If You’re DIVORCED DON'T DATE Until You Hear THIS Relationship Advice!

If You’re DIVORCED DON’T DATE Until You Hear THIS Relationship Advice... If you’re divorced getting back into the dating world might have its own set of challenges and complexities. However, this relationship advice will help you know what to expect and how to navigate the post divorce challenges effectively. Embrace this relationship advice to understand why if you’re divorced you should take heed to this relationship advice before dating again.
This relationship advice will help you understand what to do if you are divorced and want to date again. If you're divorced, don't date until you've taken the time to heal, reflect on the past relationship, and feel emotionally ready to engage in new relationships without carrying baggage from the previous relationship. If you're divorced, don't date before watching this post-divorce dating advice.
As your wingmam, female wingman, and dating coach for men, I want to help you have better dating experiences and relationships. I hope you find this dating advice for men helpful.
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[@YourWingmam]

I hope you enjoyed my video, "If You’re DIVORCED DON'T DATE Until You Hear THIS Relationship Advice!" Watch this dating advice video next, "Top 7 CRITICAL DATING ADVICE For A SINGLE DAD Wanting To Date Again!" 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gaivmZ6oothmn8k WakeUP2Luv program info: members.wingmam.com/get-women/ We got 10" of snow last night and the power is out. Battery is low so will answer comments later. Gotta love these Canadian winters! lol x

[@TazMartin]

Prays the Father...Spring here down south 😊

[@Sol-hl2rj]

Very good advises, one of the best ones I’ve heard. It seemed you did too advise yourself equally well 🤗. Liked the straightforwardness-ness and the bareness-ness 🤓. I takes effort to do this as an introvert, and yes we can learn “social” skills but we’ll be introverts below the surface anyhow, more recharging.. 10” of snow ❄️.. being at roughly the same latitude..: On the bright side, it gets brighter when dark 😄

[@JoeVespa-s3g]

Illinois lolol

[@JoeVespa-s3g]

I was joking 😃

[@JoeVespa-s3g]

Just the tip 😊

[@Mrvictorfernandes]

Anna's comments of sorting through your emotional laundry and rediscovering yourself are just as applicable when it comes to breaking free from a toxic work environment, as well as breaking free from a damaged relationship. You have to find ways of replenishing your energies and healing yourself first in order to thrive and move on. Tactile introverts of the world unite! ✊🤟

[@YourWingmam]

Truth! Unite! (In spirit from the comfy couches of our own homes) 😁

[@RogerKing-xg4ie]

Thanks for sharing your life! Mark Twain said, "Simplicity is difficult because it requires absolutely everything." Through your experiences, vast knowledge, and guidance, hearts and lives celebrate your wise simplicity and the good you portray. I'm a pilot and needed a wingmam to help navigate through the turbulence of life to find the clear, calm skies of recovery. Because of you smooth air is ahead. Thanks!!

[@cryptolizardhehimithishers6729]

Anna was hurt alot, but she showed so much strength to make this video openly talking about her breakup and divorce in past relationships. That took some guts!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@antoerickson4152]

Happy Sunday Anna and how are you. So, I never been in a relationship or marriage and I never got divorced or end in breakup, but I was rejected twice by two different women. I watched this video till the end. I'm approaching 30 soon and I done lot of mistakes in the past which I still do regret. I'm watching your videos for more than a year now and I know what's important for a right love and a marriage. So, about your situation it's very sad for you. I believe you often read the Bible and divorce was not even an option according to the commandments of God 🙏. When a man and woman married once then they are always married in the eyes of God although the couples got seperated on earth. This is what I learned few months ago and today there is much darkness everywhere. Thanks, for the video Anna and I appreciate it.

[@YourWingmam]

I’m glad you watched the whole video, there is much that can be learned to prevent the wrong relationship. Because as you note, some things are undoable. Be wise in your choice so you’ll have no regrets. You have time! As for the Bible, yes, I was “reborn” after the divorce but that doesn’t absolve it. It’s certainly something I struggle with and pray for guidance on. 🙏

[@kinnymonster]

Good to hear you open up bout your past. Brings context to what you've been sayin.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for appreciating it! 🙏

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@daleb5967]

Yes anna, we are taught to use successful people snd relationships.......but that is a flaw.........people hide their true relationship flaws and hide failures. The same goes for other aspects of their lives. We need to try to copy success with details and facts behind the success. Not success via luck or generational wealth. Identifying mistakes going forward for self and others as a roadmap is even better imho....because its a detail rich breakdown of facts and outcomes. You are providing a better insight this way.

[@hectorricardodelacruzmonte2566]

You kept the smile on during the whole video Thank you for sharing a lil slice of your Time, AJ take care

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you enjoyed it ❤ 🙂

[@Citizen-by9vw]

Great video, Anna. Thank you. I'm divorced, so this really applied to me.

[@briandonovan5687]

Your videos have just gotten better n better. Its funny because u said u were an introvert 😮, i dont see that lol. Anyway u gave really solid advise n broke it down Masterfully. I was married 20 yrs n now divorced 17 yrs. I have had a few relationships 2 longer term 3yrs n 5vyrs n a few dates in that time. After my last one ended i swore i wasnt gonna date again untill i cd get it right. Ive been single now several years and have done alot of work. Everything u went overvin this video, i think, was spot on 😊. Great advise if someone will take the time to do the work. I am living my best life now although i dont meet very many women and even less i wd be interested in dating. In the meantime im lovin my life so we will see. Unless you would be interested in having a cup of coffee next time your in Florida 😊. We would have great conversations i bet 😉

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback. I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼

[@davidrodda7427]

Thank you for being so open Anna, about your own situation, this is such a great educational video, as I have gone through a divorce. I have to valuate my own situation and examine myself. Thankyou.

[@johncoffman2703]

Agree you must do the work. Know what you want, what you need, and where you want to go.

[@tomgrosemusic]

Looking amazing My Wingmam! I hope to marry soon so I can get divorced and utilize this advice. Rock on Sistah!!

[@YourWingmam]

lol, 🙂 thank you!

[@matthewmurphy3273]

Thank you Anna

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@johngonzalez4298]

Happy Sunday spicy señorita Anna ❤ You look magnificent! This was a great video to listen to for anyone who is going through a divorce or has been through a divorce. I have never been married but I was once engaged to be married when I was 22 years old. A friend of mine (female) recently got divorced from her toxic ex-husband as their marriage was already broken before I met her. I applaud her for finally taking the step to finally get it done and they have a child together. From what I know about the ex husband, he has been married two times and both marriages for him resulted in marrying two single mothers but his 2nd marriage with my friend came resulted of them having a kid together while the 1st marriage was being a step dad and no biological child. Thank you for sharing your experience on your marriage and I hope that if you do ever decide to get married it will be done the right way. The same goes for me if I ever get married, I hope to be with the woman for a long time and my parents for example, have been married since 1975 way before I was a thought lol. Sending love to you spicy señorita Anna ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you, John! I hope your friend and her ex can remain amicable for their child’s sake. Love that your parents are still together (and I assume like each other)! I’m sure you’ll be discerning if you decide to get married. 😊

[@johngonzalez4298]

@@YourWingmam Hopefully they do remain amicable for the kid's sake but time will tell I guess. If I do ever get married, I hope to have something that my parents have, but I know that if it is with the right woman, I will know but it also comes with time. Discerning is a likely 😊

[@actmyage2149]

Divorced situation: not exactly my issue. The "don't date until" list still has value for a widower, especially points 1,2,4,5. Even 3 has value if it is recast as "what could I have done better." I had been part of a couple with my girlfriend/wife since I was 20. I really never found out what it was like to be a single adult man until after she passed when I was in my 50's. It took time for me to be comfortable being on my own. Some widowers immediately look for the next wife simply because they cannot stand the sensation of not being part of a couple -- big mistake IMHO. Laying yourself open wide on this subject: absolutely special and incredibly heart-warming. I will blame no man who confesses his undying love for you as a result of this video. I get that you're okay being on your own, but if you ever change your mind, some man will count himself very blessed that you did. You are truly rare. Wars have been fought over lessor women than you. Seriously. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/My granddaughter has a friend over with her 3-month-old puppy, so there is much furry mayhem afoot!

[@YourWingmam]

I thought about combining divorce and widower but felt each deserved its own spotlight. But yes, there is much overlap when it comes to getting back in the dating game and you’ve done great points about not rushing because of discomfort. I am humbled by your thoughtful compliment, Russ. Enjoy the youthful energy of your visitors and God bless!

[@owl2368a]

Natural looking gorgeous, great video!

[@KyleC4EVEr]

You're hilarious and Super-Duper cute! 💞💋💞 Thanks for the tips 🤝🏻

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you!! 😁

[@yorkshireboy3886]

Thank you for your advice, and for being honest. My last relationship ended because I was honest with myself and saw no future with her so I ended it. Sure I fancied her and chemistry was there but like you say, the long term goals were different. I also like physical touch but she never did. It hurt for sure when we split, but I thought of it like ripping off a sticky plaster on your skin. Yeah it hurts for a few seconds but it's over and done with. Sending you some warm cuddles from the (also cold) UK! 🤗 Take care, and keep warm! 🐈❤

[@edwardloizides5415]

What about dating as a widower?

[@jimwetzel1635]

As I've commented once or twice before, I don't really belong here, in the sense of being in the logical target audience. I'll be 70 this year and I've been married for 49 years, so I'm not a consumer of relationship / dating advice. My longsuffering wife will be burying me sometime in the next year or twenty, and my relationship, imperfect though it may be, is rather firmly in place. But I really, really enjoy Anna's videos, and can also recommend her autobiographical "Me: a Rewrite." Anna's winsome personality comes through so clearly in these videos. Hope she keeps making them!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@JSwift-jq3wn]

Life is nothing but a series of compromises. Never compromise when it comes to intimacy. Better be alone than with the wrong person.

[@TimVachter-yk5gu]

Anna you are so interesting I could listen to you all day long you make so much sense it’s like we’re two peas in a pod take care and have a Blessed day

[@YourWingmam]

Wow, thank you! 🙏

[@Robbyrool]

@YourWingmam Hey Anna! What’s your take on chemistry, connection, and attraction? Are they enough? 😆 For real though, seems like that’s all most people ever consider. And if they do consider deeper qualities, they only consider what they want, not what others want. They always want to FIND the right person, but they don’t try to BE the right person for someone else. Even after a breakup, they don’t consider what they did to contribute to it not working, they only say the other person wasn’t right for them or wasn’t right for anyone, or take the blame only for choosing the wrong person. And they keep repeating the same cycle. So your repetition is warranted. Look at yourself and learn what you can from each failure and do better in future. Very good video!

[@YourWingmam]

Exactly! If people actually paid attention to the first two points I repeated there would be far fewer divorces.

[@alanfox4914]

It's always nice to have good advice Anna, even when that advice is hard to take.🥰🥰🥰

[@raidersteve7274]

Your a Success Anna !!❤️🙏😉😊

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@donnyramay2635]

One of the biggest issues in dating today is political and religious beliefs. I'm for one non-religious and fiscally conservative. It's usually a deal breaker if you're not a Christian or on the political spectrum liberal democrat or vise versa, especially during this tumultuous time in America.

[@JeffreySch]

Hi Anna I’ve been devoted for a long time and I heard you talk about divorce and you sure do love 💕 your job I can tell ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Best compliment, thank you for noticing! 💞

[@YourWingmam]

And for sticking around!! 🙏

[@dennisfillhart88]

Hi, Anna. Sorry to hear of your unsettling life so far. I'm 77 and my marriage ended in divorce after 43 years. She was an only child and found the daddy figure she always wanted and left me for the man who was 10 years older than me. (She married him and he has since passed away.) I saw it coming so I was ready for the end but it still hurt after 43 years of being married. The divorce was 9 years ago. I waited to date for 3 years and it felt right to go out and explore. There is no one out there around my age, (They hide in their homes and watch nothing but bad news.) unless I go to the senior center or churches. Not my area of interest. So I have after several years resigned myself to not be able to just date. I have no interest in marriage as I have been too long alone and set in my "old" ways. 😁 I hope everything turns out well for you in your life. By the way, I have enjoyed watching your videos. Take care.

[@YourWingmam]

Perhaps take a different approach, look for friendship or companionship. Bumble is good for that. Set it to friendship, whatever age range suits you (no limits), and the women who are looking for that and interested will find you. This can provide connection without romantic pressure.

[@dennisfillhart88]

Thank you for your reply but I have tried everything. Even (yuck) online dating sites. Even though I'm alone & lonely (not depressed), I have many activities at home and out and about that keep me active & occupied, so I'm OK. Keep up the great work.@@YourWingmam

[@sobrikey]

thank you from France for this nice video . I think that the divorce is already written in the watermark from the beginning of the relationship, the cracks will only get bigger with time. you know from the start what's going to go wrong

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, a lot of people see it but don’t want to ruin the illusion.

[@nickkool9144]

True that 👍

[@audioelitist3677]

Yeah, it's an issue, for sure. I got into dating too soon after divorce because I was trying to fill a void in my life. I ended up doing a lot more (emotional) harm to myself and the women I dated, than I did any good. Lessons at the expense of people. I was in reaction mode, having been devastated by what was easily the most difficult part of my life. You really have to deal with the emotional baggage before you ever open up. I'll contend, some people aren't capable of getting past all of the emotional damage. I may very well be such a person. In retrospect, what I did was to try to plug a hole in my life without considering the emotional ramifications it would have on other human beings. If people are being honest with themselves, I think they'll realize this is the norm, instead of being the exception to the rule. This is good. You're asking people to get good in their own heads, where they're thinking clearly, before they venture off. People can't make good decisions when they're reacting instead of being cool, calm and calculating.

[@YourWingmam]

Brilliantly stated! I don’t think you give yourself enough credit. Also, awareness is the first step to change.

[@audioelitist3677]

@@YourWingmam As always, the warmth of your words finds rest in my heart. I'm quite aware of things, but after nearly two decades, I'm beginning to accept my fate. While I get lonely at times, there's much in my life I have to be thankful for, and it's given me much time for self reflection and learning. I love to learn things. On top of that, I raised all three of my children solo, and while they're grown, they're still a big part of my life. In the big picture, I'm really a very fortunate man to have so much love in my life, even if without a female companion.

[@raidersteve7274]

Cuddle Buddy-Yes please 😉😊❤️🙏

[@64maxpower]

I cant see you doubting yourself. But not doubting the other person either.

[@64maxpower]

Yuk. Not a fan of sea food I enjoy when you talk about your past.Youve gone through a lot and come far. I mean you've risen from dark times to the person. I think j you are. That's worthy of huge respect

[@markwilliamson2795]

Women change and when they do it's out with you... Don't fall in love just take the short ride and have fun... still hurts sometimes I know but when she is doing what she wants there is nothing you can say or do to change her...my ex went off the rails after I helped her big time she saw more fun next door in France and went for it...Oh well..

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@markwilliamson2795]

Thank you AJ....I guess Karma caught up with me... @@YourWingmam

[@mikehess4494]

Informative...TY...I've been married four times, I enjoy a great wedding and collect wedding bands. Your mileage may vary.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you like it! Might I suggest enjoying other people’s weddings while you work through the actionsbles? 😉 lol on wedding bands

[@mikehess4494]

@@YourWingmam Just got back from another wedding (not mine...lol) at a resort in Florida. Good times were had by all.

[@AlphaMaleMidwesterner]

Like you say Anna, “You can only do what you can do” and it looks like you’ve done all of that.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏

[@IsmynameDotcom]

How can I deal with a girl who can't trust me because her ex was unfaithful? And she said she couldn't trust me at all and she ask for break up, and go quiet.

[@YourWingmam]

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[@IsmynameDotcom]

@@YourWingmam eagerly waiting.

[@andrew-ij1or]

Thanks for the honest consise video, and reentherising the key points, "drumming the important truths home" 🔨 Thanks for the love and care that, moves this important ministry sis x😊

[@YourWingmam]

Glad it was helpful! 🙏😊

[@andrew-ij1or]

Very useful, God has been working in my heart, to open up, but not be gullible. 😊

[@JesusSaves827]

I just want a cuddle buddy…lol

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@paulkramer9666]

I've been on two dates since the divorce 25 years ago. They weren't worth the effort. All they women close to my age have let themselves go physically and I don't find them sexually appealing. It doesn't seem worth the effort.

[@raidersteve7274]

((((((Anna)))))) Each Partner needs to think about the other!!! Being Unselfish. I am a Hopeless Romantic but notHope Less. I am a Giver!😊😉❤️🙏

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@michaelsmith7846]

Why even try to date? Its just to complicated and difficult. And all for what?

[@SteveSmith-zo4ml]

Sorry, but I think you’re over complicating it. By the half way point, I was starting to lose the will to live. Reminds me of one of the power point presentations I had to endure at work.

[@truthdisseminator]

How can a man convince women that it's ok to share a man for lifelong partnership? How do cult leaders do it?

[@crimestoppers1877]

Not a problem with two women. Three women can be a crowd. It is always her her choice. She ( both of them) will select you. You only have to entertain, amuse and lead them and officiate minor squabbles.

[@truthdisseminator]

@@crimestoppers1877 should I explicitly state that in my profile? How do I gauge interest?

[@YourWingmam]

Cult leaders prey on the vulnerable. Not my area of expertise.

[@YourWingmam]

Cults prey on the vulnerable

[@truthdisseminator]

@@YourWingmam ok, how about non-cult situations? :)

[@TazMartin]

Jesus over you and yours 😊. Always a privilege and a pleasure 😊. Any man let you get away, seriously you can't be that hard to play house with😊.

[@cryptolizardhehimithishers6729]

I feel like she was crying before or after doing this video

[@defiantrascal6214]

I don't understand the part where the 2 men you dated didn't like the physical affection part. Where did you find those 2 guys? In a forest raised by wolves?

[@YourWingmam]

lol people have different love languages

[@defiantrascal6214]

@@YourWingmam But did they pet cats and dogs? Like what is so difficult to go cuddle or hug someone? I don't get it.

[@kingnomad3176]

You make 2 married people “losing their independence” sound like a bad thing. As far as I can remember, marriage vows say something about 2 coming together as 1 and is signified by the woman taking the man’s last name. This is why taking advice from women is so difficult because you have to already have knowledge in order to sift through their bias and self-serving BS.

[@YourWingmam]

Sounds like you had a bad experience, that sucks

[@kingnomad3176]

@@YourWingmam - I’m not sure what you mean. I like watching your vids because you’re genuine and I like to hear women’s thought processes….but, unfortunately, I don’t take women’s advice on relationships. I don’t say that with pleasure because I value women immensely but, again, when it comes to relationship advice….I, personally, have to pass. Don’t let my comment change your methods because, like I said, I enjoy your work.

[@joem.8277]

Dear Anna: Hello there pretty lady. How are things up there, other than cold? Your teeth look great, by the way. Excellent video, Anna. I really do believe another book is in your future and this could be a chapter. You can do it. You got this babe!!! Well, I guess you gave us homework so I better get to it, that way I can go outside and play later. It is an awesome 85 degrees here today. If you were here we could go for a walk in one of our parks. FYI, I also speak physical touch, so I do like to hold hands. Alright, off to watch your video again and write down all my actionables in each category you covered. You made me think again, Anna. I hope you have a good Sunday, and somewhere up in Canada you are nice and warm. You look very pretty today, Anna. Hug and a peck on each cheek, and one in your nose to warm you up. Thank you for being you.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you glad you enjoyed it! And glad you’re doing the suggested actionsbles! It snowed about 10” here last night lol so I am bundled up inside (with a terrible cold). Enjoy your Sunday!

[@bobbyearl60]

Im 64 and have been married 34 years. I work out in a gym with a lot of younger people of dating age. One of these acquaintances shared one of your videos with me as well as one other youtuber,asking my opinion on the quality of your advice. Both of you give valuable advice, but your vulnerability and truthfulness in this video really touched me. The way you have taken accountability is so rare, as well as your desire to learn. Anna, you are a keeper. I know what one looks like because I am married to one. We are all broken. We all possess a red flag or two. If we are to have good relationships, it is not only important to find the right person, but also to BE the right person. And when we falter, to forgive and be forgiven. Im still in the learning process 34 years on. Shes worth it. God bless you Anna, and thank you for what you do.

[@crimestoppers1877]

Excellent. This is the goal of most good men as well. But how can you be the "right" person with a cheater?

[@bobbyearl60]

@crimestoppers1877 my definition of faltering does not include cheating.

[@crimestoppers1877]

@@bobbyearl60 Faltering? explain?

[@jmyers6175]

😂😂

[@jmyers6175]

😂😂

[@rocdocs]

This is one of the best "dating advice" videos Ive seen. THanks for being real and not offering manipulative tricks! Rock on,!

[@AlphaMaleMidwesterner]

I noticed Anna’s body language in this video; it shows that she is very Emotional, apprehensive, speaks fast, anxious, nervous and shows us her vulnerabilities, anxieties. I understand though because she’s telling her personal story and telling and showing us her feelings etc. Anna, I hope that you’re doing all right and doing well. You’ll be fine.

[@daleb5967]

That is what makes her more authentic than most women. She's being honest and that's hard to find in society let alone in a woman or partner.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

She's cold. It's chilly there.

[@josephlozada3651]

Or she's cold 🥶

[@Phaedrus-th7bi]

Thank you for your bravery, Anna. 39-23? He had issues as well. (Major red flag) A relationship of a girl with her father is EXTREMELY important and can literally screw up the daughter for her entire life, if not resolved. Even if their relationship is "normal", it will often play a definitive role in how she relates to her husband (years later). Likewise, how a son relates to his mother is very telling as well. Anna, you made yourself very vulnerable today in this video. Blessings from the East Coast. (A daughter's relationship with her father = Her first relationship with a man. Likewise, a son's relationship with his mother is his first relationship with a woman. That is why it 'sets the stage' for all her further interactions with men. Very critical to her development of a healthy relationship with men.)

[@YourWingmam]

Agreed, wise words indeed! 🙏

[@carldaelman]

39-23 is not a red flag but natural. The man knew she was fertile. A 39 year old woman is not. Hence not a red flag. This tale origins from feminism.

[@trickygoose2]

A 39 year old woman is not necessarily infertile, although she will be less fertile than she was when she was 23. Anna's ex already had children and didn't want any more.

[@cryptolizardhehimithishers6729]

A 39 year old women is still very fertile

[@jmyers6175]

Super hard to find somebody compatible in your 50s after divorce and kids. Not impossible, most likely you remain single.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏🏼

[@kenbiro8485]

Been married twice and divorced twice. Been divorced for 30 years now so it's probably too late now to ever get married again I've gotten used to living by myself, and not only that I win all the arguments. LOL

[@YourWingmam]

Ha! Well, there is that ;) But not too late if it is of interest, have heard from fellas in their 70s tying the knot!

[@Zalewaika]

I was in 3 years lasting relationship. We married in August 2023 and she cheated on me 2 months after wedding. It turned out that she had NPD. Now im during divorce. Thank you Anna for this video. Its really helpful to hear advice from somebody who experienced the same.

[@qubaliclife4666]

NPD? What is that?

[@Zalewaika]

@@qubaliclife4666 Narcissistic personality disorder

[@chrisconsorte7893]

Did you have any children?

[@siz4sean]

That is near identical to my experience; married a diagnosed NPD woman. Within 39 days she had cheated, stated she was done with me, and I promptly filed for divorce. I think that she still lives in Vermont where I left her.

[@YourWingmam]

They are often experts at hiding their true character until it’s too late. Here’s something you’ll want to take from that experience…you are a good man. Good men often fall for narcs, they don’t recognize the red flags because they would never do such things. Look for my playlist on red flags. It may help save you in future. 🫂

[@jasonmarton1448]

You’re a sweet, attractive and intelligent woman! I hope you find someone to share your life with and especially to have the physical relationship you desire! Warm regards

[@davegayaldo]

Thanks for sharing your journey big sigh. The recovery slow being 32 years married a year and a half divorce healing and recovery. I appreciate your sharing.

[@YourWingmam]

Healing is definitely key!

[@KristopherStidd]

Thank you for the video ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for watching!💞

[@meddyven]

Anna, I really applaud you for your vulnerability and strength to show where you were, and how you solved it.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@jamieseiple]

If I would have been healthy, I never would have picked the abusive wife I did. Like Groucho Marx said, "I'd never join a club that would have me as a member"

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@raidersteve7274]

I was told by a coworker that I was a “Catch”.Boosted my ego! Think about your Partners needs First is what I do. I am a hand holder. One Woman man here. I believe in Monogamy. I want to be the Very Best Man I can be.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@richcrozier1108]

I really appreciate your transparency and willingness to share your wisdom and experience! Enjoy the mussels!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@JesusSaves827]

Comfort zone….I’m in my comfort zone, because that’s where I’m comfortable! …lol…Don’t make me leave it.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@kevindailey4412]

Hi Anna, Awesome video as usual. You have my luck, I want a corner seat to be left alone and they seat someone right next to me when the whole restaurant is wide open. Thank you for sharing!!!!

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@kirtisoma3211]

😢😢 I some how have convinced myself that I am better off being single , lived together for ten years & married for two , two years of trauma and toxicity. I wonder will I ever be able to trust another man again . I have not yet signed papers as yet so I guess maybe things will get better once I have closure.

[@YourWingmam]

I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best 🙏🏼

[@ec173]

don't feel bad, lady :) you make good videos! thank you for trying to honestly explain women

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@daleb5967]

And guys that don't want pda......wtf..,. Are you a wallflower magnet?...lol

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@HorrorAndCoffee]

Thank you. I’ve been separated for 3 years and only now we are getting ready to file. I also feel ready to see what’s out there. Good tips.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@raidersteve7274]

Non Sexual Touch is Very Important

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@RobertPetmecky]

When I think went wrong to write down I feel like a mosquito in a nudist colony, I wouldn’t know where to begin!

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 ❤️

[@kennethbuckwalter3521]

Great perspective on the whole divorce thing. … been there By the way you are adorable

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

If your divorced and looking for further correction, then start dating again 🎉

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@AlphaMaleMidwesterner]

Don’t be so hard on yourself Anna, my sweetheart God knows you tried a lot.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 ❤️

[@mann8098]

I'll give you all the physical touch and quality time you need.

[@YourWingmam]

;)

[@SteelFanther]

My Canadian buddy Dan and his cross-eyed wife just got a divorce ... First of all, they didn't see eye to eye ... He also found out she was seeing someone else on the side ... * Moscow, Russia

[@prxmisegarden5043]

Dan's cross -eyed wife😂😂😂😅

[@YourWingmam]

Haaaa!

[@daleb5967]

I disagree with the "what went wrong" view. Have an effect, sure, but so much is fluid and dynamic in changes in the timespan and evolution of a couple's union. Many many things, from a couple's respect, to economics, to sexual needs, to sudden sexual boredom, to changing extended family issues, to sudden illnesses, to........really way way too much to list. You could have exposed yourself to a far worse, choice or choices across the total timespan. Relationships are way too dynamic and fluid to expect them to remain in a form you feel comfortable with. Especially currently with today's challenges and new metrics in relationships. Don't be too hard on yourself. That said.....put the warpaint n earings back on and get up to speed with performance expectations of hypersexual sigmas and parallel with adult content expectations that are contemporary. Push that gas pedal to the floor. You only live once. Feast.....

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@doug-low-carb]

When I filed for divorce, I had figured out what went wrong well before I prepared my escape. The word escape is key. She was a violent abuser. What went wrong is she was a violent abuser. I had tried to "solve the problem". I'm not flawless but she was well over 90 percent of the problem. I tried to "hate the sin, love the sinner". That ended up a lame excuse to stay with her and absorb more abuse and more violence. I had married her on the rebound. My first love had refused to marry me then she dumped me. That one I had to figure out after then end. And it took me a very long time to work through my own closure. I paid an extremely high price in the form of marrying a violent abuser because I was on the rebound ignoring many red flags. To me it's mandatory to learn at least one lesson from each ending. After I had learned enough lessons, when I met my wife I knew what was real. Decades later I listen to this more for advice for the grand kids than for what I should have done back in the day.

[@jmeyers5094]

A lot of your advice is VERY VERY good! Sorry you are divorced, but a new chapter will begin soon enough!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@jmeyers5094]

I watched your videos after my divorce and found them to be refreshing and honest which helped me to move on. While I am sorry that you had to experience divorce, I think that you confronting it helps not only you but many men like me who went through this and we learn that we can not only survive but thrive. I am working on my best version of me and hope you find the happiness that you deserve and want. Best wishes@@YourWingmam

[@MrOgynist]

Yeah, in the throes of divorce i often felt worthless. My ex had a great capacity for doing that to me. Despite some other setbacks happening at the time, I was able to overcome some of that. However, being that a factor in divorce was sexless marriage, I ended up in an LTR with the first girl I got to enjoy. Initially, she pushed all the right buttons but somewhat soon revealed a lot of red flags. I tried to hang on - it lasted not quite 2 years - because I didnt want to fail again. However, my tenacity kept me into a worse relationship and dissolution than my previous 22 year marriage.

[@YourWingmam]

Many have been where you are. Live, learn, choose better next time. Search: wingmam red flags

[@Tumble96]

Look, if you don’t make mistakes in life, you’ll never learn anything. It comes down to there is no handbook or course that you can take to have the ideal relationship or marriage. That goes double for raising kids. Relationships and kids are the two hardest jobs that anybody could ever have because it takes constant work 24 seven and a lot of communications. To me, the most important thing is working together there’s no your side or my side we have to be partners for it to really work and yes with the right partner is damn worth it. Good luck Anna, I wish you and everyone else the best because everybody Should be happy in their life? Thank you for your insight. And yes you are a beautiful hot mess.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Tumble96]

I bet you say that to all the boys. You are welcome

[@zweisteinya]

Divorced women are like used cars - somewhat worn, and not a keeper

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@danduntz2539]

Another thing I would add, is therapy is needed to get out of our heads when dealing with divorce, especially if/when there are emotional wounds and/or bitterness.

[@YourWingmam]

Agreed! wingmam.com/online-therapy/

[@whbrown1862]

You are truly awesome. You have went along with what my therapist has said and have expanded it with wonderful words of wisdom. I really appreciate you and your willingness to help. Thank you. ❤

[@JoeMotionVideos82]

Ive waited 23 years before I truly decided to dedicate to a very wonderful woman. We are on our 7th month together. Every day is an adventure. She is in her career of service and I am in mine. We both feel that giving of ourselves is the ultimate gift.

[@mikestroud9969]

So true Red i got divorced back in 2000. She basically wanted to leave because of money purposes that she obtained from me 😢😢 I learned a big lesson Looking good AJ. Have a nice rest of your day and week. ❤️🥰💯🙏🇺🇲🇺🇲

[@YourWingmam]

Sorry to hear that but glad you learned from it. Enjoy your week! 💞

[@mikestroud9969]

@@YourWingmam Thanks ❤️🙏💯

[@Citizen-by9vw]

"...physical affection (non-sexual) and quality time"--I love that. Even as a highly sexual middle-aged man, I love that stuff too. So, it's great to hear women say that.

[@stevewheat9030]

Ya... I'd say taking advice from a divorced woman would be insane.....lol

[@johnzarr6590]

Best advice before re-marrying is to read all chapter from Genesis to Chronicles II & everything in between at least 70 times over & to make sure you understand everything you read. And practice the scriptural information you learn. Then maybe you’ll be ready!

[@garvesh7372]

After Divorce 1. Unload your emotional baggage/ after divorce , you are on ground , just unload. 2. develop new habits but do everything consistently on daily bias. Revisiting new habit and practicing it, helps your brain to shake from typical thought process and restart your thinking first time in the morning. 3. It is wise to seek an expert or online personal therapy.

[@patrickhein9470]

Been married and divorced 3 times. Each one different and each one seamed to be around me and my personal growth. Recently i stumbled across CPTSD. Apparently most of us that have trauma from young ages suffer from it and rears it's ugly head eventually in our relationships. We tend to self sabotage when things are going good. I would recommend looking into it if you fail at relationships alot. OMG, you went on a semen hunt? Talk about a red flag. As far as single moms, no, nonononono. No man deserves that kind of abuse. Did it once. Noooooo.

[@airadaimagery692]

What exactly did your 2 boyfriends not do, that you wanted them to do, show you affection in public? Can you give an example? Kissing, holding hands, etc? It just seems weird to me that some men are not willing to do those things... I mean, I do see love birds some times getting a little over touchy-feely in public, which usually embarrasses other people around them, but not them, but I don’t see why holding hands should be a problem for some men? Is there something I’m missing? What did your boyfriends not do?

[@henryhenderson7051]

I know I made big mistakes after my first divorce ultimately leading to another. Been over ten years now and I’m still feeling like I have things needing to figure out. What all that is I’m still trying to figure out. It is a whole different world than the one I left behind for married life. I have no clue how to navigate these crazy times. Meeting people today is borderline impossible to creepy. Good luck out there folks. Wish you all the best. Hopefully the real deal.

[@P01234y]

Divorce after 22 years. I won’t go there ever again. Too old now.

[@YourWingmam]

That doesn’t mean you need go it alone 😊

[@P01234y]

@@YourWingmam Thank you, you are correct. I just cant see it ever happening again. I can see I still have some mojo left but I can’t see the grace or innocence anymore.

[@tomdolan9761]

So let me ask women something. This woman is divorced and failed at her relationship. Why would you turn to her for advice? If your car was broken would you ask a mechanic for advice if his own car was broken in the driveway? Just because someone is coherent and technically able to post on line doesn’t make what they have to say valuable

[@trickygoose2]

I'm part through a relatively painless divorce after a nearly 9 year marriage that I was never really happy with. Although I feel I have less emotional baggage than most in my situation there was still helpful advice here.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@2mcarp]

I agree that we can learn from people who made mistakes. Probably learn more from them. I'm open to all advice, especially from divorced women.

[@marvthedog1972]

yeah my love language is physical touch, just like yours anna. I need that hug, hand holding and sitting close beside my lady. the rest of the physical stuff is great too. The other two of mine, Quality time and words of affirmation

[@redrabbit5664]

You're looking good Anna👌

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! I hope you enjoyed the video and learned something of value even if it doesn’t seem to apply directly to you. 🤞😊

[@redrabbit5664]

@@YourWingmam I did. Especially the part about not being able to "fix" anybody else. Men are notorious for trying to do that lol.

[@DiabloImmortalLeveling]

I'm not a failure, my ex wife isn't a failure, and I'm happy being alone.

[@karihamalainen9622]

Peekaboo cat cut.head spotted.

[@YourWingmam]

❤ 🙂