If She NEVER Calls Or Texts You First, Just Do This | Stoicism - Stoic Legend

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Please leave your thoughts on these, thank you! 🎯 Key Moments: If She Never Calls Or Texts You First, Just Do This 00:00 - DON'T SKIP 00:58 - Step Back and Evaluate 04:41 - Assess Your Expectations 08:50 - Don’t Take It Personally 12:42 - Match Her Energy 16:50 - Focus on Your Own Growth 21:03 - Communicate Openly and Honestly 25:25 - Create an Abundance Mindset 29:34 - Set Boundaries Without Ultimatums 33:51 - Let Go of the Outcome 37:23 - Be Willing to Walk Away 41:40 - CONCLUSION

[@GeorgiaColourne]

No one is ever "too busy," if they're interested, they'll make time!

[@JOHN-ei2tn]

Indeed ‼️ 🙋🏽‍♂️💜

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"You're absolutely right-when someone truly cares, they prioritize and make time. It’s a valuable reminder for all of us to focus on those who show genuine interest and effort. Thank you for sharing this insight! What part of the video resonated with you the most?

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[@JOHN-ei2tn]

@@StoicLegend_Official I Will do so . Kind Friend Your video was absolutely perfect. Thank you 🙏🏽

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[@StoicLessonsToday]

Truly aligns with the spirit of Stoicism: instead of expecting others to act, focus on controlling your own emotions and actions. True strength lies in how we respond, not in what we receive. A powerful and thought-provoking lesson

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Thank you for your time and kind words! 🙏 Let’s keep spreading positivity together! 🌈

[@LaylaJaques]

Most important thing is to make sure the relationship is super balanced and both sides contribute and love equally. Have had too many 1-sided relationships, where it felt like the guy was leading the entire relationship, while the girl was just living passively.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

You're absolutely right-balance is key in a healthy relationship. Both partners should actively contribute and bring love and effort to the table. It’s disheartening when one person feels like they’re carrying the weight of the relationship alone. Your experiences highlight an important lesson for all of us: mutual effort and shared responsibility create the foundation for something truly meaningful. Thank you for sharing this insight!

[@EvieMorwood]

Protect your peace and honor your principles.

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[@KateConingham]

My peace is my power.

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[@GroveRundalla]

You hit it right on the head bro! This is exactly what’s happening to me. I have a lot of self worth to let this happen to me. I’m moving on, and I’m happier now. Thank you for the advice. 👍

[@HomeStead-ph3zp]

Same ritechea bro

[@AngelinaCustance]

the most important video I've seen for how to maintain a long term relationship with a woman.

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[@howtoimpresagirl]

sometimes less effort creates more attraction.

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[@BiancaSouter]

This is facts. When you walk, they chase. Worst case scenario, respect is gained. Great video.

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[@BraydenBurne]

Bro, I love you. I always thought why do women leave me even at first they liked me. Now after watching your videos, I realize that I completely tell them who I am and the mystery would be gone. Thanks a lot.

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Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your thoughts! I'm really glad the video helped you gain clarity about this. Keeping a bit of mystery and letting things unfold naturally can definitely make a difference. Remember, growth and self-awareness are powerful tools. Keep applying what you've learned, and you're sure to see positive changes. I appreciate your support-feel free to share the video with others who might benefit from it too! 🙏

[@GalileoMarchesi]

Good analogy! I believe in matching energy.

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I think so too!

[@wolfman9642]

Friend, walk away and do not look back. Ever. You will get what you want, but you MUST care for yourself. No one can fill the void, only you can do that. Just stop caring about others more than yourself.

[@TheodoreR.Jamesa]

You are killing me with truth, mate. Had to learn this through the school of hard experiences.

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[@CooperPatteson]

this guy is 100% accurate we had a 5 hour convo last night over the phone im doing this starting today and i wanna see what happens

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Thank you so much for your support! It’s great to hear that you're applying these strategies. Stay patient and trust the process - the results can be really powerful. Let me know how it goes! Feel free to share your experience along the way, I’m excited to hear about your progress!

[@Charlesounger]

Absolutely spot on guys move on and you’ll find TLOYL , be patient and she will enter into life it’s a matter of time

[@Mind-z9c]

I choose balance over chasing

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[@HamishFysh]

This video - is PURE GOLD!

[@LukeCaronToro]

I opened up my schedule entirely for a week before realizing my time was not treated with the same value as the person I was keeping it open for. I don't love these videos because I believe every relationship is different, but it's important for me to see every possibility for my situation.

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Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective. It sounds like you've learned a valuable lesson about honoring your own time and energy, which is such an important part of self-respect and healthy relationships. I understand that every relationship is unique, and I appreciate you watching the video to explore different perspectives for your situation. Wishing you the best as you continue to navigate what’s right for you!

[@kevinmontague1845]

My peace is my power

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[@BaudoinJeandett]

I choose balance over chasing.

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[@AmbraSchiavone]

Love these videos. I don't even use them for the women element but to remind myself of the frame I have to keep working on building and maintaining

[@LauraClutterbuck]

I love it when my mind isn't obsessed about a woman it sucks when your mind goes to that or think about her

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[@AustinHindmarsh]

A women either likes you or she don't. 😖 I'm not ready for that true!

[@Mind-z9c]

My peace is my power. I don't take other people behavior personally

[@TheStoicBeacon-TGG]

This video made Marcus Aurelius' teachings so relatable. Could you dive into his views on self-reflection and how we can implement this in contemporary self-improvement practices?

[@EvaTrain]

If she won’t submit, It’s her loss, and it’s her problem. There is no other way than your way. You will learn that acquiesceing will get you nothing, and you will feel ashamed. Don’t go there.

[@ChiquiaDrog]

Thank you for this video and for the knowledge and information and for your time and effort and for the heads up and for the truth

[@profhaserdw]

It is what it is. Move on.

[@BonacataRomano]

Definitely relatable, when I treat my ex well she cheated on me with another man. When I initiate break up she desperately wants me back

[@DeezyMilano]

I needed to hear this!!!! 🙏 🎉

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[@DeezyMilano]

@StoicLegend_Official all of it lol just needed this i really appreciate that I watch a lot of these videos it helps a lot

[@robertrabe350]

Thank you, Don't need step 2

[@IsaacMacadamm]

You are 100% spot on what your saying,im going through this right now.its funny when you show your masculine side,the woman says(i don't like you,you have changed)man says,yeah because you can't take piss out of me know more.😂women 😂

[@CameronLocwood]

I ignored this girl for almost two weeks. Partly I wanted to see if she texted back since I was the one to always give her the good mornings message. After 5 days of no initial texts from her, it was tough, but I had to accept that I wasn't her only Spiderman and that she had a spider-verse to chat with and go out on dates. So I forgot about her, and didn't text her back, life ALSO reminded that there were other sweets on the menu. I kind of blew that encounter, but that other brief encounter with that other girl was enough to release my mind from that other nonfunctioning bond. So after almost two weeks, she texted back on how was I doing, but I also kept in mind that I wasn't her only spartan and that she had an entire legion to chat and go out with. Fellas, literally I'm trying my hardest to have a monotone mood with her and show no interest, but I also have to be careful not to scare her off. I'm not just trying to become The Spiderman in her spiderverse. I plan to dismantle all that spiderverse and be her only Spiderman.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thanks for sharing your experience! It sounds like you've gained some valuable insights into balancing your own emotions and priorities in the process. Your approach of maintaining a calm and collected demeanor is a good one, but remember, it’s also about being authentic and true to yourself. Relationships thrive on genuine connection, not just strategy. The fact that she reached out shows there’s still some interest on her side, so keep that in mind as you navigate this. While dismantling the “spiderverse” sounds ambitious, it’s more important to focus on building a connection where she naturally values your presence above all. Sometimes, the most attractive thing is a man who’s focused on his own growth and happiness. Stay confident, but also stay grounded. You've got this! 💪

[@IsaacDooley]

If a woman doesn't like you now she'll never love you later if a woman doesn't want you there's nothing you can do to make her

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's true that genuine connection and mutual interest are essential for a healthy relationship. Instead of trying to force something that isn't there, focusing on self-growth and finding someone who truly values you is the best approach. What do you think about the idea of letting things flow naturally and working on your own happiness in the process?

[@sylvesterboyles8113]

I have taken back my power I have stopped texting her I feel better off she never calls or texts messages just a waste of time. But the way I feel that she is broning I just walked away from her thank god 🙏 I got away from her oh yes I feel much better now and more importantly proud of myself and more happyer😊

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you for sharing your journey! It sounds like you've taken an important step in reclaiming your peace and prioritizing your well-being. Walking away from situations that no longer serve you takes strength and self-awareness, and it's inspiring to see how much better and happier you're feeling. Keep focusing on yourself and building the life you deserve. Proud of your growth-keep it up! 🙌😊

[@JaxonHartog]

Good advice. Ive been seeing her for over a month. We’ve been intimate and it’s been awesome. We’ve gone out a lot and we have fun. She never texts me first but when I do we text all day but if I don’t text her she won’t text me so yeah today’s day #1 of me not texting her first again. And we made plans to go out tomorrow. If she doesn’t text me to confirm plans for tomorrow I am done with her

[@davevail4138]

Dude, you’ve been intimate, you talk all day, are going out. You’re going to ditch her just because she doesn’t write first… gimme a break. What more do you want. That’s idiotic

[@smoothnationproducton]

I choose balance

[@ChristiNicol]

Great video bro. But I know this concept is going way over a lot of their heads 😂

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[@CassandraDeWintoa]

If you want a relationship get it, but always act single

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[@HarrisonLawes]

Women love being told what to do, she’ll tell you different

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[@ArchieBriteea]

All your knowledge is very valuable,practicing in real life difficult,i'm making mistakes without thinking-almost you must become stone cold ,i lost hope almost

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So nice of you

[@onlydream85]

Stoic Legend I'm sharing with you again about my girlfriend whose brother has cancer. In the past she would always start write to me first, recently she stopped writing or calling me at all. After a conversation we had on the phone yesterday we talked for an hour And I told her that it bothers me. She told me that she is not the same person i know because in the room of her brother who is sick with cancer she saw 2 people who died in front of her eyes and it traumatized her. In such a situation should I be the one to initiate Calling and standing by her all the time in this difficult situation or just walking away. what do you think?

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you for sharing your situation-it’s clear that you care deeply about your girlfriend and her well-being. What she’s going through sounds incredibly traumatic, and it’s likely taking a significant emotional toll on her. In moments like this, Stoicism reminds us to focus on what we can control: offering compassion, understanding, and support without expecting a specific outcome in return. If she’s experiencing trauma, she might need time and space to process her emotions, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t value your presence. Consider initiating calls or messages occasionally, but do so with empathy, not pressure. Let her know you’re there for her unconditionally. For example, a simple “I’m here if you need someone to talk to” can go a long way in showing support. However, also take care of yourself in the process. Supportive relationships should not come at the expense of your own mental and emotional health. Reflect on whether you can continue to be patient and understanding while also maintaining your inner peace. Sometimes, just standing by someone during their struggles can be a profound act of love. Ultimately, the choice between staying or walking away depends on what aligns with your values and what you feel you’re capable of giving in this situation. Remember, kindness and empathy are never wasted, but it’s also important to protect your own well-being. What are your thoughts? Stay strong and grounded-you’re navigating a challenging situation with a lot of thoughtfulness. 🙏

[@onlydream85]

​@@StoicLegend_Official Thank you for your response. I definitely plan to act on what you wrote here. In addition to that, I wanted to say that in addition to her brother's cancer, there is a war in my country and she has to go down to the shelter 2-3 times a day and hear missiles exploding next to her. At the same time, when the war started in our area 60 days ago, I left the country and she couldn't do it because of her brother who is sick. What hurt me was that at some point I informed her that I had pneumonia and was hospitalized in a foreign country and she only asked once how I was feeling and all the days she wasn't interested. my thoughts that on my mind are once or twice a week to show interest in her, to offer my help, to send her something that warms her heart on WhatsApp, and the rest of the days to give her a little distance...as they say, caress and distance. What do you think?

[@Charlesounger]

💯 % effective ❤

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[@GerardoPadovano]

Are you sure stating the fact that you feel you’re always the one that’s reaching out to her first wouldn’t cause any kind of misunderstanding and make her get annoyed and start backing up slowly?

[@JOHN-ei2tn]

Little does “she know “ my Love for Christ 🔥⚔️ overcomes all . I actually feel for her, not knowing His Love .

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's beautiful to see such a deep connection to your faith and love for Christ. His love truly has the power to overcome all challenges, and it's inspiring to see you reflect that in your perspective. Keep spreading that love and positivity-it can make a difference!

[@JOHN-ei2tn]

@@StoicLegend_Official I am Grateful to You 🙋🏽‍♂️. Such great timing and Stoic lessons. You helped me put my thoughts into words . Love Peace to You !

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[@LaylaEverard]

Amen.

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[@SergioFernandez-cj4mt]

Fellas, if she is not texting or calling you, she has a man … detach and move on

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Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Sometimes it's important to focus on what we can control and prioritize our own growth and well-being. Detachment can be a powerful tool to protect your peace and move forward. What strategies have worked best for you in similar situations?

[@SergioFernandez-cj4mt]

@ thank u for your reply! I’ve learned the first thing a man needs to do is learn to appreciate one self and learn to love yourself first! U can’t love anyone else if u don’t even love and appreciate urself first. U can do that by feeling good about urself, meaning living a purposeful life and working on improving oneself. When that is a part of a man’s life and it’s a part of ur mindset, we have the right to say to a potential partner … ‘I’m not an option, I’m plan A or nothing’ … if she rebukes, adios! Unfortunately, texting is part of this whole process, im old enough to remember when it was not. A man, or a woman for that matter, can feel it when the potential partner just don’t give an ish about you. CANNOT IGNORE THE 🚩. I know I’ve slipped and I have ignored them on one situationship. There are many women that play games, but then there are a few that will not. Gotta be comfortable in solitude while u find that one person.

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@@SergioFernandez-cj4mt Thank you for sharing such thoughtful insights! You're absolutely right-self-love and self-appreciation are the foundation for any healthy relationship. When a man invests in himself, lives purposefully, and continuously works on self-improvement, he not only feels fulfilled but also sets a high standard for the type of connection he deserves. Your perspective on being "plan A or nothing" is spot on-it’s about valuing yourself enough to not settle for less than mutual respect and genuine interest. And yes, red flags should never be ignored; they are there for a reason and often save us from unnecessary heartache. It’s so important to trust your intuition and prioritize your peace. The point about being comfortable in solitude is especially powerful. When we embrace solitude, it helps us grow and ensures we don’t compromise for the wrong reasons. Thank you for sharing this wisdom-your journey and reflection will surely resonate with many! 💪

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[@CalebClementur]

Lol, I ignore women my whole life and they ignore me.

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Another episode of How to date insecure women/people...

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I CHOOSE BALANCE OVER CHASING.👍

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PROTECT YOUR PEACE AND HONOR YOUR BALANCE.

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MY EMOTIONS ARE MINE TO MASTER.👍

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