Ib Sim Niam Txiv Tsis Paub Khib Koj. 7/20/23

[@Jsh-cf6ux]

My mother once told us the story of her older sister, how she too was forced marriage back in laos. Same situation like this story. Her husband hates her, cheat on her and out with friends all day all nights. But sadly my aunt story didn't have a happy ending cause when he comes to realized that he loves her, she took her last breath while giving birth to their first child.

[@thovkuvhlubkoj12]

So sad 😢

[@gaohmoob6816]

What a sad and frustrating life. I hope he truly loves you now because you already have endured your life till this day, so might as well stay if he really is in love with you. Otherwise, I would pack and leave. Better to live alone than to have someone cheat right in front of your eyes like that.

[@ILJA-c2q]

It’s okay that the parents are happy but it’s okay that our children are miserable 😂

[@pkcyang2910]

We live in America. Why you let your parents dictate who you should love? This is not 1970. What a sad life. Educated but no common sense. Yes your husband may love you now but remember you two were never happy from the beginning. Now that he's older, he's probably just tired of sleeping around. Remember he had his fun while you live in misery. I wouldn't tolerate this life if I were you.

[@vangasaurus2702]

Different times, different mindset. Lots of Hmong people who landed here in this country mid 80s-early 90s still carried the old mindset, so they were mentally chained and imprisoned in this type of situation. Now a days, this shit wouldn’t fly.

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

YEP...I agree with you, vangasaurus. Different time, different mindset.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Now a days you do not need permission when you’re an adult. Don’t live in misery. Live once, live the life you want. Please don’t follow these old thinking couples. You didn’t leave when his second wife came home? Geez how long does it take to live in misery? Women wake up!

[@jackieyunan4899]

Khub niam txiv twg es sib vim teb laus ces hmoov tag lawm nawb lawv aw...

[@lilyv.628]

It's not love. He's done f***ing around ... for now.

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

Agree 😂

[@kingofall9262]

Wish my wife let me eff around too lol

[@pkcyang2910]

Agreed

[@lilyv.628]

@@kingofall9262 😆

[@Gurlhmong]

Agreed! The loser husband got tired of screwing around.

[@pajtawgtshiab1804]

Thaum kawg kuj zoo kawg...txhob tu siab nawb mog vim koj txoj hmoov yeej zoo kawg lawm

[@palee4760]

This is a great ending im glade you guys found love

[@brendayangvang9756]

What a lovely love ending story

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Tu siab tiag. Tom qab sib hlub lawm los ntshe tseem tu siab qees.

[@MSMAIYANG]

My mom's relatives always ask why my mom never allowed them to talk to her daughters. My mom told them if the children met on their own and like each other then that can't be helped but I won't allow my relatives because we are too close and if there's no love then I don't want to muaj kev tu siab in the long run. I rather have them marry strangers so I don't have to deal with that later. When we love each other as relatives, let's keep it that way. As westernized kids, we told my mom that's so gross! 😆

[@StevenHer-sz1jb]

May is good at making up stories😂😂

[@yerlor8328]

Zoo kawg li lawm os nej kav tsij sib sib hlub nawb txawm li cas los twb nyob los laus li no lawm ces ua siab ntev tuav lub neej kom yus tej me nyuam muaj niam muaj txiv xwb os

[@chengvue4510]

Thaum hlub2 ce yog thaum ib tug yuav tuag tso ib tug tseg thiaj rov los sib hlub ua chaw tshua

[@TamHoang-np5jr]

Yog thiab os😂

[@bellalauj90]

Love this story.. listen so many times now..

[@nkaujiabthiabyeejpheejchan7335]

Txaus tu siab heev kv tseem xav xav mloog os

[@kabnpaujmuaschannel8700]

Txoj kev hlub zoo li no yog ib txoj kev hlub zoo heev

[@ThisenhVang-o8b]

Thov kom neb sib hlub mug tag tiam og

[@seelor-logansgrandpa2938]

tus ntxhai yog Nej tsis kam yuav cas tsis txhob yuav xwb yeej tsis muaj leeg twg yuav yuam tau yus li so yog yus twb yuav mas yus txhob pheej khu xim tus qub luas nraug yus tus thiaj tsis ntxub yus thiab mus tham luas nkauj lub neej thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem nawb

[@myprecious6751]

Sister, you need to leave him and divorce him once and for all. He doesn't love you. He just realized that your going to move on without him. You can live without him. Financially your better off without him. He's being controlling, possessive, holding you by forced and controlling you and as a prisoner.

[@lubsiabzooyang2806]

Koj yog neeg siab zoo zoo tshaj plaws lawm os. Thov tswv ntuj foom koob hmoov zoo rau koj os tus neeg zoo.

[@Loves_GodSR]

I'm glad you both finally learned to love one another at the end. I'm sorry you had to go through all that pain at the beginning of your forced marriage.

[@chailee6256]

That’s why we call true love😂😂😂😂.

[@teemthoj8022]

Lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj li os...

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

I guess it's better late than never that your hubby starts to love you! Hopefully this love last til death do your part...

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister tsis txhob khuv xim tus tag los yog koj yuav nws ces koj twb mag ua poj nrauj lawm os, happy ending 👏👏

[@kayang1123]

Well, it's a happy ending. I am glad everything worked out.

[@myprecious6751]

It's not a happy ending because she's not content. She's there because now he's forcing her and controlling her every move. He's manipulating her and keeping her prisoner.

[@kayang1123]

@myprecious6751 she chose to stay atm. I'm assuming she's satisfied.

[@phuablubneejluagntxi1318]

Kav liam ma txhob tus siab heev thiab neb los sib hlub rau thaum laus nws tig los ua ib tug niag xu siab ntsuav rau kj lawm ma 😂

[@pahouayang1063]

Txhob tu siab. Tus yus hlub tej zaum tsis hlub yus os.

[@yangmeethao2327]

Pog aws koj lam dag tiag ,2 li os yog koj hlub nws tiag tiag koj yeej mus cuag tau nws thiab ntsuav ntsuag kom kawg, kawg li. Tab sis vim koj lis nrog niag thaub ntawv nyob ntev 2 lawm es koj twb mag koj tus txiv tsuav ntsuag heev lawm es koj thiaj li ua yam txoj hlua pheej tsi txawj tu xwb na..lov...😊😅😂

[@Gurlhmong]

What a dumb life. Both your parents are terrible for ing two people to married with no love. Your husband is a jerk for cheating nonstop and finally when he saw that you’re leaving and graduated, now he wants you!? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@pajhuablaujchannel3731]

Dag xwb os 😂tsis sib hlub tab si ho muaj tau me nyuam thiab . Yog kv ces nrauj ntxov

[@yerlor8328]

Yog kawg yog koj ces koj yeej yog poj nrauj lawm tiag

[@pajhuablaujchannel3731]

@@yerlor8328 ham g mas twb tsis sib hlub nyob ua ab g nawb .kv xav nyob lub neej sib hlub xwb as

[@sayyang767]

Most peoples always said lucky. Yes you’re that one good for you!

[@maryly09]

How is she the lucky one?

[@thaivang1265]

I love this story, almost like a fairytale story with a happy ending…..

[@davanhcha1365]

Hlub thaum laus thiaj kav yu os hlub thaus hluas xwb ces tsi paub xyov puas yuav kav laus li os

[@pangxiong2273]

Yog li cas nej thiaj cia niam thiab txiv khoo nej lub neej? Koj txhob maj ntseeg koj tus txiv. Yog koj taus ces zoo. Hnub twg koj tsi taus ces koj yuav paub tias nws yeej ib txwm tsi hlub koj. NWS YEEJ HLUB KOJ TSI TAG THIAB TSI KAWG. LUAG LUB MAVTAIS YUAV RHO LOS SIV IB HNUB TOM NTEJ.

[@hl6615]

Lady- you have wasted alot of your young life and he has wasted his life too. Just keep loving him since the spell is broken and he seems the true beauty of yours

[@myprecious6751]

It's not love. There isn't no spell. Hesholding her prisoner and manipulating her and controlling and forcing her to stay.

[@suelo617]

Nej cov ntxhais yog zoo li no ces mus txog mus nrog kiag txiv yawg pw seb yus niag niam pog ho xav li cas vim txiv yawg nyiam xwb tub twb tsis nyiam yus ne ua niam yau no xwb ntag hos

[@cealla999]

It took him so long to realize that he's actually in love with you. I like this story. It wasn't both of your fault. ❤

[@YliaLau]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@vathao3321]

Couples like this um there was chemistry at one point they just dont admit. Lol no chemistry no babies. Lol

[@yunothoj]

I wanna see this story made into a movie!

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Vim li cas koj ho tsis nrauj thaum nws yuav niam yau naw Lub sij hawm thaum nws yuav niam ces koj muaj cai nrauj thiab zoo sij hawm rau koj ntag es koj twb tsis hlub tsis nyiam no es cas tseem nyob ua niam Loj naw koj ces Lam hais xwb koj yeej nyiam nws kawg

[@hmongfunsize]

Parents are so selfish!!!!! So many love has been torn apart bc the old people want things their ways. I hope this generational curse dies with that generation.

[@GniaBXiong8386]

Peb ua niam ua txiv txhob coj tej cwj pwm ruam li no ntxiv lawm nawb.

[@douaxyooj3026]

Zai no mob siab kawg li

[@hmongremark2686]

Ib nkawm niam txiv nyob laus li neb twb tsis txawj sib hlub los ho txawj sib nqhis saum txaj chaw thiab muaj taus tub ki puv vaj tsev thiab.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Yom?

[@yerlor8328]

Muaj me nyuam xwb tsis tas yuav niaj hnub sib ua os nim hais cuag li naj nyob nyob ua nyuag teg xwb yuav muaj yeej muaj lawm naj

[@menavue9633]

The most important thing is…do u like him and love him when he confessed his feelings for you? If not, you could and should leave. If his confession changed ur heart to like and love him back, then stay and give him that chance again since you both are not divorce yet.

[@159nightangel]

These OG! This is the very reason ignorance hmong people have no land to called their own

[@noumoua_channel9852]

Neb yeej yg ntawv txij nkawm ne ce thaum lau thj mam sij2 hlub ma❤

[@yadaxiong8040]

Wow

[@yeevue6569]

Sister, you’re educated but not very smart at the same time. You should’ve gotten out of that relationship a long time ago. He took advantage of the whole situation. He hoes around until he decided that he was ready to make you his actual wife 🙄.

[@maithao2694]

Happy ending, sis❤❤

[@wisteria4550]

So glad your husband finally realize and build his love for you. You’re the lucky one. Some others that was not lucky and suffered through their whole lives.

[@xiongvang9584]

This just shows how slow men mind can be lol 20 years later

[@myprecious6751]

No his mind isn't slow. He just realized that she's better off without him and she's gonna move on now he wants to forced her as a prisoner. So he's manipulating and controlling and being an A-hole

[@ktsuyaj]

Sorry to hear about your marriage. Peb hmoob culture ces yeej zoo li no.

[@eveher7084]

Goodness, what an exhausting story!!! People noticed she's not happy! What a freaking life!! Uncaring,no love turned into a controlled insecure freak!!

[@Hmooblubneej-y7j]

Tsis yog li sawv daws xav, tias txiv tuaj hais es lom lom ze. Pojruam, leej twg qhia rau koj tias sawv daws lom lom zem nas? Kev sib yuam ua txij nkawm koj pom tias sawv daws lom lom zem? Hais txog koj lub neej xwb, txhob ua cuag li koj paub txog sawv daws nawb. Koj tus kheej koj twb tsis paub, koj tsis txog sawv daws ib qho li.

[@mabyugyajteb7133]

Nws yuav noj koj zoj ne .. zoo li koj cas zoo siab ...ntuj aw twb g muag tus kam tham koj tus txiv nws thiaj ua zoo rzu koj xwb

[@ntxawmntxuajpongyangchanne110]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@WeiJiang-u5u]

😅

[@Fancycnan09]

🤦🏻‍♀️ oh yo what a story!

[@jasthao9330]

Same boat here

[@pajthao4813]

Ntuj aw!! Ntshe nws laus zog tag lawm nws paub tias nws mus tsis taus qhov twg lawm mam los ua zoo rau koj tsam nws tsis tau kev nyob xwb os kev hlub tsis ncajncees os txhob maj zoo siab

[@tdag04]

right? he's at his wits end, planning for when he's old now. No one wants him anymore. I'm all grossed out with his cheating. Not sure if this a happy ending. sounds like a different kind of h3ll.

[@leefamily6061]

Hmong people need to stop practicing these arranged or forced marriage. I hope this will not continue. He only "loves" you now because he's old and knows that he will need someone to take care of him and he has no one else but you. So unfair to you, he's just using you

[@shawnyang3400]

So Funny, you two are first cousins to marry it kind of strange on these days.

[@Lee-zw9rn]

Another neej noj quav nyuj xwb!

[@maipha8560]

Oyo, sounds like hell on earth. Leave now and find your happiness. Life is too short to be with someone you don't love especially now that he's possessive. You're just a shiny object foelr him to play with for now.

[@yilengyang3325]

Tsuav nws rov los ces lam nyob os mog vim koj mus los tib cov niag txiv ntiav laus kaus koj nyiaj lawm thisb xwb os mog kav tsij nyob yog nws tig los ua zoo lawm cov niag txiv ntiav laus ib ziag Nov tseem phem tshaj koj niag txiv kov laem os

[@paokee1495]

I don't buy it...story is fake af.

[@hnubxeemvaj-ul4ex]

发布会更容易雨uu😓

[@suexiong537]

Tsis hlub tsis hlub tabsis pheej muaj minyuam tas zog li...

[@nyc594]

May when I listen to your story telling i wish you would just speak normally and not stretch out your words like you are singing. When you do your sponsors you talk normal and it sounds much better and flows better.

[@maryly09]

Idk if i should be happy for u that yay, after all his young yrs of cheating on u and now he's finally fell in love wit you and gonna stick wit u for good? Or if i should feel sad for u that after he had all his fun he will settle wit u bc he knew he wouldn't be able to find anyone better and now that he's chosen (settle for) you, that you're really gonna be stuck forever and u only got the leftover of him in his old age.

[@maryly09]

Were your parents happy when your husband cheated on u multiple times and married another woman? What did your parents say to u? Were they ever regretful that they put u in that misery?

[@saykaomee]

This is a frustrating story. You're in America, force marriage is no longer an option. You can't be that weak. We love our parents but you need to put your foot down in this type of situation even if you have to threaten them with law enforcement.

[@yunothoj]

Obviously it's easier said than done like many things in life.

[@hmoobmama]

This story is obviously 25+ years ago.

[@chuvang5487]

Hmoob os hmoob aw ! koj ruam tshaj qhov ruam lawm, tiam tshiab no koj tsis txaus siab txhon pub leej twg yuam tau koj ? cov laus kuv tsis k leej twg yuav zoo siab thiab tu siab tsis yog lawv lub neej, kuv lub neej yuav tsu cia kuv xaiv tus neeg kuv nyiam kuv txaus siab hlub, yog niam txiv tsis ua li kuv xav ces niam txiv txhob tu siab rau kuv.

[@StevenHer-sz1jb]

Nyob teb chaw vam meej tseem ruam heev hlwb tseem nyob rau xyoo 75. Cov OG ruam los cov hluas tseem ruam tshaj lawm thiab😅😅😅 Don't love each other, why have kids? Why not take birth control? I think koj ruam heev or May just make all her stories😅😂

[@harmonyolivia8494]

Um in this story...its unfair to you but glad that he have a change of heart... but he need s to change for the better and not be overly jealous and not let you have your space.... hes kinda over doing it and it's gonna suffocate you and you are gonna be more miserable!!!!!

[@Pajtshiab74]

It annoys me this lady’s words “ yus yog pojniam yus ua tsis tau.. lawv yog txiv neej lawv muaj cai ua”

[@ItsYou2]

Twb muaj niam yau es ua ca koj tsi ua kom dim. I dont know why y'all keep saying Nruaj tsi liab. Just freaking move out!!! Niag mu nyob niag ces tas lawm xwb SMH.

[@drive8892]

Ob niag ruam ib yam haha!

[@TamHoang-np5jr]

Cas koj xav li kuv thiab😂😂😂

[@myprecious6751]

Why is it always the burden is put on the girls shoulder? This is disgusting. Freaking 1st cousin forced to marry. Screw them and divorce him.

[@chaivue4754]

Is this an old story just re-told? I swear.. I listened to this a while back already.

[@yilengyang3325]

This one is different from the other one

[@maimoua1371]

No new couples .still 1000 of stories similar un talk yet 😅

[@user-hv5xm6tq1d]

Qhov ntawv nw lam us xb kom nw tau n tau tu xb o

[@cheexiong1634]

How sad… Those parents are just horrible

[@zouavue7684]

Pua sov siab lawm?

[@michaelf2700]

Sister, I understand ur filial piety towards ur parents & his parents, but why in the world would u subject yourself to a life of unhappiness & misery? Life is too short.

[@maiyang9072]

😮😅😮😮😅😅😅😅😅😢 49:54 😢😮😮

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

You Waste. Your time for the two parents, peb yug peb tej me nyuam los txhob muaj quab yuam zoo li no li no ces peb yug me nyuam los tsim txom xwb, tej OG thauv mas Txim txhub tiag, mloog lawv lus cas yus wast your time your life, kuj zoo vim koj twb tsis khib nws thiab os kam Liam mas , Tej zaum thaum koj tseem hluas es koj tsis paub makeup Tsis ua zoo nkauj vim koj pheej Tsis hlub nws thiab mas koj tsis hlub nws koj nco nco koj Tus luag nraug thiab ces neb sib phim xwb mas tshuav hnub no nws los hlub koj lawm xwb mas, ho sib sib hlub Mus kom kawg kiag neb txoj sias ov tabsi tu siab vim nws mus pw Mus phov sias rau Lwm Tus Ntau lawm tshe koj tau tshawg lawm lau 😂😂😂😂😂.

[@xaiher9236]

cov niag ntsej muag lau ruam ko ma ntxim ntxub tiag2 ?

[@paigeyang2833]

Lady, he is getting too old and can’t find someone to his liking so he is settling for you… don’t be stupid.

[@leek-te5dx]

What a waste of life Sister. Ndruab by far.

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Wow! Your parents are so selfish to subject both of you to a life of misery this lifetime. Yug los xiam tiam tiag tiag.

[@Karena312]

You both were so miserable all these time.

[@cindyxiong7606]

This seems like a fake story.

[@youwatchme3631]

Txomnyem thaum hluas tauzoo thaum lau thiaj kav ntev

[@janessathao9108]

This story is nothing but excuse. Nobody can force you to married no one here in America. There’s always the law. SMH 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@daozonglee1017]

The sons should never agree if they don’t love the girls. Why waste her life if you don’t love her. So fucking selfish.