Im Tired of Your Emotions Messing Up The Game

[@toyatalksradio]

When you feel emotional, go to the gym!

[@diva7141]

I do that😉

[@kylarush]

Great advice. Also working out helps the body secrete hormones that make you feel good

[@ggteew]

Great Advice

[@larenl3212]

When he cheats on you , go to the gym. Don't shout, don't leave him . just go to the gym. Wow. Dumbest thing I've ever heard

[@brittanys505]

@@larenl3212 who tf said anything about cheating?!you need to stop hating and if you actually think is wrong then upload videos, teach instead of shame!

[@marthadivine8426]

Controlling your emotions definitely takes effort.

[@1977Playmate]

@MarthaDivine Controlling your emotions can get you further in other areas as well. Nobody has any time for the histrionics!

[@marthadivine8426]

@@1977Playmate Your absolutely right.

[@astoldbymuriel103]

Martha Divine. I have learned to give my self 38-72hrs before reacting IN FRONT of the object of my aggression. You can be emotional just not in public...

[@1977Playmate]

@@astoldbymuriel103 I like the idea of 38 - 72 hrs before allowing a shown reaction. How did you get there? Sometimes holding in an expression or pain can be as hard as holding in a laugh when being tickled. I'm thinking of trying grey rock in order to hide facial expression. Narcissists can get fuel off of something as small as a facial expression. Grey rock is the blank stare. It's even less expression than resting bitch face. I'm interested in how your technique works.

[@astoldbymuriel103]

@@1977Playmate it was supposed to say 48 😂. But I had to learn the hard way. Said a few gut punching things to an ex and he never got over them. I felt bad afterwards bc even after the incident and my wrath I still planned on being with him. What I realized is men can wound us emotionally but they are BABIES and can not deal with it in return. He NEVER got past what I said to him.

[@MKSpeakz]

“Don’t try to lower women’s standards because you can’t reach them” 💯

[@lc-il6wr]

I dont believe in even kissing before marriage in a perfect world.

[@oliviaallen4944]

My dad is a 44yrold dusty still using woman for money & he used my pick me mom when they were married. Had 3 kids behind her back with 2 different woman. They were a perfect example of what I don't want in life. They got a divorce 3 years ago. My mom is back with a dusty. My dad recently asked for some money and I said no... yeah you my dad but I dont support the dusty tribe 😅🤷🏽‍♀️ get a job. I'm 20 & its crazy how my mom & many of my older friends continue to give themselves away for free & continue to get used.

[@oliviaallen4944]

@Chantelslifestyle yess girl! 💯💕 a man with no ambition is a waste of time and energy

[@oliviaallen4944]

@@GeorginaJett thank you so much ❤ I will keep that in mind

[@anthonycruz1064]

"Fuck that get ya hoe on girl" By the way... How much for some head? I got $40.

[@oliviaallen4944]

@@luxuryqueen42 he is a dj at a club. He works on weekends.

[@oliviaallen4944]

@@luxuryqueen42 sometimes its every other week or once a month. It's off and on

[@universe.trippin]

​I have definitely watched her videos in order to keep my mouth closed. lol

[@DP-oi9nd]

yes she is my reminder of how to control my witch bitch attitude

[@universe.trippin]

@@menlolotololo4901 you too, love!

[@Thelifeofgisel]

Same

[@CS-pl1re]

It's hard 😭😂

[@user-lb5ph5ke7d]

The same

[@tiffanywalker1312]

Shera's fake evil laugh gets me everytime!! i love it, but men in they feelings cuz she right. im over here levelling up bout to buy me a wig and go to rich town and run errands

[@bklyn2miami553]

Tiffany Walker Go Tiffany!!!!

[@JenreJohna]

Tiffany Walker Lmao

[@brennaceja]

Yass girl..

[@lc-il6wr]

U can leave the wig alone..

[@AbiYHWH]

I agree : " People that HATE , HATE THEMSELVES. " Haters are jealous fans on the low. 😆

[@ciarajones2568]

They don't even know it

[@MyWorld-xw6ic]

Shera that’s what I have been doing. I was a Picmischa and my husband cheated. Well I have flipped the script and been following your advice. Now I’m shopping daily talking to him less and now he’s chasing me! I’m leveling up! Thank you. #Texas

[@YiriUbic3793]

I am glad for you sis I hope you don't fall back, keep your boundaries and from now on you keep him always chasing you

[@shenaelegrand1413]

Weeeerk🌟👑💫

[@anastasiam1797]

Inspirational 😍💫💫

[@Luxiouriousprettyme]

@@YiriUbic3793 or leave for a better man

[@lunatarot5817]

@@Luxiouriousprettyme there’s no better, they all trash and will all cheat

[@LateshaRenee]

People today are overly emotional. Gotta master your emotions, have balance.

[@TexasGirl-Z71]

I needed this so bad tonight.No one else could capture my attention for hours at a time but I love spending nights listening to the best damn advice ever.You are the best,thank you.

[@honeehaye9399]

So you got different level up groups?? How do you know which one I belong to? I just messaged Dee I wanna Join awaiting her response 🙌🏽

[@1renee111]

Melisa Erlanson True That!!! The tools to get that gold!!!

[@NYCBJP]

Yes picking the right target is so important and sometimes that means purposing overlooking the cute guys and looking at the billionaire nerds 🤓

[@user-qr7eb1sf3l]

B P i never care about that naturally, I always look at what they can do for me. For a long time I thought it was wrong but I’m glad never start relationships based on feelings.

[@haitiangal1361]

A 1 I’m the same way. Plus from my experience the best boyfriend I had was the ugliest, no offense to him though.

[@brittanys505]

@@haitiangal1361 Honestly same! The cutest guy I was with was damn weird he was so shady!!!!

[@larenl3212]

Your a dusty to that billinonare.

[@brittanys505]

@@larenl3212 lmao do you even know what a dusty is?

[@LuxxyLucia]

If you cannot control your emotions, you will not succeed in this game. If you cannot master your own emotions and stay focused....than you are not ready. Work on yourself first🦋

[@schnioula]

Sassy Vegan Yes, in life generally! Emotions never serve you! 🤷‍♀️

[@LuxxyLucia]

@@schnioula Exactly! Exactly! Emotions cloud your abilities to be able to think things through, your ability to be able to strategize.

[@LuxxyLucia]

@@luxuryqueen42 It's a learning process that we ALL had to do. Society, men, narcissist thrive on draining you of your emotions. When you learn to master yourself, you have the power. Get your $$$$$$$ girl. That's pretty much all they're worth. Remember...YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT THEM.

[@DJ-ij2sy]

Let's face it men are a job the only reason one should get emotional is if you didn't get payed for the job done...

[@Luxiouriousprettyme]

@@luxuryqueen42 and guess what the more i watch her the more i feel that my emotions are now gone

[@missautumn1280]

I'm a 25 year old college student and just found your channel! No one has taught me these things.. things a mom should teach her daughter. You are saving lives!!! I need a consultation ASAP Ms. Shera💕 I'm taking notes📝

[@StarGoddess_516]

Same story...Just now learning in my late 20's

[@Animeubssed]

@@StarGoddess_516 Me 3! I wish I found her much earlier could’ve saved myself a lot of time, emotions and money 😭

[@Candikanelane]

I have seen the power struggle in 50/50 when men know women earn more time and time again. I have also tested the power of leveling up with makeup, confidence and feminine ways. I am convinced you are the truth. ❤

[@Candikanelane]

@Sky Dream Exactly. Just do your job and you will have nothing to worry about.

[@zoratwofacecat9540]

Watching my parents do 50/50 is so damn depressing that a lesson for my own damn eyes i dont need to live it seeing it is enough

[@wendycross114]

"Back up. Give him some space and let him miss you." So good! Sometimes, it is hard, but I just get myself busy doing things I enjoy that are all about my interests. Also, if I seriously feel like I am about to lose my emotions with him, I grab a pen and a journal and release it there instead. lol

[@osml2.0]

this is so hard especially when your partner is supposed to be a support to you

[@asecretchannel4135]

@@osml2.0 You are so freaking right. Honestly though, keeping your emotions to yourself is key when you’re just focused on achieving a specific goal in the relationship. Specifically with a partner who you know you can’t be totally vulnerable with, but they benefit you in other ways. When you finally find an emotionally-intelligent and -healthy partner, it’s definitely natural and safer to talk through emotions together.

[@olympiastargazer4469]

Update since my last post I went from a size 26 to a size 16. I look so good. Anyhow, my husband is still paying all my bills and crying and boohooing everyday and every night that he loves me. I ain’t mad baby! How much you love me?? Where the money 💴 at? But I’ll be a woman a take responsibility for what I did wrong. I should have never let my self go! I should have faced my problems with my husband instead of eating my problems away and falling into a depression. I manipulate the relationship and his 💰 is my money 💰! Now I’m leveling up on his money 💰, oh no wait, my money 💰!! Hahahah Less emotional and in control I’m beautiful and I’m so happy he had the affair, why? That shit woke me the hell up! And since August, I’ve been looking better and better every day. I’m 43 yrs old and I have men mouth dropping eve where I go. Like Ashera said Turn a bad situation into a beneficial situation!!! That’s what Alchemist do!!! Love you Ashera 💋❤️ You truly are a GODDESS

[@claudiaenlightened3672]

Ooo can you please do a vid on how to secure ourselves LEGALLY before we get married such as getting life insurances and deeds etc. I’m 20 and my parents never married. I need this lesson.

[@ceeceeobh2707]

Claudia woah im 21 and l need this

[@NyrishaThaA1singer]

Claudia okayyyyy im with you on that.

[@JenreJohna]

Claudia Great Idea!

[@kawaiisakura23]

Claudia yessss this!

[@coldblooded568]

Google. Lmao wtf

[@taurusdiva7491]

I'm very emotional. I'm tired of it. Tomorrow is a new day, time to switch this shit up for a change.

[@charlita25]

Their eye 👁️ is gonna wonder anyway. Doesn't matter if you're in control 🛂 or not 🚫

[@atsilayona]

I love how Shera clown the dusties! It's a very feminine thing for men to be on a woman's channel arguing about her life and what she has. Go be a man and focus on not being broke man.

[@ChiChichiwe01]

@Adarose exactly

[@a_la_drinah]

Lol 😂

[@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358]

It’s not “feminine” for these dusties to argue, it’s anti-masculine. Real femininity is not arguing, it’s prospering and ignoring haters. Let’s not put other women down, being masculine isn’t better and it’s not the default.

[@sophiatrabelsi1000]

You won

[@stepscoun48]

I tried and I don't want to be a 'Pick Me' anymore. I need a man to put some money in my pocket and a smile on my face. Where do I sign up!!!

[@socialite8218]

“You want to see young men turn on the 📺.” 😂

[@come_on_barbie_123]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@FRANNYLS]

"we don't fear the most high, we fear the most low" 🤣 I fell out!

[@loveself6396]

My SD Gave me a nice amount of cash and I just started crying! I can’t help my emotions!! Thank you so much again. I’m donating next live . You saved my life!

[@endiakirstie3884]

Shera saved my life as well, sis.

[@haitiangal1361]

Nicole Nicole She really did save my life as well. You know you’re making progress when your exes notice, family, and even my friends are saying I’m different now. If it wasn’t for this channel I think I would’ve still been playing Ms. Save A Dusty. Lmao, let me stop typing before I cry. You see I still need to work on my emotions 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@princessquarcoo8237]

@@luxuryqueen42 hahahaa,emotions

[@mimihappy4563]

Aww this is so cute ❤️

[@LilithTheAquarian369]

Awww I’m so happy for you!😘😘😘😘

[@Andromeda_M31]

I found a new place to freestyle. I had to get a necklace fixed at a jewelry store that fixes high end watches, there's a lot of waiting around and opportunities to talk to rich men. Go after work hours or lunch.

[@SheRaSeven1]

Andromeda good spot !!! Thanks for sharing it !❤️🙏🏽

[@kristenmoonrise]

Oh, nice! 😉

[@bklyn2miami553]

Andromeda thank you!!

[@rainae5036]

Andromeda Lmao strangely enough that’s where I met my boyfriend😂

[@Andromeda_M31]

@@rainae5036 That's great!

[@amberjones5990]

I listen to this video every time I feel like I’m getting too emotional. Thank you Shera. You help to keep my mental state in check ❤️

[@ellaluvs21suarez32]

this is so true.women need to stop being emotional for the wrong guy who mistreat them. FACTS✍️

[@IamKarryanne]

I IGNORE society 🗣🗣

[@schnioula]

Softfire PUSH!!!

[@Maya-xm5jx]

YAS

[@ciarajones2568]

💯💯💯

[@havegrace9111]

Even being married a long time you've gotta keep your emotions in check! Shes so right. Lemme tell ya I am learning my lesson. Thank you shera ox 😉

[@user-qr7eb1sf3l]

# gorgeousmomma611 I don’t understand women who see their partner as their best friend. I have real female best friends. My man isn’t someone I consider a friend.

[@havegrace9111]

@@user-qr7eb1sf3l I never knew this until I started watching shera. But hey better late than never. But than again my husband always liked more than I like him, and I'm younger and more attractive to him. But I need to keep feelings in check when he piss me off.

[@havegrace9111]

@Diamon. exactly! That is also what therapy is for too. Retail therapy helps as well 😂

[@Aquariuswonder86]

Diamon. What if you don’t have friends or close family to confide in?

[@aslaglexox]

I'm a cancer and it was very difficult for me to keep my emotions at home like you said, it ruined many of my relationships with men. They simply don't like it and will run every time. "Oh well get another one" 😂😂🤣 I've learned so much from you in the last 3 or 4 years so thank you Ashera you rock girl!❤️

[@Glamyougirl17]

Alyssa Slagle it’s crazy though. Why don’t they like it?

[@miss.britt_]

Alyssa Slagle lol I’m a cancer too smh can be a gift or a cursr

[@virgorisingtheory]

@@irinaivanovic9792 Ik this comment is 3 years old and by now hopefully you've got the hang of it. Cuz it's funny, I'm a Taurus sun with a whole damn Cancer moon and I have 0 problems with emotional control. Emotional control is a choice. Nothing to do with a zodiac sign. Even tho us Tauruses are usually known for our stoicism and practical nature which is the complete opposite of what you said. It takes self awareness and being good at tuning people out and only focusing on the results/outcome of a situation rather than what's currently going on and taking it personally.

[@Frugal637]

Sociopaths and narcissists can hold emotions all the time not normal people

[@stacieinch6305]

This girl is on point, always cheers me up and given me so much inspiration to become a life coach/ relationship therapist.... I start my course in September being a new mum.... she's given me real positive vibes! Sprinkle Sprinkle! xxx

[@princessquarcoo8237]

Go girl!

[@MsCupcake39]

Absolutely loved what u said about what a man does!!!NOT how he looks! The little things. He goes out and gets me Starbucks in the morning just because ❤️

[@abbydoll]

Men are salty when they can't provide. You have one job, get it right.💯💯

[@ladybug3380]

Literally one job!!

[@booxxx2759]

I need to learn how to control my emotions to

[@lilbabytears]

I need this video so much. Although my sugar daddy IS my boyfriend (I consider myself a spoiled girlfriend more than a sugar baby). He pays every bill, gives me money, college, houses me, feeds me and bought me a ring, put me in his will, and has 2 houses, one that is assigned to me when he passes and so much more, the list could go on. But my only issue is that I cant ever stay out of my feelings long enough. We have a trust issue thing and thats where a lot of the emotion and drama comes from. He always thinks I’m stepping outside the relationship and I think the same of him too. The ironic thing is that we are literally together every single day unless hes at work and I’m running errands. I notice that when I disconnect and focus more on my schooling or being busy hes kinder to me and wants my attention. Im pretty sure hes a narcissist by now though, the signs have been there. Our relationship isnt the healthiest but I really do benefit from being with him so thats why I can utilize this video. I really need to turn the drama off. Its so damn hard. Hes a scorpio I’m a leo. And I’m 22, hes 55. So the drama and bullsh*t is high between us. Hahah anyway. Love this video ❤️

[@melliGumsl]

lil baby tears hello beautiful! can I ask you how did you get to know each other? I can tell some older guys notice me but I don’t know what to do with it because I’m very shy and introverted :P sending you love and hoping you can switch off them emotions for good 💕

[@starrjohnson1327]

I'm dating a scorpio who takes me shopping every time we meet. No sex yet because he talks about it too much. He's jealous but not enough to pay my bills yet lol

[@stonievonne2982]

I love this channel and all your advice shera ! I’m 24 & I made a status on Facebook about how you said “don’t make his plate if he isn’t paying all the bills or your just a maid” girl PEOPLE was flipping out and it made me want to start my own channel to be a leading example for girls my age ! Thank you for being so inspiring boo ❤️

[@taters2883]

Do it! Tell these women how to do it. These men out here thinking they can get freebe's with no work!

[@stonievonne2982]

I am boo ! That’s exactly why I am because the social norm is for men to get sex and anything they can from women but it isn’t a social norm for women to be taken care of, no mam ! Ima put some hypergamy vibes out there !

[@LilithTheAquarian369]

Omg all I post is How to avoid being a pick me on my FB, and I get “what’s wrong with you” “do you hate men” “you’re a gold digger” “so you want to sit in the house all day” “you want a man to take care of you”. It’s a damn shame! They just don’t get it because their masculine asses are so Emotional and I KNOW they feel dumb after my post because they realized they’ve been had by a dusty! 😩

[@larenl3212]

@@stonievonne2982 Meanwhile , Mrs. Curry is being the wife and her man ain't thinking about you while your black ass is single telling other dusty women like yourself how to get a man that you don't even have your damn self. Lady if you don't go sit your dust down somewhere.

[@benryl]

Marshmillow Millow excuse you!!! There are a lot of dusty people in relationships. High caliber women would rather be single than be in a relationship with a dusty just to say she got a man. 😂 bitches be trippin

[@DP-oi9nd]

Im a loner too but a popular loner if that makes sense

[@princessquarcoo8237]

People always call.me a 'lone wolf',I just don't want anyone messing my energy

[@princessquarcoo8237]

People always call me a 'lone wolf',I just don't want anyone messing my energy

[@mimihappy4563]

Deja Pointer me too lol

[@DP-oi9nd]

@@princessquarcoo8237 yes im sure its sacred :)

[@Honeyiroseupfromthedead]

"no repeating things that do not work" 💯

[@vibingchakras]

Had an epiphany last night after watching this video. Realized every male in my life since childhood has been toxic & abusive. Every one. No exceptions. No love there for us ladies. Can't even trust my own father 💯 Self love brings TREMENDOUS HEALING 🔑💖🔑 A husband who can provide is a requirement! 💰💰💰 ladies 💛💚💙💜💖 🏆 YOU ARE THE PRIZE & the light of this world!🌞 Eternal Hugs & kisses 😻💅💋

[@atlfun08]

Call them the wrong name all the time...like your not paying too much attention to them. Lol. Love it!

[@CS-pl1re]

Isn't this bad for the bag??? 😂😂😂😭

[@candysade]

This is sophisticating my game, iron sharpens iron.

[@DJ-ij2sy]

The lesson here is dont trip on your thought keep going. Emotions are not are thoughts.

[@olympiastargazer4469]

ALWAYS love yourself 1st! I've been in a very abusive relationship for 20 years up until this past Monday. I allowed myself to live a horrible life and I let myself go really bad. I technically left my mam 3 years ago I just didn't move out. But I stopped interacting with him. He was cruel! So, on Monday found out he's been having an affair. I got super emotional and through him out but I'm a stay at home mom for the past2 years. He promised to take care of me and our 2 girls 14 and 4 years old. I lost 10 pounds since Monday. Now it's time to level-up and get the 💰. After a failed marriage of 20 years, I've learned my lesson to ALWAYS love myself 1st and look and be my best! Thank you Shera for everything you do. Even tho he treated me like trash, the seperation hurts. My 4 year old is suffering. You help me so much! Olympia StarGazer ⭐

[@lindsey9460]

i am actually a college student,but Shera is my best professor so far.

[@candyc313]

I'm a water sign too 🦂🦂🦂 our emotions run deep and are not on the surface. Never let em see you sweat.

[@julie93able]

Scorpio moons are messed up😂

[@mimihappy4563]

Scorpios are great with that 👍🏽. Y’all crazy 😜 but that’s a great trait.

[@LilithTheAquarian369]

Scorpios Emotions be in the Halls if Amenti! My hubby of 21 years is one and my Granny was one (RIP) and she was my rock, but don’t get on her bad side. She was the Queen Of revenge! 😈

[@candyc313]

@@julie93able Scorp moons without Scorpio sun is not scorpio. But if it is scorpio sun paired with scorpio moon yeah they tend to be a bit deeper and darker.

[@4getuboo497]

Wait until you get the bag, guaranteed, THEN YOU CAN GET UPSET, TF!👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@4getuboo497]

You are the only person i will watch for 3 - 4 hours straight, wisdom issss keyy_yyyyyyyy!

[@missmissi7]

Ws

[@missmissi7]

Ws

[@missmissi7]

Stasaa es ssusssass

[@missmissi7]

Sawwwwwwwwwwwwwrwwwwwwwwwwwww

[@missmissi7]

Ww

[@eliacastaneda128]

Hahaha shes just so smart. Love it

[@hopeinajar77]

“If you can’t listen , I can’t help you “! Amennnnnnnnn .....Repeat offenders I see . Girl they ain’t tired yet and formed a lifestyle around getting /being / falling off the emotional horse over and over and over again.

[@samantharoberts6471]

Check those emotions. Check em. Emotional decisions/ reactions are 100 percent, ALWAYS the wrong ones. In life, period. Think about it...

[@kaybellefonte6702]

Go where you are wanted!!! This is the real spill!!!

[@Insightful_Locs]

I almost let my emotions fumble the bag. I watched this video and now I'm back on my A game

[@BrendaBaBoom]

If the intended is running game and talking out the side of his neck, that’s the time to avoid confrontation and NOT get emotional ... go ghost, select better, LEVEL UP.

[@lisagrace-whithead66]

Old school women school their women. The black culture loss this gift to our sisters. This is good.

[@fluxdiamondstudios9772]

Many ppl was conditioned to not attach their self worth to money and I think that's the problem with alot of black women

[@neptunethecat1884]

Everyday you teach us something useful. I appreciate you sooo much Shera.

[@NyrishaThaA1singer]

Man that’s what gets me... it’s something ima work on before I really get back out there. Thank you for this stern reality check ❤️❤️💅🏾🍷😘

[@larenl3212]

Don't listen to her. If you do what she's saying your going to have a loveless fake "situation" not a relationship. Love is an emotion. Just saying

[@NyrishaThaA1singer]

Marshmillow Millow they don’t do right when u care so it’s a lose lose situation... why not make it better for yourself... just sayin

[@larenl3212]

@@NyrishaThaA1singer Just because you can not find a man who really wants you doesn't mean it's the same for women who have husbands and boyfriend's who love them. Just sayin

[@larenl3212]

@@NyrishaThaA1singer meanwhile Aeisha Curry is a wife , Tamia (the singer) is a wife, with husbands who ain't thinking about women like you. Just saying

[@NyrishaThaA1singer]

Marshmillow Millow look at the year they got married. The dating game at the same. Most men want sluts and video girls and don’t wanna work to get u. Don’t nobody got time for them bullshit standards. Ima do what I wanna do, u don’t like it... keep pushing. 💅🏾🍷

[@adriennemuhammad2807]

"we fear the most Low". And you know that's right!!

[@videoplaylist5973]

11:00 facts 33:00 lol 40:00 yes 46:00 true 54:00 right on 1:00:00 on point 1:23:00 facts 1:35:00 yep 1:49:00 exactly 1:53:00 exactly dont allow it

[@viavioletta24]

letting go is the answer.. it's hard but worth it.. just trust the process..

[@mangojuice3163]

I was getting all in my feelings and boom gone within 20 mins after watching shera

[@briasymone7807]

If you're going to mess everything up, and leave with nothing. What good did you do? FACTS 🔥😘

[@monicaromano3273]

I’m a cancer so this dam near impossible for me BUT you are so right. I have to keep my emotions in check. My last relationship failed because I was too emotional. Lesson learned.

[@CommitToWin]

Monica Romano I am a cancer myself and I’ve noticed I flip out at things that get me. It is like nothing else exist at the moment when I go off, it is crazy! If something made me unhappy it rolled out to the point of no return sooo dam quick. I work on this myself! I embarrassed myself many times, and I didn’t feel classy afterwards.

[@monicaromano3273]

Californication with Yana Same here but I’m working on it.

[@Morganaprettywitch]

You are saving my life! Love you Shera....

[@bangelic6471]

I can’t work with ppl either sis!! And you are so true about watching you when I get emotional.

[@BD-hf2nw]

I definitely came back to your videos today because I found myself about to let my emotions take over. But you put me in check and now I feel silly for being in my feelings in the first place 😂 Thanks. This turned my day around.

[@schnioula]

I'm still leveling up and just got rid of the last pickmeshas! Wish me luck! 😘

[@tg1204tgify]

SheRa i have been listening to your channel for almost 2 weeks. I always had a lot of the men after me and dated a few topnotch men, one even became a millionaire. Yes i am a pretty woman. I see now i lost my umph. I been pretty average for awhile. I see i gave up. I even thought that all of your advice was just info that i already knew UNTIL i kept listening...then you said emotional women lose the bag! I used to be that cool sophisticated woman in control running things. I see now. Thank you. Ihave always waited for the door to be opened for me and still do. I know what i want but i have dropped out of the game. Also when you said as long as the man looks good in pictures, family portrait, LOL that clicked for me. I needed to hear that. You are a smart savy woman and i love it. Also thanks for telling me to shut up.

[@1977Playmate]

Ms. SheRa, you said that you are a Pisces and they are one of the most emotional. My mother is a Pisces and she is a freaking rock. I mean she don't waste a lot of time on something that goes left. Job didn't come through, loan not approved, stock plummeted, it doesn't matter. Her motto is "oh well! Fuck it! What's next" My dad and sister are Aquarius's. Totally unemotional people. I'm the most emotional one in the family. I'm a Leo, so quite naturally they call me the drama queen. I will admit that meeting my 40 yo self has made some very necessary changes in my views, attitude, and life in general. Yes, my dog helps a lot. He loves to cuddle. I seldom put people in a position to disappoint me. I have stopped getting attached to others for about 2years now. It's lovely! I'm attached to me. I impress my doctor not random men. Meaning I'm following all my doc's instructions and have turned my health around. They tend to get more personable when you follow their instruction. I guess he feels invested. 2 years ago he told me to get rid of my ex. He could tell he wasn't shit in that 30 minute visit, Damn! The ex was a Narcissist too. I got rid of him, fell in love with myself for the 1st time, weights coming down, blood pressure normal, mental is positive and bright, and I'm eating right. It really feels good to be in love with myself. Now I know I will only accept the very best for myself. I did it for the ex, now I'm doing it for me. I'm worth it! He sure as hell wasn't worth it! (dusty ass!) Keep spreading positivity. You have no idea how much power you have by being a beautiful woman in and out, encouraging and lifting up other women. It's so rare. You have a serious following. They say the "Bey-hive" (Beyonce' fans/stans) can be dangerous. I bet yours are the same way. When you effect people in a positive way like you do, people don't want nobody bothering you or getting in your way. Watch what happens the next time some one comes in your live talking crazy to you. The RaSeven crew gonna get em!

[@SheRaSeven1]

she mastered her emotons ! like me

[@bethanyday3471]

GIRL! Your videos are so inspiring. Watching people care about colorism in 2019 is very depressing to me. But that's OK, I'm over on thredup and saks fifth, neiman marcus, net-a-porter and overstock shopping clearance and putting together a new wardrobe to support my new hypergamous level up lifestyle! How do you feel about white women wearing wigs? I look damn good with platinum pale blonde hair but don't want to kill my hair again to get that look. I'm tired of this 10 hour shift working myself to death. I've been working at this warehouse for 5 years and it has already aged me 10. Thank god i have good genetics, I looked about 16 when i got this job and I was 25! I'm DONE killing myself and paying 60/40 cause these dusties can't carry their own. I have always been good with money, good at controlling my emotions. It's time I GOT WHAT I DESERVE OUT OF LIFE!!!! Thank you Shera!

[@mimihappy4563]

Bethany Day great for you! White women wear wigs. Get a nice LACE FRONT WIG. They have human European hair wigs 👍🏽. The lace makes it look real. Hope this helps.

[@enmodelife]

I think for those women who already have long straight hair, you wouldn't really need to wear wigs to get a "leveled up" look. But if you want something different than what you already have (color, length, texture) then wigs are the best option.

[@SheRaSeven1]

lol thats what im talking about lol Get those level up looks together lol i love it . Wigs are great !!! i love them

[@Emiliah1996]

How though? I hate to work, I want a provider but it seems like everyone have a career on their own? Why do I need a provider if I have my own money? I want to stay at home lol

[@ninasmith4258]

And here I am thinking I had high confidence! Love this! Houston in the building 🤩😘

[@thenocapcat]

You don’t misss!!!!!! Thank the Gods for you SherrA

[@tosino3037]

God said men should be providers for the household anyway

[@aliajohnson470]

Thank you SheRa for continually reminding us to Improve Ourselves. Amazing 👌🌹

[@HabA-qn1nv]

U could never talk enough about this topic cause we really need to hear more my dear, emotions emotions emotions. Please never stop talking about it

[@keeshfuture1]

I love her videos. Class is in session everyday.

[@LeilaniAlua]

At work do they see your zodiac Sign im dead

[@BJo978]

Omy i totally needed to hear this conversation! You have made 100% sense in this. And I love you!!!

[@witch777000]

When yr emotional go out SHOPPING n talk to your roosters it really helps validation

[@BLURRRULB]

Shera you have me laughing so hard. I'm on the side of " getting the bag". However since these people over there still crying over dark skin. I'm gonna be the dark skinned infiltrate and write the book. "Why Me? The big book of excuses to stay in the box." I'd be quite embarassed to have a lifetime of excuses. I'm about to get their stuck in the box assed bags too.

[@marthadivine8426]

That's the truth. Work with what you have. Go where your love and appreciated. Darker skin tones are beautiful and exotic.

[@brittanys505]

lowkey no ones gonna wanna buy a book, but I will when it releases. Gotta support a leveled up lady!

[@larenl3212]

@Doreece You CHUMP. Robert Deniro , DIVORCED every black woman he was with and white men do black women like this because you are not real women to white men . Aiesha Taylor white man Divorced her, (and he was having an affair during the entire marriage plus she had to pay him spousal support) Rutina (black actress from true blood) is divorced from a white man , Viola Davis is divorced from a white man. What's the pattern?!! These bw/wm situations do NOT last . It's just bullshit. And the (real) relationships I see that work and last is bi- racail women with white men. Meagan Markle , Tamara Howsley , TRUST , they will not divorce, but full black women will and are the ones who white men divorce. Are you catching on now?!! And that Gumball mess with Eve will not last either. That's some more bullshit I'm talking about

[@larenl3212]

@DoreeceAishe Taylor asked that white man to marry her, so he didn't get down on any knees if anything she got down on her knee and your welcome about my research of first off they rarely get married to black women and the high rate of divorce is what is valid. So yes I do have a valid point. And when a white woman marries a white man she is close to 100 times more likely to stay married to him than a black woman. Gay people get married but just like white men black women , marriages it's uncommon and its not natural, and it doesn't last . No body is thinking about Eve's ugly self and that circus with that old white man. Who would be mad about that mess if anything it's cringe worthy . That's a bunch of mess, and he needed someone to take care of all his previous wifes kids he had with his previous wife ,so that mess won't last either and definitely nothing no one else wants. Did I clear it up for you and your dust ? Bye wig👋

[@larenl3212]

@Doreece Not everyone wears wigs and here is your clue I don't wear wigs because I don't need to wear them . That's your 2019 update. Chump

[@candysade]

Baby dad owes me 9 grand. Getting a form commissioned by my MP so I can get that money baby. He's gonna pay up now, I've done the race, I'm in the last quarter. They cant run forever. He tried to guilt me into letting him go, crying and hiding behind his mama apron, I almost fell for it. But, I didn't fall off, just fell back now I'm full steam ahead. I was 18, didn't have any game. Now I know and I'm early 30s, no time to loose. Its a game but its also not... I'mma buy my first car with that, a nice honda civic and level up, I was so naïve, let him demolish my finances, Im still recovering 14 yrs later. These guys do a number on young women yo, don't have NO EMO for them, they don't.

[@dreambabyxoxo]

Your video titles make me crack up all the time because of how true they are

[@xScarlingx]

Anyone have any tips for occupying my time? I was the most emotionless person with my bf now that I don’t work or have many friends... my mind runs wild...I think he’s picked up on it because he’s starting to push his luck too. Help me guys... I need SOMETHING to do

[@gianaaltamura3892]

Exercise...running , working out

[@Conure33]

Spend your time LEVELING UP

[@diva7141]

Start hitting the gym

[@imaniluiey6538]

Join clubs and sports it seems like you have anxious attachment style traits this video should help with that kzbin.info/www/bejne/eInSdGt_d7lsj7c

[@BLURRRULB]

Volunteer, learn a new skill, do art, read..... I WISH I HAD TIME.

[@boosiechic1]

Love the singing at the end!! 🎶Take my money...my house and my car🎶 "I sure will"-Shera

[@kawaiisakura23]

I’m an Aries I kinda considered myself pretty cut throat but sometimes that other side has gotten me fucked up... NEVER AGAIN. #LEVELUP 💯

[@starchild5009]

I have friends who are dark skinned, overweight and have husbands who love them. What I noticed is that the are confident!

[@olgachafeeva7615]

Yes, but how much do their husbands make? 😁

[@МеруертК-у2н]

😂😂😂😂oh girl I love you! “I’m attracted to money even more!”

[@Honey-fu4he]

I’ve been throwing temper tantrums in my mind lately…gotta get it together!

[@sososanchez3512]

More Logic, Less Emotion..says the Scorpio!!!

[@bangelic6471]

Sis did you just really have to explain what giving it up means?? Jesus take the wheel 😭😭😭

[@madelinejones9745]

my darlin! the only time I use my emotions , it's in what I want in this man and what he can do for me! to me it's no method. I think it say this and believe , and it comes true , I live the best life! 🍎

[@tanyaparker-callsign.kk7ic238]

Thanks Ashera you message last night this message on point. Dealing with loss of nephew this time last week Saturday. Anyways I was on your live didn’t want to get into chat did hit the like button and your ending with the 90’s music. I’m into 80’s totally get it. I knew I had Prince Adore and to my astonishment didn’t do now yet I see what action items I have after this time in life. I was in college during the 90’s and the jams mentioned on point I would add Rick Jams Tina Marie most of their hits. Could go on Keith Sweat right and wrong way to love somebody. Take care

[@lisajprefereplat6630]

So funny when you say it doesn't matter if your man is not find because wiith my contacts off its all a blur, ANTIWAY. Love that.

[@keniasharpe1610]

I’ve always atttacted older men 😳 I minus well get one with the money

[@benedictaowusu-gyan5255]

Do you feel guilty sexing a married old man?

[@Faith_jama]

Shera, you are stunning MashaAllah! I have been binge watching your videos for so long. Thanks so much! Love from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️ Also, when I watch your videos, I’m on a different level! Always elevating my mood! 😀

[@pennyduncan2002]

Your Muslim? do you take shera's advice

[@asiakhan5314]

Glad I’m not the only Muslim woman who watches Shera 😂🌷

[@ggll5240]

@helianthus a. I love this energy 😂😂😂😂

[@user-qr7eb1sf3l]

Not Muslim, but watching from Oz 🇦🇺

[@DP-oi9nd]

@helianthus a. please dont collect then block. that ruins the game for others ladies. your scaring the money off. finesse in a classy way

[@shanicesm6208]

My problem is I need to be social, I need to go out more! I have time to go out for happy hour and on w/e...But I guess the thought of me going out by myself is just 😕 even though I am a “loner” (introvert) anyway.. I’m leveled up until I get to the social/going out part...😒

[@tabitaeguangs]

I live in Massachusetts and I am looking for a free styling partner.

[@shanicesm6208]

tabitaeguangs I live in Virginia, I’m looking too

[@tabitaeguangs]

@@shanicesm6208 girl we can connect and be of help to each other even though we are from different states.

[@tabitaeguangs]

@@shanicesm6208 [e-mail] .Since I am putting this e mail in public we can connect first with it.

[@miss.britt_]

Shanice Smith same here

[@ActionJacklyn]

I am so glad to have stumbled across this video! It is hilarious! I love it. So real.

[@memoryrinehart]

The old man getting out of the nice car at the grocery store. I had to laugh--exactly what I saw today.(I prolly wouldn't have noticed b4 you). He had no swagger but walked calmly, unrushed. White hair and a little bald...Red shirt, red car and shorts.

[@diamondrico8201]

Yes, indeed! No emotions here! Layed bk is where it's at. These females are emotional wrecks. I can't even deal with it as a friend. Sigh!!!!

[@nedamalovic8981]

You give me hope, Shera!!