丈夫若是真正的悔改,不是嘴巴說說而已,而是行為舉止真正的有要挽回妻子,我個人覺得是應該原諒和接納,但是完全在於妻子,她若是不能夠再接受丈夫,是可以理解的,不可以強求妻子一定要接納。 一般傳統的婚姻都會是勸和不勸離的,殊不知有些丈夫是有嚴重家暴問題和不斷出軌外遇的病態人格障礙的。妻子要懂得如何尋求幫助,劃清界線,保護自己,必要時要訴之於法律。 更可怕的是宗教,用彼此"相欠債""不可以離婚"來安撫婦女,讓婦女更加的被虐待、家暴和更加的傷害,真的很可惜。 如果妳遇到了丈夫是習慣性的出軌,錯不在妳,要選擇離開,趕緊安靜的離開。若是妳夠勇敢,剛強,可以揭露他的悪行(尤其是丈夫習慣性在教會中欺騙婦女的),再離開。 很棒!夫妻復合的見證。 If the husband truly repented, not just by talking, but by deeds that truly wanted to win back his wife, I think he should be forgiven and accepted, but it all depends on the wife. If she can no longer accept her husband, it is understandable. You cannot force the wife to accept it. Generally speaking, traditional marriages encourage reconciliation but not divorce. However, some husbands have domestic violence issues, addiction and morbid personality disorders, such as NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) constant lying, cheating and sexual affairs. A wife should know how to seek help, set boundaries, protect herself, and take legal action when necessary. Some religions use "each other's debt" and "no divorce" to convince women, which makes women even more abused and hurt. It's really sad. If you have a husband who cheats on you and has affairs habitually, it is not your fault. You have to choose to leave, and leave quickly and quietly. If you are brave and strong enough, you can expose his behavior and then leave. Especially if your husband deceives and pursues women in the church habitually. Good testimony of a married couple getting back together.