INFJ loneliness (with guest raccoon)

Today Meeko and I will share some (hopefully) wise advice on INFJ loneliness, why we get stuck in loneliness as INFJs, and what we can do about it. Here's what we dive into:
- What INFJ loneliness is
- Why we get stuck in INFJ loneliness
- What we can do about loneliness (aka what's the solution)
Meeko and I send our love. Xo,
CP

[@holo406]

You nailed it Christine. At firs t I thought I heard you called it "Amigo" (that is "friend" in Spanish). I wish I could exchange heartfelt and understanding messages with you and Meeko. I wouldn't need much more actually, top quality souls over quantity. Hugs

[@christinelise]

What kind words, thank you! Hugs to you from Meeko and I ❤️✨

[@Heyokasireniei468sxso]

i feel more alone when im surrounded by people , yet i never feel alone when im by myself

[@thebritishindian1]

That statement really resonated with me because I feel alone 90% of the time in groups, yet only 10% of the time when alone. However, that 10% is very difficult for me as I’m mid-40s with no wife or kids, which I’ve wanted since my 20s. Thanks for sharing your comment.

[@Heyokasireniei468sxso]

@@thebritishindian1 I'm in my 40s too , I don't want a wife or kid i am not ready to where I would suit those roles. If you are male remember you can have kids anytime you want a wife as well as long as you take care of yourself stay in shape keep a full bank account (those options will be there) enjoy you first getting to know you , so when the opportunity presents itself you dont fuck it up

[@johnearnshaw5036]

It always amazes me that there are others like me. Great video.

[@christinelise]

Thank you!

[@ericgoingoverseas5064]

Welcome Brother.......😁

[@SantanaBanana47]

Infjs are often lonely because of their fear of rejection causing them to close themselves off from others. Which is kind of what they wanted to avoid, but they created a self fulfilling prophecy. Then they complain that they are lonely.

[@moniquelemaire5333]

You have great way about you, Christine.😊. I watched your video on jobs and job hunting and rerealized that having a job is horrible for me. 😢 This video hit home as well. Yes, I do get lonely at times, but i realize that God is with me always. It can be hard yo be around people, but I still yearn for that connection. I love the fact that you had Nico the Raccoon on as your guest, today. He is very handsome 🥰. Yes, he does have good wisdom. (I confess that I am 60 and still have a teddy bear.🧸) Thank you and God bless you and your family 🙏🌷!! Miss Monique 🙂🙏🌷💗😊

[@christinelise]

@@moniquelemaire5333 thank you so much for that message - it was the sweetest! I’m so glad the videos resonated with you. I pray God sends you a job you enjoy and feel energized by. All the best to you! 🤍

[@moniquelemaire5333]

@@christinelise Christine, thank you for your reply and your heartfelt words💗. Yes, I realize that I do need some kind of job just to be around some people. Actually , what my goal is, is to put everything that I ever taught on KZbin. I look forward to seeing more of your videos 😊. With Christian love, Miss Monique 🙂🙏

[@christinelise]

@@moniquelemaire5333 what a wonderful goal!! I hope you do that 🤍🤍🙏🏼

[@leonardodegenerate260]

I constantly remind infjs to be straight up and cut the bullshit when I hear them say it cause I know they care about saying what sounds right than what they actually believe sometimes. Loneliness is something completely natural and we all feel it. Some people stronger than others. But I can tell when an infj is enjoying themselves and when they are REALLY enjoying themselves. I like to be the one that these people can be listened by and understood and I think I've achieved that. They usually kind of... Choose me. Just like I choose them. Of that makes sense. -ENTP

[@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied]

Such a typical INFJ. We come, we go, we come back, and go…and you never see us leave…like magic-INFJ

[@charliekelly1154]

"Loneliness is not being alone, but being empty." Seneca

[@christinelise]

Ah so good. Yes.

[@NatalieDuby]

You said it all very well! I have two friends with whom I confide in. Sometimes when I'm around people who don't understand me and are just draining, I'll appreciate my close friends that much more and tell them how much I love them for that. It's like a breath of fresh air! This actually happened a few days ago, and it made me so emotional I cried to them and told them how much I appreciated the fact that they understood me, in that I feel seen and heard. But I could see how they were surprised because I don't always open up that way. I value that so much from the people in my life and I do make sure to share that appreciation with them.

[@christinelise]

That is lovely to hear!!

[@johnearnshaw5036]

Pleeeeease make another video😊

[@shadowbody]

That's when creating an alter ego helps. The alter ego has to be connected to a character that is a deep part of ourselves and we feel is fun.

[@Brunko333]

I agree, nicely explained.

[@christinelise]

Thank you! ☺️✨

[@Brunko333]

@@christinelise Sure would be awesome to talk face to face.

[@RetroXRicardo]

Entertaining clips on these MBTI types! I hope my MBTI channel does the same. I stumbled upon your channel through the KZbin algorithm today! 🤗🤗🤗

[@raft115]

💖✨

[@junhaozheng5692]

....i heard what you said, but somehow i cant recall anything i learned from this. But somehow i felt being understood throughout.

[@christinelise]

So glad you felt understood ❤️

[@ericgoingoverseas5064]

It's Subconscious. The middle of our minds is always true to ourselves. Even when our conscience mind is not. In my own experience, there is no peace until both align. That's the sense of relief we experience in learning about our personality. Speaking for myself anyway. 😁