I appreciated that when showing interracial couples, it wasn’t just black and white.
@adamgillespie33932 жыл бұрын
All the couples had someone who was at least half black though which is interesting
@berealkiiid2 жыл бұрын
@@adamgillespie3393 When I said that, I meant that it was just pairs of black and white couples. It was also Asian, Latino etc. On a large scale interracial couples at usually shown as black and white.
@user-rr8yi9zg2k2 жыл бұрын
@@adamgillespie3393 And most were at least 1/3 white. You know because there were more than 3 people and there are only 3 races so of course people are gonna be mixed
@cman40672 жыл бұрын
I like how there wasn’t always a white person too
@adamgillespie33932 жыл бұрын
@@user-rr8yi9zg2k America alone has 5 official recognised categories of race, so you're probably wrong on that one. There are far more than just 3 in the whole world- it's a wonderfully diverse place.
@bsimms5832 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad my parents have realized that they can either be open-minded or be less involved in my life, because of it, they've made so much progress on getting rid of their prejudices.
@sarahwithstars2 жыл бұрын
Bravo
@Idolbottle2 жыл бұрын
I like this comment
@NZKiwi872 жыл бұрын
That’s it! Live your life, your way. Those who celebrate you and your choices get to be a part of it 😊👍
@hunterpope33692 жыл бұрын
I hope people understand.. that our parents grew up in a time where their family wanted them to date the same race! A lot of cultures are like that…
@alyssaTT4562 жыл бұрын
@@hunterpope3369 but if they understand the struggle of having non accepting family members why would they continue the same cycle with their kids.
@D_A_Marv2 жыл бұрын
Producer: "How do you get along with the family?" Rachel: "I don't" Brutal, yet honest
@GC-kj1nx2 жыл бұрын
ayyy, a dominican! hope your day is going well. :))
@AP-pk6mk2 жыл бұрын
I hope she marries into a family that actually doesn't hate her...
@rodbenjamin99092 жыл бұрын
Sista his fam has issues. They are what’s wrong with the world
@cassieprimus94762 жыл бұрын
Dominican!!
@dess73012 жыл бұрын
ah a fellow dominican
@Nancy_______2 жыл бұрын
“And I’m not afraid of that stereotype” period Queen
@luke_cohen12 жыл бұрын
As a semi white (Jewish and Portuguese) guy, I'm the first to admit that bad things happen when women aren't mentally strong. Having a lot of mentally strong people around you keeps people's egos in check which is incredibly important if you want a functioning society.
@RandomGuy-hx6pj2 жыл бұрын
@@luke_cohen1 Semi white? (Ashkenazi) Jewish and Portugese people are both white, no?
@fey99152 жыл бұрын
@@RandomGuy-hx6pj Nowdays, but not several decades ago. Race is a made up concept, not rooted in science so groups go in and out of it at times haha
@theoneandonly00992 жыл бұрын
I mean, I'd love to see a white person go through centuries of oppression and see how they deal with it. Ofc they'd be angry too.
@anawkwardsweetpotato47282 жыл бұрын
@@RandomGuy-hx6pj Not all Ashkenazim are white, and none of them fit in the category pre-WWII. Many Portuguese people have minor Moorish & Sephardic ancestry, too. I'm primarily Afro-descendant, but even my Portuguese ancestors were listed as "coloured" when they immigrated to Bermuda in the 1800s.
@100Stratusfiedx2 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine marrying into a family that doesn't like my race.
@bojanlorber6112 жыл бұрын
Hopefully the person you would marry in this scenario would be worth it. I think the reason you marry someone, or therefor not marry someone, should depend on the partner not their family.
@slixameth2 жыл бұрын
@@bojanlorber611 okay clearly but come on dude, youre the minority and your white in-laws dont look at your union as valid ? That hurts them BOTH
@100Stratusfiedx2 жыл бұрын
@@bojanlorber611 Blending families are very important. I want my inlaws to like me and their grandchildren. I believe people should marry who they love regardless of race. Unfortunately, there have been many cases where the white and the black side of the family doesn't get long. It's one thing for you to ignore this, but children shouldn't be brought into it.
@foreverbrit972 жыл бұрын
@@bojanlorber611 nope
@Kiwikick2382 жыл бұрын
I’m a black woman and that terrifies me. My family is really excepting my older sisters have brought home boyfriends of different races and they’ve never cared about that just how they were treated. Family matters so much to me so if my partners family doesn’t like my skin they wouldn’t like my family’s either and that really hurts me
@demichealmartin17262 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I could deal with all the racism & micro aggressions from my in-laws… like no
@roussebidon2 жыл бұрын
Baby, imagine that’s unnecessary stress she’s experiencing. Like I cannot 🙄😒
@demichealmartin17262 жыл бұрын
@@roussebidon I’ll flip the table at thanksgiving 😭 y’all not gone bully me for being black
@craptap20292 жыл бұрын
Imagine facing all that shit at work and in your day to day and then coming home and moms is subjecting you to it too? Bruh Issa no from me
@Ashak20012 жыл бұрын
For real. Id lose my shit
@mambamed83452 жыл бұрын
to me this is an obvious deal breaker lolol
@trn2282 жыл бұрын
I am so early the self-named psychologists aren’t even here yet to analyze the ppls behavior
@paradisearcher93342 жыл бұрын
I swear those people be annoying af
@trn2282 жыл бұрын
@@paradisearcher9334 yeeees I mean sometimes you can really tell a certain thing but some ppl are here analyzing a person from a 4 minute video that represents just a fragment of a person’s behavior IN A MOMENT
@hazelarkhurst14812 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA
@Ceerads2 жыл бұрын
Huh? Come again?
@no.1appastan2 жыл бұрын
Your PFP really sells the sadness in this comment
@JJones20112 жыл бұрын
To the gentleman with the black fiancé... don't be embarrassed to ask about black history. As an African American growing up in a predominately white area and attending almost all white schools I had never heard of Juneteenth either. Just growing up in that type of environment I was never really exposed to my own culture and history. When I left home at 17 and began to explore the world and started meeting people other than the standard black/white I learned so much from other ethnicities which made me want to learn more about my own history.
@jamessandoval58432 жыл бұрын
This right here, I learned more about American history by moving to Asia than if I stayed in the US. New cultures and people can make us interested in who we are where we come from.
@ashleyasamoah2 жыл бұрын
@@jamessandoval5843 exactly
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz2 жыл бұрын
Love this! Thanks for sharing. Or upbringings sound similar. I too was raised around a lot of white folk. When I was a teenager, I got so tired of being called an Oreo that I decided to go deep. I always knew a lot about my Russian background because that's who raised me. Learning about my Nigerian background has been a journey. But well worth it and I celebrate both cultures.
@beachbunnystan96252 жыл бұрын
I have a pin on my back pack from black history month (I'm white btw a very white greman woman lmao) it says "you are on native land" (I live in the US btw) and kid in my class called me rassist for the pin because he didn't understand what it meant
@beachbunnystan96252 жыл бұрын
kid was black btw
@LunarySSF22 жыл бұрын
"how do you get along with his family" "i don't" SIGHHHHHH
@PROVOCATEURSK2 жыл бұрын
She should have known after a few first dates and end it right there.
@burnerbaby262 жыл бұрын
Rachel a better woman than me because I would’ve been throwing hands at EVERY family function lmao
@maryroseeeee2 жыл бұрын
what would that have solved?
@worldofdaisy._2 жыл бұрын
@@maryroseeeee everything now be quiet
@maryroseeeee2 жыл бұрын
@@worldofdaisy._ literally nothing 🤣🤣
@CircumstancesNeverMatter2 жыл бұрын
Girl from her demeanor she has thrown hands. I don't like my in laws either and it's not even about race they're just jackasses! 😂😂😂😂😂
@bonitaapplebum00882 жыл бұрын
@@worldofdaisy._ periodt! 🤣
@QueensNYgirlie19882 жыл бұрын
The black girl with the white guy has the most beautiful skin I've ever seen 🌟
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz2 жыл бұрын
Thanks doll!
@fitthemode43122 жыл бұрын
Literally!!!!!
@AmritBedi472 жыл бұрын
And the most beautiful hair!
@frenchgirl58782 жыл бұрын
She black or mixed? I’m confused
@therookie88722 жыл бұрын
Makeup is magical
@StevePradhan2 жыл бұрын
Mike (white male) and Rachel (black female) are so brutally honest to these questions and they seem totally comfortable together. Edit : Dayumn. I just noticed I’m already on 2.1k likes. Welp, seems like many people had similar thoughts about the lovely couple
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ♥️
@AnnaM41172 жыл бұрын
And those are the type of interracial relationships that mixed kids grow most comfortably in. They recognize their mixed identity as opposed to 1 side or the other. Just something I’ve noticed!
@0ut1and3r2 жыл бұрын
thats why theyre getting married lol
@Courage20062 жыл бұрын
And Rachel is cute!!!
@ashleyasamoah2 жыл бұрын
@@0ut1and3r people also get married without understanding each other🙃
@nikaneekz.2 жыл бұрын
As a black woman, ain't no way in HELL I was marrying into that family but best wishes and blessings to my good sis.
@lucia19822 жыл бұрын
And the funny thing it goes both ways I experienced racism from my ex bf's family as a white person he was black
@siddi26002 жыл бұрын
I protect my peace , I really really could never
@Bribreezzzyy2 жыл бұрын
@@lucia1982 LOL racism
@lucia19822 жыл бұрын
@@Bribreezzzyy its racism it can happen to different ethnic groups than just black people it is basically judging someone based on their skin color so
@ijustwannabehappier-v49732 жыл бұрын
@@lucia1982 Its not racism, its prejudice if its done to white people. Go read a book.
@supreme_zeeyus2 жыл бұрын
The women couple have some great skin😭
@snail13462 жыл бұрын
It's amazing what cutting men out of your romantic life can do 😍
@riom.60912 жыл бұрын
@@snail1346 Huh?
@snail13462 жыл бұрын
@@riom.6091 I was just joking lmao
@unknownelite28442 жыл бұрын
@@snail1346 jokes are meant to be funny
@snail13462 жыл бұрын
@@unknownelite2844 someone's butthurt lol
@SpookyFae2 жыл бұрын
I feel Rachel so much. I’m BLACK black with a big ass Afro and the first time i met my (white) inlaws they made me so uncomfortable. My fiancé and i don’t talk to them anymore. It sucks too cause we have a kid now and he won’t ever be close to his white side of the family bc they choose to be ignorant. Dating outside our race for my (black) family is nothing new so they didn’t even think twice about me bringing a white guy home. They all love him.
@itsdonuttime77292 жыл бұрын
I wish you, your husband, and smol a very happy life.
@BowserStrange2 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for you, you literally deserve better but you can’t help who you fall in love with, now your child has no choice but to deal with absolute ignorance and stupidity at a young age. Don’t say it ain’t that bad cause girl I’ve been in white spaces in tight places…it’s bad especially the faking understanding and eye rolls.
@danieljenkins79512 жыл бұрын
Ewwww
@PHlophe2 жыл бұрын
Fae, . as an adult biracial male that's probably older than you. I was disowned by my white side of the family.. yes it sucks and cuts really really deep for a while . But nothing beats the peace you'll have by not dealing with completely random microaggressions. Because those pile up when you are coerced into cohabitation. You'll learn to accept that loss as a parent like i did as the child. The 2 of you will be fine and what matters here is that God gave the 2 of you a healthy baby .
@sleepyvkuso2 жыл бұрын
@@danieljenkins7951 ok Daniel Jenkins. go get a life bozo
@jm23072 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard being black and entering non-Black spaces. I hope more people learn to address their own bigotry and biases instead of projecting them onto others.
@KD-CD2 жыл бұрын
100 percent agree
@furiosa12032 жыл бұрын
I think it depends in region. My city in a lot of areas we do not got this problem. You can go into stores and see literally every type of person there.
@dallows32352 жыл бұрын
I’d say the biggest problem is cultures and religious beliefs. If you don’t integrate, you alienate.
@xansmoker88342 жыл бұрын
@@furiosa1203 yea same here
@MizMima2 жыл бұрын
It’s difficult on all races.
@missfortune84532 жыл бұрын
The fact that his family is vocal about not liking the fact he's with a black woman. Like damn... :(
@sageywagey8122 жыл бұрын
"How do you get along with his family" "I dont." LMAOOOOOOO
@jennybrooks98452 жыл бұрын
I would have loved to be in this. I’m Irish/Canadian and my bf is Iraqi/Syrian, I first met his family 6 years ago when I was pregnant with our first born. It was definitely a shock to them. My family was incredibly rude and ignorant towards his culture and his family was very unwelcoming of a blonde, white baby into the family. It took years, but his family (besides his dad) has come around. My family, not so much. Recently had to cut them all off because of their reaction to my third pregnancy. It’s definitely been a huge struggle, both of us have felt super judged, but at the end of the day we love each other so much and I would die to protect his name.
@JonasBrotherLuver1222 жыл бұрын
@cut Please include her in the next one!
@therookie88722 жыл бұрын
Of course you’re Canadian
@jennybrooks98452 жыл бұрын
@@therookie8872 why do you say that
@therookie88722 жыл бұрын
@@jennybrooks9845 Canada has a bad record with those kinds of things
@evothenew33332 жыл бұрын
@@therookie8872 "those kind of things"?
@Kool2122 жыл бұрын
It still blows my mind why people care so much about race. Who are you as a person matters a fuck ton more.
@darthbenevolent17332 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Race isn't an issue anymore.
@b3ndavies2 жыл бұрын
@@darthbenevolent1733 Race is still an issue, but it *shouldn't* be.
@demichealmartin17262 жыл бұрын
Because it matters! Damn why y’all wanna exclude race so bad like we don’t live in America.. EVERYTHING IS ABOUT RACE HERE.. like stop being ignorant
@S.T.A.5502 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately people base their whole existence around their race....
@S.T.A.5502 жыл бұрын
@@demichealmartin1726 yea when you base your whole existence on race, of course you gonna be obsessed with race & think it's involved in everything, regardless if it actually is or not
@psychedelicate2 жыл бұрын
Mike better ride hard for Rachel to his family. She deserves to be defended!
@lalalanddddd75842 жыл бұрын
im pretty sure he is otherwise she wouldnt be with him? make it make sense
@willkillem737 Жыл бұрын
No she doesn't. She's the wrong color.
@tea44712 жыл бұрын
rachel and mike’s conversation was so tense but honestly it was good that they talked about it. it’s the deeper side of interracial relationships that others may not want to address.
@resurgingflame2 жыл бұрын
It's tense for a reason but I think they're quite comfortable talking about it.
@JustATotalNerd2 жыл бұрын
She looked ready to explode the whole time. If she was behind closed doors, she'd drive me insane because she is.
@rebekaharber84142 жыл бұрын
I would not allow my “family” to talk less or down to my partner because of their race. I’d end it the moment it starts to come out
@stephaniemitchell85092 жыл бұрын
These are lovely couples! Their families may suck but they're clearly not diminished or intimidated by that. Living their best lives in love!
@shanice83512 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is white and I'm black. His family accepted straight away, however his mother did make a comment saying "oh she's black" and his sister said "Why does that even matter?". His mother was surprised but accepted me straight away. And now we talk about our culture differences and stuff
@roxc4532 жыл бұрын
@W 6 comments on this video get a life
@peepo56492 жыл бұрын
i would literally jump out of the house if i recieve a racial statement from anyone especially related to my s/o
@trashkid5912 жыл бұрын
4:54 - i feel this so much. i know enough of my mother tongue to speak it with my parents but am so embarrassed to speak it outside of the house. i've been made fun of for my accent & lack of vocab by native speakers :( it's really discouraging.
@sssonx2 жыл бұрын
In case you love the language, that's all that matters. There's always someone who makes jokes about our in-progress but never let them steal our chance to learn n grow *hug*
@trashkid5912 жыл бұрын
@@sssonx thank you 🫂
@nancychay70492 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate! One time at a restaurant I tried to order a big container of rice for a large group of ppl and I used the word for "pot" like "can I have a pot of rice?" and the waitress laughed at me and corrected me 😭 I was so embarrassed I never wanted to order food in my language again
@jcam50642 жыл бұрын
Whenever I said anything in my father’s language, I was met with ridicule. So I got too embarrassed to say much and didn’t learn much. Now they say I didn’t want to learn.
@chrisr3932 жыл бұрын
What language? Out of curiosity
@XavierMcQueen2 жыл бұрын
My parents got weird when I started dating this white girl. They weren’t against it but they were thoroughly confused. “Oh… She has a very… fair complexion” was the first thing they said when they saw her. They ended up getting along really well but that first meeting was weird. But the fact that some people “don’t want their children dating outside the race” is actually insane to me.
@Liusila2 жыл бұрын
It’s the culture shock but if people are willing they will open their minds and learn about the other culture instead of just going against the union.
@XavierMcQueen2 жыл бұрын
@@edithputhy4948 Yikes.
@lizali55882 жыл бұрын
They didn’t say that to her did they?
@XavierMcQueen2 жыл бұрын
@@lizali5588 Yes they did, cringed at the time but she wasn’t too bothered by it and they ended up being really comfortable around each other after speaking to each other. As Liusila said above, it was a culture shock.
@anon22182 жыл бұрын
They think like this because they want to keep the race pure
@jonathanramossantiago20432 жыл бұрын
I lmao when she said “black people love Gospel music.” 🤣
@marquesdunn49342 жыл бұрын
am not into gospel music
@user-bf6wb9ty6z2 жыл бұрын
@@marquesdunn4934 nobody ask
@lani47962 жыл бұрын
Omg The asian women is GORGEOUS
@l.e.brentwood3137 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the honesty; especially the young Vietnamese woman saying she doesn't speak Vietnamese because she isn't sure of her language skills. Sometimes the awkward behavior is due to something so simple.
@B3LiiZ322 жыл бұрын
“How do you get along with his family?” “I don’t.” WE JUST NOT GONNA MOVE PAST THAT!!!
@Lissetete2 жыл бұрын
Imagine being black, gay and female. They brave fr
@milkyway_9392 жыл бұрын
My brown friends once said: just don’t start dating a black guy, that will be very embarrassing It shocked me a bit. These guys getting judged and being called “filthy” on a daily base, yet they do the same to black people
@tilllindemann29742 жыл бұрын
What does brown mean?
@milkyway_9392 жыл бұрын
@@tilllindemann2974 what does white mean? What does black mean? 🙄
@Elvish_lust2 жыл бұрын
I say the same thing. The hypocrisy of some people. I was talking to a brown girl in school a few years back and I was telling her how I wanted to go to Japan and she told me I’d get kicked out for being black. :/
@lasupremapersonal6152 жыл бұрын
@@tilllindemann2974 Hispanic or Native American, I’d say POC that aren’t black
@assholebyginger2 жыл бұрын
@@tilllindemann2974 South Asian?
@jillsarah73562 жыл бұрын
Congrats to everyone in this video for being cute and also honest and vulnerable. Badass.
@lafan20032 жыл бұрын
Rachael- As a fellow human being i am so sad and sorry that you have been treated this way by his family. It hurts my heart :(
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz2 жыл бұрын
Don't be sad for me. I'm over here living my best life with someone who I not only love, but like very much. + My family is very supportive of us and that's enough♥️
@lafan20032 жыл бұрын
@@ShimmerBeautytheBiz You two are a fantastic couple!
@KRandR02052 жыл бұрын
“How do you get along with his family?” “I don’t 😚” LOVE IT
@mattp59692 жыл бұрын
All of these people are the dammmn future. I loooove the diversity!
@milom72 жыл бұрын
She said: I'm a proud angry black woman. Love that
@alexisrobinson91802 жыл бұрын
Right, she was definitely my favorite out of this video
@TaylourwtheHalo2 жыл бұрын
His parents are mad that he brought home the LIGHTEST black woman possible 🤔🙄
@meganod2792 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm a white dude and I thought she was a tanned white girl in the beginning. I don't see why they would worry so much
@TaylourwtheHalo2 жыл бұрын
@@meganod279 I honestly thought she was latina lol
@inco312 жыл бұрын
Look at Meghan Markle. That woman looks brown skinned to me anyway.
@KarmaLoves982 жыл бұрын
With straightened hair too, like how could they even telll???
@TaylourwtheHalo2 жыл бұрын
If they had kids, 9 times out of 10 they will come out white passing
@iamphemale2 жыл бұрын
I love how they acknowledge, are aware and vocalise the issues they have with their partners parents but it does not break the relationship, maybe even makes it stronger
@Theimmortalmisfit2 жыл бұрын
How do you get along with his family?!?! *I DONT!*
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz2 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@StudentDoctor942 жыл бұрын
2:10 smile through the pain
@stephenheadley55182 жыл бұрын
Man, I love all these couples. They're all so good together.
@shelly52242 жыл бұрын
This is hard man. I don't know how i would even function in a relationship let alone a marriage knowing my in-laws felt i didn't belong with their son.
@ellielowery96542 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to have a family that is so open, and loving, and excepting of everyone because I couldn’t imagine the embarrassment and emotional baggage that would come with being raised by a family that doesn’t.
@Manilovesmovies2 жыл бұрын
I would NEVER marry a white person whose family could not accept me as a black person… cause having support of family in a marriage and relationship is so vital for me.
@roussebidon2 жыл бұрын
Baby, I was side-eying that whole couple… like wtf 😬
@AmericanBoy11182 жыл бұрын
No matter how close you are to your partner?
@bakbak20312 жыл бұрын
Why tho? I would date someone whose family doesn't accept me as long as my partner does and as long as they have my back
@darthbenevolent17332 жыл бұрын
...as a white dude with a shaved head and red beard, I find you quite fetching. Very attractive. If my Dad was still with us, he'd give the "thumbs up." 😉
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz2 жыл бұрын
I used to feel the same way babe. Then I fell in love 🤷🏽♀️
@rodneycooperjr32232 жыл бұрын
I used to be open to dating outside of my race. I did it several times in the past. Never again, for all the things mentioned between these couples. With a black woman it's like, "I'm black. You're black. We both get it". Then we can move on to regular relationship problems.
@Heena67902 жыл бұрын
I love this comment.
@assholebyginger2 жыл бұрын
3:25 This is nice to see. Some people would priotize their love above admitting that their parents are prejudiced. They'd go, "Don't talk about my mother that way!" even though they're responding to a prompt. And the fact they can just laugh it off and not be uncomfortable is goals.
@giasanders33402 жыл бұрын
Thought the same, omg
@olivia75922 жыл бұрын
I commend her for marrying into a family with racism because I couldn’t. It’s a strong deal breaker for me.
@Lanwarder2 жыл бұрын
Two female lovers calling each other "Bro" is a serious sign of a healthy relationship (I'm not being sarcastic for real).......Hell, I'm a heterosexual guy and sometimes when I'm having so much fun with my girlfriend I will accidentally say things like "Come on bro"...which felt weird at first, but then you realize it's just that you're just having so much fun laughing at stupid things with your loved one that it's like being young and stupid for the sake of being stupid with your buddies lol.
@ezecoro2 жыл бұрын
- how do you get along with his family? - I don't 😭wild
@Monet05262 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why she would even want to marry into a family like that, I know we can't help who we love but we most definitely can help subjecting ourselves to unwarranted "in your face" prejudice! That's sick!
@resurgingflame2 жыл бұрын
Well bcus he's different from the rest of his family. At the end, what matters the most is ur spouse, not their family.
@Monet05262 жыл бұрын
@@resurgingflame that thinking only last temporarily, especially once children come into the picture or spending holidays apart, it'll eventually become an issue, so true only your partner & how they treat you matters but that eventually draws a wedge & creates a strain on your relationship having to choose between the love of your family & the love of your life. But to each its own, it's obviously working for them but me personally I couldn't/wouldn't Subject myself to that because family means everything to me.
@resurgingflame2 жыл бұрын
@@Monet0526 why so confused on who to choose when u'd just cut ties or go away from them? Esp when u know that they're horrible. They're an adult, they've their own family & that become their main priority now. They don't need to sacrifice their love for the sake of keeping connection with ur terrible family, esp one that's so understanding & a big match for them. That'd be a huge loss lol. It just... I know family is important. But the moment u know that they're acting like this, that this is their true color, I'd cut ties with them instead of my partner. So not the other way around. Bcus my life & my future is with my love now, not with them anymore. Now I'm not sure if this is the path that the couple took. They never confirmed about it in the video. But I'm sure from how comfortable the wife is + how confident her husband in agreeing that his family is horrible, that they at least stay so far away from them. & the husband, while still in contact, rarely visit them anymore. This is still ideal for their life given the situation so I don't see any problem with it🤷🏾♂️
@imsadlol45282 жыл бұрын
@@resurgingflame it’s really easy to say you’d be fine never seeing your family again when it’s never been something you’ve had to think about.
@KongmengVang952 жыл бұрын
I love the relationship Nicole has with her man! So cute! They're just so funny and chill! I like seeing that I'm couples! More of them please!
@Lulu2u2 жыл бұрын
When he called her outspoken and brash I lost it 💀
@dadatosu47022 жыл бұрын
I'm peruvian, my partner is chinese, we met here in Italy, where I moved in as a kid and he arrives here all grown up because of his passion for classical music, being an immigrant here, my parents were sure I could date a non peruvian guy, they were surprised they were all Asian guys but not shocked. I was lucky with my partner family, only child, nice parents, very humble, loving, caring, amazing people, I was pretty open minded since always and so into chinese language and culture so to me, it was fascinating to learn and confront our custom and culture, to find the similarities and the opposite aspects about both, I'm open minded with anyone actually, he was the one that have to push further his personality and to be ready to make a deal, for example, a simple thing, he didn't feel good when I offered him a meal or when I bought gifts for him as "he was the man" and he felt lost as he was use to the opposite back in china, with his exes.. or the fact that I took a cold bath after giving birth as, it's a period when u have rules to follow to heal ur body and regain ur strength, we just made deals and we confront each other, now he is pretty proud talking about our old dates when I was the one who paid the bills 😅 and he loves to talk about how strong I was after our two kids and stuff like that. We ha e two kids, half peruvian, half chinese, born in Italy and they are getting all I can offer them about both 3 cultures and more, our family, mine most of all, has a beautiful genes heritage, peruvian, Spanis, Italian, African, Mexican (about this one I was shocked), so kids are use to have this beautiful view of different shapes, shades and also my friends are from everywhere so they are getting use to feel at ease among them, we are different yet we are friends and family and that's beautiful. Ps. I met mixed couples where relatives were against their relationship yet they were in a relationship with their boyfriend or girlfriend and not with the relatives, the point is, if he or she wants to be with u, u would know how much love there is even against the world, literally, we live once, we can choose to face anyone, even our family, to protect true love.
@mclovin65372 жыл бұрын
Wish that viet girl was more proud to speak her language outside
@thegermaicanadventure2 жыл бұрын
We are so happy that we did not have to experience any negative feedback or response to our relationship - not from the German side of the family, and not from the Jamaican side. One love ❤️
@rylie.20192 жыл бұрын
“how do you get along with his family?” “i don’t.” that was FAST 💀 but so sad.
@jessimcatee78672 жыл бұрын
i love that they call each other out on their racism.
@SnapszDuhh2 жыл бұрын
Rachel is wild as hell. Why she would want to marry into a family like that is beyond me. It doesn’t even sound like her husband stands up for her either cause she said the sister is the most outspoken with her comments meaning it’s not just a one time thing. Why would you wanna put someone you love through that?
@Meee222222 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I thought! He doesn't even have her back when he's around his family
@brookyvette2 жыл бұрын
the black/native & honduran couple have my heart they are tooooo funny
@naynay252 жыл бұрын
This video! Being a young black female and attending schools in a predominantly white neighborhood, naturally my first crush was white. And so began the phrase my father use to always say, “You better never bring a white man home”. I, of course, didn’t fully understand why at the time and therefore never took it seriously. As time went on, he kept saying it here and there especially when I went through my white boyband phase. Understandably, based on what everyone was seeing they assumed I only liked white men (friends and family) but I genuinely don’t have a type and don’t care about the color, ethnicity, etc. of someone. So that day I finally sat my father down and asked him, “would you really get mad if I started dating a white guy” and then to hear him say, “I don’t care who you date, just as long as he treats you right and you love him” made my heart smile. My father is definitely one of those old stubborn souls who can’t be wooed by the new avenues paved by this generation, but we have our talks and debates and not to say I’m ever going to change his views (not happening lol) but to come to a mutual understanding of both sides work for me.
@RichTake2 жыл бұрын
My parents have told me that they'd prefer me to bring home a black girl, but they're laid back to the point that I don't think they'd care much if it were a different race. Little do they know, I don't even like girls, so there's that conversation...
@isabellewhite35052 жыл бұрын
UK: best of luck
@jamielynn98532 жыл бұрын
Good luck, I hope it goes or went well and that the people around you accept you for who you are :)
@RichTake2 жыл бұрын
@@jamielynn9853 Thanks. The cat isn't out of the bag yet, but thanks for the encouragement when it eventually happens
@BRla862 жыл бұрын
I've been censored by white people for asking questions about other cultures, but never from the people who I was trying to learn about. People from different cultures have appreciated that I took the time to learn something from them.
@sparklesp93042 жыл бұрын
Some white people have a different definition of racism than POCs, I've noticed. I have NO clue how it got there, smh. We don't normally define racism as simply discussing race or talking about someone's race. We normally base it on having a racial hierarchy where we are on the bottom.
@Pits-vy3nw2 жыл бұрын
I can already feel the presence of aba and preach
@elgaybean55442 жыл бұрын
Preach is in an interracial marriage so I know if they react to this, Aba is going to be all over him on some “what do you think about that” or “what’re your thoughts based on your situation” etc. 😂😂
@JordG0tBored2 жыл бұрын
I can feel their presence lmaoooo
@jessietenga2 жыл бұрын
Yapp... Can't wait 😂
@edithputhy49482 жыл бұрын
those right wing pandering racoons
@JordG0tBored2 жыл бұрын
@@edithputhy4948 😂😂😂 ur odd
@TheOnlyTaps2 жыл бұрын
Great watch. Love it when the pairings are always open honest n chill.
@Kate-qr5pj2 жыл бұрын
I wish this was longer!
@lilce19922 жыл бұрын
I was fortunate to get great southern white in-laws who genuinely love and care for me. They treat me just like they treat my husband.
@Heena67902 жыл бұрын
That is a blessing!! Happy for you lot!
@crybaby31392 жыл бұрын
Im also in a interracial relationship since my partner's ethinicity is INVISIBLE :')
@ICavalcadeI2 жыл бұрын
Wait, what? So is mine! They told me I was the only one for them, but they must have lied 🥲🥲🥲🥲
@coltonkleins2 жыл бұрын
Lmfao you got me 😂😂😂2
@trickboy562 жыл бұрын
So damn we all been cheated on huh
@yara18962 жыл бұрын
Does that mean you don't know the ethnicity?
@maxk50652 жыл бұрын
at least invisible ppl are really tolerant
@kayleeh67732 жыл бұрын
Yea my dad has a hard time accepting my boyfriend because he isn’t white and we have been through a lot because of it but race shouldn’t even play a factor in who you like or dislike. My dad after 5 years is now starting to learn that I’m going to be with my boyfriend if he likes it or not.
@void769 Жыл бұрын
Are u married now?
@ManeyMane182 жыл бұрын
The ones that know their in-laws didn’t approve of their colour?! You’re still willing to marry INTO that same family?! Never me. Even when it comes to kids…they’re clearly going to treat the mixed kids differently…why set yourself up for the headache?
@julianacheriza9673 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Love isn’t enough for me sorry🤷🏾♀️
@Daydreamerr13 Жыл бұрын
@@julianacheriza9673yep, and I’m like I remember alll those Tik Toks in 2020 of all the mixed kids speaking about this exact thing and how it fucked them up😅
@burger11132 жыл бұрын
Very warming to see so much love between two different people, not even considering the ethnic circumstances they are in.
@brianholloway62052 жыл бұрын
“I don’t want to have to explain my blackness” THIS! I also seemingly don’t have this problem when I date non Americans. Ughhhhh frustrating
@sagnikuma108 Жыл бұрын
Personally, I don't get pursuing a marriage with someone whose family feels even remotely this way. I wouldn't want to have children in an environment like that, or to have to explain family tension to my children, or to keep family secrets/cut people off. We can 100% control who we allow ourselves to fall in love with, especially as grown adults. All it takes is a question or two during the getting-to-know-you stage for this to come to light. Also, if I really respected someone and knew my family was like this, I just.... can't even imagine exposing someone to this. I don't want to be the reason why his family gets torn apart, no thanks. I also respect myself, my culture, and my heritage wayyy too much to subjugate myself to mistreatment. I wouldn't want to compromise my children's chance at having loving, warm, and trusting relationships w extended family. For kids, this environment just fosters so much potential for lasting trauma and hurt. If the relationship is just for me, maybe a fling or friendship, that's cool -- but merging families? Too much drama. But to each their own.
@naisaShip2 жыл бұрын
if my parents asked me why am I dating someone that's a different race, my heart would break man
@MaiMai-ys4yg2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the transparency and respect.
@luciaralepobe2 жыл бұрын
"I'm not afraid of that stereotype" I love that
@jeibodega74672 жыл бұрын
Mid-watching this video I JUST realized I’m in an interracial relationship 💀 we grew up together and come from the same city background aside from some of our culture and languages but it just never crossed my mind that’s how we’re perceived
@jordanmelven2 жыл бұрын
Cut, turn down the ISO and adjust the contrast. Shit is overexposed af.
@reannamccarty88332 жыл бұрын
I would love to see a reality show with all these couples!
@Milaxj2 жыл бұрын
Rachel is like the most Caucasian black girl he could’ve possibly brought home
@matthewfreeman81302 жыл бұрын
wtf…
@taylorstep81352 жыл бұрын
We call it Oreo
@lizali55882 жыл бұрын
Huh?
@sunnc2 жыл бұрын
we're not supposed to say that bc black ppl aren't a monolith. we all know exactly what you mean though.
@Milaxj2 жыл бұрын
@@sunnc I meant exactly what I said
@ednsav2 жыл бұрын
Man, when she said straight up " I don't" my heart just sank hard. I can't believe we're still doing this shit.
@damckissen2 жыл бұрын
Cut does a good job of showing things honestly
@sincerelysarahdawn2 жыл бұрын
“I be bustin the most nuts” had me lol
@krishnvm10272 жыл бұрын
3:08 she was so straight forward damn, cut off those toxic ppl.
@rielnative2 жыл бұрын
I feel it with that epilepsy medication. I’ve been taking the medication for about a year and I rarely orgasm now 🤦🏾♂️
@watashiwamosura2 жыл бұрын
I would love to see more interabled couples, or even a video on them!
@anupriyaveda35502 жыл бұрын
I'm an Indian, once I dated a guy from Ghana and oh boy was it tough! Even though I'm brown, his family kept telling me how light my skin color was (I'm from Northern India- Uttarakhand to be specific) They used to ask me if I knew anything about 4abc curls and I used to go blank coz I have straight hair and obviously Idk anything about it (like how does that even matter??) They would talk in their native language and tease me about random things (which my ex told me much later about) I would dread meeting them coz of these taunts (they strictly wanted a black girl for him) I am a straightforward person, and my tolerance towards $hit is pretty low so at times I used to snap back saying "Are you more interested in my color or in my qualities?" Or "Yeah I'm not black but in my country atleast we know how to hold relationships and respect others" (His Mom was a divorcee, and so were a few of his siblings) He was my first bf and trust me we loved eo enough to want to marry eo, but these things kept me on standby. My family on the other hand was super chilled, they loved him (he's indeed a great guy and used to support me at times, but sadly that was all too low, he used to fear his mom a lot and never uttered a word against her) I broke up with him exactly 2 months after meeting his family (We had been together for 2 years prior to that) And now about 7 years later, I came to know recently that he started dating a white girl (my prayers and blessings are with her, coz that girl doesn't know what she's getting into) If they can't tolerate me because apparently my skin is light brown, how will they tolerate an out and out blonde with green eyes? His family was super shitty and there are so many things I can talk about but this comment's already pretty long
@TheMaddenComebackKid2 жыл бұрын
I've never seen another Latasian couple before (Latino X Asian) ❤❤❤ I'm a Latino man, and my girlfriend/future wife is Japanese 🇲🇽🇯🇵❤
@Liusila2 жыл бұрын
I like how whoever was filming or editing didn’t even try to create a suitable lighting or balance the values and just went fuck it, everything’s going to fucking glow up like Jesus in this bitch today.
@samanthasoul-ley59752 жыл бұрын
So sad that this is even a thing. Love is love 💕 and it is beautiful! Love and happy for all of these couples!
@chrismurry74792 жыл бұрын
I'm black and didn't know what Juneteenth was until this year...
@elapeltonen69062 жыл бұрын
@Trevor S. It did actually. It's been celebrated since 1865 by Black American communities, but only became a federally recognised holiday this year.
@KD-CD2 жыл бұрын
Its mainly celebrated in the South or Black spaces in Texas. Being up North I heard a little about but not much
@brett84602 жыл бұрын
I'm Korean and I knew what Juneteenth was because I read a children's book about it when I was 8 but I thought it was a holiday that died out in the 1900s. 😂
@bee-ir3to2 жыл бұрын
@Trevor S. are you stupid? it has existed for years. but now black people are actually learning about their history and white people want to be "woke" and blew it up.
@alexisrobinson91802 жыл бұрын
@@brett8460 honestly that’s so funny and kinda cute
@nono25ization2 жыл бұрын
I come back to this vid just to die laughing at "I be bustin the most nuts"
@Therealinkedmommy2 жыл бұрын
MAJOR Kudos to those who are still with their significant others when their family is complete dicks about the relationship! I am white and married white, but that IS NOT because of race preference, it just happened that way. I find beauty in all colors/races... I am just so sad that still, to this day, this BS goes on! I am a Christian and love all and wish the world could just chill and accept everyone because WE ARE ALL HUMANS! The color of our skin should have ZERO barrings on opinions about someone PERIOD!
@LEMATTOFFICIAL2 жыл бұрын
Damn they answered all the questions! This was a good one
@CarloGonzalezTV2 жыл бұрын
“You’re not white??” Took me out😂
@aurora129012 жыл бұрын
A lot of the Black people featured could pass in the winter. I'd love to see this done with unambiguously Black and Brown people.
@imseeingstarzzz2 жыл бұрын
I was looking for this comment. Like especially homeboy with the little person as his partner and the Kamala Harris looking one lmao.
@alexisrobinson91802 жыл бұрын
@@imseeingstarzzz you did not just call sis “Kamala Harris” looking 😭😭😭
@sparklesp93042 жыл бұрын
I don't think too many of those folks would stick in his situation, especially not black American women. That's just too much.
@myae9563 Жыл бұрын
Yesss
@kobirdie59392 жыл бұрын
Let’s appreciate the fact they went through all the questions like like mature beings and didn’t drink any shots 😌✋