Ib lub tsev tsuas muaj ib tug niam tsev xwb 05/02/24

[@MaivangHer-r2v]

I have similar issues, but you know what, do what you can. God will bless you for your family and your own good. I know that is not fair or right, but still give your best shot. Forget about the jealousy, don't give a hope either. That is why thay alway said doing good go around come around.

[@suabnaglor9055]

Niam tais ci nplas aws hais txog nyab thiab niam pog xyov li os cov zoo ces nej yeej zoo2 nej cov phem ces phem2 txaus nkaus li os mloog ces mob2 hlwb li.

[@MaivangHer-r2v]

They call it favoritism

[@meelor7412]

24:23 sister i know what you been thru. Me and my husband been thru the same thing like you. My mother in law is our step mom so she doesn't love our kids but she lives with us and my husband younger brother. When she pass away she left nothing for us. So you and i are in the same boat..we know who got it all, but like they said yus tsi pom tes ces hais tsi tau xwb os. It's ok like they said yus khwv thiaj li yog yus li os me sister aws txhob tu siab os.

[@khashinglor3177]

1st? Mil should know her place. Her house=her rules. Your house=your rules. Dont like- live by herself. 2? Grand parents should love all their grandkids equally. Shame on them for not doing that. There's enough love 2b shared. 3? Last person the old people lives with-- gets all the $/blessing. Too bad 4 the ones who didn't want the old people to live with them.

[@mouavang3371]

Thanks for sharing your story sis. If what you said is true, that's not right. You need to have a good talk to your husband and help you to make your mother in-law to understand how you feel.

[@nancyyang5175]

Yes, thank you

[@nragxyoojchannel7265]

Nyias nyob nyias xwb os

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

Life is unfair. Just move on and don’t do like that to your kids

[@sabrinavang2199]

Some grma gave to daughter!!!

[@ibhnub3965]

I’m seeing a common thread here, why are there so many MILs like this story? Throughout history I bet there’s only 1% MILs who only ever truly love their DILs. They would rather take all their gold, silver, personal belongings with them to the grave then see it benefit the hands of their DILs. Not even a good word or praise would be wasted. Funny how most of the time these are the DILs they end up living with. This is the sad reality in life that I, unfortunately, have also experienced.

[@ItsYou2]

Cov niam pog li kos cev cia nws nrog tu nyab pem nyob xwb. Tsi tag tag cia los nrog yus nyob li os.

[@manglisayang2310]

This mother in law is like mine... Sisrer, we are in the same boat...I can feel your frustration and your pains. Ua cas cov niam pog no es zoo ib yam nkaus li os law aw.

[@lotusvert7024]

Peb cov hmoob yuav tsum tseg txoj kev pheej rog tub nyab nyob, yus nyob yus lawm mam tuaj xyuas yus xwb thiaj sib hlub. Ib feem pog ywg ces yeej siab tsis ncaj li no nrog tub nyab nyob tabsis muab nyiaj rau ntxhais vauv tag yeej ua tsis ntxim hlub kiag li no ntag. Ua neeg no ces niam pog zoo tau nyab siab phem, nyab zoo tau niam pog siab phem. Yeej xaiv tsis tau li os.

[@chuaxiong9179]

Ntawm me nyuam mas yog tus twg ncawg niam pog dua mas nws yeej hlub tus me nyuam ntawd dua raws li kuv xav. Yog tus me nyuam ua niam pog nrog nyob tab si tsis tshua ncawg niam pog ces zoo li nws tsis tshua ncawg ces zoo li nws tsis tshua hlub.

[@ax5717]

Kuv lub neej kiag los ma. Cas yus twb laus laus la los tseem yuav tau tiam niam pog thiab nws cov misnyuam. Nkees nquag los yuav tau ua noj cas dhuav siab ua luaj li os. Lawv nrog yus nyob los yus yeej yog tus lub noob xwb.

[@kham488]

Ca koj tseem tau ib tug niam pog zoo li peb tu thiab os cov niag tsov tom Lau zoo li ko ma zoo qov xa kiag mu nyob tsev lauv ko paub tab kiag xwb os

[@pahouaxiong6142]

Tus viv ncaus, txhob tus siab, koj tsuas yog tus nyab nkawv nrog nyob tau xwb? Koj tsis yog tus nkawv nyiam, nkawv thiaj tsis hlub koj cov menyuam.

[@lovekimchi1]

Sim neej no tau ib tus niam pog zoo li no mas yus ua lub neej nyuab siab dhuav siab tshaj plaws. Twb nrog yus nyob los mus muab yus cem rau qab roob qab hav...tabsis nws ho tsis haum leej twg kiag, nyob tsis taus nrog ib tus tug, cem cem yus rau qab roob qab ha tabsis ho nrog taus yus nyob. Tus niam pog zoo li no kuv yeej tu siab nrho, nyob lo kuv tsis care, tuag lo kua muag tsis poob lawm.

[@wendyher6594]

Yeej muaj tej co niampog txivyawg los nkhaus kawg li thiab. Cov nyab los yeej phem ib yam nkaus li ntawd thiab. Niampog thiab nyab los yuavtsum txawj sib yoog thiaj li nyob taug uake hauv tib lub tsev xwb. Txhob xyaum ua tsov thiab dais sib tus hlo li nawb. Ib lees yuavtsum txawj zamtxim sib pab sib txhawb sib hlub tiag tiag thiaj li yog ib tsevneeg. Cov nyab los txhob pheej mus noj mus haus tom neejtsa….neejtsa tsua yog tsa nej mus ua neej rau luag lawm. Nej yuavtsum tau hlub niampog txivyawg ib yam li nej hlub nej niamtais yawmtxiv thiab. Coj ncaj rau ob tos thiaj li tsis muaj kev xamkhib nawb. Hlub kom ncajncees…txhob tias hlub tus tim tus tom kiag li nawb. Yog nej txhua tus pheej xaiv ntsejmuag hlub tus nej nyiam xwb ces nej yog neeg ruam nkaus xwb os.

[@yingxiong1725]

Kuv tus niam pog los yeej zoo li ko thiab

[@nalaher3022]

Should have put them in a retirement home the moment you knew they didn't respect or love your family.

[@angelxtasy]

This is why when im old, im staying by myself in my own home. All the kids can move out and do their own style. Lol. Im not going to complain. When im too old and cant move, ill go to retirement home and ill die there. Im fine with that.

[@USAproud9630]

Sister, I like your stories, but just a suggestion. Either tell the full story or have a lecture. There's a tendency to tell the story and lecture about the rules of life or vice versa. This is sometimes confusing where you are in the story

[@psllauj5506]

Yog kawg!

[@colleenchan9872]

Hlub sawv daws ib yam li xwb mas! Cov laus no mas siab phem dhau qhov zoo tshaj mas tau cov nyab li neb tus niam ntxawm ntxawg los qhuab qhia xwb os! Neb hluas nkawv tabsis nkawv hlub lawv tshaj lawm! Sim neej no mas yus tsis yog tus nyab lawv nyjam ces txhob cia siab lawv hlub koj but sib koj nkaus xwb!

[@wendyher6594]

Xav tias cov uas ua niampog txivyawg…yog nkawv tseem ua taug noj taug haus ces nkawv mam ua rau nkawv noj nkaus xwb. Cov hluas uas nyiam huv nyiam zoo ces cov hluas mam ua rau cov hluas noj li ntawd thiaj tsis muaj teebmeem rau obtos. Tiamsis qhov tseeb tiag ob peb tus niamtsev yeej nyob tsis tau uake vim nyiag nyiam ua nyiag qhov xwb…ces yuav muaj teebmeem xwb nawb. Cia niampog txivyawg mus nyob nkawv ib lub tsev …nkawv nyiam li cas ces nkawv ua nkawv noj nkawv haus xwb. Tiamsis yog niampog txivyawg laus laus ua tsis taug noj taug haus lawm ces nkawv yuavtsum nyob twjywv hauv tubnyab lub tsev es tubnyab ua tau li cas ces noj li ntawd xwb. Tubnyab los yuavtsum tau ua lub siab loj siab ntev rau cov laus thiab thiaj li tsis muaj teebmeem rau ob tos nawb. Txhob hais tawm rau cov laus hnov tsam cov laus tu tu siab rau nej cov ua tubnyab nawb mog. Cov laus twb tu tu siab tias cov laus twb tsis muaj pistsawg xyoos nrog nej cov uas tubnyab nyob ntev lawm. Nej yuavtsum tau hlub cov laus vim cov laus twb tsis paub dabtsis lawm. Txhob qias qias cov laus nrog nej noj koom tsum…. Thaum noj tag lawm nej yuavtsum ua tib zoo xav ua ntej tag mam hais rau cov laus xub nej thiaj tsis muaj teebmeem. Txawj hais txawj tej ces sawvdaws thiaj nyob tau uake nawb. Cov tubnyab txhua tus….nej yuavtsum nco ntsoov tias yog luag tsis muaj tub rau nej yuav ces nej yeej tsis tau txiv yuav nej nawb. Nej yuavtsum ua lub siab ntev tiag tiag nej thiaj tau zoo thaum kawg xwb. Hnub tws nej ua ib qho phem rau cov laus xwb ces cov laus lub kuamuag poob rau nej ces nej lub neej yuav hajyam muaj teebmeem thaum kawg xwb nawb. Ceevfaj…txhob lam tau lam hais tsis zoo rau cov laus vim cov laus cov kuamuag muaj taug tshuaj uas yog ciaj thiab tuag nawb. Cov laus tsis foom nej los muaj lub ntuj pom txhua yam uas nej ua rau cov laus nawb. Ntuj yog tus yuav txiavtxim seb leejtws yog tus ua siab cov laus nawb. Kev npam kev khaum yeej muaj tiag. Lub ntuj yog tus pauj tau kua yaub ntsuab rau tus uas ua phem nkaus xwb nawb.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Niam huab tais tsuas muaj tib tug rau ib lub vaj loog. Niam tsev los tib yam tsis hais laus los hluas. Luag thiaj tias yog tus niam tsev ntawm lub cuab yig ntawd. Yog koj yog tus lawv cia los nrog lawv nyob, koj tsis muaj cai, txawm tias koj no twb yuav rho nyiaj lis them ib txhia nqi. Zoo tib yam li koj xauj qhov lawv qhov chaw nyob. Txawm koj yuav yog niam yog txiv los yog tub yog nyab ntxhais vauv. Koj tsis muaj cai vim kij yog tus lawv cia los nyob tsis yog cia los ua tswv.

[@samsunglcc3084]

kv ces zoo li zaj no ntag xav tias yus los them lawv nqi xwb no thiaj ua tau ib siab os..

[@KayVang-kp4us]

Ib co laus yeej coj qias li Ko. It’s better that way bc you don’t owe them anything at the end of their life.

[@leejmuam1]

Tus niam tsev, why are you asking a question so obvious ?😂. No money is lie. They lived with you, you know how much they received in SSI so just do the math. My in-law lived with me for 5+ years, if one day when my FIL time comes and say he has no money. I know, it's a lie. The time he lived with us, I know he was able to save 60% of his monthly income, so the least he has saved is 25-30k.

[@hmooblubneejpok]

Kv g hais 1 2 3 li kv tias niam pog xwb kv los yg ib tug niam pog laus222 lm thiab

[@iaxiong5529]

Same boat omg

[@leejmuam1]

Cas leejtwg ho hais kuv zaj story lawm ne😂😂😂. Was my situation, too. They lived with me but only care and love others. Don't even know my children's name.

[@Marylulee]

Sister, life’s not FAIR!!! Do what you can and move on with your life. Focus on what’s important to you. Forget about the rest.

[@yeelays178]

Cov neeg coj li no mas nrog yus nyob ces mus cem yus rau tus tos nrog tus tos nyob ces mus cem tus nra rau tus ti yog ua tau mas sawv daws xws li cov nyab thiab cov ntxhais naj pom nws tuaj nkawg xaiv ces txhob tsa2 pog laus cai Kuv mas tej niam tij niam ntxawm tseem nrog niam pog ib nqa ib nqa ho thiab muab nws tej faib rau suav thaum kawg ces ho cia tus nrog faus xwb mas yeej tsis ncaj ncees li

[@leejmuam1]

Yog kawg. To all the nyabs, don't think your sil is evil. MIL will say the same thing about you, too.

[@billyxiong9175]

Nancy aws qhov koj hais ko yeej muaj tseeb tiag2 nawb raws li kuv pom mas zoo li kuv niam lawv mas lawv hlub lawv cov ntxhais tej me nyuam dua hlub tej tub tej me nyuam tiag tos tus niam tsev hais li los kuv yeej pom li thiab tiag2 os kuv support nws lub idea lau

[@chongvang2137]

Kuv Los yeej zoo nkaus li tus mi niam tsev ko thiab os

[@pajthao4813]

Yus laus lawm ces yus tas nqi qhov ua tus niam tsev lawm os yog yus tseem yuav ua niam tsev ces yus ob tug laus yus nyob yus xwb os nrog tubnyab nyob ib tsev ces yus yuav tsum nyob li tus menyuam yau lawm xwb mog cov me niam tais aw!!

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Tsis tag nqi tiam sis kus kes phem ces ntxim ntxub tsis xav nyob ua ke. Ua neeg ces laus hluas nyia muaj nyias nqi tseem ceeb. Tsuav yog paub tus ciaj ciam tias yus nyob leej twg tsev ces coj kom ntxim nyiam ntxim hlub es luav tus tswv tsev thiaj tsis ntxub tsis dhuav.

[@solomoua5520]

Be a grdma love everyone the same and don’t have preferable 🙏

[@kaonisvue3879]

Tsis hlub cov lau ces muaj ib hnub yuav txog yus hnub….hais cuag khav thaum cov lau tseem nrog kuv Nyob nqi vaj nqi tsev kuv tsis pub cov lau them li as…..

[@xengmoua2465]

Muab nqaij las ntsev daws2 nws tsi zoo vim yog laus lawm

[@missSHIELLA]

These MIL need to know their place that they are not the damn niam tsev and need to stop controlling and acting like they own the house if they don't own house. And esp food too if they aren't buying they don't need to be using all the damn food.

[@chaomoua753]

Cov niam pog no yeej zoo li os Kuv tu lo zoo tub yam li thiab koj tus thiab nrog yus yau Nyob ces cem rau hlob tias phem npaum ib npaum no ho mus nrog tus hlob Nyob ces ho mus cem kiag tias phem npaum ib npaum no rau tus to thiab lau tsis paub hais li lawm lau

[@indiaxiong1645]

N.pog tsis nyiam yus ces yeej ua li ntawv os. Kuv tus los tseem muab saw kub xa mus rau peb tus muam tim thaib teb tib sim thiab os.

[@KayVang-kp4us]

Very sad