Indian Man Has To Choose Between 60 Year old Wife Or Parents-90 Day Fiance (Sumit & Jenny)

[@sixteenleo]

how do you big babies like the kurta? second time ive ever worn one, i can tell you rn, imma buy like 10 more

[@unbeelieveable996]

v fashionable, much approve

[@morigahn]

10/10, love it

[@destinyquiles9456]

Lookin stylin v much approved!

[@ExoticRapunzel]

Love it!!! Especially the color it looks good!! ❤️‍🔥🔥

[@Beximuzy]

Love the color 😍

[@Ciela887]

Leo saying "You're not getting scammed, but you're scamming yourself" sums up this situation pretty well.

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

But they are married now been married for a minute

[@Ciela887]

@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare I had been following the saga as Leo posted it, since I’ve not watched the show itself. I did see they are married now - even have a cute Instagram. But wowee, along the way it felt like it would never happen!

[@Misty-up4jz]

A year later, I wonder if they're still married. I argue too much and I'm banned on Instagram or I would look them up myself

[@victoria_is]

“Imagine hating someone so much that you stay married to them out of spite.” *has immediately flashbacks to every relationship in my cuban family*

[@goatbabe0666]

"I hate you, don't leave me." 😂

[@RamonaMariaa]

The relationship of my parents summed up

[@sourgreendolly7685]

oh noo

[@holliemichailidis2951]

My parents split when I was 3 years old. Still legally married 33 years later. They had a meet up when I was 10 years old. Neither willing to pay for divorce because the other should. But to be honest my mother was faithful and didn't walk away.

[@kristovapalenkova5884]

I'm Cuban . Wassup bro

[@morigahn]

Can we just take a moment to admire how lovely Leo looks in pink

[@RealCarlyM]

I was gonna say this! It looks so good on him!

[@vulture1978]

Yes!! Pink looks sooo good on him

[@theundone777]

First thing I noticed :-)

[@jessicabrinkley4051]

For real! He’s absolutely glowing in that color!

[@taekwang3498]

our pretty guy, leo

[@richardg8376]

The blackmail thing is sadly quite common. A family friend of ours here in the UK (British Asian) got married to a girl from India in an arranged marriage. They had a kid, and then she suddenly took the child away to India without telling him and started claiming he was an abusive alcoholic. Demanded money to drop the charges and let him see his child. He did everything he could to try and secure her return to Britain but as far as I'm aware it hasn't worked and he will likely never see his daughter again, or even visit India as he could be arrested.

[@cankleanddangle]

Wtf, that’s actually so vile. I hope everything works out for him

[@sourgreendolly7685]

I wish I was surprised but I don't have enough faith in humanity. When people don't even have the romance of falling to think back to, when things don't work out, people just don't have much reason not to be vile 😢 (though I do wish kids would be enough to at least try to make some kind of truce) To be clear, I don't think that's specific to any culture, I just can see how arranged marriages would increase the commonality to it. There's nothing wrong with marrying via arrangement if that's what all parties want - but that's the key part.

[@starlightdxb113]

Jenny is scamming herself? 😂😅 So True 👍.. Dear Lord how can someone be sooooo delusional n obsessed with a 30 Yr old Catfish 😅😅.... granny 👵 needs a necklift n sagging chin/ chins.. sumit is married and unemployed.. she's 70. What's left now ? 😁🤣🤣🤣

[@e.t.theextraterristrial837]

I have an Indian friend who graduated from one of the best law schools in India and practices law. He told me that even though domestic abuse is common in India, most marital cases and domestic abuse cases cited as a reason for divorce are false. The wife usually falsely accused the in laws of domestic abuse. They are easy to disprove but it takes years and a hella lotta money so the dude's family tends to settle out out of court.

[@TTHeavensent]

@@e.t.theextraterristrial837Saying dmv is common against women then claiming it being cited as a reason for divorce in most cases is false ,is contradictory. A country rife with femicide,rape of women and domestic abuse has an issue with underreporting. Do some families practice extortion? Sure. But that doesn’t diminish the reality of living in that country as a woman.

[@sushmitaraodesaraju6330]

About the money Sumit is paying for the divorce, it's the money his wife's family spent during the wedding, which he mentions in the clip in which he's talking to his friends. Traditionally, it's the bride's family that pays for the wedding in India. Along with this the bride's family also 'gifts' the groom's family jewelry, expensive clothes, electronics, even furnishings and vehicles or whole ass properties in some cases. So in the case of a divorce, all those things or the equivalent of their monetary value is returned, because the sum can sometimes be massive. Families usually save up for the wedding from the time a girl child is born.

[@plaguous6386]

can we appreciate the amount of work bro has been putting out lately a 5 hour video and then 4 days later a 2 hr one 🙏🙏

[@anezainwonderland8226]

Like for real😔👉👈 I’m so thankful.

[@kg7219]

no i refuse to appreciate it because that would mean id have to use my heart and honestly its too tired to do that right now maybe later

[@yuuphoria]

@@kg7219 im just some random stranger on the internet, but i hope you and your heart feel better as soon as possible friend

[@CrayCrayslab]

Bro the editors are busting their assess off wdym

[@intensehummingofevil]

like fisher

[@thefelicits]

I love how your commentary is funny but never cruel. Another great video. This couple are weirdly fascinating, you get so many people playing or edited into stereotypes on reality shows, but these two seem so unique, endearing, flawed and quite possibly genuinely in love

[@CarrieJess]

I agree he is funny but never cruel? Hmmm did you miss all the comments about large ppl, Jenny’s age & Jenny’s looks? I understand he makes positive comments about their love while also mentioning how disgusting her wrinkles & other normal signs of aging are. He might be more subtle with his insults & hiding them often with a positive comment but he does indeed make cruel & insensitive comments about body image & aging.

[@goodstuff4430]

​@@CarrieJesscare to provide some examples? Tanks

[@CarrieJess]

@@goodstuff4430 lol yes listen to the video again & if you find nothing then you can call me a liar. If you want to be willfully ignorant go for it. BTW I happen to love his videos & I find him hilarious but let’s call a spade a spade. He does make jokes about ppl’s body’s & he will make comments about age. He also takes a lot of shots of US citizens that are more based on stereotypes but again he is funny. After watching more I do think it’s just his style but it’s always amusing to me when someone that seemingly has liberal views makes jokes that tend to more at their expense. Basically I’m saying he doesn’t seem to single any one group out too much but saying he never says anything mean is absurd. Some of his mental health views are really good & encouraging but some thoughts are flawed. A lot of ppl & obviously not just Leo tend to think that they can internet “diagnose” someone based on generic symptoms. It just comes off arrogant & could be dangerous bc they are not therapists. It’s also annoying when ppl that are not trained make comments that are borderline ignorant to those of us that actually know. Leo isn’t really in that group though, he’s awesome in normalizing mental health. So anyways yeah idk if your comment was purposely antagonistic or if you were just defending Leo. Well no need bc I am 100% a fan!

[@terry4137]

He’s being cruel about age. Ageism 😊

[@malloryhelton]

Leo, you look so good in that. And 7 hours of content in one week is phenomenal but pleas don’t wear yourself out in the process of more content❤️

[@73245bibi]

Honestly, leo’s relationship and self advice is actually incredible. I’ve been watching for a while, before I met my current partner, and he actually helped me with my self worth! Thanks, Leo. So funny and emotionally intelligent. Hope you’re doing well.

[@cleobinx]

One of the most genuine people on KZbin that’s for sure .

[@prudencewilliams2198]

I kinda think we forgot that the reason she really wants him to get a divorce is because she can't get a job in India if they are not married

[@cankleanddangle]

That’s so wrong on so many levels wtf 😭

[@sushmitaraodesaraju6330]

Nah, that's not really true. She can still apply for and get jobs in India and move here on a business or employment visa, as many people do. What she can't do is move to India on a dependent or spousal visa.

[@h3r01nbby]

I think it might be because she wants to marry him

[@turtledove6172]

He is so happy he's free he reminds me of the stories of when my father's first marriage was over. They'd been separated a long time, and in that time, he started seeing my mama. When his divorce lawyer called and said the divorce was final, Daddy literally hung up the phone and immediately proposed to Mama. They were married for 36 years when Mama died. Daddy died 18 months later, and we're convinced a broken heart was the cause.

[@creaturehands]

What a sweet and heartbreaking story. Their love sounded so beautiful. So sorry for your loss 💕

[@letsnotbefriendly]

I’m so sorry for your loss …may they rest in peace together ❤

[@aqua6613]

Awe, you're a love child 💗 That's like a Johnny Cash June Carter story... Yeah the bond is so strong one cannot live without the other anymore so they both go

[@CarrieJess]

@@aqua6613lol I wouldn’t exactly use Johnny & his wife as a romantic love story because he hurt his children from his first wife in his pursuit to be with June. June was also married (a couple times) as he constantly tried to seduce her as his wife was home taking care of their children. After the movie with Joaquin Phoenix & Reese Witherspoon came out, his daughter made statements indicating the portrayal of their mother being unsupportive of his music & miserable was inaccurate & other people in her community agreed with that. I just don’t see John & June as a love story to aspire too when they destroyed lives’ in the process to fulfill their selfish desires.

[@brittanytidwell1754]

@@CarrieJessfor divorce supposedly being shamed back then she sure kept doing it haha 😆 (June)

[@ashfurristootired593]

i don’t usually comment on videos, but seeing a 2 hour long video from you literally just made my evening. keep up the good work

[@dovesraven]

his 5 hour one was so entertaining , it didn’t even feel that long lol

[@kg7219]

i comment on videos all the time usualy saying stupid shit so... dont worry im balancing it out for u

[@jessica5470]

I can't keep up I literally don't have the time, watched most of it while working lol

[@Heather-Kayrug]

Check out his 5 hour video then!

[@TheGingerMale]

i literally saw you in the comment section of "homosexual intercourse instruction video (educational, not for children)", you typed out like 3 paragraphs of commentary on the casts' penises

[@hermine1657]

In my opinion a huge age gap with anyone under 25 is alarming but if you are older, then no one should really care. Sumit finished school, has had a job. He’s a fully grown and developed adult, it’s his business who he loves. With anyone under 25 I feel like there is a good chance that you can manipulate them easier. They might not be fully developed or are still not used to living an independent life.

[@adam.n-steve]

*cough cough DiCaprio

[@MlleSallyBrown]

I'm not so sure about that. Mentally, he's very immature, lives with his parents and is a virgin. He has 0 experiences in relationships. I don't think it's necessarily abusive, but it still weirds me out. He has had 0 chance to find someone who will grow old with him and who won't cause an uproar in his family

[@maddiemcnugget1076]

I think Sumit is quite naive for a 30 year old. I don't get abusive vibes from Jenny, she's just older and stuck in her ways a bit (though it's a very open minded move to go to INDIA). Also the fact that their relationship started like 10 years ago, so part of me thinks that he is bonded to her in a way. Not trauma bonded, but he's attached since she was probably one of his first relationships.

[@Guineapigsreadingbooks]

I think it really depends on the stage of life they are in. People get to different stages at different times, and as long as the people in the relationship are in a similar one when they get together and go through the next ones together everything is okay. A thirty year old and a forty year old might be in extremely different life stages and incompatible, while a different thirty year old might be in a comparable place to a fifty year old. Under 25 year olds are going through stages quickly, and so it is unlikely that an age gap there can work.

[@Allanis1958]

In the age of 30-60 second shorts, thank you Leo for giving those of us left who enjoy 1hr+ long videos something to enjoy 😭🙏❤️

[@willakins486]

These are the exact type of videos I wanted to know about when I delivered for Amazon. Something I can put on and listen to for a good chunk of a shift without having to WATCH it

[@lucidberrypro]

Yeeeeeees 🙌❤

[@J3scape]

Yes! 🎉

[@call_me_mad1236]

Bruh what, yourube used to push short (the animation era proves this) quick 5 sec to 1 min videos. Short “Funny” clips was all that filled trending. Its recent (last 4 years maybe) that long content is pushed. KZbin forces long videos - the watch time is everything for ads. Clips dont live on youtube unless theure compilations. Its not tiktok out here lol

[@cheesestickyummy]

With great commentary too 🥹🤌🏻✨

[@tessradtke8910]

Summit and Jenny discussing their sex life has the same amount of cringe as the moment when an intimate scene in a movie shows up while watching the movie with your family 💀😭

[@brunoqnzbk7891]

😂😂😂

[@shahab814]

I love how LEO can go from joking to being serious so fast.

[@giaparmer]

Cultural differences are really really hard, I’ve had to end a relationship because of cultural differences and we’re both American. I can only imagine how hard it was for them.

[@paletics92]

I honestly don't know if I would be able to put up with as many lies as Jenny does. For me maybe is not about the amount of lies but the reason why it keeps happening. Like Summit is clearly a person not mature enough capable of facing consequences for his actions/inactions. Lots of love from Argentina! you are best.

[@lestatsluv317]

I swear, these two are one of (if not the only) couple on this show and all of the franchises that are one hundred percent wholesome, in love, and neither of them have any sort of ulterior motives beyond truly wanting to be together forever and they make me smile. I am a cold-hearted bitch and I am very jaded when it comes to love in movies and shows (especially this one) but everything about the two of them screams genuine connection and I smile just watching them together.....once I get passed the god awful intrusive thoughts concerning the two of them naked. You did nothing to help those thoughts in the slightest but I adore you anyway, Leo. lmao I think you look quite handsome and as an American, I have always marveled at how beautiful clothes from India are. It seems like even the plainest things I've ever seen anyone, male or female, in India wearing is just beautiful.

[@StyxiuSCruX]

Aww dammit woman. Until you specifically said "intrusive thoughts about two of em naked" I had no problems ignoring that whole aspect of their relationship.. but for some reason soon as I read that BAM ... The image has scarred me for life I'm afraid 😂

[@lestatsluv317]

@@StyxiuSCruX 😂😂😂 See, it's a damn curse. I managed to even push the thoughts away while those two were talking about how Sumit likes to be dominiated....but every time I pushed the thoughts away, Leo came in with something as bad if not worse than my own twisted thoughts and he punched me right in the brain with it....and now I have done the same to you. Worst....curse....ever. lmao My deepest apologies, my friend. 😁

[@StyxiuSCruX]

@@lestatsluv317 oh god ... OH GOD you made it worse 🤣🤢 i was thinking it was just Leo joking. Must have missed the episode where they talked about domination... whyyyy. granted im still a bit confused on how he was a virgin with a wife.. i really dont understand how thats even possible. i need to find a bleach based brain scrubbing soap

[@nikkydalby7126]

Yea the old jokes at Jenny are a bit much 🙄 I usually love Leo’s content, but every 3 min another old joke was a bit much…

[@ChloesColdEars111]

If you look closer you can see that Jenni doesnt seem to care about what Sumit needs or wants, ans she forces him to do what she wants, from the Kama Sutra thing to moving to the US to having her nosy daughter butting in to the relationship going over Sumits head and causing more trouble for him, she is selfish and too set in her ways. Sumit lies to her to keep her at peace, which is no excuse, lying to your partner is a recipe for disaster. Sumit is in his prime and he has every right and it should be encouraged that he go out in the world and experience everything he can, and Jenni is in the time of her life where shes already done that and wants to relax and be happily boring, and she has every right too. I dont think Sumit feels the way he did, or how he says, I dont believe he is in love with Jenni anymore, and I think Jenni is holding on like a desperate woman who knows the truth in her heart but is in denial. They should go their separate ways, i truly believe that. I think they will always have love for each other but not in love.

[@kayalool3451]

Your spoiling us way too much leo! Love your videos

[@TheKayasto]

imo, dude doesnt need to pay his parents back. they arranged the marriage. it's on them that it didnt work out lmfao. fuck that noise. if they didn't want to be out that cash, they shoulda let their FULLY GROWN ADULT CHILD MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS!!

[@Bauhaussauce]

The way his friends couldn’t even really trust him either. 😂

[@ribunny123]

This is infinitely better than watching the actual show. Actually insightful and funny and we get more context.

[@FabricFool]

My rule of thumb has always been “once bitten twice shy; twice bitten say goodbye.” It’s worked so far.

[@maxxxio5588]

7 HOURS of content in less than a week. I don’t know what the hell you’re made of, dude, but it’s the right stuff. 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 We love to see it!

[@lanaesworld6976]

I don't get why she actually wants his parents approval and why they don't just go to America. I don't get how she didn't think this would be an issue in a conservative culture

[@clarissathompson0103]

Well she does want to go to America but he doesn't want to leave his family even though they're shunning and disowning him so idk how their relationship will turn out

[@2luvanime4ever]

1:28:06 Thank you Leo, my parent does this to me A LOT to win arguments when they REFUSE to admit being wrong or say sorry. Which they almost never do. They’ll say “ I’ve done all this for you, your whole life, and this is how you act?!!” or something along those lines, when I am talking to them calmly, and collectively. For example, it will be situations where I don’t want to go someplace because I’m traumatized by how I felt going to that place forcefully, my whole childhood, and as an adult now still living with my parent, I don’t want to go because of the trauma. But then the speech of I raised you I gave you everything you have now you owe me type thing comes into play and what am I supposed to say to that you know. I could never put into words what it’s called when this happens. Anyway, thank you for putting it into words.

[@alias201]

It's called manipulation. They're manipulating you. Sorry that you're going through that.

[@badconscience93]

Educate yourself with some videos from Dr. C on the "Surviving Narcissism" channel. He helped me and I'm sure he can help you. ✌️

[@DistressedDamsel79]

Remember two things: One, they chose to be parents, including any and all responsibilities and sacrifices. You can be grateful and honor them by acknowledging that, but it is not a debt you owe. Two, when it comes to setting boundaries, repetition and consistency are key. As uncomfortable and hard it may be, eventually they should learn you won’t budge.

[@skittles3310]

We too have a tradition in America for blessing a new car to prevent crashes and accidents! It's called getting insurance. 😂 We take that ceremony so seriously it's illegal not to do it! 😅

[@SunshinePip]

🤣

[@MargaLia]

This hits close to home for me. I spend waiting last 9 years with a Nepales guy and finished it finally in december. The whole wanting to please parents and worrying about what people say is crazy and i tried to understand it for so long, but the amount of lies and not being able to decide for yourself made me take the step to end this. I agree a lot with your point of view that its important that you make your own family and not worry so much about your parents. I have been raised by parents who says "as long you are happy we are happy" and i think a lot of Asian people really need to start growing and change their attitude. Thank you Leo for amazing video like always ❤

[@arshiyae.2486]

Hey, I don't know where are you from but I am from India. Here parents thinks that their children are their extension and so they can take decisions for their whole ass grown children. Their parents has done this to them and now they do this to their children. Obviously this doesn't apply to all Indian parents. And I guess to some extend it does apply to all Asians.

[@MargaLia]

@@arshiyae.2486 Hello, i am from Poland. I understand the differences and i guess i was very wrong to assume that my ex would like to break that pattern of generations. Wish you all the best tho ❤️

[@purine1400]

@@MargaLia if a desi man wanted to he would. i grew up in bangladesh, a country right next to nepal. i live in the US now so i am very familiar with both sides. ive seen many married bengali men go against their parents. yes, in south asian ideologies a child is an extension of their parents. as in they have responsibilities to take care of them as their parents have in raising them. especially the eldest son. however if that eldest son is in his 30s and has a job, he very much has power over his parents as they do over him. men are allowed to get away with a lot more in the culture than women. patriarchy is very deeply rooted and so is sexism. a man has a lot of power. society lets them “get away with it” more. so if he really wanted to he would. what would people say is just an excuse. all it means that he’s living comfortably where he is and he also gets to have u occasionally. best of both words. why would he uproot his comfortability. the ones who will are real. the fake ones will string u along for years.

[@abandonedmuse]

My ex was vietnamese, and because his mom didnt know I was European Spanish, and thought I was Latin American, she told him she would buy him a house to leave me, and HE DID! He left his ex bc she was biracial, and his mom hated her. The saddest part is i did a DNA test and she found out i was 97% European and SHE APOLOGIZED TO ME! Years later though and after she destroyed the family we had made. My daughter grew up with out a dad living at home because of her.

[@sourgreendolly7685]

@@MargaLia It's not wrong of you, you assumed you could trust that love would be enough. And it should be. It's sad that so many people have THAT much pressure from their families but there's only one way it can change. I'm sure you were given every reason to think that and that part isn't fair to you. I understand that it must be hard in his shoes, but that doesn't mean you're wrong to have believed in the relationship, you know? 💕

[@artstudentlife]

Fun fact: kurta is just a longer version of Kurti, if it’s to your knees or longer, that’s a kurta and anything above that is a kurti (cuz you said you were trying to get into our culture) P.s. you look nice in that pink kurti Leo :))

[@ananyasinha6879]

I thought it was a Kurta if a guy was wearing it and Kurti if a girl is! Interesting info!

[@artstudentlife]

@@ananyasinha6879nope, nothing to do with the person wearing it :)

[@LittleOneSlaysThem]

Happy to find this comment..as I was about to say that Leo wears the pink kurta beautifully 😊

[@ananyasinha6879]

@@artstudentlife Thanks!

[@filomenamelanson4022]

Finding you saved my life! No really … I was so depressed and haven’t lol or smiled in a long time. You are so funny, witty and genuine. Keep giving out great content teach us everyday there is a reason to laugh no matter how stupid crap ass..lol. 😊

[@Alison-ku5ko]

Hugs.

[@xprettyhurt9560]

I felt it when Leo said ‘Age doesn’t matter if you’re a tree’

[@fleshc1131]

As someone with attachment issues, I find the limit is when it's more painful to stay than it is to leave,,, and generally leaving is so so painful and so so hard that it's more unimaginable to make the effort to leave than it is to stay and be disrespected, yk

[@marthaaldridge5346]

Dude, you crack me tf up. I'm almost her age, and people like her, who are so gullible, are really cringey. Where is her wisdom that comes with the years? Trying to be with someone with such an age difference is kinda gross... I'm a grandma, I'm almost 60, I have a 20 yr old grandson... Jenny tries to Americanize everything. Ugh Why do I watch this?? Why can't I stop?? It's a hard NO on my son's dating someone older than me. HARD NO

[@PrettySpookyx]

Ewwwwwww

[@marthaaldridge5346]

@@PrettySpookyx exactly 💯

[@Celestelestele]

“I don’t get it, but I’m happy for them.” This is the best summation of what I feel about this series lmao Thank you for the deep dives! As backwards as it seems, it keeps me going through my finals and I look forward to more

[@sidar87]

I think he likes her because he is just done with his cultural nonsense and she is the closest thing in his life that gives him that sense of freedom.

[@Dedbttch]

Your commentary is so sweet and insightful. The part about Sumit's parents emotionally blackmailing him really hit hard. Also you look incredible in that color! Handsome af.

[@SoapFloater]

Mr. Sixteenleo, I haven't finished the video yet, I'm only like 16 minutes in, but I must say, that light pink kurta (I'm not Indian please forgive me if this is the wrong word) looks SO good on you. Even though I don't 100% know what it's called, I was so compelled by how good you looked in that color that I HAD to tell you. Keep on keeping on. I love your content, keep being you

[@ananyamullick3507]

ttttteeeeee😮😮😮

[@jolo3118]

"We're in a grey area here, like her hair". 😂😂😂 I'm dyin! That was perfect!

[@mgbestboy]

10:55 “You suck, prenup” is now my favourite quote of all time

[@SneakyCatAgent]

I love how leo is really watching the show and not just random clips on youtube

[@JoshuaGlock]

I'm loving the funny little edits throughout. Hats off to the editors. They did a good job.

[@julest5767]

I've never watched 90 day Fiance but I watched your review of LIB Sweden and it was hilarious! So your commentary seems more entertaining than the 90 day show. "You're scamming yourself" The cow was beautiful.

[@g.peacharts3674]

I was already invested in this but when i saw samit actually confront his parents. Damn I just want to see him succeed. Both of them succeed.

[@Anne-cs7mu]

they actually look happy together. I hope they get their happy ending.

[@LilySaintSin]

They do. They're married now.

[@andychow5509]

And you think it's over? What about a decade from now? She'll be 73, you think he'll take care of her? Or dump her and get a new woman? This story does not end well.

[@tammykelsey7877]

My limit would be WAY back in the beginning when I heard the name, Michael Jones on the phone, with an Indian accent!😮

[@hatch2141]

nothing more perfect than a 2 hour long sixteenleo video to keep me company as i draw

[@Ericasentertainments]

I’m glad you pointed out how it is very reasonable for the parents to be upset due to the significant age difference! Everyone wants to get so mad at Summits parents knowing dang well if it was one of their own kids they too wouldn’t approve. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@cieraleal8030]

i get not approving their relationship but they dont have to.just leave them be!!its the lengths they go to to sabotage them that makes people hate on them.

[@IAmEmber]

@@cieraleal8030 exactly!

[@Leleche]

It's not about them not "approving" but they are actively stopping him from carrying on with his life. And if my son in his 30's wants to be with a 60 year old.... it would make me feel crap but my son is an adult and who am I to stop him lol... what are you talking about? He is in his 30's 😅

[@pattibramley3911]

The crazy thing about this is that if the man was 61 and the woman was 30, nobody would blink an eye!!

[@Alison-ku5ko]

They don’t look “off” as a pair either! 🤗

[@MEDSZ13.08]

The crazy thing is that PEOPLE WOULD!! and people DO! Ive seen many people hate on Big ed aswell hes currently dating a woman who was born the year his divorce was final and its CREEPY asf

[@tiffanybarnard8755]

I haven't laughed this much in months. Thank you 😊. My favorite line was does she need a bibb when she goes out. I'm almost sore from laughing. Ugh bless you.

[@amberlikely420]

😂😂😂 your commentary always has me rolling! Your accent wall impression literally made me laugh so hard I choked on my melatonin I was attempting to take while watching this before bed…and that was probably the most elderly shit I said today. 😅

[@katherinejimenezmatos2009]

Hahahhaha Leo got dressed up for the occasion 😅 I feel like Sumit is being genuine about how he feels about Jenny. I just hope they have a happy ending lol. The way this story started is so bad lol so really crossing fingers for a happy ending

[@emp9413]

Lol notice how she repeats if he doesn’t divorce it will be the worst thing ever, and not that she’ll leave him. If he ‘doesn’t have the ability’ She’s already decided she’ll be ok with that 😂

[@Jennaamersi]

I get so excited when I see your videos ❤ thank you for always making me laugh ! And making such a great effort with your videos ! Lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@azazello1784]

What? How do you get internet in there?

[@DevCoffey]

@@azazello1784 I would assume the same way you get internet anywhere else…with a WiFi router and an electrical outlet lmao

[@khadijatafolabi7179]

@@azazello1784 bfr🙄

[@me-th]

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[@eamonnschnell5373]

just so you know, the red stains are from spitting betel nut! also known as “paan” in india. its very common to see red stains around southeast asian cities and is considered a nuisance. ive tried paan though, its filled with all kinds of indian spices and sweets, its soooo good.

[@urbanarmory]

Betel is also super addictive and terrible for you

[@eamonnschnell5373]

@@urbanarmory ahh yes it is, im realizing i made it seem like a kids snack lmao. betel nut definitely cause mouth cancer ;)

[@urbanarmory]

@@eamonnschnell5373 hey no prob I agree, it's super interesting and frankly I'd love to try it- it's also kinda maybe not a great idea and a huge social vice in a bunch of countries

[@lanaesworld6976]

Yeah I see faults on both sides, and shocker but it's mostly because of age and cultural differences. She refuses to realize the country is completely different and she nags after she made the decision to go even though she never saw the paper work before. Why go and just push to fight the whole time. She should have waited. And he seems like he gets caught up with lying to everyone to make them happy but never can because he says yes to things he can't, and promises he can't keep. They honestly don't act like they are adults.

[@karlapeach8895]

Wasn’t expecting your traditional Indian clothing to be a pink shimmer colour, it’s so pretty! It’s incredibly flattering on you👏🏻💕

[@KandiBabyy]

YAY…. It was such a treat. Logging onto KZbin and seeing you randomly posted part 2 of their deep dive. THANK YOU!!! 😊

[@nellybarrett7]

I love these longer Leo monologues the clever witty jokes throughout just slap ya in the face at any time absolutely hilarious keep up the great work!

[@Jennifer-rv9sb]

I literally can’t drink anything while watching this video because I burst out laughing so much 😂😂😂

[@maryjane89]

Shout-out to the editor for the "put that on a T-shirt" bit - really made me laugh. 👍

[@elisabethpoland2967]

Thank you for covering more of this couple, Leo. I got invested after your last video

[@thefelicits]

Me too, I was so into his Big Ed coverage but this series may be even better

[@dulceaidavp9716]

I think that Sumit and her need to move away, live together, and see if it works out before they get married. They also have to accept that the parents will never change their mind.

[@josiealvarado2296]

Exactly

[@ziam5635]

Leo, my dear, you've been working extra hard lately. 2hrs?? after the 5hr one?? Love the dedication! Your commentary is *chef's kiss*

[@lesissmilinglytryin1436]

I was suspicious of this relationship at first but like you I really can't help but root for these two they are genuinely just kind of adorable when they are together. Just found your channel, binge watching the 30-day Fiance series. I love it.

[@majavareeta]

That kurta is gorgeous!

[@calonstanni]

I love it that you genuinely give grace to these two.

[@CrickBritt]

YAAASS thank you Leo! Today is my Friday, so I get to relax after work with one is your videos. The five hour video rocked btw, got me through an entire work day 🙏🏻👏

[@mariwashereeee]

That "Micheal Jones" impression had me dying 💀

[@kenz5432]

oh my god ANOTHER one?? you’re so amazing leo. and you are ROCKING that Kurti sir

[@pikachu_lollipops]

Dude. I love watching these with you. They stress me out too much to watch alone.

[@Sunset553]

I thought Sumit’s payments were to return the dowry. I didn’t know he was being blackmailed. How much would I put up with? I wouldn’t fly out there because the divorce isn’t final. I think by the time I stay home longer, things cool off, then it’s easier to break off

[@ayoitzsergio]

Imagine having no say in who you marry because 2 people refuse to allow it then when it inevitably ends in divorce you get to pick up the bill.. Congrats! Haha

[@pitafuentes1440]

Every time sixteenleo makes a funny guess about what they're doing should be a shot 🥃. Great videos every single time. Love the work you and your team does. Flawless everytime ❤

[@Gessle3]

You're like the only KZbinr I can watch for several hours per video without pauses 😅

[@troublenesss]

Sumit says no more lying because he saw the consequences. What consequences? I swear I don’t fall asleep during your videos, Leo! Yet somehow I missed the consequences. Side note: I’ve typed “consequences” so many times, it’s starting to look misspelled.

[@KatwinKennedy]

Honestly they aren’t right about everything - but I understand where his mother is coming from. She welcomed this woman, who is a similar age, into her house for four months, took care of her and then found out this woman was doing inappropriate things with her son. Jenny is often duplicitous and lies, deceives and acts in childish ways. I would never want one of my kids to show end up with someone like her.

[@Mama_Bear524]

I agree

[@Leleche]

But.... he didn't tell his mother (which he should have) Jenny thought he HAD told his parents, so 🤷🏼‍♀️... what has she done wrong in that sense? This man is in his 30's lol. He is not a child 😅, his parents have absolutely no right to stop this fully grown man be with who he wants, you're all crazy.

[@babyturkey8342]

I'm so sick with strep and very stressed for other reasons. Nothing to make me smile like a leo video. Thank you 😊 ❤

[@LittleWittleKitty]

God I had strep 3 times in 2 months. It’s a lot- good luck!

[@babyturkey8342]

@Betty Spaghetti omg that's terrible !! Yea, very Contagious and can come back easily. Ugh. Feeling much better, thank you! 🩷

[@Toywins]

I had strep last summer, and it whoops my butt EVERY TIME I get it, feel better soon!

[@MadameDegen]

I don’t like her, her posture was disrespectful with his family and traditions. She was staying at his house as a friend, allured his mother, lied to them and took their son’s virginity, it’s not ethical even if she thought she was in love with this young man.

[@Overtonl1234]

This whole situation is bazaar and I’m glad you cover it because I wouldn’t know it existed otherwise. No matter what though I can’t imagine ever in life putting my personal life out there for anyone let alone everyone. I wonder why these never work out 🙄

[@hermine1657]

I literally just finished your 5 hour video and now there is a 2 hour one? Damn you are really putting in sooo much effort recently. It’s so appreciated but I hope you take care of yourselves, breaks are healthy and needed if you work so productive! Lots of love

[@sixteenleo]

Still got some spots left, ill be checking over the weekend. these deep dives gonna get us to 1Mill! drive.google.com/drive/folders/1nLZifl1n-zbyiYzTVrkgsxRgEEztqdOo?usp=share_link

[@melanieg.mendoza6974]

Love the outfit, you look really good with it on! Love your videos!!❤

[@militaryliferoxanne]

I just want a hug

[@MD-xi5vd]

You didn't leave an email in the description

[@BoneOfBoneville]

I’ve been binge watching your content since yesterday. I just literally came across your videos and you’re genuinely one of the funniest, coolest, most positive, (handsome) content creators on this platform. I’m so glad you’re doing this! I’m a subscriber forever now 🩵

[@annamittal8319]

LOVE the kurti Leo! I grew up wearing desi stuff to temple and functions, so it makes me happy to learn that you’re stepping into that world of fashion too 💗

[@annamittal8319]

14:28 (impactful quote for me)

[@Vanessacurry84]

I had an awful alcoholic mother in law when we were getting married we had to do a few counseling sessions with pastor he told us that it’s time for him to let go of her if he’s going to be a married man and that our relationship comes first she was literally impossible we’re divorced now and have been like eight years and she still lives with him and now they’re both alcoholics with multiple duis between them

[@samanthamays111]

I’m of Norwegian descent, born and raised in Chicago (very far from Eastern culture). My parents have always shown me love and support. I will always take care of them when they get older ( they are in their 60s now). I’m less inclined to believe it’s a cultural thing…it’s about respect and love. ❤

[@bethanychatman9531]

That's cool. It's still a cultural thing, some cultures are just more serious about it than other's are. A lot of cultures used to have the same practice with families taking care of elderly in house.

[@lizzieb9382]

Currently working on homework at 1 am after a full day of work, def needed this video. Thanks Leo 🥺❤ Made my night

[@DarkHowlerz]

At the end of the day, everyone around them are trying to keep them away from each other, just for their own convenience. Even if their relationship doesn't work out because of all the issues everyone brought up, it'll be on them and their own burden to carry. Sure, they might want their kid to be happy with "normal" life. But at the end, you're not going to be living it. He will. Same with Jenny.

[@sushmitaraodesaraju6330]

That's the thing, not all of the issues are created by people around them. Sumit makes things worse for himself with all the lying. And the biggest complication of all, him getting married and now trying to get divorced, didn't have to happen. If only Sumit had fought harder to not be pushed into a marriage he didn't want, he could've saved Jenny, his family and himself a lot of heartache.

[@ashoshahaque191]

Thank you for making long videos, I enjoy watching them while I bake and I enjoy your commentary as well. Also as a Desi myself I appreciate someone doing commentary who I can relate to

[@creaturehands]

You have a beautiful name !!

[@davidgutierrez8081]

Thank you for standing up for an hour an half and entertaining us.. owe you a popsicle lol!!!!

[@jacob9538]

"Haters don't pay the bulls."- sixteenleo

[@RedMoonSolitary]

You look really good in that dude! Also, I just wanted to say that I love the fact that you're not only funny, but also very wise and empathetic. It's very rare in KZbinrs. Keep being the coolest. ❤️

[@arizonagallagher2775]

I’m sad to say, if Jenny is moving there on a permanent basis, her social security is gone. SSA does not pay out to residents of India….oops. And Leo, you look fly af. ;)

[@m.ccheddarbox874]

I get that love is love but i do feel bad for the wife is Indian. Getting a divorce as a women brings shame to your house even if its not your fault. She may not be able to marry again because shes been married and lost her virginity.

[@deepakds4142]

Nah this is misconception but the stigma is pretty nonexistent these days , many women have boyfriends get married many get remarried i m pretty sure she can get remarried too

[@syeyonkang8956]

​@@deepakds4142 I agree. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think that this stigma is more prevalent in working to middle class people of South Asia because they tend to have more traditional values. Most middle to upper class people are very open minded.

[@deepakds4142]

@@syeyonkang8956 yes mostly among working class but it's pretty much non existent nowadays

[@samanthamays111]

Loving the longer content! Thanks for all your hard work. Wishing you continued success!! ❤️

[@bibisarah4884]

Leo! Your deep dives are the only thing that work like a stress buster and get me through the work week😅 Thanks man🙌

[@fionamcfadden5772]

Putting my poorly feet up & looking forward to 2hrs of Sumit & Jenny!..Life's a box of choco-...Oh wrong film!..(i did watch your reaction to the Indian version of F.Gump tho' & it was brilliant!.)😂True say though!..😂But this is just top notch too Leo & I'm I'm definitely a big baby Leo b'coz I can't help BUT watch!..I don't know how you do it but you do..ty..cheers luv Xx

[@c0smictac0]

Thank you for the long form content, Leo! Appreciate all your hard work!

[@jessthom1016]

Summit is a grown ass man… cultures aside… it is in fact his choice. Before I met my husband I was in a relationship of sorts with a man twice my age for a few years… we never planned on it being long term or getting married but we enjoyed each others company. People need to realize that everyone deserves to love and be loved… just because someone gets old it doesn’t mean they don’t still need companionship and intimacy

[@ivymondal9663]

Exactly , he is just blaming everything on Indian culture , I am from India and he had the choice to not get married and cut off ties with his family to live with Jenny, we have law and order and constitution in our country, it's not like his family could do any harm to them.

[@jessthom1016]

@@ivymondal9663 it IS hard to cut off family. I do feel for him that he is stuck between that choice… I grew up with a narcissistic parent who still to this day emotionally blackmails me so she can get what she wants… and a lot of the times I cave because I want her to love me… the try to is I was born to serve and respect her in her mind. It’s not a mutual thing. I give Summit a pass in that case… because it’s hard. He’s caving on societal standards because his parents are worried about the side eye in their social circles. The older man I mentioned I had a relationship with was actually Indian lol. He came to America in his 30s… and when I spent time with him he used to talk about how even “back then” the caste system was illegal but his mom married his dad who was technically a caste below their family. I think he was more “blue collar” and her family was a military family? And there was a LOT of issues with that but she did it anyway and it all worked out eventually. The age thing… is hard in ALL cultures. People had issues with me having a close relationship with the person I did… but we never planned on marriage… I think if we were in that sort of relationship they’d have pushed back more. There are a lot of questions people ask with age… in ALL cultures. But his mom is being absolutely unforgiving… I think deep down she knows her relationship with her son is flawed and she wants to be the one who gets his attention… if he’s happy with someone she loses a piece of her son in her eyes. His previous marriage was awful for both parties so he was still heavily dependent on his mutter for his emotional needs.