Interviewed Before and After Our First Date - Ashley & Julian | Glamour

Ashley and Julian are about to go on a first date. We interviewed them beforehand and afterward - separately.
Julian: @JujuShotMe
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Interviewed Before and After Our First Date - Ashley & Julian | Glamour

[@frankdesinco]

Protect this man at all costs! Such a sweet dude!

[@SplashBricklive]

That is my uncle lol

[@prince_sach50]

facts

[@roronzoro9795]

MK912 no harm done - he’s just passionate about photography, no need to get your pants in a twist about it

[@anonymousgaming5725]

@MK912 his photographer bruhh 😉😉

[@JeffSayYes]

@MK912 yeahhh.... photogs get a little too much into it. it's a great way to break their own ice but gotta give room

[@ayraahsan2475]

"She's way out of my league, and beautiful" "Oh...he seems nice"

[@random.med.student]

F

[@float_sam]

lol

[@socski1990]

F

[@AlienRider123]

sums up dating nowadays

[@devina8812]

“F”?

[@nika9205]

*"I have been single for 45 days"* but whos counting

[@cecefernandes5657]

Seriously, that was very specific I kinda felt sad

[@nika9205]

Live Louder same

[@inggridriama]

Maybe she prepared for this question

[@CCSyks]

she is trying to make it sound longer than it really is

[@Brookecynthia44]

I have been single for 9 years

[@notme377]

She gives me the vibe of someone that would make a relationship way more complicated than it needs to be.

[@kuunami]

Not just relationships. Everything.

[@sdf592]

She is not over her ex (which is okay), and he deserves somebody who is ready for him.

[@randallgyebi978]

Frederika Adamčíkova Was thinking the same. She seemed so aloof.

[@noahnattress4828]

Frederika Adamčíkova agreed

[@adnans3222]

She's very into herself and has cheated before. Julian dodged a bullet and deserves better.

[@rayhe8224]

@@adnans3222 Frankly, cheated before shoudlnt be an issue, it's all about whether one will learn. I have done it before and I have regretted since then and will never do it again. Or maybe, it's just me

[@hurehuren8628]

nope...she simply didnt find him physically attractive

[@courtneyinsea]

Him: Doesn't want kids (has a kid photo) Her: Prefers cats (has a dog photo)

[@lizzyo2155]

EVERYONE IS NOT WHO THET SAY THEY ARE!!

[@buhlekmr5361]

HILARIOUS!

[@elingrrr]

Well, you can like some stuff and still not wanted, I like kids but I will not have one and I like dogs but much-preferred cats and will not own a dog.

[@benelson12]

That can be true, but it is pretty obvious you would be sending the wrong message having them in a dating profile.

[@GP3D_Designs]

She litteraly said 1% more... is that really that much of a tiebreaker?

[@VIXPII]

“If they’re not feeling it neither should you” Words to live by 👏🏻

[@christophfischer2773]

Nah that's kinda dumb. What you feel should never be determined by others. What you do on the other hand is a different story

[@yoogeo1]

Disagree. One should be able to feel it if they are feeling it. It's natural. Whether one acts on said feeling is what is important. Nobody can tell me how to feel, thanks.

[@karuneshtongbram8230]

Me when i try to feel myself cause no one else will

[@canavero4288]

@@yoogeo1 I think you guys are missing the point. He's saying if the other person isn't feeling it, then you should respect it.

[@yoogeo1]

@@canavero4288 thats what i said. You can't tell people what to and not to feel, but whether you ACT on it is dependent on how the other person feels. If theyre not feeling it, then i won't ACT on it out of respect, but you can't tell me how to feel just because youre not feeling it

[@britt5348]

I hated when Ashley was a bit confident about cheating.

[@Rinixzz]

@Dan Lmao, glad I wasn't the only one thinking that

[@britt5348]

@@user-qh3eg2ib9y true, but it's just, idk-

[@2fladoodle]

she knows what she did and answered honestly. Whether or not she feels bad is impossible to tell in a 1 second reply, did you want her to lie?

[@chandlerbing3636]

@@2fladoodle I am not trying to encourage lying in general, but if you are afraid of saying that you cheated on someone to a stranger who is recording you and it's going to go on social media, then you are more likely to not cheat again. Reasoning behind this is that you have guilt of your bad deed, if you are confident about it, then it's not a good thing. P.S. if she would have said that to him on a date, it would definitely be a great quality

[@matt.bridge7191]

2fladoodle if you want to be honest about something like that, you have to show remorse. She sat up straight, head held high and confidently blurted out yes

[@stanley2681]

witnessing someone getting friendzoned is awkward

[@Beverly_Wilshire]

The second hand embarrassment is too much!

[@fluffypancakes146]

when said 'friend' is creep af its well deserved

[@monkiram]

I thought he handled it so well, so he made it not awkward. I wish I could handle rejection with that much grace and confidence

[@breakingthemasks]

@@fluffypancakes146 ... This dude was in no way a creep.

[@BangoChips]

F

[@oopskye]

why tf did she match with him on hinge if she didnt think he was attractive.....and why does she have a thing for photographers if she doesnt like her picture being taken......girl

[@ainsley8330]

skye Right?! It’s not even like he looked different in the photo with the baby which she obviously saw.

[@celiam.4940]

@@drejaquez Yes, single for 45 days, what a spinster

[@leo_tp4728]

Thats what I thought

[@darksky7359]

Double Standarts. Welcome to the world Kids.

[@samuraichamploo585]

When does liking photographers equal wanting your picture taken...

[@PedroDelgado724]

When she said she cheated on someone she was super calm and that look was just terrifying

[@dereka64]

Yeah, no remorse or anything. She said it so nonchalantly that at first I thought I misheard. Like being unfaithful and toying with someone's emotions like that is no big deal.

[@YouDontKnowISH_]

@@dereka64 Broooo exactly. I literally rewinded the clip to make sure I heard correctly! lolol

[@MattWey123]

Yup, kinda odd. I would assume most people would just lie, but she seems proud.

[@rowdyhunt5938]

That look said yes I cheated and I will do it again if I want to. I think this guy dodged a Bullitt with this girl.

[@dretterath]

"If they're not feeling it, neither should you." What a beautiful quote about consent

[@Ryo8761]

Desiree Fletcher agree...but. One thrust Two thrust. Nope! Jail card.

[@ameliedesroches7655]

Ashley should spend time with herself before dating again. She still isn’t over her breakup and needs to love herself completely. When Julian complemented Ashley about her authenticity, she covered her face. That made me so sad:( love yourself before others guys

[@joeheart5808]

Amelie Desroches stop yourself who says she doesn’t love herself she might just be shy and even if she isn’t it’s a flirting tactic and a lot of guys like it pffft she covered her face she literally said she does that all the time Maybe she needed to get out there that’s up to her it’s been more than a month and they weren’t happy for over a year so she has basically been waiting for over a year to get out there

[@wanjiruchelagat6565]

Thought the same when she said she's been single for 45 days...not enough to recover but more power to her!!

[@barna_de]

Some people blush when complimented! That's their nature.

[@jjyyuu757]

Amelie Desroches maybe she didn’t liked him

[@hopedean6424]

A lot of people cover their face when complimented...

[@Skenderbeuismyhero]

I'm straight and I would much rather hang out with him than go on a date with her.

[@jonathanknight8702]

that's a great way of putting it. Would love to hang out with this dude in the city sometime.

[@piellamp]

haha bro me too!:p

[@TheMlevis]

“I have a thing for photographers...I told him I don’t like having pictures taken”

[@user-is5zq3ru4c]

Megan Levis I don’t really like here oops

[@TheMlevis]

Jeune Fille I didn’t either! Especially once she contradicted herself. If you want to date a photographer, you need to be open to the idea that they want to take photos of you 🙄

[@a3r0m3]

@@TheMlevis As a photographer I approve this message.

[@hopedean6424]

Maybe she just likes the way they look at things?

[@sunrises8760]

I mean she did JUST meet the dude. So ofc she wouldn't want him to have a pic of her

[@BeaTheBear28]

something about her just.. doesn't sit well with me

[@arashaadd]

Hoping for those like hey lol

[@iliadovas6592]

she’s way too into herself. she has an egotistical/self-centered vibe to her.

[@sunnycan629]

Reminded me of Christian Bale in American Psycho for some reason.

[@BeaTheBear28]

@@iliadovas6592 that's it !!

[@BeaTheBear28]

@@sunnycan629 that's it too !!

[@noahobuya]

Julian is so respectful except for the picture thing, but i feel that ashley might not have asked him to stop bcuz with the way he was always catering to her i’m pretty sure he would’ve stopped when asked. I just think Ashley tried to give off vibes that she wanted him to stop and he didn’t pick them up.

[@jordinapigrau4769]

She literally did so, right at the beginning

[@mavee2202]

Photographer impulses? Lol

[@kembaaaalexander2623]

@@mavee2202 word lol, my bf hates his picture taken but when you see that angle it just feels perfect and it feels like the person will be happy with it too

[@maymay2769]

@@jordinapigrau4769 Right? lol she literally said she'd prefer he didn't and did anyway. No wonder this dudes still single.

[@omfglongbeach]

8:12 If she was thinking she didn't want her picture taken, I don't see it. She's posing and smiling.

[@vartika1931]

Idkwhy but Ashley doesn't give me good vibes.

[@kristaearle5041]

Matej Velican nj

[@msadeyes]

lmao frrrr

[@jarelybest]

Wait what made her not as genuine? I feel like I’m missing something haha

[@Maja-th9hn]

I didn't like her after she said she had cheated.

[@oxiary]

@@Maja-th9hn We outta here. Appa, yip yip.

[@Choccoco]

He's just gushing about how great she is and she's like ehh he's nice. She clearly has her ex on her mind and it just seemed like she had these expectations that weren't met. Her tone just seems disappointed. I really liked the guy.

[@bodieslikesheep531]

Also, she was complimenting him just not his looks. Was she supposed to lie, just cause he was more attracted to her?

[@ninjastorm540]

I honestly dont think she actually told him shes uncomfortable with his pictures. Cause he seems like the type who would immediately stop if he heard that. Even she says how kind he is so isnt weird that he would ignore her with that? i think she never told him and or just made off handed signs he didnt catch and wasnt straight up. In the end of the day I think she was looking for an excuse not to seem shallow. The bottom line was she wasnt into him physically so didnt give him a chance.

[@margaritam.9118]

Crimea River yeah, keep dreaming you incels

[@asliyase]

Didn’t really vibe with the girl for some reason but good video concept. Only issue with the guy was that he took her pics after she said she did not like that.

[@fluffypancakes146]

yeaaaaaaaaaah dude creep AF his reply to her when she texted that she just wanted to friends was a gif OF HER drinking???? jesus christ cringe af he gives stalker serial killer vibes w that one

[@frostedgraves6059]

@@fluffypancakes146 Maybe it was like yay let's drink to being friends

[@Myztyrio]

Frosted Graves that would be the reasonable way to look at it. But apparently the average person is not reasonable.

[@savannahsmith5401]

fluffy pancakes yeah it really sounds creepy. But you gotta remember that he’s a photographer. It’s literally his passion in life. I think that makes it a little less creepy

[@SerenaN724]

@@fluffypancakes146 when did she say he did that ?

[@denavasili1980]

This guy will find someone who will appreciate all of that and not just see him as a friend. He seems great. Good luck to both of them.

[@kuunami]

Unfortunately in the current social environment he's more likely to find people who will exploit his good nature.

[@sethangel4334]

Her: "I wasn't hungry, I wanted a drink." Also Her: "He kept giving me alcohol."

[@Wtb_skill]

@Dr.'sorders Unfortunetly for him, not him.

[@shalalalakissdegirl]

'a drink' vs enough to be hungover... different things....

[@missgiroud97]

Also, if you are not hungry and want a drink say it!!

[@m0here239]

She’s just soooooo cold, but says nice things, I’m confused by her lol

[@Jahnks]

Fake

[@Kate-mp3du]

She's at her workplace

[@uhCaFah]

Just imagine how differently she talked to her friends about him as opposed to on the camera.

[@azariahk4991]

Proof that nice guys finish last

[@joerossi7936]

That sums up most white women XD

[@MrCupcakeMonkey]

She saw what he looked like on hinge if she doesn't find him attractive why'd she match in the first place??

[@nevaehwilliams6173]

Honestly!!

[@fluffypancakes146]

hes a photographer and she wanted free photos lol

[@user-hr8es7gx8c]

or she just wanted to be like "lol im wayy outta ur league 💅"

[@IsabelMeyer]

People are way different in person ... like sometimes in person you’re just not into it

[@MonaLisaFaceMusic]

Maybe him being pushy with taking her photos made him less attractive. That always happens to me lol!

[@PrettyPinkPeacock]

It's quite obvious she wanted the video content more than the date with this guy. Also he looks very warm. He seems nice and so does she really but definitely not a real match.

[@fluffypancakes146]

cant believe no one thinks this dude is creepy af... taking photos of her constantly throughout the night despite her refusual of it....then he sends her a gif of HER drinking after she tells him that she just wants to be friends. thats gross

[@azlifmohamed8804]

@@fluffypancakes146 oh really! But when he sends the photos to her she likes it and thinks it makes her beautiful. He probably was confident that she'd like his photos so although it was a risky move he did it and she seems have no problem with it.

[@TheHeadincharge]

fluffy pancakes I mean, it doesn’t seem odd that he so often deferred to what she wanted when talking about the kiss and future dates but disregarded her saying no about the pictures? My guess is she gave a nervous laugh when he asked to take the photo and didn’t make it clear that she didn’t want her photo taken. I’ve seen that happen before and it’s hard to tell whether the person is simply bashful or actually doesn’t want the photo.

[@mariamiamonteleone]

PrettyPinkPeacock very obvious!

[@dermenschnr5221]

@@fluffypancakes146 She never said no to the photos. "then he sends her a gif of HER drinking after she tells him that she just wants to be friends" Never happened. The video just states that they talked after the date but it never reveals if she said it before or after. Also, it's not a gif of "HER" but a gif of them and the moment and it's not "gross". You only think of it as gross because you are biased.

[@mollyhunter6239]

You’re gonna get frustrated if you wanna date photographers without getting your picture taken.

[@philosopherkurdmuffins9835]

Yeah lol. I grew up with photographers and artists. That was just a common occurrence. I thought loving pictures and taking pictures was just normal. Of course they generally asked to take my photo but I love getting my photo taken so I have no issue with it. I hate people who don’t like their picture getting taken or don’t want their picture taken but they don’t say anything about it. If you have an issue, speak up.

[@GFhasaportfolio]

He was so sweet! At the end he goes, "Thanks so much guys, have a nice day"

[@deborahvigh6019]

did anyone catch how she said she HAD cheated before? idk, something about her gives me off vibes.

[@mickey9421]

deb! I think its good that she admits it but I don’t think its a good idea to pair a cheater with a non-cheater, yknow? He seems really nice and he doesn’t deserve to be cheated on, no one does.

[@juliannaevierivera]

I mean I have cheated before, almost 7 years ago now. Now I’ve been with my husband for 5 years and would never even consider cheating on him for a second. Besides the fact that previously cheating doesn’t mean anything about current faithfulness, she did give me off vibes as well.

[@creeisaacson]

Julianna Rivera Same. I have cheated before when I was like 18 years old and it ruined my life and the other persons completely so I would never ever do it again. And of course I was black out drunk but that’s no excuse. I don’t agree with once a cheater always a cheater.

[@mariamiamonteleone]

deb! Literally! She’s like I’m always in love with people and then is like oh yeah I cheated .. like....

[@2927challenger]

@@juliannaevierivera a cheater is always a cheater

[@thatho3c0ri]

He’s such a kind soul, she doesn’t deserve him.

[@cravingsugakookies9178]

Ashley: I’ve been single for 45 days sis you aren’t over your ex if you are counting the days since your split

[@Fae_van]

Beetch! That's what i said!! Lmao 😂

[@nielsliljedahlchristensen4924]

Maybe she's good at calculating. I could do the same. 45 days is 6 weeks and 3 days, it's pretty easy

[@TheJathys]

45 days, 6 hours, 28 minutes. And 14 seconds. I'm over it. Really.

[@jetleb]

She's def not out of his league in terms of looks. However, in terms of personality, i think he is def out of her league.

[@Kalfior97]

yup i wouldn't date her at all

[@nielsliljedahlchristensen4924]

Ofc she is. Not that it matters. And yes, he is definitely the nicer of the two.

[@BigSam63]

Mmmm she is definitely ahead of him in the looks department. He is a much nicer person though.

[@jeannevallian66]

100% agree

[@foozoeku]

I feel like I've been both the Julian and the Ashley on a date. Who else is with me?

[@sarahdangerrr]

foozoeku yesss!

[@kelvinize]

@@montythibault2103 I've never been on a date dude

[@travelingurlbrittyb6043]

He killed the date after the first pic. If a girl says no it's noooooooo!

[@ss5187]

I don't think that's what killed the date, she didn't find him attractive. Also, hes a photographer, yeah he shouldn't of taken her picture but I don't think it's THAT big of a deal lol. He was respectful in every other way it seems.

[@---gi4sr]

just clicked the vid and I thought this comment said he killed her after 💀

[@halo1011998]

The pics should be left further into a relationship especially if she said no

[@fluffypancakes146]

he killed the first date by taking too many photos of her when she told him no-hes a creep for S U R E

[@LoEaston]

@@---gi4sr bro I'm actually scrEAMING

[@naomi-gu1gh]

"So out of my league" "He seemed... nice." OOF

[@sarahjean1443]

Ashley: *has a thing for photographers* Also Ashley: “I didn’t like that my picture was taken.”

[@misschipskylark]

It’s interesting to me that he found her so authentic, personally I thought she was pretty disingenuous lol..

[@ballislife9092]

I found her pretty honest and straight forward. Like she hesitate in her answers.

[@thenewclassic4]

I mean she did say that she cheated before so..

[@misschipskylark]

@@thenewclassic4 yes she did.. i don't think i understand your point?

[@thenewclassic4]

@@misschipskylark Well that's being a tad bit too authentic if you ask me

[@hd-xc2lz]

She may be very different off camera, most people are.

[@lmbanzwa]

Hoping they make this a series... so interesting

[@bigvee401]

This dude had a lucky escape, there's something a bit off about her.

[@jonathanknight8702]

jack masters not just a bit off. Way off.

[@Swaffyz]

Never date someone who has cheated, that will always be a rule of mine

[@roninbushida1180]

Yessir

[@honeykadkad5321]

Ethan Swaffer once a cheater, always a cheater they never change 🙄

[@bottomenergy6152]

At least She didn't lie(I still agree through)

[@dereka64]

This is why I don't understand homewreckers. They're knowingly dating a guy they 100% know is a cheater, yet somehow think he'll be faithful to HER, and HER alone? WTF?

[@dereka64]

@K Dubbs Sure, I hear yeah, but in that case your goal isn't a relationship, it's thrillseeking.

[@sarah2106pie]

How attracted are you to them? Julian: 5 Ashley: 1... Me: AND I OOP-

[@cecefernandes5657]

For real I felt that

[@User-to7nb]

Also felt that

[@elliuse5082]

Literally me💀

[@IntimateWisdom]

Sarah Pie I feel for him 😕she cold 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@DustyPetals]

I’m stone cold I’d say 0 if I went on a date with an ugly person.

[@happystanner1280]

"I don't really have a type, I'd say human"

[@blitz4630]

same I have no type either, I’d say alien

[@Jlpstrtkng]

"Dogs are usually my go to, but wooly mammoths and floor mops also rank up there"

[@carolinebeth5630]

Can I just say..I REALLY LIKE HIM. He is super likeable.

[@tarabecares3323]

Whenever someone is not physically attracted to a person, they will always say how that person has "a great personality"

[@faiths5791]

I vibed with her 100%. She just got out of a relationship and she has her guard up, she had some really nice things to say about him, not all women have a naturally warm presence and there's nothing wrong with that!

[@dreamersjournal]

faith s yesss was searching for a comment I could agree with!

[@timon20061995]

Nothing wrong doesn't mean you wouldn't get judge. Still, if u r not out of relationship why wish ppl time?

[@liamwaldrum6059]

True, there's a few things that seem off to me, mainly the fact she matched with him on "hinge" which I imagine is like tinder, therefore she knew what he looked like beforehand, yet made it clear she didn't find him attractive. Also one of his first lines was "we matched on hinge and I got roped into this" My guess - she wants her ex back, this is a very public way to appear "over him" to spark jealousy. Just my 2 cents though

[@pinascoladas9775]

I dont kow but it feels like she can be very cruel not sure why that comes to my mind.

[@pinascoladas9775]

@@liamwaldrum6059 i think you are right.

[@aliyah7216]

0:11 😂😂 who has a 'thing' for photographers?? ''Oh , i just love the way you look through that lense'' 😂

[@leahkristine]

Had to comment bc of your name!!

[@betty3910]

I do

[@XusernamegoeshereX]

Shallow people who want free professional profile pictures, THAT's WHO. lol

[@jeannevallian66]

Idk why y’all are acting like this man isn’t attractive. I thought he was really handsome, and his vibe is immaculate

[@LilJay03]

oh no. "Hard to keep a hold of". "I love everyone really quickly". trying to date 45 days out of a year long relationship. oh no. Naaaaaaaah. That's a flag and a half.

[@shitlista4283]

He's so cool, but she's a bit obnoxious. I don't think she was out of his league at all.

[@fluffypancakes146]

he was creepy af and gross-tho i didnt much care for her either

[@tayahrayne4151]

fluffy pancakes he was only creepy for the picture taking thing but he isn’t gross. i have to disagree. he seemed genuine, warm hearted, and down to earth honestly.

[@hc2159]

@@fluffypancakes146 he was the opposite of creepy or gross! He respected however she wanted to be treated and didn't seem pushy

[@lesbean538]

She is out of his league looks wise. Also he's a creep for taking pics of her even though she said no.

[@Essays4College]

men just judge by looks

[@yomnaabdelhady1619]

45 days?!!

[@kookoo4pandas]

its very specific..

[@a.j.2362]

@@kookoo4pandas She's counting the days which means she isn't over it!!

[@tn15_]

That girl gives me psychopath vibes

[@kartoffelsalatmitzwiebeln1234]

Haha

[@filmgirlLisa]

I LOVE these kinds of videos! I LOVE! that they weren't compatible but were super nice and respectful to each other. I really appreciate the positivity.

[@j934]

Nelly Furtado? She lied to you, hon.

[@monkiram]

I see it

[@rachelnation2021]

She looks just like her what are you on? 😂

[@brodcastization]

Are you blind?

[@casiesilverman]

Hahaha maybe a young Demi Moore

[@mattRRgraham1996]

I was thinking Bryce Dallas Howard

[@thebellafonte]

Julian seems like such a gentleman and deferred to her judgment several times. Dude even told the video crew “have a nice day” at the end. It’s hard to reconcile that with him photographing her repeatedly if she said she’d prefer that he didn’t. Wondering if there’s more to the story...

[@fluffypancakes146]

how bout his reply of a gif of her when she told him that she just wanted to be friends? lol come on the dude is a straight creep for sure

[@filmgirlLisa]

@@fluffypancakes146 but she liked it tho.

[@maribel435]

When she said Julian looked like a curly haired comedian, I thought she was gonna say Rob Schneider 🤣🤣

[@colbi2350]

He does

[@chelsea2059]

I thought she was gonna say Paul Rudd lol 😂

[@alexandrasalas1198]

Me too! JAJAJA

[@DeclanTrippier419]

"I've been single for 45 days" Me: ight imma head out

[@2m7b5]

The fact that she counts the number of days she's been single seems like an immediate red flag.

[@coconutsciencegirl9232]

"he had a beautiful ...personality" OUCH!

[@senshai1267]

I think Ashley's confidence and the spontaneity with which she answered "yes"...to the question ..."Have you ever cheated ?". Kinda having me on the wrong vibes.

[@ench56]

First red flag - she’s cheated before. Like how the video fast forwarded past that. 2nd red flag - she would rather have more money than time. 3rd red flag - prefers somebody older.

[@44RisingSun44]

4th red flag- calls herself "captivating"

[@MrJumpingdude]

#1 gotta agree. But #2, to be fair some people have a tougher time making ends meet, especially if you live in NYC like these people do, so even though you shouldn’t value money above all, sometimes a person really needs money more than time at a certain point in his/her life

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

Why is preferring someone older a red flag? I thought women generally prefer that? or does that tie in with the money thing?

[@ItsDarkRightNow]

@@SWIFTzTrigger daddy issues

[@tinkerbelle143]

Why would third be a red flag

[@brigh12]

I want to see him go on another date! I thought he was so great! I too would feel uncomfortable with someone taking my photo on the first date, but that's because it feels too intimate. I bet as a photographer he doesn't see it as super intimate anymore because he does it so often. And the fact that she felt beautiful when he sent her the photos after says A LOT. It means he really DID see something beautiful to capture at that moment.

[@hannahl3935]

I don't like when people take my photo either, because it's really awkward having to explain why I don't show up in them.

[@dinahsaur8024]

Hannah L 💀💀💀*laughs in darkskin*

[@MinuteMirror]

@@dinahsaur8024 dark skinned ppl *handshake emoji* vampires

[@MaelysGaming]

Her: "I don't go to dates very often" Her again: "I dated a lot of photographers" SHE JUST WANTS FREE PHOTOGRAPHY

[@Lexx2k]

Probably just likes the attention and that's it.

[@katiefair6959]

Loves photographers “I didn’t like my picture being taken” Chose him on online dating app “I don’t think he is attractive” Had a fun date according to her words “gives low rating on date” Wtf girl. Get your priorities straight.

[@sarahf2042]

if you know exactly how many days you've been single, it's too soon

[@cait.tama1]

She called herself captivating lol okay girl calm down

[@Emcee99]

Women should be allowed to compliment themselves! I think it’s really important to look at why we instinctively jump to deride a woman who displays a good amount of confidence

[@jennshar67]

@@Emcee99 i dont think it is a gender thing. if a guy said the same thing I'd be like "calm down". It just sends a bad vibe for that to be your answer.

[@monkiram]

@@jennshar67 I agree. I think if a guy said it, I'd be less surprised because I feel like guys are generally more likely to compliment themselves and be cocky, but I'd still find it uncomfortable and a big turn off.

[@grimjowjaggerjak]

@@Emcee99 I ve never seen a dude calling himslf captivating..

[@cait.tama1]

Emily Chang I’m not saying she shouldn’t feel confident or compliment herself, but calling herself “captivating” is just kind of obnoxious to me lol.

[@lm-ih4et]

I love this please do more of these videos! Super interesting💁🏽‍♀️

[@jaravind5050]

Ashely is giving off "those" vibes but I appreciate that she is super blunt about things. She has high standards and I think that's awesome. If only she hadn't cheated, I would have liked her a lot more.

[@Chickentenddies]

Loved his humor Loved his personality Loved his values Friend zoned Lesson: looks definitely matter

[@jonathanknight8702]

of course they do?

[@shalalalakissdegirl]

hold up, she said she liked the photo of him with a baby, she likes kids. and right after he said he ended his relationship due to not wanting kids. That probably came up in one of their many 'conversations about life'. She sounds like a woman who knows what she wants, just cuz she's not as whimsical as he is doesn't make her a bully.

[@isaaaaa6464]

He’s so kind he’ll find someone perfect I could tell, and she’s beautiful

[@ashleynyangi1996]

julian gave me pornstash from oitnb vibes

[@ameliakrinke3492]

ashley yeah but like wayyyy nicer

[@prince_sach50]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jendoubitakwa578]

Such a respectful gentleman with an amazing personality, beautifil looks and oustanding mindset 😍 genuinly, any woman would be lucky to have him.

[@LB-tu2fk]

"She's way out of my league" "He seems nice" Oof, I felt that. *gets flashbacks of pain* lol

[@chloelaw5341]

i think just based on the answers the guy seems to be a lot of introspective with a lot of self awareness. He knows what he likes. The girl on the other hand gives off answers that are vague, which is fine but they are answered in a way where it's almost like she doesn't actually know herself. You know it wasn't going to pan out the second the answer for Time or Money? came out.

[@Ariel_dorsey]

“Neither here nor there” “Civic duty” Who knew fries were so debatable?

[@willlearn8225]

I'm a fries hater but I wouldn't even care if someone else order them.

[@Liljordyyy619]

Dude seemed so genuine and down to earth I wish he could have another video like this with another girl that he deserves more than ashley

[@TheVividSparks]

He seems like a really nice and outgoing guy; seems happy too. Would love to have a friend like him.

[@Wtb_skill]

His advice to the other dude: "be more physically attractive as this is the most important part".

[@PinkKissedLips]

Him: honest Her: Scripted

[@earthsou111]

he gives off virgo vibes with possibly a gemini moon and she gives off charming libra vibes with any water moon placement (pisces, scorpio, cancer) mainly scorpio because her past relationships seem to have deeply effected her emotionally ❤️ i love trying to read people lmao but yeah they definitely wouldn’t have worked out two totally different vibes.

[@olugboyeopeyemi2428]

Aww this comment deserved more attention I'm your first like Can you read me??👸🏽

[@cassandrabuitron427]

They're both honest, strong, respectful people. They did not click. They owe each other nothing except respect so this was honestly nice to see.

[@Antoninasphereya]

They're incompatible!

[@morcchoppa]

He was so respectful... wow. Beautiful personality both of them. 💛 good luck to both.

[@fluffypancakes146]

yeah he sure respected her when he kept taking photos of her after she told him not to

[@filmgirlLisa]

@@fluffypancakes146 He might've just been fascinated with how she looked and you never know she might not have been that forceful when she said it. She might not have even made it clear.

[@Karma-hy6ki]

She matched with him for a free date, compliments to boost her ego, and to make this video which would get her more followers and possibly someone that she would like

[@33doglover1]

Honestly, to me, the girl seems really nice and kind-hearted. She sounded like she was a little uncomfortable at the beginning of the date, which seems completely fair considering she mentioned she didn't go out on dates a lot and most people are a bit nervous on the first date. I'm not seeing where people are saying she seemed cold, and when she acknowledged she cheated she didn't sound proud more that she was just owning up to it.

[@dakotac180]

Idk about her... He seems great but lil too many pics.

[@dMinaj11]

The picture thing would of turned me off.

[@normagruden]

She's just honest, would you want her to lie? She expressed not being into hm in a romantic way in the nicest way anyone could do.

[@kyledampier]

“I don’t really have a type, i would say human.” Literally every guy ever.

[@lonewaer]

I wonder why her last relationship didn't last. Hmmmm… In the pre-date interview she displays so many red flags that are enough to make a decision on dating her or not.

[@kelvinize]

Totally agree bro

[@dereka64]

Only took two red flags for me. 1) She's a cheater 2) She apparently has no remorse about it

[@jadabolar410]

How do you have a thing for photographers but don’t like getting pics taken?? That’s whut they do honey

[@daniellewhite168]

LoL not every photographer is a portrait photographer

[@DarkshadeMusic]

Julian's maturity clearly shows and I hugely appreciate her straightforwardness. There are no losers here.

[@AquibA]

Dude showed how to be a winner to a pseudo-rejection. Thank you man!

[@librababy6569]

if you’re wondering why she seemed obnoxious it’s because she grew up in northern virginia

[@iLUVtz]

THANK U.

[@a.j.2362]

Lol stop dissing us

[@cornhole9165]

im a guy and would definitely hangout with the homie, he looks like the really nice guy that is bad at picking relationships.

[@claudiabiddle4259]

this type of video is so fascinating and well edited! more please!!!

[@CuTeChicKen]

“I have a thing for photographers...I told him I don’t like having pictures taken” -Ashley 2019

[@friedsquid8748]

nobody: Ashley: Friends, friends, friends!!!

[@evix5308]

His pictures are freaking beautiful!!!

[@michalangelo943]

The biggest mistake what you can do on a date is to give the woman the feeling that she is super pretty and perfect. Then she gets the feeling that she is too good for him

[@therealmvp5082]

Julian’s a king👑 we must protect him