I appreciated that when showing interracial couples, it wasn’t just black and white.
@adamgillespie33933 жыл бұрын
All the couples had someone who was at least half black though which is interesting
@berealkiiid3 жыл бұрын
@@adamgillespie3393 When I said that, I meant that it was just pairs of black and white couples. It was also Asian, Latino etc. On a large scale interracial couples at usually shown as black and white.
@ЗорницаЯнкова2 жыл бұрын
@@adamgillespie3393 And most were at least 1/3 white. You know because there were more than 3 people and there are only 3 races so of course people are gonna be mixed
@adamgillespie33932 жыл бұрын
@@ЗорницаЯнкова America alone has 5 official recognised categories of race, so you're probably wrong on that one. There are far more than just 3 in the whole world- it's a wonderfully diverse place.
@isaacparadis79512 жыл бұрын
very true
@bsimms5833 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad my parents have realized that they can either be open-minded or be less involved in my life, because of it, they've made so much progress on getting rid of their prejudices.
@sarahwithstars3 жыл бұрын
Bravo
@Idolbottle3 жыл бұрын
I like this comment
@NZKiwi873 жыл бұрын
That’s it! Live your life, your way. Those who celebrate you and your choices get to be a part of it 😊👍
@hunterpope33693 жыл бұрын
I hope people understand.. that our parents grew up in a time where their family wanted them to date the same race! A lot of cultures are like that…
@alyssaTT4563 жыл бұрын
@@hunterpope3369 but if they understand the struggle of having non accepting family members why would they continue the same cycle with their kids.
@D_A_Marv3 жыл бұрын
Producer: "How do you get along with the family?" Rachel: "I don't" Brutal, yet honest
@GC-kj1nx3 жыл бұрын
ayyy, a dominican! hope your day is going well. :))
@AP-pk6mk3 жыл бұрын
I hope she marries into a family that actually doesn't hate her...
@rodbenjamin99093 жыл бұрын
Sista his fam has issues. They are what’s wrong with the world
@cassieprimus94763 жыл бұрын
Dominican!!
@dess73013 жыл бұрын
ah a fellow dominican
@Nancy_______3 жыл бұрын
“And I’m not afraid of that stereotype” period Queen
@luke_cohen13 жыл бұрын
As a semi white (Jewish and Portuguese) guy, I'm the first to admit that bad things happen when women aren't mentally strong. Having a lot of mentally strong people around you keeps people's egos in check which is incredibly important if you want a functioning society.
@RandomGuy-hx6pj3 жыл бұрын
@@luke_cohen1 Semi white? (Ashkenazi) Jewish and Portugese people are both white, no?
@fey99153 жыл бұрын
@@RandomGuy-hx6pj Nowdays, but not several decades ago. Race is a made up concept, not rooted in science so groups go in and out of it at times haha
@theoneandonly00993 жыл бұрын
I mean, I'd love to see a white person go through centuries of oppression and see how they deal with it. Ofc they'd be angry too.
@anawkwardsweetpotato47283 жыл бұрын
@@RandomGuy-hx6pj Not all Ashkenazim are white, and none of them fit in the category pre-WWII. Many Portuguese people have minor Moorish & Sephardic ancestry, too. I'm primarily Afro-descendant, but even my Portuguese ancestors were listed as "coloured" when they immigrated to Bermuda in the 1800s.
@100Stratusfiedx3 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine marrying into a family that doesn't like my race.
@bojanlorber6113 жыл бұрын
Hopefully the person you would marry in this scenario would be worth it. I think the reason you marry someone, or therefor not marry someone, should depend on the partner not their family.
@slixameth3 жыл бұрын
@@bojanlorber611 okay clearly but come on dude, youre the minority and your white in-laws dont look at your union as valid ? That hurts them BOTH
@100Stratusfiedx3 жыл бұрын
@@bojanlorber611 Blending families are very important. I want my inlaws to like me and their grandchildren. I believe people should marry who they love regardless of race. Unfortunately, there have been many cases where the white and the black side of the family doesn't get long. It's one thing for you to ignore this, but children shouldn't be brought into it.
@foreverbrit973 жыл бұрын
@@bojanlorber611 nope
@Kiwikick2383 жыл бұрын
I’m a black woman and that terrifies me. My family is really excepting my older sisters have brought home boyfriends of different races and they’ve never cared about that just how they were treated. Family matters so much to me so if my partners family doesn’t like my skin they wouldn’t like my family’s either and that really hurts me
@trn2283 жыл бұрын
I am so early the self-named psychologists aren’t even here yet to analyze the ppls behavior
@paradisearcher93343 жыл бұрын
I swear those people be annoying af
@trn2283 жыл бұрын
@@paradisearcher9334 yeeees I mean sometimes you can really tell a certain thing but some ppl are here analyzing a person from a 4 minute video that represents just a fragment of a person’s behavior IN A MOMENT
@hazelarkhurst14813 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA
@Ceerads3 жыл бұрын
Huh? Come again?
@no.1appastan3 жыл бұрын
Your PFP really sells the sadness in this comment
@demichealmartin17263 жыл бұрын
I don’t think I could deal with all the racism & micro aggressions from my in-laws… like no
@roussebidon3 жыл бұрын
Baby, imagine that’s unnecessary stress she’s experiencing. Like I cannot 🙄😒
@demichealmartin17263 жыл бұрын
@@roussebidon I’ll flip the table at thanksgiving 😭 y’all not gone bully me for being black
@craptap20293 жыл бұрын
Imagine facing all that shit at work and in your day to day and then coming home and moms is subjecting you to it too? Bruh Issa no from me
@Ashak20013 жыл бұрын
For real. Id lose my shit
@mambamed83453 жыл бұрын
to me this is an obvious deal breaker lolol
@LunarySSF23 жыл бұрын
"how do you get along with his family" "i don't" SIGHHHHHH
@PROVOCATEURSK2 жыл бұрын
She should have known after a few first dates and end it right there.
@JJones20113 жыл бұрын
To the gentleman with the black fiancé... don't be embarrassed to ask about black history. As an African American growing up in a predominately white area and attending almost all white schools I had never heard of Juneteenth either. Just growing up in that type of environment I was never really exposed to my own culture and history. When I left home at 17 and began to explore the world and started meeting people other than the standard black/white I learned so much from other ethnicities which made me want to learn more about my own history.
@jamessandoval58433 жыл бұрын
This right here, I learned more about American history by moving to Asia than if I stayed in the US. New cultures and people can make us interested in who we are where we come from.
@ashleyasamoah3 жыл бұрын
@@jamessandoval5843 exactly
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz3 жыл бұрын
Love this! Thanks for sharing. Or upbringings sound similar. I too was raised around a lot of white folk. When I was a teenager, I got so tired of being called an Oreo that I decided to go deep. I always knew a lot about my Russian background because that's who raised me. Learning about my Nigerian background has been a journey. But well worth it and I celebrate both cultures.
@beachbunnystan96253 жыл бұрын
I have a pin on my back pack from black history month (I'm white btw a very white greman woman lmao) it says "you are on native land" (I live in the US btw) and kid in my class called me rassist for the pin because he didn't understand what it meant
@beachbunnystan96253 жыл бұрын
kid was black btw
@burnerbaby263 жыл бұрын
Rachel a better woman than me because I would’ve been throwing hands at EVERY family function lmao
@maryroseeeee2 жыл бұрын
what would that have solved?
@worldofdaisy._2 жыл бұрын
@@maryroseeeee everything now be quiet
@maryroseeeee2 жыл бұрын
@@worldofdaisy._ literally nothing 🤣🤣
@CircumstancesNeverMatter2 жыл бұрын
Girl from her demeanor she has thrown hands. I don't like my in laws either and it's not even about race they're just jackasses! 😂😂😂😂😂
@bonitaapplebum00882 жыл бұрын
@@worldofdaisy._ periodt! 🤣
@StevePradhan3 жыл бұрын
Mike (white male) and Rachel (black female) are so brutally honest to these questions and they seem totally comfortable together. Edit : Dayumn. I just noticed I’m already on 2.1k likes. Welp, seems like many people had similar thoughts about the lovely couple
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ♥️
@AnnaM41173 жыл бұрын
And those are the type of interracial relationships that mixed kids grow most comfortably in. They recognize their mixed identity as opposed to 1 side or the other. Just something I’ve noticed!
@0ut1and3r3 жыл бұрын
thats why theyre getting married lol
@Courage20063 жыл бұрын
And Rachel is cute!!!
@ashleyasamoah3 жыл бұрын
@@0ut1and3r people also get married without understanding each other🙃
@SpookyFae3 жыл бұрын
I feel Rachel so much. I’m BLACK black with a big ass Afro and the first time i met my (white) inlaws they made me so uncomfortable. My fiancé and i don’t talk to them anymore. It sucks too cause we have a kid now and he won’t ever be close to his white side of the family bc they choose to be ignorant. Dating outside our race for my (black) family is nothing new so they didn’t even think twice about me bringing a white guy home. They all love him.
@itsdonuttime77293 жыл бұрын
I wish you, your husband, and smol a very happy life.
@BowserStrange3 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for you, you literally deserve better but you can’t help who you fall in love with, now your child has no choice but to deal with absolute ignorance and stupidity at a young age. Don’t say it ain’t that bad cause girl I’ve been in white spaces in tight places…it’s bad especially the faking understanding and eye rolls.
@danieljenkins79513 жыл бұрын
Ewwww
@PHlophe3 жыл бұрын
Fae, . as an adult biracial male that's probably older than you. I was disowned by my white side of the family.. yes it sucks and cuts really really deep for a while . But nothing beats the peace you'll have by not dealing with completely random microaggressions. Because those pile up when you are coerced into cohabitation. You'll learn to accept that loss as a parent like i did as the child. The 2 of you will be fine and what matters here is that God gave the 2 of you a healthy baby .
@sleepyvkuso2 жыл бұрын
@@danieljenkins7951 ok Daniel Jenkins. go get a life bozo
@QueensNYgirlie19883 жыл бұрын
The black girl with the white guy has the most beautiful skin I've ever seen 🌟
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz3 жыл бұрын
Thanks doll!
@fitthemode43123 жыл бұрын
Literally!!!!!
@AmritBedi473 жыл бұрын
And the most beautiful hair!
@frenchgirl58783 жыл бұрын
She black or mixed? I’m confused
@therookie88722 жыл бұрын
Makeup is magical
@supreme_zeeyus3 жыл бұрын
The women couple have some great skin😭
@snail13463 жыл бұрын
It's amazing what cutting men out of your romantic life can do 😍
@riom.60913 жыл бұрын
@@snail1346 Huh?
@snail13463 жыл бұрын
@@riom.6091 I was just joking lmao
@unknownelite28443 жыл бұрын
@@snail1346 jokes are meant to be funny
@snail13463 жыл бұрын
@@unknownelite2844 someone's butthurt lol
@nikaneekz.3 жыл бұрын
As a black woman, ain't no way in HELL I was marrying into that family but best wishes and blessings to my good sis.
@lucia19823 жыл бұрын
And the funny thing it goes both ways I experienced racism from my ex bf's family as a white person he was black
@siddi26003 жыл бұрын
I protect my peace , I really really could never
@Bribreezzzyy3 жыл бұрын
@@lucia1982 LOL racism
@lucia19823 жыл бұрын
@@Bribreezzzyy its racism it can happen to different ethnic groups than just black people it is basically judging someone based on their skin color so
@ijustwannabehappier-v49733 жыл бұрын
@@lucia1982 Its not racism, its prejudice if its done to white people. Go read a book.
@missfortune84533 жыл бұрын
The fact that his family is vocal about not liking the fact he's with a black woman. Like damn... :(
@sageywagey8123 жыл бұрын
"How do you get along with his family" "I dont." LMAOOOOOOO
@jm23073 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard being black and entering non-Black spaces. I hope more people learn to address their own bigotry and biases instead of projecting them onto others.
@KD-CD3 жыл бұрын
100 percent agree
@dallows32353 жыл бұрын
I’d say the biggest problem is cultures and religious beliefs. If you don’t integrate, you alienate.
@xansmoker88343 жыл бұрын
@Furiosa yea same here
@MizMima3 жыл бұрын
It’s difficult on all races.
@jcam50643 жыл бұрын
I really can’t imagine. My skin is very white, and I get extremely uncomfortable in those settings myself.
@tea44713 жыл бұрын
rachel and mike’s conversation was so tense but honestly it was good that they talked about it. it’s the deeper side of interracial relationships that others may not want to address.
@resurgingflame2 жыл бұрын
It's tense for a reason but I think they're quite comfortable talking about it.
@JustATotalNerd2 жыл бұрын
She looked ready to explode the whole time. If she was behind closed doors, she'd drive me insane because she is.
@rebekaharber84143 жыл бұрын
I would not allow my “family” to talk less or down to my partner because of their race. I’d end it the moment it starts to come out
@jennybrooks98453 жыл бұрын
I would have loved to be in this. I’m Irish/Canadian and my bf is Iraqi/Syrian, I first met his family 6 years ago when I was pregnant with our first born. It was definitely a shock to them. My family was incredibly rude and ignorant towards his culture and his family was very unwelcoming of a blonde, white baby into the family. It took years, but his family (besides his dad) has come around. My family, not so much. Recently had to cut them all off because of their reaction to my third pregnancy. It’s definitely been a huge struggle, both of us have felt super judged, but at the end of the day we love each other so much and I would die to protect his name.
@JonasBrotherLuver1223 жыл бұрын
@cut Please include her in the next one!
@therookie88722 жыл бұрын
Of course you’re Canadian
@jennybrooks98452 жыл бұрын
@@therookie8872 why do you say that
@therookie88722 жыл бұрын
@@jennybrooks9845 Canada has a bad record with those kinds of things
@evothenew33332 жыл бұрын
@@therookie8872 "those kind of things"?
@peepo56493 жыл бұрын
i would literally jump out of the house if i recieve a racial statement from anyone especially related to my s/o
@psychedelicate3 жыл бұрын
Mike better ride hard for Rachel to his family. She deserves to be defended!
@lalalanddddd75842 жыл бұрын
im pretty sure he is otherwise she wouldnt be with him? make it make sense
@willkillem737 Жыл бұрын
No she doesn't. She's the wrong color.
@stephaniemitchell85093 жыл бұрын
These are lovely couples! Their families may suck but they're clearly not diminished or intimidated by that. Living their best lives in love!
@Kool2123 жыл бұрын
It still blows my mind why people care so much about race. Who are you as a person matters a fuck ton more.
@darthbenevolent17333 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Race isn't an issue anymore.
@b3ndavies3 жыл бұрын
@@darthbenevolent1733 Race is still an issue, but it *shouldn't* be.
@demichealmartin17263 жыл бұрын
Because it matters! Damn why y’all wanna exclude race so bad like we don’t live in America.. EVERYTHING IS ABOUT RACE HERE.. like stop being ignorant
@S.T.A.5503 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately people base their whole existence around their race....
@S.T.A.5503 жыл бұрын
@@demichealmartin1726 yea when you base your whole existence on race, of course you gonna be obsessed with race & think it's involved in everything, regardless if it actually is or not
@B3LiiZ323 жыл бұрын
“How do you get along with his family?” “I don’t.” WE JUST NOT GONNA MOVE PAST THAT!!!
@shanice83513 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is white and I'm black. His family accepted straight away, however his mother did make a comment saying "oh she's black" and his sister said "Why does that even matter?". His mother was surprised but accepted me straight away. And now we talk about our culture differences and stuff
@roxc4532 жыл бұрын
@W 6 comments on this video get a life
@trashkid5913 жыл бұрын
4:54 - i feel this so much. i know enough of my mother tongue to speak it with my parents but am so embarrassed to speak it outside of the house. i've been made fun of for my accent & lack of vocab by native speakers :( it's really discouraging.
@sssonx3 жыл бұрын
In case you love the language, that's all that matters. There's always someone who makes jokes about our in-progress but never let them steal our chance to learn n grow *hug*
@trashkid5913 жыл бұрын
@@sssonx thank you 🫂
@nancychay70493 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate! One time at a restaurant I tried to order a big container of rice for a large group of ppl and I used the word for "pot" like "can I have a pot of rice?" and the waitress laughed at me and corrected me 😭 I was so embarrassed I never wanted to order food in my language again
@jcam50643 жыл бұрын
Whenever I said anything in my father’s language, I was met with ridicule. So I got too embarrassed to say much and didn’t learn much. Now they say I didn’t want to learn.
@chrisr3932 жыл бұрын
What language? Out of curiosity
@jonathanramossantiago20433 жыл бұрын
I lmao when she said “black people love Gospel music.” 🤣
@marquesdunn49343 жыл бұрын
am not into gospel music
@user-bf6wb9ty6z2 жыл бұрын
@@marquesdunn4934 nobody ask
@XavierMcQueen3 жыл бұрын
My parents got weird when I started dating this white girl. They weren’t against it but they were thoroughly confused. “Oh… She has a very… fair complexion” was the first thing they said when they saw her. They ended up getting along really well but that first meeting was weird. But the fact that some people “don’t want their children dating outside the race” is actually insane to me.
@Liusila3 жыл бұрын
It’s the culture shock but if people are willing they will open their minds and learn about the other culture instead of just going against the union.
@XavierMcQueen3 жыл бұрын
@@edithputhy4948 Yikes.
@lizali55883 жыл бұрын
They didn’t say that to her did they?
@XavierMcQueen3 жыл бұрын
@@lizali5588 Yes they did, cringed at the time but she wasn’t too bothered by it and they ended up being really comfortable around each other after speaking to each other. As Liusila said above, it was a culture shock.
@anon22183 жыл бұрын
They think like this because they want to keep the race pure
@KRandR02053 жыл бұрын
“How do you get along with his family?” “I don’t 😚” LOVE IT
@jillsarah73563 жыл бұрын
Congrats to everyone in this video for being cute and also honest and vulnerable. Badass.
@lani47963 жыл бұрын
Omg The asian women is GORGEOUS
@milom73 жыл бұрын
She said: I'm a proud angry black woman. Love that
@alexisrobinson91803 жыл бұрын
Right, she was definitely my favorite out of this video
@milkyway_9393 жыл бұрын
My brown friends once said: just don’t start dating a black guy, that will be very embarrassing It shocked me a bit. These guys getting judged and being called “filthy” on a daily base, yet they do the same to black people
@tilllindemann29743 жыл бұрын
What does brown mean?
@milkyway_9393 жыл бұрын
@@tilllindemann2974 what does white mean? What does black mean? 🙄
@Elvish_lust3 жыл бұрын
I say the same thing. The hypocrisy of some people. I was talking to a brown girl in school a few years back and I was telling her how I wanted to go to Japan and she told me I’d get kicked out for being black. :/
@lasupremapersonal6153 жыл бұрын
@@tilllindemann2974 Hispanic or Native American, I’d say POC that aren’t black
@mooominpapa3 жыл бұрын
@@tilllindemann2974 South Asian?
@Lissetete3 жыл бұрын
Imagine being black, gay and female. They brave fr
@mattp59693 жыл бұрын
All of these people are the dammmn future. I loooove the diversity!
@mooominpapa3 жыл бұрын
3:25 This is nice to see. Some people would priotize their love above admitting that their parents are prejudiced. They'd go, "Don't talk about my mother that way!" even though they're responding to a prompt. And the fact they can just laugh it off and not be uncomfortable is goals.
@giasanders33403 жыл бұрын
Thought the same, omg
@iamphemale2 жыл бұрын
I love how they acknowledge, are aware and vocalise the issues they have with their partners parents but it does not break the relationship, maybe even makes it stronger
@shelly52243 жыл бұрын
This is hard man. I don't know how i would even function in a relationship let alone a marriage knowing my in-laws felt i didn't belong with their son.
@stephenheadley55183 жыл бұрын
Man, I love all these couples. They're all so good together.
@lafan20033 жыл бұрын
Rachael- As a fellow human being i am so sad and sorry that you have been treated this way by his family. It hurts my heart :(
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz3 жыл бұрын
Don't be sad for me. I'm over here living my best life with someone who I not only love, but like very much. + My family is very supportive of us and that's enough♥️
@lafan20033 жыл бұрын
@@ShimmerBeautytheBiz You two are a fantastic couple!
@ezecoro3 жыл бұрын
- how do you get along with his family? - I don't 😭wild
@ellielowery96543 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to have a family that is so open, and loving, and excepting of everyone because I couldn’t imagine the embarrassment and emotional baggage that would come with being raised by a family that doesn’t.
@StudentDoctor943 жыл бұрын
2:10 smile through the pain
@Lulu2u3 жыл бұрын
When he called her outspoken and brash I lost it 💀
@Theimmortalmisfit3 жыл бұрын
How do you get along with his family?!?! *I DONT!*
@ShimmerBeautytheBiz3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@olivia75923 жыл бұрын
I commend her for marrying into a family with racism because I couldn’t. It’s a strong deal breaker for me.
@KongmengVang953 жыл бұрын
I love the relationship Nicole has with her man! So cute! They're just so funny and chill! I like seeing that I'm couples! More of them please!
@Lanwarder2 жыл бұрын
Two female lovers calling each other "Bro" is a serious sign of a healthy relationship (I'm not being sarcastic for real).......Hell, I'm a heterosexual guy and sometimes when I'm having so much fun with my girlfriend I will accidentally say things like "Come on bro"...which felt weird at first, but then you realize it's just that you're just having so much fun laughing at stupid things with your loved one that it's like being young and stupid for the sake of being stupid with your buddies lol.
@rylie.20193 жыл бұрын
“how do you get along with his family?” “i don’t.” that was FAST 💀 but so sad.
@rodneycooperjr32233 жыл бұрын
I used to be open to dating outside of my race. I did it several times in the past. Never again, for all the things mentioned between these couples. With a black woman it's like, "I'm black. You're black. We both get it". Then we can move on to regular relationship problems.
@Heena67902 жыл бұрын
I love this comment.
@Monet05263 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why she would even want to marry into a family like that, I know we can't help who we love but we most definitely can help subjecting ourselves to unwarranted "in your face" prejudice! That's sick!
@resurgingflame2 жыл бұрын
Well bcus he's different from the rest of his family. At the end, what matters the most is ur spouse, not their family.
@Monet05262 жыл бұрын
@@resurgingflame that thinking only last temporarily, especially once children come into the picture or spending holidays apart, it'll eventually become an issue, so true only your partner & how they treat you matters but that eventually draws a wedge & creates a strain on your relationship having to choose between the love of your family & the love of your life. But to each its own, it's obviously working for them but me personally I couldn't/wouldn't Subject myself to that because family means everything to me.
@resurgingflame2 жыл бұрын
@@Monet0526 why so confused on who to choose when u'd just cut ties or go away from them? Esp when u know that they're horrible. They're an adult, they've their own family & that become their main priority now. They don't need to sacrifice their love for the sake of keeping connection with ur terrible family, esp one that's so understanding & a big match for them. That'd be a huge loss lol. It just... I know family is important. But the moment u know that they're acting like this, that this is their true color, I'd cut ties with them instead of my partner. So not the other way around. Bcus my life & my future is with my love now, not with them anymore. Now I'm not sure if this is the path that the couple took. They never confirmed about it in the video. But I'm sure from how comfortable the wife is + how confident her husband in agreeing that his family is horrible, that they at least stay so far away from them. & the husband, while still in contact, rarely visit them anymore. This is still ideal for their life given the situation so I don't see any problem with it🤷🏾♂️
@imsadlol45282 жыл бұрын
@@resurgingflame it’s really easy to say you’d be fine never seeing your family again when it’s never been something you’ve had to think about.
@mclovin65373 жыл бұрын
Wish that viet girl was more proud to speak her language outside
@naynay252 жыл бұрын
This video! Being a young black female and attending schools in a predominantly white neighborhood, naturally my first crush was white. And so began the phrase my father use to always say, “You better never bring a white man home”. I, of course, didn’t fully understand why at the time and therefore never took it seriously. As time went on, he kept saying it here and there especially when I went through my white boyband phase. Understandably, based on what everyone was seeing they assumed I only liked white men (friends and family) but I genuinely don’t have a type and don’t care about the color, ethnicity, etc. of someone. So that day I finally sat my father down and asked him, “would you really get mad if I started dating a white guy” and then to hear him say, “I don’t care who you date, just as long as he treats you right and you love him” made my heart smile. My father is definitely one of those old stubborn souls who can’t be wooed by the new avenues paved by this generation, but we have our talks and debates and not to say I’m ever going to change his views (not happening lol) but to come to a mutual understanding of both sides work for me.
@TaylourwtheHalo3 жыл бұрын
His parents are mad that he brought home the LIGHTEST black woman possible 🤔🙄
@meganod2793 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm a white dude and I thought she was a tanned white girl in the beginning. I don't see why they would worry so much
@TaylourwtheHalo3 жыл бұрын
@@meganod279 I honestly thought she was latina lol
@inco313 жыл бұрын
Look at Meghan Markle. That woman looks brown skinned to me anyway.
@KarmaLoves983 жыл бұрын
With straightened hair too, like how could they even telll???
@TaylourwtheHalo3 жыл бұрын
If they had kids, 9 times out of 10 they will come out white passing
@SnapszDuhh2 жыл бұрын
Rachel is wild as hell. Why she would want to marry into a family like that is beyond me. It doesn’t even sound like her husband stands up for her either cause she said the sister is the most outspoken with her comments meaning it’s not just a one time thing. Why would you wanna put someone you love through that?
@Meee222222 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I thought! He doesn't even have her back when he's around his family
@RichTake3 жыл бұрын
My parents have told me that they'd prefer me to bring home a black girl, but they're laid back to the point that I don't think they'd care much if it were a different race. Little do they know, I don't even like girls, so there's that conversation...
@isabellewhite35053 жыл бұрын
UK: best of luck
@jamielynn98532 жыл бұрын
Good luck, I hope it goes or went well and that the people around you accept you for who you are :)
@RichTake2 жыл бұрын
@@jamielynn9853 Thanks. The cat isn't out of the bag yet, but thanks for the encouragement when it eventually happens
@brookyvette2 жыл бұрын
the black/native & honduran couple have my heart they are tooooo funny
@jessimcatee78673 жыл бұрын
i love that they call each other out on their racism.
@luciaralepobe2 жыл бұрын
"I'm not afraid of that stereotype" I love that
@Pits-vy3nw3 жыл бұрын
I can already feel the presence of aba and preach
@elgaybean55443 жыл бұрын
Preach is in an interracial marriage so I know if they react to this, Aba is going to be all over him on some “what do you think about that” or “what’re your thoughts based on your situation” etc. 😂😂
@JordG0tBored3 жыл бұрын
I can feel their presence lmaoooo
@jessietenga3 жыл бұрын
Yapp... Can't wait 😂
@edithputhy49483 жыл бұрын
those right wing pandering racoons
@JordG0tBored3 жыл бұрын
@@edithputhy4948 😂😂😂 ur odd
@TheOnlyTaps3 жыл бұрын
Great watch. Love it when the pairings are always open honest n chill.
@BRla863 жыл бұрын
I've been censored by white people for asking questions about other cultures, but never from the people who I was trying to learn about. People from different cultures have appreciated that I took the time to learn something from them.
@sparklesp93042 жыл бұрын
Some white people have a different definition of racism than POCs, I've noticed. I have NO clue how it got there, smh. We don't normally define racism as simply discussing race or talking about someone's race. We normally base it on having a racial hierarchy where we are on the bottom.
@thegermaicanadventure3 жыл бұрын
We are so happy that we did not have to experience any negative feedback or response to our relationship - not from the German side of the family, and not from the Jamaican side. One love ❤️
@naisaShip3 жыл бұрын
if my parents asked me why am I dating someone that's a different race, my heart would break man
@Kate-qr5pj3 жыл бұрын
I wish this was longer!
@dadatosu47022 жыл бұрын
I'm peruvian, my partner is chinese, we met here in Italy, where I moved in as a kid and he arrives here all grown up because of his passion for classical music, being an immigrant here, my parents were sure I could date a non peruvian guy, they were surprised they were all Asian guys but not shocked. I was lucky with my partner family, only child, nice parents, very humble, loving, caring, amazing people, I was pretty open minded since always and so into chinese language and culture so to me, it was fascinating to learn and confront our custom and culture, to find the similarities and the opposite aspects about both, I'm open minded with anyone actually, he was the one that have to push further his personality and to be ready to make a deal, for example, a simple thing, he didn't feel good when I offered him a meal or when I bought gifts for him as "he was the man" and he felt lost as he was use to the opposite back in china, with his exes.. or the fact that I took a cold bath after giving birth as, it's a period when u have rules to follow to heal ur body and regain ur strength, we just made deals and we confront each other, now he is pretty proud talking about our old dates when I was the one who paid the bills 😅 and he loves to talk about how strong I was after our two kids and stuff like that. We ha e two kids, half peruvian, half chinese, born in Italy and they are getting all I can offer them about both 3 cultures and more, our family, mine most of all, has a beautiful genes heritage, peruvian, Spanis, Italian, African, Mexican (about this one I was shocked), so kids are use to have this beautiful view of different shapes, shades and also my friends are from everywhere so they are getting use to feel at ease among them, we are different yet we are friends and family and that's beautiful. Ps. I met mixed couples where relatives were against their relationship yet they were in a relationship with their boyfriend or girlfriend and not with the relatives, the point is, if he or she wants to be with u, u would know how much love there is even against the world, literally, we live once, we can choose to face anyone, even our family, to protect true love.
@ednsav2 жыл бұрын
Man, when she said straight up " I don't" my heart just sank hard. I can't believe we're still doing this shit.
@burger11133 жыл бұрын
Very warming to see so much love between two different people, not even considering the ethnic circumstances they are in.
@ManeyMane182 жыл бұрын
The ones that know their in-laws didn’t approve of their colour?! You’re still willing to marry INTO that same family?! Never me. Even when it comes to kids…they’re clearly going to treat the mixed kids differently…why set yourself up for the headache?
@julianacheriza9673 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Love isn’t enough for me sorry🤷🏾♀️
@Daydreamerr13 Жыл бұрын
@@julianacheriza9673yep, and I’m like I remember alll those Tik Toks in 2020 of all the mixed kids speaking about this exact thing and how it fucked them up😅
@CarloGonzalezTV3 жыл бұрын
“You’re not white??” Took me out😂
@lilce19923 жыл бұрын
I was fortunate to get great southern white in-laws who genuinely love and care for me. They treat me just like they treat my husband.
@Heena67902 жыл бұрын
That is a blessing!! Happy for you lot!
@crybaby31393 жыл бұрын
Im also in a interracial relationship since my partner's ethinicity is INVISIBLE :')
@ICavalcadeI3 жыл бұрын
Wait, what? So is mine! They told me I was the only one for them, but they must have lied 🥲🥲🥲🥲
@coltonkleins3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao you got me 😂😂😂2
@trickboy563 жыл бұрын
So damn we all been cheated on huh
@yara18963 жыл бұрын
Does that mean you don't know the ethnicity?
@maxk50653 жыл бұрын
at least invisible ppl are really tolerant
@jeibodega74673 жыл бұрын
Mid-watching this video I JUST realized I’m in an interracial relationship 💀 we grew up together and come from the same city background aside from some of our culture and languages but it just never crossed my mind that’s how we’re perceived
@reannamccarty88333 жыл бұрын
I would love to see a reality show with all these couples!
@sagnikuma108 Жыл бұрын
Personally, I don't get pursuing a marriage with someone whose family feels even remotely this way. I wouldn't want to have children in an environment like that, or to have to explain family tension to my children, or to keep family secrets/cut people off. We can 100% control who we allow ourselves to fall in love with, especially as grown adults. All it takes is a question or two during the getting-to-know-you stage for this to come to light. Also, if I really respected someone and knew my family was like this, I just.... can't even imagine exposing someone to this. I don't want to be the reason why his family gets torn apart, no thanks. I also respect myself, my culture, and my heritage wayyy too much to subjugate myself to mistreatment. I wouldn't want to compromise my children's chance at having loving, warm, and trusting relationships w extended family. For kids, this environment just fosters so much potential for lasting trauma and hurt. If the relationship is just for me, maybe a fling or friendship, that's cool -- but merging families? Too much drama. But to each their own.
@LEMATTOFFICIAL3 жыл бұрын
Damn they answered all the questions! This was a good one
@Liusila3 жыл бұрын
I like how whoever was filming or editing didn’t even try to create a suitable lighting or balance the values and just went fuck it, everything’s going to fucking glow up like Jesus in this bitch today.
@jordanmelven3 жыл бұрын
Cut, turn down the ISO and adjust the contrast. Shit is overexposed af.
@kobirdie59392 жыл бұрын
Let’s appreciate the fact they went through all the questions like like mature beings and didn’t drink any shots 😌✋
@MaiMai-ys4yg3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the transparency and respect.
@damckissen2 жыл бұрын
Cut does a good job of showing things honestly
@aurora129013 жыл бұрын
A lot of the Black people featured could pass in the winter. I'd love to see this done with unambiguously Black and Brown people.
@imseeingstarzzz3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for this comment. Like especially homeboy with the little person as his partner and the Kamala Harris looking one lmao.
@alexisrobinson91803 жыл бұрын
@@imseeingstarzzz you did not just call sis “Kamala Harris” looking 😭😭😭
@sparklesp93042 жыл бұрын
I don't think too many of those folks would stick in his situation, especially not black American women. That's just too much.
@myae95632 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@kayleeh67733 жыл бұрын
Yea my dad has a hard time accepting my boyfriend because he isn’t white and we have been through a lot because of it but race shouldn’t even play a factor in who you like or dislike. My dad after 5 years is now starting to learn that I’m going to be with my boyfriend if he likes it or not.
@void7692 жыл бұрын
Are u married now?
@brianholloway62053 жыл бұрын
“I don’t want to have to explain my blackness” THIS! I also seemingly don’t have this problem when I date non Americans. Ughhhhh frustrating
@watashiwamosura2 жыл бұрын
I would love to see more interabled couples, or even a video on them!
@nono25ization3 жыл бұрын
I come back to this vid just to die laughing at "I be bustin the most nuts"
@Thekronicalss3 жыл бұрын
“I be bustin the most nuts” had me lol
@chrismurry74793 жыл бұрын
I'm black and didn't know what Juneteenth was until this year...
@elapeltonen69063 жыл бұрын
@Trevor S. It did actually. It's been celebrated since 1865 by Black American communities, but only became a federally recognised holiday this year.
@KD-CD3 жыл бұрын
Its mainly celebrated in the South or Black spaces in Texas. Being up North I heard a little about but not much
@brett84603 жыл бұрын
I'm Korean and I knew what Juneteenth was because I read a children's book about it when I was 8 but I thought it was a holiday that died out in the 1900s. 😂
@bee-ir3to3 жыл бұрын
@Trevor S. are you stupid? it has existed for years. but now black people are actually learning about their history and white people want to be "woke" and blew it up.
@alexisrobinson91803 жыл бұрын
@@brett8460 honestly that’s so funny and kinda cute
@ednsav2 жыл бұрын
How could anyone dislike Rachel? I'm so angry about that. I mean I love that he is with her regardless of his family's beliefs but she's so clearly a good person, I just don't understand how they could not accept her. :(
@eliasberrios10843 жыл бұрын
Lets go honduras, first time seeing it I love it
@dylanb6593 жыл бұрын
Yo honduras rep im not honduran by blood but most of my family members are
@rielnative3 жыл бұрын
I feel it with that epilepsy medication. I’ve been taking the medication for about a year and I rarely orgasm now 🤦🏾♂️
@9825Genesis3 жыл бұрын
A Honduran person on Cut! Yayyy
@ItsMrstoyouboo2 жыл бұрын
If the family doesn't accept you then your marriage isn't going to last. It's going to be toxic, girl run.
@krishnvm10273 жыл бұрын
3:08 she was so straight forward damn, cut off those toxic ppl.
@Kaylee22e2 жыл бұрын
Being apart of a interracial couple before I’d love to see more of this category!
@samanthasoul-ley59753 жыл бұрын
So sad that this is even a thing. Love is love 💕 and it is beautiful! Love and happy for all of these couples!
@maddddie89163 жыл бұрын
“What your not white” 😭 killed me
@The1997wiki3 жыл бұрын
I dont get how you can be with someone who family is open rasict like ????
@crystalsnow90693 жыл бұрын
No one chooses their family
@bakbak20313 жыл бұрын
Probably because their partner is different than their family
@The1997wiki3 жыл бұрын
@@crystalsnow9069 LMFAOO you miss the point
@yelleyw3 жыл бұрын
Depends on how they react to it. A lot of ppl will cut their family off for not accepting their partner. That’s actually attractive (to me at least)
@slickrick24203 жыл бұрын
@@crystalsnow9069 Yeah but he chooses to engage with his family