Interviewing My Divorced Parents with Mom and Dad

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[@debbiebeveridge1883]

Thanks for having us on your podcast. Of course I thought of more things I could have said after it was done, but you know how much we love and support you! We’re so lucky to have such awesome daughters! We couldn’t be more proud of you!❤

[@shakiradd623]

This is so cute! You did a wonderful job don't worry about it.

[@willowtree_28]

Shannon is a fantastic role model for queer people and you are a fantastic role model for all the parents of queer people! Thank you!

[@KirstenBelmont]

you were great, deb 🖤 thank you for sharing x

[@tloves2eat]

Deb you are a great mom and an inspiration

[@mdalonges4591]

You did a great job! Loved this episode!!!❤

[@cortadoforhere]

33:55 your Dad trying to take up space when your mom was uncomfortable and didn't want the attention on her IS LOVE. ❤People think the ultimate love has to be romantic, but isn't this it? 💛

[@michellerbn]

When your dad said, “you became my little Shannon again” and your mom was crying. I was sobbbbbinggg idk why but this felt healing for me to watch. I dont have these type of parents and to see it happen on screen to someone I’ve watched for over 10 years? It was really cool. Thanks for having them on ❤

[@bumper-t3c]

"I JUST WANT YOU TO LIKE MY HAT" -Shannon, Shannon's dad, Tom Cruise

[@willowtree_28]

This made me laugh so hard!

[@bruadarach9758]

😂 This also slightly reminded me of this amazing line in The West Wing when one of the epic slow-burn couples are on the cusp of happiness but are still struggling to communicate until one says “I JUST WANT US TO TALK… because I like the sound of your voice”

[@heyamate771]

Omg I cried like 6 times. Your mum is an absolute gem and your dad is such a great communicator 😭 I love them both

[@jomarie47]

You snuggling in to your mom and your dad rubbing your foot makes me weep ❤ your relationship with your parents is so sweet. I’m so glad they took the time to do this with you and allowed you to record it

[@baanshhh]

"I used to say 'your voice sounds like a truck driver'" pleaseee ahaha! Your mom is so unknowingly funny. And your dad seems a very thoughtful person. They're both lovely and my gooood, at the end I was in tears. Also, Shan I've been following you for 10 years and I know it's stupid but having you in Venice, my city, made me feel a bit emotional. You've really helped me so much throughout the years, so thank you 💛

[@cantsleeeep]

When your dad told what happened with the two girls in Italy and Ireland, I cried with joy. Also when these things happen so far away from where you live, where you grow up etc..isn't it crazy? I mean Shannon you really have helped people from all over the world. And in your parents' eyes there is so much pride, they are really two beautiful people, full of respect and love. I don't know, this episode filled my heart, I needed it ❤

[@Vicki778]

SHANNON YOUR MUM IS MAKING ME CRY. This was such an important conversation to show. Thank you the Bevs ♥️

[@3Oh3metrostation]

Literally tearing up towards the end along with her

[@Vicki778]

It was so beautiful and validating. I just messaged my mum and sister to ask similar questions and my mum gave me the sweetest response 🫶🏻

[@3Oh3metrostation]

@@Vicki778 awwww 🫶

[@certifiedtrashh]

one of my favorite episodes, seeing you interact with your parents and their relationship while being divorced… hits really close to home, thank you sm sm 😭

[@bamsaereplay]

It truly genuinely warms my heart to see how your parents see you and talk about you and always support you in your journey

[@someonesomehow379]

it very healing to hear shannon’s dad be this wholesome! thank u for this 58:40

[@ocampomc]

I am also a gay girl, I am from Colombia and my city is very conservative. I really came out of the closet because my relationship with my first girlfriend ended and I was so depressed that I had to ask them for help, I needed it. For my parents to accept that I am gay was not very easy, but I feel very happy that I had the courage to say it, because a few months later my mother passed away. I don't think I would have been able to get over not telling them before she left. And a big part of my courage to come out came from finding you on the internet and learning from you. I never write comments on KZbin videos, but listening to this episode with your parents was really beautiful, it helped me heal. Thank you so much for what you do and thank you so much to your parents for opening their hearts and come out on your podcast ❤

[@emilyfreakingr]

being from a family where my dad doesn’t ever voice or show emotions and feelings, i admire so much how willing your dad is to talk about his feelings 😭 there’s so many different forms of family and love and it’s so nice to see your parents creating their own dynamic that works for them. so many people go their whole lives without having a conversation like this with their parents, this was my fav episode i’ve watched of the pod ❤️

[@ginamariedemeo]

this convo is genuinely making me so emotional

[@goldbluetiger]

I just got distracted by the fact that there's no hat 🙂

[@homeland1128]

you know shiz's real when there's not even a hat on 😭

[@Torsee]

You get to see her eyes more! 😊 Just gorgeous!

[@Miami843]

I’m distracted by her fathers foot moving, constantly 🫠 😂

[@NanceN_12]

😮 that’s right! i didn’t even notice. Lol

[@anger101]

Crying through the end in solidarity with Deb. It’s so healing seeing parents who are accepting, it’s really beautiful.

[@Dopekinss]

Baby gay here, my mom is very supportive my dad on the other hand is still coming around to the idea. Watching this episode gave me hope that one day we can sit around and have an open, accepting, loving conversation like this. Thank you

[@Alice-tr5fq]

I'm usually a silent listener but I need to say, this whole episode made me cry, as a person with parents who are not this accepting it was healing to watch and I wish you and them the best :')

[@Ditzn]

What your dad said about you was so special and so honest - you really do help so many of us by creating this podcast, holding space for people and sharing your heart.. Thank you, Shannon!❤

[@ellouisebadger849]

So cute the dad saying "my Shannon came back" 😢❤

[@mariec5295]

I think this might be my favourite exes and o‘s episode wow, Shannon why are your parents so adorable???

[@jessicarasweiler]

I love that your sister called your mother out “would it kill ya to admit you like to hang out with dad?” lol they’re each others person, more than anything their friendship is beautiful. Takes time and they put in the work forsure. I’ve been following you since the twitch days. Ive never commented and never out myself out there. I’ve loved this episode the most. You are a product of your parents. Deb might not be as nurturing, but as we’ve come to discover it’s her upbringing. At the same time, she’s a softy, tearing up every few minutes. She is nurturing of course but as a professional haha shes a pediatric nurse! (I am too) But we can be a little colder than some think, we kinda have to be. Your dad is super sensitive and nurturing, he’s adorable. Reminds me so much of my dad! The beautiful balance they create in your lives is a glowing example of opposites attracting! Thank you so so so much to your parents for putting themselves out there and being vulnerable. I appreciate this, them, and you! Happy almost pride from Long Island NY! Now THIS is Living!!! 🏳️‍🌈👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 And congrats to your sister! Are u going to be an aunt soon?? 😂❤😊

[@twildabuckingham]

Hahah ❤❤❤ this is such a funny episode. Shannon - "When was the last time you guys kissed on the lips?" Parents scoff in unison 😂

[@marcrecord3991]

Cackling at the last few seconds of the video where you are lamenting that the 'parent trap' mission still hasn't worked 😂

[@oliviayerico-piazza1550]

Hey Deb! I know you’re here :) Thank you for raising an amazing human being. We all love her so much!!! (this goes for dad too, but I’m not sure if he reads the comments)

[@debbiebeveridge1883]

Thank you for your kind comment!😘

[@kelseyeimanmusic]

“Just know if you’re going through a hard time, it might get better” is so real

[@estefaniamacias6277]

Wow, your dads prayers did come true. You helped me a lot to be comfortable with who I am, when I was growing up! and I'm sure you helped a lot of people.

[@LukePetersen]

Oh how I wish every parent would be on the same page of loving your child unconditionally no matter what. It would make the world such a better place. ❤️

[@TheLong711]

This is my favourite show you've done - I love your parents, and its not hard to see where your kind hear and genuineness come from!! Thanks for sharing this with us

[@KendraLeAnn23]

totally makes sense that you are the aware/ empathetic person you are, coming from these two humans. Such a sweet podcast 🤍

[@willowtree_28]

Your mom made me cry - she is so sweet! It's lovely to see two supporting parents who love their kids no matter what and I very much agree with them about you being so very helpful to so many people all over the world. Thanks to all of you for being vulnerable and sharing!

[@Aleacim1]

I think this is one of the most (if not the most) honest, truthful and heartwarming discussion I have watched on media. I do not know you guys of course, but finished watching the video with a smile and also restored a little bit my faith in human kindness. So thanks for that. Just be kind, be good, so so simple. Much love and respect to you and your family ❤

[@FrancescaFrachi]

Your parents are great for doing this: being in front of a camera and talking about their vulnerable stuff is not easy at all, especially if you're not used to it. Thanks for creating this content!

[@e22hops90]

Your dad is sooooo right you’ve helped so many people including myself. You helped me accept myself and be happy. Tbh I don’t think I’d be here if I didn’t find your videos back then❤️

[@hshark7]

you can tell how proud of you your mom is by how many times she cries in this

[@jackiemartinez3324]

I’m crying they’re so proud of you and are full of so much love.

[@deemorales6024]

The way your dad is so proud of the way you’ve helped others in their own journeys and paths made me get a little chocked up and so emotional. I love how they’re able to express the way they are with you and support you. 💛

[@shaynicole1257]

Your parents are the best! Thanks to them both for being vulnerable and sharing their experiences and insights. I was smiling the entire time thinking my parents would have been the exact same (shout out to Deb and the crying, so relatable!). First comment ever on YT to boost this incredible episode.

[@dios.fanni1]

I could listen to your dad's voice for hours, he has a great podcast voice lol

[@carolehayden2878]

You’re Mum and Dad are both amazing! And you deserve all the love, happiness and contentment in the world 🌎🌈

[@sarahy2019]

This is my favorite podcast in the series so far

[@mybrainismagiccity]

Amazing episode, such a great example of loving your children unconditionally and working together to still be a family unit despite being separate. Appreciate your mum and dad being so open about their own lives ❤ and Shannon it’s true you’ve helped so many people around the world, you should be super proud of yourself.

[@bellebellebelle123]

This was so fkn sweet my heart could explode! Both of your parents are so kind & special in their own way - no wonder you & Casey turned out to be such good souls. Also you & your dad’s relationship is so healing to watch for a queer young person with a complicated relationship with her dad🫶🏼🥹🌈

[@fx2498]

Mama and papa beverage, you guys are doing great! 🎉🎉

[@WritingRN2]

Hi Shannon! I finished watching the episode yesterday, and you're probably past looking at comments on this episode by now. Anyhoo, just wanted to say I don't know why your parents thought this episode wouldn't be popular, because this one has jumped to the top of my list of favorite episodes of Exes and O's. It was heartwarming, funny, and delightful. Also, Fun fact: your mom is now 10x cooler to me because I am also a Registered Nurse! I don't work in Peds (it takes a special kind of nurse to do peds because I could never), I work in medical surgical care, but when your mom said she was a nurse I squealed with joy. It always happens when I see or meet someone who is a nurse! Okay, enough of that, LOL. This long comment is just basically to say your parents seem like really cool people, and I'm glad you have them in your life. And watching you and your mom cry made me cry too, because everything that your mom and dad said about you was so sweet. When your dad talked about seeing his Shannon come back once you came out and started living your life how you wanted, my heart melted. And I agree with your mom, you definitely have a tough exterior, but seem so sweet and soft on the inside. I know it's not easy being vulnerable to a world where everyone has an opinion that isn't always so nice, but I appreciate you. I turned 40 this year, but after MANY years of feeling attraction to women (and trying to brush it off), last year was the first time in my life that I finally accepted that I am queer, and you have no idea the impact your content has had on my life. When I accepted that I am bisexual last year, I struggled (I still am honestly) with the fact that I may face being shunned by the queer community for not being queer enough, while being shunned by the straight community for being queer. I worry that I won't be welcomed fully by the community, but I am so thankful you're so gentle and kind to bisexual members of the community. You made me feel welcome. I am proud to be a friend of Dorothy, and a supporter of Shannon Beveridge. "Love you so much!"

[@The-Labbed-Life]

Hi Shannon, Haven't listened yet but wanted to share a message of gratitude. I discovered you at the beginning of the year when I realised I was just gay and not bi, it was really hard for me to digest. I've been listening to your experience as it helped me understand my journey a lot. I'm really happy to have discovered your content because it made it so much easier for me :) Among all your videos, 'A letter from my mom to you' helped me immensely. I really needed to hear that from a mom and have listened to it several times, It was like receiving a hug through words and I love your mom for sharing these beautiful words. Yesterday, I finally came out to my mom at 27 after finally accepting myself. That was the scariest shit I've ever done. It's too soon to tell now but I think It will be okay. She needs time to process and I was prepared for that when I heard your mom's point of view. so Thank you a lot and big hugs to Madame Beveridge. Anyway, I'm really grateful and happy to follow what you do. You and your mom are part of my own journey and I just wanted to say thank you ☺ I wish you the best in your life and hope I can meet you all one day to say a real thank you in real life hehe Nadia After watching: your parents are so sweet! We can see your dad is very caring throughout the whole video making sure you're good haha and your mom doesn't need to be introduced anymore! loved the interview hehe

[@debbiebeveridge1883]

That’s so sweet of you to share your story. I hope it all goes really well for you. ❤

[@The-Labbed-Life]

@@debbiebeveridge1883 Thank you Madame Beveridge! ☺Really appreciate the response, I think time will help 🙏 Shannon is very lucky to have you as her mom, we can see that she became a really great person!

[@debbiebeveridge1883]

Thank you! ❤

[@elenaandrada709]

how can they be so cute? love this! so cool to hear their life stories

[@freyamary2072]

seeing shannon and debbie so close while jim lovingly holds shannon’s foot… you have a beautiful thing going on bevs

[@Rod17]

I actually really enjoyed this episode, loved how transparent and supportive both your parents are. Thanks for the new episode 🙏🏽

[@marialouise8380]

This is my favourite podcast episode that you have done and probably that I have seen ever tbh. The vulnerability and honesty and love that was emitting out of you all was so touching and heartwarming. Thank you for sharing this with us, what a gift you are Shannon and your parents are so special too. They have set a wonderful example of unconditional love for your children which I don’t often see when it comes to Christian’s and queerness. So thank you so much for this 💕💕

[@dianarodriguez8719]

"whenever you did come out, my Shannon came back"... That is the sweetest thing ever ❤

[@gabiwatanabe9288]

This was one of the best podcast I ever saw. Your relationship with your parents is so adorable, I hope one day do this with my parents. Love from Brazil. 🇧🇷

[@mon-6416]

Loved this episode! It's always a treat to see Debbie (she's so sweet and always makes me smile!) and it was great to meet your dad. I second what your dad said at the end! You've helped so many people & you continue to do so with your honesty, courage, and curiosity. My favorite episode by far ❤️

[@catherinekochanski9190]

Crying through this whole thing.. but almost died at the cut and your dad is just rubbing your feet😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@yvves414]

they facts that jim sent flowers to your mom to claim her as his so that the other guy would see them is ICONIC!

[@reneerappspainfans]

I think your parents are so amazing for being open to do this and also I think this kind of conversations are very important for everyone to have with their own parents if they can. Congrats to all of you on this episode!! This was wonderful!! 💖

[@dandelion2583]

your parents seem so so genuinely sweet and kind it brings tears to my eyes 🥹

[@thepinkLADY1000]

your dad playing with your toes at the end oh my god. You’re all so wholesome and cute I can’t deal 😭🫶🏼

[@nissisagastume6029]

Here a little Guatemala girl leaving her six year life in Taiwan and going back home. Your video helped me! I’m that someone out there 😂

[@valerieaubut3055]

omg sweet little Debbie, crying through the whole thing ❤ first time i saw your dad on camera, he's so lovely! feels like he was parenting all of us through this. All the love in this video, it's healing ❤❤

[@luciaj394]

Genuinely a cute and sweet podcast. You can tell your parents are filled with a lot of love and compassion. Been watching you Shannon for awhile so every time your parents that pop up and are in your content it’s so heart warming. ❤

[@wheeeww]

Shan wearing a "I love Venezia" tshirt while sipping a spritz, I'll tell my kids they are the first elected lesbian mayor of Venice with her beautiful and cool divorced parents 😌

[@someonesomehow379]

aw u guys are so adorable!! deb and jim u guys were amazing

[@bia1875]

This episode was entirely too wholesome. Your parents are so sweet 🥹

[@re_imagineyourlife]

This was by far, the best episode of exes and o's yet. Somehow this felt like therapy for me. I realized so much about myself and my family. It was vulnerable, honest and entertaining. Thank you for being yourself! ❤

[@SolecitoMora]

Truly my favorite ep on the pod so far, they are both such loving and supportive souls. This felt so healing to listen to! ❤️

[@Jennifer.Greene]

That was so cute and wholesome! So nice of your parents to agree to be on the podcast, thank them for us for sure!

[@michelleduraan7049]

As a 37 year old recently divorced mom of 3 young kids, coming to terms with my queerness, and just trying to figure out who I am or what I want in life… your podcast (and content and message overall) has truly been a lifesaver. Bev and Jim, you have an AMAZING child (children, actually!) and you both did an incredible job with this awesome episode of the podcast ❤

[@KatyaHrytsyuk]

This is amazing! Watching this felt like a warm hug

[@victoriarowe7213]

What a healing, wholesome beautiful moment. Thank you for sharing this. Your dad is such a sweet man. Love your family.

[@karentressler9555]

Love and so impressed that at 25 your Mom not only was a RN and but also had purchased her own home and car. I'm older than her, and that kind of independence was so not the norm. It's easy to see you came from a great example of being a strong woman. Watching your Dad rub your foot about undid me. The love and respect they have for you and for each other is so apparent.

[@meggurn]

ahh!! this made me feel so warm inside :" love how your dad's so proud of you and how your mom is so proud of u too! i related to this and to the experiences you've shared in your videos... keep shining!!

[@anaobray9321]

Thanks for always being the best representation Shannon❤ I hope I can get to such a comfortable place with my own parents❤️

[@lindseyh252]

Im crying 🥲 Deb and Jim did a great job and this was such a genuinely authentic episode

[@petlog]

Your parents are SO WHOLESOME and this healed a big part of me, so thank you so much for sharing this 🙏 you can tell they are kind people and treat others with empathy and respect. The desire to help people clearly runs in the family :)

[@adrianapennacchioli7512]

Great episode! Shannon’s parents are lovely so it’s no surprise that they raised a great human!

[@shanshan54321]

This means so much! The heartfelt and open communication between the 3 of ye is so great to see

[@tianagarcia2795]

Your momma is so sweet and your pops is so intelligent I loved every single second of this ❤🥲

[@TheBestKeri12]

I never comment, but I just wanted to say that this was my absolute favourite episode so far (and ouff you’ve had some 🔥 ones)! But no seriously your parents should give themselves more credit! Thank you for bringing them on the pod!! ❤

[@madigoes]

This is SO SWEET. Your parents both really admire you❤️ I teared up. Tell them thank you for this, I’m sure it’s difficult!

[@Bonadash09]

This was such an amazing episode! Just such a different but refreshing perspective and your parents seem to have a great relationship now which is very rare. You’re all so lucky to have each other ❤

[@dawnlowe9524]

I've watched every episode you've had and this one is my favorite so far, the honesty was so real and vulnerable, thanks to your parents for being so cool!!!!!!😊😊

[@oops.itsnic8600]

Thank you Shannon! This is the best podcast I've listened to Debs and Jim we love you too, it was amazing seeing you both enjoying Life

[@jas_elizabeth]

Omg that was so beautiful and sweet. I loved it so much. This filled my soul. Thank you to all!!!

[@nadinalynch862]

It was great episode Shannon. Thanks for sharing. Your Mom doing this Podcast for you even if it was uncomfortable. I could see you Dad doing more of these🥰

[@jenniferivy8126]

This was my favorite episode. Your parents are amazing! Thanks for sharing them with us.

[@Tanya1987]

This was so wholesome. You are very lucky to have the parents you do!

[@alyssas5430]

This episode was so healing and so wholesome. Thank you for sharing! 🥰

[@Liv4SummerWind]

Love every episode but this one is the best😭 so much healing of past present future timelines

[@biancasarmento]

This was so adorable. Your parents are amazing and you guys are so cute! I got emotional watching it. It really hit home! Thank you for sharing!

[@LillieFiori]

This is so heartwarming. Thanks for sharing your family with us ❤

[@ambiedextrus6191]

Was excited for this ep! Your parents are beautiful, love them!

[@boowilcock1297]

This was so moving and amazing to hear. You really do help people, and yes, it made me cry 😢 ❤

[@elizadeva]

Been following you for a decade and so appreciate the vulnerability you continue to show, and now we see where you got it from! Proud of everyone for participating in an emotionally charged ep, it was so so good ❤

[@kaylat3721]

My favorite podcast by FARRR!!!! I laughed, I cried, I related! My parents were married 20 years before divorce and they were bad together but great parents and now best friends that call each other everyday! Love love love both of your parents! Love the way Dad talks & his views, he needs his own podcast! And mom was just adorable ❤

[@buiwwe94]

Absolutely loved this episode! Ran to watch it because of your parents. Was very much looking forward to it!

[@carolabringiotti6892]

you're all so precious 🥺Give a BIG BIG HUG to your dad and mum from me, they're awesome. no doubts you're their daughter❤

[@ClaireWedgeworth]

*Your parents are soulmates🥹 they are honestly goals🙏🏻💕*

[@creati.v.ic.]

Thanks for making the podcast and being so vulnerable and honest 😇