You two should be proud of your European heritage. It's who you are and everyone else sees you as White whether you want it or not. You can pretend to be an individual. But you came from a people with a history. We are your family. In the future, as we increasingly are mistreated as a White minority, your identity will matter a lot to you. But I guess I'll have to wait until you have that experience. Until you realize you need not be on "team futurism," you need to be on Team White.