Ikigai Venn Diagram is a Lie | Here's Why I said this | Drishti Sharma

[@drishtiispeaks]

I forgot to mention one point in the video that I have just spoken about the reality of Venn Diagram and not about the whole Ikigai book. OfCourse the book talks about a lot of valuable lesson but I just wanted to point out the Venn Diagram part without demining the book. I have personally read the book and I loved it when I read it. 😃

[@sharanya8008]

Your video makes sense. Thanks for sharing!

[@KusumRathore-sx3wo]

Why aren't you making videos now days??

[@uvideo100]

Drishti, this comment seems to contradict the thumbnail/icon that you posted for this video. It says, “Don’t read this”. The Venn Diagram is very useful. Robert Frost, a famous American poet had said something like, his goal was to make his vocation and avocation as one. I believe this Venn diagram can help us to understand ourselves, so that we can fuse our vocation with our avocation. For example, you could take singing lessons and become a really good singer whom people would pay to listen. I mean this is just an example to understand the book, I am not saying that you should take singing lessons. On the other hand, it is quite possible that once people start paying someone for singing, then at times they may feel they are singing for the money, and not really enjoying singing, especially when they are tired. I love your saying that you will post your next video whenever it is ready. Please keep that policy. Nowadays, so many KZbinrs are posting average quality videos just because they decided to post say one video a week. Thanks for posting, even though I disagree with the thumbnail/icon of this video.

[@learningearningskillsvlogs7877]

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[@GPK-rp3sr]

Yes... about only diagram....

[@LoveWithAdrish]

I've read the book recently. And tbh it was worth reading. The whole book isn't centered around that one diagram. It has some valuable lessons inside.

[@rajivhumain]

The book is shit. I mean wtf are these self help books man, surface lvl things literally surface level things people are interested to read in a book.

[@halcyon_chn47k]

True

[@Just_VinylKriti]

Absolutely right!

[@umaralfaz5001]

& the topics in this book is covered are very valuable & at the same time satisfied your mind... It's my first book i read & after that i continue my journey towards reading habit 💌❤️

[@riyadixit479]

True mene abhi tk 5 chap..pdhe and ye sirf diagram pr depend nhi hai

[@aish_seojudin]

In my opinion every teen must read this book...it is a life changing for me.

[@unknowndude5953]

@@questechoes finally met someone , i dropped the book on 96 page , i couldnt handled that book anymore.

[@rajivhumain]

The book is shit. I mean wtf are these self help books man, surface lvl things literally surface level things people are interested to read in a book. Every person (primarily girls) I have seen they just buy this book and post a story about it. This book is only meant for this purpose.

[@aish_seojudin]

Not everyone have that capability to read it with patience and details...I am 18 and I am practically applying this book into my life...I got visible changes, not only physical but mentally too.

[@unknowndude5953]

@@aish_seojudin yeah everyone have different taste.

[@aish_seojudin]

@@unknowndude5953 yup

[@ShivamYadavTloks]

It literally teaches us a way to live peaceful, stress-free, meaningful, hassle-free, productive and long life. I am re-reading it and found nothing misleading so far... Individual opinions may vary...

[@aliceneilson8585]

AGREED!!

[@vishalkumarverma7034]

Me too

[@halcyon_chn47k]

Exactly

[@purbadas5325]

I have read this book and I have learnt many things .

[@diptipati]

But drishti di mentioned already in caption that ikigai venn diagram is a lie .

[@moonshells]

I am not a huge fan of self-help books but Ikigai is one book that actually helped me a lot in my life. I dont think the Venn diagram is a scam or so- might work for some, night mot for some other. It didn't for me but everything else in the book actually helped me be more mindful and helped me sit with peace. I would ask you to definitely read the book. 😊

[@Moonbrwlstar]

I agree with you but you should accept the truth that it's not Japanese way

[@Sejuuu_69]

I believe in you 😌💯🙏

[@moonshells]

@@Moonbrwlstar please read my blog to know why i think it is the japanese way

[@moonshells]

reveriesofabrowngirl.blogspot.com/2022/09/my-takeaways-from-ikigai-japanese.html

[@Pranjal217]

For enjoying your present, you need to understand 'what are your interests?' which forms the base of ikigai book...It describes that you'll feel happiness automatically if you are busy pursuing your interests, hobbies, things you love to do...so I think this diagram is relevant for describing ikigai...I don't see any problem with that and it doesn't make sense to say that it's a lie

[@Kitabinari]

I am so glad that you raised a question and also made it clearer for us. It's very necessary to have questions in order to grow and not just consume information as it is. Loved the video and your hard work to make it easy for us to understand.

[@drishtiispeaks]

Absolutely! I'm glad you loved it❤️

[@khushii_maurya]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@pramodchaurasiya2911]

@@drishtiispeaks can you suggest some books for teenagers . for focusing on studies

[@kaluvamaddhusudhanrao8457]

You pease balesed sress free read this.simple sweet how to hapy not others mind your own besiness take care aware your self be positive you win your self and inpriration to others definatly read this book any language so good na 😢😢😅😅😅😅

[@sayantanbhunia9690]

I bought this book when I saw this in one of your reel. It's a very nice book. I became a book reader because of you.

[@hiteshhatwarbs1911]

Hey, Drishti! When it comes to changing lives and having a good mindset, I would say the most underrated book is "The Courage to be Disliked". Its definitely not a beginner friendly book and it literally goes deep down to discuss the human psychology with a touch of Greek philosophy. But yeah don't let that scare you cause the authors have done an excellent job in presenting the whole book in the form of Dialogue. Drishti, as you read and suggests great books, you must give this a try. Cause I genuinely believe that it's the most underrated.

[@antisocial_doctor]

I read this book 4 years ago and was obsessed to this concept as an unbreakable rule, but recently I was feeling lost! Thanks for addressing this!

[@SMPositivevibes]

I completely agree with you. Don't blindly accept everything you encounter; instead, question, verify, and validate. Thank you for sharing this message. 💕

[@sameerr0143]

Beautiful explanation..... I believe 99% so called self help books have the same issue...... I admire your outlook and guts to put out ur thoughts without thinking about people's feelings, which are very easy to hurt these days..... All the best buddy... Keep making good stuff

[@aamenapanchati7316]

1.Have your own style .2.Spend some time with yourself 3. Question every information which present to you 4. Take your time 5. Difference between ikigai and purpose 6. Find your ikigai ? Thanks a lot drishti 😍 I found my ikigai 😊 Love you ❤

[@moosicalhub2123]

I don't usually comment on KZbin videos but Trust me Drishti you made me do it. I'm so proud of you that I've been your regular watcher since you hit 10k. Need more videos like this. Absolutely loved it ✨

[@drishtiispeaks]

Means so much🙏🏼🥺❤️

[@KIDZMONDAY]

Simp

[@CreativitySimplicity]

I felt 'Ikigai' was more like what the people from those select places had in common and a few general health tips. I didn't understand the Venn diagram as in reference to my own life. But I think the book in general inspired me to think about living a very long but purposeful life. It may not be because of this book alone, but before I never thought of living for 100+ years but now I think about it and have been making healthy choices. Thank you for making this video

[@namithak5742]

That book isn't just about that one diagram.. it's kind of a journey.. and it's up to readers how they are interpreting it.. for me the book has been really helpful.. So here u have given one meaning of ikigai based on your perspective.. in book authors have given their viewpoint on ikigai.. and I am pretty much sure the amount of time and effort they have taken to reach a conclusion is much more than you have taken.. no hate for u.. just a personal opinion

[@anujamohite525]

Absolutely correct

[@animatedmvs8818]

Bulls eye 🎯

[@priyanshubharti6526]

Correct

[@prahalathan28]

hello Drishti a follower from Tamil nadu, I too had this question when I listened the book ikigai from Kuku FM. But I didn't searched the answer, I felt very happy and a sense of satisfaction after watching this video. I love your style of delivering the content, although your not consistent the topic you choose will be enjoyable and makes a deeper connection towards it.

[@divya_khandelwal]

Thanks for sharing this. With all the excess information and reduced attention span, we often forget to question what data we consume. A good reminder.

[@drishtiispeaks]

Im glad that you liked the video Divya❤️

[@therainbowgirl647]

There is a saying "We should never believe a thing simply because we want to believe it". when I read Ikigai, I really wanted to believe that I found my worth in living but as time passed I questioned if it is really my Ikigai. Now I am in a stage where I don't have an Ikigai, which is fine. I have also found out that purpose and ikigai are different and complementary. Now it feels acceptable as you spoke about it otherwise I wouldn't stop questioning my morality.

[@mrunalim8251]

For me this book was worth reading, it resonated with me personally . Maybe readers can read, explore and then decide whether it was worth it or not.

[@ShwetabhSenpai]

resonated with whom?

[@drishtiispeaks]

Absolutely! Not.mocking the book in any sense. Just wanted to share the truth behind the diagram

[@Pranjal217]

@@drishtiispeaks yeah but don't make clickbait thumbnails in which you are saying don't read this

[@nojam7014]

@@drishtiispeaks not really the truth on the diagram . It's just your interpretation of the diagram

[@kumarayush7298]

:- maggie ki bezzati " 2 minute mein to maggi bhi ni banti"jabki uspe likha hota hai 2 minute noodles,😅

[@nightcoreoriginals]

Cuz 2 mins khaney main lgtey hai 🤣

[@kumarayush7298]

​@@nightcoreoriginals sahi baat hai 😂

[@BsSandhu-sr4sy]

I am currently reading this book and I got this video 😂😂

[@sidduu2626]

Is it worth reading?

[@pratyashagangopadhyay1]

Hi drishti, My vision about the diagram is something different than what you said. If I LOVE to sing and I'm not good at it I've to spend 10000 hours to master it (which is written in the ikigai sequel book) and then 1. I'll be good at it 2.I'll be paid for it 3.people will demand it more! All the things take time to master. And a lot of efforts. If you just want to live happy without doing anything great which will be labelled as a remarkable thing of this world then it's okay, but if you find happiness in mastering things you should find your "ikigai" Now it's true that the meaning of happiness differ from people to people. But the venn diagram actually helps us to make us powerful and happy instead of only happy

[@Solipsisticnerd00]

I totally agree with you

[@gaurishetye1822]

Don't listen to people on the internet. Give it a try and think for yourself. In the era of phone addiction, people need motivation to read. You might not agree with everything said in the book but you will definitely walk away with some good thoughts.

[@magicalworld9129]

Was reading the book and still not figure out my ikigai then started searching on youtube for insights and landed here...thanks 👍

[@smilewithsonal]

I don't read books but ikigai got my attention and it was the first book which i read and i started believing that the meaning of ikigai is life purpose but now i know the real meaning of ikigai so thanks to you.. I'm glad i watched this video

[@drishtiispeaks]

Im so glad you liked it🥺❤️

[@urm1n]

Couldn't find the 'Ikigai', but stumbling upon this great influencer's video was just as rewarding! By the way, I did subscribe!

[@agniveshpatankar7421]

It’s a good video. I understood. Curiosity must be there about new things. We often look at others and say that we’ve found our purpose. But finding our own purpose is our responsibility and which we should find by analyzing our journey. I liked this video. Amazing concept behind it. Keep it up ! ❤

[@jignagandhi7787]

Excellent video.. Vvwell explained

[@faizan_03]

You are a gem Thanks for making the concept easier for everyone out there

[@sambitbhakat7021]

•The red dress was matching the subject somewhere. 😅 •And my IKIGAI is to know my shelf.❤

[@anamikaparashar5564]

Finalllyy someone provided a genuine review to the book and raised the valid question. I didn't really like the book much. I believe that it has become a habit of ours to just consume whatever is in the "trend" but it's really important to raise valid questions and then learn things. Really appreciate the video! ❤

[@drishtiispeaks]

Thank you so much❤️glad you liked it

[@hydramind]

She is like source of positivity. I was felling little low due to chain of events in my life but this video feels so refreshing. Thank you so much, Drishti!!

[@ar_she]

Here comes the video which was most awaited by me..! Loved it D!

[@drishtiispeaks]

Thank you Arshi❤️🥺

[@Being_mountain]

Di plz make video on self study..... What to study in self study

[@aniketnandi6382]

I get it now . Personally I won’t go with concept clearly . But the good question would be like what makes your soul being alive and radiates it’s energy around . It’s like a discovering the essence of a flower .

[@shravanny]

Hi! I think this is just your perspective on how you comprehended the book through your reading and research and I really respect and appreciate it. But this book is not just about finding your “Ikigai” there’s much more. Summarising a book is not reading a book, what you’ve discussed is only one part of it. As a fellow reader I really appreciate your opinion on the Venn diagram, but it doesn’t mean that if it didn’t work out for you, so it won’t work for others. Just to bring to your notice there is also a follow up book by same authors called ‘The Ikigai Journey : A practical Guide to Finding Happiness and Purpose the Japanese Way’. Even though that Venn diagram didn’t work out for you there are some intriguing concepts and stories in the book. Also the book is merely not based on research but as you mentioned the authors have lived there for over a span of years and conducted over 100 interviews with the people of Ogimi. No hard feelings just wanted to get this out there.

[@ShwetabhSenpai]

Japanese name in a book does not automatically represent the Japanese way of life. If you desire a deeper understanding of Japanese philosophy, it would be more beneficial to explore the Sanatan spiritual texts.

[@ShwetabhSenpai]

Both Eastern thought encompasses a wide range of philosophical and spiritual traditions, self-help bozo focuses more specifically on personal development and improvement. which is already vague multi b dollar industry for no reason

[@krox477]

The way it is sold it's not right

[@kishand7464]

It's gud to question everything. But pls change your thumbnail, it's misleading and not everything is wrong in the Ikigai book to say "Don't read this".

[@kaizentrader.]

😮Thank you very Much Di , today i was actually trying to form my ikigai but i was unable to make it........learn to Question things.....thank you ,for sharing this REAL KNOWLEDGE

[@srishtitirkey1300]

For me Ikigai teaches us to be happy while being busy doing things that we love. It is worth a read for sure.

[@bitankumarnayak8528]

Good to ask questions as a curiousity, but people take it as a wrong.

[@Acharya_Rahul]

The Ikigai Journey (Part-2) has 35+1 Question Sheets & if you answer in the notebook seriously You'll get your Ikigai 😊

[@user-yl5zd5di1p]

don't judge a book by its summary.

[@MrVinilkrishna]

Last dialogue reveals a lot..

[@mukeshparihar3120]

Hats off . Brilliant content , aaj ikigai ka actual meaning samajh aaya. Worth a like 👍 and subscribe

[@priyabajaj2599]

I too read that book half and was stuck in this part thinking continuously if that made sense....i just read it and went to to the other pages thinking what it really want to say.... Even Warikoo sir had made a video on this diagram.....but didn't know what it actually meant. Thanks! 😊

[@bhagyashreepanda3047]

I'm currently reading this book 📖😊

[@rahulnawani4419]

I really love how you've grown as a creator, a youtuber. I remember I started following you when your Instagram had some thousand followers and your KZbin had 2-3k subs. Since then, you've shown so many shades of yours & always with both ups and downs and I love how you're always upgrading yourself as a person as a creator both ❤ Thanks for being You, no doubt you're one of my favourite creators and always come as rescue for whenever I feel low.

[@manishaabisht]

Bought this book yesterday and was waiting for your review and see you made it today 😂❤

[@BBAG268]

Omg !!! This is your own style of making videos Dii i want more videos like this using such a mind-blowing topic

[@Nikkhil492]

so i was reading ikigai and by reading some pages i felt like this book is not for me and i don't have to think so much to find my purpose or love or whatever. and m glad you made this video and indeed this is one of your best content creation. keep up Drishti

[@drishtiispeaks]

Im glad you could relate to it Nikkhil❤️

[@myselfforamtrivedi6499]

This is true, when I understood this chart I did question but never researched and also I was under impression I don't know my ikigai so I prepared it and fit in what I liked as answer to all questions, I am not saying it's not correct but the thing is ultimately what you like or love is the center. I genuinely agree with you and why and how my thoughts are spoken by you, it's amazing 😅

[@wordsbydivya]

Never thought that don't read this type wala video will be made by you. Plus at the end the thing which you said about creating your own ikigai, your own style, lifestyle is awesome. I have not read this book till now, know about this one, but definitely I am going to read this book.

[@rafiqdawoodpoto6924]

This video was one of the best videos I have ever seen... I just have no words to express my love with you Mam 💖 Keep going and I always wait eagerly for your videos 📸❤❤❤❤

[@aparna03_]

Didi, i was just reading this book a couple of days back. Honestly that venn diagram didn't make sense to me.😥 I found it absurd and hopped on to next chapters. But i never made an attempt to find out what it truly means. Thank you so much itne achche se samjhane ke liye.🙂🙏🏻 The efforts you've put into making this video is commendable.👏🏻 Lots of love❤❤❤

[@Spqrt12]

Hlo i m new to strt reading books ...can u please with what books should i start my journey of reading ....also please tell from where you can buy those books

[@rajivhumain]

@@Spqrt12 hey, I just want to request you that plz plz don't read "popular books". Ikigai, subtle art of not giving a fck etc etc. Trust me the people who read these are just senseless. I mean surface lvl ideas ko tum book me pdhrhe ho "Subah uthna hai kaam krna hai" "Negative thoughts nahi laane" Every self help book ka ye zeist hai. I would suggest ki find your taste, like main poetry books, philosophy books me interest rkhta hu. So tum koi topic choose kro usme books dhundho. This will be more beneficial rather than reading these shitty books.

[@_cheerstoyouth]

Lesson from this video 6:53 ❤ 7:18

[@drishtiispeaks]

🤝✨

[@PriyankaYadav-if1ly]

Thankyou

[@deepikabhatt21]

You always amaze me with your great content ❤ After watching this vedio I feel that it's important to fully live your present without getting worried about what next 😊

[@nilanjanadas5816]

di, i founded this video very creative, innovative and was one of the best video i had seen in your channel. i guess u improved a lot in video and communication with interactive skills. but one suggestions... please be consistent . ...

[@rvind000]

I saw a video about it before too. Thanks, you made it easy to understand.

[@SanketRoy_27]

4:54 The best part of the video ❤

[@ashutoshpatidar3288]

Video dekh ke yhi seekh mili ki aese videos abse dekhna band kr dena chahiye. Time waste hota h...or deemag m kachra or bhar jata h

[@jisha9362]

Girl your narrative way of making video is awesome ❤

[@arup_saha59]

The type of content we can get only on KZbin not Instagram... Thank you Drishti for a valuable video ❤

[@drishtiispeaks]

Glad you liked it❤️

[@drishtipandey9588]

Just amazing!!!! Loved the explanation and the presentation

[@VoxCentral]

Actually, I think 'dharma' is the real word which author wanted to convey but chose ikigai because the thought never crossed his mind. Take for example, Arjun from Mahabharata. He was devoted in his archery and had an immense liking towards it. He was paid for what he did in the war. The world needed him, and his skills.

[@YumnaRumaisa.]

Hey drishti! Please bring back the glam up project . We really need some inspo please!

[@jinsflsg]

Read ikigai few months ago.. every other day saw it falling from its place or not kept properly cuz people forgot to place it properly after reading it. The venn diagram on the cover is what made me not pick this book for the longest time. However i still decided to read and i could only take it as a light timepass kind of read and not much of something i could actually apply. Glad i came across this video and found a similar perspective on the book as well as new information

[@riya_301]

Was waiting for your video didi 🥺

[@GirishA007]

This Video Like, "Drishti ka alag Drishtikon wala video".......... Keep it up Drishti.God bless you always.

[@GearGreat]

The presentation style here... all the knowledge and your message are simply superb. Thanks for this video.

[@ranajoy05]

Hamara yaha kisi book store pa ikigai jaisi kuch nahi hai pehli baar tumara paas dekha😮

[@mangalnyk]

The best way to learn about anything is to ask more questions.

[@harmanhans3915]

Thank you for clarity because I thought that i was wrong thinking the same, sometimes wee don't want to question because it's somehow different

[@sanjayhulagur6009]

The Whole reason I want to read such books is that I want to identify a path I can take to reach my goal, I could hardly care less, if the diagram is made by someone profound or from a scam artist. when I read and apply my life {variables} on it, and it makes sense to me. I think it's worth it. My grandfather used to say there is something worth learning from everyone, even the most horrible, fraud, and clickbait persons. This is my personal view on this, I don't think it applies to most people out there.

[@HarshitKS1618]

I really enjoyed your way of explaining thing and questioning the overconfident Westerners of translating their version of eastern school of thoughts.

[@sejalkurada-1161]

According to me this book should be read at your teenage cause it's really a good book which will surely guide you about lifestyle habits in future

[@charvyr]

I am actually grateful to see this video since I had been postponing reading this book - partially cause its prologue left me thinking it would be more of an interpretation of ikigai by two foreigners and not the crux of the actual Japanese concept. However, it might still carry some worthy thoughts cause I've received mixed reviews from my friends. I just didn't further investigate my doubt and left it there but it's refreshing to find someone talk about questioning things regularly to learn more about it .. especially on a YT video (didn't see that coming!)

[@anchalsinghrajpoot2706]

lesson that i leraned is - don't be a blind follower.& build your own way to shortout things

[@rahuls7039]

I became a huge fan of your singing now. Thank You, for pointing out such intrinsic details and differences. Really liked what your actual goal for this video is.

[@harshitraj1418]

I'm just loving that each video of yours have some wow elements...also the level of detailing it has....you tshirt having japanese print for this video was a great idea ❤

[@drishtiispeaks]

❤️✨🤝🙏🏼

[@rajarshiroy8794]

Honestly, I have not watch many of your videos, but I think it's one of your most engaging and wise video.

[@drishtiispeaks]

Glad you liked it❤️

[@MaryamDua-sq6ir]

The thing is we should keep our life moderate There should be moderation in ones life !!!!

[@Tomodachi.3979]

By the way, I came to your channel through darshanasthiks and this is the first video of your channel, I have watched it completely. I glad watching video And I'm glad you cleared up my old doubts about my Ikagai book😊😊

[@dhananjaycreates3]

Totally agree with you. 1 month se maine bhi present mei rehna start kiya hai. Zindagi thodi slow ho gyi hai and very peaceful also. And the coincidence is you make this video on the topic which I'm experiencing.

[@gujjar.69]

Finish line is death, so go slow ♥️

[@chelsijain7873]

it was a whole some video with super content , superb script , and superb research 👌👌 . just amazing video we can definitely see the efforts you put in to make this beautiful with full of good content 😊👌 * the wait is really worth it *. and good things takes time .

[@DigitalGyans]

Your real creater kyunki aap hi aise influencer ho jisne ikigai ki riyal meaning batayi thanks 😊

[@mrwizard8935]

Mind is powerful, all things are Depends on your perception.

[@finaster]

I usually don't press the like button on videos but I'm giving this one cas I don't want to lose this video. I don't even comment that much but I found this video while scrolling and I am happy that I clicked it. I have many experience in this sector and I'm assured that your video is really good if the viewer has the mind to understand they will be pleased. Good Works Keep It Up and Best Of Luck

[@daminiaglawe2273]

I really love your videos and the way you present the content in such a simplified manner.....

[@yashikahemani8430]

you just fail to explain yourself ..you just said ikigai means a life worth living for which simply tells the purpose of life.

[@ramapandey2834]

Itne Dino se wait Kar rhi hu aapki video ka AAP se motivation milti h hme aur aap hi consistent nhi rhti ho Kha khoo gyi ho aap itna lazyness thik nhi please video bnao diiii🤐😐🙄

[@chaoticc_15]

Di this was amazing!❤totally loved it you're great we love you❤

[@skatingwithanay8180]

This book is just amazing 😍. but it's too difficult to find your ikgai 😢

[@sagarsharma1248]

Why?

[@hey.shivam]

7:34 didi is video se mene zindagi jeena sikha. Thanks for the great tip 🐑

[@rustinreacts]

Nice Video ❤, Btw A editing Tip ( I feel your Voice Lacks Bit "Bass" so Try to increase that while editing.)

[@deepalijoshi9038]

In my opinion, we should ask questions for curiosity and to improve our knowledge, understanding etc, but not to prove something wrong which hardly matters.

[@Untanglewithkishori1008]

Drishti you was right all the patience was worth it as I loved the video very much and I will be waiting for the next one I am actually addicted to your videos they are awesome😊😅 Next video on self control or Training your to mind to act right at perfect time please 😊😊

[@animetawoism3060]

Yarr ab mai kya hi bolu mai tu apka video sirf apko dekhne ke liye dekhta hu or sikhne ke liye bhi but you are so pretty content creator ❤❤❤

[@lakshmimanjushamaturi7766]

Got the same questions while reading but could represent it in ur way.....great job on presentation drishti ❤❤...love ur work

[@yashbhanushali965]

Nice and very informative video. I found my ikigai by reading Book that are suggested by you and Ranveer ❤