Inbred Family-The Whittakers (follow up)

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Soft White Underbelly

Soft White Underbelly

2 жыл бұрын

Soft White Underbelly follow up interview and portrait of the Whittaker family of Odd, West Virginia.
Here's a link to a playlist of all Whittaker family videos: • The Whittakers
Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly book: softwhiteunderbelly.org
#whittakers #westvirginia #appalachia #interview #familyhistory #softwhiteunderbelly #marklaita #mentalhealth #familydynamics #inbreeding #inbred

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@mallorilesseski8676
@mallorilesseski8676 2 жыл бұрын
“I promised my Mommy I wouldn’t get married, I promised her I’d take care of Ray, Lorraine, and Timmy”. Your mama would be proud Betty. 💜
@JJj-qo9pb
@JJj-qo9pb 2 жыл бұрын
The sacrifice is wholesome. God bless her n hers all fam
@TDBurrow
@TDBurrow 2 жыл бұрын
Id hit it
@kmadoom
@kmadoom 2 жыл бұрын
her mother would also be her aunt lmao
@tiffanynot-amused9077
@tiffanynot-amused9077 2 жыл бұрын
God has a special place for her in heaven that's for sure 🖤😇🙏
@sebastyann123
@sebastyann123 2 жыл бұрын
@@kmadoom wow i would never be able to reach to that myself, i guess your mom is also your aunt
@zdubsmith
@zdubsmith 2 жыл бұрын
Just remember y’all. They didn’t choose to be born this way. Yet they still wake up, look out for one another, and have smiles on their faces
@susanenglander9977
@susanenglander9977 2 жыл бұрын
Dream on, Dream on, Dream on.
@lisamichels1825
@lisamichels1825 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes ignorance is bliss
@benjaminromberg2091
@benjaminromberg2091 2 жыл бұрын
Amen to that Zachary, they’re just simple people and hopefully they’re happy and content.
@22lrjayden81
@22lrjayden81 2 жыл бұрын
Fr. Makes me so thankful man. And pissed at my peers that get upset Bc their parents got them a 1,000 dollar tv instead of a 1,000 dolllar iPhone
@austincrazie886
@austincrazie886 2 жыл бұрын
That was a beautiful comment! My heart is hurting so bad but at the same time, they all seem so happy together...its hard to be too upset about it.
@Dara-lu5ql
@Dara-lu5ql Жыл бұрын
"I promised my mommy I wouldn't get married. I was gonna stay home and take care of them, and I took care of them more than anyone else." Said Betty. Respect 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I wish you all the best and thank you Mark for treating them with respect and love, furthermore, you opened the window to the world to have the chance to make donation and help them!🙏🏼❤️
@Taushathetech
@Taushathetech Жыл бұрын
Betty is such a precious soul.
@cryptoenespanolcre7168
@cryptoenespanolcre7168 10 ай бұрын
My hearth melted when i heard that. They smile way more than many clever people
@reynasaid8065
@reynasaid8065 9 ай бұрын
I'm so proud that she obeyed her momma wishes, but I also feel bad that Betty didn't get to live her own life and have kids of her own and get married. But she doing an amazing job taking care of her siblings
@Didenne
@Didenne 9 ай бұрын
I’d love to meet Betty!
@user-mq5dr1jh5t
@user-mq5dr1jh5t 6 ай бұрын
betty and lorriane must be twins. they look alike
@lavasharkandboygirl9716
@lavasharkandboygirl9716 Жыл бұрын
Betty is a fascinating person. You can see she’s so lucid and trying to communicate but there’s still a barrier there with the comprehension
@SuperCrazyPsycho731
@SuperCrazyPsycho731 Жыл бұрын
You really find those people fascinating. You shouldn't invite them over for dinner and let them f*** your sister
@claybirdyshaw5737
@claybirdyshaw5737 9 ай бұрын
Betty is an amazing person. She may come off quick and rude and ungrateful, but that seems to just be the way she communicates and clearly means nothing by it after you watch a few videos. Although I feel very sorry for Ray, Timmy, and Loraine I almost envy their blissful ignorance. They literally have one of the worst lifes imaginable, but they wake up everyday happy and don't even realize it. Yet at the same time we have millionaires with what seems like the perfect life commiting suicide everyday. I think that is what draws me to these videos the most.
@redpilloahu_808
@redpilloahu_808 8 ай бұрын
The barrier is called an extra chromosome.
@janathurmond9390
@janathurmond9390 8 ай бұрын
​@@claybirdyshaw5737Amen.. ❤
@janathurmond9390
@janathurmond9390 8 ай бұрын
​@@redpilloahu_808thank you for explaining 😊
@aprilMichelleXJRL
@aprilMichelleXJRL 2 жыл бұрын
That woman promised her mom she would take care of her siblings and she did and still is..... that is loyalty. It's love. God bless em.
@walliegoolsby5389
@walliegoolsby5389 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder what will happen if they loose Lorene. She is holding the family together as promised.
@melissaevans4396
@melissaevans4396 2 жыл бұрын
@@walliegoolsby5389 it’s Betty that holds them together. Lorain can’t speak much. But there’s no telling what will happen when she’s gone.
@mcglo585
@mcglo585 2 жыл бұрын
It broke my heart to hear her say that. She kept her promise. Yes, Lord, bless them all.
@nymetsfan912
@nymetsfan912 2 жыл бұрын
That’s the definition of an angel. She’s willing to sacrifice her entire life to help these people have a good life. It’s just not something you see anymore these days.
@the_even_toed_ungulate.
@the_even_toed_ungulate. 2 жыл бұрын
@@walliegoolsby5389 I bet they can spell better than you.
@dominikwalker6608
@dominikwalker6608 2 жыл бұрын
If Ray were given a camera, I'd be incredibly curious to see what he would take photos of. What people photograph is a great insight to what someone is attentive to. For someone that doesn't speak it could be really insightful.
@Batty218
@Batty218 2 жыл бұрын
Never thought of it that way. This is a great comment. Even tho it makes total sense.
@Mrs.Criticless
@Mrs.Criticless 2 жыл бұрын
I love this comment.
@lostfound8112
@lostfound8112 2 жыл бұрын
Awesoe idea
@genghis_connie
@genghis_connie 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking of something similar. My second thought was that it would be all pictures taken from the porch. I do wonder. I would love to see if a sort of kids game with words and pictures would help the three to say what they feel and answer questions. I worry that they're all going to be committed if anything happens to the older sister. They would probably all follow quickly. Jesus, this all just guts me.
@Diggs4ever
@Diggs4ever 2 жыл бұрын
He would definitely be snapping pics of mommas snapper. You can tell that guy fcks
@chromedome4243
@chromedome4243 10 ай бұрын
Betty is such a selfless human being. She dedicated her entire life to taking care of her special needs siblings. She is the glue that holds everyone together
@Ghost-rx4yt
@Ghost-rx4yt 10 ай бұрын
this is the biggest reality check i’ve ever had. they didn’t choose to be born like this and yet they live on? that’s inspiring
@Didenne
@Didenne 9 ай бұрын
Well, to be fair ignorance is bliss.
@anactualalpaca7016
@anactualalpaca7016 5 ай бұрын
@@Didenne I'm sure they're fully aware of their lives and aliments, since they have to live with themselves every single day. Perhaps your ignorance is bliss.
@stoverboo
@stoverboo 3 ай бұрын
@@anactualalpaca7016 And it seems the good Christians of the local church made sure they were reminded of their shortcomings.
@billierosehair1364
@billierosehair1364 13 сағат бұрын
Yes! Watching these videos were inspiring to me!
@Hearth123
@Hearth123 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like Ray actually knows what he wants to say, he just can't say it. He seems to be imitating the dogs, but he definitely understands the questions and he's answering in his own language
@ddinfant679
@ddinfant679 2 жыл бұрын
He's communicating quite a bit, they all were, it just takes time to learn to understand what they say, they really seemed eager to share.
@evalonia
@evalonia 2 жыл бұрын
After the age of 14, it is nearly impossible to learn someone to speak a language. I am deeply facinated as to why he does not speak. This is a facinating family, and I just want to watch more and learn.
@AnAdorableWombat
@AnAdorableWombat 2 жыл бұрын
He actually doesn't because the way his brain is set up. No matter how yall try to butter it up, Ray is mentally incompetent and unable to think like a normal person due to inbreeding.
@alfredosilvaneto
@alfredosilvaneto 2 жыл бұрын
He appears to understand more than his siblings.
@dopeclipsgaming2946
@dopeclipsgaming2946 2 жыл бұрын
When he asked how old ray was I swore ray said 66 and when she said 67 I was like 😮
@tacticaldad9929
@tacticaldad9929 2 жыл бұрын
I doubt this comment will be seen, but I’m a Shady Spring, WV native born and raised here. Myself and several others would love to volunteer our time if they have any more supplies to do work on their house.
@YavaTay
@YavaTay 2 жыл бұрын
Thats what is needed. People who want to help. I hope the comment is seen and help accepted
@saablife6009
@saablife6009 2 жыл бұрын
Hope you get in contact with the family there really could do with the help
@hazelscobbie8290
@hazelscobbie8290 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful people ❤
@e-rock7319
@e-rock7319 2 жыл бұрын
That is sweet. Hopefully, this post will help with the algorithm and get it seen. 🙏best of luck
@Amybtru
@Amybtru 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you get a response. Some good honest help is what they need!
@gypsysoulrae0722
@gypsysoulrae0722 10 ай бұрын
When he was asking about family that had passed away and Lorrane said "My Daddy...." I could have cried my eyes out 🥺
@randymarsh9488
@randymarsh9488 4 ай бұрын
Wtf 😂
@lannettesantanaslife8289
@lannettesantanaslife8289 10 ай бұрын
I am a health care provider, for ppl with disabilities. Ray could have learned to communicate a lot more. Had he had early intervention, he is very smart. You could tell he want to say so much, he is just a very happy person. It is very interesting to watch and notice how much could have been done for all of them. They understand everything you are saying, they just can't communicate.
@loomibiq
@loomibiq 9 ай бұрын
If it was Australia they would each have funding of $200,000 per year for support workers.
@lannettesantanaslife8289
@lannettesantanaslife8289 9 ай бұрын
@@loomibiq In the US you are put on a tier 1,2 and 3. Depending on what tier you fall, is the amount you get for Services. It is evil, there are so many ppl with no help what so ever, they could care less about ppl with disabilities. They should have been helped, im sure they have gone ro a hospital before, so they should have been helped a long time ago, but this country ignores them, because they are ignorant to the fact that there is help out there. it is truly evil, but what can we do.
@readyaimfire3454
@readyaimfire3454 9 ай бұрын
what do u think happened to ray to be that way ? it seems hes mentally present & responsive & can hear/see, so why wasnt he able to pick up language ?
@italkalotofshit
@italkalotofshit 9 ай бұрын
Yea it’s like he was never taught how to speak or communicate so all of the animals he heard over the years, he mimics them
@KendyllTaylor-oz1qp
@KendyllTaylor-oz1qp 8 ай бұрын
Ray needs an AAC device so that he can communicate expressively! I’m a speech pathologist and work with nonverbal patients who have strong receptive language skills like Ray. If someone could get him an iPad with AAC app on it that’s voice generating- he could have access to so much more expressive language!
@redfo3009
@redfo3009 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s not forget that this woman was the one of the 16 siblings who stayed behind to look after her siblings and nephew for her dying mother. She has more heart and compassion than many others who would have walked away too. They aren’t that uncivilized. Just look that way
@skye_0368
@skye_0368 2 жыл бұрын
Awww
@goldenrule6173
@goldenrule6173 2 жыл бұрын
$30k for a tin roof ? And some medical bills?? Someone took advantage of them. They need help getting things fixed....if you just throw money at them...I mean...what u expect. Ask em what they need and go get it. Coulda hired some cheap fix it ppl...fix that whole dang house...and hook em up with GOOD FOOD to eat. They get mail back there....send em good food! Good water. Maybe some cbd oil. Idk.
@patrickneil7820
@patrickneil7820 2 жыл бұрын
@@goldenrule6173 yea they got robbed.
@patrickneil7820
@patrickneil7820 2 жыл бұрын
@@goldenrule6173 some ppl might even come with "good" intentions and switch up halfway through. lol. that's just the way it is these days.
@carter_1
@carter_1 2 жыл бұрын
@@goldenrule6173 when is the last time you got a roof done? In 2018, it cost us (ironically) $35,000 for our house roof (just a tear off & replace), tin roof for garage, & new gutters around both. 25,000 was the house (and that was pre-inflation aks covid). Heck my dad had his own roofing company for yeeears and even in the 1980s it was 10grand for an average job. She got her a roof, medical Bill's, and redid her laundry room. I thought she faired out pretty descent!
@averyking5482
@averyking5482 2 жыл бұрын
I'm highly disturbed and disheartened that the people of the CHURCH made fun of him and made him stop going. I'm not a religious person, nor a church goer, but it still hurt my heart.
@CC-pu6qn
@CC-pu6qn 2 жыл бұрын
Just because someone walks into a church doesn’t make them a person of God.
@avici0182
@avici0182 2 жыл бұрын
I've met alot of terrible people thay goes to church. I've also met some of the most genuine people who'd been beaten at every corner of their life, those people were the most understanding most compassionate human beings I've got the privilege to know. What I took away from this life experience is it is not your beliefs or religion, where you're from, or where you stand in your social circle, but it is how you treat others with a level of compassion that shows what kind of human being you really are.
@Redd-Rabbit
@Redd-Rabbit 2 жыл бұрын
They do it everywhere, they also spread messages of hate and fear to young children and I've seen them be torn apart as adolescence hits. I think they are they real "sinners" if there even is such a thing.
@irene_peacewambui6987
@irene_peacewambui6987 2 жыл бұрын
Human is human.... People in church are flawed, saved by grace You are being exactly what you find disturbing.
@juanitabuckingham1703
@juanitabuckingham1703 2 жыл бұрын
Church folks can be the worst..
@Admilly101
@Admilly101 Жыл бұрын
When he says to Lorraine "You look good though!" And she has a little smile after. So sweet. I love them and they must be protected at all costs 😭
@vcaylor77
@vcaylor77 11 ай бұрын
It was so nice to see her smile & engage, wasn't it? It's sad that it took a heart attack to stir that level of emotion, but hopefully we'll see more of that for happier reasons in future content. I'm absolutely addicted lol
@nonenone9892
@nonenone9892 4 ай бұрын
​@vcaylor77 Or,maybe you are making that connection. I'm not sure that waa why. Some of us are more guarded than others .
@kristenray9415
@kristenray9415 5 ай бұрын
You made Ray so happy talking about how he’s smart. You can tell he is, he just cannot get his point across sometimes.
@kenadybanks9912
@kenadybanks9912 2 жыл бұрын
I bet if Ray had the ability to talk he would answer every question his sister couldn't answer
@cyanide_lollipop3264
@cyanide_lollipop3264 2 жыл бұрын
For sure. I bet he'd have a lot to say. He's so happy to see Mark. It's sweet.
@basically2956
@basically2956 2 жыл бұрын
Oh absolutely!
@TheMarkymark314
@TheMarkymark314 2 жыл бұрын
Right! Ray responds to every question. He understands.
@tlangelanimaluleke1900
@tlangelanimaluleke1900 2 жыл бұрын
Ray is so smart, I so wish he could speak... such a sweet family, sending them warm hugs❤️❤️❤️
@helenvanpatterson-patton
@helenvanpatterson-patton 2 жыл бұрын
Yes he would! He tries so hard:) I wished I lived close so I could help her keep house.
@saralakatos1360
@saralakatos1360 Жыл бұрын
“I promised mommy not to get married” she was given the responsibility to take care of the whole family. 🥺
@bread7289
@bread7289 Жыл бұрын
she might also understand, it wouldn't be a good idea to continue the bloodline, as its well, you know. she seems to be the most "normal" out of all of them
@ravensmoon1699
@ravensmoon1699 Жыл бұрын
And she's done the best she can. Mark gave her money to fix up the house, repairs. She had a new roof put on among other things. They have an older brother who built a small house beside them who cooks for them ect. His mind is pretty sharp compared to his other siblings 🥰
@Sully357
@Sully357 Жыл бұрын
Right? That got me too! 🥹
@OutdoorsWonder
@OutdoorsWonder Жыл бұрын
she need to take care of the house at least lol
@suchabadkitty1293
@suchabadkitty1293 Жыл бұрын
@@OutdoorsWonder Why is that funny?
@jayduncan9315
@jayduncan9315 10 ай бұрын
I love how the family simply lives in the moment. No dwelling on the past or the future. They’re so present. Each time I watch the videos, I feel I understand Ray a little more. He’s so expressive. Thank you Mark for showing such respect and keeping their dignity in tact.
@todayslist37737
@todayslist37737 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, because I'm over here trying to understand why I'm understanding these people.
@dommyboy876
@dommyboy876 10 ай бұрын
Aww 9:40 when Mark asks if he’s feeling better Timmy pointed to his veins to say he got injected in the hospital to get better. Mark didn’t notice the gesture and went to the next question. Timmy gets mad and says “STOP!” as if saying “one thing at a time” 😂 I get their humor somehow.
@kandik7641
@kandik7641 8 ай бұрын
When asked if he goes to church Timmy said "but then I stopped. I don't go anymore because people are rude."
@dommyboy876
@dommyboy876 8 ай бұрын
@@kandik7641 😂 if he said that I wouldn’t blame him. we ppl suck. only God is good.
@iBeFloe
@iBeFloe 8 ай бұрын
Ray speaks in another video to show his brother’s grave, but Mark doesn’t notice it & neither do my of the comments. He says “He right here” in that video several times, but Mark just doesn’t catch it Even in this video, Ray was trying to say “3” by “barking” 3 times when asked how many rooms there were 12:50 15:50 Ray answers that he’s “66” a few times
@kandik7641
@kandik7641 8 ай бұрын
@@iBeFloe he was showing Mark the fridge was full and said "chicken. "
@kandik7641
@kandik7641 8 ай бұрын
@@dommyboy876 there are so many gods and religions.
@budddove6480
@budddove6480 2 жыл бұрын
She promised mom she wouldn't get married so she could tend to her siblings. She may be poor, but she has a wealthier heart than most. God Bless Them.
@readerrabbit6690
@readerrabbit6690 2 жыл бұрын
I'm certain if she had options to marry a provider she'd have done it. But no man worth his bread wants to marry an inbred with that much baggage.
@jackieclan815
@jackieclan815 2 жыл бұрын
@@readerrabbit6690 yep!!!
@budddove6480
@budddove6480 2 жыл бұрын
@@readerrabbit6690 Sounds like you speak from experience.
@nick56677
@nick56677 2 жыл бұрын
@@readerrabbit6690 Tbh Betty doesnt look inbred. She just looks like an average old lady you'd see couponing at Wal Mart
@H_A_L_7
@H_A_L_7 2 жыл бұрын
@@readerrabbit6690 Inbred as in ?
@mikeabel7577
@mikeabel7577 2 жыл бұрын
Betty is absolutely heroic. If you've been the sole caretaker of a family member you would understand. The will of this woman to keep her brothers and sisters alive is incredible.
@JJ-wk5wy
@JJ-wk5wy 2 жыл бұрын
It must be so hard for her at times
@hulagirl6719
@hulagirl6719 2 жыл бұрын
God forbid anything should happen to her...
@shadrachification
@shadrachification 2 жыл бұрын
Mike, You said it all.
@shadrachification
@shadrachification 2 жыл бұрын
@JH1234 All said was partly true Im thinking...She still chose in one way or another,given the chance to leave she may not(as in heres ya a male companion etc)... Lifes complexities.Given several other options,she may have just chosen the same ,to stay...aHer obligation to see her siblings cared for knowing noone else would be able to do the job.I think shes seen as a heroe because if Betty doesnt take care of them whoelse will.Also it doent necessarily mean shes not bitter or doesnt complain...its just we dont see it per the camera.Sometimes we suffer because we think of others and the need to see that they are o.k.
@kenwirth8572
@kenwirth8572 2 жыл бұрын
THEY SHOULD PUT THE BROTHERS TO SLEEP AT THE VETS LIKE DOGS. DOGS ARE SMARTER THAN ANY OF THEM ANYWAY
@edin8128
@edin8128 Жыл бұрын
I love how ray spoke more than the whole family and even the fact that he knows what is being said and is basically talking is amazing
@alpha1beta1gamma
@alpha1beta1gamma Жыл бұрын
That’s just categorically wrong. Betty did
@user-eg4zb8sp1w
@user-eg4zb8sp1w 11 ай бұрын
If you watched the video, it would have been obvious Betty did the most talking
@anactualalpaca7016
@anactualalpaca7016 5 ай бұрын
@@user-eg4zb8sp1w Wow, did it take your Reddit Degree to see that one, Einstein?
@alanaaites8292
@alanaaites8292 9 ай бұрын
It's incredibly sweet how the sister gave up her life to care for her family. At church everyone should be accepted.
@alyssahlouiseconstantino3943
@alyssahlouiseconstantino3943 2 жыл бұрын
I love how Betty said "I promised my mommy I wouldn't get married, I would take care of Ray, Lorraine and Tim and I did," She's totally am amazing person and I love her for that.
@ruthbashford3176
@ruthbashford3176 2 жыл бұрын
Betty said she was one of 16 so I wonder if all they others were fine and just moved out and got married. I hope the family helps
@alyssahlouiseconstantino3943
@alyssahlouiseconstantino3943 2 жыл бұрын
@@ruthbashford3176 I've seen one of their brother and his daughter in the other video I think, and It seems that brother is also helping Betty to take care of the other siblings
@zachperkins688
@zachperkins688 2 жыл бұрын
@@ruthbashford3176 I saw on an obituary I found for one of their siblings that there are several siblings living in other cities, a couple of whom are married. I'm sure they are all somewhat mentally ill, but they may be more like Betty than Ray.
@Nik.No.K
@Nik.No.K 2 жыл бұрын
She spent her life paying for her parents poor decisions. It's really just a shame and I wouldn't do it. Did I hear them say 15 kids?? That's reckless stupidity even without the inbreeding.
@YVMedia
@YVMedia 2 жыл бұрын
So ignore the fact she could of did that married and better eh
@XWoodbineX
@XWoodbineX 2 жыл бұрын
I think Ray loves having other human interaction around. I think he's a real people person
@philtaylor6602
@philtaylor6602 2 жыл бұрын
Inciteful.
@lcameeno1
@lcameeno1 2 жыл бұрын
@@philtaylor6602 :v
@citrinebby7977
@citrinebby7977 2 жыл бұрын
i wanna know what he has to say 😭 i swear he’s probably hilarious and knows a lot more than anyone thinks he does
@JUSTAM8
@JUSTAM8 2 жыл бұрын
He definitely strikes me as a social butterfly. Bless him ❤️
@NaturallyGifted77
@NaturallyGifted77 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@laurasutcliffe723
@laurasutcliffe723 Жыл бұрын
Happy that Lorraine and Timmy survived their heart attacks. Timmy is so young to have had one though :( I wish nothing but health and happiness for the Whittaker's.
@1954crc
@1954crc 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so kind to this family. I also love the way that the many people commenting are also loving,understanding and thoughtful. I'll repeat what others have said,"They didn't ask to to be born this way." What loyalty and devotion is shown by Betty. That's very rare.
@Lostinmyhead23
@Lostinmyhead23 2 жыл бұрын
I actually feel bad for Betty. She basically gave up her whole life to become a caregiver and is isolated from basically the whole world besides her family. I really empathize with people who have to raise and take care of people with severe disabilities, it’s not easy at all.
@lisah6799
@lisah6799 2 жыл бұрын
It takes a special person to be a caretaker. You have to be very patient. She looks like she's mastered it. ❤
@marietourniquet
@marietourniquet 2 жыл бұрын
I feel for Betty too, and actually relate to her alot. I have a husband and 3 boys of my own, I also care for my grandma, and my mother. I am 27yrs old. I have no life, except caring for my family. I have three sisters and not a single one helps care for mom and grandma. One of my sisters is an addict and I help her out sometimes too. Its exhausting. And with the pandemic, i had all my kids home learning...its just wild. To give up your own life to take care of loved ones...it isn't easy. But I definitely have a leg up on Betty, living in the modern world and all. She's a very selfless woman ❤
@salvadorajimenez-rodriguez9139
@salvadorajimenez-rodriguez9139 2 жыл бұрын
I think she’s just as ill but she can talk
@mistermarsh1
@mistermarsh1 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I felt the worse for her because she has all her faculties and wit. It seems like a lonely world for her no love like that from a significant other not family. 😳❤️
@westcoastorbust2462
@westcoastorbust2462 2 жыл бұрын
She didn’t have to. That’s where she wants to be. Co-dependency is a thing. If she were not there they might all be in clean facilities living a much better life.
@SortaLikePsycho
@SortaLikePsycho 2 жыл бұрын
Ray's been smiling non-stop for 67 years. Contagious smile
@Thawhid
@Thawhid 2 жыл бұрын
It's good but not contagious
@terryseldon42
@terryseldon42 2 жыл бұрын
Ah! Ah!
@chase5415
@chase5415 2 жыл бұрын
@@terryseldon42 😂😂😂
@zxyatiywariii8
@zxyatiywariii8 2 жыл бұрын
I love Ray's smile!
@lynnpurcell5225
@lynnpurcell5225 2 жыл бұрын
@Hugo Seguin I know, I caught myself smiling too.
@ajconlin8525
@ajconlin8525 Жыл бұрын
16 INBRED CHILDREN??? Geez, that's so... inhumane. I'm glad these four are making the best of their situation.
@ashcetenbeets5644
@ashcetenbeets5644 10 ай бұрын
They were double cousins, too. More related than first cousins, closer to a half-sibling in terms of shared DNA.
@buzuxi
@buzuxi 10 ай бұрын
Betty is actually normal. She may seem awkward but due to her isolated environment. My suspicion is some came out normal and they got the heck out and started new lives and identifies. Betty hints at that at 6:01
@animeboy2195
@animeboy2195 10 ай бұрын
​@@ashcetenbeets5644 can you please explain what double cousins mean .
@ashcetenbeets5644
@ashcetenbeets5644 10 ай бұрын
@@animeboy2195 double cousins are cousins in the normal sense, but are created as a result of identical twins having children with other people. Twins have the same genome, and so their children, although cousins, have more of the same DNA common between them. (12.5% in cousins, 25% in double cousins, 25% in half siblings, 50% in siblings) I believe that the mother and father of the Whittaker family were the children of twin brothers. Obviously, the more DNA that someone shares with a partner, the more likely recessive physical and mental impairments are to develop. They really had an unfortunate start to life, so it is nice to see that they're making the best of their situation.
@1954crc
@1954crc 9 ай бұрын
@@buzuxi I was just about to say the same thing,but I won't say it since you just made that point.
@kristyc1971
@kristyc1971 Жыл бұрын
These people are impossible NOT to love! They are so sweet!
@lylesommers5018
@lylesommers5018 9 ай бұрын
Fuck that, they’re a bunch of fuckin weirdos
@paktani6101
@paktani6101 9 ай бұрын
These people will eat you for sure
@user-fb3uq7ht9l
@user-fb3uq7ht9l 9 ай бұрын
@@paktani6101your mom needs to take away ur phone
@anactualalpaca7016
@anactualalpaca7016 5 ай бұрын
@@paktani6101 How do I know you wouldn't do the same? I'd trust these guys over you any day of the week.
@n0rsca392
@n0rsca392 2 жыл бұрын
Ray understands everything. He is paying attention the entire time, he is not distracted either.
@misscannabliss7355
@misscannabliss7355 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed that!! He’s not missing a thing 👀
@BraydonIsGodlyAtRust
@BraydonIsGodlyAtRust 2 жыл бұрын
Raw is so wholesum
@JKelly756
@JKelly756 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I noticed this as well, mostly because he responds to everything said. He just can’t speak for himself
@_dmfd
@_dmfd 2 жыл бұрын
I believe they all can understand, I just don't think they ever learned how to properly speak. Timmy & Loraine were alot more engaged than the last update.
@RichardsWorld
@RichardsWorld 2 жыл бұрын
It would be interesting to give him something he could type with.
@dahliarose8466
@dahliarose8466 2 жыл бұрын
Ray is dying to communicate. He needs a Speech pathologist and a technological communicative device. He is very capable. He has so much to say.
@itchynietzsche4998
@itchynietzsche4998 2 жыл бұрын
100% agree. I think he could easily learn to use a communication device if he were given the chance.
@chriswells1440
@chriswells1440 2 жыл бұрын
He would have said something by now
@zxyatiywariii8
@zxyatiywariii8 2 жыл бұрын
I know how that feels. I was late to speak when I was a little girl, but I had SO much to say, I just couldn't verbalize any of it.
@sarahholland2600
@sarahholland2600 2 жыл бұрын
As an ex teacher of special needs , I agree. He's definitely dying for social interaction & there is an outgoing personality struggling to get out. The barking seems to me he spent too much time as a child with no verbal interaction from those around him so started imitating the dogs. A few sessions a week with a primary school teacher & a speech therapist would probably be all is needed.
@paranood
@paranood 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah ! what do you know .. If only healthcare was free... Oops. You wont find such extreme situations in Europe believe me
@aderynmawr
@aderynmawr 10 ай бұрын
Lorraine’s shy, coy smile at 7:48 was so sweet to see 💕
@setapart1159
@setapart1159 Жыл бұрын
The lady that said she promised her mom that she'd never get married and spend her life taking care of her family is a absolute angel 😇 God Bless them all ! That's a very RARE thing for someone these days to actually keep their word for LIFE! What a amazing person!❤
@alpha1beta1gamma
@alpha1beta1gamma Жыл бұрын
no need to be so patronising and imaginary gate keeping I want you to promise a bunch of random stuff right here and now and you have to agree according to your comment
@brandonveach4163
@brandonveach4163 10 ай бұрын
@@alpha1beta1gammanever for a random person. You mean nothing like that to any of us not that your meaning less. I’ll defend your life over mine, that being said. I would never do what you said just because you wanna make a false point man.
@digitalsage5636
@digitalsage5636 7 ай бұрын
Who tf gonna marry her😂
@The_Brew_Dog
@The_Brew_Dog 5 ай бұрын
She wasn’t gonna get married anyway cause all of her brothers were already married or dead.
@AmberGraves80
@AmberGraves80 2 жыл бұрын
I've worked with disabled people, and I have to say that this family, even in their incredible poverty, takes better care of one another than many able bodied families care for their disabled family members. They are very accepting and compassionate to one another.
@B_Bodziak
@B_Bodziak 2 жыл бұрын
I love your sentiment, but I don't feel that it's possible to come to your conclusion based solely upon this video.
@samanthaherrera4504
@samanthaherrera4504 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you.
@lloydg9383
@lloydg9383 2 жыл бұрын
BULLSHIT
@EAHorror
@EAHorror 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@sageosho9496
@sageosho9496 2 жыл бұрын
There's no reason for them to be living like that. Obviously there is at least four social security checks going into that house. Plus they have food stamps and Medicaid probably. They have enough money to live better than that they are not poor. I live alone in a one-bedroom house and I get one social security check a month plus food stamps. And I live way better than they do my house is nice and clean I have enough money to buy good clothes and keep my house clean and everything. I'm wondering what are they doing with all that money. They should be getting $800 a piece in social security checks. I have plenty of money to pay my bills keep food on the table. Plus have money left over. I'm not rich but I live comfortably.
@uyangats717
@uyangats717 2 жыл бұрын
man, Ray kept smiling through the whole video. He's so happy and excited that Mark came back. I wish people could help this family more. Ray's smile melted my whole heart.
@jimmybrown_GT500
@jimmybrown_GT500 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like love to me
@jimmybrown_GT500
@jimmybrown_GT500 2 жыл бұрын
Dude stop your questions.
@b-north
@b-north 2 жыл бұрын
this is why i love seeing this typr of vids , i was telling my mom how much i need ray's energy
@mathewjordan6039
@mathewjordan6039 2 жыл бұрын
He keeps asking about "the money". I wish she'd tell him to go fuck himself.
@DiceChickie
@DiceChickie 2 жыл бұрын
Their community can help them
@bmay711
@bmay711 10 ай бұрын
The fact that betty kept her promise to her mommy & dedicated her life to taking care of her family in need is so moving. & Loraine was so proud when she said "my daddy" .
@lucasrem
@lucasrem 4 ай бұрын
bmay She knows. They are happy, made the best of it.
@dawnemyers5056
@dawnemyers5056 Ай бұрын
Larry and Kenneth didn't come around till money started coming in.
@KaltrinaDemiri
@KaltrinaDemiri Жыл бұрын
Ray is a bundle of sunshine. The rest of the family is just as sweet.
@michellaboureur7651
@michellaboureur7651 Жыл бұрын
Their dogs seem well fed, nice and not aggressive which means they are not ill treated. Animals do tell a lot about their keepers.
@space.arr0w999
@space.arr0w999 Жыл бұрын
that’s what i was thinking. the whole time i was distracted by the adorable little dogs, i’m glad they’re well taken care of.
@marisollopez5015
@marisollopez5015 Жыл бұрын
literally said the same
@ceemartin5624
@ceemartin5624 Жыл бұрын
Betty said that when she was in hospital her little dog stopped eating and only ate when she got back from hospital.
@princessmariposa828
@princessmariposa828 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@lali28212
@lali28212 Жыл бұрын
But should not be living in that condition of a house, are u for real!!!!
@cabr3ra
@cabr3ra 2 жыл бұрын
The lady that promised her mom she would take care of the others is such an angel. She kept her promise. I like watching this family. They are so genuine and innocent.
@Angela-px1cq
@Angela-px1cq 2 жыл бұрын
Very simple and innocent. It’s sad that the nephew left church because he was being ridiculed
@donnasmith624
@donnasmith624 2 жыл бұрын
Yes they are ☺️
@arnethaearl8468
@arnethaearl8468 2 жыл бұрын
Yes me too you can feel their energy
@alaefarmestatesllc
@alaefarmestatesllc 2 жыл бұрын
She ain’t taking care of crap. Sorry.
@nob9705
@nob9705 2 жыл бұрын
Idk about that g innocent people don’t fuc they moms an sisters
@FairyFrequency
@FairyFrequency 10 ай бұрын
Wow! Their garden is doing better than ours. It was beautiful to see the dragonflies flitting about. Thank you for being so kind to this family. Just because they are different doesn't mean that they are any less human. Sending love and warm greetings from Missouri.
@Tyrashabrooks
@Tyrashabrooks 9 ай бұрын
I said the same thing and they probably didnt take care of it much!!!❤just awesome
@SenorTowelie
@SenorTowelie 6 ай бұрын
Somehow, seeing this family on KZbin and watching several videos of them they have changed my life. No, I'm serious. This isn't just another overly positive comment,.. I've been thinking and reconsidering my own happiness, at home with my family and have taken a second look at things that were making me frustrated and upset all the time. These folks have helped me. It makes me emotional to think about. It forces me to like them and care about them.
@ozielmendoza930
@ozielmendoza930 2 жыл бұрын
"I promised my mommy I won't get married. I'll take care of my family " wow that made me tear up a little 😢
@hustleactivedeehustle5863
@hustleactivedeehustle5863 2 жыл бұрын
frfr that touched me to when she said that.. it don't get kno realer that's the way you hold your fam down!
@ozielmendoza930
@ozielmendoza930 2 жыл бұрын
@@hustleactivedeehustle5863 😢
@marthalouise701
@marthalouise701 2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing women!!!! Betty you have the heart of gold!!
@kc000002013
@kc000002013 2 жыл бұрын
Getting married is so overrated anyway. Good for Her❤
@chiliwalker8263
@chiliwalker8263 2 жыл бұрын
dont get married..bring up fatherless kids?
@ilovetaz8
@ilovetaz8 2 жыл бұрын
The dogs seem to be taken care of, they don’t look malnourished at all which makes me happy. The dogs seem to love their family and protect them.
@brookemckinley5709
@brookemckinley5709 2 жыл бұрын
I know! That warms my heart so much!
@thetruthdatedr.4766
@thetruthdatedr.4766 2 жыл бұрын
I just want to buy them dog beds and toys and treats.. Anyone know how I can go about doing so?
@curiousgeorge555
@curiousgeorge555 2 жыл бұрын
Makes me wonder how they trained them.
@nasseryousif1222
@nasseryousif1222 2 жыл бұрын
@@thetruthdatedr.4766 Bless you
@sunstarsmoon
@sunstarsmoon 2 жыл бұрын
I was also concerned about the dogs! Quickly saw that seem ok.
@SuperRobotwarrior
@SuperRobotwarrior 9 ай бұрын
She totally blushed when you said "you still look good though." A smile broke through. :-)
@Tacmama420
@Tacmama420 10 ай бұрын
Betty just touches my heart ❤. She seems like a tough cookie. Hearing her say it scared me when talking about their heart attacks really shows her love for her family. Theyre all in this together though.
@DJillWill
@DJillWill 2 жыл бұрын
I love that you complimented Loraine… when you told her she looked good she really enjoyed that
@gregremington2098
@gregremington2098 2 жыл бұрын
Without reading the comments im sure its full of "the hills have eyes" or "wrong turn" comments. But imagine being born into that life. You didnt do anything wrong. Im not going to say i feel sorry for them. I do wish instead of giving them money, use it to fix up their house, buy clothes and bedding. $30,000 couldve made their living situation a lot better if handled properly...
@lisah6799
@lisah6799 2 жыл бұрын
Loraine was so flattered ☺️
@jonadam4233
@jonadam4233 2 жыл бұрын
​@@gregremington2098 It's rude to say they are doing no more then existing. Please respect them more, I like to think they are inspiring.
@estrogenacres801
@estrogenacres801 2 жыл бұрын
@@gregremington2098 that's what I'm saying!!! It's click bait!!
@lamarjackson8630
@lamarjackson8630 2 жыл бұрын
Look up Prison Stories - Getting Shanked over a Subway Sandwich
@TracyA123
@TracyA123 2 жыл бұрын
I'm ashamed of myself for ever complaining about anything. God bless these folks
@zoedark7101
@zoedark7101 2 жыл бұрын
Just because others have it worse doesn't mean your feelings aren't valid. Don't feel ashamed.
@jimmy5391
@jimmy5391 2 жыл бұрын
They don't know any better so don't feel bad
@cliffa2901
@cliffa2901 2 жыл бұрын
@@zoedark7101 👍🙂🇦🇺
@adibabdullah6633
@adibabdullah6633 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️ Sometimes we humans can be ungrateful not realizing someone out there got it worse… The Bible and Quran teaches us not to be ungrateful ❤️…
@zoedark7101
@zoedark7101 2 жыл бұрын
@@adibabdullah6633 I'm not religious. Just because others have it worse doesn't mean somebody elses situation isn't valid. I hate comparison as it totally invalidates somebody elses feelings.
@l0nely0reo
@l0nely0reo 11 ай бұрын
Ray is so sweet, he tries to hard to communicate but is so restricted. I feel so bad for him, he wants to hang out with you and talk but doesn’t know how to get the words across. I’m so glad you asked him to show you around. It seemed like he was very excited about his bed ☹️
@darcyleegray
@darcyleegray Жыл бұрын
i came to the comments out of curiosity, and i was very happily surprised with the amount of compassion i saw. gave me a little bit more hope for humanity. ❤
@jonathanmayberrydesigns
@jonathanmayberrydesigns 2 жыл бұрын
Ray is sitting so politely and attentively listening. Rays soul warms my heart and his smile is infectious. I wish they could have more interactions with others.
@gimmietheloot1
@gimmietheloot1 2 жыл бұрын
You should go visit them
@benjichaser72
@benjichaser72 2 жыл бұрын
@@gimmietheloot1 bet he wont
@brianbommarito3376
@brianbommarito3376 2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t. The neighbors and some local deputies said they don’t want just random strangers coming to visit them. Let them know you care in little ways, talk to the folks they already know and trust, but also respect their privacy and don’t just wander up there cause they won’t understand. They might think you’re trying to make a show out of them. It’s an evil world and they know it just as much as we do.
@kristofvandessel5957
@kristofvandessel5957 2 жыл бұрын
I guess his personal hygiene and the way he smells is more infectious..
@HybridViZ
@HybridViZ 2 жыл бұрын
I love that part when he starts eating his hair bugs.
@thepeacemaker3584
@thepeacemaker3584 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this all too real family with us. No filters no makeup no script, no nothing. I hope you continue to keep us updated. Your doing a great job
@susanharris9383
@susanharris9383 11 ай бұрын
This family is so precious. Their pure innocence is heartwarming, and they seem so much happier than some of the most educated, wealthy people that I know...😇🥰
@rekadenise8340
@rekadenise8340 2 жыл бұрын
I love animals, they don’t judge you, they only protect. You can tell their dogs love them and don’t see any disability in them. Humans need to be more like this.
@ZeroFcksGven
@ZeroFcksGven 2 жыл бұрын
Inbred ?
@deathdealer6696
@deathdealer6696 2 жыл бұрын
Go Vegan! Animals are the only trustworthy thing on this planet
@bigjim8088
@bigjim8088 2 жыл бұрын
I bet the animals would sure stand up for them too if needed.
@coreyj.7776
@coreyj.7776 2 жыл бұрын
Let me be your animal
@illmatic826
@illmatic826 2 жыл бұрын
You are Black, don’t sympathize with these inbred peckerwoods
@moondog9086
@moondog9086 2 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch the Whittakers I love Ray more and more. His sunny disposition is contagious. They are always in my prayers.
@lukebuchwald9252
@lukebuchwald9252 2 жыл бұрын
Are you for real?
@moondog9086
@moondog9086 2 жыл бұрын
@@lukebuchwald9252 Absolutely for real. I'd be honored to call these wonderful people my friends. They aren't asking anyone for anything, and they seem content & grateful for what they do have...most importantly each other. They seem happier than most people these days and they don't have to deal with so much insanity with society. I wish them the best, and if I ever have anything they need, I'd help them in a heartbeat.
@jamishiariley226
@jamishiariley226 2 жыл бұрын
Same! Ray has the cutest demeanor about him. I wish I was as half as happy as Ray.
@JackManEveryday
@JackManEveryday 2 жыл бұрын
Ray is fuckin legend
@the_even_toed_ungulate.
@the_even_toed_ungulate. 2 жыл бұрын
Are you praying to the 'god' that allowed this and obviously condones that poor unfortunate people suffer? Or is he/she a sadistic being?
@talixxotv
@talixxotv Жыл бұрын
I just want to give that whole family the biggest hug. They’re such wonderful people ❤️
@LowHonorMorgan
@LowHonorMorgan 5 ай бұрын
That picture at 13:00 is extremely profound. Such a beautiful, BEAUTIFUL shot 👏 I truly hope that Betty and the rest of the family are rewarded something better in the next life considering all they’ve been through in this one. Betty gave up her entire life to carry the family on her back. Can’t imagine what’ll happen to them once she’s gone.
@tonybaggett1984
@tonybaggett1984 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of modern interviewers could learn a lesson. He’s never condescending or making fun. Just treats them with respect and ask them questions in a kind tone.
@michaelcohen9363
@michaelcohen9363 2 жыл бұрын
You'd really like Louis Theroux, one of the best!
@slick222
@slick222 2 жыл бұрын
You've got to be kidding me. He's exploiting the hell out of them. He has to pretend to be nice. The whole point of it it "Hey guys, look at these freaks."
@michaelcohen9363
@michaelcohen9363 2 жыл бұрын
@@slick222 Yup.
@NunchucksHabit
@NunchucksHabit 2 жыл бұрын
"Ray is smarter than he looks". Yeah, really respectful lol.
@tylerborglin5215
@tylerborglin5215 2 жыл бұрын
@@slick222 There’s nothing wrong with him interviewing them for people to learn about them. Also, it’s benefiting their lives greatly and they clearly enjoy being on camera and his presence.
@neurotichypnotic927
@neurotichypnotic927 2 жыл бұрын
I have so much compassion for the Whitakers. They didn't ask to be born into the life they are living. Poverty, isolation, non verbal communication. I know it has to be sooo lonely and depressing day to day but they seem to manage to find happiness in each other and that's so important. Miss Betty has a special place in heaven awaiting her for sacrificing her life to her siblings.
@michaelpuntillo3500
@michaelpuntillo3500 2 жыл бұрын
Well said. I think all of these people are all preapproved for Heaven. Betty especially. For all Ray's problems, he has a beautiful smile. So does Betty. I love these people. God bless the Whittaker's.
@ronnieb1837
@ronnieb1837 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelpuntillo3500 A human tells you there's a heaven and hell and you lap it up. Give it some adult, rational thought, 30 seconds should be more than enough, and forget this made up , controlling tripe.
@michaelpuntillo3500
@michaelpuntillo3500 2 жыл бұрын
@@ronnieb1837 I don't give a fuck what you think
@ronnieb1837
@ronnieb1837 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelpuntillo3500 Oops, you missed it.. It wasn't about what I think, it was the suggestion that you should do some thinking. (As in a little more thinking and a little less believing...)
@shaunbowman8036
@shaunbowman8036 2 жыл бұрын
@@ronnieb1837 how liberal of u - cursing out someone whom u probaly 90% agree with wrt this video
@gabrieleschoffl5947
@gabrieleschoffl5947 Жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart to watch Timmy and Lorraine and Ray wanting to explain and talk about everything and I think they recognize every time they speak in their own special way, that not everything they say is fully understood. But I love them all with their own special personalities❤❤;Mark, thanx a lot for sharing the life of the Whitakers, may God bless you for your incredible work. Hugs from Germany ❤❤❤(sorry for my English 🙈)
@jennyb8106
@jennyb8106 9 ай бұрын
I watched this video out of curiosity. God bless this family and everyone who helps them .
@Nickshot22
@Nickshot22 Жыл бұрын
I feel like if ray could talk he’d be the chillest dude ever, you can tell he really looks up to you and respects you I love the relationship you’ve built with this family
@rayjay1543
@rayjay1543 Жыл бұрын
Yes especially since she said friends got married and don't come around much anymore (aint that the case for many adults) so it is great that he has been coming around 15 years and has been able to help them as well, and they help him too. It could be seen as something negative like they are being exploited but I don't think so because he seems to genuinely care for this family and they for him, hugs and all.
@debbiesimpson6967
@debbiesimpson6967 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree Ray's one helluva character that's for sure with more brain's than he's given credit for, if only he could communicate better he'd have a lot to say & talk about giving us a better insight into his & his family's lifestyle & about them all growing up together. One thing's for sure there's no lacking love within this family cause from where I'm sitting it speaks volumes without having to say so 👌👌👌
@Nickshot22
@Nickshot22 Жыл бұрын
@@debbiesimpson6967 exactly! You can just see he has so much he wants to say but sadly just can’t, I bet his awesome stories from being younger and growing up in such a small town. I wish all the best for this family and can’t wait for another update I’m so glad this community can help them out
@echohotel7975
@echohotel7975 Жыл бұрын
Would he be the most chillest dude ever? You can't tell there parents really messed them up why do you love the relationship what's so awesome about it I'm just curious some of these comments just blow me away I don't what to think it seems like a lot of ppl feel they need to just love the shit out of these ppl in reality would never have them over to hang out at your house would you be okay with them all coming to pay you a visit? Would you like to have them over, and treat them to dinner? let then stay a few night at your house if they were put in a situation would you take them in for a few nights? I'm genuinely curious, or would you feel better paying to have them stay in a hotel ?
@Nickshot22
@Nickshot22 Жыл бұрын
@@echohotel7975 you really took time out of your day to write that? Yes if I had the means to help out a whole family I would in a heartbeat I do not care what they’ve been through in the past I just wish they have a better future and yes I do love the relationship mark has built with them you can see them getting close to him each time he sees them and based on the story’s they’ve for sure come to like mark. And that’s a weird question as I don’t think a whole family can fit in my house but I wish you the best aswell thanks for you comment ♥️
@claysavage8047
@claysavage8047 2 жыл бұрын
Ray loves you man. So cool to see that. He looks at you like a good buddy.
@covertLLC
@covertLLC 2 жыл бұрын
Your avi had me trying to wipe what looks like a disgusting little public hair off of my tablet for almost 3 minutes. 😆 🤣
@doridez1647
@doridez1647 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣me too
@sarahhirshlee
@sarahhirshlee 2 жыл бұрын
Came here looking for these replies lol
@claysavage8047
@claysavage8047 2 жыл бұрын
@@covertLLC never gets old 😄
@diamondpope
@diamondpope 2 жыл бұрын
You got me😂 I was scrolling and even watched it move like nah I know it’s a pic…but I wiped it anyway🤦🏽‍♀️🤣😂
@HEIDIBrayInMaine
@HEIDIBrayInMaine 11 ай бұрын
Love that rays always smiling and timmy is so animated and really communicates well ... Lorraine seems so sweet...my God bless their hearts all of them .... ❤❤❤
@crimeshaveconsequences4268
@crimeshaveconsequences4268 9 ай бұрын
No words needed you see all the bonds of a dedicated family , a lot of people don’t do anything with family and they are together everyday.🙏🏻🙏🏻
@tayiraogu1463
@tayiraogu1463 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so worried about Betty, she's clearly getting older and more frail and they literally depend on her. I hope life treats them well.
@Ingerimm
@Ingerimm 2 жыл бұрын
I can't see any of them doing well if they were to be institutionalized. This is the only life they have ever known. They may not speak in ways we understand, but I bet you Betty understands them like no other. I just hope the quality of their lives have taken a turn for the better in these past years.
@Nolacarsillo
@Nolacarsillo 2 жыл бұрын
wish there was more we could do for them, but they seem pretty content with the simple life ❤️
@crunks420
@crunks420 2 жыл бұрын
I hope some of that gofundme gets allocated to finding placement for the family through a trustworthy power of attorney when Betty passes.
@Roctrin
@Roctrin 2 жыл бұрын
In another video, I think they said that when they first visited this family, their neighbors came out with guns thinking the crew was harassing this family. So, I think they have at least some community around them
@dhrsghukvfggrasft5387
@dhrsghukvfggrasft5387 2 жыл бұрын
in previous video it is stated that their neighbours protect them
@fl3ckerr999
@fl3ckerr999 2 жыл бұрын
i love how ray becomes ecstatic whenever he has someone socializing with him it warms my heart
@r5ndom551
@r5ndom551 2 жыл бұрын
We love Ray!
@juliethompson5301
@juliethompson5301 2 жыл бұрын
They love their animals.we love the Whitaker's .good ppl xx
@r5ndom551
@r5ndom551 2 жыл бұрын
@@juliethompson5301 don't you just want to hug em & be their friend. The smiles when they get a visitor. I don't know what Ray wants to say,but, I want to hear every word. They just want to be loved.
@soulsinged363
@soulsinged363 2 жыл бұрын
Rays just vibing and I love it
@Bassquatch_101
@Bassquatch_101 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what ray was tryin to tell him last time . He grew up over here ( across the street)
@StevenChansavang-lu7sp
@StevenChansavang-lu7sp 10 ай бұрын
GOD BLESS BETTY FOR TAKING CARE OF HER FAMILY LIKE SHE PROMISED HER MOMMY N DADDY....How she is able to stay sane and humble through it all is amazing
@billieknoll3542
@billieknoll3542 11 ай бұрын
Oh man at the 13 min mark that beautiful photo broke me..Tears flowing now. God Bless this Family & the amazing work you are doing.
@SirJebusHRM
@SirJebusHRM 2 жыл бұрын
"What's the most important thing you've learned in your life?" "Not much" Honestly, fuckin' same. A legendary answer.
@autumn2964
@autumn2964 2 жыл бұрын
literally 🤣
@greenandie711
@greenandie711 2 жыл бұрын
I've learned no matter how bad you think you have it there is always someone living a life that is worse than you could ever imagine! Then you realize how blessed you truly are..... Fact!
@TheIncredibleCR
@TheIncredibleCR 2 жыл бұрын
Fr
@j.c.b6473
@j.c.b6473 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@wrestlerx8494
@wrestlerx8494 2 жыл бұрын
@@greenandie711 the woman who is taking sounds and acts JUST like my grandma who is black and in her 90s. She has lived in a suburb of Washington D.C. since like the early 70s. Before that she and my grandpa could not buy a house because there was redlining and realtors would not sell to black people or made it very hard for them to buy, but that was outlawed in the late 60s. But my grandma's house is still in a more run down low income area and was probably built in the 40s because it has that kind of basement where there are just windows at the bottom but no basement exit door, but there are still 2 bedrooms and a bar and a rec room and a toilet in there. Something like that would have been outlawed later on because it is a fire hazard.
@Twig963
@Twig963 2 жыл бұрын
"Who is the biggest trouble maker?" Everyone points at Ray and he gladly accepts!!
@XWoodbineX
@XWoodbineX 2 жыл бұрын
That made me laugh haha
@azrael7637
@azrael7637 2 жыл бұрын
😂 ray is so nice
@tomm703
@tomm703 2 жыл бұрын
I thought he pointed to the dog
@LIZA_BOBO
@LIZA_BOBO 2 жыл бұрын
Right...😂
@suzih.6687
@suzih.6687 2 жыл бұрын
That was so cute!
@Tabithalakes
@Tabithalakes Жыл бұрын
Ray is extremely photogenic. Great portrait.
@jackiepsychotic
@jackiepsychotic 8 ай бұрын
This family is a group of just wonderful humans. Yes, there are simple people in the world who society thinks don’t have much to offer, but I can see that this family has a lot of the most important thing there is to offer: love. They may not know much, but it’s abundantly clear that they know love. They know love and they know one another, the value of family and devotion. This also goes to show that with some patience, you can communicate with anyone, all you both need is a desire to reach understanding. Love the videos of these guys and I’m so glad they have one another, their home, their lovely garden, and their beautiful dogs. Simple isn’t always a bad thing.
@nathanhopkins4791
@nathanhopkins4791 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for these people, because they were BORN into this circumstance, they didn't chose this.. this absolutely breaks my heart, and I feel nothing but love for these people.
@wendye6139
@wendye6139 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts. I am thankful Mark comes back to visit them. They are kind people, probably more loving then most..
@nathanhopkins4791
@nathanhopkins4791 2 жыл бұрын
@@wendye6139 I wish I could see more frequent updates on them, and how their welfare is.
@nathanhopkins4791
@nathanhopkins4791 2 жыл бұрын
@@TimothyYancy stop being racist.
@nathanhopkins4791
@nathanhopkins4791 2 жыл бұрын
@@TimothyYancy there's no room for your utter stupidity, and intolerance here. Go spread your pathetic race baiting propaganda somewhere else, you low life scumbag.
@baliczek4568
@baliczek4568 2 жыл бұрын
@@nathanhopkins4791 I wish Americans would have some federal welfere program for people like that it's really sad that in 1st world country there not resolved problems like that
@heidijane5285
@heidijane5285 2 жыл бұрын
When he told Lorraine she looked good and she said 'nawww', covered up and smiled a little aww he should tell her she looks good more often it definitely touched her heart 🥰
@kitana3320
@kitana3320 2 жыл бұрын
it kinda made me sad she replied nawww😢these people are innocent they can’t help they are the product of dumb decisions
@heatherbleu5370
@heatherbleu5370 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that was a precious moment💞
@kpeezyforsheezy
@kpeezyforsheezy 2 жыл бұрын
I was going to comment that too! She was absolutely flattered. So sweet ♥️
@buttafly1075
@buttafly1075 2 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@strawbodawarbo
@strawbodawarbo 2 жыл бұрын
She got all bashful and it made me wanna give her a big hug 🥺
@elainekeane4164
@elainekeane4164 Жыл бұрын
God bless these folks! Betty promised her momma she would care for her family, and she does!
@JG-dt2ub
@JG-dt2ub Жыл бұрын
This is non of there faults and I'm so happy this man brought awareness even if he himself benefits from it cuz its benefits both parties. This man is helping this family and changing there life for the better and bringing them more resources and care. Thank you for the amazing content and introducing us to this amazing and interesting family I wish them the best.
@rileyboyer4860
@rileyboyer4860 2 жыл бұрын
If there’s one thing I can say, I understand it easy to look at them and say “man it must be terrible to be them” but truthfully, they have only lived their own lives. They have good days and bad days, and maybe a good day for them is a bad day for you. But to them, it’s still a good day. I wish them nothing but plenty of good days and strength to get through the bad ones.
@nylenyap3933
@nylenyap3933 2 жыл бұрын
Well said Riley
@jennfontan188
@jennfontan188 2 жыл бұрын
perfectly said
@-Adrienne
@-Adrienne 2 жыл бұрын
So kind.....love it❤
@poppinsmoke9180
@poppinsmoke9180 2 жыл бұрын
Amen brother
@annacarter4879
@annacarter4879 2 жыл бұрын
Amen Amen
@tinapuddin1557
@tinapuddin1557 2 жыл бұрын
It's pretty sad when someone can't go to church without getting picked on. I thought if you are a Christian your supposed to be humble and love all people.
@williamflowers3073
@williamflowers3073 2 жыл бұрын
People who act like that are not typically Christians
@Bear22250
@Bear22250 2 жыл бұрын
Tina. You’re so right never judge someone else. we’re all different in some ways . But we’re all humans and make mistakes. God bless
@cherie623
@cherie623 2 жыл бұрын
Probably kids😞
@Wheyooo
@Wheyooo 2 жыл бұрын
bet there bible is dusty
@sarahjulianne2954
@sarahjulianne2954 2 жыл бұрын
Know Christ before you know the Christian
@jodyariewitz7349
@jodyariewitz7349 Жыл бұрын
The loyalty and love she's shown, keeping her promise to her parents and taking care of everyone is truly heroic! 👏👍❤ May the good Lord watch over and protect them all!❤🙏❤
@rgeiler7627
@rgeiler7627 9 ай бұрын
You really are doing something amazing here. I admit I had a certain thought process about this going in, but my eyes have been opened a bit. I'd hang out with Ray and Timmy if I lived closer and they'd be open to a new visitor.
@Madking12357
@Madking12357 2 жыл бұрын
The look that Lorraine made when he said she looked good despite having a heart attack was so touching. She looked like she was about to cry over the compliment. Makes you wonder how many people have made fun of them for how they look and behave over the years. It just goes to show that despite their condition they still are human. They feel the same pain as anyone else does. These people have hearts of gold.
@garyscandle
@garyscandle 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said
@whippledmarauder1159
@whippledmarauder1159 2 жыл бұрын
So true!! I NEVER KNOCK OTHERS FOR WAY THEY LIVE.
@susieadrian2149
@susieadrian2149 2 жыл бұрын
👍 I watched this 3 times I love them so much! It doesn't matter how anyone is born, they're human beings with nothing but love in their heart. I wish them all the best. Those who make fun of them should be ashamed of themselves!
@SKATERBRY312
@SKATERBRY312 2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry.. these people are human just as any of us.. godbless them I love the Whittaker's
@whippledmarauder1159
@whippledmarauder1159 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sitting here waiting for pay day so I can send them some$$.
@LuckyLu602
@LuckyLu602 2 жыл бұрын
She has always had such a huge responsibility in life, taking care of her siblings, and will until the day she dies. I hate to think about what will happen to everyone there after she passes away.
@whome7498
@whome7498 2 жыл бұрын
Very true I was thinking the same thing. I wonder if mark knows or has some type of care arrangements made. There should be some type of gov. Funding where they would be able to go to an assisted living facility or something
@icyflann7178
@icyflann7178 2 жыл бұрын
Ohh so all these people are siblings??
@11JCheek
@11JCheek 2 жыл бұрын
@@icyflann7178 Timmy is the nephew.
@anthonynicolosi9548
@anthonynicolosi9548 2 жыл бұрын
prolly be remanded to a state mental hospital....i mean what other options are there
@aliwright1016
@aliwright1016 2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonynicolosi9548 😶💙😞😥 I get your meaning...there's no proper help...xx glad we care...glad mark cares...we can reach out and tap in to these people's experience ...as a world community....xx we can become better at reaching out and offering help that's relevent to them... X
@royster7170
@royster7170 5 ай бұрын
I remember people like this in Northern California as a kid. Sweetest people with huge hearts. God bless them.
@nettricegaskins1871
@nettricegaskins1871 2 жыл бұрын
I love how everyone is so talkative this time.
@mikew1374
@mikew1374 2 жыл бұрын
It wasnt a new experience to be nervous about like the first interview.
@tamiesmith8855
@tamiesmith8855 2 жыл бұрын
Right, they seem so happy this time around.....
@gloriatorres6286
@gloriatorres6286 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I think they realized mark wasn’t there to harass they he actually help God bless his soul and everyone that donated Lord Jesus continue you to keep this family safe and healthy warm and fed
@GDug-rs5sh
@GDug-rs5sh 2 жыл бұрын
so guarded. bullied beyond
@tlangelanimaluleke1900
@tlangelanimaluleke1900 2 жыл бұрын
They seem more comfortable with Mark now😊
@drianpaisley7968
@drianpaisley7968 Жыл бұрын
What a lady she made a promise to her mummy and she's stuck to that and committed her life to her family. What a lovely human
@Wuschi2001
@Wuschi2001 Жыл бұрын
Doch ein übles Los
@hamburgerhamburgerv2
@hamburgerhamburgerv2 10 ай бұрын
@@Wuschi2001that isn’t their fault!
@Eatwithjakwa
@Eatwithjakwa 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for taking care of this family, And and checking on them most time. God bless you
@TheRealAnte
@TheRealAnte 10 ай бұрын
Ray is 67?! Honestly was surprised by that. Buddy has the energy and spirit of a 7 year old. Good on him! Just wish he was able to communicate. Seems like such an exciting guy with a lot to share with the world
@deathchronicles6960
@deathchronicles6960 2 ай бұрын
God gave him a brave spirit with diasabilty for reason probably for us to learn. ❤
@bluecatky
@bluecatky 2 жыл бұрын
Ray understand everything he is being asked. And you can tell that he is very fond of Mark and relishes the attention he is paying to him. Because Mark is probably the only person outside of their household that ever tries to engage him.
@ilovebabyyoda712
@ilovebabyyoda712 2 жыл бұрын
Ray is precious! I hope this family gets more help with the trailer, or can move to the other trailer that's bigger. They deserve that. They can't help how they were born!
@lindawood5035
@lindawood5035 2 жыл бұрын
@@ilovebabyyoda712 Ray is precious. I was their next door neighbor in 2008 and 2009. They were the best neighbors that I've ever had. I took Betty grocery shopping and to the pharmacy several times. I enjoyed her company and she was appreciative of the help. It breaks my heart to know that they don't have a good relationship with people who bought my place. I understand that it's intimidating to approach the Whitakers. But, they're good people. You've just got to give them a chance. And treat them with respect.
@t3dwards13
@t3dwards13 2 жыл бұрын
I believe I was starting to undastand Ray's sounds.
@mishagreyskull4306
@mishagreyskull4306 2 жыл бұрын
I love seeing his eyes light up in response. I'm thankful for the follow up.
@bentleytrump5367
@bentleytrump5367 2 жыл бұрын
Ray was trying to tell him he was out of chewing tobacco.
@jackseye9944
@jackseye9944 2 жыл бұрын
All those who made fun of them at church cannot call themselves Christians
@cloverbird5785
@cloverbird5785 2 жыл бұрын
Shameful
@gregthurman8108
@gregthurman8108 2 жыл бұрын
Instead of making fun they should be trying to help them!!!! God see them though!
@yukoncobbs804
@yukoncobbs804 2 жыл бұрын
I think I would thump them in the throat if I seen someone bulling someone so helpless.
@havyy_wavie9696
@havyy_wavie9696 2 жыл бұрын
well i tried so hard but the old lady was staring into my soul ps not Christian😪
@InTheirImage7
@InTheirImage7 2 жыл бұрын
@@havyy_wavie9696 - Did you try so hard? Was she staring into your soul? Interesting. I guess she really saw you.
@Brooklynborn74
@Brooklynborn74 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been following them for years on here and Mark has completely changed there lives forever…
@myflyingkidney
@myflyingkidney 9 ай бұрын
its fascinating how much you can communicate with so little words actually. you completely get everything they say, even without words.
@f0rtal3za
@f0rtal3za 2 жыл бұрын
My faith in humankind was just restored while reading coments here, so full of respect and care. I wish I could find that more often.
@dawnellafreeman4860
@dawnellafreeman4860 2 жыл бұрын
me too..x
@p.h.6515
@p.h.6515 2 жыл бұрын
Sobbing reading these comments. There are still people with heart. Thank You . ❤️🙏
@dl3650
@dl3650 2 жыл бұрын
Depends on what kinds of videos, posts, etc. you read
@AprilMay.2023
@AprilMay.2023 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@raymondgalvan9659
@raymondgalvan9659 2 жыл бұрын
Poor Betty I can imagine the conversations she tries having with her fam. Hope she lives a long life they'll be so lost without her
@lbabytutorials4852
@lbabytutorials4852 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my Betty is the only one that speaks the other old lady can’t talk
@bboy95ify
@bboy95ify 2 жыл бұрын
Sue has to live to see all them off atleast then poor thing die alone. But it would be more sad to see any of the other 3 alone they could not take care of themselves
@lbabytutorials4852
@lbabytutorials4852 2 жыл бұрын
@@AttorneyAmber oh wow I’m looking for the video right now
@Juelz-gu8uw
@Juelz-gu8uw 2 жыл бұрын
Yea i thought that too
@rinaticson390
@rinaticson390 2 жыл бұрын
@@bboy95ify , yes they would probably have to go to a group home or something. If that's where they have been since they were born. I imagine that that would kill them.
@calvinmobley9628
@calvinmobley9628 Ай бұрын
Its really interesting to see Timmy always writing or drawing, he seems to be extremely interested in learning. Every video so far hes always got a pencil and a notebook for something.
@reftikan9168
@reftikan9168 8 ай бұрын
This both greatly upsets me and warms my heart and it feels strange. I'm glad they find ways to be happy, and Ray makes me smile so much man
@benwesley5260
@benwesley5260 2 жыл бұрын
I love when Lorraine talks and then the camera pans away and she goes “Hey!” camera goes back, and she just sits there and smiles 🤣 she just didn’t want Ray getting all the attention!
@GrootManEiniqua
@GrootManEiniqua 2 жыл бұрын
7:51
@Vugen18
@Vugen18 2 жыл бұрын
and when he says u look good/pretty she says" nooo" like any teenage girl does
@ukiss4eva254
@ukiss4eva254 2 жыл бұрын
When he says "you look good, though. " her reaction was so cute.
@shedigs
@shedigs 2 жыл бұрын
@@ukiss4eva254 I agree, she just bloomed!
@realmachodubchicago7425
@realmachodubchicago7425 2 жыл бұрын
These are my kin folks and im proud of em but we got other kin in odd
@meredithbrooks2858
@meredithbrooks2858 2 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine being asked by your parents to basically give up your life to care for your disabled siblings yet that's what Betty did without hesitation
@ChavonJWright
@ChavonJWright 2 жыл бұрын
She never said they asked. Just that she promised.
@westcoastorbust2462
@westcoastorbust2462 2 жыл бұрын
As if she would do anything else. Y’all are so gullible
@lindaedvardsson4218
@lindaedvardsson4218 2 жыл бұрын
♥️
@ktoi138
@ktoi138 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like back in the olden days that was the regular, usually it's the youngest daughter who doesn't marry and watches out for the family when they get old
@nx8481
@nx8481 2 жыл бұрын
I hope anyone with disabled siblings would take care of them after the parents have passed away. How could someone just abandon their disabled siblings?
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