Ep 333 OBINNA part 2 EXPULSION FROM SCHOOL, FRICTION WITH DAD & CHOKORA IN NAIROBI Iko Nini Podcast

On this episode Obinna talks about his childhood and how his dad made him feel unloved. The constant beatings while his siblings were spared added to being expelled from high school made him escape home and to come to Nairobi with nowhere to stay.
He would later enroll in a community high school to sit his KCSE
He talks of how after success he tried to mend the relationship with his dad, but the childhood trauma has made that impossible.
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[@PortefolioAfrica]

Obinna should write his story as a biography or autobiography. Sounds like an awesome set book that has so many themes!😮

[@lionelochola9369]

Absolutely

[@stephenondele8149]

I have never missed any material ya Oga nimefika huku sasa alaf nirudi obinna TV live. Obinna is a legend

[@Muenigift]

@@stephenondele8149 same here

[@jacklinemenagi5047]

After listening to this interview wee watu hutoka mbali 😢 OGA ishi poa sasa it is your time to shine.

[@SollyjumaKennedy]

It is amazing how Obinna managed to narrate such a sad story without getting emotional.

[@auntiemylee3157]

When u are healed no moo cry🎉🎉🎉

[@christineshalom9575]

He is a man only ladies cry anyhow

[@IamWhoYouSayIam]

If you really went through it, you can’t be emotional telling it. You’re drained. Emotionally

[@musicislife2910]

Hii interview inanipea tu hasira.... these African parents did us bad manze.

[@winskitchen.602]

Too bad

[@shironjoroge2848]

Obinna should write a book/biography about his life. He's such a good story teller and a great memory! I am enjoying this interview.

[@EuniceMmbone-m2t]

It is apparent that Obinna was a leader from a tender age but lacked proper mentorship. He was highly gifted and is resilient. It is a good thing that he can comfortably talk about his past and pain. Very few people can be candid about this. He needs to seek therapy to deal with the traumas he harbours. So far so good. He has really tried given his circumstances.

[@johnmasuswa]

Oga took over the show This guy is really talented

[@lukesmith3172]

Who..hii ni story..you would never know obina life has been this rough…God has Really come thru..

[@esthermbute2154]

Obinna's story has really touched me. God has seen you through for sure. Keep souring. Mambo ya mungu imekufikisha hapa

[@sara_keens]

it's my first time here ..i just saw oga obinna and had to pull up😊😊

[@alavenderachieng4369]

I now understand why Obinna works soo hard....this guy doesn't sleep

[@ellyelly8925]

Obinna is a story teller and a half........sijawai cheka hivyo😂😂😂

[@joshdaphine8850]

Talking about it is the 1st step to healing journey.

[@samuelwamwere4867]

Obinna, I feel you. Now I know why I like your content. Most of us have childhood trauma of our parents.

[@everlynekayesi5510]

Parenting is hard, it doesn't have a manual aki God atusaidie tulee watoto wetu kwa njia nzuri

[@LegacyTvWW]

This is one for the books, wueh....dude can really tell stories for dayzzzzzzzz

[@blessleeofficial]

This is a male version of my story n the reason I hv bin following obinna cz I can much relate on his life story but the difference is the ho issue cm from my mum n my dad n I were the best friends but most of times he ws at work couldn't defend me ooooh wat a life.

[@hadijaduba9967]

This is me growing up.i am 34 years, married but still it happens . so I decide to accept, give them space and find happiness with my hubby and kids

[@DonKhalifah]

Akam?

[@kemboichesimet1810]

The guest is emotional but resilient

[@Yoteyawezekana]

Despite what he said about his sister he really loves her. Hence the name Oga

[@rollandsfadamullah6283]

Eeiy Obina hii story ni Kama movie, amazing story teller and your life is an inspiration, wish you all the best.

[@miakomararo5343]

Obinna is a complete artist. Hands down.

[@graceamadi1096]

Pole sana obinna for passing through rejection coz i also passed through it with my late mum i struggled through forgiveness but at the end i succeded. I made peace with her just a few months before she passed on.

[@Carol_Gathii]

Obinna is not good with dates but it is evident he valued his relationship with God because he can remember he was baptized 16 November 2003.

[@geegean2894]

Man I feel obinna I am the first born child and the beating I got from my dad in the wrong or right made me feel like mayb I crashed he's life dreams or he hates me and since he couldn't beat my mum he took all he's frustration on me😢sai am a grown up with messed up mental issues but it's nice to know I'm not the only one with this kinds of pains😊

[@sundaykajwang]

How about Obina does content in the former principal's voice?He brought it out so well.

[@miriamwanjiku6963]

Am here cause of Obinna....wish dem Wa FB was here

[@TheGuruKe]

Huyu jamaa can narrate stories bana and imitate too🤣🤣

[@okelloc]

Those who grew up in Kisumu in the 1990s remember Kimwa Grand Hotel. I relate.

[@HM-sv6zr]

Bado kimwa hotel iko?

[@bonfacewachira3297]

I thank God for having good parents ... glory b to God

[@MelanatedQueen254]

Obinna, I affirm you and your vulnerability. Thank you for what you are doing for Kenyan men and their mental health spaces. And your encouragement to those who have been through similar childhood trauma. Thank you for being a better father to your children than what was shown to you as a child. GOD is on your side AND HE is your father. Listening to you helps me understand why GOD is showcasing you in this season of your life! Talking is part of healing. Stay well bro.

[@HM-sv6zr]

Why does God let u suffer for so long before he saves you?? Is he a narcissist..especially allowing young kids to suffer unnecessarily...

[@issaali51]

After Listening to Obinna's Story, I feel like His Dad wasn't His real Dad. Amuulize vizuri.

[@Yoteyawezekana]

You'll be surprised he probably looks like his dad hence the dad's distaste for him. Like poles

[@joshdaphine8850]

He supriseed him with a car six yrs ago

[@branicenjaya709]

@@joshdaphine8850 He did again this year on father's day.

[@Sweetsue689]

He's narcissistic...nothing more or less.

[@Janice-sd7hl]

Find peace within yr heart ad forgive him. Yu need to move with yr life. Yu are accomplished yet young adorable dad. Our prince obbi Yu know we love Yu dearly, thx for opening up, more grace.

[@Motangi_Mkisii1]

Wow bro you deserve all the best things in life.👊🏿👊🏿

[@wiztheking001]

Best iko nini episode by far🔥

[@nzule]

And to think he went on to do so well for himself regardless and to be a good dad to his kids instead of replicating the abuse. I'm so proud of him aki hata kama simjui

[@MrKailicha]

Wawawa this was exactly kaa Bobby only that for Obinna siblings were involved!

[@lionelochola9369]

Hope you've healed so sad and traumatizing experience you went through

[@kemboichesimet1810]

Obinna, you’re never alone. We cry and affirm your life stories

[@sharleengicheha8769]

😢 Wueeh I remember nikipewa mangumi na my dad, there was a time alinichapa and I rolled down the stairs, I pretended to be dead. Hakuwai ni shika tena. This is how you raise women who tolerate domestic abuse. Na pia sisi tulikuwa the same religion na Obinna, hii episode nayo imenitrigger 😢😢😢😢

[@edewaiteric8934]

🤣

[@cestmoitout]

pole

[@bonfacewachira3297]

Are you gaslighting or something

[@cestmoitout]

@@bonfacewachira3297I am not sure you know what gaslighting is

[@PortefolioAfrica]

​@@cestmoitout he doesn't

[@johnmuia6709]

Mukurugenzi amepata compe hapa 😂

[@kinyanjui264]

Na ule boys wake wa cabbage 😂

[@naomimwende5194]

Iykyk 😂😂😂😂

[@heldaojuang4506]

Your story has taken me back in high school. Mr . Omenda was Ebusakami high was a snitch😅. Your siz was a good actor too.

[@pandikiziempire]

Yoooh! Obinna is a legend man... Top man. You deserve everything good that comes your way man👊

[@ismailowino2866]

Aaah,me our dad used to whoop us like nonsense,but tuko tu sawa manze😂😂😂

[@DolphinIminza]

Aky obinna wakiowana na dem wa Facebook hiyo nyumba itakuwa kila.sku nikuchrka❤❤❤😂😂😂

[@ronnieokello2580]

Ni99@ is a really good story teller. Good stuff

[@cestmoitout]

Obinna has conquered a lot. wa! Any new parents better pick up lessons on how to do better

[@Orangemanp]

Sounds like obina had it easy. My dad died 28 yrs ago, but I feel he was taken early to escape my wrath...

[@howt-to]

Damn !

[@Thgn-yt3ep]

That's pure raw emotion 😂😂 I hope you are okay now

[@aestheticvibezonly1559]

😢

[@Muenigift]

😂😂

[@theoneandonly4718]

Eeeh if this is what you call"having easy" am curious to know what your Story is like.. Huggggs

[@annegachina8504]

@Mwaf I recall you bashed some clips from LNN on toxic parents. It's real and Oga has brought it to Iko Nini. It's okay to block toxic family members. Again,people are becoming more aware and bold about what is healthy or not.

[@Mwafreeka]

We talk about toxic parents many times. You must have misunderstood whatever I said coz we have millions of stories about toxic parents

[@annegachina8504]

@@Mwafreeka I stand corrected. Show ilikua lit

[@kelvingachina]

Kwani wewe ni wetu,ama Mimi ni wenu?

[@kelvingachina]

I thought am the only one called gachina

[@annegachina8504]

@@kelvingachina Ama sisi ni wao

[@franciskanyoi9541]

Wah...yani Obinnah you pitiad all this! I am hearing this for the 1st tym, God anakupenda...baraka tele

[@Wanairobi]

46:19 Obinna took me back to my high school drama festival days

[@Shii1990]

Daaaamn, as a parent with small kids, av learnt alot about parenting. Lord may i not scar my kids

[@IvyChepkorir-d6l]

So sad story ...but it's worth listening...happy he now has a good heart to listen and help

[@jessesanare2614]

Most of us have this childhood trauma of our parents treating us like shit. Opening about it doesn’t help. Buying them houses and cars doesn’t either. Them admitting their mistake and apologizing for mistreating you is the only thing that would help. But they’ll never do that, and will carry it to their grave!

[@josephinenjoki3640]

They never admit

[@janeoloo5086]

True some get jealous of the child's progress and the ones they loved ends up perishing in poverty and suffering 😢

[@lilianjalemba8954]

Parents will never admit , that they have wrong, a child .

[@jessesanare2614]

@@josephinenjoki3640 Dawa yao ni kulia uko broke. And raise your kids differently.

[@jessesanare2614]

@@janeoloo5086 while some love that who have money.

[@Sheilashishi]

I went the same thing in my aunt's care until i dropped out of school to get married and marriage was an hell till now.... hopping one day God will bless me

[@williammwangi6623]

Listening to Obinna i saw my childhood cause my dad was the same mark you im the firstborn,until today we are not in good terms.i live with the trauma untill today.

[@Janice-sd7hl]

Pole William, make sure Yu visit family counselor. Heal first Yu come first. Jipende kwanza

[@chumadoshi6987]

ENVY AND JEALOUSY, TWO QUALITIES THAT WERE INVENTED AND PERFECTED BY THE LUOS 😂

[@bustrumondu6537]

We need a movie on the life and times of this baddie😂

[@amosodhiambo5605]

one of the best episodes... #ikoniniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii ,,mwaf,,iko ninnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

[@texasviper2042]

Obinna every 2 mins: dadadadadaaaaaa!!!

[@leahgakuo2890]

I love listening to obina,i can listen to him for a whole week straight kwani iko nini! ❤❤❤❤

[@ritasaisi959]

Obinna story is touching weeee

[@dalphineatembekwa9381]

obinna is a story teller... such a painful story 😢😢obinna but atleast you proved your dad wrong.. he can't take your success in real life... bravo....

[@stephenmwangi3084]

Steve’s are the choosen one see now where obina is

[@churchilldemba1059]

Yoh people have a story. Before you type insulting these celebrities sometimes it's good to know their journey. Obinna I give you respect ❤. Thanks mwaff for such an amazing interview

[@nyashmdogo2192]

OBZ. Very interesting. Good job guyz. Was worth watching. All the best. OBZ baana fikiria sasa vile unaeza anza kutoa mamovie kali kali coz its seems you are multi-talented.

[@fanicewanyama2280]

Obinna you're doing a tremendous job,yenye wanaume wengi wamwshindwa!like mine kitoka 2008 to date ave not seen him coming to see his kids,now am struggling my aon ako form 4an the sec one Ako junior sec

[@REVProductions.333]

Such a actor bro 👊👊👊 Comedy in the show 💥💥💥💥💥 I really laughed

[@Kariminjagi07]

Obinna is a good storyteller 😅hapo kwa 500 I wanna take this opportunity to thank me,I wanna thank mama,I wanna thank God got my ribs aching😂😂😂😂

[@eunicewachuka8439]

Obinna,sorry ,is your Father still alive,there needs a great reconciliation,this is too painful and the why! Sorry for your father wounds, i hope you find love and peace to overcome this pain.

[@fatihammboga]

Bring diana b..its like she has story for his dad.

[@winnieamanya665]

I never got bored when listening to bina😅😅😅

[@donobi77]

Yoh mwaf this is dope man Obina is him✊✊

[@iankaranja4309]

Bring Calvin from the mics are open sometime would be a dope episode.

[@kemboichesimet1810]

BEST HOST AND LISTENER.

[@irineougo2677]

Our luo fathers at that time were very very hard on the male child. The females sisi tulipendwa Ile excess that's why most luo women have confidence huwezi explain. Our luo men 30+ years were always left to fight for themselves, they grew tough skin and always fighting for themselves. Luo men are always brought up tough that's why they are fighting for themselves

[@bonfacewachira3297]

You think girl child is loved in Luo land,try visit Mount Kenya na msichana akue named after the man's mum ..mtalala njaa n she be bought chips kuku...I don't know why it's our culture even men fond pride in their mother's Name ..case example is Uhuru ..he is fond of people calling him ..WANGINA😂

[@irineougo2677]

@@bonfacewachira3297 yes it happens in our place as well sijui kwann boychild huangaishwa hivyo coz my dad was so hard on my brother

[@kelvingachina]

​@@irineougo2677because father are there for their sons to harden them, mother's to soften them,so a man have masculinity and intuition to be gentle to women, father to daughter the accountability through the way she see her provide to the mother, protection and that makes her to be responsible, mother's to daughter help her to gain respect,love and caring which brings feminine in her.

[@kelvingachina]

​@@bonfacewachira3297because Kikuyu comes from daughters of mumbi and clans are named after them,also people including women loves their sons for continuity of culture.

[@winnykerubo254]

hii longi ya obina nataka plug ya boyfriend wangu hahaha imefanya nisikize the whole story

[@kinyanjui264]

Mimi i don't care about family. Ukidedi nitajua within hours. Usiwahi shughulika na mtu atakufa aoze siku moja

[@harrietbosibori]

This was therapy session for obinna. 😂😂😂😂the 500/-karibu Nairobi,Iko Nini!. Eii,hiyo narrative 🎉

[@silviangari3291]

Flip it this way...my case was the opposite was obinna's..my dad was my spokesman when i was always found on the wrong ...manze mathe alikua fire na beating ...na markk you I'm the 1st born ...above all she was neither toxic nor torture...

[@benso-tx9yp]

Big up crew and Obinna story telling ya oga ni fyam show 🔥

[@bazubazenga]

Similar with my dad that guy used to beat me from 2years even contributing to loss of my memory ………alafu alikuwa mama boys he got green card and he disappeared all over sudden selling assets from land from Githurai to Ruai and then he just popped up recently when I struggled university mbaka nikamaliza

[@isaackiiru5364]

Ii story haijafikia Mkuru aichoche zaidi

[@deejayruby_]

THE ONLY BAD THING ABOUT THIS INTERVIEW IS.......... IMEISHA. OGA OBINNA YAWA PROPS TO YOU ARUDI TEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEENA

[@IkoNini]

Kesho part 3 😁

[@galaxyqwer7438]

​@@IkoNinikeep good work ❤

[@alexngige2929]

The story is lit bt prt 3 iko wapi

[@maina_mwangih]

Obiina the story teller 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏽

[@judith-ed7kq]

Mr Lenny Diana b also speak about her dad

[@kevogngesa6772]

have enjoyed this,Obinna is such a storyteller

[@andrewmutyango6915]

Hiyo kiti ilikuwa inaitwa butter fly. Anyway.. Life.. Mungu halali.. Look at him now.

[@SusanNjeri-i7n]

Leo umeamua kusema majina zako Mr steve maghana😂😂

[@evansnyamai2611]

This story is sad but they way Obinna is packaging it looks like a comedy 😂😂😂 Mwaf badala ushangae unacheka pia 😂

[@vaniceobino4760]

Here for the love of Obinna

[@RyanMutua-d1d]

obinna is excellent in whatever he does . Salute G

[@austineomondi1271]

Your story resembles mine but for me I was an orphan so I thought I was being treated as an outsider but I can feel ur pain 😢

[@rodgersmuvua4125]

Manze Obinna amekapitia. Much respect.

[@charlestrayville3596]

I respect this guy more now that I know his story

[@soifarm5783]

7:58 ..hapa ndio Mwaf ulitaka ku burst into laughter 😂😂

[@Mudis62]

Seems tuko wengi tumepitia hell and we're here.

[@brianodongo4816]

Walahi Obinna amecopy sauti ya huyo princi wa Chulaimbo na amepaint a perfect picture venye alikuwa anavaa ma stude

[@austineomondi1271]

Haha huyu principal was no joke 🤣🤣 the guy could boxed you