Feminism: We are fighting to give women choices. Bumble: How about 1 app where only women can make the first move, for your safety. Shallon: OPPRESSION! patriarchy!
@liliopelo3 жыл бұрын
RIP MUFASA
@al0boze3 жыл бұрын
1
@christianmbabazi97223 жыл бұрын
🤦 it's like nothing can make her happy
@derekj7733 жыл бұрын
1
@kennedychewe94843 жыл бұрын
1
@germaineromero82753 жыл бұрын
she just doesn’t like that she’s not receiving hundreds of ego boosting affirmations from random strangers…
@hardplans23663 жыл бұрын
The validations on dating apps gotta stop They've all turned into BIGHEADS!!
@snowmountaingames3 жыл бұрын
Social media is redistribution of confidence from vulnarable men to low self steem woman
@snowmountaingames3 жыл бұрын
Love from brazil 🇧🇷🇧🇷
@digitalT833 жыл бұрын
nailed it
@blackestboy68713 жыл бұрын
but she doesnt have to be on bumble. 😭
@HeliumFreak3 жыл бұрын
Girl on tinder: "you better say something better than just 'hey'" Girls on bumble: "hey"
@zerowolf1373 жыл бұрын
Most times they just match and don't make a move and the time runs out.
@babufits15843 жыл бұрын
Girls on Tinder: eww, these guys are so thirsty and creepy, I'm going to Bumble... Girls on Bumble: these fuckboys are so pussy, why won't they take charge?
@zerowolf1373 жыл бұрын
@@babufits1584 Dude I know!
@SwabianClancy3 жыл бұрын
Its the same with "I like good conversations" or "I only want men who can do good conversations" and the most what they can respond is "yes", "interesting", "I don't think so" and "xD".
@tortugadave87653 жыл бұрын
The amount of thought I had to put into my opening tinder lines (had to observe something from their pics or their interests, or their bio) was exhausting. I've never been on Bumble and don't intend to be, as I find my odds are much better in personal interactions. while.
@ksbhemlee3 жыл бұрын
Let's totally ignore the fact that Bumble was created BY a woman FOR women to feel safe and empowered.
@SneakerBiscut3 жыл бұрын
They don’t want to be empowered. They want attention
@xMckingwill3 жыл бұрын
@@SneakerBiscut correction women like her are like that. Bumble is the worst app to get attention lol because women have to initiate the conversation. So bumble are for women who are a bit more invested ( even by a small margin)
@xxjjmil1753 жыл бұрын
😂
@TheBaconBasket13 жыл бұрын
And it's just 1 app, this is not the case on ANY other dating app. Lol shes ranting about an app that fulfills a niche market of woman who'd rather have a choice in who talks to them.
@williambontrager23493 жыл бұрын
That's the issue. No one or no business can be responsible for how someone feels. If you feel oppressed then confirmation bias will always assign oppression as the cause or motivation of anything difficult or uncomfortable in your life.
@thebipolarpsychonaut49842 жыл бұрын
Too emotionally risky; A bridge too far; BASIC human interaction skills; Her lack of self awareness is stunning.
@whatever3 жыл бұрын
Funnily enough, for anyone who has any experience on Bumble. Most women open with something like "Hi" or "Hey" or "How are you" (all initial messages that would be incredibly weak for men to use on other apps and likely will not result in a response) and then immediately shuck the rest of the conversational burden onto the man.
@riotking773 жыл бұрын
Weirdly high standards ladies….
@capo4ever3343 жыл бұрын
Bro 😂😂😂 so true Girl on tinder's profile: "if you open with hi or hey I'm gonna unmatch you" Same girl on bumble: "hey"
@Hoss_913 жыл бұрын
I literally just had a match on bumble that gave me the pickup line “is this a museum? because you’re a work of art!” My response was me making fun (might’ve been a bit rude from me I’ll admit) to get a laugh back. I said “how long did it take to google that line?” The reason I don’t like that is cause it’s clearly a lazy copy paste that they’ve probably said to others. Every other girl it’s something cheesy or just “heyy” or “hi”.
@trevarigoldstein99173 жыл бұрын
Facts
@noneedtoexplain3 жыл бұрын
@@Hoss_91 I mean that's better than, "heyyy" or "hiii". If the convo after that pick up line from her, whether it was copied or not, or said to others (like it really matters) is stale, wouldn't that give you your answer on the compatibility between you two?
@rupeoverlay31533 жыл бұрын
Bumble isn’t about women taking the first move really, it’s about them having some quality control. 99% of women on bumble just say hi. I’ve still got to do all the legwork.
@Raymal1003 жыл бұрын
Girls have zero game
@marchuta3263 жыл бұрын
This. They do no effort. They do not want to do the first move, it is just about control. Having men who match with her and choosing when she will allow them to talk to her. Getting validation without having men sending messages until she decides that she wants more attention. Not surprising from an app whose founding principle is that men are the only one who harass.
@aaiiddaann3 жыл бұрын
It’s about them saying “hey” as an opener and expecting you to carry the conversation because you’re a guy.
@Aliyaaaa3 жыл бұрын
Lol that's true. They will not write anything further
@akin2420023 жыл бұрын
Sounds rough. I'm married and out of the dating game since 2013. It sounds like it got really bad since then. Okaycupid was decent back then.
@philip48063 жыл бұрын
Here’s a simpler solution: if you don’t like bumble… … don’t use the app.
@adrianjohnson86753 жыл бұрын
Easy peasy lol
@spamachuchan88243 жыл бұрын
How dare you suggest a simple solution 🤣🤣🤣
@denverjohnson56403 жыл бұрын
THAT PART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@rmglover31912 жыл бұрын
Bingo! I mean, I was the silly person who watched this, but. I was like "it's ONE app - that gives YOU the power!" I was confused by this tirade.
@khushalpunjabi36612 жыл бұрын
Simpler??? You mean the simplest.
@bwilks30562 жыл бұрын
1…Yes. Mufasa affected us all. So right, Aba. People need to appreciate more of what people have versus what they don’t. Unhappiness will always exist when you’re looking out of the window at potentials or hypotheticals versus enjoying the interior.
@gr1p2473 жыл бұрын
She hasn’t noticed everything she saying about men applies directly to her. A fascinating watch in delusion and loneliness.
@joelzinho46003 жыл бұрын
30% of the population is suffering from this. Structural changes in society are abound.
@_cj__3 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I was thinking the whole time. "Is saying Hi really a big deal?" Then do it girl, if it ain't hard, do it.
@janeca11893 жыл бұрын
Actually yeah, hah .very true!
@imetmikemo1823 жыл бұрын
The Mental Gymnastics withthis one are of gold medal caliber.
@fabrice89403 жыл бұрын
It’s all stems to do with her losing leverage/power to reject and belittle men...the contempt she has for men is misandrist..
@indiascarlett3 жыл бұрын
Oppression has lost all it's meaning. The Starbucks line is long and people be calling it oppression nowadays.
@Chateau253 жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😂
@blindfaith29343 жыл бұрын
women call it oppression when theyre not granted privileges.
@nancydenicea55913 жыл бұрын
your fault for listening to and becoming strong and independent forever victims.
@TigerJPK3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾 you said it!!!
@StratumPress3 жыл бұрын
People call work itself "oppressive". We're doomed. I see mass graves in the near future.
@Mr_KingsMentality3 жыл бұрын
Some People really out here demanding power, and then reject it when they see the responsibility entailed.
@justjoshua57593 жыл бұрын
Uncle Ben out here dying for nothing.
@ItsJustFox3 жыл бұрын
@@justjoshua5759 Yoooo lmao
@ericalbright83713 жыл бұрын
@@justjoshua5759 you win bro
@Aliyaaaa3 жыл бұрын
Pretty much yes. Woman only see all the nice aspects and wanna claim that for thenselfes yet they trynna avoid all connected responsibilities. They see that among CEOs most are men but they don't see that they just worked and sacrificed more. Or that most dangerous jobs are performed by men as well. That's why I would never consider myself a feminist.
@ChevsWorld3 жыл бұрын
they want to be invited to the party just so they can turn down the invite
@chrisvthe122 Жыл бұрын
The “men are hunters” line is so funny to me because if you know anything about hunting there are different strategies to hunting. You can let the food or game come to you if you know their habitats and where they frequent, or you can set traps/bait.
@McWolfTx9 күн бұрын
Hell some people throw bombs on the water! LMFAO wait intil she learns about noodling 😂
@heheheha19973 жыл бұрын
"I'm a feminist" *Proceeds to compare women to animals that men need to go out and hunt.*
@nickb64253 жыл бұрын
I love how she says "if you don't have the BASIC human interaction skills" bitch you're the real one who ain't got those basic social skills lmao
@ameliajoel64273 жыл бұрын
The disconnect
@tmerchead13 жыл бұрын
Yep lol.Sounds misogynist.
@CelestialNerd3363 жыл бұрын
She's gonna flip when she finds out that trappers and fishermen exist...
@shathaan17633 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@seanhatton40133 жыл бұрын
“Men are hunters” I thought the whole point of feminism was to reject traditional gender-based roles and stereotypes.
@africkinamerican3 жыл бұрын
She is embedding traditional assumptions in the language of feminism. Pretty confusing.
@STR0ZZ3 жыл бұрын
No the whole point is to give wahmen all the advantages while still also being the victim
@bellanyvus1123 жыл бұрын
It’s supposed to be lol the feminism that so many women claim today is not the feminism that made up the women’s suffrage movement. There was a time it did a lot of good for people. But now it’s become something heinous & it’s only hurting people, male & female alike. They are destroying all of the progress we made, as well as reversing the flow of progress. I don’t get it. It’s like they can’t rationalize that there’s bad people that will hurt you out there, regardless of gender. To them it’s just women good, men bad. But I know women who are exactly what feminists claim all men to be. Abusers, manipulators, liars, cheaters, etc. that’s just HUMANS. Some bad, some good. That’s life lol But they can’t see this for some reason. Also, she said men who don’t make the first move are fuckboys but to me that just says they’re scared to b/c women have the power in those situations. I made the first move on my husband, turns out he’d been madly in love with me for 2 years & we’ve now been together 10 lol he’s a literal saint & the opposite of a fuck boy. So I’m just super offended by feminist rhetoric lol Plus I was raised by my father who had to be mom & dad while working full time. I’m sorry to rant, I’m just “triggered” as they say 😂 I was going to have a simple reply to your comment agreeing but the dam broke, I get pretty emotional about this topic lol The men in my life, my dad & husband, are the two people who made me who I am & they’re who I’d go to war for, the most important people in my life. But, more importantly, my “speech” is b/c I would hate for men to forget that there are SO MANY women who support you & love you as human beings & understand your struggles too. And this is all coming from a minority, liberal, woman. The radicals try to divide everything & make everyone think just b/c you’re this you have to believe that, etc. When really there’s bad people on every side & the good people would probably agree on a lot of things if we actually spoke. Hope all is well for you & I hope you don’t mind my perspective, even if it did get a little off track 😂
@simpbeforeusleep3 жыл бұрын
Only if it’s inconvenient for women. Feminism was never about equality for most people, remember that.
@Shay453 жыл бұрын
The whole point of feminism is for men & women to have social, political, and economic equality. If a woman wants to participate in traditional gender roles she can and if she doesn’t want to she doesn’t have to. Vice versa for men.
@jaykay63402 жыл бұрын
I love all her ideas of opening lines for men to use on women. These opening lines are guaranteed to get you left on read.
@oldgreenknees12053 жыл бұрын
“If they can’t start a conversation then they aren’t for me.” You just described why you wouldn’t date yourself.
@lera58723 жыл бұрын
Most underrated comment
@marlom78823 жыл бұрын
Sssshhhh if you give them logic they’ll get angrier
@kasF3 жыл бұрын
This here
@Dr.Zuess.3 жыл бұрын
All her points and frustrations are literally the everyday man's perspective lol its everything we don't like that we have to deal with .. welcome to the wonderful world of being a man trying to date !!
@thatyellowfellow3 жыл бұрын
I've used dating apps and the amount of female profiles that say, "I won't message first" or some dumb shit is too high for comfort.
@markmckinney98213 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Antinyourpant3 жыл бұрын
Bro . you ever turn a woman down when she approaches first??? They go nutty. Saying your scared and ish . if the rolls reversed we would be canceled . quick😅
@jchapfly54223 жыл бұрын
@@thatyellowfellow wild part is they’re still playing on easy mode lol
@johnnycalderon99513 жыл бұрын
@@thatyellowfellow that gets me hype up lol those r the ones u smash and dash
@bambi_gunz3 жыл бұрын
The fact that she's trashing her friends' relationships who actually got married off of Bumble just shows how delusional she is.
@TopFlightSecurity4153 жыл бұрын
and petty
@AMK5443 жыл бұрын
And bitchy
@NinjaAssassin2793 жыл бұрын
And musty
@Madonnaleilaable3 жыл бұрын
And childish
@odinanithegreat75443 жыл бұрын
And grimy
@The_raggedyman Жыл бұрын
1. Never forget
@rd2a4943 жыл бұрын
The lack of self-awareness in this woman's arguments is truly shocking.
@rogerm37083 жыл бұрын
The only app where the woman says 'hi' first. Use one of the other apps
@ixcrusha20243 жыл бұрын
If you tried to make her aware she’d try to run from hearing it
@Mr.Fridaynight3 жыл бұрын
Oblivious .
@seif99233 жыл бұрын
also her arms are so fat
@monicavava3 жыл бұрын
Makes sense why she still single.
@ilai78933 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: the creator of Bumble is a woman, Whitney Wolfe Herd. Yet Shallon STILL tries to pin the blame and responsibility on men and "the patriarchy". OKAYYYYY THERE
@ablebodied1753 жыл бұрын
That's usually the case where girls like this don't like something. "A man did this" or "How can I blame men for this?"
@Anonymys433 жыл бұрын
Wooooooooow
@ColonelDecoy3 жыл бұрын
Herd was also an executive at Tinder before resigning over sexual harassment issues, and her ventures since have been women-focused. Bumble was designed to solve some of the major problems for women in online dating. Shalon is way out of her depth.
@imetmikemo1823 жыл бұрын
Gyno-Centric brainwashing at its finest
@mgs853 жыл бұрын
Patriarchy pretty much always used as the bogeyman.
@TacseraEpSekahs3 жыл бұрын
The most terrifying thing for me is when she talks about her friend like: "She wanted a husband, she found a guy, they got married. So beta!". Bish, do you know how hard it is?! That woman was able to settle with her own requirements and also with another whole human being, and they created a family. You sitting here cannot even settle with common sense!
@TheDJGuVna3 жыл бұрын
I laughed too hard at that last line cos it's so true 🤣🤣🤣
@jeremynewsom84653 жыл бұрын
LMAO @ you can't even settle with common sense. That line took me out
@sancocho17183 жыл бұрын
Sounds more like she's resentful, and jealous.
@CoolGuyEh3 жыл бұрын
This needs to be pinned
@odinanithegreat75443 жыл бұрын
Definitely jealous, she is.
@pandawarrior218_82 жыл бұрын
18:00 I know this video is a few months old, but I'm disappointed at the lack of 1's in the comments
@angelastone48063 жыл бұрын
Hear me out here; I feel like Shalen is all butt hurt over bumble because she made an account, reached out to a dude with some weak ass game & got rejected. So now she’s all pissy saying she shouldn’t have to hit a dude up first because it didn’t work out the first time she tried🙄🤣
@texmex82203 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣for reals
@alexenglander62243 жыл бұрын
to give her credit i reckon she prolly tried more than once, but she deffo got rejected again and again, and again, and again, and again and again (i could keep going but you get the point)
@redsampler20173 жыл бұрын
maybe he wasn,t a dude with weak ass game, maybe he was a dude who had seen or heard from her before on the internet/social media...
@asdfghj13579fly3 жыл бұрын
@@redsampler2017 I think he was referring to her game as weak. She approached him with her weak ass game.
@redsampler20173 жыл бұрын
@@asdfghj13579fly oh yes i see know, , nevermind then :-) thanks
@serenadesilhout3 жыл бұрын
“That not Bumble, That’s Bumbleclot” Comedy gold from the master 😂😂😂😂😂
@thx23193 жыл бұрын
As a jamaican that cracked me the f up
@Tash_inBloom3 жыл бұрын
@@thx2319 really did
@dennisjohnson6803 жыл бұрын
@@thx2319 i 2nd that. Made bust out laughing real quick
@nothingsuspicioushere.63793 жыл бұрын
@@thx2319 bredda mi nearly dead.
@SuzetteSpeaksShow3 жыл бұрын
I literally cackled!!🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
@badshoes3 жыл бұрын
Bumble gives them a "hi" button that automatically sends a gif for a greeting. The app even removes the pressure of having to say hi. Even with that, she is complaining. Wth
@imjustsayin343 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s very low effort lol I didn’t even respond to my current boyfriend until he super liked me and I did the basic hey how are you💀
@jshooper78193 жыл бұрын
LMFAO. I stopped using that app years ago. I didn't realize that it literally gave them a "Hi" button. How fuckin lazy is that? Hahaha. Yet these Feminist Karens are still complaining. Their lack of self awareness is mind blowing.
@maineman57573 жыл бұрын
@@imjustsayin34 Recruit difficulty
@willcresson87763 жыл бұрын
@@imjustsayin34 I mean, I superliked my current GF on tinder but I'm so glad she put in more effort than that. I'm not going to assume anything about your current relationship, I try to assume most people are decent, but I will say that despite what some people (mostly women) say, men actually love effort and attention. Even the most classically masculine men.
@winxclubstellamusa3 жыл бұрын
@@willcresson8776 I’m a young woman doing some research before I start dating again. What do you mean by effort and attention? Showing interest and confirmation that I like them? Too much pre-emotive confirmation would be a turn off for most… how much is the right amount?
@RockyVegaTV2 жыл бұрын
Funny story. A friend of mine suggested I try Bumble a while back cause I told her I didn't wanna be bothered trying to talk to girls anymore. I laughed when she told me about the dynamic of how it worked cause I already knew my inbox was likely to be a ghost town. You can be smart, good looking, goal-oriented, etc. whatever. Most men still know that women rarely make the approach on AND offline. I made the account with a completely satirical bio. Probably a given, but my inbox was indeed empty AF (lol). The best thing I did was set my expectations to not expect much of anything and just have fun. This allowed me to leave with a smile and my dignity instead of disappointment and another blow to my self-esteem. Bumble like all other dating apps are a joke so I treated it exactly as such.
@meyeneetuks4680 Жыл бұрын
Bumble really is just like the rest. If your a man. Empty and no woman willing to start conversation
@monkeybeatz2713 жыл бұрын
When preach said “it’s not bumble , it’s bumbleclot” 😂😂😂
@ngashjr3 жыл бұрын
Beeirah!
@KhalliaBoo3 жыл бұрын
Had me weak 🤣🤣🤣
@BarryMikokinju3 жыл бұрын
I thought he said bombaclat
@bozzy79463 жыл бұрын
my first thought was the Portegeuse word Bumbklaat
@BarryMikokinju3 жыл бұрын
@@bozzy7946 Languages of the world unite, together we can fight the evil oppression of..French
@francescaknapp3 жыл бұрын
I made the first move for my man and even courted him cause I was aware he was a little anxious around me and unsure of himself, as soon as I continued talking to him and making him feel comfortable he became more confident and after two years we are very happily married :)
@signsofthetimes8863 жыл бұрын
Boom, you're a real one
@jollygoodgordon55803 жыл бұрын
YAHWEH Bless your marriage
@SamanthaP483 жыл бұрын
Same. (Not the “he was anxious & unsure” part) Nearly 14 yrs later, I still am. 😅 A lot of times I get the whole “that makes you masculine” line. Men deserve to feel desired & adored. Keep it up Sis.
@francescaknapp3 жыл бұрын
@@jollygoodgordon5580 thankyou thats so sweet
@anthonym8403 жыл бұрын
👍 good catch.
@Halozocker1043 жыл бұрын
Girls: "Dont hit me with no weak shit like hi or hey" Same girls om bumble: "hey"
@LT-uq6dg2 жыл бұрын
Angry, argumentative, inflated ego, and approaching 40... setting a new standard for femininity
@bigheadrhino3 жыл бұрын
Taking dating advice from someone someone who’s chronically failing at dating is like taking career advice from a homeless guy.
@tobiasreaper36503 жыл бұрын
For those of you who are unaware: getting on Bumble is 100% voluntary...
@petrri323 Жыл бұрын
Lol this. I feel like someone needs to tell her she doesn’t have to use the app if she doesn’t want to do the approaching. Like… it’s quite literally the only major dating app on the market with this system in place.
@fashionrevolution5810 Жыл бұрын
Say it LOUDER📢
@h2t263 жыл бұрын
"How do you make a woman miserable?" Give her everything she wants.
@leeyandrencube64263 жыл бұрын
This comment is so funny yet so true 😂😂💯
@marlom78823 жыл бұрын
I am so glad I gave up. I’m clinically depressed myself. I’m busy trying to stay here I have no tools to help someone (else) who will never be happy
@jackwhite82383 жыл бұрын
@@marlom7882 I'm jumping out on a limb here and please correct t me if a m wrong but I assume the reason you are depressed is because you have recently learned that you have been fed lies your entire life and can not figure out how to actually fulfill that false reality. We've all been there. But there is another side to this coin I call the poker theory. Sometimes you are dealt a shifty hand you can either fold or play anyway. However you only play when you can see a weakness in your opponent's strategy. You use that weakness against them. Maybe in past hands they bet high when they have good cards but bet weak when they want you to think they have good cards so they take minimal risk while bluffing you. So you call that bluff by bluffing them. You don't ask for the rules to be changed to suit your situation you just play the game as it is. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose. Either way there will always be a new hand as long as you keep playing. Its the exact same principle with dating. You have to see it for what it is. A game. Sometimes you have good hand most of the time its a shitty hand. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose. And sometimes you have to bullshit to get to the top. When you win a hand you don't give some of your winnings back to your opponent. Fuck him. This is your game now.
@jackwhite82383 жыл бұрын
@@marlom7882 in other words don't give up. Do accept defeat. Adapt. Restratigise. Take what worked and implement while discarding what failed. Sometimes you have to completely start over from scratch as in my case. So instead of looking for the one to marry. See how many new faces you can bust a nut on in a week. Try being indifferent instead of caring. Not out of spite but because you are a busy and fruitful man that has to much on his plate thean to be bothered with the fickle ways of females. A wise man said you will lose greatness chasing women but you will never lose women chasing greatness. And by the im sure you know by now this is the exact mentality women take towards us. They seek what is best for them as their end result your feelings and emotions be damnd.
@oscaraurelio88693 жыл бұрын
She cannot even say "hi!" and have some conversation. She had a job in this thing, and she cannot even do it right SMH.
@TheItsjakeyoShow2 жыл бұрын
I heard it come up at 3:54 MY FIANCÉ of 2 years overall 4 years, MADE THE FIRST MOVE ON ME! And we have the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had and it’s been incredible. The fact that for this ONE app, this ONE time, she doesn’t wanna reach out first???? Is actually insane to me. How you think you’ll find love that way, is beyond me
@GuyThompsonFWTX3 жыл бұрын
The whole concept of Bumble was to serve as a level of security and empowerment to women. In the past, when you open messaging up to strangers online, women received many un-solicited messages, this manages that problem. This is a stupid argument. Don't like bumble? Then don't use bumble. This is a really simple fix. Potato Head.
@Hunting4truth3 жыл бұрын
literally any othe app and she would have what she wants but she needs something to complain about shes gonna say this is all men all men want this entitlement she thinks we have on dating apps ffs
@hellohey0003 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I like bumble. I don't really see a problem here.
@DonnielSeymour3 жыл бұрын
😆
@letsgetjackdup99523 жыл бұрын
You got a point. I agree. Women who say that are just upset they aren't getting many matches with "quality men" but they aren't swiping to find quality men because they have "High standards" that is why they can't find quality men. Women like this are like the type of women who skip through all the average Joe's and go straight to the guys with muscles etc.. and complain there are not any good men. 😕
@crashzone66003 жыл бұрын
Catering to feminism will get you canceled.
@AlejandroRodriguez-ch6nq3 жыл бұрын
Girls: “I don’t like it when guys say “hi” or “hey”” Also girls on bumble: “hey” smh
@oradrive7453 жыл бұрын
Or heyyyyyyyy
@epultimast3 жыл бұрын
You guys get a "hey"?! I get "👋".
@WhoBlah213 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, I'm going to be incredibly honest here but online dating is mostly a looks game. No one actually reads bios, about me, nor any interest tags if it were, saying "hey" or "what's up" wouldn't be a trend from both men and women due to people talking about interests in the first few messages. Pick up lines and jokes almost never works because at the end of the day if she's not liking what she sees on your pfp, it's a no-go no matter how much you're channeling your inner Dave Chapelle.
@onward27273 жыл бұрын
@@WhoBlah21 America is very superficial
@onward27273 жыл бұрын
Not just America, but in America, it’s pretty bad
@CyCr0._.0rCyC3 жыл бұрын
"If she said hi on Bumble, She's ready to rumble." -Michael Buffer Also, R.I.P. Mufasa, a real 1.
@tre42483 жыл бұрын
I dont knoe what this means but i fuck with it
@biggchaka16143 жыл бұрын
💯
@nabilsyafiqjamaludin68473 жыл бұрын
He was a real 1
@thebipolarpsychonaut49842 жыл бұрын
Is your friend happy? Then what else matters? Jealousy of your friend is unbecoming.
@ahighferret3 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of Bill Burr and his wife Nia switching roles of approaching someone. Bill made the argument that women have no game. In the middle of their experiment, Nia asked why is Bill making it difficult for her to ask him out. His response: "Welcome to my world."
@RandomPerson-gf6gd3 жыл бұрын
Can you give me a link to the video?
@gametrain54393 жыл бұрын
I hope you found it, it's a great conversation they had
@RandomPerson-gf6gd3 жыл бұрын
@@gametrain5439 I haven’t, what was it called?
@gianni2062 жыл бұрын
This video’s fantastic- you have no idea
@hesseislife2 жыл бұрын
@Random Person it's definitely worth a watch; you should look it up!
@torachan233 жыл бұрын
Never underestimate women’s ability to rationalize what men should be doing without shame
@sp0ngeb00b73 жыл бұрын
We don't claim this sociopath, please don't lump the mentally deranged in with the rest of us
@starversys3 жыл бұрын
you nailed it !! ;)
@brianbouf83033 жыл бұрын
@@sp0ngeb00b7 nice to hear nice perspective.
@Error-0003 жыл бұрын
It is like their ultimate ability
@sp0ngeb00b73 жыл бұрын
@@brianbouf8303 Shallon Lester is an outspoken cheater and seriously questionable person, who is very adamant on describing every single take of hers she needs to repeat to a therapist, on her KZbin channel instead. Now it is normal for women to feel anxiety around how much their man “wants” them which is why I think she is not gelling with the app, it forcefully places her in a scenario, where she has to express her wants first (making yourself out to be the more interested one is a place of weakness for both genders). But the literal only thing this means, is that she’s using the wrong dating app for her. Also cheaters project jealousy bc they do the same thing 🤠🤠
@rickyjackson88723 жыл бұрын
She’s fucking delusional. I’m going to use her in my Anthropology discussion on the naturalistic fallacy and it’s connection to the second wave feminist movement. Thank you guys as always for the amazing content.
@kraftyhandz3 жыл бұрын
That’s really awesome hahaha
@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw3 жыл бұрын
Ooooh how nice. Upload a video if you can
@mamoud66483 жыл бұрын
Please upload
@oxyht3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome
@dorjjodvo19923 жыл бұрын
Second? We are in the third wave tho
@TommyRayzer Жыл бұрын
Her: "Why cant guys say hi first?" That is exactly what we have to do on literally every other dating app. The trouble with this issue is so many women want control. They want to be the ones playing puppet master pulling the strings of all the men around them. They want men to be chasing them and want to completely control every aspect of their relationships.
@Tarumarugan3 жыл бұрын
The fact that she thinks guys don’t reach out first is kind of a self report that guys probably don’t reach out to *HER* as often as she’d like. I also love how she interrupts her own program to 💩 on her “friends” marriages. They need to watch out for her
@mysticstrikeforce59573 жыл бұрын
yha she should blame new wave feminist they told us they want to independent and now be pushy when coming up to me. Like girls just don't like to hear the other side cause they only want their life to be a struggle not the other gender.
@michellerichardson30902 жыл бұрын
Theres always that one girl getting rejected that wants to try to pull all the other girls down. "Girl these men are just ignoring us" Nah thats just you
@amenra60422 жыл бұрын
One word can sum it up; projecting. 😂
@adrycough2 жыл бұрын
I didn't even think about it like that.
@EmperorSeramir2 жыл бұрын
The guys could smell the crazy coming from her. I knew as soon as I saw her on screen "this bitch is crazy."
@jrisbak3 жыл бұрын
Women 2002 : ewww don’t approach me it’s creepy Women 2021: ewww approach me or your not a real man
@jasonandrews17703 жыл бұрын
Nah today women still say both so you cant win
@unfazedo3 жыл бұрын
@@jasonandrews1770 the only move is not to play the game.
@jasonandrews17703 жыл бұрын
@@unfazedo straight up. Just work and vibe with the boys. Lifes been so much better ever since
@ItsSimplyZoe3 жыл бұрын
It's not the same women! That's the problem, women from one group try to speak for the ones in the other group. Now we all look crazy! 😂 🤣
@bmgfrosty70893 жыл бұрын
@@ItsSimplyZoe The problem is neither should be creepy or "beta" so both groups sound crazy/entitled.
@mejason43 жыл бұрын
Since women are independent women should approach men first. Women should feel what going up to strangers and getting rejected is like
@Aliyaaaa3 жыл бұрын
Truth is even then woman would usually not be rejected as often as men would. No matter what we do, there will always be a difference which is why there will never be 100% equality
@adriaanadriaan1233 жыл бұрын
If you are a man that can reject women you are a high quality man
@awildtomappeared59253 жыл бұрын
@@Aliyaaaa it's almost like people aren't equal, hopefully the npc clones will realise this some day
@Supreme_Lobster3 жыл бұрын
@@awildtomappeared5925 💯💯
@karlwilliams86253 жыл бұрын
Flirting or even eye contact is a struggle for them. They'll look scared of you and wonder why you didn't approach them.
@mystikalmassiah11 ай бұрын
I honestly was going to let here finish without interrupting her but as pointed out 7:46 I could no longer stay silence. Let's be honest, women want men they necessarily find attractive to approach them. This isn't about men approaching women, let's call a spade a spade. You want men who you typically find attractive to approach you. Men do approach you, just not the men you found suitable to date/relationship.
@chrislacy19903 жыл бұрын
Some women in their teens: “I’m a feminist!” Some women in their 20s: “I don’t need a man!” Some women in their 30s: “I have plenty of time to find a man.” Some women in their 40s: “Why can’t I find a good man?” Some women in their 50s and beyond: “There are no good men left.”
@Grimm_Butterfly3 жыл бұрын
Tbh, with wages so low none of these ppl know what a good woman is for. We live on plastic so 🤷 she thinks butter and pasta is hard.
@brooklynzfynesst41083 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha!
@ejnova72153 жыл бұрын
Women in 70s: *acceptance*
@milkshakebarrage95813 жыл бұрын
Thankfully most women aren't like this. According to both BBC and NYT articles and research of the past, 80% of women disassociate with this new schizoid radical Feminism, especially the 4th Wave of it. The Internet itself is simulated Schizophrenia too, and some people spend too much time on it and then let the mental illness born of it project onto their political perceptions of reality. Human brains ain't designed for this sh*, information overflow.
@Aliyaaaa3 жыл бұрын
Lool why is that so right I definitely will teach my future children to be reasonable
@NerdyDopeChic3 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with approaching men. They've been doing it for years. Some men are tired of rejection. At least they giving you the option of choosing.
@blindpilot_v13 жыл бұрын
🙏 blessed comment 🙏
@Saixjacket3 жыл бұрын
And we still hit on women despite the 99 plus rejection rate. Men are learning how to take it and leave it, women are giving out the playbook for free.
@capo4ever3343 жыл бұрын
If I go for like female model tier women I'm probably getting rejected. The absolute blow to your self esteem kills.
That thing about the compromise: WISDOM - this channel is indeed a unique example of that done right
@CAMELOT3313 жыл бұрын
Girl I'll just stay single. Hell
@yisangyang3623 жыл бұрын
I watch both your videos and these guys. Weird mixing of the KZbin circles. The KZbin gods are pleased.
@bernardpuller43803 жыл бұрын
Camelot watches aba and preach? Big W.
@sarinotsorry24783 жыл бұрын
Love you watch these guys !!!
@ashharkausar4133 жыл бұрын
Sup Cam!
@SaberInferno3 жыл бұрын
Can't blame ya in this market.
@atemjoshua86693 жыл бұрын
"Why is our manhood defined by our ability to approach you" Thats what I call bars MY GOD
@SirN8speare3 жыл бұрын
If anything that says a lot about their femininity
@Donja.z3 жыл бұрын
1. Mufasa was indeed a real one. I cried so much
@olivia15522 жыл бұрын
Honestly, as a girl with a lot of dominant/masculine traits, I needed to hear this from you guys. I gotta stop complaining and approach.
@vegbeg9170 Жыл бұрын
Have you? 😮
@gamerman7276 Жыл бұрын
You have to show that you're interested, otherwise nobody is going to approach you and we'll just assume you're a lesbian.
@redmage871910 ай бұрын
Guys and subtlety don't mix so you gotta be blunt at all times. No playing hard to get either.
@johioju59909 ай бұрын
My girl of 3 years now only got to where we are now cuz she asked me out 5 times
@leroidesnoob84188 ай бұрын
@@johioju5990 blink twice quickly if you in danger
@shenlong38793 жыл бұрын
"If it's so easy, why can't guys do it?!" Well, they do it every-fucking-where else. Don't use Bumble if the one feature that makes it "special" is something you don't want. Stay in the other 9000 dating app options. It's basically like saying close down all the gay bars because I'm not gay and I don't want to be with men. It's so funny when women want the most unique and special messages, all the while no info in their profile that you could actually base anything on and when it's their turn to say something, first or not, they have absolutely nothing to say. It's also funny how she complains about "I don't want to be with someone who doesn't put in the work... If he can't develop the basic human interaction skills... If he can't approach a person he doesn't know and say hello, what do you think that relationship is going to be like". The irony is so god damn thick in the air, considering that's what can be true the other way around as well. She's basically complaining about the things she doesn't want to do if men don't do them. These people want everything and give nothing. It's kind of sad that women don't even understand how hard men have it on dating apps etc. The inequality of features and power, I showed women the male side of the apps and they were baffled by the difference. Even the women looking for serious relationships think men have it easy there and they are completely ignorant to all these things because they don't have to think about it. Women seem to think every man has it at least as easy to get dates as they do. Also fun fact: The moment you mentioned police at the end I heard sirens go by outside.
@TrenyLew3 жыл бұрын
God damn cos u wrote a essay u earned a like from me
@aguythatsrandom3 жыл бұрын
So true! They legit be having nothing in their bios to build an opener conversation about. You are almost forced to talk about their appearance and they obviously don't want that. Don't know how many profiles I come across that said, 'I don't know who how to write bios, just message me'.....I be like.....'ya couldn't even put effort into your own profile bios so people can see who you guys are as an opener?' PATHETHIC And the inequality with dating apps is so true! Men legit have to pay for all dating apps to even get anywhere. A woman can go on their for free and get 100+ likes a day. Simple. I gave up on dating apps last month. Waste of time for me
@luisd88183 жыл бұрын
@@aguythatsrandom because they are used to using their looks to get everything they wanted since the beginning of time lol and then they act all high and mighty. Girl stfu and back that poon poon on over here 😆 you ain’t that special
@mike45blue3 жыл бұрын
When you only view the top 20% of men on dating apps of course you would have this delusional perspective of "men having it easy." Why bother with a profile bio when you know Chad is on his way to be at your DMs regardless? And once you're done with Chad you still got Tyrone and Carlos on their hit list. Notice how I didn't say her hit list? Yes she might think she's winning if she got dudes she actually like hitting her DMs and stroking her ego but once they fuck he's off to the next one. That's fuckboy 101 and it amazes me, with all the studies of dating apps either women do not care or they're completely oblivious to their own nature. They want you to type something quirky while getting their back blown by the guy who didn't even have to try.
@Yasharal1103 жыл бұрын
Imagine needing an app to get a date. Just walk up to someone and chat.
@jessitabonita3 жыл бұрын
She’s an example of, “the emptiest vessel makes the most noise.”
@nobody34313 жыл бұрын
Never heard that saying before, and I’m definitely stealing it lol
@imetmikemo1823 жыл бұрын
In this case the vessel is a hallowed out gaping t₩at
@martithon3 жыл бұрын
"I am a feminist because I want women to not be treated with outdated standards but I will hold men to comparibly old standards"
@dnbjedi2 жыл бұрын
nobody has needed me more than this woman
@sclark6153 жыл бұрын
When Aba said that he "knew fairytales weren't real when Mufasa died" I took that as an analogy for his father's passing. I appreciate that they are bringing awareness to social situations and inspiring people to have open minds and try new things.
@warriorofzera3 жыл бұрын
1 time for Mufasa. A true King.
@flyinglow72183 жыл бұрын
1
@birdieagszero65703 жыл бұрын
Get ya 1s up!!
@esil58533 жыл бұрын
1
@zigan30363 жыл бұрын
1
@codykillerpup19713 жыл бұрын
1
@hard1633 жыл бұрын
Her hunting anology is hilarious because trappers exist. You put out traps with bait and wait. The prey comes to you.
@TheAnamnesisable3 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t hunt or even understand these things so nothing she says will make sense
@victorcode20753 жыл бұрын
What Hunter wouldn't want to see an animal stumble across his path?
@Remianen3 жыл бұрын
New York City exists due to trappers. Imagine that!
@nickb64253 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure even animal predators trap and wait for their prey LOL. I've atleast seen videos of it. Also I hate when women like this use the "men are hunters" thing. Know what hunters do? Kill. Sooooooo..?
@saxybaby4486 Жыл бұрын
I have horrible social anxiety yet I still reached out first to my now husband. It wasn't to rush into marriage or kids, we are childfree so... To be fair, i got everything i ever wanted in my partner and more. Idk if its because he is just that good, or my standards were just that low; either way im happy AF.
@jeremiamangena8253 жыл бұрын
1 for Mufasa The delusion of this woman is something we see everyday, she believes everything around her should change, adjust, and correct itself however she remains pure and perfect. She's alright, she can do no wrong. Crazy.
@NightDoomyeayuheard3 жыл бұрын
1 for Mufasa
@mSantsnj3 жыл бұрын
1 🙏🏽
@kaycee83233 жыл бұрын
I think that's because some people are so dang insecure about themselves that they seek weak spots in literally everything around them. And if someone is deficite oriented - they'll ALWAYS find stuff to cuss about.
@chrismaneewan76513 жыл бұрын
1 🙏 Mufasa was a real one
@nickrocket15083 жыл бұрын
" It's not BUMBLE it's BUMBACLOT !!" the best quote of 2021
@WickedHill3 жыл бұрын
I lost it
@Jelisha1063 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@evyn89463 жыл бұрын
im sleep 🤣💀
@eznosnopes52763 жыл бұрын
Preach has been dropping hard bars this year.
@ObsidianKyurem3 жыл бұрын
Almost spat out my coffee, yeooooooo XD
@veronicamathews38303 жыл бұрын
They are absolutely correct about this. I approached my now husband online first and it was the best and humbling decision I have ever made. Had I sat there waiting for Mr. right to find me, we would have never crossed paths. Sometimes you have to go get what you want and don't waste time waiting, life is too short.
@EminAnimE13 жыл бұрын
Imagine how many women have lost a chance to meet a great guy simply because they don't talk first. Men do it all the time and get rejected all the time, It's not too much to ask that women do the same. Congrats on your man!
@thiacari3 жыл бұрын
I approached my (then future) husband in a massage Parlour :D "Sooo... Whaddya watching on tv?" Best catch ever!
@thescooterbrown3 жыл бұрын
@@thiacari it's funny coz we are easy as hell yet a "hello" is too much for some ladies💀
@simonegamboa34343 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree. Also, if the guy is of another race say white, Asian etc and want to date say a black woman they might not approach you because they may feel he’s not your type and afraid of rejection. Trust me I m gonna grab it before someone else.
@armoriya3 жыл бұрын
Not to get too spiritual, but the word of God states that the woman was brought to Adam and then given a name by Adam. I humbly believe that a woman should be led by God to the right man and it will be a wonderful union.
@cazabrow19679 ай бұрын
lmao opening with "uhhh tapping is so easy why cant men do it!?" literally proving its too hard for her to do even that.
@kimbonice3 жыл бұрын
She's just embarrassed she has no game. Most of the things she's saying are the exact same argument guys that are clueless with wmn say. When people get exposed they tend to make up every excuse in the book as to why they aren't the problem.
@kaliimyst79253 жыл бұрын
A
@jackwhite82383 жыл бұрын
Straight facts bro. Its the perfect indication of laziness. I know because I operated along those same lines for such a long time. And as a result I became a hateful and bitter person. That fuled its own fire. In a sense it is a strategy, an in efficient strategy but a strategy nonetheless and believe it or not that is also a desired outcome you weed yourself out for them. When I decided I didn't want to be that person and started understanding the rules of the game and how they are rigged against me far beyond what any carnival game could dream of I decided to play by my own rules. This batch thinks we are playing checkers and I'm now a chess master and its my board
@trebarfield77613 жыл бұрын
"Those are Feminist. You must never go there Simba!" 1 for MUFASA
@sophiastrange22133 жыл бұрын
face to palm. My grandmother always said, "don't take advice from someone whose situation doesn't look the way you want your situation looks." I don't source financial advice from people that don't have wealth but it baffles me how many women source relationship advice from women that aren't married. The blind leading the blind on this one smh.
@Driden3 жыл бұрын
Sound advice. often times you will see that the most obvious thing is what people tend to overlook.
@houseofhas93553 жыл бұрын
single women should never listen to single women about dating. Thats like asking the competition for advice! Misery loves company
@rro6603 жыл бұрын
@@houseofhas9355 yeah you're just counting on their good will while ignoring the fact that the main drive is self preservation.
@Dizastermaster.3 жыл бұрын
I thought this was common sense. Glad your grandmother was still sharing it.
@badassfudgehead61722 жыл бұрын
I showed my little brother lion King for the first time. He's like 17 but there is a 9 year diff between us hence why he didn't watch it with me and my other siblings when we were young. It was sick to see a reaction from a late teen on mufasa's death (he knew it was coming but thought it would be idk more disney). I think he is finally a man because he understands loss now.
@afatherfigure73403 жыл бұрын
Seeing the name "Shallon Lester" already made my stomach go into itself 50 times over. Also women only want men to make the first move so they can have control over the whole situation, don't fall for it fellas.
@greywhite27843 жыл бұрын
I've had female friends ask me how to get a guy to know she likes him. I ALWAYS say, be direct. Go up, say "I'd like to date you." None of them took my advice because they said they were scared of rejection. I just responded to each saying "He'll most likely at least have 1 date with you. Regardless of how long you date, you'll stick in his mind."
@lukewood26623 жыл бұрын
The lion is actually responsible for fending off intruders(other lions, hyenas). Once he succeeds, the lionesses hunt for him. So lions are more like pimps. "You got the bread? Well done. Now go fix daddy a coyote sandwich and watch the kids!"
@Whatsup_Abroad3 жыл бұрын
Yeah but he has to put out. Otherwise the lionesses will follow him around biting his balls until he either pounds them or they bite em off.
@leonelbarena15573 жыл бұрын
Lions are the example of a Harem King.
@bleh43523 жыл бұрын
Not really apparently the lion only fights off other lions to showcase their "alphaness" on the other hand the lioness watch their young to prevent the lion from eating the cub
@ScumDogMF3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@jliong1283 жыл бұрын
@@bleh4352 no Male Lions only kill the Cub if it’s not genetically theirs and they don’t eat it
@ingleberthumpernick67482 жыл бұрын
"Why can't guys use their thumbs and type hi?" But can't answer why women can't do the same exact thing?
@UnicornOfDepression3 жыл бұрын
Bumble is showing women a glimpse of what men go through. And they don't like it.
@deathlst88603 жыл бұрын
This should've been the title lol
@MrLawalker2 жыл бұрын
Ikr?!?
@TheMistyBlueLounge3 жыл бұрын
Her friend has a decent agreeable husband that they met online... and she seems unable to cope with that by any means other than framing them both as defective in some way. People like this are alone because they choose to be, even if it happens to be an unconscious effort. I feel like the only kind of relationship she can even imagine is a fairly tale picture perfect scene that you'll rarely, if ever, catch in real life.
@Lee-bw5bn3 жыл бұрын
my biggest problem with the “yas queen” mentality is that it fails to see the other person(s) as a whole human being. if you’re getting everything you want what’s the other person getting? you’re basically either asking for someone who will completely ignore their own needs or you live in a fantasy land where there’s one person that you’re attracted to whose only desire is to make you happy.
@PapaSwall3 жыл бұрын
Damn you kinda killed that 🔥
@chikitronrx03 жыл бұрын
Finally a woman who see it. Thank you, i was losing hope.
@evolvedtactics17143 жыл бұрын
Facts
@kgyeatman35693 жыл бұрын
@@chikitronrx0 I feel like majority of them see it, they just don't want to accept it. Deniers of the facts.
@ihatetheheat45243 жыл бұрын
The whole yas queen thing gives off a huge ego mentality. Not really my thing
@farflownfalcon10762 жыл бұрын
It's not bumble, it's a bumbaclaat . . . what a legend
@gnomie2.03 жыл бұрын
This woman’s whole speech is full of contradictions, fallacies, false analogies, and just plain self-centered nonsense. I hope she isn’t actually influencing too many young minds! P.S. I once handed a guy my phone number before he could ask, because I wanted to make sure he knew I was interested. This winter will be our 18 year wedding anniversary. 🎉 Go for it, ladies! ❤️
@jrt27923 жыл бұрын
That's is unfortunately a popular KZbinr my friend.
@clitbake3 жыл бұрын
She gives me the same kinda vibe as when someone on dating apps goes: "I don't understand why you'd match without sending a message." But then also go: "If we match SEND ME A MESSAGE!" ..and then not get the irony.
@aj63653 жыл бұрын
Do you think she doesn't know , social media girls now days is just chasing views. Its pay check
@maineman57573 жыл бұрын
I've only gotten into serious relationships with woman who showed interest in me first.
@Vesta5883 жыл бұрын
There are so many contradictions I’d have to make my own video to address them but I don’t have the energy.
@mykal28033 жыл бұрын
Here's the thing that annoys me most. Half the women out there say you shouldn't just make the first move and go talk to a woman randomly in almost any situation but then the other half say it's only on men to do just that.. What they're really saying is.. "don't hit on me unless I think you're hot." So many men now a days are worried being labeled a "creep" for just trying to talk to a woman he's attracted too.. yet if he doesn't he's going to be forever alone. Catch 22.
@Mr_osei1833 жыл бұрын
Damned if you do, damned if you don't
@troooooper1003 жыл бұрын
"The oaths of a woman I inscribe on water." --Sophocles
@MrKrushgutz3 жыл бұрын
You also have the dating coaches telling men that women are dying to be approached.
@troooooper1003 жыл бұрын
@@MrKrushgutz yea nobody believes that, men know from experience... it's not a mystery, after 50 rejections you tend to figure out nobody is dying
@drekbleh70813 жыл бұрын
I've seen online arguments from who gets to pay for dinner and "If he pays for you he's looking down on you for not being able to provide for yourself. Dump him" "If he insists on halfing it dump him he's a bum" "If he asks he's uncertain. Dump him" If women want to make the rules they shouldn't be surprised when men don't want to play a rigged game.
@angryrat78823 жыл бұрын
She's basically a traditional woman who has been pressured by her peers to be and act like a feminist. However, it doesn't come natural to her so she results in a confused contradictory mess.
@mikehunt699813 жыл бұрын
That's the vast majority of "feminists" in my experience. The girls that my friends are with talk all about "the patriarchy" and "misogyny" yet they're with my 6 foot + tall, trade working, masculine guys who definitely approached them first and paid for the dates and all the other traditional shit
@prtdiva3 жыл бұрын
Basically. I’m a traditional woman and I have no shame. I refuse to let feminists confuse me about what I want out of life. I’ve been upfront with guys about the type of relationship that I want: I would like to have the opportunity to stay home the first few years of after giving birth before returning to work which means that my partner would have to be ok with being the provider. It’s not for everyone and that’s ok. But feminists shame you into thinking that by wanting to have a traditional role in your relationship you’re doing something wrong. What I’ve found is much more success in dating by being upfront and honest. Some guys are into it and others aren’t. I found my current partner and we’re both on the same page about our future and what roles we’ll take. Other women should try being honest from day 1 and you might find a partner but feminists are confusing women or shaming them for wanting to be in traditional roles, which is crazy to think about since feminism is supposed to be about “choices.” I guess choices only matter if you make the choice that feminists think is acceptable such as being a strong, hardworking woman 💪🏾🙄
@myname-mz3lo3 жыл бұрын
@@mikehunt69981 thats only feminists in america from my experience. in france and most of europe feminists make memes about american "feminists" and their doubble standards. you have to understand that american media only shows fake feminists that dont say things that are actually feminist. feminism is verry diferent and more fair in other countries than america and canada etc...
@chocolatemariejones32273 жыл бұрын
You caught that too! Lmao!
@MrBLAA3 жыл бұрын
Most women _aren’t_ contradictory mess?🤔
@stygian3824 Жыл бұрын
Girl you ain't a wildebeest, you're a human being with agency who can talk.
@HolyMolyDoughnutShop-s3 жыл бұрын
"It's not bumble it's Bombaclat." - Preach 2021
@09rfields3 жыл бұрын
She does not like accountability, she fears rejection, and she's boring. I liked bumble when I was single. All you do is Swipe, match, write. They even had questions available to send if you had trouble, click a damn question and send it.😒
@Forteoverload3 жыл бұрын
Straight up how i met my wife. Loved it!
@Forteoverload3 жыл бұрын
@Hominus Nocturna Boring to you maybe. I had some fire conversations with a few women.
@MK_ULTRA4203 жыл бұрын
@Hominus Nocturna gay
@Forteoverload3 жыл бұрын
@Hominus Nocturna Same as they would on any app. The only difference is the app makes it more convenient, especially for those working opposing shifts. Do yourself a favor, if people want to use an app or approach in person, let them have thier way. Don't bash them. Live and let live.
@Forteoverload3 жыл бұрын
I'm willing to bet there are many that still do the cold approach, but for busy mofo's like me apps just make it easier.
@arieslady0213 жыл бұрын
I think she’s just mad that she didn’t get any matches or she didn’t like the matches that she had. If she doesn’t like bumble, then don’t use bumble. I am a FULL ADVOCATE for Bumble because I met my fiancé on bumble.
@Crystalbeach963 жыл бұрын
ayy hope yall enjoying life together!!!
@jackcraven79793 жыл бұрын
No I got ghosted or ignored almost every match ended after a 2 min conversation
@musicaltrees2 жыл бұрын
That's cool! I met my husband on bumble. He is pretty shy and has some social anxiety so honestly having me make the first move helped. After meeting me, feeling comfortable, and clicking with me, he took it from there, so whatever works ya know?
@midragga Жыл бұрын
17:55 tell em, R.I.P. MUFASAH
@carlostommybaggs57633 жыл бұрын
Translation: "Bumble is hard, but I shouldn't have to change to another app. Also, I'm not entitled, but everyone else on Bumble should change to suit what I want."
@DontbeanNPC3 жыл бұрын
Yep. Pretty much sums up a lot of modern w0men today.
@StevenLeeStudios3 жыл бұрын
Woke Woman: Hates dating app due to "oppression" Also Her: Stays 30 and single Everyone: I wonder why...
@mac1bc3 жыл бұрын
Everyone else knows why. Only she is confused 😕
@nataliejohnson95263 жыл бұрын
She isn't woke. Lol. Hence her issues.
@StevenLeeStudios3 жыл бұрын
@@nataliejohnson9526 Woke is the reason
@gypsylee3333 жыл бұрын
@@StevenLeeStudios absolutely NOT trying to be woke, you tripping HARD.
@gypsylee3333 жыл бұрын
Wow she's a whole 30 and not married with 10 babies?! What a wasted life! /S
@tired_mom3 жыл бұрын
20 years from now she’s gonna be giving the same advice and still be single. I slid into my mans dms and the rest is history, going on 5 years married. And I literally couldn’t be happier. 💓 my man is shy and doesn’t like approaching women, so it was perfect that I approached him first. It took that stress off him. And we ended up clicking perfectly. I also don’t really think Shannon knows what feminism is
@JaleelKing3 жыл бұрын
More women would be happier if they took this approach "i.e. Hey I'm Interested". You would be surprised by the types of men one would find vs waiting to be approached.
@deepzone313 жыл бұрын
Empowered woman! I appreciate that you called him shy and not damaged or beta or some other excuse haters would apply. Enjoy your happiness!
@JaleelKing3 жыл бұрын
@@deepzone31 Yet another good point! If I might add, a lot of men are, in fact, shy too!
@Vurdox3 жыл бұрын
Based for sure
@johnjohnrice5853 жыл бұрын
Good job!
@Wopbobaloobop2 ай бұрын
The posability of rejection terrifies her
@bambi_gunz3 жыл бұрын
I've actually had more success on Bumble than any other app. One girl I dated said she likes that there aren't thousands of messages from guys to sift through. She can pick and choose which let's her move at her own pace. That sounds empowering to me. When I match with a girl, and they message, I have a way better conversation that leads to a date. I feel empowered too because I feel chosen rather than given the opportunity to shoot my shot.
@dustymcdust8253 жыл бұрын
This is true. When you are on Bumble and a woman actually takes the time to contact you it's because her interest in you is high. She doesn't feel harassed and I don't feel like I'm wasting my time to contact 100 women to get one. I think any woman that doesn't like Bumble doesn't like the fact that she boost her self esteem by blowing off a few hundred men per day.
@schnioula3 жыл бұрын
Nothing to do with app, you‘re cute! 😉
@kjames16983 жыл бұрын
@@schnioula This man got game on KZbin as well😂😂
@Wavecheckfoo3 жыл бұрын
I prefer hinge instead of bio you HAVE to answer from at least 3 different questions or facts about yourself...makes it WAYYYYY easier to start a conversation but use tinder and bumble as well I’ve gotten pussy on all 3
@schnioula3 жыл бұрын
@@Wavecheckfoo Hinge is not big in my country tho! :(
@zeksdeks94433 жыл бұрын
Mufasa was the Dad I never had, but the Dad I wanna be. RIP Mufasa.
@capo4ever3343 жыл бұрын
Bro he dies dies prematurely though
@OMGSAMCOPSEY3 жыл бұрын
1 for the Moof
@jinxie7123 жыл бұрын
1
@LifeAsANoun3 жыл бұрын
but you didn't put a "1"...?
@prathepraj34073 жыл бұрын
1
@jasonandrews17703 жыл бұрын
The difference between making the first move or harrassing a stanger is if she likes you or not. Thats why some men just keep to themselves today
@mauricejohnson10683 жыл бұрын
Perfect way to put it
@mr.e57913 жыл бұрын
She doesn't want to lose the power to reject or destroy your life
@Mariet313 жыл бұрын
You can blame on the men who get pushy and take it personally when they get rejected. I might just not want to date anybody at this time, why do I need reasons? Because of those betas, women need to be cautious at all time because we don't want to get beat up by a nutjob. Don't dare to blame on women, blame the creeps who don't understand the concept of boundaries.
@oritsejolomiokirika99133 жыл бұрын
@Everything woke turns to 💩 Here - one like for your username
@Error-0003 жыл бұрын
Preach brotha
@davemccage7918 Жыл бұрын
Feminist weirdo: “The predator that waits in one spot for the Willder beast to come up to him; he’s going to starve to death!” Crocodile: “Hold my beer.”
@Error-0003 жыл бұрын
So independent and strong, yet the ego quickly falls when you don't play their game.
@AxxLAfriku3 жыл бұрын
WOAH WOAH WOAH!!! Let me get this perfectly straight: You comment something that is completely unrelated to the fact that I have two HAZARDOUSLY HANDSOME girlfriends? Considering that I am the unprettiest KZbinr worldwide, it is really incredible. Yet you did not mention it at all. I am VERY disappointed, dear in
@lienomzekon47633 жыл бұрын
hey is this a bot on your comment, or is it just one of those weird people who leave comments
@riotsquirrelz3 жыл бұрын
I asked my second husband to marry me. Being a feminist means ignoring sexist expectations/traditions and going after what you want, right?
@oscar.esteves3 жыл бұрын
That's cool
@mikehunt699813 жыл бұрын
Did you buy him a diamond?
@riotsquirrelz3 жыл бұрын
@@mikehunt69981 I bought us matching wedding bands with Xenomorphs on them. Big fans of Alien and Giger art.
@riotsquirrelz3 жыл бұрын
@@WrathofFenrir99 Thank you, Asad 🥰 He is the love of my life!
@loopje2 жыл бұрын
@@riotsquirrelz u big weird
@justinmorsheim39423 жыл бұрын
This woman is so deeply trapped in her doublethink, it absolutely blows my mind...
@TrustShady2 жыл бұрын
"Its not bumble..its bomboclaat." She called herself a wildebeest LOLOLOL