INFP Weeee!

[@rohanrahinwal9706]

Lol I'm a simple minded INFP. I see Weeeee! written in the title with INFP, and I'll surely click it. You sure know how to reel us in

[@sweetheart.nikkilee430]

I saw the weeeee part too and was like, "yes, that must be an interesting video!"

[@SCREAMOguy413]

ME TOO LOLL

[@introvertedinfp]

Rohan Rahinwal I’m an INFP and I don’t relate to this at all. In fact I saw Weee and was like thanks Dave, such a descriptive title 🙄

[@mikeloOdium]

EXPOSED. EXPOSED, EXPOSED EXPOSED. YOU'RE EXPOSED GURL, I'M GONNA EXPOSE YOU.

[@amidreaming333]

I saw weee and thought ''This is gonna be fun'' Don't know my type though, but I'm pretty sure I have NE savior

[@sashamotovylets1753]

I’m a very accepting and open-minded INFP. I tend to respect other people’s beliefs and values, but I have a really hard time with people telling me what I should value, what I should be and what I should do. You do you, I do me.

[@Marina_7]

Completely agree! I don't mind people having different preferences or beliefs as long as they don't question mine. If you don't like it you're free to leave, I'm not forcing you to be around me. Personally I really hate it when people interrogate me about these things (like "why do you like this?" etc), especially when it's something very common; and especially as you said, when they tell me what I should value/be/do. You don't have to be into what I'm into, you don't have to understand it, just accept it and move on or go and leave me be. Even if it's just a genuine question, I feel attacked somehow, demon Te I guess?

[@dedellel5584]

Agree!

[@tunzlunz]

Lol that’s what most INFPs struggle with. That ol demon Te

[@marcodallolio9746]

Same, since I was a kid. I changed a lot through the years, but that underlying attitude has always been there

[@tracyzimmerman7912]

Yep... let me be who I am. I let you be who you are.

[@Arlyon9999]

Ne is the adhd function I swear.

[@brittanys8217]

Lololol yessss😂

[@hejmRage]

I second that haha.

[@fleischliebe430]

lol but adhd is more the inability to motivator yourself with future consequences.

[@SekRanger]

And Ni is the OCD?

[@robertdabob8939]

Absolutely! Once I learned what Ne was I saw myself as a kid in math class off in my own little world pondering how these geometry formula's, I'm basically just told to memorize, actually relate to the shapes, and always falling behind. I'd always have to catch up on my own since speaking up wasn't an option back then ;)

[@xav500011]

As a INFP in my 40's I now try to be more playful with groups of people. So instead of thinking 'bah I don't expect these muppets to return something tangible to me' I now take the approach that this is a wonderful and weird laboratory for me to experiment in. When someone annoys me I now try not to shut off but think 'well everyone has an interesting journey in life and though we all can appear mundane and selfish a lot of the time there is an exciting story to be told from this... annoying person. I will never be a social butterfly but I can round off a lot of sharp edges that a INFP can have. Well maybe. A lot of the time people can be left clueless when I take a huge jump of logic.

[@steviej3112]

How often have you had to be in the proximity of an ESFJ for an extended period of time? Tell me anything other than strict time/proximity management is a palatable plan ;)

[@xav500011]

Oh I don't know how to type other people yet.

[@carries1412]

In. My dreams...lol

[@KajsaBernhardina]

I’ve been Fi-Ne-ing my way through life... and I had no idea I was basically being a selfish lonely artist ^^ thanks for helping me realize what I need to work on to grow!

[@attheranch873]

I don’t think it’s selfish to be who you are.

[@joshuapowell3526]

😍

[@keithparker1346]

In the end does it even matter what other people's opinion of you is?

[@justinb9612]

The wild swings sound very familiar. It reminds me of when I started college and really felt the need to excel. I felt like the only way to do that was to cut out the things I liked that were going to distract me from the goal. So for a while I did, and it worked. Now I’m at another stage where I need to buckle down and get to work but I’m having a hard time letting go of what I like and what I want to do enough to make things happen.

[@DiscoveryWonders]

INFPS: "I don't want to explain what I like, becauseI don't care if you understand"

[@failuretorelax9803]

As INFP - I love and accept my friends and family as they are but I’ve found that it’s not always reciprocated. The hardest part of being an intuitive empathetic feeler is realizing other people are not. It sucks! I’ve had to cut a lot of those people out of my life bc I cannot tolerate fake and I don’t know if it’s fortunate or unfortunate but I can discern it instantly. I just cannot do it any longer. I’m not sorry.

[@jasonwilkerson9497]

All 3 of my sons are intuitives. I always tell them. You were born with a good bullshit detector. 😂

[@tracyzimmerman7912]

I have dialed down what I love and who I am for so long in my life. Because of the things I went through in my childhood I started relying on other people to dictate who I am. Basically I allowed myself to be put in a box. Now I'm out of the box and I do not plan to go back into it. I learned to compromise to the point of self-sacrifice. I am working on becoming a healthy infp. I really don't know how to take this video.

[@orangeziggy348]

❤

[@maampeeb.c3948]

Similar story. Self sacrifice really drained me till you kinda lose yourself. That is a very scary experience and I promised myself to never do that

[@haynescommabrooke]

Man this hit so deep. I’ve always felt at odds with everyone bc I want to pursue a career in music and writing and no one has ever understood and always asks for my back up plan. I understand the importance of a back up plan, like I’ve thought about everything, so it annoys the hell out of me when people try to ask me to explain everything and act like I don’t think things through. But oh my god if I could become successful and make a career out of the things I love that would be the best thing ever. I could join the tribe and maybe actually feel more accepted by it😂😭 I’m actually really scared of what would happen if I don’t become successful in something I really love doing. I refuse to pursue a career in something I don’t love like ahhhhhh I would literally rather move to a little hut in the middle of nowhere and leave society. Late night thoughts what’s good

[@jasonwilkerson9497]

INFP 9w1 here. I can completely relate

[@Bunn77]

I know this is old but I completely understand. I don't know what my type is yet, but I've been majoring in STEM and I'm really not feeling it. I got a 4.0 with microbiology and biochemistry classes one semester because I actually had a vision. I know I can do anything if I want it enough, but I just don't think I want to. I wish my parents let me cultivate my artistic side and out-of-the-box thinking to make money from it rather than telling me to forget it. Since I was extremely little, I was drawing things, making crafts and creating stories in my mind. I have a natural artistic eye and writing skills. I just wish I wasn't so deep into school. I wish I went into literature or something related.

[@leonahearted2585]

As an infp thank you both for this video!

[@mkl01_99]

Pleasing the tribe Te at the expense of values Fi is a waste of time. Don't do it.

[@Lilwall86]

word

[@ZekeMan62]

Exactly. You can't do it anyway even when you try, so in the end you've both failed and compromised your values: lose/lose.

[@robertdabob8939]

Personally, I like communicating with people and working out differences. Double decider I guess, and you're a single decider.

[@robertdabob8939]

@@ZekeMan62 Yes you certainly can. People respect you as an individual when they know you are listening and trying to understand and relate to them.

[@sashamotovylets1753]

The tribe will never be satisfied. They always want more.

[@ibanezmonsterg]

Since life forces you to use lots of Te because of work, it's better for Fi dom to either find a work/life balance and/or a career they don't passionately hate. Otherwise they will be stuck in demon phase since contributing to the tribe (not on their terms, but others' terms) isn't emotionally rewarding at all- very much the opposite. Also, if Fi is tied to the need for identity, it makes sense that Fi = Enneagram 4 (i always self-tested as split between 5 and 4). So in a way you are validating part of the Enneagram.

[@someonerandom713]

0:43 Perfect impression, exactly that is the INFP tone of voice :'D

[@captainpapership1892]

Thanks a lot! Much love to you!

[@devinbailey4725]

It's like an ultimate "lone wolf" type that is accepted by many different packs

[@RebekahParkhurst]

Weeee!🙃🙃 listening now and you guys are so spot on... really love the observation on Ne/Si being fluid enough with facts/concepts to not get too hung up on one or the other. Never thought of that but can definitely see it!

[@superAweber]

Good portion to point out. This is one of my key strengths I plan to use... Compilation of a large mass of info into concepts (and courses)

[@smol_chilli_pepper]

That "I dont want to have to explain myself" attitude has caused me trouble in the past. It's annoying and frustrating when the other person isnt listening and only picking it apart and criticising, and I know it's not personal but that's how it feels, like I'm the one being criticized. It's stupid but it is what it is and that's why I dont talk about certain things unless I'm directly asked

[@johnparven6187]

Infps can have surprisingly very developed si. I liked the coffee drinking test.

[@thecatcherintherye9947]

"Tribe idiots", exactly what I think about the general population... Is that bad?

[@maryaigler7651]

Sad to say, I’m like that too, especially being in healthcare and anti-vaxxers. Talk to the hand.

[@AstralBelt]

I could give less of a damn about what everyone thinks. I rather live alone than adhere to the wants of the tribe.

[@PaulWBruce]

INFP and vegan. "Why don't you just have a burger with everyone else?" That is a true struggle. But even better is When they (Te tribe!) ask "Are you vegan by choice?" I didn't know there was another way...

[@nothumbbowler1802]

This is so accurate. There is so much that I know. But I loathe having to explain the small details. It's so boring and tedious and it should be other people's responsibility to get it. Also, I feel that Te is very utilitarian. The idea is to take facts and put them together in a framework that makes sense. I often feel that people are busy accumulating facts, without knowing what to do with them. I can focus on the small detail, but I think the phrase "It's not that I'm lazy, I just don't care," describes my attitude towards it most of the time.

[@TheCathanne101]

FiNe....... he’s just fine (FiNe😂😂👌👌) haha..... good one!

[@akaboo69]

But yes,as an ISFP I always focus on what I want. I have had to train myself especially in a band setting to hear the tribe out

[@IndieAuthorX]

Wise words.

[@CaveyMoth]

Being an INFP seems like some kind of odyssey. My worst fear is the tribe. I just want to be myself. But in order to succeed, I have to become part of the tribe and give up my focus on myself. It's a nightmare!

[@keithparker1346]

I think we are fiercely independent and individualistic. But contradictory we also see the big picture l

[@random-accessmemory9201]

The Man: “The INFP!” The Woman: “Oh god!” 😂😂😂😂

[@tachyonpong]

I watch this again 9 months later. It's good to reaffirm Fi's struggle every now and then.

[@attheranch873]

I’m my own tribe and I’m ok with that 😀 So I don’t swing back and forth. It’s not selfish to spend time with others with similar interests. Maybe this is because I’m in my 60’s now. If someone wants me to be like them, well that’s just self centered and possibly controllling on their part.

[@arwuh]

1:25 -1:30. Dave's eyes. What is happening in his head? I wish I knew.

[@ninawillow2429]

Well, that's introverted intuition eye toggling. It's just what happens to our eyes when we perceive with Ni. The eye moves in a particular way when a person uses a particular perceiving function.

[@TommyZommy]

Memory recalling

[@chickletmonstah]

Mental gymnastics 🤸‍♀️

[@Friponnepolissonne]

Hm, as an Infp, I like to explain what I think and feel about things. The challenge is in how to explain it in a way thats concise and precise regarding the hunches and perceptions and connexions I made and gathered into forming a jugement, comprehension, theory, etc in my mind. I will talk about my ideas mostly if I am invited to do so, and I like it. I am a So/Sx 4-5-1 Infp, or maybe there are just much more Sp dom or Sx dom Infps and the So is more vocal and reaching/welcoming?

[@angelagoodwin5758]

I agree. I often imagine myself revealing why I am the way I am. I don't think they'd take it seriously, though. I don't volunteer that information unless it's asked and so far, no one has.

[@kevinl4687]

I'm INFP and i totally want to share my values but i dont know how.

[@MrNickTroy]

Handsome ISTP here. Looking good, Dave!

[@lunam33]

He is handsome, both of them are.

[@invisiblerose.v6070]

my si is even worse then my te. its always when i see those routines, rules, data my ne ALWAYS pops up and says "You dont need to deal with that crap here's the alternative were everyone is happy". It literally works the way that there is a no for a no in default

[@user-el6my6vi7p]

its always this 60-40 percent battle between contemplating me being lead Ti or Fi. i mean, i’m constantly expressing feeling in a savior state (maybe... or just around people i enjoy) but am self above tribe according to my whole fucking family. Ti just has this stereotype of being so flat and unfeeling, yet my biggest problem is *over*-explaining, wanting to get others on board with something but its apparently “too complicated” for them or something. the compromise is that my mom and i can have our blaster talks on the front porch, act like we give a shit about the other’s gossip/information, then get on with our lives and get shit done.

[@dianadias3]

I don't accept people in my tribe that don't love what I love.. That is why I have no friends xD

[@AstralBelt]

based, never change

[@sayedero]

Watching these videos makes me feel less alone

[@tillgaller1164]

Could you guys please create a playlist that is chronological with it's knowledge? I want to get friends into mbti and make them my typing-partners but I don't know where to start. I want to be able to send them a playlist which they can watch and learn about it. Btw does this sound like an INFP-problem/tidal wave?

[@brunoborgen2434]

....I recently found this great , really great introduction to Myer-Briggs: perfect for beginners! ----> kzbin.info/aero/PL6rzdODmcL67yYuPIQI1nY_ct1P2TDUyv

[@juliemay9295]

Can I just have a deserted island in the sun, with all the mod cons? Swear I'll talk to the tribe by phone.

[@adrienne9757]

Wow! Very informative. Thank you. Oh wow! No wonder i love that show so much. I used to binge their visa every day

[@akaboo69]

Demon tribe that's scary get an exorcist jk lol

[@arwuh]

WE ARE LEGION

[@raedalghamdi875]

Hi there, I think there is a mistake in the video. In 0:20, the image should be one big Fi ball and small Te balls to show tidal waves.

[@TheAngiepangie424]

I hate dealing with the peer pressure of the tribe. Just let me be & do my own thing.

[@katherandefy]

Ok look.... tribes are incredibly hardcore unbending. People who know who they truly are can adapt like crazy.... on the surface. But note what happens. It’s the hyper-allegiant tribalists who insist on group absolutes. So yeh. That Fi sticks to silent integrity. Of course that is never sufficient for group loyalists. Never will be. It’s an impasse and it is actually pretty damned hardwired.

[@ethan4246]

I think it's really interesting to look at their eyes, Dave is always looking to connect something (I find I do this too) while Shannon (sorry if thats misspelled) is like hyper focused on each word leaving her face hole thingy (mouth).

[@jessev7885]

Was thinking about this today... I’m looking to please others as much as I can. I Fi value giving everyone Te reasons to Fi value me. Then worry I haven’t given them enough reasons so I try to please more and more. Funny how we lean harder into our top function instead of just doing our demon.

[@EndlessKurtis]

That shit he was saying about coffee was fucking deep.

[@squali1930]

Makes total sense. The best place for the INFP is to be on the bridge between their values and the tribe. No standing on their values all the way and not just getting washed away with the tribe.

[@Roogy88]

I think you guys should try to adopt an 8 function model. I love this channel and what you guys are doing, but you leave a lot of holes in your theory and limit yourselves when you only stick to a 4 function model. People are not at war with their demon function, they are very receptive to it and actively seek help in it. They value it just as much as their savior. This conflict between self and tribe that you are describing about the INFP isn't Fi vs Te; they actually value Te very much. Rather, it's a conflict between the Fi/Te _axis_ and the Fe/Ti axis, *aka a conflict between their valued functions and their unvalued ones* Te doesn't contradict Fi, those two functions exist simultaneously like two sides of the same coin. *Ti* (and by extension Fe) is the function that contradicts Fi; both are looking at the self in different ways

[@bunknee1220]

YES

[@danishbroun]

Well this is make sense

[@bunknee1220]

A Fi-dom doesn't want to have to have logically consistent, detached and cold *Ti reasons* for their actions. They can't explain what their principles are because they don't have actual self REASONS. But they may actively explain their values in black and white cherry picking of some "facts" of Te. Like with the vegan example, many Fi doms will use Te to back up their claims and say that they're vegan it's good for the environment because so and so paper said this, or some documentary said so and so. Therefore, evidence. They'll use Te to justify Fi reasons. This is amplified with Ne and Si.

[@ShinachiHChan]

Yeah, the truth goes super deep if one is willing to explore said depth. Too many people are just too lazy and impatient to care enough to effectively flesh out the dormant issues.

[@jilmil33]

@@bunknee1220 no it is really good for environment and animals r beings too..direct reason being it yes it is te.

[@laurenjingles99]

Trying to be an INFP and find a consistent job is the hardest thing in the world

[@ginger8805]

I hate explaining myself so much, yet I have to all the time. Like "idk let me live!" Being with an ENTP for years though has gotten me used to it lol

[@themooser316]

I don't at all understand the "I don't want to explain it," concept. I have a hard time following how quickly they move through jargon.

[@PsychologyandChillwMichi]

Can you guys do Si demon next?

[@keithparker1346]

Isnt the bigger problem with infps is NOT utilising Ne anywhere near enough

[@jasonwilkerson9497]

Yes! You nailed it. This is something no one talks about. When this happens in a healthy way, Te becomes easier. Ne is opportunity, but what's best is an idea opportunity that connects with others. Finding that connection and being earnest, having positive intention with the action is key. Finding that thing instead passively going along with the entire tribe.

[@Nome0412]

You guys are spot on ugh.

[@ajobimlover]

1. For something to be Te explainable to the tribe doesn't it have to be backed by widely accepted facts? I don't think that will always be possible

[@Lee-AnneCrocker]

Thank you 😊 You are 100% all mentioned is exactly what I also can Not Stand and pretty much on order lol it's like hearing my inner voice/ reflection Instant I like you lol and very happy to see I am not the only and kinda in shock that I'm actually seeing Hearing Anothe d 😂😊😮❤

[@smol_chilli_pepper]

I know that I will always regret going against my core values no matter what so I never do it.

[@theoverlyemotionalfemale203]

I'd probably say I'm a much more tribe oriented infp, for sure. I get the whole tidle wave, though, for sure. I'm constantly polarized by ways of society and how I think things should be.

[@surpingbutterfly]

LINK IS INFP!?! His Si is so inferior I thought for sure he was ENFP!

[@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410]

Vanessa Santos I know, right?

[@nerysghemor5781]

Now HERE is a question you might find interesting: what happens if you are an INFP who got raised by two dominant Te’s? XD We turn into evil mirrors of each other when we’re mad!!!!

[@healingwithtarot]

I got curious about this link guy, but can't seem to find him on KZbin. I wanna see what this coffee clip is about 😅

[@TechReviewTom]

When you're an infp in the military 🙃

[@djx3no18]

That was almost me...i'm sorry man

[@ZekeMan62]

I'm an INFP that did 4 years in the U.S. Army. Kept my head down and survived by doing the best ISTJ impersonation I could muster. Managed to pull it off, but it was exhausting. The day my term of enlistment was up I felt like I'd just got paroled from prison. Free at last!

[@relentless_animal4127]

I’m planning on joining the us navy soon

[@attheranch873]

@@relentless_animal4127 I was in the navy, I hope you like rules 😀

[@amateruss]

@@ZekeMan62 This is what I feel whenever I get out of a job.

[@hfortenberry]

INTJ here. When I was a kid, like 9 years old, I remember having to go to Sunday school in summers while visiting my grandparents because my Grandfather was a preacher. I remember analyzing religion and the people who followed it and thinking they were pretty stupid. I could not understand how they could possibly believe in these mythical stories that make up the bible. I would try to ask my Grandmother questions about it but of course I was essentially just told you "have to believe". The whole God/Jesus thing made no sense to me and I tried for several years to understand what it is a about a person that makes them susceptible to believing in that. I finally realized in 6th grade that it has to do with their need to go along with the group on matters of right/wrong rather than thinking for themselves. I was sticking up for gay people (in conversations with my religions family) as young as 10 years old because I inherently knew they were not "evil". I ended up being lesbian and many years later my family DID support me so I am one of the lucky ones. But yes, I did consciously define my own moral code. Of course I took bits and pieces from various religions and philosophical texts such as the Golden Rule, and things like that but I decided for myself what is right and wrong. I did not look to an external source for that. Don't get me wrong, I AM spiritual. At 4 years old, I was asking why am "I" in this body and not the body of someone else. I intuitively knew that my "I" was not the same as my body. I knew my soul is separate from and resides inside this vessel while in the physical realm. So yes I do believe there is a greater consciousness beyond what we can readily understand from the physical experience; but I could not buy into this narrow definition (e.g. religion) of what it means to be "God".

[@marvinfoo4838]

The thing is that when you explain what you like to the tribe like saving the world, helping the homeless, the typical estj will scorn at you for being weak and stupid, yes everyone likes infp except themselves.

[@unnamedmuffin]

I can relate to that conflict between personal values and what the majority of people like. Does that make me an INFP or do other types go through similar struggles?

[@softly128]

If I did something Te correct, I feel like I am people pleasing.

[@SpaceMissile]

yay! a video all about meeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! :D great stuff; thanks for all your work.

[@delusionalfan]

I'm watching a drama lately and it seems like the female lead character has exhibited lead Fi and demon Te (her demon Te showed up in one ep and she kind of went through a self-hating process but the next day she's back to doing her Fi again.. Like her disrespect for the tribe is pretty apparent here)!! So I'm here watching videos to confirm my guess hahah

[@ccs1229]

Also jobs. It's soo hard to do a job that I don't believe in

[@mkl01_99]

Well done, thanks.

[@henja5911]

I've procrastinated on converting to Judaism because I don't feel like having to explain myself to people....

[@SpiritEngine]

All prophets and messengers who have ever lived always taught one golden principle, that there can only be one Creator/Perception/Source, and that peace is found in the whole and complete submission of the self to the Creator. This is the universal faith which charts its course from the beginning of time and is the only true belief, which can be found in all the major religious texts. www.iupui.edu/~msaiupui/true.html

[@potatocrusts]

I can relate to this.

[@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410]

henja Same about veganism. Now that I wrote that, I fear the hate. 😶 lol ☮

[@justanotherinvisibleinfp1410]

And I know it has nothing to do with what you guys said. Sorry. lol

[@BM-hw7kp]

What would you type Ender Wiggin?

[@nachiketpargaonkar8646]

Why is it that I relate a lot to the Fi/Te self hate train but every test out there type me as an INTP? I mean not just the MBTI based tests, even those tests which measure functions separately & also Enneagram tests (I've been typed 5 on that, 5w6 on one test)

[@KajsaBernhardina]

Nachiket Pargaonkar The INFP Fi-Te dimension is a bit similar to the INTP Ti-Fe dimension. Both types value their own identity above what others think is good or bad :)

[@lunam33]

Your Ti/Fe we are very similar... INTP and INFPs have a love-hate thing going on with each other because on one end we get each other so well, but then on the other end, we burst into flames.

[@nachiketpargaonkar8646]

@@KajsaBernhardina That is true, I'm almost certain that I'm an IxxP. Now according to CS Joseph's chart, I can't be an ISTP because I'm a background type & ISTP comes under see-it-through type (based on Dr. Linda Berens' theory) I can't determine my temperament though. I'm more likely to be an Ne-Si type (although I'm not sure of this as well) that's why I'm considering INTP & INFP.

[@nachiketpargaonkar8646]

@@lunam33 Yes but I myself am not sure whether I'm an INTP or INFP (or even ISFP)

[@heatherbryant4197]

Are you more likely to beat yourself up over sewing disharmony with harsh truths, feeling like you don't fit in when you make others feel stupid or they misconstrue your explanations as pretentious and condescending? Or are you more likely to beat yourself up when you alienate people for refusing to compromise your values and can't explain why you feel the way you do?

[@sylvial1985]

THIS IS ON THE SPOT ABOUT ME!!!!!! OMG!!!!

[@sofiyak]

Uh... isn’t the “demon” in one of the shadow functions (8th)? Seems too dramatic to call an inferior function that. Besides, Fi and Te are same axis. It’s not *that* much opposition.

[@RacerMMXXII]

What is an amazing INFP, because clearly most INFPs are the worst? Am I amazing because I worked at one job for 15 years? Or because I hate Fi (because I truly do hate Fi, viscerally)? Why do you advocate loops for INFP? I play functions back and forth and endure, and fail, fail, fail, fail, fail. Now I am sicker than ever with physical illnesses brought on by stress. And yet I'm one of the good INFPs who, having been brought up in SJ-land, tries hard to act like an S-J. So is it really better for an INFP to try to be an S-J, as you suggest? Is it really better for S-Js to hammer INFPs for their weaknesses in what is fundamentally an S-J culture? And why would S-J's do this? Don't they have what they want already? I guess not.

[@sheledon3272]

Can't wait till you guys cover introverted ENTP or what feminine Ne looks like because I think I might have that. He knows his Starbucks! Lol I bet I could do similar things with energy drinks, all the flavors of Rockstar.

[@IndieAuthorX]

Ditto, I want to hear more about their theories on sexual types.

[@sphinixLike]

Saw the weeee and knew :)

[@jessicagomes4043]

Great video!

[@malcolmmacinnis247]

Review CS Joseph

[@davidegaruti2582]

so a ixxp tidal wave consist of a selfish/selfish/martir ritim , am i right ? also are other tidal waves the same pepole doing the savior repeatetly then rushing trought the all the arretrated demon instantaniusly ? how long does the cycle last on avarage ? months ? weeks ? years ?

[@Ajayjohnson264]

He’s like an introverted Jimmy Fallon lol

[@melissagarciaarenas6744]

This just doesn't fit, I'm trying to learn as much as possible about it but I'm stuck, I think I give the INFP vibes, but I just love sharing what I value and give reasons, I was known as a defender in Middle/highschool, I have thought I was an ENFP, ESTJ, ENTJ, INTJ and INFJ, so interesting to keep learning.

[@gdtownshende]

Fit in?! Screw that! :P LOL

[@SJ-ej3vj]

Awesome Video! Can you do one on ENFP?

[@devinbailey4725]

Fi means I feel mine u feel urs but not together, do it on ur own time because ur not as good as doing it for urself as I am

[@Jessmess112]

Yeah that bandwagon ish ain't it. My cousin and I along with both of my nieces are INFPS. We hate that gang up mentality with a passion. I walk to the beat of my own drum. Everyone watching game of thrones? I'm watching mysteries at the museum. 😂

[@annekecrouse1870]

Yessss! I was completely unaware of 'trends' when I was younger. Didnt listen to popular music, wear trendy clothes, etc. People would ask 'did you watch the thing last night?' and everyone else would have watched the thing (the popular show, movie, etc) except me.. I didn't realise that it's a problem until I started getting bullied for it. Then I quuuickly learnt to catch up with what the tribe is doing, just enough to not be a target...

[@AstralBelt]

Honestly I actively reject what the Tribe wants. I often finding myself disliking a lot of popular things just because it is popular and everywhere. I seem to naturally reject what is popular lol

[@_VISION.]

Axiology... INFPs learn Axiology. There's the solution for the baby Te

[@novaimperialis]

Hi Dave, Im struggling with my type and I have found an ENFP girl, and I don't know what my precise type is. Can you help me out? If so, I will give you a link to my Reddit post. In short, I have came out as INFP, INFJ, INTJ, and others said ENFJ or ISFP as well(tho I didn't had the last two results on the tests, it was just their opinion). Also, for a Skype session how much would it be?

[@RegenerativeMojave]

What's it mean when I got typed as all the types?

[@tolstoy431]

Soooooooo TRUE.....And the crap of tribe-idiots. I Will NEVER get USED TO THAT......Finally understand THAT CONSTANT, NEVER ENDING LIFELONG STRUGGLE...... THANX

[@akaboo69]

A big example for me is I prefer female-fronted symphonic metal bands as like my favorite thing and anytime I'm in the Band I pushed for having a female singer but that doesn't always happen I also prefer Christian lyrics or at least lyrics that have a theme that do not disagree with me or my ideologies otherwise I cannot be involved in a band that writes things that I do not agree with it will not happen

[@awatt6088]

what do you mean not wanting to explain it? I like to share my art and music and poetry but ti's to impact peoples emotions. I am more Fi but Fi but want to share to impact others. share ideas share art

[@Life_moreabundantly]

Thanks!!

[@dallasj22266]

Isn’t this just one way of saying compromise your morals? Sounds really risky

Well. The world isn't gonna change for us, so... Just bend your values a little bit, even if you hate it. I use my diary and write short films and novels to keep my values alive in my dream world

[@BLoodyEx]

Exactly this. That's exactly the feeling I get out of all the videos I've seen on this channel. I highly doubt we INFPs are the problem. This world is a shithole, quite obviously. And the tribe made it this way. At least for myself I can say I try to hurt and impact as little as I can, I hold very very high moral ground - and rightfully so, I don't see that for the people around me, they try to control and manipulate and use aggression and force and so on... If I ever get in trouble verbally it's with people that are, well.... just shitty persons with shitty values that try to discriminate on others, apart from that I share and encourage and spread great ideas a lot. So nope, I'll not listen to this longer, gave this channel a try for 15 videos, I'll rather search for channels that encourages me in my obvious strenghts and my sigma ways. There's nothing wrong with me or us I guess, it is them, because the herd is stupid - and science and philosophy and religion and psychology - everything points that out blatantly. So no, I'll not let them tell me that it's okay to bend over to their falseness - why should that make us happy or whatever. This is like a deception

[@yank31]

And that makes you guys fucking laugh...

[@farrex0]

LMAO, reading at the comments, I keep seeing a lot of introverts having this ultra pessimistic and negative views on the tribe, saying how they try and work with the tribe but the tribe is always at fault. Meanwhile me an ENTP being a mess and being disagreeable and yet I never really had that much of a problem, nor I see this world full of ill intentioned people. The world is full of amazing and interesting people, everyone full of unique life experiences a lot of them are very good people, that will help even strangers and be rather understanding and open. There are a lot of terrible people, but I would say I usually meet more good people than bad. Maybe is time to look inside instead of blaming others, if you think everyone is an asshole, then you treat everyone like an asshole, therefore they will treat you as an asshole in return.... I know a lot of amazing INFPs, so this is directed towards those with pessimistic views about the tribe, if you are not like that then this comment doesn't apply to you.

[@keithparker1346]

I think infps understand instinctively that nearly every single bad thing mankind has done has been the result of the tribe and following the tribe

[@craigmiller1870]

What if my boyfriend is starting to collect spaghetti sauclsa glass jars again? My mother came over and asked where'd you get such kitsch glassware? Utilitarianism Universalist isn't just a decorating scheme, it's a way of life he keeps telling me. Somewhere I'll have to admit, his bull spitting image of Ciceros makes me think he's telling the truth. Spaghetti jars and salsa jars are the same thing, they're just shaped a little different.

[@MidnightAssass1n]

As an ENTP with an INFP friend. The lack of engaging with the tribe can annoy the shit out of me. He was an easy target for bullying because he didn’t have the ability to not take everything personally. Whenever so someone made fun of him he would just tell them to fuck off. Whereas no one ever tried to pick on me despite me being a skinny lanky guy that got top marks and was very clearly not straight and him being a regular gym goer that actually looked intimidating. The amount of times I tried to tell him if he actually wanted it to stop he had to play the game only for him to respond with “I’m not gonna act like someone I’m not” did my head in.

[@thesevenkingswelove9554]

So what he should have done when he was getting teased? He should have I said " Shut the fuck up bstard or I will punch you in the face " . I am not being sarcastic, I feel like saying fck off was the best option.

[@erikadavis21]

"If he wanted it to stop he had to play the game" what does that mean? Bully them back?

[@LittleMew133]

No wonder why I found INFP's to be so damn selfish, is because they have Fi and I have Fe. All perspective.

[@lcee3875]

Nice vid 👍