham village wedding for show. Much cheaper in the long run.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Maybe. Those can end up in court too.
@deansta822
@deansta822 2 ай бұрын
Hi Greeny, do you recommend a lawyer or someone to talk to in the Pattaya area about getting advice of what to do before getting married? Just want to cover my bases.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 2 ай бұрын
Yes. Definitely have a prenup Specifically I don’t have a recommendation. My guy got real busy
@stevend8785
@stevend8785 8 ай бұрын
I've been married to a Filipina 22 years. If this doesn't work out, I'm flying solo. Getting married is stupid, especially in Thailand where your romantic options are basically unlimited. . It is stupid to involve the legal system in your relationship. Your relationship most likely isn't going to work out and if you're not married she's free to go. Sayonara beotch. Next. I'd rather be dead than get married again.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Cohabitation can has legal implications too. Stay tuned for another video on this subject
@user-nl9me3er7w
@user-nl9me3er7w 8 ай бұрын
yes can you cover everything sir that is not being in your personal business and what to look out with a ferrang and thai relationship
@samosa007
@samosa007 8 ай бұрын
Is there any provision of Alimony/spousal support in Thailand? Did u get caught in that hook?😅
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
No. I had prenup that spelled that out
@svenw.6918
@svenw.6918 8 ай бұрын
Getting married is the biggest commitment a man can give to his lady and she needs to be very thankful for that. That's why i will keep that certificate as far as possible (minimum a couple of years) from me till my lady has proven herself to me. If the lady truly loves you she will agree with this. If she is only interested in the Marriage certificate then yes, you will be divorced in the next 2 years and you will find out why 😅 My girl calls me her husband and she is my wife, we are wearing wedding rings. That's it for now. Marriage needs to be earned.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I like that. Good idea
@jamesmorrin2729
@jamesmorrin2729 8 ай бұрын
Unless she's playing the long game. Thai ladies are infamous for it and don't give a crap about longevity or stability until they hit the wall. Not a whole lot different to the rest of the world.
@jfk5402
@jfk5402 8 ай бұрын
I am a man but your comment is so full of sh**, honestly.
@rdefacendis
@rdefacendis 8 ай бұрын
make it ten years... then maybe...
@svenw.6918
@svenw.6918 8 ай бұрын
​@@jamesmorrin2729date your age and lots of issues will be not present.
@yannip2083
@yannip2083 8 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT video! Did you divorce Fah? I missed some of your earlier videos.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. Yes. A while back we went separate ways.
@yannip2083
@yannip2083 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels Oh, I see. Hope you didn't lose a ton of money! Wishing you a happy, healthy and fun 2024. ENJOY LIFE, Greeny! You are too nice and kind!
@cabowabo5557
@cabowabo5557 8 ай бұрын
Thanks, Greeny! Go Lions! BTW, I'd like to hear your thoughts on the potential perils of living together in Thailand. Thanks.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Same as living with any female anywhere 😂
@mitchtop3827
@mitchtop3827 8 ай бұрын
When I got married, she had been married before, but there was never an official paper written up. So the marriage is considered to have never happened, it must be registered at the amphurs office.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
If you cohabitate there may be e consequences paper or no paper.
@A_Sen_0
@A_Sen_0 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels Even if absolutely no marriage (no village marriage or written; even no promise of marriage ) , only cohabitation can bring consequence in Thailand ??😮😮😮 R u sure?
@pensionandapassport
@pensionandapassport 8 ай бұрын
​@@GreenyTravelsThis will be a good video topic, so many guys are in this situation.
@JenniferThornburg1
@JenniferThornburg1 8 ай бұрын
I'm just not going to get married.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. Cmon Jennifer. Give it a shot.
@thehumancanary131
@thehumancanary131 8 ай бұрын
I've been here 40 years...been married 4-5 times (can't remember all their names now), gave the 2nd one (or was it the 3rd?) my diesel pickup truck as settlement - she called an hour later - filled it full of petrol - wouldn't start...could I help!! I'm happy with No. 6 (or is it 7?)....
@svenw.6918
@svenw.6918 8 ай бұрын
Always fun times in Thailand 😂
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. Thats great. It really doesn’t matter how many times you try
@nixonbd53
@nixonbd53 8 ай бұрын
Rule #1: don’t get married in Thailand 😂
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
5 is my limit. We will see
@onthenose8082
@onthenose8082 8 ай бұрын
Difficult topic to discuss, but makes for an interesting video.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I figured a few people might be interested
@jeffmeighan304
@jeffmeighan304 8 ай бұрын
Yes please make a video of a thai prenuptial and how you presented it to phi phi.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@muajin
@muajin 4 ай бұрын
Is marrying a Thai that bad? Many Thailand youtubers I hear about are either divorced or never married to one.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 4 ай бұрын
It’s like getting married anywhere. A real crapshoot
@muajin
@muajin 4 ай бұрын
Oh
@chuck5553
@chuck5553 8 ай бұрын
Wow, I must’ve missed a lot of your videos. Sorry to hear
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
A while back. All good 👍
@ResidentGG
@ResidentGG 8 ай бұрын
Very information prenup like in the US and a Thai person for translation and witness thanks and dang! the Lions beat the Rams.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Lions Rolling. Thx.
@SlimGlynn1
@SlimGlynn1 8 ай бұрын
Most of us told you that marrying Fi was bad news. Did you listen? NOoooo😊
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Water under the bridge. We had some good times. Nothing lasts forever
@Colincarpenter2
@Colincarpenter2 8 ай бұрын
Greeny, Can I ask a genuine question, why did you get married, I have been living in Thailand ( well Bangkok mainly) for a decade and I have always gone by the motto you don't need to take sand to the beach, I have seen countless people men in their late 40's , 50's and 60's that come over here and find a younger girl and decide to marry them, I tell each of them that is it is not necessary, every single one of them and I mean EVERY one has ended in divorce.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
A legal marriage comes with some benefits. Tax benefits. Will cover this at a later date
@A_Sen_0
@A_Sen_0 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels no tax benifits if earning is bellow taxable amount 🤥😎
@bootney66
@bootney66 8 ай бұрын
Good video. I got married at 25 and I filed for divorce at 28. I’m 57 now and never getting married again. Also, I hope your Lions make it to the Super Bowl and then get beat by my Ravens 😀
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Ravens are looking tough
@LUCKHEF
@LUCKHEF 8 ай бұрын
Smart advice I see WAY to many foreigners lose it all
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I hear crazy stories
@BIueDreamm
@BIueDreamm Ай бұрын
Rent, don’t buy. Marry an orphan if you must MARRY! so she has no family or sick buffalos to juice you constantly 😂. Found this from a Reddit post and thought it makes some sense somehow.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels Ай бұрын
lol. Good one. Then again a rough upbringing may result in a crazy one
@BIueDreamm
@BIueDreamm Ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels sigh. Life is tough as a man isn’t it?
@daveaway
@daveaway 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@alphakub
@alphakub 2 ай бұрын
I'm a new subscriber to your channel. Just for background, did you move to Thailand for the relationship, or did you start the relationship after you moved there?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 2 ай бұрын
No. I was coming here. I met her after I was out of quarantine.
@b-41subject57
@b-41subject57 16 күн бұрын
​@@GreenyTravelshow did you meet her sir?
@DanielSmith-sl3pv
@DanielSmith-sl3pv 8 ай бұрын
Well Greeny before the divorce talk - congrats on your Detroit Lions Team!
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thanks. 2 more to go!!
@EelisTrance-cx7he
@EelisTrance-cx7he 4 ай бұрын
FREEDOM TO BE ALONE IS THE BEST,,,,,,I WAS MARRIED TWICE,,,,,,,, HELLLLLLL,,,,,, NOW SINGLE,,,,,,, HEAVEN,,,,, RESPECT CASABLANCA 💓
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 4 ай бұрын
Me too. I feel you!!!!
@antonioperezosorio7647
@antonioperezosorio7647 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for the info. God bless you.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thanks Antonio
@MM-sf3rl
@MM-sf3rl 8 ай бұрын
Best Farong, Thai woman advice I’ve ever heard. Get a prenuptial!
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Always
@nova_juan
@nova_juan 8 ай бұрын
Soil 6.. Bar Fines..Need I say more ??
@AcmeRocket
@AcmeRocket 8 ай бұрын
Wisdom
@trickolas78
@trickolas78 7 ай бұрын
Choosing to wear that Detroit Lions t-shirt was the first mistake for you this day.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 7 ай бұрын
😂. Did I jinx them
@yamazaki997
@yamazaki997 8 ай бұрын
Greeny . Life is long . Qué at the bars is short. Like Razor Ramon said "chickas are for fun " not for marriage at your age .
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. Probably the case
@DaUloi
@DaUloi 8 ай бұрын
Hopefully this isn't one of the things I do 6 months after you did it. 😂
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
lol. Hope not
@BiffBurns
@BiffBurns 8 ай бұрын
Great shoe Greeny! Stay cool 😎 kind and generous!
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Thx. Biff
@BiffBurns
@BiffBurns 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels (show)
@1seaboyd
@1seaboyd 8 ай бұрын
Funny...years ago, when there wasn't too many falongs except GIs, all you had to do was go down to county and sign your name to this register (both) of course and that was it! I asked one time why so easy and he said that the gov't doesn't want to mess with these lovelorn problems!
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
You are probably right
@liamstone3437
@liamstone3437 8 ай бұрын
As a man married to a Thai school teacher with a pretty good marriage I would advise any man considering marriage to ANY woman today to reconsider. I consider myself lucky but betting your life on something as risky as modern marriage is foolhardy at best. If I did it over I would have kept her as my mate but not my wife.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Always risky.
@Video-tu4vn
@Video-tu4vn 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing what is part of your private life and it makes interesting viewing. Im just curious, would a long term girlfriend whom you share a place with also be entitled to a 50/50 split as they would do here in Australia
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I think so. That’s what my attorney led me to believe. They do cohabitation agreements. Same as prenup basically
@hasanzaman7407
@hasanzaman7407 8 ай бұрын
Fi Fi was fun to watch but could pls share what really went wrong if you dont mind?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Did that video in July. Still up
@leroyybrown
@leroyybrown 8 ай бұрын
An attorney and a pre-nup sounds mandatory for getting married in Thailand. Go 🦁 Lions
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Definitely. 👍
@thehammer3340
@thehammer3340 8 ай бұрын
Want to do it right? Stay single and mingle
@gregweigel8115
@gregweigel8115 8 ай бұрын
Well if that's all it costs ya You got off easy. I know it's disappointing it didn't work out But the big question is do you think you would do it again?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Hard to say. We did have some great times. I’m not sure though. I’ve been through many relationships and the one constant has been female mood swings. Something very hard for me to deal with. Since single I’ve been pretty relaxed and my blood pressure has dropped significantly 😂
@Lamlukka_Geo_rge
@Lamlukka_Geo_rge 8 ай бұрын
Should not have gotten married to the wrong person
@Roy-kv6zr
@Roy-kv6zr 8 ай бұрын
She was way right person thats why it ended so amicably, my ex wife , high school sweet heart 😢, sued me for 6 years Costed me EVERYTHING By the way we didn’t have any kid So , his ex thai lady is a gd person
@Lamlukka_Geo_rge
@Lamlukka_Geo_rge 8 ай бұрын
eyes roll all previous vids show this was not a good idea to get married, but I do not have your info@@Roy-kv6zr
@magicfire1
@magicfire1 8 ай бұрын
People changes.
@andrewcasesjr
@andrewcasesjr 8 ай бұрын
Based off the marriage statistics you quoted at the beginning of the video, do you foresee yourself getting married again? Were you married/divorced before retiring in Thailand?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Doubtful. But can’t make predictions
@UTCM
@UTCM 8 ай бұрын
Twenty years coming up on wife number three . I must be in the 10% !!!!!
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
You made it!!
@tommyj3071
@tommyj3071 8 ай бұрын
good info for those who plan on marriage
@ccrider8483
@ccrider8483 8 ай бұрын
It sounds like Greenie already owned his condo and had the money in the bank for his visa prior to getting married. My understanding is that the wife may only be entitled to half the assets aquired after the date of the marriage?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Yes. That’s how it’s supposed to work.
@Subho_0101
@Subho_0101 8 ай бұрын
​@@GreenyTravels What about ALIMONY??
@jdedad
@jdedad 8 ай бұрын
Cold ease Greeny I take it before the plane ride prevents getting sick
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I should take some next time
@jdedad
@jdedad 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels virus comes in via nose mouth eyes wash your hands don’t touch your face take cold ease you won’t be sick
@magicfire1
@magicfire1 8 ай бұрын
Best advice is not to get married.
@thonatim5321
@thonatim5321 8 ай бұрын
The only good aspect of getting married is to bring her back to your home country. I plan to spend only 3 months in Thailand during winter. I am from Detroit as well and the Spring/Summer here are the best on the planet. Even the Fall in Michigan is awesome. It is the winters that suck. So I am open to marriage so I can bring her back with me via K-1 (or K-3) visa process. I refuse to date American women anymore.
@rololoy2
@rololoy2 8 ай бұрын
What??? Don’t ever bring them back to your home country!
@Joker-2357
@Joker-2357 8 ай бұрын
@@rololoy2if loss & life with financial disaster is written in destiny, u can’t save them😂
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I will cover some risks of this soon. Working on that video.
@1616-m8w
@1616-m8w 8 ай бұрын
You are a good man
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Appreciate it.
@ariefraiser140
@ariefraiser140 8 ай бұрын
Are all your world wide assets a part of the divorce consideration or do they only consider assets in Thailand?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Court in Thailand only has jurisdiction for Thailand. Don’t think they would have access to that. But ya never know
@ariefraiser140
@ariefraiser140 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels Thanks for the quick response. That just helped solidify my plan to never buy or marry in Thailand and to rent everything. I came to enjoy paradise and divorce is definitely not paradise no matter how smooth it goes.
@ianarn
@ianarn 8 ай бұрын
@@ariefraiser140 You can’t own land as a foreigner in Thailand! I believe you can technically own the building but what’s the point and it can set you up for one of their fake “accidents” if your Thai love decides to go halves with a Police man as there are plenty over there that will! Just rent! Apartment girl and boat if you need to go there at all!
@Nordic_Sky
@Nordic_Sky 8 ай бұрын
If you bring her to your home country, then she will have access to that country's legal system if you get divorced. That's major league bad news for you.
@DaUloi
@DaUloi 8 ай бұрын
I *think* you are quoting divorce rates in America.
@stanleykyle
@stanleykyle 8 ай бұрын
The divorce rate in Thailand has jumped over the decade, from 27% in 2006 to 39% in 2016. More than a third of Thai couples who registered their marriage in 2016 filed for divorce in Thailand during that same year.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Probably was as western stat
@Nordic_Sky
@Nordic_Sky 8 ай бұрын
One third of Thai couples who married got divorced in the same year? In other words one third were married less than one year? Don't think that's right. @@stanleykyle
@stanleykyle
@stanleykyle 8 ай бұрын
Google must not be right? go read the article.. its not direct quote from me. @@Nordic_Sky
@smokefromsevenorifices8782
@smokefromsevenorifices8782 8 ай бұрын
@GreenyTravels commiserations. So staying in Pattaya and Thailand ?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Of course. I love it here.
@gsomethingsomething2658
@gsomethingsomething2658 8 ай бұрын
Greeny, are you going to get married again? If so, why?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Who knows. I’m not even dating too much these days. BP in a great place right now 😂
@bigcee3338
@bigcee3338 8 ай бұрын
this was on the cards from day one stuck out like a sore thumb
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Alias prenup.
@bigcee3338
@bigcee3338 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels what got me was her concern ( not) when you got stung to hell on one of your vids up a staircase it was
@jediwarlock1
@jediwarlock1 8 ай бұрын
What is the cost of a Prenup in Thailand? And would I have to get a Prenup for my home country too?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
I tgink it would be wise in most case. Then again she really isn’t entitled to anything you earned before hand. About 15000 baht for pre nup depending on how complicated things are
@jediwarlock1
@jediwarlock1 8 ай бұрын
In my case it is about digital assets which may increase substantially the coming years. 15000 is a great price nonetheless! Thanks for your answer!@@GreenyTravels
@Byron4RollTide
@Byron4RollTide 8 ай бұрын
Brian how long after the divorce did she run off to Europe.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Like 3 months maybe. 🤔
@Byron4RollTide
@Byron4RollTide 8 ай бұрын
@@GreenyTravels What country did she go to.
@sammatsusaka823
@sammatsusaka823 8 ай бұрын
Puinsai and keep it that way. (always pull out)
@gregsmitz6310
@gregsmitz6310 7 ай бұрын
Maybe just do a village marriage. Nothing binding, not official
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 7 ай бұрын
Better idea
@Resmith18SR
@Resmith18SR 8 ай бұрын
If the woman you're going to marry won't agree to a pre-nup would you still marry her?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Again. No
@frankcentofanti9317
@frankcentofanti9317 3 ай бұрын
Smart men always think it through and get prenup
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 3 ай бұрын
It’s wise
@kaiman5307
@kaiman5307 8 ай бұрын
Can you recommend your divorce attorney? I lived in Chiang Rai thanks .
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Oh. I know nothing up there. Sorry. Have t even been there yet.
@billmiller5741
@billmiller5741 8 ай бұрын
Greeny interesting subject. May I ask about digital content ? In Thailand do you share monetary gains as you tuber to your ex ? What about after death ? Who owns your digital content ? Just curious questions that may make a interesting video.
@EP-qi8ed
@EP-qi8ed 8 ай бұрын
KZbin is a US company, and he has a US address, so I assume his payments from YT go to a US account, which means it wouldn't count as assets accrued in a Thai bank...He has a son, so his estate/son will probably get his digital assets when the time comes.
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
This is a great topic. Yes everything in America. I wonder if this is something that should be in a will. Thanks bill. You got me thinking
@SJK-ROW-K
@SJK-ROW-K 8 ай бұрын
This should be titled THINGS I WISH I’D KNOWN BEFORE I GOT MARRIED 😂😂😂
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
That’s not a bad title either
@cabowabo5557
@cabowabo5557 8 ай бұрын
I WISH I knew THIS before getting DIVORCED in THAILAND! Don't Get Married!
@1jamyardie281
@1jamyardie281 8 ай бұрын
duck dodge dip dive and duck again on marriage. but did she have her own attorney or u only used yours? also how did the condo play out did u purchase before her
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Yes. That was mine before the marriage
@jeffuk3940
@jeffuk3940 8 ай бұрын
Simple answer don't get married in the first place and you won't have to give any woman any of your hard earned.
@missme3916
@missme3916 8 ай бұрын
Tuning in from Detroit! Go Lion and Go Greeny!
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
Hell yea. Playing well
@guymandudely324
@guymandudely324 8 ай бұрын
Did you pay sinsod? If so, was it returned to you?
@GreenyTravels
@GreenyTravels 8 ай бұрын
No. Didn’t pay that.
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