What a woman says at moment is purely out of emotion. When the moment arrives her emotions may very well be different. Never listen to a woman's words, listen to their actions.
@Ace.0.0.0.8 ай бұрын
This is the way to judge all people.
@Humble.fool058 ай бұрын
@@Ace.0.0.0.Not all, only women. Men don't act shit like this.
@luker1hutcher3158 ай бұрын
Not all actions make noise or are 'listenable'. You mean pay attention to her actions, whatever they may be
@AdagioPhoenix8 ай бұрын
@@daniel_bernhard_ whenever you feel like she's taking you for a ride.
@jamemsmsms7 ай бұрын
Don't trust the words trust her action and feelings
@silveriver98 ай бұрын
All you have to do is be in a state ot indifference.
@21stcenturyexaminedlife458 ай бұрын
Understanding the nature of women leads to emotional detachment and no bitterness. Women use words (primarily) to communicate momentary emotions. Men use words (primarily) to communicate information/facts. Once you really internalize this, you won't be disappointed by a woman not doing what she says ever again. It is their nature to be this way, no changing it
@thamzafaniso8 ай бұрын
It's madness to invest in a woman.
@Slidehhy8 ай бұрын
💯
@PyroShields7 ай бұрын
What our other options?
@davidwhite2064 ай бұрын
Invest in yourself. @@PyroShields
@damirderek88272 ай бұрын
Make her invest in you
@adambowers16878 ай бұрын
The problem with this is if you don't react and act like it doesn't bother you they think you're not interested and if you show emotion or interest they become unnattracted to you so can't win either way.
@ehud25978 ай бұрын
She’s loyal to her emotions
@jlecampana8 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@blair54757 ай бұрын
That’s their problem dude. If she’s not responding positively to your advances, find another chick that will. You need to change your mindset from she will lose interest to you will lose interest.
@SavageSanto6 ай бұрын
The BEST thing you can do is WALK away !
@danielbailey55565 ай бұрын
It’s because you’re not hearing her, or making her feel safe and appreciated emotionally. When they don’t feel connected they won’t open up.
@Imperfect52528 ай бұрын
That is why, There is no quote like " A woman of her word ".
@javiervazquez95918 ай бұрын
Go to Thailand, save the time and money..
@veebs11978 ай бұрын
Ladyboys huh
@nteta10k8 ай бұрын
And money?
@silveriver98 ай бұрын
Amsterdam.
@rambotan58678 ай бұрын
I want to experience true love like in the movie twilight
@silveriver98 ай бұрын
@@rambotan5867 that's as real as The Avengers.
@zero11888 ай бұрын
Her bond is to her emotions
@matttrudeau18 ай бұрын
How can they even hold down a job like this?
@poopstain7248 ай бұрын
Women are submissive to whoever pays them
@Evenmixer8 ай бұрын
Because they have no choice, if they don't do it they can be fired as business (money) is the deciding factor in a company
@Pistonhammer8 ай бұрын
Because they are "undiagnosed" narcissists
@lionelkennedy13948 ай бұрын
Women only love attention, validation, and money. That's why.
@dcikaruga8 ай бұрын
@@EvenmixerYeh, like a child behaving around adults, but when there's no one around to enforce the rules........
@x_MrYAYA_x8 ай бұрын
God women are exhausting.
@This_is_albs8 ай бұрын
We just gotta get used to their nature.
@PyroShields7 ай бұрын
@@This_is_albs We can't get too attached.
@meme-zv7kw5 ай бұрын
Is it worth 🤔
@palindrome068 ай бұрын
Let alone sex, she doesn’t even come to the meeting when she says she will. Integrity is a must.
@dcikaruga8 ай бұрын
Women with integrity? Can't say I've seen that often.
@dieseljagwar66738 ай бұрын
Develop Attraction channel is one of the best OG channel. Been speaking the truth for years!
@eppsislike8 ай бұрын
I had to set boundaries with mine because I saw a pattern where she was constantly being incongruent such that I could not rely on her anymore everytime she said she was going to get back to me tomorrow. Chris, I understand you say it's a test, but what if she's doing a different test by subtly disrespecting you to see if you will put her in her place? I felt for myself this can no longer be ignored, and I set a kind but firm boundary.
@robertotorres64827 ай бұрын
How is it going?
@jlecampana8 ай бұрын
Funny enough, it happened to me recently that I met a girl from Tinder and since we previously had sexually charged conversations I insinuated that we should have sex when I met her, to which she said “not tonight, tomorrow” I thought for sure that was her way of avoiding having sex with me, but lo and behold she kept her promise! One thing I think I did right was to not push for it, I just asked her out and during the date I said something like “we should now go somewhere more private” But apart from this instance, women always break their promises, the one that they break the most (that I’ve seen) is “I’ll call you” THEY NEVER EVER DO! Maybe you can elaborate more on this in a new video.
@alimishina58218 ай бұрын
I thought calculus was hard but boy was I wrong
@davidwhite2064 ай бұрын
Calculus has actual principles to adhere to that are concrete.
@PyroShields7 ай бұрын
I'm glad I found your channel. You save us from depression.
@radfoo728 ай бұрын
"Deprivation of an expected reward is punishment" -Jordan Peterson to Destiny
@caesarprice32528 ай бұрын
That's what I do what I want first for anything like you saying your book. If she doesn't want to do what I want to do, I'll find another woman who will.
@nobleking76368 ай бұрын
So if she does keep her word does that mean her attraction level is high?
@randrellbigbeargaines56968 ай бұрын
This is Facts 💯, and I do get all bent out of shape when women don't keep their word 😅.
@Rob-nl5ge8 ай бұрын
So, should you push for intimacy or not?
@Rk-yk6un8 ай бұрын
Hello Chris I am a big fan of your work , can you make a video on what to do if your girlfriend keep doing breakup because she thinks I am not going to marry her
@ianarn7 ай бұрын
It depends how long you’ve been together but I’d say that is very coercive behaviour particularly if it’s in the first 18 months to two years. She doesn’t love you and your only building a rod for yourself in future if you give into this behaviour.
@PyroShields7 ай бұрын
Women want commitment. Again if you've been with her for years, you have to decide marry her or move on.
@Vyborne8 ай бұрын
Recently I had a conversation with a woman and asked her out. She gave me her number after agreeing. But when I called, she said she would call back but never did. This has happened many times but I have no clue why. For example, if she felt pressured on the spot, she could give me a fake number; why give me the real number but then not respond. They won't even reply to a "what happened" text out of courtesy.
@luker1hutcher3158 ай бұрын
They're rude and ruthless. Basically snakes with tits.
@incassable8 ай бұрын
because she is afraid of a bad reaction if you find out on the spot that it’s a fake one they can also be insulted if they don’t want to give any number good guys pay for the assholes, we have to accept it the only way to tell a woman is interested in you is when she replies quickly and positively to your invite. Everything before that needs to be ignored if you want to stay mentally healthy
@dcikaruga8 ай бұрын
If you've got something she really is interested in, like a job that pays well, or can excite her because your a bad-boy alpha, or whatever, they'll be very keen. Not trying to be mean, but these girls that aren't turning up because your not doing or offering anything special for her, your average in her eyes, and she think's she can do better.
@johnmessick99468 ай бұрын
He is spot on!!!
@Oldmanfromchicago7 ай бұрын
You hit this right on the head. They make promises that they never planned on keeping. But if you casually mention doing something that is carved in stone. If it gets cancelled you're the one that never keeps their word.
@ctsjay77328 ай бұрын
Facts you're spot on , 100%
@UncleDave747 ай бұрын
It’s just your turn
@Daytraderteluguu7868 ай бұрын
Right time Right video
@saurabhverma21658 ай бұрын
I think this is double edged sword, on one hand I agree you should not be pushing for it and also on the other hand you wanna make sure this does n't become a habit of her, thinking she can get away with it.
@wolfman2318 ай бұрын
It won't become a habit if you don't push for it correctly. You've just passed a shit test, and she knows it's ineffective to gain power or control over you. She might even gain respect and trust for you and start initiating sex, etc. more. This stuff works, I swear!
@Ninja4hire1108 ай бұрын
The only problem with "trying" to be indifferent is if you are faking it, women will smell it. You have to find a way to be genuinely indifferent
@Noiralo8 ай бұрын
I think it's a bit contrary to what you say in your book. What I've gathered is: push for intimacy often and don't care about being rejected. If it's a soft No, push later, if it's a hard No, next her.
@shivamgaur538 ай бұрын
Thanks
@Yosef_Maharat8 ай бұрын
Thanks.
@jamemsmsms7 ай бұрын
If she broke her promises i will broke my promises too thats she left me unread and ignored my messages but its ok its lot of fish into the sea
@radfoo728 ай бұрын
A woman promising sex is a 🚩to me. That shouldn't need verbal conveyance. Don't tell me what you're going to do, show me by way of your actions. Actions are to be taken seriously whereas words can just be a stick and a carrot to lead you on. Don't incentive me with rewards, simply embody Reward through demonstration and you'll be prized & cherished.
@ianarn7 ай бұрын
She might say something like “we’re going to be together forever”, then 6 weeks later act out and get you to walk away! Then play the victim that you walked away in order that you grovel back to her.
@PyroShields7 ай бұрын
@@ianarn Is that what happened to you? lol.
@Tai918273 ай бұрын
You will hear the term 'man of his word' but never 'woman of her word'.
@StrongBodymindandspirit8 ай бұрын
Men, if she keeps pushing it off, she’s not interested and doesn’t think you’re a chad
@x_MrYAYA_x8 ай бұрын
❤
@mystykalmn44348 ай бұрын
Women wants a guy who is nonchalant, careless, Emotionless don't give a f about them
@mehreteadYhannes1952Ай бұрын
It's not about sex bro
@ericfurst60917 ай бұрын
Ever heard the sentence, "a woman of her words"? Yep, me neither 🤷♂️
@nova123328 ай бұрын
This is fucking true
@kiuk_kiks8 ай бұрын
Women use words like spells. They use words to get the desired emotion or effect out of the listener, not just men but anyone they seek to manipulate or want to be in their good graces such as their children, friends and family. Once you understand that, *nothing* they say will be nonsensical.
@BabyTerRorChild7 ай бұрын
The one time i dont agree or atleast half agree. I had my ex hit me up after months of no contact asking to have dinner. I said yes when? She said “i let u know” i said or we can just plan a day. She said “ill let u know after i get paid on friday” LOL she hit me up 2 1/2 months later and asked if i wanted to go. I told her no i have lost interest and if the roles were reversed i would be considered a player. She gave me a long thing about how i am being selfish and here we are not talking again. I dont care really though because that was MY test to see how serious she was. I guess my point is i take your approach to all womens “plans” or words but certain things i dont brush off. In my situation i knew in my gut i was just the 2nd choice. She didnt tell me upfront but i knew what it was and pumped my breaks out of self respect
@DevelopAttraction7 ай бұрын
This is a completely different topic to the video btw
@Slidehhy8 ай бұрын
💯👍
@lorderectus18498 ай бұрын
Stay away from the box 📦 jellyfish it’s poisonous ☠️
@DivineLogos8 ай бұрын
Everything a woman says is only true in that moment with that guy. In another moment or with another guy she might feel completely different.