Ah! 🤭I can relate, ekhaya. I'm married, my elder sister (divorcee), no kids and is taking good care of the family homestead, and unenhlanhla ye mali. Our house is beautiful. My eldest sister is having 2 boys, not married, carry maternal surname. Thank you BABA for clarity🙏 We DON'T even learn this in Psychology. I'm enlightened, Thokoza Gogo👏👏
It would be great Siyabonga if we could have a platform where ubaba speaks about different topics in relation to our culture or rather our way of life before colonisation. I understand that he is a very busy man but choosing one topic a month for him to cover for like an hour would be great and will help teach many of the younger generation. We are hungry for learning about our life and history as a group of people and I feel like most channels focus on Izigubhu nokuthwala which won’t really help us in getting our people to the glory we used to be know for.
@jabuvilakazi20034 ай бұрын
Ngiyabonga Ngiyabonga kakhulu sisi kunzima sisi wami unjani
Aaah you are a treasure of wisdom Tata, a breathe of fresh air. Camagu nduna
@pearln23083 жыл бұрын
First time I hear this explanation about the three types of women. I hope women understand that ukuzalela ekhaya is not a Taboo ke
@fionahmotsai29753 жыл бұрын
You can say that again
@ikkeixarra42553 жыл бұрын
That’s not what I heard but rather in certain instances it is ancestrally crafted not to say it’s not taboo it still is and cause ancestral sickness on the child
@buhlegumede60253 жыл бұрын
Ancestral sickness?? It may not be a taboo but but Ancestral sickness is taking it too far ... it becomes an Ancestral sickness when the rightful rituals are not done for the child and when they don't remain with their mothers family.
@ikkeixarra42553 жыл бұрын
It’s not too far, no ancestor encourages a child to be born ekhaya. If kwenzeka lokho kuletha ukugcola nokudeleleka ekhaya, kuvusa icala in the fathers family and brings ukungcola kubo futhi. All of that is ancestral sickness. The rituals you speak of are to correct a wrong they are not natural to child birth which must be under the agreement of both ancestors. In the end what DR Mkhize is talking to is when the girls ancestors agree with the fathers family to receive a sperm donation for which the fathers family will have no claim over the child and no mbango is to arise due to long standing agreements between those families which is totally outside of ukuzalela ekhaya per the norm. It’s an exception that can’t be extrapolated to justify what we know causes ancestral sickness.
@sarahsibisi4864 Жыл бұрын
Siyabonga mkhulu ukusakha
@hambakinimgodoyi86143 жыл бұрын
I wish ubungu Tata wam,ngoba ngihluphekile emphefumlweni
@roseshomecookedmeals30942 жыл бұрын
Same here. I think I would be a very different person. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@gugurejoice-ri6jt Жыл бұрын
Syabonga mkhulu
@fundongidi79573 жыл бұрын
'Sithe uma singena enkululekweni, yonke into sayiphendula yayipolitiki. Akusekho lutho uMkhize engakukhuluma objectively kungathiwa eyi akashawe uMkhize. Uthi... Ngoba inkulumo yami ilinkwa nepolitiki. Yonke into isiyipolitiki namhlanje. Yingakho-ke nje, sihlukumeza abantu besifazane nezingane; ngoba asisatsheliwa ukuthi umuntu wesifazane uyini.' - Presented the same point in a broader perspective of how poor activism has hurt us as a nation. Great hearing it in a narrrower (more specific) perspective.
@fundongidi79573 жыл бұрын
'Yonke into siyithathe ngokwepolitiki, sayithatha ngokomnotho, sangabheka ukuthi to we as africans: what is a woman (in the african context)? Everything is westernized. Kuthiwa women empowerment... Bakwethu, umuntu wesifazane vele unama powers akhe aziwayo ngokwesintu, kuphela ayehlonishwa.'
@mkholom2 жыл бұрын
Baba you are an icon for this country and I wish izinyanya zakini zibe nawe kufikela ekugcineni kwempilo yakho Khabazela.
@sindielucia20503 жыл бұрын
Ngicela kufika Baba kuwe i always listen to u on ukhozi fm
@njabulomsa4726 Жыл бұрын
Tholakala kanjani baba
@gugurejoice-ri6jt Жыл бұрын
Ngiyabonga baba ngolwazi Uma unethongo kumele yini uthwase or uphahla nje kuphel
@JaneDoe766643 жыл бұрын
Siyabonga Baba Khabazela, You are our Treasure.
@thembichili6863 жыл бұрын
Syabonga kakhulu Baba Khabazela.
@sim37023 жыл бұрын
Baba wami, ngingumuntu ngawe. Izinto zami ziyacaca manje. Ngibonga angiqedi Khabazela, Mavovo, wena waseMbo