INFJ and ISTJ part II _ Understanding an ISTJ

[@NaomiIris]

I just want to say thank you for this video. I am following objective personality channel, and I am a fellow INFJ recently attracted to an ISTJ because of this stability and providence I’ve never had in my life. Everything feels safe about him, but I had some second thoughts due to very opposite cognitive functions, especially it’s hard for me to understand the Si and Te functions. But this video just makes so much sense and I relate to you a lot. Thank you again for this.

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Thank you Naomi! You made my day! I’m always happy to hear that I was able to help.

[@NaomiIris]

@@samanthadrobac1111 would be great if you could also do more of those, such as daily life between INFJ and ISTJ, what he brings to you and what you bring to him, you story, how you started, who made the first move, challenges etc

[@samanthadrobac1111]

I’ve been asked this before actually- and I’m planning on it actually, since it seems like the topic that others appreciate or need most. I’m definitely working in it. And thank you for sharing that with me!

[@IRSamsara]

I just discovered you and I really appreciate your videos, especially about the INFJ & ISTJ relationship. I am an INFJ female married to an ISTJ male and It’s sooooo challenging. I feel I lied to myself when I married him and I realize that we’re not very compatible. He provides stability like you said in another video, but I’m not feeling fulfilled in any other way. He’s a great person, but not such a great partner. What a predicament. Please make more videos on this topic. You have excellent insight on this topic! 🙏🏼Namaste

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Your comment made my year! Thank you! :) I am planning on making more on this topic for sure- especially since these last few months I’ve gathered more insight and I want to share it with others, but I know that INFJs in particular will appreciate it the most. Thank you again for your feedback and for watching 💕 Namaste ~

[@hailgranite7445]

I (INFJ) almost got fired because my ISTJ coworker was in a bad mood and decided to complain to HR. He calls in a lot though. I just ended up taking away his overtime because I have more seniority. 😂

[@Marina-zx7du]

Thank you for not bashing the ISTJs, like some do on the Internet. You seem to have a solid understanding of ISTJs, its very accurate. I liked you said we are the perfect citizens of the world, couldn´t agree more... we come on time, follow rules, do out job at the highest standard, are extremely loyal, thats what world needs 😉I do have a tendency to micromanage (at home), but I am aware of it, and i usually ask others, whether they like f.eks. living in a mass, or they enjoy tidiness, they usually choose the last one, so I ask them to collaborate on keeping things tidy, and I appreciate when they try doing their best.

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Hey Marina! I got your back 😉 I’ve been meaning to make a new video more on ISTJs and focusing entirely in their great qualities that often don’t get enough appreciation by others- they have highly valuable traits (or at least I think so) that people need who are in a relationship with an ISTJ need to be reminded of

[@jenvee951]

“They don’t see a need to change”. Yes, yes, yes. Sometimes it can go from confidence to arrogance. 😂

[@samanthadrobac1111]

It certainly can haha!

[@loverofbeautifulthings]

You have a very good understanding of the ISTJ-A and your description of the positive hum is perfect, thank you, I will always remember that! I wish you and your husband a lifetime of love and happiness.

[@vickygolle8000]

Thank you so much, I just entered a relationship with an ISTJ guy and this helps a lot!

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Hey Vicky! I’m happy this was useful! :) thanks for watching

[@paulmessis1985]

I initially thought my wife was INTJ, but over time I have realised she is ISTJ. It is very difficult at times to be in a relationship with this "type".

[@paulmessis1985]

One thing I feel with this type, is that they only view the world black and white.

[@catkohlee]

Yes yes and yes! That’s why me being an infj and my husband of 10 years is an istj are still strong! Us as INFJ are sensitive but be are Tough as well. I would like to be friends or text or something lol, it’s really like a breath of fresh air because it’s rare for an INFJ to be married to a ISTJ, so for someone to GET IT is pretty cool!

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Your comment made my day! Thank you so much :-)

[@catkohlee]

@@samanthadrobac1111 no problem, I was telling my husband it’s like a breath of fresh air listening to your view points! 🫶🏾💕

[@LisaMira]

Thanks from a INFJ 4w5 who's with an ISTJ 9w1. It explains so much!

[@klp3309]

Thank you. I’m and INFP and started searching KZbin because I deal with the same stuff with my ISTJ husband.

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Hi! Thank you for taking the time to watch it! I’ll be loading new videos very soon

[@TravellersDiary1]

As an ISFJ, ISTJ relationship is constant conflict, confrontation and conflict You only happy for two days a week before they bring something up

[@samanthadrobac1111]

I get it! I can be tough… luckily infj’s are tough too

[@RonDiani]

Hahaha true I know this since I’m in that relationship we discuss often. It annoys me sometimes but my friend seems to like to debate everything with me. But at the end we are good again. But sometimes I say something which offends other peoples for no reason. I don’t know why. I just say how I feel or think is correct. My Enfp work friend gets upset mostly with my takes. My best friend at work are Enfp and Estj I love when they talk and the Enfp says irrational things.

[@RonDiani]

@@samanthadrobac1111of course we are both very tough we can make each others tired. But my friend and me can be very romantic.

[@marimary6879]

I am an infj, my coworker she is an istj, she is so insensitive,blunt, judgmental.. rigid and C O L D. It is hard for my soft nature to go along with this personality.😮

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Hi! I totally get it! It can be a true test for an empath, indeed! Haha I don’t blame anyone for their aversion of the istj types - but like everything, where there’s a challenge… there’s potential for growth

[@marimary6879]

@@samanthadrobac1111 that's true, there is a potential for growth

[@BibleNerd7]

I'm an ISTJ and I do follow the rules unless it conflicts with my morals/faith/beliefs. But then I get very stubborn about it... I also love discussing aliens and spiritual things. Lol. We're all unique. 😊

[@samanthadrobac1111]

Certainly! ISTJs can be open to discussing all sorts of topics! And they also acknowledge they can be stubborn on certain things (as you have said). Yes indeed :) we are all unique. And the world needs the contrast, which calls for the variations we notice in people (our differences) this is something we tend to take for granted and fail to recognize its vital qualities and the role it plays in allowing us to appreciate the rest.

[@AFuture4U]

As an INFj, I do not recommend this match. If you're an INFJ, you will slowly die inside. The ISTJ feels mechanical or robotic, they absolutely do not compromise, and there is almost nothing in common.

[@archy2033]

As an INFJ, we strive to be an extroverts (Ambiverts) But if it happens continuously, with a cold response, we are tired too

[@rapidash1995]

Thank you

[@cyclone304]

ISTJ-A FATHER INFJ-T SON mature now lol 25 years difference I get it smiley face developed my SE

[@jennahudson3420]

My bf is an ISTJ but a bit of an unhealthy one. Turbulent

[@bettysue5497]

I hate istj

[@hailgranite7445]

I feel like they tattle on people for no good reason and I think they can be selfish at times.

[@dseer13]

You made a big mistake marrying that. You are wasting your life.