Ib Leeg Tub Txoj Kev Tu Siab~02/04/2023~

Hmong Inspiring Story: Being the only son, he went through so many struggles to get where he is today.
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[@nathanm2454]

Tij laug aw, hlub koj kawg li os. ua li cas koj niam koj txiv yug tau koj ib leeg tub xwb los tseem nrog cov ntxhais ua phem rau koj thiab os. Txhob tu siab, txhob thub lab mus tua nyuj hu nkawd nplig os mog...rau rau siab ua hauj lwm, yuav poj niam ua koj lub neej kom nrog luag muaj vaj muaj tsev zoo, muaj nyiaj, muaj kub xwb os mog...thaum twg koj lub neej zoo lawm ces koj niam koj txiv nkawd yeej yuav tso los lees koj, los rau koj log nkawd ob niag laus ntawd xwb los mas..

[@maiyang7845]

There’s more to he’s story he’s not saying. No parents or siblings in the Hmong community would put restraining order against the only son in the family. Sons are like gold. He probably did something so bad that cannot be forgiven. Good luck on the cow.

[@maryly09]

Exactly. He didn't admit to any wrongdoings on his part, but i don't believe he's that innocent as he claims.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

Agreed

[@chaivang8606]

That’s what I’m wondering

[@amandaxiong9436]

I Agee.. this story is fishy

[@dongdick1730]

I am confused and it sounds bs for sure...

[@maoleekue1468]

nyob lub ntiaj teb no tsis muaj leej twg yuav hlub yus npaum li yus niam thiab yus txiv lawm nawb mog ! txog txij lawv tsis hlub koj ces koj yeej tsis mloog koj niam nkawd lus nkawd tu siab dhau rau Koj lawm xwb o !!

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

I feel like you not telling the whole story. For families to treat you like that, you must of been those who are not trustworthy, in a gang, and a bum who lives off of others only. To be the only son, everyone loves you, but you probably those who take everything for granted. Everyone can change if you put your heart to it.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Yes I feel like a lot of the story is missing. Some people see themselves as victims. If people perceive him as something he must have not done a lot things to make them distrust him. I hope he’s learned and no one is accountability for him but himself.

[@TsovXeemPlis]

Cas zaj dab neeg no txawv ua luaj li na?? Missing one piece of a puzzles lawm

[@nyiamnkawgsaiv9748]

I think there’s more to your story than what u had disclosed. But in any event success is the best way to win anyone over including your family. No need to kill a cow. They will come around Once you’re successful meaning owning a home, having a family of your own, guaranteed!

[@sijhawmtsitochannel1659]

Tus me nus haw txhob tu siab os Thaum lawv tsi hlub yus yus yauv tau tig los saib yus tus kheej tia vim li ca lawv thiaj tsi hlub yus es tiaglos khov yus tus kheej naw mog

[@MrsYaj-ei2io]

We need to hear your family side of the story. Who in the world prefer a guy from jail to be with their daughter? Do you reflect on yourself what you did wrong?

[@menkaujntsesmenraugnoog6718]

What kind of family shit is this? Damn what a family!!

[@buaher9912]

Nrog hlub koj os me tub koj niam koj txiv mas tsi nyog koj hu nkawd plig li nawb

[@leek-te5dx]

Why do I get a feeling you were a troubled or gangster kid that is why your mom doesn't trust you?

[@lindalo8060]

Me tub Koj txhob hais tias koj niam koj txiv tsis hlub Koj twb yog koj yog ib tus me nyuam tsis mloog lus xwb os mloog Koj hais los no

[@seexiong4435]

Thov nej sawv daws tuaj pab txhawb kablia thiab nawb mog Tig rov qab saib nej tus kheej hais tias ua neej nrog ib tug tub laib quav yeeb tshuaj npa ntaus , tua Siv kiam phom thiab yeej tsis paub hais tias yus yog niam thiab txiv li . Niam thiab txiv ces twb tuag pes tsawg zaus mam sawv rov los xwb xum muab ntiab tawm zoo dua qhov nrog yus nyob e muab yus tua Kuv tsis qhia npe los nej yeej paub hais tias kuv yog leej twg lawm o

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

You're expecting too much preferential treatment from your parents just bc you're a boy. You feel too much entitlement for being a boy. I feel there's lots of missing or omitted information in your story. Your story is very one-sided. You should listen to your story, you will hear that every single person in your life or that you have encountered has treated you badly and didn't like you. If that is the case, do you think that it's not them...that it is you? You need to be accountable for your actions and for what happened in your life.

[@missysmart8620]

If only we know the real truth about you but still parents should love your kids whether you had been in trouble or not and try to help you be a better person. Mayb it's your hot quick temper that got you in trouble but it's ok. We all need to learn our ways around and be on our own to reflect on what we had done and need to change to be a better person. Happy for you for getting out of trouble and be a good person to yourself.

[@houaxiong9996]

I need the sisters to come tell their side of the story.

[@nkaujmogmim125]

Tej zaum koj ua2 laib e lawv thiaj g nyiam koj.

[@trulylee9055]

Cas yuav poj Niam es tsis sab laj nrog tej laus li naw! Tos li lawv tsis nyiam koj los koj yeej tsis paub dab tsi li

[@kaliax2414]

There are a lot of holes in this story but that's okay. As long as you know what you've done wrong and are trying to change. You say that your family doesn't love you, but I think they do. It shows in the amount of times they let you back home. They love you, that's why they gave you tough love. When you make that party for your parents, don't forget to apologize to your sisters too and ask for their forgiveness.

[@loraoki6713]

Tsi txau ntseeg koj zaj no na koj tej zaum koj yeej muaj tej Yam koj tsi kam qhia qhov tseeb

[@rainbowanimalsrainbowanima6743]

Tus tub aw.. mloog tag koj zaj no lawm txhob tu siab tias koj niam thiab txiv cov muam lawv tsis hlub koj . Koj yog ibleeg tub xwb lawv hlub koj heev , tabsis koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej kiag li ne.. koj tsis mloog lus mus ua si lojleeb nrog phoojywg xwb. lawv hais tsis tau koj li ces lawv dhuav2 koj thiaj li muab koj ntiab tawm tsev. kom koj mus ntsib kev txom nyem e koj thiaj lj paub hloov koj tus kheej ua neeg zoo xwb os.. txij no mus hloov koj tus kheej ua neeg tsim txiaj hnub twg koj lub neej zoo lawm ces lawv yeej yuav tig rov los hlub koj os..

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

If you gonna tell a story about how bad your parents and your sisters are, why don't you manned up and tell everyone that you are a gangster who brought danger to your family. You were only 14 years old and already do drugs and come home at 2am or sometimes disappeared for weeks. Your sisters not hating on you, they just protected your parents.

[@maryly09]

💯💯💯

[@Y0ungbl00d69]

I agree. Sounds like you're a gangster when your whole family does want you.

[@Ibvuag912]

Kuv moog mas ntxim li koj tsis mloog lus es koj tsev neeg twb tus siab txaus lawm. Yog tias yog hmoob ces tus tub muaj nqis tshaj, tiamsis txog txij li ko ces koj yeej tsis mloog lus hlo li, txhob tus siab os.

[@seethao5461]

Twb yog lawv hlub koj dhau lawm es koj thiaj zoo li koj txhob tu siab they trained you To be a man that is the inside picture that you don't see.

[@maithao1417]

Lol, I feel like he’s telling his side of the story only😂 if he’s that good “ supposedly “ the sisters will not get a restraining order on him especially he’s the only brother. I guess, he’s speaking about the good of himself and kinda left the bad out😂 I’m glad he finally realized at the end and doing good!!! SMH

[@kyang435]

My thoughts exactly.

[@myprecious6751]

Those Hmong men are lazy people. Good for nothing. Sitting around, waiting on their ass for the wife to waited on them hand and feet. That is a prime example of backwater people. Why do your mother and sister's dislike you so much? Doesn't make sense. You are her only son. How can a mother hate her son so much. Are you that much of a bad boy? Well, count your blessings, brother. Your girlfriend wasn't the one for you. Get a job, take care of yourself, and make something of yourself. Distance yourself from your family. Ghost and cut off ties, and go no contact. Learned from your mistakes and have a heart. Love yourself and concentrate on building a worthy life for yourself. Remember there will come a time they'll need your help. Just remember who was there for you and who wasn't. Family may be blood but it doesn't make it better. Sometimes a stranger is better than family.

[@miabhlub63]

I feel like he's not telling the whole story. His whole family is against him and he's the only son.

[@chouayang4720]

There's two side to every story. Everyone around you end up leaving you so maybe it's your fault. Put your life together and go back to your family.

[@lorfamilychannel8617]

Can we hear the other side of story?

[@maylblu1655]

Sad but maybe it is your fault. U just don’t see what the problem is. If everyone treats u bad, u might have been the reason why. I’ve watch a lot of documentaries about people in jail, when they tell their side of the story a lot of time they don’t see that they were in the wrong. But I am glad, you’ve overcome it and learned your lesson. Good job and Good luck in the future. It’s hard but you are on the right track. I hope your parents and family can forgive you. 👍❤️🙏💪

[@flryprn745]

Part of the problem w hmong parents……they have too many kids, it’s hard to keep track n monitor, or be there for all the kids in times of need. Some parents leave kids to grow on his/her own. If hang w wrong crowd then be bad. If do good academically then be good!! Some kids need extra attention n love. All babies R born innocent, it’s the parents fault if a child fails! Yes, the kid have choices but at young age, the kid need affection n guidance….the parents R the adults who have more knowledge n should be there to guide kids to better future. Another problem with hmong parents, they don’t have much education in parenting skills….they pop hella kids but no structure. It’s better now-in-days that hmong don’t pop a lot kids like older days, n these younger generation parents R more educated n hopefully guide kids, help do homework, spend time n vacays, etc, so the kid feel wanted, loved n most likely will behave n lead good example in life. Good luck, u learn the hard way but it’s the way u were raised.

[@Y0ungbl00d69]

This guy is gangster from what I gathered.

[@soukha2232]

First time to hear a son was trapped by a Hmong parent. I assume you were a member of gangsters before. The best is you are back to be a strong man.

[@kuvxwb11]

Ntshe koj tsis yog lawv yug pob.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

This story relates to my family...we only have 1 brother, but we love him. Sorry that you went through this...May the Lord continue to Bless you and your family.

[@Lh_76]

I have a sh**head brother who was like the devil beat up all of us old n young esp me bc i always stood up to his gangster ass or to protect others from his fists- 34:11 even tho i was a girl n younger than him. He continues to be a liar n a cheater to this day but according to him he’s unloved and never in the wrong n nobody ever wants to help poor him blah blah although he always “borrowed” from whomever he could swindle with no intention of paying back. We r old now but i still dont acknowledge him n never will. Maybe this guy is like him-blind to his wrongdoings yet feels entitled.

[@kxiong9030]

Can the parents and sisters please respond with your version. Feels like he's not telling the whole story.

[@angielo06]

I think tus mi tub no zaj neej neeg, thaum pib yeej yog tim nws niam nws txiv tsis txawj coj, thiab tejzaum thaum nws niam yug nws tsis mob nws niam plab tsuas hnov thaum sib ua es zoo nyob xwb. Tos kuv ho hais li no los yeeb vim tub los kuv yeej yug muaj ntxhais los kuv yeejbyug tau. Kuv txoj kev hlub kuv yeej hlub sib npaum. Tom qab yeej yog tim tus mi tub mus poo tau cov neeg phem tiamsis the reason for this to happen was because he needs the attention from his parents but didn't get it. Ces ua rau tus mi nyuam tusiab, muaj ib txhia mi nyuam mas lawv tusiab ces lawm committed suicide (muab lawv tus kheej tua) hos ib txhia ces tusiab ces mus ua neeg liam. At least his parents pays attention to what he needs and wants also try to understand the loneliness he must felt without a brother and all 7 of his sister gang up against him. Niam thiab txiv cia cov ntxhais los ua niam ua txiv ho cia tus mi tub ua ntsuag ciaj. How sad 😔. Mi tu. Txhob tusiab mog, hmab tsis khi duav, zeb tsis nias haus mog. Kav tsij ua qhov zoo os muaj ib hnub koj niam koj txiv nkawv yeej yuav tsum pom xwb2 mog.

[@zk-ch3es]

Xa mus MN ces yog mus thawj laib thawj coos xwb !!

[@mcha331ify]

Yeaaahhhh something is missing here. You are too innocent to believe lol

[@MV-ct6nj]

Zoo li kj tsim txiaj zog lawm na mi nus!. No family will disown u unless u did wrong!. I could be wrong but your story doesn’t make sense

[@yuavtaucojkomtebchawsyuavt3072]

wow! This’s a sad story! Tejzaum tim lub tebchaws no sawvdaws thiaj muaj teebmeem baum lino qhv teebmeem no puavleej raug 6 peb coob kawgli lj twg yg tus ym kevloj dua xwb? Yg uatib zoo saibces yj paub xwbnawb

[@Duefant]

Your family is messed up! I’m married to a only son as well. He has 8 sisters, I’m so happy they all love him very much. I now have 3 girls and my only son (the baby) I will make sure he is loved, but I love all my children equally, they are all my babies.

[@ssl9458]

All his family kicked him out. You guys don't think he is not telling the WHOLE STORY??? 🐂💩🐂💩

[@Love98fire]

After listening to your story it sounds like you are the problem not your parents and sisters. Move on with your life and admit to your wrongs.

[@Louni125]

Something is definitely missing from this story. Too many people doing him wrong when he claims he has done nothing. He also never list anything good he has done so sounds like he is hiding some facts

[@luevue5711]

Here is what I believe. Your parents did not have strong parenting skills at that time. My assumption is they were using old traditional parenting skills and did not know what to do with you when you did not do what you suppose to do as a teenager. You should have learned to be who you are now sooner, but the good thing you did and you make who you are now and I am happy for you. I know your parents love you, but they did not know what do back then. Go back to make up for the lost time and love yourself who you are. I raised 5 successfully children and it was not easy task at all so don’t blame your parents for the everything you have gone through. They are the two people who gave you life. I am sure now you know how to raise your own children and please be happy and go to see your parents soon

[@MsPangY]

Omg, I Understand What You Are Going Thru! If You Are The Chosen One & No One Loves You & Your Siblings & Family Thinks There Something Wrong With You & They Give You A Bad Name! I Feel You Deeply, But They Should Love You As The Only Son! I Don't Understand Why They Would Be So Cruel To You, They Have A Problem! Why Did They Kicked You Out, They Need To Go To The Mental Hospital!! My Brother Does Drugs, Brings Run Away Girls and His 20 Friends To My Home While Tempoary Living With Me & That's A Brother To Call The Police But I Didn't & SERIOUSLY, You Wanted To Use Your Dad's Car & You Were Call By The Police From Your Mom & Sisters! WOW, Already Explain A Lot, That's Not As Big As Mine Problems ... Was Afraid They Would Rape My Daughter & At The Time She Was 4 Yrs Old While Babysitting & He Kept Inviting His Friends!! How I Know Your Not The Problem Is My Brother Ask To Use My Car & I Totally Said Yes Even Tho That Was My Only Car Until He Took Things Out Of My Car, Like My Deck & My Seat Was Destroy, Can't Even Move The Chair No More! My Car Is Ruined ... One Day You Began To Be Great, They Won't Be Happy Older! They Will Look For You ... Don't Worry, They Will .... Be Strong!! God Is With You Always!! Someday, You Be Great & They Will Fail At How They Treat You! You Betcha, I Know ... Your Sister's & Mom Has A Stupid Problem & Your Dad Is Too Weak To Love You!! Move On & Leave Them Alone, They Must Have A Grudge Against You Back In The Past Life! Do Good & Be Good So One Day They Come After You, Tell Them NO, No Way!! Don't Need People Like That, They So TOXIC!!! Thought Hmong People Love More BOYS! The Sister's & Parent's Is Odd ... I Haven't Done Nothing Wrong With My Family But They Don't Want To Help Me Too!! Don't Be Mad At Yourself, Just Ignore Them & Focus On You! Some People Are Too Into Themselves & Don't Know That Your Their ONLY Brother! I Know Some People Don't Believe You But I Do ... But, Sometimes; I've Seen Some People Whose Been Thru Worst & They Still Be Loved ... Your Not The Problem! They Are ... Love You!!

[@yangthao5242]

lol...Love your passion and compassion! Young kids and the innocence are never at real grave fault. It's those that hold responsibility over them that takes the greater fault. The young really needs to be understood and be guided with care.

[@kaher9238]

If a lot of people don’t like you, most likely something is wrong with you. I think you’re not telling the truth. Need to hear it from your family. Zoo li Koj tsi tshua tsim txiaj.

[@Springadel7775]

Ok if we read between the lines in your story you’re leaving out information as to why you were casted out. It seems all you went through taught you a tough life lesson so that’s the important thing.

[@kazuamoua]

So sad 😢….know that you are not the only one who feels this way. I’ve too, been tortured by my family too. I have 10 siblings and I’m the youngest. My dad had his favorites in our family and I wasn’t one of them. I had to remove myself from the toxic family energy to rebuild myself back up too. Don’t get bitter, get better. Forgive and move on. Love but don’t allow people to dull your shine.

[@Louni125]

How can he be homeless living in a car but have no car to drive to see his gf at the hospital.

[@Lh_76]

He prob lived out of his car- he prob went to the hospital bc it provided a warm n safe environment for him to crash at with a bathroom and tv etc

[@loverslanehawj6244]

👉My comment got deleted it wasn’t anything out of “community guidelines”….not only from this thread but from another thread too and I’ve never used profanity language not hate comments.

[@Secretsinspiringstories]

Thank you for letting me know. On this channel, I do filter the inappropriate words out. Not sure what happened but I do apologized. It might've got deleted an error. Sometimes it happened.

[@ckmadventures7121]

Whomever sent this story did a horrible job making up this story. Lol what mother would prefer their daughter to date someone in jail over someone who isn't in jail? Lol you state you lived in your car when your girlfriend left you, but when she came back and fell ill, you all of a sudden have no car and had to ride your bike to see at the hospital everyday. Then you all of a sudden have a car again. If this story is true, you're definitely not telling the truth and added unrealistic scenarios. Lol if your parents had you as their only son, your parents would love you so much. They would never treat you like this unless you screwed up really bad.

[@BossPolly]

Maybe you’re not their biological son

[@pyang815]

That exactly what I thought too he either their adopted son or the dad love child from another woman that why the mom and sisters don't love him. Cause for us Hmong mom a son is really important and to only have one son no matter how bad ours son is we will still love and be by their side but his mom hate him so much. Or he might be half lie about the stuffs he telling us to make him look good only idk🤷‍♀️

[@xwmkabyang354]

wow bad sisters and parents, puas muaj neeg yuav ua pojniam na phem li no na. kav liam od phem li no ntshe tsis muaj neeg kam yuav lau

[@you_r_my-world2288]

You have a very messed up family. They may share blood with you but they’re not in spirit, heart, and soul. But don’t be sad. No human can love you. If you depend on someone to love you you will always be sad. If you turn to god he will take care of you and give you peace.

[@Y0ungbl00d69]

I think this guy is a gangster from what i gather.