In old age, especially after 70 years old, such things should never be given to children!

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Buddha Zen Wishdom

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@poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 16 күн бұрын

God Bless to all retirees whose ignored by their own children/grandchildren❤!

@BuddhaZenWishdom 15 күн бұрын

Indeed, blessings to all retirees who face such challenges. May they find peace, strength, and fulfillment in their lives, knowing they have given so much. ❤ Always remember, self-love, faith, and embracing the joy of each day can light the way forward.

@Horizon3165 6 ай бұрын

When my my husband was alive he too believed the same as the couple in this video. I disagreed with him at times but now that I’m a widowed with two adult sons, I’m in the same situation as the couple. My husband was correct, so did the couple. Don’t give any means of your assets to your children while alive. Lesson learned by many.

@maniharkeisham796 5 ай бұрын

But money must be kept as our security.. it's our duty to distribute love to our children n grands..then we'll be able to get the emotional happiness that we are looking for during the old age periods..

@indervirsidhu8549 5 ай бұрын

@@maniharkeisham796Very well said.

@JokotadeOtubushin 5 ай бұрын

Its really very frustrating and depressing if children don't care for their parents especially if the parents are poor

@poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 5 ай бұрын

New generation don't want to take care elderly..only need their fortune😢😢😢😢😢!!!

@jaisyjames9602 6 ай бұрын

Many people are facing this kind of situation. No one likes to share it because of the criticism from the public

@Steven-re7xt 5 ай бұрын

My wife? Died....just me. My children eroded my savings ...with world ending disasters after another..... after a while a sister visited children's home at the wrong time. Then told me how well there are doing....shame on me..I never saw a dime. .. I faked a disaster needed money.......all ways...we are broke. Can't help. They started.. nibbling with we are starving ploys.. then one day I closed the bank of dad....then they went into a tail spin...I heare little from them now. ..I figure if they don't learn to take care of problems now. I'm not feeding my children at 50-60 yrs old at my 80s.. not me. Teach them to solve theer problems early. You will never be in this fix😊😊

@silviaarvayo7602 5 ай бұрын

Children and grandchildren should not feel entitled to the money from there parents. If parents , Grandparents give them is voluntary .Not an obligation Their older age need the saving to take care of themselves .kids should be grateful that is a load off their hands. Give Them love n respect for what They are your Parents,Grandparents. One day we all be in the same situation Old. Please Think and be kind.✨🙏🏻✨

@ruthjoseph4061 6 ай бұрын

Thank you God BLESS you for your encouraging words

@BuddhaZenWishdom 5 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

@snehalathanair427 6 ай бұрын

Teaching children is the best job-- especially if you have been a teacher

@zhugeliang3905 6 ай бұрын

Wow, the children of Mr & Mrs Lu are heartless. I suggest they remove the children from their wills and donate the money to charity when they pass away. What is happening to Chinese filial piety?

@sharminiserasinghe3293 6 ай бұрын

It's happening all over the world. Children today don't give a damn for their parents. Materialism has made them inhumane.

@mineandmine4528 6 ай бұрын

The children that are described here are ones that parents spoiled. They only had two. But when there are multiple children, only one or two get spoiled this way and other kids are left with nothing. The kids that got nothing are the ones that end up taking care of the parents at old age and usually have a lot of resentments towards the parents.

@jefftan4052 5 ай бұрын

I believe that whatever our decisions and actions are one should not go to the extreme. The childrens are still ours. You hurt the childrens more if you excluded them from your will. We just want to leave peacefully. I understand at times it's difficult to decides.

@mineandmine4528 5 ай бұрын

@jefftan4052, With all due respect, I don’t understand how someone wants to leave peacefully knowing they caused chaos and hurt their own children. If for some reason the parents exclude their children, at least tell the excluded children up front.

@wingolden 5 ай бұрын

My parents provided care and education until my graduation. After that I have to work my way up. My husband and I plan our retirement since our marriage, we are living happily without anyone’s help. Therefore I won’t extend excessive help to my children after grooming them to be independent.

@LeeC-t2w 5 ай бұрын

What a great video! Very sad story for those parents who gave so much and only received indifference in the end. If you don't suffer consequences, you do not learn, grow, mature, and become your best self. Children need to be prepared for the future roles they will play, if not there is certain failure and disappointment. Similarly, parents must financially prepare for disability and old age. But how do you teach the children to love and care for elderly parents in need that have given so much?

@georgeblackley6028 5 ай бұрын

The beautiful cities and countryside of Scotland enhance this wisdom.

@1233-h1 5 ай бұрын

Interesting. Was there in January. Very unusual beautiful place. Can't wait to go back.

@davidtkocz8356 5 ай бұрын

@@1233-h1 Greas ort air ais.

@1233-h1 5 ай бұрын

@@davidtkocz8356 Nì mi sin.😊

@poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 6 ай бұрын

Good video and lesson to remind retiree who have childten, don't leave them any fortune, take care and enjoy your own money and give to charity or help the community!

@sampuatisamuel9785 5 ай бұрын

Of course you should help your children and grandchildren. Times are tough with such high cost of living nowadays

@BuddhaZenWishdom 16 күн бұрын

I appreciate your perspective! It’s a valuable reminder for retirees to focus on their own well-being and happiness, rather than worrying about leaving a fortune behind. Prioritizing personal enjoyment, while also contributing to charity or helping the community, can be a fulfilling way to spend one’s resources. It's a great way to live in the present, make a positive impact, and ensure that you are using your money in a way that aligns with your values and brings you joy. Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful insight!

@poonsrisrethaphakdi5776 16 күн бұрын

Children & grandchildren will manage to survive by themselves w/o you no matter what..just take care your good self, stay healthy! 😊❤😊❤😊❤😊❤😊!!!!

@prafullabelchada-t2c 5 ай бұрын

Very true, Govt. too 17:32 should take initiative for helping elders rather helping girl child when they r capable of looking after themselves

@NusratHashmi-h6k 4 ай бұрын

So correct children so selfish not helping in mental health to elderly single parent not wanting money from children 😢

@BuddhaZenWishdom 4 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@isabelpasno5190 6 ай бұрын

thank you so much, l learned.

@manishabhattacharjee4723 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for giving good idea and lesson

@guruvarul 5 ай бұрын

The story is a reality.

@Bran08Eman 5 ай бұрын

We train others how to treat us, never ever let them know your finances. Kids today are taught to be entitled. I would insist on part-time jobs and student loans in university for kids. After graduation, if I see them seriously taking on paying debt with financial rigger, I'd gift them and pay it off so they can go on their new stage of life, clear and free.

@susanpearson1341 5 ай бұрын

I have gone throw the same thing soon as the grandchildren have grown up a bit you have had your uses ny friend said to me once while you are doing for them you are ok but the minute you need them you are just a nuisance

@whywhy6706 5 ай бұрын

I think some parents are too protective of their children when they were young. They only want their kids to study well and make them proud. It's wrong concept from the start.

@rosepadilla9019 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much..mind opening.

@IfeyinwaMunos 5 ай бұрын

True Story . Many retirees are facing this hash reality. Very painful. So remove children out of this equation for they’re very selfish and plan for a very joyful old age God willing. God please us retirees and elderly.

@normastafford9716 4 ай бұрын

Parents must think twice before giving their money to their kids :: be prepared for ur retirement expenses cuz your kids may not be there in your old age ::: prepare for old age expenses so learn to save money for retirement expenses ::

@BuddhaZenWishdom 4 ай бұрын

Your advice is practical and wise. Being financially prepared for retirement ensures that you can maintain your independence and security, regardless of circumstances. Saving and planning ahead are key to a comfortable and worry-free old age. It’s always better to be cautious and take care of yourself first.

@janetchisholm7020 5 ай бұрын

Well, my sons really are beautiful as is my daughter in law. This is so sad to listen too.

@ingenuity296 6 ай бұрын

Don't have children .

@rosegombos2120 5 ай бұрын

Better 2 have chickens if YOU like them n YOU can eat them.

@ingenuity296 5 ай бұрын

@@rosegombos2120 Absolutely!

@David-w7q2z 5 ай бұрын

This kind of behavior has been going on for ever according to the history books I have read. My sons will get only cold money (when we are dead) verses warm money (while we are alive). Giving them big money while you are alive will only spoil them and make them dependent on you. They will never become independent of you and will ruin their lives. They also don't know how much they will eventually receive so have to plan for their own retirements.

@lmr691 6 ай бұрын

so true, know this first hand

@speciallife2900 6 ай бұрын

Plz suggest me as a mother of special child what kind of job I can do ....

@1233-h1 5 ай бұрын

The people you give the most to will be the ones to turn on you and leave you by the side of the road. I lived it. And just turned cold in the last 6 months. That extends to companies and corporations with all kinds of sneaky fee, arbitration clauses and no refund policies to screw you. And everybody wants a tip or donation. All suck and will get NOTHING else,from me.

@LalithaSomaroo 6 ай бұрын

ThNk u sir great info 👍 I will definitely try an earn a little money I love cooking

@BuddhaZenWishdom 5 ай бұрын

So nice of you

@joannsester7968 5 ай бұрын

I. Like. This.

@joannsester7968 5 ай бұрын

I. Am. Happy. Jesus. Is. In. My.heart

@mariaraquella3322 6 ай бұрын

Your story is so true, but your advice of security guard is worst, it will spoil your old-age peace, worst than your children's torture. The other one is more worst selling vegetables,fruits in front of malls/streets etc, the middle one is ok as per your story, hope they are middle class pair combaindly start assisting same lonely people in the way of moral support, cooking spending time experiencing their own life stories each other's etc ., other wise better job is drive a cab/auto of your own, so that you can yourself be king and servent with full respect and honour. One more true is your story two sons some ones story heard two daughters with the same attitudes so as on today's wathawaran (whatsapp, Facebook, tuter age) male ya female child both are same. Your story is a moral/guidence for retired senior middle class citizens.of the country.🎉

@edennis8578 5 ай бұрын

It's a different kind of security guard than what you are thinking. More like doorman, it sounds like. Buzz people in and out of the building.

@BuddhaZenWishdom Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It sounds like you have a deep understanding of the challenges faced by older adults. The importance of meaningful connections and maintaining one's dignity and independence is vital. Your suggestions for creating supportive communities and fostering mutual care among seniors are valuable.