Jorobe: How TikToks WORST Predator Got Away With EVERYTHING

[@iNabber]

addressing a few things: i understand a lot of you may not like content creators being used in this or agree with things they've said (based on what i've been made aware) - but to be honest most of jorobes content is only now saved on these old videos, especially the clips i required. But some clips have been cut out using youtube editor due to a few things i was told and did not support, so major apologies. i usually would directly source my clips but thankfully other creators have archieved it. - in further note this is exactly what jorobe wants, to cause discourse and debate away from him. He has deleted content to make it difficult to speak about him, which leads to this. It sucks. also a few people seem to be a bit confused to what i mean by his content being bad because "technically he wasn't wrong" - I agree, i’m not denying he wasnt wrong in certain tiktoks. But it's the bare minimum, no? Why are we so keen to reward content creators and put them on moral pedestals because they say the most obvious things.. and in this case not even abide by those things? He never added anything of value to the conversation and ran from speaking about real difficult things when he could have. I think his content was truly bad, and using serious issues for his own benefit to take advantage of people.

[@maximumphlegm]

exactly like tf????

[@KittyKat365dayz]

👏👏👏👏well said, we stan our dumpling king edit: i really only agreed with him on the vegan teacher stuff but you’re right, 100% that was bare minimum.

[@Shutupdede]

period!!

[@genoswest7253]

We really need to stop hyping people up for saying what should be considered the norm. i really just went “uhh duh?” when I saw a lot of his tiktoks. It just shows how much society has failed us (especially victims of SA) and how low our standards are because support is so rare.

[@bella-rz5ps]

koko goes by he/she/they pronouns (the one in the end of jorobes allegations) but prefers fem pronouns, just so everyone knows :)

[@animoo.]

Just a reminder that he is a youth pastor.

[@butteredtoast4194]

WHAT

[@Rose-ef2cm]

And the church he works for is completely denying to even know him. He still works there. It got to the point where the church made it harder for outsiders to contact them for a while. I don’t know if they’re still refusing to talk to others even now. But it’s clear the church doesn’t care because they haven’t fired him and allow him to still work with children within his exact demographic to prey on (that being middle schoolers and high schoolers).

[@electracv9154]

Ahhh well isn't that great😗

[@butteredtoast4194]

@Metal go away

[@strawberryjam6235]

NOAH GET THE BOAAAAAAAAT!!!

[@jack0lantern430]

“John Robert Bell is going straight to hell!” -ThatVeganTeacher I never thought I’d agree with her, but…well…here we are.

[@colonelweird]

Did That Vegan Teacher catch him eating a hamburger?

[@reneedoodles1291]

Even a broken clock is right twice. This is a perfect example

[@Sick_Boy]

A broken clock is right twice a day, and all that...

[@Sick_Boy]

@@reneedoodles1291 Lol, didn't see your post til I finished mine. 😆👌🍻

[@desubysnusnu]

He's probably live next to her when they both go there

[@haniinii]

He needs to be investigated thoroughly by the police. The fact that he’s a youth pastor with easy access to children is horrifying.

[@FubblerCo.]

Oh dear god

[@Brucifer2]

That only works if hes in one of the very few states where gr**ming is illegal, hell its not even federally illegal.

[@loturzelrestaurant]

@@FubblerCo. Mind if i recommend you some nice Atheist-Channel? They are kinda not-so-known, sooo...

[@FubblerCo.]

@@loturzelrestaurant uh sure lol

[@nenmaster5218]

@@FubblerCo. Hey, Loturzel here! My other account glitches out sometimes, so i made it another: Topnenuser (it's a HunterxHunter Reference!). I could just have waited but didnt wanted to let you wait when i can avoid it.

[@mikvance]

He’s 28? Thats a rough 28 dude. He looks like a divorced 50 year old insurance salesman who lost the kids in the custody battle.

[@sireekonanhalli2601]

“this is John from state farm”

[@AlvinaYunoa]

I love this description

[@vee6775]

@Lana del Rey needs to release her unreleased songs well yes, obviously not. But mocking his looks is fine if his personality and behaviour is uglier than his face.

[@frenchprincessofbellpepper1987]

@Lana del Rey needs to release her unreleased songs thanks captain obvious.

[@loturzelrestaurant]

Mind if i recommend you some nice Atheist-Channel?

[@amethystarry]

I am honestly so proud that the younger generations are becoming so emotionally aware and intelligent. Hearing a 16 year old referring to him trauma dumping and knowing what abusive behaviour looks like is incredible to see. It took me, and so many other, YEARS to be able to identify this sort of thing. Gen Z are ridiculed so much but so many of them are revolutionary and that scares other generations.

[@WeOnlySayHelloReal]

I'm grateful to see how evolved Gen Z is. Gen Z shouldn't even be ridiculed. (The way millennials didn't need to be ridiculed). The older generations get so jealous at seeing the younger generation be young. It's sad.

[@xylophone3919]

100% agree.

[@DelilahDarling17]

Aww, thank you! I'm a teenager, and this warmed my heart. Really, thank you. And as someone who is black, short, chubby, and a woman, I've been ridiculed more times than I could count. Including because of my age. I've also had adults tell me I'm not worth talking to because I'm a teenager, so, this is refreshing to see. Many adults have told me these things as well: "I should be out partying or drinking." However, all I wanna do is stay inside, practice my writing and homework, and work towards getting into a good college. I'm not even interested in drinking, let alone partying. Not to be a "pick me" girl, it's just genuinely not my cup of tea. I've been told "you're just a teenager who thinks she knows everything in the universe," despite how I've never said anything of the sort. I *don't* know everything in the universe, and I'm well aware that the older I get, the more I'll learn about the world. There's many other things that adults have told me, but I won't get too deep into it. Moral of the story, I love seeing comments like yours. Thank you so much, you're one of the rare (from my experience) people who don't automatically hate a teenager just because of their age and the stereotypes on us.

[@nodrvgs]

@@WeOnlySayHelloReal yess exactly

[@RowanWhite1980]

Agreed. The kids are alright. ❤️

[@seanster9735]

You never know who the person is behind the camera. He’s a fucking good manipulator.

[@AxxLAfriku]

HOLY HOLY!!! I can proudly say that I have the two HOTTEST women on this planet as MY GIRLFRIENDS! I am the unprettiest KZbinr ever, but they love me for what's inside! Thanks for listening sean

[@BooksandBuns]

Wow, mate. You got *three* whole bots commenting on your comment. I think that's a new record

[@saritab28]

@@BooksandBuns pretty sure that AxxL guy isnt a bot, ive seen his channel and, as weird as it is, it seems like it is a real person commenting on youtube. strange guy tho, would not recommend

[@Shrekfromthehitmovieshrek]

@@saritab28 he’s real alright

[@saritab28]

@@Shrekfromthehitmovieshrek the real shrek from the 2001 hit movie shrek replied to my comment. im so blessed, i dont deserve to be in your presence 😍

[@sterlingstone5525]

The worst part is lots of young people including me were saying they would “trust him with their drink at a party” and now look what happened he’s started grooming minors :(

[@iNabber]

it's hard to trust a lot of people on the internet :(

[@raph.j.r6788]

@@iNabber it's really sad 😔 thanks for creating content to expose these disgusting people

[@itz.amariyah]

*Was one of those young people.* Just drench me in gasoline, *and light me on FIRE.*

[@thomasmalone7454]

@@iNabber everyone's gotta darkside you just don't see it at first. And I agree you can't really trust people on the internet.

[@randohuman5084]

That's actually a great point. He seemed to have such high morals and so trustworthy😳 Or atleast his online persona.

[@sterlingstone5525]

jorobe actually disappointed me so much I’m still trying to wrap my head around what happened

[@iNabber]

:(

[@InvaderBB]

Same here… I hope the victims are doing better.

[@bluejway]

@Lotus bro this isn’t the place to be promoting

[@MICHAELOFJESUS]

Have you heard of a wolf in sheep's clothing

[@BooksandBuns]

@@bluejway it's a bot. Just report & move on

[@renezra4886]

i cannot fathom sending a group of minors a bdsm test and ASKING THEM TO FILL IT IN. that's just vile.

[@skeleletonboi4533]

I've done this, the difference is I was *also a minor* and we were all similar ages and friends irl, still a bit weird in hindsight but not predatory

[@toomessy]

Exactly! They probably thought he was just being funny/edgy (since they're literally kids) and probably didn't think any of it at that time-- and I bet he absolutely KNEW that. Woudn't doubt if he tried to use his platform/content to his advantage too. Hope he rots.

[@liddytheweeb]

@@skeleletonboi4533 Did we all just have the exact same high school experience of taking the BDSM Test and comparing our results?

[@skeleletonboi4533]

@@liddytheweeb are you also all gay and/or trans now? cause if so yea, definitely

[@liddytheweeb]

@@skeleletonboi4533 Non-binary and Bi lmao

[@MilenaHdez]

The most unbelievable part of this whole thing is the fact that he's 28yo... I always thought he was 40ish.

[@Sonnenanbeterin1991]

Wait what? He is one year younger than me

[@leeoconnell2572]

He's 28?

[@airguitarist8633]

Same.

[@laauraaaaa]

It’s so terrifying that someone who built a platform on the basis of creating a voice for people who have sadly faced the huge issue that is sexual assault then used that platform to hide his friends sexual assault and facilitate his own grooming. This is why it’s so hard for victims of these things to open up and trust people. This is why these people need a platform to have their voices heard

[@LangkeeLongkee]

I immediately sus men that say protect women and stuff without being prompted. I’ve known multiple men that go so haaaaard to protect women, end R culture, and a,k sorts of good points publicly, private, they’ve assaulted multiple women I know. One even is a content creator and owns a brand in my country, he has models and everything, like about 4 years ago? He did something to a woman I knew and slapped her across the face when she told him to stop. Like, PUH-LEEEEEEZ

[@Nixeu42]

@Agatha Anabell ...I think the Russian bot is malfunctioning. Then again, I've had an actual conversation with someone who appeared at first to be a bot doing random advertising BS before, so maybe you're an actual person. If so...maybe don't comment random crap in response to comments you can't read, because this was hilariously tasteless and tone-deaf to post on a comment like this.

[@liviwaslost]

@@Nixeu42 they aren't real. There's a big thot bot problem on KZbin.

[@bigoldtree583]

@@LangkeeLongkee its so fucking sad that theres so little men who actually care about our rights and dont just speak out to cover up thier disgusting behaviour. Like my faith in humanity is nonexistent at this point

[@LangkeeLongkee]

@@bigoldtree583 mhm. And then they walk around like "not all men" but half the men who say that either actually ARE those men or their friends are and they know it.

[@caitlinwheeler7915]

Waiting for a teenager to turn 18 seems like a massive red flag that’s grooming is it not

[@Iron_Stigmata]

Yes, yes it is :\

[@acegraham7255]

I think so but I did find out from the onision situation that in the US grooming isn't a legal crime so he can't be charged

[@sarhahillsburg5142]

@@acegraham7255 sadly true. Same as how while women all over are finding trackers on their cars [known way for traffickers to find and abduct next victims] can't do anything cause it not illegal unless you know an have proof they have intent to cause you harm

[@ussinussinongawd516]

@@acegraham7255 doesn't mean he can't be canceled

[@ussinussinongawd516]

@@sarhahillsburg5142 WTF

[@JalynCommentary]

I knew this guy as the Person to hold everyone else accountable, It appears he Failed to do the same for himself

[@Shrekfromthehitmovieshrek]

@Agatha Anabell wtf

[@Veritanky]

*projection*

[@eggs7594]

@Agatha Anabell get that money miss girl

[@lolcandyyy]

Hi jayden

[@chiot888]

@Agatha Anabell they’re starting to learn memes, it’s basic but it’s good progress. If bots started spamming quality memes I don’t think I’d mind them

[@sirensong2011]

To back up the argument against "they were okay with it at the time": I was groomed by a family friend when I was 14. I'm 33 now, and only just realized what he was doing and gave him the predator label. He was good to me. He saved my life. But he was and still is a predator. Processing the reality of being groomed is often not something that happens in the middle of it or even directly after. That's one of the things that makes it so insidious.

[@snooganslestat2030]

Yes. Its something people really dont understand. Being ok with something at the time doesnt mean its ok

[@birdybird1585]

Sadly many people think being unaware and not caring are the same thing :/ There was still harm done, people just don't know why some things are happening (like not being able to maintain healthy relationships, having problems with figuring out what they are comfortable with when it comes to physical contact, forcing themselves to things they don't want because they think it's normal) even if they never put two and two together why it's happening it's not an real "being OK"

[@mellojello1248]

Thanks for saying this because sometimes its hard to explain to people.

[@sirensong2011]

@@mellojello1248 no problem. I know how hard different traumas are to articulate, so if I can lend my gift of gab to the thing and help somebody else have the words to explain it, I'm happy to.

[@theGobFather17]

100%. I was groomed when I was 16-18. I’m in my early 20’s now and did not realize until this year that that’s what he was doing to me

[@rinmitchell6034]

Something about just how educated this man is on the effects of sexual assault on someone makes his own actions even more deplorable

[@jamaisvu6977]

the saddest thing is we trusted him in our community, and we thought he could be someone who would understand what we go thru as young people. he took that trust and used it to manipulate lots of young men. it’s disgusting.

[@martyhashomeworkdueat1127]

The best thing you could do with this is take it as a lesson to be wary of adults who specifically market their content towards teenagers/children. Plenty of adults are genuinely there for yall, but you have to be cautious because too many are out to get you guys. Educate yourself on grooming tactics, and ALWAYS follow your gut instinct. If something seems suspect, bring it up to a trusted adult (parent, teacher, etc) if you have one.

[@shukukankun9021]

@@martyhashomeworkdueat1127 you sound like you are trying to groom this kid, back off.

[@sash_iii]

@@shukukankun9021 what? no they don’t lmao, it’s genuine & helpful advice

[@shukukankun9021]

@@sash_iii don't come crying to me when your bussy gets invaded

[@sash_iii]

@@shukukankun9021 ??? ok dude, you do you but i really don’t think you’re understanding the definition of grooming here

[@animoo.]

You know for once I actually agree with the vegan teacher we should be hating on him.

[@iNabber]

LMAO

[@jeishiikanzaki]

I mean even a broken clock can be right once a day. If she spends all her time screaming how we should hate or refuse to listen to literally anyone else, she'll nail a right opinion once in a while. Like throwing darts at random names taped on the wall.

[@thomasmalone7454]

The Vegan Teacher was right about something mind blown

[@seanster9735]

Yeah she’s a bit of a prick, but she isn’t actually harming anyone at the end of the day. Jorobe is absolutely disgusting.

[@VioletsOnMars]

The irony is all over the place. Up is down, down is up and the Vegan Teacher said something understandable.

[@kate2late91]

Actually so proud of these young people for recognising his actions are not ok, including their friends telling them their concerns. It shouldn't be their job to do this but it is so good to see.

[@stuglife5514]

Yo amen right? Like seriously a round of applause for these kids for being so brave

[@youreapunkishthing9438]

YESSS!! those poor kids. i'm 19 and fuck man this hit hard

[@mariac4127]

Especially when the young men come out because the social stigma is so bad against male victims and they get blamed for their assaults just like victims of other genders It’s very brave for them to come out

[@kendall.111.]

Well actually it takes us just as long to learn these things, but the internet has exposed us at a much younger age. Most kids and teenagers now have matured so fast because technology removed the rose tinted glasses all young people wear. It’s honestly very sad. I’m fifteen and I wish i’d gotten to live my life longer without knowing what I do.

[@gordonramsayslambsauce]

@@mariac4127 yes omg and it's all because the patriarchy assigns horrible societal standards and roles onto people based on sex

[@Samiju]

I hate when people say "texts aren't even traumatising" or "texts don't mean anything" I was groomed when I was 14, the guy was 28 at the time and I only realised he had actually groomed me a few weeks back when I saw the guy's Facebook with the same profile picture he had back then (I'm 19 now) I immediately froze up, my hands started shaking and I had a small panic attack. Everything he made me do, everything he texted me, I had suppressed it all, I forgot until I saw that exact profile picture that made me relive everything he did to me. Texts can be just as bad.

[@rightinthecrack]

@Clorox Bleach geez you need to take a step back and revaluate yourself. Hope you did so within that month.

[@rightinthecrack]

@Clorox Bleach You’re probably not aware that 14 year olds aren’t exactly always the smartest or even the most self-aware. Plus, “everything he made me do, everything he texted me,” sounds a lot more than some “dirty pics,” does it not? *And* he was a *28* *year* *old* *man* *talking* *to* *a* *fourteen* *year* *old,* you twit. They also said she had a small panic attack because of the realization, and you found that to be “overdramatic” regardless of who they are as a person and what they’ve been through? Interesting.

[@izzyt1626]

I'm sorry you went through that. That is bs and shouldn't have happened. He was 28 and needed some hobbies besides talking to kids who barley just started puberty

[@Lalalololalo]

I am a. Victim of similar circumstances. I feel you ❤

[@shobooknight]

Texts can definitely be traumatising and I in no way want to minimize your experiences but as a survivor of SA I'd say it's still not the same thing. Nothing people have said to me or made me do online will ever be as painful as someone forcing themselves upon me physically.

[@Gorl365]

So we actually went to the same college, and he had a reputation for being creepy/weird. At the time anonymous confession pages were popular, as was Yik Yak, and he posted about himself on those A LOT. He also was known to hang out on campus and with current students well after graduating which was also strange.

[@Sonnenanbeterin1991]

How did he treat woman? I just wonder.

[@mrkrupp1]

What did he do?

[@mal1871]

i’ve been waiting for this. i cant believe i used to look up to him, it’s just so wrong. he gave me weird vibes at first but then i gave him the benefit of the doubt, i’m just dissapointed tbh, not surprised

[@dinooobby845]

Same tbh, he seemed sus, but he was talking about important stuff and gave him the benefit of the doubt 🥲 (Love ur pfp and channel btw)

[@AlisonChains13]

Love your pfp lmao

[@mal1871]

@@dinooobby845 innit ikr, and thank you so much

[@itz.amariyah]

EXACTLY. *I wanna rip my face off.*

[@hanji-zoe]

@Lotus first time I actually liked a link that was under the comments, Masha’Allah you’ve literally brought me to tears even.

[@iNabber]

this video is demonetized which is fine given the nature of the topic, but it also means it will do poor in the algorithm! so i would really appreciate it if you liked it, commented and SHAREEED THIS VIDEO - it's a very important topic so i would appreciate sharing it everywhere!

[@minecraftlover9000]

Indeed

[@seanster9735]

BEANS

[@kalinaxbiss7210]

Oof

[@JustAnzia]

Beans

[@drank.99]

I knew Mr. Nabber wouldn't let us down. This was, indeed, *based*

[@baconoof]

This was the hardest disguise yet.. donated to his twitch.. attended his TikTok live streams and was this close to getting his merch.. the world we live in.

[@chaos17945]

I’m sorry. I hate when this happens with creators we like. It makes it hard to trust people.

[@nothankyou6840]

I'm so sorry, I know that feeling (as I'm sure many do with the unfortunate amount of content creators that do this sort of shit)

[@patrickyoung812]

Literally same, I enjoyed his videos back when I used tiktok. His videos kinda helped me deal with religious trauma I developed as a result of living in an extremely religious village as a gay person. I feel so guilty about liking his videos now I know about these events, especially as an ass***t survivor. Ugh I hate people!

[@baconoof]

@Agatha Anabell 😐

[@tunkytunky]

Not trying to kick you while you’re down but you should learn to read people more. He gave off a horrible and aggressive vibe.

[@Nesharen123]

The idea of asking CHILDREN to take BDSM tests makes me want to vomit. I hope karma catches this guy.

[@invisibleman4827]

My boss of last year was the same. He used to be all like "smash-the-patriarchy" but would still ask teenage boys what their porn habits were. He was a massive bully and sexual harasser as well.🖕him.

[@ashschramm6595]

As a 25 year old, the only time I ever interact with teens is when I sometimes train someone new at work. It’s always weird and I feel so old and mildly uncomfortable having to be with them for 8 hours. This guy is so sick and I hope he gets in trouble for what he’s done to these kids.

[@YasminePomerantz]

dont feel that way they are just training

[@avroses24]

As a minor the first time i saw him I thought he was cool for addressing things people have done. Then I got more into his content and I started to feel weird about the way he spoke and acted. He always put me off for whatever reason and now i know why, he was triggering my trauma. GLAD to know I've got spidey senses with men like this

[@Daggeira]

I feel ya. I've never heard of this guy and 10 seconds into iNabber showing a clip of him, I just _assumed_ he was a predator and was disppointed to discover I was correct.

[@notthemexicanaverage235]

@Agatha Anabell Tf?!

[@VamiGwen500]

@@notthemexicanaverage235 it’s a bot. Ignore it c:

[@nothanksmonsters]

Same, I followed him but unfollowed because I got a weird vibe from his channel :\

[@shukukankun9021]

How did you think this guy was cool? Did you not look at his face? Did you not grow up with dragonball z, green day, evanescence or any other form of aesthetics whatsoever? Did you grow up as a Mormon where you thought this absolute soy-incarnate was some kind of rockstar bad boy? Jesus, kids are dumb, yet we let them dictate who gets famous and now we have to put up with the Paul brother's and the Demilio sisters.

[@NaudVanDalen]

He's 28 years old? He looks 40 years old. Also, his mustache fits the part.

[@phoenixdavida8987]

jesus... I'm 8 years older than that and I even assumed he was older than me... like, by a good bit. damn.

[@andrejg4136]

Yeah this dude looks 45 easy, I guess evil really does age you fast

[@LifeInPink999]

No way… I would have given him 45 without the mustache. Like how? You know the saying aging like a good wine? Not his case.

[@phoenixdavida8987]

@Axt3 haha. yes! perfect.

[@hollowrat4905]

he's HOW OLD OH MY GOSH HIW DID I NOT CATCH THAT

[@bluejway]

The fact that so many young people must’ve looked up to him only for him to turn around and be a complete monster behind the scenes is heartbreaking

[@weganmerner7014]

As awful as it is it's a good lesson for young/overly trusting people. People aren't who they are at surface level. It's one thing to like someone's content but to idealize then without knowing their true self is dangerous.

[@Catglittercrafts]

They learned a hard lesson

[@Febrdaack]

I wish I hadn't looked up to him so much :(

[@geraniumblue]

hey fellow beatles fan and jorobe hater :)

[@timothygudiel1334]

Watching this video and finding out that he did these types of things makes me so disappointed bc i looked up to him.

[@oliviaevans6398]

“i may work for God, but i’m not against kids having fun.” is the exact opposite of what a pastor should say. as a christian who quite honestly looked up to this man, i am disappointed to see someone that had so much trust push kids in the wrong direction. disgusting.

[@ussinussinongawd516]

He isnt even celibate

[@skeleletonboi4533]

@@ussinussinongawd516 you don't need to be celibate to a be a pastor in most sects, as far as Im aware it's only the Roman-Catholic church that asks their clergymen to be celibate at every level of the hierarchy

[@MegaKuuChan]

"27 year-olds have a mortgage and kids" Me, 29: *looks around at my apartment and fur babies* ......shit

[@bigwendigo2253]

Don’t feel bad, I’m 30 and don’t have a mortgage or kids either. :( I think it’s harder for our generation to be able to purchase our own homes, and will just continue to get more difficult for each following generation.

[@lolhibuddy]

@@bigwendigo2253 your not wrong, I'm 19 but even with a full time well paying job I can hardly afford to rent a house, apartment etc. At this point especially in my area you have to live with someone else. (in my area rent on a 1 bed 1 bath could be 900-1400 and a 2bed will be 1000-1700 a month)

[@bums009]

@@bigwendigo2253 yeah exactly I'm 29 and own my apartment because I got lucky but no babies of any kind yet. My childhood cats died a few years ago, I was very attached to them and I'm not ready to love other cats yet lol.

[@SuicideRedemption]

Im 27 and I dont plan on ever having kids or getting married

[@SavageMinnow]

I'm 35... I just bought my house this year, and I don't have any kids so 🤷

[@AkumakoCross]

Another point against the "It's legal they're 18" argument around the tiktok at the beginning of the allegations section, they weren't 18 YET. He said as much. Even if the guy was angling to get together at the just-legal mark, he's still propositioning a minor. Legal or illegal, that's predatory and fucked up, pardon my french.

[@beeshurt6090]

Plus alot of 18 year olds are still in high school, I myself am 18, I do not have an adult mind, I do not act like an adult... I have not Finnished developing

[@herdustisverypretty]

I always say, eighTEEN. TEEN. Teenager. That's not an adult lmao. The age of consent in my country is 16, but I don't think it's morally okay for say a 40 year old to be with a 16 year old. 18 or 19 is no different. When I was 18 I was still a kid. The law means nothing.

[@toriladybird511]

@@beeshurt6090 amen ❤️

[@Ffallingstarss]

100% agree. And the thing is too this man is 28. I’m 25 and won’t even look at someone under the age of 21 because that’s a whole hell of a lot of developmental difference even just in 4 years LET ALONE a whole ass decade. Just because someone is “legal” doesn’t make it not wildly inappropriate and disgusting.

[@imsotiredofthiscrap2341]

The brain fully develops at 25 like??? An 18 year old is not suddenly ready to be in a relationship with a grown adult.

[@meghanpangonas]

as someone who was taken advantage of at 18 by someone much older, i really appreciate you saying that it’s still not okay despite the fact that the boys were of ‘legal’ age. just because someone is ‘legal’ doesn’t automatically mean that it’s ‘okay’.

[@LunarEleven]

The youngest age of "consent" in the world is 9. So it's definitely absurd to think a law makes something right. Turning 18 also does not make you become mature and prepared for anything you weren't at 17.

[@lizmarrin8676]

period 👏🏼 legal doesnt equal consent

[@erin2597]

@@LunarEleven the age of consent isn’t even the same throughout the US either so it really is ridiculous. you’re definitely not anymore mature than u were at 17. nicely said !

[@jpoor1]

Legally he’s not a criminal but morally…….. oh boy

[@jpoor1]

Cassandra Suzanne also another defense a lot of people use is that the age of consent in Japan is 12 but it isn’t tho that’s just how old children have to be to fuck other children not adults

[@quinnable8031]

Therapist: American iNabber doesn't exist, he can't hurt you American iNabber: Be BeTteR

[@Kittttydotcom]

Honestly was really confused by this joke until I got to that part shit had me hollering 40:14 timestamp if anyone wants to know

[@urmomdotcom191]

@@Kittttydotcom I was also confused and check the timestamp. I’ll just bring it up in therapy next week😭

[@featheryfemme]

@@Kittttydotcom He also said it in the first few minutes of the video.

[@gracie872]

I died when i got to that part lmao

[@BBALFONSECAPONE]

The dude at the end

[@brookethepear4379]

You saying “be better dude” mocking Jorobe caught me off guard way more than it should have, it sounded way too American

[@showerheadjoker9672]

Nice pfp btw

[@fizzliebob]

if, as a 20-something year-old, you're having to ask people if they're 18 yet, whilst trying to book overnight stays with them... you're in very shady territory...

[@kristenkalinowski2551]

“When someone who’s accused of something just leaves the internet and doesn’t say anything…” COUGH, COUGH Creepshow Art, COUGH COUGH…

[@blackqueen7226]

Yeah it’s been a while she hasn’t responded

[@skigle]

She's probably just gonna do what Carson is doing

[@Privatewelt]

wait I'm out of the loop, what happened with her?

[@chem8392]

A few days ago I finally unsubscribed, she was literally my favorite for a longtime till everything came out and I just didn't want to unsubscribe till she released a vid about everything, but that's probably never happening.

[@bumblebeeproductions1673]

@@blackqueen7226 she’s been gone exactly 3 months

[@xxoxEMxoxx]

God this sounds like my “friend” who defended my abusers but also was so against bad men and was mad that all men got a bad reputation 🙄

[@jofip1999]

Ugh, the same happened to me. How many times is this gonna happen to us?

[@krh6239]

I hope you dropped that person from your life.

[@curious_xgirl5264]

I hope you got better friends and are doing at least a little better

[@xxoxEMxoxx]

@@krh6239 unfortunately he works with me and is trying to get his friend a job with us

[@xxoxEMxoxx]

@@jofip1999 I wish it wasn’t even once, hope you’re doing well! 💙

[@JellyBabie1984]

As a sexual assault survivor myself I never liked the guy, it always felt like he was using other people's trauma to benefit himself. Maybe that wasn't what it was and my trauma has admittedly made me skeptical however my gut has generally not steered me wrong in a long time.

[@larsland]

That’s exactly how I felt.

[@Brucifer2]

His "punching" video is the only thing i saw and it was enough for me to know. Granted I obviously wouldnt have predicted this much, but he's clearly the kindve guy who feels entitled to for girls/guys to wanna f*ck him just because he's "not like other guys" I wanna believe its because people are younger so they dont have this knowledge, but this tactic was even used when i was in highschool by people and it never worked for them. So i just have no concept of how the average person wouldve possibly fallen for this. Not that im saying its their fault, clearly something in society changed in the past 15 years, but its just so alien to me it blows my mind. ...OH GOD AM I GETTING OLD?!

[@AlvinaYunoa]

@@Brucifer2 It’s just different people have different takes on things and maybe in your highschool everyone was very well aware of these things, but a lot of ppl these days are very sensitive, naive and a little clueless so they get misled easily.

[@rikititi1848]

"you should be in a prison cell, and you're promoting shoes!!" just sums up 2021 in a nutshell doesn't it

[@jessicaljames1280]

"I understand that most people are fairly problematic." Great line. Because they are. I can say I used to be a closed minded idiot who said things I am absolutely mortified by now. If it weren't for people being honest with me I never would have decided "maybe I'm not as educated as I think i am". I would still be the same person I was, thinking I was so wise and witty. I was an idiot, and I can't thank those who educated me enough. If it weren't for them I would never have grown, learned, and strived as much as I have. You cannot change until you truly look at yourself and eventually realize why you are the way you are and what made you that way, and then actively choose to correct it, AND keep educating yourself.

[@jocelynm8264]

It always seems to be those who work the closest to children that are the predators. It’s extremely scary that someone like him had such a large platform on an app that many children use.

[@CosmicEngimas]

He’s still a youth pastor in his home town. So he’s still around children.

[@jocelynm8264]

@@CosmicEngimas Last I heard he was let go but that may not be true I have no idea :(

[@Kittttydotcom]

Someone once told me "where there's children there's predators" it bums me out because it definitely is true half the time :(

[@whatisthis1958]

I feel like this is obvious but obviously not everyone who works with children are predatory, the majority aren't. However, people who are attracted to children might be more likely to want to work with them. In addition, according to some studies, most child sexual abusers arent actually "true" p/dophiles (only 20-30% would be comsodered a p/dophile according to one I read a while back), rather they are opportunistic or crave power (because, of course, ab/sing a child immediately makes you a gigachad with all the power /s.) so being in a position of power over a child might prompt people with a particular brand of patheticness to enact ab/se upon the kids under their care. So essentially, it's less the people who are working with children are more likely to be predators, but when the wrong people slip through the cracks it means that they have more access to more children and opportunities to abuse, which is why it seems more common in those areas of work. Unfortunately, p/dophiles and ab/sers are everywhere, but those who work in childcare are most dangerous. It's disgusting.

[@Veritanky]

@@CosmicEngimas ofc he's a youth pastor... Its often those who make artificial "safe space" people crrave for and then they get them into their net. Fuckers

[@dragonkingvahn]

People who put off a "perfectly clean" persona and criticize others, seems like they're POSSIBLY the most corrupt to me.

[@eggegg8181]

Completely agree with you

[@randohuman5084]

Hope this isn't true about Kurtis Conner😭

[@Lutefisk445]

Like, perhaps, priests of christian churches? Just like he was?

[@ruetistic]

@@randohuman5084 uh oh

[@Wesker6969]

That part!!!

[@shoelace7160]

Gross. Reminds me of the "nice" guy I met freshman year of college who told me about his friend's SA the first time we talked in person. He went on this long rant about how horrible some men are but how happy he was that his friend trusted him enough to confide in him. I thought it was weird, but I'd never really had someone express interest in me and he was saying the right things, so I let myself believe that meant he was a good guy who would never do such a thing himself. I trusted him. But I was wrong. I steer clear of people that talk like this now; they're either overcompensating because they know what they've done/do is wrong, or they're getting some sick thrill from talking about it.

[@bonnie4031]

100% agree. My best male friend was JUST like this. He had tampons in his car for his female friends, he listened to me break down over my own sexual assaults, and he would always bring up how my other male friends were ‘predatory’ or ‘creepy’ - it’s like it was always on his mind. He started bringing up my sexual assaults when I wasn’t even thinking about it just to ‘make sure I was okay’ or to ask some questions that weren’t really relevant; it’s like he was obsessed with talking about it. Down the road he wound up confessing to raping multiple women multiple times. I verbally shoved a foot up his ass before telling him to get absolutely fucked, but damn was I heartbroken and confused. Those red flags will always stick with me; hyper-vigilance is a HUGE red flag. Stay safe everyone.

[@gypsywoman9140]

While not predatory in nature, I had a neighbour down the hall who was often ranting about all the crack addicts in our area. He really seemed to hate them. His gf and I were both floored when it came out that he himself had a crack addiction. The gf was hit particularly hard with that revelation, like "How could I be with him for a few years and have no idea?" It seems there's a lot of people who talk like they hate a certain thing, but they themselves secretly are into that thing.

[@snooganslestat2030]

@@gypsywoman9140 its called projection. Like someone always suspicious their partner is cheating. Being controlling and checking up on them, always asking questions. A lot of the time they are projecting because they are the ones cheating.

[@shoelace7160]

@@bonnie4031 Ugh I'm so sorry that happened to you. And sorry for those women. What a disgusting person. I hope he got/gets what he deserves.

[@kyatonic1]

@@bonnie4031 I wouldn’t say hyper vigilance in itself is a red flag because it’s also often related to certain nerodiverncey I’m autistic and have ADHD so I’m hyper vigilant myself but being extremely focused on SA is a red flag and only being hyper vigilant to that is a red flag

[@rleering4204]

This one hurts me a lot. It’s hard for me personally to trust men as they’ve done lots of fucked up things to me, but his channel made me feel really safe. Knowing this now it makes me feel so icky and disturbed. I will no longer be allowing myself to get attached to random people on the internet.

[@twilightwondrlnd]

As a survivor of SA, thinking that you're invincible and having an inflated ego will be your biggest downfall. And you know what else? Making bs excuses just adds more fuel to the fire.

[@maybenell]

Im so glad people are speaking up about this now. What a disgusting man! And I wish the best for anyone hurt by his actions

[@wip8889]

@Agatha Anabell are you alright, bot?

[@timothygudiel1334]

I looked up to him. Hopefully he apologizes for his disgusting actions. My heart is just shattered finding this out.

[@whatever9097]

Thank you for talking about this guy! He’s absolutely disgusting and it’s so important to get the word out about him.

[@strawberrycubes4774]

I've been groomed by a man since I was 11, I lived out a better life through roleplaying and used porn to cope with emotions and disorders I couldn't understand yet. He was my "bestfriend" for about 3-4 years, and the whole time was incredibly sexual with his topics and roleplays. I've been victim blamed and had the courage to finally block him, hearing these kind of actions discussed helps me unwrap my trauma even if for a few minutes.

[@mariac4127]

“You don’t have to talk about your trauma to calm him out” that guy needs a bigger platform he’s awesome

[@VocaloidSocks]

"People who are 27 have a mortgage and kids" me, 28, re-watching Doctor Who for the 10th time: what?

[@xoxshylaxox5988]

I felt very attacked as well 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@janna-mari415]

32 and no kids, not married or engaged but have a mortgage.

[@Beybbmasters]

I felt that

[@JK-vq5me]

I feel this on a spiritual level. -a fellow whovian :)

[@iNabber]

PLEASE share this video! Get this spoken about! Thank you :)

[@kalinaxbiss7210]

Ok!

[@JustAnzia]

Will do mrNabber

[@minecraftlover9000]

Eh

[@AbstractVivids]

hi (:

[@Annieology17]

I love that you hearted your own comment

[@luffyduffy7817]

Me at 27 without a mortgage, children, or married: 😬

[@iNabber]

damn that's awesome tho

[@youreapunkishthing9438]

i dig your pfp

[@strikeforgore6626]

the misfits pfp mate 🙏

[@SuicideRedemption]

Same here..even same age as you. And I never want to get married or have kids.

[@parkerpoggi492]

i’m so glad that the victims have such amazing friends that told them what was going on and that it wasn’t okay. many venerable people would have ignored them and met up with him and that would have been horrific

[@pundemon9659]

Videos like this make me think of a friend I met in college. As an extremely naive, vulnerable 18 year-old, one of my peers in the Computer Science department (a space that already exerted a power dynamic over me, being one of 3 women who were majoring at the time) was 42, looking to get a degree after he came home from the military. Someone who - while I never believe he could have, for the sake of this discussion let's be pragmatic here - had every opportunity to take advantage of me, and instead went out of his way to protect me. I wasn't prepared for college at all, and honestly cannot believe I navigated my time on-campus without facing more trauma than I did (I was still hurt by people there, but the incidents were few and far between). I'll never forget having a convo with him and my family, because even though I was a legal adult, he still felt it a moral imperative that my folks know who I'm interacting with, especially considering members of my friend group were TAs or mentors for my chosen field. We're still close friends now, even as I had to go on medical leave from my degree and don't know if/when I'll return. Age gaps can be bridged in friendships under the right circumstances, and I wish that for my fellow abuse survivors, all of our experiences could have been with a person like that (not to put this guy on a pedestal for morality some would argue is pretty basic; I'm moreso thankful that in addition to that, he went on to be the kind of ally and advocate jorobe pretended to be). I can't stand it whenever these people act like their behavior was a "mistake" or like they slipped up, as if they're trying to say there was no way they could avoid the terrible things they did. Just be fucking honest and admit your moral compass is too weak.

[@gogurt3million]

why does jorobe look like a indie game or movie protagonist whos like, Really annoying

[@Romanticoutlaw]

he looks like the main character of YiiK

[@gogurt3million]

@@Romanticoutlaw OH MY GOD YOURE RIGHT

[@p3gasus-M]

He looks like that one kid in Polar Express, *you know which one*

[@georgehutter339]

Hipster librarian.

[@maximumphlegm]

@@p3gasus-M fuck you're right

[@yolandadespain2414]

As a 26 almost 27 year old adult the thought of being friends with a teenager weirds me the fuck out. My youngest friend is 21… people are disgusting 🤢

[@umbramortis8753]

I mean I’m 17 and have a friend that’s 38. It’s very much a mother daughter like relationship. She’s always there for me when I need her. I also have a friend that’s 26 and although I haven’t talked to him much lately I know he would be there if I needed him. Not every friendship with big age gaps is a case of grooming (although I don’t deny that many likely are). I think friendships with such big age gaps can be fine it’s all about the intentions behind it or rather the lack there of.

[@jaredcumbee5037]

Most definitely. I’m only 23 and I have a few 16-17 year old “friends”. And I wouldn’t really call them friends. I coached varsity 8th grade basketball for a couple years so I know some younger guys and we play basketball, talk basketball and maybe light social talk about how they’re doing in school. What is really wrong w people. I couldn’t imagine

[@angel127_]

i just turned 18 and the idea of finding anyone younger than 17-18 attractive disturbs me. they r literally like babies lol

[@euclidismybro1451]

Dunno. Me personally, I used to work at a teenage hangout place when I was 19 and befriended a few 13 year olds who were into the same games I was into. We're all still friends 8 years later. It's a little strange, but you find friends in the weirdest of places.

[@sora-tp3qt]

I’m almost 16 and I have a few friends who r 18-19 cuz i knew them in high school I also have friends that r in their 20s but they’re my cousins and I’m close with them

[@qelipothaumiel]

Saw this coming from a mile away lol. Someone who acts like this and tries their hardest to prove how politically correct and accepting they are usually end up being degenerates. This dude is the embodiment of saying "I'm a very nice person, you can ask anyone if you want".

[@Sonnenanbeterin1991]

Yes you cant be political correct 100%

[@erisolandmore9703]

I’m friends with people a few years younger than me but as I am 19 even I didn’t want to be friends with people younger than me by a significant amount. A 13 year old wanted to be my friend and I didn’t want to hurt their feelings but I still drew a line and told them I wasn’t comfortable being their friend. It really isn’t hard to not be friends with minors with a major age gap.

[@20dabarr58]

I think the age limit for friendship for me (19) is 17 years old. The age limit for dating is late 18. It's super important to behave responsibly and encourage age appropriate relationships

[@ticrific]

The fact I used to trust him and shared people that needed to be exposed to him... I thought he would help stop them from hurting people. Now it turns out he was always the one hurting people

[@ticrific]

Luckily he never replied to me lmao

[@StonedHunter]

This is just so disturbing... Like, I'm on discord servers where there are younger teens on there. And when I interact with those kids I make the effort to take less of a "friend" role and try to act like the adult in the situation that I am and make sure no lines get crossed because that is my responsibility as the older person in the situation. It's not that hard of a concept to grasp I don't understand why so many influencers behave like this!

[@platinum_noelle]

Right? My bf and I were playing a game, and vibed well with a random person online. Got into a call on Discord, found out the person was a minor, and we made it very clear immediately that while we're ok playing and being in a call with them, we needed to establish firm boundaries between us and her, and that we could be "friendly" but not "close friends". The moment we heard her age, my bf literally went "mm, no, this feels wrong, this needs to be addressed _now"_

[@whymustyoubetraymeso2768]

I’m a minor and anytime I see a discord user is 18+ years old, I don’t talk to them at all unless I have friends also interacting with us, I don’t even accept their friend request. It’s nice to see that some older people have those thoughts as well.

[@jasminerigdon2916]

@@whymustyoubetraymeso2768 that is very smart of you. Sadly, not many adults are like this commenter and myself. I was groomed by so many people when I was a minor, and I’m autistic, so I never ever grasped it. Looking back, everything makes me so sick and I cannot understand how an adult would even want to be close friends with a child.

[@StefSoleil]

That's exactly how I handle this. The only kids I interact with online on a regular basis are kids I'm related to and the kids of my friends. I'm a grown ass woman, what am I going to have in common with children I don't know? Probably just the game we're playing, so that's what we'll talk about.

[@heggy_69]

@@platinum_noelle listen, when i was younger if someone in a call just started talking about boundaries right off the bat at best id think theyre kinda creepy and at worst id have blocked someone. its a good rule but id keep it unspoken until it really comes up

[@thedreammweaver6274]

You know it’s bad when NICK FOSTER is calling you out and has a point

[@Wonpillili]

I never thought that there would be a day when i agreed with something Nick Foster said, looks like i was wrong

[@titush.3195]

@@Wonpillili Same. But a broken clock is still right twice a day, so..

[@junhansguitar1036]

i really never thought the day would come that i’d agree with him

[@randohuman5084]

I hate Nick so much I wish he didn't have a point.

[@sarahking1589]

Who’s that?

[@jasper1558]

“TikTok’s worst predator” now that title is kinda impressive and I imagine its hard to get

[@grayfoe7731]

this is really sad. a year ago, he was my favorite cc because of how much of an ally he was. goes to show how you should never trust anything at first glance online.

[@peaceloveandsnoopy]

As a 26yo, I could never be friends with a teenager because we're just... lightyears apart in terms of emotional development. And these creeps know that, too.

[@katelynspencer8392]

Ew he’s 27. He looks like he’s been through a rough 45 years .

[@UskInaTE]

Yeah, right? I honestly can’t believe this dude is younger than me because I could have sworn he was much older… Big yikes!

[@miramuchachito296]

He looks in his 40 for sure but very white skin and the moustache maybe

[@eggegg8181]

Wait this guys 27?! I thought he was 40. I’ve never heard of him before until this video but can’t believe this man’s younger than me, he’s aged like milk

[@bigwendigo2253]

@@UskInaTE i thought the same thing, I’m 30 and when I heard jorobe was 27 I was like “what the fuck?”

[@UskInaTE]

@@miramuchachito296 I also think it’s partially the way he dresses that ages him so much. Like, he deadass has the fashion sense of a 40-50 year old dad.

[@sourlemonroll7689]

He had the audacity to tell other people to “do better” when he does this behind everyone’s back…. We all trusted him and looked up to him and he turns out to be a groomer…

[@emifukakado-msjoke]

I really loved his content. I’m 17 and was 15 or 16 when I first saw his content and followed him. I just loved seeing someone who was religious talk about topics I cared about. I myself being religious, get really excited when I see someone else who believes in god and progressive ideals… i was even more happy that he was older than me by quite a bit and not just someone in my age range, so I knew it wasn’t just a “teenage rebellious thinking phase” type thing. I was so heartbroken to hear what he had done. It seems like whenever I find someone to look up to…they end up being a gross creep..

[@emmavrijburg6676]

I’m 18 and I have a 2-something year old friend (he’s also my cousin) I sometimes hang out with. Genuine platonic relationships with an age difference can be supercool to have, but it’s weird and predatory when it’s not

[@ThisIsntPurple]

im 13 and i have a friend/cousin thats 19 and we're also really great friends! plus he's into men and im into women so 😏😌

[@ThisIsntPurple]

hes like a brother to me and he calls me his sister all the time, hes also my only friend lmao 😀

[@crystalkirlia4553]

Ngl, when I was 17, I was kicked out of my family home and was pretty distraught about that. I joined a gc on an app that I liked called "emotional support" and got talking to the other person in the group. I unloaded a lot because I was in a really bad place, then I asked how old the other person was, thinking they were in their 30s or 40s because of their good spelling and grammar and lack of Internet talk. The person then told me they were 13 and I instantly left. The rules in the gc said 16+ but I was talking to a kid. My heart dropped. I alerted the mods, showed them a screen shot and told them I had left the gc. The mod then gave me a helpline to call and some young persons homelessness charities to contact and wished me well. I think that my example is a good way to deal with a situation like this if anyone else finds themselves in a situation similar, or at least I hope it is. I was an overly emotional kid at the time but I'm 19 and doing a lot better now.

[@bigwendigo2253]

I’m not really sure how these two situations are even comparable. I don’t get it, were you scared because you were spilling your guts out to a 13 year old and didn’t know? You didn’t do anything even remotely wrong it sounds like… this dude was trying to get kids liquored up and into airBnBs and hot tubs after gaining their total trust and sympathy (crying to one member of the group chat that the rest of the group doesn’t like him, isolating that one member, etc) I am glad you’re doing better. I’m sorry your parents kicked you out. Parents should never do that to their child.

[@thenamelessghuleh]

It happens, but at least you knew better than to go any further than you did after knowing that fact. (Context: I was an 11 year old that several 20 + year olds tried to groom back in the day. Most way after they knew my age. At least you stopped.)

[@sterlingstone5525]

I used to literally idolise this person it’s just so disappointing

[@iNabber]

It's just sad

[@nonottoday5042]

@@iNabber are you replying to every comment this person makes-

[@ash2833]

@Agatha Anabell shut up

[@BooksandBuns]

@@ash2833 mate, it's a bot. Just report for spam & move on

[@heggy_69]

the fact that you idolised this guy is really sad

[@thelexicon7294]

Guys, whenever anyone asks "When do you turn 18," please take it as a red flag.

[@tayaitkins6117]

As a survivor, I really felt like he was a safe person to trust and follow. It’s so disgusting and disappointing to see this all come out. I hope his victims are okay

[@longshlongfan5883]

this is so scary. im fifteen and i followed this person because i admired what i thought was him speaking out against assualters. if this would have been me in any situation i would have so easily fallen for it. that terrifies me. my heart goes out to all the victims and i hope that you're all doing okay. i never realized how much of a monster this person was. i'm so sorry.

[@michaelkenner3289]

While you can have friendships with big age gaps there's usually some common interest or hobby. I've got D&D friends that are half my age but we can talk about elves, dwarves and wizards without it being creepy. I find it weird when there's a massive age gap between people who are just friends who talk about their day to day life. What could your day to day life have in common with someone in a completely different phase of their life?

[@moon-shrimpy]

I have friends at school who are in their 30’s, i’m 19 and in beauty school. We all talk and do things friends would do in school, but we don’t hang out unless it’s ALL of us for like a school event. We’re chill without being creepy

[@emmad4308]

This exactly; I've played DND with teenagers as an adult, and it was perfectly fine in that context, but otherwise? No. Heck, I look at anyone under 20 (I'm 22) as a child. Otherwise I don't have anything to do with teenagers, apart from my younger sister and her friends. I have a friend in his 30s I met at uni, we share common interests and whatnot and we have an excellent and genuine friendship. However, we also established that friendship in person, and built up to talking about deeper and more personal things. Obviously this is a specific case, but again, met him through a specific environment (uni). Tldr; age gap friendships are fine if U share hobbies and ARE NOT CREEPY AND RECOGNISE THE FACT YOU ARE VASTLY DIFFERENT AGES.

[@MissCaraMint]

Yes that’s true. You can have a large gap between the oldest and the youngest person in that kind of group, but then you’ll also have people inbetween those ages. The oldest and the youngest member don’t go off by themselves to do stuff as a rule. Aslo we treat someone young age apropriately. Like not buying them alcohol, or hittingon them. They rather become more likt the kid sibling of the group if the others are older. In such groups we have had we have all been protective of our youngest member. Seriously if you mess with them we will go after you, kind of thing.

[@seliamila1005]

Right, when I have older friends in high school or younger friends in community online it's because we have a common interest, sure some of those friendships become more meaningful and close but there's always clear boundaries and respectful rules

[@Kimmie6772]

I mean, it can be possible in the right circumstance (maybe there's an older coworker you vent to for instance), but it isn't common and usually isn't as involved and outgoing as with their peers.

[@willkennedy1510]

Best feeling is when you post, i fall asleep listening to your videos cause your voice is calming and i struggle to sleep

[@iNabber]

Thank you so much, i know a lot of people do that so i'm trying to do use less music to make it easier to watch paha

[@willkennedy1510]

@@iNabber you are by far the most considerate youtuber oh my god

[@lbz6412]

I’ll probably fall asleep watching this right now because I’m in bed and I’ll watch this video again tomorrow

[@willkennedy1510]

@@lbz6412 same honestly

[@Moon_x_sun]

Same i like watching/listening to theesw videos as a way to fall asleep bc i struggle With my thoughts (my own thoughts keep me awake)

[@foopfoop8611]

It’s crazy thinking about how many kids Jorobe was trying to gr00m all around the same time. He’s sick and I hope he doesn’t get away with it

[@makisu2839]

NO WAY I CANT BELIEVE YOU COVERED THIS BUT IM SO HAPPY BECAUSE YOU EXPLAIN THINGS IN A WAY I CAN UNDERSTAND 😭 i was silently hoping you would talk about him so thank you so much!!!!!!

[@eltrasterodeasra2198]

This hits so close to home, meeting someone you look up to and then taking advantage of that and of you. And the scary part isn't even that happening at the time, it's realizing it later when you've matured and learnt. I hope everyone understands how overwhelming it is to realize you've been groomed, how dumb and used you feel. I hope all these teens he groomed can move on soon, they deserve the world and more, they all seem so lovely.

[@camimoody5743]

I’m glad people are speaking up about grooming. It can take years to realize what happened to you was wrong and bringing it to light can help so many people get out of dangerous situations

[@weezerslefttoenail]

I feel so disgusted that I followed this man. I didn't know about this after losing interest in the platform a while ago, but 2-faced men like this terrify me the most out of anyone. Eerily similar to my own grooming and assault experiences. Thank you for getting this out into the open air. He deserves every fall.

[@showerheadjoker9672]

Same bro I used to follow him

[@jeanlannes4375]

You’re a moron I’ve seen through his bullshit since day 1

[@Sunflwr]

Same, forgot about him till this video popped up, used to love watching him bc he said so much I agreed with

[@maryoraha2637]

thank you for speaking up on this. i’m sending all my thoughts and prayers to the victims. hoping they can heal :( 💙

[@josiewilliamson601]

As a minor I honestly looked up to him and he gave me faith that the younger generations would be educated on these things through tiktok. But now I completely see him differently and honestly am disgusted by him

[@iris-ju6cy]

i used to have a fan page of him (yea i’m embarrassed of it too) with thousand of followers. he followed me and a bunch of other fanpages and used to talk to us privately and in groupchats. looking back now it makes me so uncomfortable knowing there was people as young as 10 running these pages

[@bunbun3429]

I haven’t even heard of this guy, but thank you for keeping us informed!! Can’t stress how much I look forward to seeing your videos! Would love if you had merch we could buy. Also I hope you’re mental health isn’t suffering working so hard to bring us daily content, really appreciate everything you do!!😊😊

[@depressedmemera970]

Love the owl house profile picture

[@caitsnotcait]

I really thought he was one of the only men who would speak for us women and sa survivors, yet it proves once again; we can’t trust anyone.

[@TheEnigmaticSofa]

oof

[@annisoptimistic]

Seeing a ring on his fourth finger on the left hand makes me wonder if he was married... Does that mean, he’s a predator (allegedly) AND a cheater? That’s twice as messed up.

[@Josh-gb4vo]

To me it's one mess up that affects and ruins all the lives connected with this individual. Sigh

[@Baldjotarokujo]

It was on his ring finger not his pinky?

[@guacbird]

@@Baldjotarokujo the ring finger is also called the fourth finger

[@Baldjotarokujo]

@@guacbird wow I never would’ve guessed

[@naomitaylor4667]

outing a victim is the lowest thing to do

[@wrentaylor690]

im 21 and im uncomfortable talking to anyone with "teen" after their age unless they're family like..

[@britpopwh0ree486]

used to think this lad made some good points. although his argumentative way of talking in his videos was rather annoying, he made so many tiktoks on certain things that matched so many people’s views on important topics.. but to find out that his actions went against all things he advocated for in his videos, talking about the importance of consent in particular. it is so frustrating. the hypocrisy is astounding

[@nothx2845]

my idea. some of his takes were genuinely good (keyword some) but then he'd go through this pasaionate ranting that seems almost forceful. its hard to listen to since it kind of looks like an abuser trying to convince you of something.

[@britpopwh0ree486]

@@nothx2845 i completely agree with you there. i tried to look past it, as i understand that some people can come across as rather forceful when speaking about something passionately. however i realise now that he was never passionate with what he was talking about, he just wanted everyone to like him so he could get views, possibly to also cover up these allegations

[@zuglymonster]

Lol me when you say "you're probably not down with the kids" Me: they're on to me! They know I'm one of those "Hello fellow kids" people now.

[@Moon_x_sun]

Tiktok has so many predators its actully sick

[@miramuchachito296]

Yes Sick F*** is a more accurate name for it. I don't know if the chinese dicature knows the monster they created.

[@iwalkintowallsonadailybasi2970]

And they protect them

[@ravencce]

honestly the most shocking thing about this video was that he was 28???? my guy looks about 40

[@YungKit]

about the part on age difference, i'm 19 and i have 27 to 35yo friends IRL at my university, just saying, it's a thing, and it's not creepy, this age difference doesn't automatically make relations toxic, it's not that simple (I'm not defending jorobe, I'm just saying that in general)

[@gillianisprobablycrying5784]

Never ever trust anyone on the Internet. Celebrities and Internet stars only show you what they want you to see. Even if you think a person is good, do not let your guard down.

[@reginamachamer821]

I feel like at least 90% or more of us remember times growing up where someone did/said something that we thought was fine at the time, but now looking back you realize how terrifyingly creepy it actually was.. like imagine it being an ongoing thing with someone you trust... I can't imagine how anyone could blame these CHILDREN for this.

[@acemyname]

this video being demonetized is bs, i’m glad you’re bringing light to the topic because i’ve only seen a couple people on tiktok calling him out (one of those being a victim) so thank you and i hope my comment helps the algorithm

[@Candy80]

I remember seeing his content and reading all the comments "I'd trust you with my drink" people calling him a king look how the tables have turned...

[@Chillaxes]

It also doesn't matter if he was 24 either. Inviting someone to an Airbnb and tricking them into sleeping in a one bedroom with you is not ok especially when they make it clear they aren't comfy. Plus separating someone from their friends

[@crafting_joy]

i'm in my late 20's and the only kinda relationship i could see having with teenager, that is not a familial one, is a mentor/older sibling type of one. i can't even imagine being friends with a teenager because of the huge difference in priorities, maturity, goals, and like where are in life. like being friends with someone in their early 20's while i'm in my late 20's makes sense to me even if there is still a difference in goals, priorities, maturity, etc. because it is not so big that you can't be friends, but like a teenager that just couldn't work so for someone in their late 20's to pursue teenagers for a non-platonic intimate relationship is repulsive because it clearly about that person wanting to be a position of power and to abuse that unbalanced power dynamic.

[@crafting_joy]

And it's not that I don't think teenagers aren't capable of being mature intelligent people like I've been at guest for meals at people who have teens and had really interesting conversations with them. It is just that when you take it beyond that I can't see how it work as friendship that is any way remotely healthy or balanced. Like teenagers who are friends with others teens where there is an age gape makes sense for example: when I was a freshman in high school I had a friend who was a senior. And once they graduated we didn't really keep up because I was dealing with high school and teenage related stuff and they were dealing with college stuff and entering the work force and like how to be adult and all the things that come with entering your 20's once you looking at someone who is their 20's and older I just can't see any justification for any sort of relationship with teenager platonic or otherwise (obviously exceptions like if its a family member or it is like a mentoring thing or older sibling type deal or like you've know since they were little kid or something like that, but hopefully you get my point)

[@synonymous_]

Seriously. Im in my early twenties and I don't have a single friend that is underaged (>18 in my country). I just don't see why. We're at radically different points in our lives, I'd rather hang out with people who share that than people who don't, and I think a lot of teens feel the same way.

[@talynhastime9343]

Yeah, whenever I meet a minor online I immediately snap into “teacher’s aide” mode. They’re babies to me and I need to be the responsible one.

[@crafting_joy]

@@synonymous_ Exactly. That is why when some youtuber or tik toker who is in their early or late 20's is hanging out with teens and is "friends" with them I'm like wtf. Where teenagers are in life and where someone in their 20's are in theirs are very different and then add in that the brain isn't fully developed until 25 in which specifically a fully developed brain process information in the rational part of the brain while the still developing brain does that in the emotion part. The prefrontal cortex is what helps to reason about long term consequences and think logically that is where the brain is doing its decision making once fully developed. Teens are doing theirs in amygdala so that kind of logical, rational, long term thinking is not really happening because that is not what that part of the brain is for. So kind of inherent power imbalance is so uneven. Plus you are dealing with even more of power imbalance because of the adult who is financially independent vs teen who is not, the major aspect of adult vs minor. Like I zero interest in friendship where the power is so uneven and tipped in my favor, even if they were the same age or older then me. So I really don't buy the whole it is "all innocent" when an adult is "friends" with a minor.

[@kellynaz9256]

In my early 20s I couldn't comprehend being friends with an 18 year old, bc I know that I have AGED so much in those years and that its inappropriate now.