Installing Resources: An Attachment-Focused EMDR™ In-session Demonstration

[@dmballadon]

Great session but the challenge with this is what if the person does not have protective or nurturing people in their lives, for example if someone newly immigrated to a new country due to last remaining relative dying and aren't able to identify protective or nurturing people they currently have?

[@dr.mahmutbektas3460]

The heroes of films, books, etc can ve used

[@otabreza9747]

@@dr.mahmutbektas3460 what if i don't have a safe space?

[@dr.mahmutbektas3460]

@@otabreza9747 you can create one

[@otabreza9747]

@@dr.mahmutbektas3460 how? where? in myself?

[@christchaik8317]

@@otabreza9747 it doesn't have to be anything complicated. My safe place turned out to be the shower.

[@joswift5479]

Do you use "slow tapping" -if so my slow tapper buzzes in a long buzz ( the slower I make it the longer the continuous buzz. Is that how other tappers are Mine is NeuroTek Copr. Advanced Tac/AudioScan Thanks

[@JenTays]

There are usually two switches, one for speed and the other for length of buzzing so it doesn't have to be like how you describe however it may be preferable as it is usually more soothing to have long and slow bls

[@bonniegable7]

Is she holding buzzers?

[@Shahina456]

Wonderful!

[@SelfLoveU]

WOW

[@pixie1310]

I could not work with that therapist

[@gaylehinebaugh2337]

Why not?

[@lauriemtz8616]

Why not?

[@suesmith261]

😅😅😅

[@enlightenedturtle9507]

Watch my finger Watch my finger Watch my finger Now that will be 780$.

[@katherinealvarez4900]

Someone was charging me 4,000 for 12 sessions 😣

[@enlightenedturtle9507]

@@katherinealvarez4900 read up on Wilhelm Reich and orgonomy. Mobilizing the eyes is a big part of orgone therapy, you can do it on your own without necessarily having to buy the whole theory behind it. You can do so by slowly drawing circles with your eyes, expressing emotion through the eyes in front of a mirror, focusing and unfocusing them, closing them as hard as you can and ripping them open etc all while working with your breath. It helped me a lot Actually EMDR was developed decades ago in that context by Dr. Barbara Goldenberg.

[@thehighpriestess8431]

That is such a put off.

[@victoriahulme6498]

The point of being with the right therapist is that the healing happens with the relationship with that person AND with EMDR. Because a great deal of trauma is relational-based, the most optimal and long-lasting healing process is relational. And by the way, not everyone charges the earth....

[@ootenba5910]

@@victoriahulme6498 Exactly! 🩷 (coming from a client with cptsd).