I don't know that I would say this video is referring to a "double life", but, it does speak volumes about the dichotomies one may harbor during theirs. This may be one of few videos I have seen that does not paint "INFJ's" in a admirable light. I don't mind as I think admiration is a point furthest from understanding. When people grow old enough they sometimes forget to ask questions and instead claim understanding. The world would be better if we all humbled ourselves enough to listen instead of speaking. Sadly, the very young do not always do as they are told.
@raquelrc71942 ай бұрын
I am that person. And I am that person with a Chiari malformation. The year 2023 was hectic, my mother was sick, I started a new job where I faced a lot of hate. While things were happening, I managed to maintain my routine, but when my mother recovered, that adrenaline went away and I collapsed. I was fired in a humiliating way, suffered financial losses and gained weight. In 2024, I didn't make any money and I slammed doors on my only friends because I can no longer deal with their self-centeredness. I'm exhausted.
@terryfrancis102 ай бұрын
I just heard a channel say INFJs wear their nervous systems on the outside and that's why they become people pleasers just to calm themselves down. Trauma will do that too so we trigger people whether we are traumatized or not. If Carl Jung has this type then I'm okay having it too. peace
@actualsizevoice2 ай бұрын
I really resonate with that. when things are riled, I feel it all through me. to calm myself, I have to calm the room or leave it. That explains why I have to leave the room for a while at holidays. I don't want to calm the room but I can't sustain the energy.
@terryfrancis102 ай бұрын
@@actualsizevoice Carl Jung was in INFJ so there is wisdom in our actions - we help others too. No Shame Anymore!
@darknessislight36892 ай бұрын
1000% on point
@VBGCgirl12 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness this video described me and I love that I’m not alone. I always felt like an “alien”, though on the outside you’d never guess it…
@raymondmurdock86032 ай бұрын
when it comes to my view of humanity I'm the other way around most people are good but some people are horrific so it balances out to ambivalent indifference but when it comes to humanity as a whole I despise it because it is objectively an evil an evil and destructive force
@nickolaszissimos11892 ай бұрын
Once an INFJ starts to understand themself, learn themself, and know their own feelings and emotions they are then walking toward their Sigma self. Some of these paradoxes somewhat go away, but I don't think fully, and some completely stay. A Sigma INFJ is one of the evolved forms of an INFJ, or even if an INFJ walks toward the Heyoka form, same thing, they learn to understand themself and complete themself.
@waynecook39092 ай бұрын
One of the best vids I've seen on infj. Keep up the great work I've subscribed and liked it 👍 🙏 A true infj edits everything, studys/studied most academic subjects for fun or career or just interest, but the biggest sign i believe is the spooky empathic nature!
@interesting-psychology2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the sub!
@rhedhandedjilll2 ай бұрын
This is the one, I paid little attention to this personality stuff, but this one is me all the way
@J_van_can2 ай бұрын
So very true.. thank you!❤
@oguzgulen56852 ай бұрын
It’s crazy how Cosmic Wealth Frequencies book on Borlest is ignored-people don’t even realize what they’re missing.
@nikkip.Christ-is-King2 ай бұрын
I can't conform. I tried it, just once because my parents wanted me to. It went terribly wrong. My peers knew I was different, of course accidentally ripping their deepest darkest secrets out into the open when I was little didn't help me gain friends. I was never made fun of but no one wanted to hangout with me either. I couldn't explain to them that I learned to control my tell your whole life story ways because I figured out people didn't appreciate that. Even with all of this they trusted me though which is so odd. Anyway, I couldn't conform if my life depended on it.
@clarkedavis4882 ай бұрын
I can't understand how I could be aware of my body's limits without feeling them? That sounds like a self-contradiction of terms.
@clarkedavis4882 ай бұрын
It sounds like a contradiction of terms to say one is aware of the body's limits but can't feel them. I would have to feel my bodily limits to be aware of them.
@jamesdean62802 ай бұрын
You know your limits by cognitively processing your behavioural pattern and identifying by your pattern that you are at a limit Why am I ... A-B-C Oh...I must be tired, why would I be tired? Oh, right, I did do A-B-C it makes sense I am tired. Ofcause I am tired ... I should rest. But with you, I would feel that you are tired and thereby knowing you are tired ...
@Aditi19512 ай бұрын
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@lakshmiprabha24042 ай бұрын
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@nurikeeyuki98282 ай бұрын
Thank you for not saying "INFJ are the rarest type" trope in your video
@theinfjgoyim55082 ай бұрын
You care too much about what people think... Stating it is the rarest type gives context to those unfamiliar. It is not the same as saying I am the best and the others are less than me. Don't be afraid, own it!
@Shamus-x7k2 ай бұрын
You are aware that the thumbnail says INJF?
@guarionexx792 ай бұрын
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@iShayWood2 ай бұрын
Introverted Intuition (Ni) is Strategic SORCERY... ... ... as the world has of yet to know our secret. Carl Jung was very very close. I'm fed up with Ni's overactive imagination and all off its "Could be"...as well as feeling out of body every moment of the day...but, I obsess over its strategy. Being a WIZARD is interesting...and unsettling.