"A WOMAN IS TO BE SEEN, NOT HEARD" | Wife swap

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[@AbaNPreach]

We back my cisgendered brothas and sistas. Utube fixed it quick so we dropping videos we had stored.

[@princee6383]

Welcome back

[@lg7879]

Finally! IJS 😂

[@danaidahosa5918]

Woohoo!!!!!

[@johan_piano]

LETS GOOOOOOO. I've been waiting.

[@yohansmorals3534]

Glad to see y'all again

[@kwesi7994]

It seem like tombstone wife don’t even have an identity. She’s just... wife

[@kgyeatman3569]

What an honorable identity it is.

[@elizabethleon4144]

@@kgyeatman3569 lmfaooooo what my guy

[@kgyeatman3569]

@@elizabethleon4144 something wrong?

[@geraldineregina7069]

More like maid!!

[@TheStarForge]

That's what happens when you're in a traditional house, all you do is cook, clean, and take care of the kids. I bet the only thing she does with her free time is either shop or watch tv. I mean, if that's the life she wants, then by all means, but man fuck that.

[@vbrown6445]

My very "masculine" Jamaican dad is the one who did (and still does at 82) all the cooking in our household. My mom was "lucky" if he let her into his kitchen every now and then to cook something. He still hovers over any of us if we're cooking something in his kitchen or try to wash the dishes (because we "aren't doing it right"). He also did all the sewing and mending, grocery shopping, gardening, and any fixing/house repairs; while mom does laundry, house cleaning, and household goods shopping. It's not about "masculine" and "feminine" roles, it's about what each person does best, enjoys more, or has time for. I could never be with a man who believes in this "women's place" bs. I was raised better than that.

[@TheDaneyeledee]

My Jamaican father cooked a lot as well! I remember that very clearly from my childhood. My dad knew how to do all the things you mentioned and stressed that myself and my siblings know how to do them as well.

[@herelookinatu]

Wish I could find a guy like that. I hate cooking and cleaning but I have no problem doing it. My dad was military and mom was a stay at home wife she did the majority of the house hold work but my dad had no problem cooking and cleaning even at times telling my mom to kick back or go out while he took care of us(3 girls) and the house.

[@jayaustin1939]

@@herelookinatu I personally think cooking and cleaning is an aspect of our essence as humans. What you prepare to eat to keep you alive and making your environment tidy to stay healthy should be a second nature to everyone, man or woman. But hey, what do I know!

[@herelookinatu]

@@jayaustin1939 I totally agree with you however so many people bring it up in a debate of gender roles and why women should do more of it then men. I'm a good cook and a little ocd when it comes to cleaning but I really can't stand to do it. That's why I mentioned wanting a guy that didn't have a problem doing those things without feeling like he is less then a man. Because as you said and I do believe that they are just basic things in life you have to do.

[@romariowilliams3893]

I'm from jamaica and the concept of "masculine" and "feminine" varies by culture and time period. I ln Jamaica it is considered masculine to be a good cook and to be very clean. My dad would force me to wash my sneakers right after I wear them and he also thought me to do laundry early because a man is to look presentable at all times. But going back in time Men use to wear heels, wigs and makeup in the victorian era in england. The scotts men wore skirts, japanese men used to wear kimono (which looks like dresses). Social norms change all the time.

[@kikikauffmann]

I like how when she said that’s the women’s place he looked at his own daughters and said NO. Because he didn’t want them to believe this nonsense

[@brandongillette35]

Not the only place just usually the best 😉

[@BlackRoseWitchx]

@@brandongillette35 Shurmano, tas tonto o ke? tas bobo?

[@cosmo588]

@@brandongillette35 so original my guy

[@brandongillette35]

@@cosmo588 no u

[@samlsd9711]

I don't think kids understand that.

[@divamarvalousoneal2454]

I grew up in a pull your weight type of household. My dad taught me and my sisters it ain't a woman thing or a man thing. It's life lesson to carry the weight

[@cooljool1]

being a plow horse is a pretty stupid life lesson

[@renogunzddragon1900]

@@cooljool1 making an assumption is stupid no 🧢

[@LadyCoyKoi]

Exactly!!!

[@noesarmiento4621]

@@cooljool1 it is if that's the end goal. It is if all you ever are is some "burro" to be whipped and taken advantage of by others. It's a quality when that's a part of your character. It's a quality when that part of you, the part that can get shit done, enables you to be a better person and shows people your worth. So how about quit the half baked comments and carry your weight in the conversation.

[@afro_snake6458]

Mustve been intresting growing up with your 40 siblings, on the O'Neal farm /s

[@mharris4264]

Wife swap was low-key weird but educational.

[@jjay6432]

Yeah definitely insightful learnt a lot too mainly what not to do

[@sams9466]

No, it’s definitely weird, low key educational 😅

[@MistaTamilan]

For real, you learn more about the human anatomy by watching wife swa... Oh, you meant the reality show....

[@Zancibar]

Low-key weird or low-key educational? Because I find this very high-key weird.

[@Calebski]

Its lame and scripted... My friend Cade was on it, then got roasted on The Soup!

[@liabobia]

"a woman's place is in the kitchen, a man's place is in the kitchen, because there's food in there." Most wholesome thing I've heard all week

[@Reshme77]

You won the internet

[@RafaelValle12]

Does nobody eat in the dining room anymore? I'm concerned

[@KoKAPONe_]

@@RafaelValle12 The dining room has been degraded to place with expensive untouchable items

[@intoxicated5321]

@@KoKAPONe_ the dining room is where you flex on your family

[@olumusitafa6503]

@@RafaelValle12 the dining has been delegated as extra storage space

[@ZayneEnterprizes]

thought the white lady was just gonna stay silent when the husband came in bc she’s not supposed to be heard

[@Scrubermensch]

In her eyes that dude is the epitome of a beta, that's why she can talk to him on equal levels.

[@KatSpicert]

@@Scrubermensch She'll be none the wiser too that he's in fact more manly than "tombstone" himself.

[@haribhandari5309]

@@Scrubermensch nah she knows the black man is a mature adult to have a civil conversation with unlike her man baby tombstone who'll throw a big baby tantrum if she asks him to clean his room or clean up after himself

[@kittennight3305]

@@Scrubermensch the fact that you called something a beta unironically just shows that you are one yourself

[@Scrubermensch]

@@kittennight3305 sure brother

[@secondhandrooms507]

In defense of tombstone and his wife... they really changed by the end of the episode. They turned out to be really good people who made real efforts to change their view points. I think she even told Kiera that she wanted to be like her at the end of the episode.

[@jazminewaters2404]

I wonder how much if this show is script 😂

[@childofgodforever6614]

Well he started out just like she said at the beginning, a motorbike thug and sexist

[@Lee-bw5bn]

Plus, we should also remember the producers have a narrative in mind and will cut footage to suit that. Some of Tombstone’s responses sounded like he was responding to a slightly different question & I highly doubt the letters the wives read weren’t at least heavily edited by showrunners

[@namupolo1100]

It was really sweet

[@Ms1234cative]

What episode is this

[@Lopo13]

I hate how people use “plenty of people have tried to change me over the years and none have succeeded” as a badge of honor. Like maybe there’s a reason so many people have tried to change you, instead of appreciating you for who you are.

[@yami4628]

@@alex_mcclay speak your truth g. I’ve been there myself. That’s why I’m not bending anymore

[@watamutha]

@@alex_mcclay I think JK's point is that he seems proud that he knows everything. It's like that Muhammed Ali quote 'the man who has the same views at 20 and 50 has wasted 30 years of his life.'

[@mynamemylast936]

I watched the full episode. I actually really like him. They showed his soft side

[@bornwithclass2365]

Fact

[@sfr2107]

@@mynamemylast936 is there a link?

[@nagisa9147]

This woman is acting like she's all "traditional" and doesn't even know how to cook. Absolute tears LMAO

[@aj6365]

It's just drama for the show

[@Goldenhawk583]

@ShadowMapleLeaf if she knew how to cook, it could ( should) have been something she knew before even meeting him. It is also very possible to cook junkfood, just look at fastfood places.

[@Goldenhawk583]

@ShadowMapleLeaf True, I was too hasty to judge on that, thank you for pointing it out to me:) Honestly, I appreciate it. Take care, and be well:)

[@Drake00000010]

@ShadowMapleLeaf stop defending a jackass

[@michaelhowze8198]

@ShadowMapleLeaf Ramen noodles? There are plenty of wildly unhealthy food that is delicious. Ramen is hardly even food in my opinion.

[@valberrybee4919]

So there is another clip of when the wife's swap rules and Kp's wife has Tombstone and his son help in the kitchen and it shows a whole other side to him. The wife is actually the one who makes that "it's a woman's place" rule in my opinion. She makes KP sit still even when he wants a glass of water she fetches it for him. It's wild

[@lizziejay5362]

Interesting, kinda wish they played out the whole video!

[@Oshidorinohina]

@@lizziejay5362 yeah shes like trying to run circles and do 33434 things at once and it made KP very uncomfortable bc it was over the top, like it really was played up.

[@bankrupt_batman]

I figured both families were a little more open to suggestion than the show was letting on.

[@Oshidorinohina]

@@bankrupt_batman yeah, it's definitely scripted

[@LadyCoyKoi]

That is what I wanted to see in this review. To show that sometimes, some men do want to do more around the house to feel like they can contribute more and feel connected with the house and partner they are supporting, besides being a walking wallet. That unhealthy eating style of just ramen noodles and packaged foods must be killing his arteries too. Looks like "traditional wife" wants him to be a literal Tombstone for real. 💀The dude looks like he could have an early stroke or heart attack and never come out of it ever. 😰I think that swap made a positive impact, if not mentally, at least physically from a health perspective.

[@aliwk1094]

The fact his own wife said "it takes a special woman to tolerate him" shows that she knows no one wants her man. 😅

[@alexmason8557]

"Vegan food is not the problem, the problem is vegans" 😆

[@masonldn8647]

Realeast shit I ever read !

[@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784]

If that ain’t the truth

[@FilthEffect]

Preach !!

[@Rabbit-the-One]

It's one of those situations where a wild minority of the identity acts up so wild that it ruins it for the rest. So yes, vegans are the problem, AND their own worst enemy.

[@jahseh8194]

Erin is fuming right now

[@yourmother9834]

The white lady: a man should enjoy his home not clean it. The black lady: ufff it stinks in here

[@bblcommisions]

That's what I said, nasty house, have mad ramen noodles, so you know she don't cook well at all.

[@thewarlock539]

YOU GET ME! She want's to do that job but she ain't doing it properly, like?

[@mochihamster2794]

@@thewarlock539 she just likes shaming other women. internalized misogyny

[@201stars]

@@bblcommisions RIGHT?!? Like how you bragging about being in the kitchen, but don’t even cook nothing🤦🏿‍♀️😂

[@Spaceysgurl]

Y'all SAVAGE. I was like "they got nice floors". I see the the ramen tho.

[@nessmagalal7049]

My dad does his dishes and sometimes ours. He cooks certain dishes as well. Making tea for us is his own specialty. He irons our clothes, and make us breakfast everyday. He even brings breakfast for mom in bed. He's 74 now respected and loved by everyone. My mama always says how much she's lucky to have him.

[@saratonga-carter1196]

Biggest issue is that woman saying "women should be seen and not heard" in front of little girls!

[@mndegrassi8]

"So you're big on helping with the children?" No, I'm "big" on being a good father to MY CHILDREN. TF!

[@teniaosayande6355]

that part

[@BIGDRXXMR444]

fuck no. hes being the nurturer which is feminine when your do that alot. that's why his wife made em go vegan hes soft he has no say so

[@jaydenson8580]

@@BIGDRXXMR444 u toxic af lmao

[@BIGDRXXMR444]

@@jaydenson8580 I bet she wears the pants .

[@Dienamich]

@@BIGDRXXMR444 bet she let him slide them pants off whenever he want though being a good partner like that 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ronishamay]

Preach is trying very hard to explain that he's not in a bike gang...lol

[@daimon6528]

ONE PATCH AWAY LOL

[@AxxLAfriku]

GAGAGAGAGAAGAG this is wonderful! PRANK! It is terrible! I looked in the mirror and saw something UNPRETTY: my face. GAGAGAGAG! But I am happy again because I have TWO HOT GIRLFRIENDS and I make cool YT videos with them! Good evening, love and peace, dear ron

[@funkyfiss]

Maybe he's bike curious?

[@kimballcho304]

😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀

[@vipulvaibhav7353]

@@AxxLAfriku that's what happens when you eat the entire muffin

[@cb_tattooing]

I love to cook, and I hate doing dishes. My wife loves my cooking, and doesn't mind doing the dishes. We split the rest of the chores.

[@ameilialawrence8380]

You can work too......

[@justinakinsola3305]

@@ameilialawrence8380 reading is fundamental

[@celestinevanswieten8809]

And that’s the way it should be. If someone doesn’t want to do everything, splitting chores is always a good option.

[@SniperWolf895]

Husband and I both work. I do most of the cooking and he’ll do the dishes during or afterwards and vice versa. Weekends I do more of the cleaning because he’s in class all day Saturday and studying Sundays for advancement exams. So I pick up the slack. His class was cancelled during the winter storm so he helped split the chores I usually do. House got cleaned faster and we both got to be couch potatoes and enjoy each other’s company. It’s just a matter of finding what works for you and your marriage/relationship.

[@WAPlover]

@@ameilialawrence8380 ayo were you reading this with soap in your eyes

[@w.d.2154]

Her: Believes in old-fashioned values Also her: Pantry's full of ramen noodles 😂🤡 As an old fashioned woman she should be making meals from scratch.

[@Rosie-wl3pe]

That got n- sorry I- 🤨

[@MrKevin486]

Yea where my hommade gravy and pie nigga

[@KyleAnderson-vr3uv]

True, at the same time she’s doing much more than most women would be willing to

[@princesssunday5227]

Dead😂😂

[@ShrekonVHS]

not true she makes what he wants which is bad food

[@Nerdpainter]

I'm old fashioned in a lot of ways. i have no problem cooking and cleaning but as soon as someone tells me that i had better be seen and not heard and all i'm good for is cooking and cleaning, i'm out. that is so disrespectful.

[@itskaybe6348]

Right. Those are the roles I choose because I like to cook, clean, and take care of my baby. I'm lucky enough to get to do so. But if that was what I was told to do, you bet that man would never have another clean pair of underwear in this whole life.

[@jordaneasley3817]

I just watched the whole episode. Surprisingly it was the wife that thought and said that. Tombstone was actually open minded about vegan food, cooking, and cleaning when it was all said and done.

[@stop4500]

She’s a brainwashed pick me girl

[@michaela5053]

Agreed

[@crisclay2678]

That’s how it should be tho.. seen not heard.. if I have company u shouldn’t be out here trying to I be the center of attention.. bitch go find something to do it’s men speaking .. the Bible even says the same thing

[@EclecticMystic]

"A woman should be seen and not heard, the man gets to decide how the house runs!" - woman telling the man how the house runs.

[@joannasaadati8810]

That was so funny to me.

[@ogkpopper]

I'm dead 🤣

[@estherruth4692]

Exactly! Nothing about her made logical sense...

[@Renegade2786]

Mr Pot attempt to expose Ms Pot of being black. No one in this comment tread has no logical sense.

[@blyss.x]

Lmaooo 😂🤣 she's so dumb she didn't even realize that

[@Bonez9oh5]

I find that most of the men that ascribe to the "a womans place is in the kitchen" have not spent much time on their own. Generally speaking, after you have lived on your own for a while, you learn the value of helping, after having to work full time, feed yourself, and keep your place clean. An obvious exception are people that happily live like slobs and/or just order their food.

[@supercasualgamer513]

I’m actually a stay at home dad now, due the pandemic I’m still picking up on more and more of the at home stuff lol We just moved into this house too so we are all still figuring it out It’s not so bad being here with this child 😂 She doesn’t ask for much. The dogs are the most demanding part of it all 🐶 People need to ditch the archaic family structure and just do what makes them happy

[@atrain3441]

"Do what makes you happy" or what is needed to survive. Sometimes a breadwinner mother and helper father is what's necessary to give the child (if they have one) the best upbringing.

[@supercasualgamer513]

@@atrain3441 we do! I totally agree 💯💯💯💯💯

[@Deejay27]

If someone cleaned my apartment everyday I’d just feel guilty when trying to relax.

[@jasmineasha2924]

Same I would clean it too

[@earloflemongrab1290]

What if it's a house cleaner

[@cnoel7189]

@@earloflemongrab1290 i would still feel guilty

[@clapwithonehand9304]

same.

[@earloflemongrab1290]

@Comrade Doggo But you're paying for it at that point, it's transactional

[@dejeriyoung9872]

I really like seeing a black man being hands-on with his daughters

[@dejeriyoung9872]

@@erakatt 😂😂😂 No. I reread my comment and it sounds all types of wrong. I can laugh at myself.

[@nova_supreme8390]

Sweet Home Alabama...

[@siddharthsehgal9552]

That can be interpreted very differently

[@robinho4595]

I feel you brotha😂. Anything can damn near be taken in a multitude of ways but we not finna ruin this dad’s image/character. I know what u meant bruh. Happy to see the dad very involved in his kids life. Especially his daughters! I’m a young adult nowhere near having kids, but I can definitely respect a man whos a great father to his daughters! Nothing wrong with having girls and boys, or just one or the other, but shoutout to Kobe and The Girl Dads out there 💯. Keep doing y’all thing

[@lemmymemmy]

Maybe “being present in his daughters lives” is better

[@alecia175]

My parents were partners, no one was submissive to the other, there was 6 kids we all helped with chores. My father worked nights so he was there to raise us mostly. Later in thier marriage he became the breadwinner and my mother handled the family finances, not because she was trying to dominate, frankly she was just better at it. That's how my husband and I operate were partners and we talk about what needs to be done and who's the best choice for the job. My husband's family was the opposite his dad tried to dominate the family instead of everyone working together. He wouldn't allow his mother to work. Even though he was not a good provider due to his drug use. She ended up losing thier home and had to live with family. On which my husband recalls as the most miserable time in his life. He has issues to this day he has not worked out from his toxic upbringing. My point is your pride can also be your downfall.

[@assassino1480]

Going by the name Tombstone might be the edgiest thing I've ever heard in my entire life

[@Captain_Insano_nomercy]

Just admit you hate seeing a strong, confident white man THRIVING 🤣😂

[@haribhandari5309]

@@Captain_Insano_nomercy thriving? He lived in a trailer park

[@TentomushiHH]

@@Captain_Insano_nomercy thriving? boi if you don’t sit your dip chewing clownass down😂

[@TwistedOnyx369]

"He don't cook, he don't clean, but he still got that ring."

[@nova_supreme8390]

Sauron would love to obtain such ring of power.

[@naginy6]

@@nova_supreme8390 lol, nice one

[@kingswordisbodoubleS]

im more on the white family side... women care for men and men provide

[@aaroninwalmart5884]

@@kingswordisbodoubleS sounds nice, don't push it on others tho

[@SeanKula]

@@kingswordisbodoubleS obvious troll

[@w4hu]

*“It takes a special woman to tolerate him”* This’ll be interesting

[@gilsai4990]

if it takes a special woman to tolerate him, he shouldnt be tolerated at all lmao

[@baconsir1159]

Apparently Tombstone was actually pretty open to the stuff and a cool guy. I guess it was the wife who was all old fashioned and whatnot.

[@doris2079]

I watched other clips from that episode, he was actually a sweetheart. He helped the lady cook and enjoyed the vegan food. The wife was the problem.

[@mixala]

Do you have the link to the full episode?

[@valeriecarre8967]

Shaded him low key

[@gcraay.6050]

I wouldn’t think for a second that the “my wife asked me to go vegan”. Was a request. I think the boss said so.

[@najirban]

" In my house we finna do this vegan thang, baby!"

[@anzelaiv]

Everyone's thought. There are so many guys who eat vegan at home, because they were 'asked' to, but would have burgers and steaks with friends when the missis is not around. Can't stand women who force their men to go vegan, especially since most of them fail to do the vegan thing right.

[@dvb8637]

@@anzelaiv you maybe missed the part about she said she is the boss. Which says alot. I bet my life she didnt ask him but cuz she said so. The guy has no backbone.

[@angelinamartin9668]

It's so sad and frustrating when someone is "set in their ways" and doesn't allow growth. And on top of that looks down on others who are different.

[@bpeoples4043]

"When Kiara said she was a vegan, it scared me." lmao, why? What did an avocado ever do to Tombstone?

[@goldengirls234]

She is actually a well know fitness trainer with almost 1mil subs

[@twocheezitz9182]

You don't want to know

[@reikun86]

I remember avocados were on the no list in the 90s because people didn’t know the the difference between bad fat and good fat.

[@reikun86]

I remember avocados were on the no list in the 90s because people didn’t know the the difference between bad fat and good fat.

[@SoldJesus4Crack]

well, considering mexican cartells are killing hundreds a year for supremacy over avocado plantages, i would fear them too. :^)

[@yakzivz1104]

People really do get on my nerves sometimes: no woman or man should be bossing her/his spouse around!!!! Marriage should be a partnership not a dictatorship.

[@spiritsama51]

According to who?

[@Katyalina]

@@spiritsama51 to facts. Your spouse isn’t called a partner if it isn’t about partnership. What do you think marriage is about?

[@anzelaiv]

Unfortunately, all that war of genders wouldn't even exist if we would have only good people in our lives... truly good people don't treat others as if they are beneath them and don't think that their opinion is the only right one.

[@nottheone831]

@@anzelaiv someone has to be the leader in the relationship. Forget the 50/50 bullshit.

[@anzelaiv]

@@nottheone831 "someone" doesn't have to be anything, when people really care for one another, they will work it out as they go, but when they follow some idea and their own ego, they start fighting over leadership or 50/50. Most of men want to be leaders and that's a good thing, but a real leader never mentions he is a leader, he just does the work and no one questions it, because he does it right. That's why when in a relationship you feel the need to remind a woman you are a leader, you've already failed.

[@paulakerner7923]

Real talk tho the way the husband was taking care of the kids and sat with them on the couch MELTED MY HEART. Such a cute family asçdjfiasdpaoj

[@9lbloodnolast873]

"....and my husband is my manager, but I'm the boss." If you believe this man was "asked" to become vegan you are twisted lol

[@TT-xz5sy]

I rather her feed him that, than the other high in sodium shit. Women be slowly killing their husband with that poisonous food.

[@dvb8637]

@@TT-xz5sy be with a chick like her a bossy one dude and than come back here to tell me the same thing.

[@dvb8637]

Exactly! That dude has no word to say in ther relationship. Its a huge beta simp.

[@jasperklingen6964]

"The problem is not vegan food, it's vegans", I'm so going to use this one

[@sorchx]

Nah it's the food haha. I was vegan seven years, destroyed my body. I'm only in my 20s and have so many health conditions I have to heal from now. Eating meat for the last 6 months has already drastically improved my health. There;s a very small number who can do well on this diet for years.

[@jasperklingen6964]

@@sorchx thanks for proving the point

[@sorchx]

@@jasperklingen6964 How did I prove the point? I wasn't implying that there's no preachy vegans. I'm saying that it is also the food that's the problem since they seem to be advocating for the diet.

[@noelstar1456]

@@sorchx Sorry to hear that dude :(( My mom's vegetarian, when she first transitioned into vegetarianism her doctor told her to keep eating eggs because she was in her 40s and her body wouldn't adjust well. Does she have health problems? Yeah. All the imaginable ones. I mean, there are other contributing factors to her poor health too, but I don't imagine being vegetarian (she recently went full-off eggs) has been helping, especially with her lifestyle.

[@aj3706]

@@noelstar1456 I thought that most became vegans to be healthy. Doesn't seem like it's that healthy. In other words, it shouldn't be the only reason I think.

[@destinipeters3829]

Wife-"because that is a woman's place" 'new husband'- "No"--- the way he said it 🤣💀

[@stupidvids0]

Funny thing is she couldn't defend her position bc she doesn't think she has a right to talk... Cringe af

[@robertcarter408]

He said it like that cause he’s afraid his real wife might have heard the conversation later. She’s definitely the one wearing the pants in that house she said she was the boss he has no nuts he very weak

[@j.j7464]

@@robertcarter408 he’s not weak, just because he doesn’t follow your dynamic doesn’t mean that he’s weak or less than you, she literally told him not to be near his own children. If you think THAT IS a man, you’re the weak one

[@robertcarter408]

@@j.j7464 lol you must one of those beta males whose woman wear the pants in your family

[@Connect_with_Yourself]

@@robertcarter408 what's wrong with that? Not every man is meant to be a leader or is able to be a leader

[@ms.helpmeet4753]

My husband cooks for me sometimes especially after the gym and I cook for him as well. I do cook for the children mostly but he does when I need him to. We all clean and we all help one a other. It is crazy that people can not get passed the most basic living activities. We raise both genders so cook clean and provide for self.

[@Senefer]

My problem with people saying that they believe in traditional roles is that they don't seem to have a basic understanding of what those roles where. As a historian who focuses on women and their lives I have never seen any signs of a woman that should be seen not heard. That wasn't their role. They were social, which is why they where young they were trained to understand social interraction and be good at it. They should know all the social rules, who to speak to and what to speak of. They were suppose to listen to rumors so they could advice their husband on where to lay their interests. They were also expected to know a large amount of languages and subjects so they could carry a conversation. They represented their husbands business in this social world and brought connections to their husbands so they needed to be perfect and wellversed in the social. Both hosting dinner parties and going to them, being agreeable enough to be invited again. That is outside the fact that the woman was the one who was the spender, she was the one who would ensure that the household goes around and I don't just mean making the dishes. But her job was to ensure that the home was decorated right, that the food was healthy and that the costs were on target. Women were also a sponsor of charity, art and eductation. And men had nothing to say in these matters. If his wife spends to much, he was considered a bad provider. It's true that these roles where different depending on your station in society, along with which country and during which period. The problem wasn't that women didn't do anything, women were the driving force in modernizing the homes in both architecture and the technology, but the problem was that they never got the recognition they deserved for doing the things they did. It always went to their husbands or their fathers. With all that said, most women is a bit of traditionalists even today. You tell me which woman would allow a man to host any holiday today, or dress their children or for that matter plan a wedding. Not to mention that women still control a large part of the household such as how the home looks like, what the family eat and so on. Seems to me like both women are traditionalists in the video, it's just that one of them doesn't understand what traditional means and the other just don't care.

[@Wakka144]

Were.... this made some good points but was hard to read because of all the grammar errors. Where is a place...

[@Senefer]

@@Wakka144. Yeah, I don't spell check when I write comments, sorry about the mess :P

[@Wakka144]

@@Senefer I don’t use spell check either but this is elementary school stuff. LOL

[@Senefer]

@@Wakka144 . Yeah, as a swede I have a hard time differentiating between some words so when I write too fast I mix them up. Where and were sound the same to anyone who isn't an English speaker so they are easy to mix up.

[@crystalsplace7163]

She’s in the kitchen all day making him unhealthy meals? She’s trying to kill him fast. Extra butter and sugar on everything. I wonder if she has life insurance on him?

[@Destinnies]

@Amber W 💀💀💀

[@justinaacorn5721]

It does not take all day to boil ramen and open a cold one!😂

[@TT-xz5sy]

😭😭😭😭

[@spiritsama51]

There's nothing unhealthy about that though. Tired of people knowing nothing about nutrition/food.

[@Tootisepop]

@@spiritsama51 gurl what. Butter is high in fat

[@RoxiePoxi]

I loved when the "woman in her place" shaded the other for a couple dishes in the sink meanwhile she had the exact same amount left in hers. 🙄 And her Idea of being in the kitchen consists of microwaving fish sticks.

[@drkwvrvn9956]

yeah, can she really brag about being in the kitchen when she's just boiling ramen noodles? lmao

[@Wutz_]

@@drkwvrvn9956 LMAO

[@1a2b3c4d2847]

Dead ass. A "real woman" without a single vitamin in her body. She's gonna have some real osteoporosis.

[@BM-fz9yc]

@@1a2b3c4d2847 lmao dead

[@30minutesLess]

I swear

[@leoalphaproductions8642]

It’s funny how vegan food is automatically equated with healthy food. When in reality that type of food has the highest omega 6 ratio and countless amounts of inflammatory anti nutrients that your body really does not need. Not to mention the lack of bioavailability of plant matter to the human body. Just eat meat and animal food. It’s the best super food for our species. Just like our ancestors started eating it in high amounts nearly 3 million years ago. If it were so bad for you, we wouldn’t have survived by now. If you avoid junk food and high sugar foods, you’re gonna be healthy no matter what you eat.

[@anzelaiv]

It takes a whole lot of effort, knowledge and time to eat healthy on a vegan diet. Eating meat is easier, but can only be healthy if you have access to healthy, properly farmed animals, not whatever hormone pumped junk they present as meat in most of the stores.

[@leoalphaproductions8642]

@@anzelaiv veganism isn’t easy. 80-84 percent of vegans leave the diet eventually. If you’re not taking supplements on the side, you will definitely fail. There’s no question about it. As for the meat part. You can pretty much get away with grain fed and factory raised meat just as well so long as you don’t mix your diet with junks, high glucose and sugar diets. Grass fed is always a bit healthier, but not by much.

[@anzelaiv]

@@leoalphaproductions8642 I might disagree with you slightly on the meat part, but completely agree about veganism. At present times veganism is a luxury that people indulge in because they can. Should the living conditions change a bit, it would be next to impossible to survive on a vegan diet. Plus, the rapidly emerging vegan fast food industry might end up being even more harmfult than your average fast food.

[@ivanaspencer9852]

True, I've notice that too. And tbh I've never seen a healthy vegan.

[@Wakka144]

A vegetarian diet is easier to maintain than a full on vegan diet and yes, there are differences.

[@cyliafrost]

the only memories I have with my mom is her beating me lmao, but the memories I have with my dad - cooking together, going on walks and shopping together, watching movies together

[@cyliafrost]

and he was working 12h night shifts - every day in and out he used to go to sleep at 6.30 and wake up at 7.30 to walk me to school right after work - I don't know how he did what he did but he was amazing

[@aloowalia2849]

@@cyliafrost your dad was a super hero

[@gajspalt]

Agree with Preach on the dishes part "If you can put it in the sink, you can clean it."

[@them_leosleo155]

Boooo!!

[@thatdude2998]

Depends on how many dishes were dirtied prior, then it would be more efficient if they just did all of them together if their is a lot. But if it is just your dishes then wash your own.

[@sukmidri]

I haven't cleaned a dish or washed a piece of clothing in my life. I grew up in the south though.

[@chonzzza]

I mean, I live alone so who TF is going to do it for me?...XD

[@jad3415]

And waste water cleaning 1 dish.

[@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables]

Why is the white woman clutching her pearls so hard at a man being involved with his kids and helping out?? 😂😂😂

[@malikgordon5230]

@@quesoqueso7598 Facts

[@rayramirez8776]

Because that's her job. You wouldn't like it if someone took your job now would you?

[@pharoah1100]

Everybody has their way of contributing to the family and communicating which brings balance!!

[@valentinamasei7777]

She's surprised the father was in their lives, even more that he was a stay at home dad lmao

[@summers9052]

@Lateisha Jordan it’s fine if you don’t like it, as long as it works for you and your relationship is happy and healthy in that dynamic, you’re doing good. the only issue arises when you judge others for what works for them (not trying to say you did! i didn’t get that vibe from what you said, just giving my own input)

[@danelayoung1107]

You just described why learning about compatibility is so important!!!!!! Balance is key 🔑

[@julinhopuppa]

If Undertaker isn’t the first thing that comes to mind when you heard tombstone then you miss a couple of episodes every Friday night growing up…

[@addyben3686]

" a women should be seen and not heard" I guess I'm part of the house decorations.

[@bolotabr12]

😂😅

[@iremainunimpressed1589]

Awwe good guess love

[@saffy771]

Guess I'm a lamp now lmao

[@addyben3686]

@@saffy771 if your partner says "you light up my world " you'll at least know why XD

[@sodvine3486]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ddg2424]

She's seems like the type, that if Tombstone got beat up, she'd leave him for the guy that won the fight.

[@CeeDoubleU]

That's 100% accurate

[@blacknemesy]

Most will sadly, they want to "climb the ladder", to bad that hitting 30 is the end for them, most never recover and go on to hate man for being man.

[@saracruz3685]

If the guy will take her lol

[@OathBoy_562]

That’s my biggest fear. Imagine how shitty that would feel

[@ddg2424]

@@blacknemesy who hurt you?

[@Freshness0009]

If there’s one thing a black woman can do...is change a man’s eating habits, no matter how stubborn the man is 😂

[@TT-xz5sy]

Fr fr my dad married a Jamaican women. He hasn’t had home cooked American food in decades 😭😭😭. He has to go somewhere if that’s what he wants lol

[@Alicegab300]

@Anthony Cunningham ohh racism is so trendy 😍😍 you're so cool KING SHIT 🤪🤪🤪

[@dvb8637]

Sorry but no. I wont change it for anyone. Maybe you should only talk about yourself and not us.

[@eyelenz6532]

Before you get a girlfriend fiancée or marry someone figure out how they are financially , emotionally spiritually and be respectful.

[@austins.1102]

“Vegan food is not the problem, the problem is Vegans” * *cough* * * *cough* * *“ERIN”* * *cough* *

[@farajallasebit1834]

Lmao

[@nova_supreme8390]

Do not mention that witch's name here!

[@austins.1102]

@@nova_supreme8390 Bro said “witch” I’m wheezing🤣💀💀.

[@sockoblocko]

Word

[@everyveganrecipe]

🤣

[@yulikethis4173]

Keaira now has two clothing lines, cookbook called “vegans don’t eat just lettuce,” workout videos, does workout challenges, a line of supplements, a line of workout things like resistance bands, and does a podcast with her husband.

[@jasonromage3230]

Good for her!

[@Shiroyashasama]

Your point ??

[@Slokingseba]

@@Shiroyashasama I found his comment informative. So maybe that was the point

[@stratocheese]

Thank you for this info. I'll check all of those out. Also don't listen to idiots like the one 2 comments above

[@ben3304]

Looks like we found someone's alt account.

[@TheSuperbeauty24]

This is a culture difference. Black women have been matriarchs and white women have traditionally stayed home to raise the kids. Black women for the MOST part never had that option we had to work and take care of their children.

[@joshuastevens2186]

No preach. Guys, don’t be stay at home dads. Just trust me, she’s gonna belittle you every single chance she gets man

[@supreme-pq7hz]

I was looking for this comment... thank you because when they were reading each others letter kiara said she's the boss in the house and I automatically thought she'll be cucking dude in no time

[@mememaybe4923]

Umh no. A person who doesn't respect you is going to belittle you for being a stay at home dad. While that's not what I want for my house there's nothing wrong with it if both partners agree and happy with it.

[@TT-xz5sy]

I actually would love if I can work and my husband stays home. I dnt have good patience lol

[@BruceBrewsky]

"I am not calling a white person Nick Cannon" bless you Preach. Lookin' out for us.

[@bigredfella13]

I almost choked on my coffee at that part lmao

[@rudista10]

What does it mean? 😂😂😂

[@DrWhatever]

Lol omg

[@mizzpoetrics]

😭🤣🤣

[@quincy9908]

I don't get it

[@KaydinGrace]

I'm all for traditional roles (I want to be a housewife myself), but this is just taking it to an extreme. It seems like that lady has been brainwashed. She seems like she's less of a life partner and more of a maid.

[@constantnipples2428]

Same and I agree with you

[@lvluptoaverage52]

Not at all. You are not just to see it that’s all. I was with a Muslim woman and they are like that. It used to be funny since am a more western kinda guy but for them is normal. For example I told her you can wear other close like jeans etc. she was like no my body is your and no one else’s. The only thing you could see when she was out of the house was the eyes. For them seen a woman showing any kind of skin was insane even brainwashed

[@solortus]

Being a housewife IS being a maid. The only difference is the sex and marriage part

[@JT-ct2bn]

What a housewife is if not a maid?

[@vuton7670]

@@JT-ct2bn stay at home dad/mom is a free maid, in a away.

[@chary8950]

5:50 yeah "People of Color" gets on my nerves too, I'm so glad you said that. Everybody been saying that shit in media like why the f are we going back to colored.

[@mercedezjohnston1396]

This short version of that episode makes tombstone look bad but in the end review scene it was really sweet how he spoke with his wife about how he wants to feel comfortable in his home and help. It was her that prevented him from doing so.

[@sofiab36]

i feel like they chose a very reasonable progressive couple and an extreme traditional one. Not even my grandma talks like that and she was born almost a century ago.

[@robinlue2008]

Most likely scripted like many other “reality” shows.

[@allenpoe17]

Yup. Just a set up for most drama possible. Not to actually learn anything. Just for drama. Glad I stay FAR AWAY from reality TV bullshit.

[@Alexis_005]

My grandma goes to gay weddings and wanted me to have a child out of wedlock at 25, “you don’t need to be married to have a child” 🤷‍♀️ some grandmas are progressive as hell.

[@sienkiewiczmonika1161]

This is just another way to say that traditional families are bad.

[@lurkzie]

Thats the point of the show. Families who have identical values don't make entertaining tv

[@tanukicookie]

Preach’s laugh at the beginning sounds like a whole seagull

[@XNYDNTE]

That's the haitian laugh its just how we laugh

[@concamon1364]

@@XNYDNTE It was a joke. And yes, he sounded like a seagull

[@XNYDNTE]

@@concamon1364 I know it was a joke???? And that's what I addressed in my comment

[@janelleg597]

Ears be smartin

[@xMckingwill]

💀☠

[@sweetgirl4u247]

I watched this episode. Tombstone actually in the end liked the change and the food. Even he was working out too. He really opened up and seemed happier.

[@danelayoung1107]

This is what a soulful relationship looks like being with someone that truly understands you, two whole people coming together not two lost soul that’s seeking happiness outside of themselves

[@y.o.s6000]

Aba fucks with Vegan food because he’s Ethiopian. Y’all got some fire non-meat dishes with fire spices. If I ever went vegan, I’m living off Indian cuisine.

[@nocturn2002]

Indian food is 🔥 no 🧢

[@old_grey_cat]

Such a range of asian and south american and african options, shame to limit it.

[@y.o.s6000]

@@old_grey_cat you’re right but Indian and Ethiopian seem to be the only ones I’ve found that were developed to not need meat to create the flavor profile. With others you can’t imagine them without meat whereas with Indian cuisine, you don’t really see the meat as necessary.

[@allthingsafrica9122]

@@y.o.s6000 you have not seen it all. How many African food have you eaten asides Ethiopia?

[@y.o.s6000]

@@allthingsafrica9122 Nigerian and Ghanaian.

[@angrybunnies9664]

I feel like the reason why she is so defensive about where a woman's place is because otherwise she would have no place in her household, which is so sad. Traditional values doesn't mean being a doormat. My husband and I have more or less traditional roles, but we see each other as equals in minds and value.

[@rye-bread5236]

Traditional values are so weird. They're so flawed, inefficient, and pointless. There's no basis other than magical sky daddy's. If both members contribute to housework it is done faster giving more free time for activities. You make a mess you clean it up? Is your wife a slave? How pathetic. What kind of a man has to have a woman wipe his azz? I bet this guy can't do anything without his girl and his fragile ego won't let him admit it. I value skillsets, action, responsibility, maturity, and performance. These are foreign concepts to traditionalist.

[@olisiapowell1212]

@@rye-bread5236 traditional(or more so a biblical view) wasn't about wiping a man's ass, it was simply woman stay home, man go and work(it can bring balance just as a modern relationship does). Where the problem lies is the fact that men started to believe that women were simply doormats or birthing machines, which shouldn't be the case.

[@HeyoitsJay]

What does that mean

[@HeyoitsJay]

@@olisiapowell1212 very true

[@jamelahallsdyer]

​@@olisiapowell1212🧢🧢🧢

[@IryCookie]

I am one of those people whose memories of my father are only of the often drunk guy that abused my mom and me, screamed at me and called me names.

[@McQueen1217]

If biker boy thought she was going to be anything like his wife, he was truly mistaken.

[@otherguyjo1684]

This show still runnin? I forgot all about this.

[@Jar0fTeeth]

Same haha last time I watched this show was in 2008

[@MrMeMyselfandI]

Cancel culture must’ve got to it. Women being passed to different homes like property... they defo had to get that off air

[@naloburns9222]

Its a reboot type of deal

[@gillianmurphy2111]

@@MrMeMyselfandI what are you talking about? The women aren't being passed they agree to do this ridiculousness freely.

[@sweetprincess213]

Yes I think this episode came out last year they rebooted it

[@LadySsS69]

My father taught me to cook it was his profession. I'm so grateful I have those memories with him. He was stoic and mostly kept to himself in our family but you knew he was there and came alive when he taught you how to cook. R.I.P Pa

[@taiahunter2600]

I’ll press F to pay respects. F

[@LadySsS69]

@@taiahunter2600 taia really my name is Shawntaia believe it or not wow. Thank you 😊

[@massivejuicer1635]

@@LadySsS69 this story is so wholesome, cooking brings people and most importantly family together, thoughts of my grandma and mom teaching me techniques came to mind as soon as I heard your story. Thanks so much for sharing 👌

[@LadySsS69]

@@massivejuicer1635 thank you we don't even appreciate the impact those moments have on us in the moment

[@solofiend4082]

F

[@MrKlarc19]

My wife asked me to be vegan... my wife asked me to take the trash out. When your wife "asks" you to do something, its more like she's politely telling you.

[@ZeeQuTee]

Why is your wife ASKING a thing?? Only 2 people are in the relationship. Each gets to ask the other. Whats your point?

[@MrKlarc19]

​@@ZeeQuTeedon't feel like my comment needs to be elaborated on but okay. Asking is just a polite way of telling you to do something when it comes to husband and wife. The wife in the video asked the husband to go vegan... She wasn't asking, she was telling him he's going vegan.

[@HeyoitsJay]

I like how he simply told him no. Like a man telling an anxious woman, no. You are able to relax too. She’s able to kind of see her flaws from another man.

[@theblackbaron4119]

"Big on helping with the children" Lady he's RAISING HIS KIDS :'D That's how i would also do it, damn. It's not going to be my wife's sole responsibility to raise OUR kids. I'm absolutely for 50/50 % involvement if it's possible.

[@maymay5600]

like bruh, you know how many kids want a father to be around them?

[@dbspaceoditty]

nah, one parent puts roof over head. food in stomach, and clothes on back. and is the disciplinary parent. other parent is the one who spends a lot of time, coddles, babys. one parent teaches the children to be good humans. the other parent teaches them the reality of the world. its sad but true, im not saying that parents cant work together on these things. just pointing out this is legit how it works. think of all the "bad kids" you knew growing up. and think of all the "dumb ass" adults you know now. if you know their parents and dynamic. im sure they are lacking some of the things i mentioned. you cant have contradiction in the order of command. this is literally why jobs have so many types of managers. because the person that tells you when you work, the person that determines how much you get paid. and the person that yells at you, are not the same person.

[@tyriqcollier5509]

@@dbspaceoditty no both parents are fully functional healthy adults and teach their children the same whatever that means every person should know the value of actual work and what it feel like to work for specified pay it humbles you to alot. But this idea of people being forced to live a type of way then only sharing a portion of their selves with their kids is why we have the damaged toxic traits we do nowadays

[@StudlyFudd13]

@@dbspaceoditty That's not even remotely accurate.

[@dbspaceoditty]

@@tyriqcollier5509 i never mentioned anything about only sharing a portion of their traits to the children. just pointing out how and why a proven dynamic used to work. funny how suicide rates started going up when properly parenting your children stopped being the social norm. i know correlation does not always mean causation. but the time lines match up.

[@nickb6425]

That woman coulda just left it at “I need to do these dishes” I just thought that was her personality. She HAD to add in “dishes is a woman’s place” ffs lol

[@devol3829]

Tbh dishes aside, its pretty unattractive if a woman cant cook.

[@nickb6425]

Exactly well I think especially nowadays that’s more of an equality thing. Cause even when you just have roommates it’s annoying as FUCK when someone doesn’t do their share and that should be chalked up to their personality rather than their gender/sex

[@innominatesoul2277]

@aragot ra what if she is working full time and it's her house you're living in?

[@abramrexjoaquin7513]

@aragot ra when Pompeii was destroyed via Eruption of Mount Vesuvius at the height of Roman Culture, Cooking was not part of the Middle Class itinerary. As eating on the way to the job or having dinner outside was middle class culture. (Take-away and Dine-in) Kitchens were only specific to higher echelon's of society who has the resources to have multiple house staff. Proof of these were in the ruins of Pompeii as houses of the middle class and craftsmens and hand workers has no kitchen spot. And houses with giant kitchens but no bedrooms or suites are laid scattered around the center of the city (restaurants) In the peak of Roman civilization, dining out was the culture. And cooking for the middle class were "unfit" for women who do other labours/ crafting. "A woman's place is where she stands her ground." -Art Van Der Wee

[@guhad0108]

Well it’s actaully human woman like to take care of people while man like to take care of things we are equal but not the same

[@lynette599]

Why do Americans wash their dishes under RUNNING water? The wastage to me is incomprehensible...

[@procastination_is_my_passi4182]

"Helping with the children"??? you mean being a good father??? Girl what ....

[@BasketballCoachesNetwork]

Yo Tombstone is cool tho. He was accepting and did a lot of things if you check out the whole episode. His wife was making him do all that shit, he actually wants to work out and not have heart problems.

[@canofsoda]

oh shit I gotta watch that. what's the episode name? Or can I just find it with a youtube search?

[@elle_l808l]

@@canofsoda i want know too😅

[@jordanintheflesh2589]

I believe the episode is season 2 episode 3 Villalpando vs. Price

[@jordanintheflesh2589]

@@canofsoda right here bud

[@GoogelyeyesSaysHej]

Yeah he ended up really liking the vegan soulfood too

[@MysteriousRider84]

I heard this comment as a kid. "Kids should be seen and not heard"

[@MysteriousRider84]

@That Haven Realm yep, a bad parent though.

[@pirateman1144]

They wanted to *see* you?! 🤩 My parents told me to shut up AND fuck off!

[@jeromewilson1048]

@@pirateman1144 Sadly, I can relate

[@pgpluss1076]

I was a kid expected to be seen and not heard. What I learned: It depended on the situation and also, when used responsibly, is a great way to teach a child to respect their elders and when and how to use their manners.

[@Lalerato]

This reminded me of Killgrave

[@brendamoon2660]

Preach is right. I grew up in a two parent home but my only memories with my father are him yelling at me. He had no other interaction with me whatsoever.

[@jon-snow-GOT]

I don't want a woman who thinks her place is in the kitchen. It makes me suspicious of what her ideas of the man's place is. My parents weren't about that shit. They taught me to cook and clean enough to be self sufficient.

[@thatguyneef343]

There’s a difference between the idea of “gender roles” and roles in relationships/household. I think it’s important to have certain roles and responsibilities that make the household run smoothly, but to only think that a man/woman must hold a specific role is so close minded and arrogant to some extent.

[@Nawa11YT]

It’s not close minded if it’s in the family. Like, I don’t think he forced her to his beliefs. She agrees to them.

[@thatguyneef343]

@@Nawa11YT definitely different if both parties agreed on that type of relationship, but to believe its supposed to be like that for every relationship is what I’m referring to.

[@Nawa11YT]

@@thatguyneef343 That's understandable. But let us not forget that people from both side of that spectrum look down on each other. It's like a paradox of who's right .

[@dejaxyz311]

@@Nawa11YT in my opinion, if ur a women and u like to do the dishes then do the dishes , if ur a man and u like to take care of ur family then do that , but sayin “ ALL women should be doing what I’m doing “ or if man says “ ALL man should be doing what I’m doing “ is weird . Like if ur traditional that’s ok

[@Nawa11YT]

@@dejaxyz311 I look at it From a Traditional/ Religious point of view. I also Couldn't care about people outside of my Cultural Sphere (The Arab world) I don't mind People doing their own things when they are not a part of my people. However, I do contest Unnecessary changes to Family Structure within my community.

[@fumzsimmer1992]

Not related to the video but on another video, don't remember which one, Preach mentioned that having an I love you from your mum doesn't mean as much from your dad. I didn't agree when I first heard it but I decided to try out the same principal with the kids I tutor. I stopped saying well done all the time and only saying it when they did something particularly special. Then at the end I asked what they preferred. The girls said they missed the well done as they felt they had done something wrong for me to not say it. The boys, however, said they appreciated it more as they knew what they'd *actually* done well. Thanks for your insightful commentary, it's actually really beneficial for us young women😊

[@vibekiller21yeet13]

That's a productive experiment I salute you for sharing

[@paulsam6537]

Having an I love you from your mum doesnt mean as much from your dad? I don't understand that part?

[@shisexee]

@@paulsam6537 same like????

[@vibekiller21yeet13]

@@paulsam6537 if you don't get it that's tuff

[@paulsam6537]

@@vibekiller21yeet13 maybe you should try explain. If you dont have anything to say, dont say anything. You pretty much said nothing.

[@jcox8418]

I can relate to having people judge my relationship with my wife. I very rarely cook at all, except for when my wife isn't home and I'm hungry. I clean, but not nearly as much as my wife. I don't drive, she does. We both work full-time jobs and there have been times in our marriage where she made more money than me. When we are at home she mostly caters to me with bringing me drinks, making me plates of food, washing my clothes, etc. There are also things I do for her. I am the protector of my home, the home repairman, the one walking the dog, and random things that I'm just better at then her. Our relationship works because we respect each other and we play to our strengths. I think no one has the right to judge someone else's relationship, as long as it is consensual and healthy. I don't care if another guy is unemployed, plays video games all day, is a slob, and has a partner who does everything for him. If they are both happy with the arrangement, then it is all good.

[@angella9369]

1:29 i find it wholesome when Preach was speaking about motorcycles passionately

[@JaySharp604]

1. Veganism is expensive (for the most part) 2. Vegan fast food is basically non-existant. 3. You have to tell your parents you're vegan.

[@lindavel43]

Vegan food is not expensive. Lentils, beans, oatmeal, rice, chickpeas and seasonal veggies and fruits are cheap...I am a broke college student and I don't eat meat. Now if you buy all the fake meat and fancy vegan food then yes, I agree with you. Tofu is expensive at American stores...1.99 is too much. I get mine from the Chinese market at 1.49...the same tofu. Last wk it was one sale for 0.97 cents!!! I stocked up. If you know how to shop, then it won't be expensive ;) I don't eat fast food. But now you can get fast food at Burger King. And Chipotle has vegan options. McDonald's, Subway and other fast food places are starting to carry vegan options. But I prefer to eat at Chinese restaurants. It's so easy to veganize their food. Never had a problem.

[@juwatt638]

@9INE PLANETS really tofu is bad for men? I didn't know😳

[@daniellalove143]

@9INE PLANETS I’m pretty sure that was debunked lmao

[@daniellalove143]

@@juwatt638 No tofu is fine for everyone lol

[@juwatt638]

@@daniellalove143 ok that kinda made me confused because in some countries and cultures everybody eats tofu. I never heard of them having problems

[@Special_Potato]

You can't be vagan and poor at the same time. Pick a struggle.

[@liamdk9625]

There poor because they are vegan

[@UmmFulaana]

Vagan

[@diligentone-six2688]

Vegetable and Fruits tends to be expensive depending on the Situation of the Economy.

[@xdandychiggins]

you can though lol....meat and animal products are a luxury item for some, hence why people in some third world countries often depend on a plant-based diet.

[@MsJoyce31202]

😱 screaming laughing 😂

[@HowdyItLovll]

People who are resistant to change are the bane of my existence

[@ariew503]

OMG I love Preaches laugh, it makes me crack up even more.

[@marnamaro1346]

I was NOT expecting the Nick Cannon remark, that made me cry of laughter 🤣

[@Tee9156]

"My husband is a stay-home dad, and he's definitely a man."...well I wasn't questioning his manhood before, but hearing you say it like that, now I'm having doubts. In other news, these are two extremes. No man should say 'a woman is to be seen, not heard.' And a woman shouldn't throw 'I'm the boss' in her husband's face. There has to be a sweet balance in there somewhere.

[@innominatesoul2277]

She was saying this in response to the other wife's claim that stay at home dads are "pussified"

[@innominatesoul2277]

@Jay Bee if by "alpha " you mean the white motorcycle weirdo in this video then I'm better off with a husband like that black man.

[@xMckingwill]

@@innominatesoul2277 he does not know what he is talking about he is just repeating some random stuff some random guy said.

[@xMckingwill]

@Jay Bee Evidence please. Where is your evidence to back up this claim? Its an interesting correlation but since we moved from "traditional" role the US has improved in nearly every way.

[@xMckingwill]

You do realize she was defending her husband, against a claim against men like him. Its like people don't understand context

[@gabrielleroussel6676]

My dad was more of a caretaker and now my husband happily helps me with chores. It’s not about me being the woman. It’s about being partners.

[@gillpop]

Same. My father taught my mom how to take care of kids. Both my parents are very nurturing.

[@gabriellynch2764]

"I wouldn't put a kilt on and do that isht, but I respect it." Word

[@kirsten9277]

I am a stay at home mom of two kids. They're 10.5 months apart in age. My husband makes the money to provide for us all while mortgaging a beautiful home and now my oldest is going into kindergarten. It didn't make sense financially to have them in daycare while I worked my job because 1) daycare was 1000.00 a child for their age and 2 ) we would be in a higher tax bracket essentially leaving us with less money if I didn't work. So until they're old enough to be inschool full time we chose for me to stay home with them. And both of us knows the roles we play in the house is beneficial for us all as a whole. Come the time they're both in school I'm back out working and can't wait. 😁

[@tobykiely5105]

She is to stereotypical she HAS to be a paid actor right? I mean this is the type of thing a far left person thinks conservative women are like.

[@20thcentury_toy]

Bro it's TV

[@UnitedPacci]

@@20thcentury_toy Its KZbin 🤭🤭

[@nova_supreme8390]

They might gave also dug really deep and found the one in a million. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@Ronald-xt6xe]

It’s probably somewhere in the south

[@baloony6648]

Nah man these people exist in multitudes. I've found that a lot of immigrant and religious households are arranged this way, but of course not all of them are like this.

[@giannaobrien2487]

I don't mind a man being a house-husband or a woman being a house-wife. What I don't like is when you feel like the woman is oppressed but she's fine with it and you vilify the man anyway for controlling her but nobody gives a damn about a man when the roles are reversed because he's a man. Women can manipulate too, if not better, Stockholm syndrome goes both ways, we should be empathetic to both men and women. But if they have an agreement, it's none of your business.

[@aloksen626]

🙏

[@thebombdotcom3945]

This the best comment I’ve ever read

[@ballin21isfly]

well said

[@JROCC205]

My only issue is with the black couple is he's not making the decisions, it's hard to respect a man like that, tend to not go while for the man

[@darkethan34]

I dont think anyone said the woman is oppressed, they made it pretty clear that if thats their thing then its fine. They made other points about how it doesnt make much sense to them but ultimately they didnt attack the couples like youre saying they did

[@lifestylelakeishasewellwas4643]

True that, "the problem is not vegan food, it's vegans".

[@wisdom_seeker85]

I’m a SAHM and i feel like I can contribute when I make my family a great meal. My husband works in the home remodeling industry so he works hard labor, so I feel the least I can do is hold the fort down. However when I’m feeling stressed, sick, or depressed my husband gets in and helps around the house. And he can cook!!!! Its all about team work. Everyone has different game plans though, and that cool, as long as the home is happy and peaceful I don’t see anything wrong.

[@annabenson5359]

I totally do not understand why other people feel the need to dictate a couple's "roles" inside their own homes. It's such a personal thing. Like for me, I'd cook and clean for my man most of the time because I'm better at it or enjoy it more, but it doesn't mean he never helps or that I'm not allowed to do other things

[@Tes-qe1jc]

Thank God finally, someone with common sense.

[@jubilantsleep]

That black woman is fricken gorgeous.

[@keyblade287]

And got a great body

[@sallydee1235]

Right.... She's got a youtube channel called Kierra Lashae

[@rll1236]

whys ur username jubilee of all things

[@jubilantsleep]

@@rll1236 Why is your username rokitup of all things?

[@jubilantsleep]

@@sallydee1235 thank you

[@old_grey_cat]

The voice-tone of "...oh boy..." after "Men don't know how to be men anymore." I agreed. I think a lot of viewers would have thought in just that tone. Clever editors.