THEY LAUGHED AT HIS MENTAL BREAKDOWN....

[@Sharpman76]

He walked around the corner to invade the guy's privacy... I am utterly speechless...

[@sweetcinnamonpnchkin]

Good news is that Tariq thought he would get approval from this group of women online and they brutalized him. All mics went off of mute and booooy was it good. The Quartering did a GoFund me to help the employee out.

[@thelourensfamily8048]

Ya, it was already uncomfortable to watch but that moment ramped it up to the next level.

[@xicheung7867]

Yeah; it was just mean-spirited

[@jesuschristislord77733]

DAS RITE

[@danaidahosa5918]

I’m not speechless....I’m absolutely disgusted!!!!!!

[@nadiryoung9925]

If someone is having a mental breakdown, don’t record them. Respect their privacy. Idc what race they are, they deserve the privacy, space and compassion to get them through their issues.

[@skirmishcustoms2595]

PIN OF...glory?

[@chuffbottoms32]

People really put internet fame over the health and safety of others

[@DCUEmp_prinzy]

@@skirmishcustoms2595 pin of truth

[@JustSomeRandomBurger]

Twitter makes everything about race for some reason

[@skirmishcustoms2595]

@@JustSomeRandomBurger 14 year old white girls

[@dw3134]

Kevin Samuels once said; "people are selfish, they don't care why you're fucked up, they only care how your fucked up effects them."

[@JesusLovesEVERYTHING]

I agree.. people don't understand the reasons why people are the way they are, but they want everybody to act perfect even though they are far from perfection themselves.

[@ninjablack4347]

Its true. And the thing is its not even conscious like "how can i use this" but humans are just fucked up and want to use every advantage over another person

[@kenshin7315]

@@JesusLovesEVERYTHING being selfish or acting in self-interest is one of the most natural things a living being does. You dont live life for someone else nor do you owe someone else anything.

[@Pursuepeace0715]

thats true

[@JesusLovesEVERYTHING]

@@kenshin7315 I never said for anyone to live for anyone other than themselves... but to act as if nothing is wrong for someone else, that would be the exact same thing. In my opinion, I'm gonna be my fucking self. Most ppl flip out like the receptionist because they're so busy trying to please everyone else by wearing a facade of normalcy.

[@Zalerea]

I’m always amazed at how many customer service people thank me for remaining calm and polite. Our society is becoming so hostile at everything people are thanking me for being kind.

[@kittyykatie]

when I did customer service work is was basically being a underpaid punching bag. and since I was young a lot of people hated me and saw me as some dumb teenager

[@JadetheGoober]

Girl yes. It was aggravating at first, the thought of them being mistreated so regularly they feel the need to thank a nice person. Then it became really sad.

[@JadetheGoober]

@@kittyykatie imbeciles, age is just an indication of how long you’ve been alive, it says nothing about your personality. Working as a teenager indicates ambition and personal initiative. That’s what they should’ve been focusing on.

[@kittyykatie]

@@JadetheGoober yes lots of people say my generation is rude but honestly I was being yelled at people 40 years and older all day 😭 but I quit that job after pandemic and just focusing on school now

[@jonathancallahan3358]

Truth it's crazy out here my front part of my brain was crushed and my fuse is small and still try to be nice to the people working in customer service because I know corporate is the problem not the workers

[@KotaroInu510]

Instead of being sympathetic, he kept egging him on. All to make him an example.

[@Benlovesscience]

not to mention making it a racial issue too

[@jesuschristislord77733]

The most considerate demographic I've ever run into since immigrating to USA in 1998. - BLM (Bosnian Libertarian Male)

[@KotaroInu510]

If the receptionist was saying slurs, okay, record him. But it had to be something else because that's all they can see. White dude having a mental breakdown. IT HAS TO BE RACIST🤪

[@peachywe4310]

Sympathy will be hard to find if you’re in the dudes position, especially when there are trolls and influencer

[@ankieb3980]

Typically nigga always making shit about race

[@natemitten5787]

When this guy started hitting himself my heart sank. It's really hard to watch. The person filming is disgusting. He had plenty of opportunities to do different but he didn't. Acted like an asshole,continued to do so with the filming,and then STILL posted this. Shame was created for people like that.

[@e_N_n]

His response to a schizophrenic person is to go "Wooooow that's the kinda person they hire here?" Like wtf are people supposed to starve bc their brain makes a little extra noise? Ridiculous.

[@paulglandorf4858]

@@e_N_n the customer is a whole douche TRUCK. And even posting that video online, and then complaining after... i'm disgusted by such behaviour

[@calestaiezu214]

My daughter has ASD. When I started seeing him hit himself my heart hurt so bad for him because this is what my daughter does when her stress becomes too high for her to handle. She immediately starts hurting herself. For people to find this funny, or to compare it to a Karen moment. Wow....I just can't.

[@booknerdjebbi5037]

@@calestaiezu214 I will never in my life understand what is funny about people getting hurt. I don't even find those American Home Videos funny where people hurt themselves. I sure as hell don't find this funny.

[@paulglandorf4858]

@@amiromar2347 Found the racist. You are not a bit better than the opressors. And for your suggestion, heck yeah i'd change places with George Floyd cuz he deserved to live. Grow some empathy 🖕

[@MrTakemura13]

He literally beat himself up.- Imagine what he does to himself in his mind, how he feels.

[@TheRealFobican]

The mental torture of feeling that life is being pulled under you like a rug.

[@wolfsesthenighteye499]

Yup exactly

[@RevengeOfThaNerd]

Damn

[@FishInDaToilet]

yknow something aint right when the guy attacks himself first before the prick provoking him

[@seanfothergill4039]

@@themuted3123 suffering is the characterisation of life, not an individual person. Tbh, that comment makes you sound like a piece of shit.

[@chelseacourtney4995]

As a person who suffers with manic depressive disorder who knows what a manic attack can feel like .... that video is just a disgusting display of disregard for a person's private struggles.

[@jobrandnew78]

u a girl its safe

[@chelseacourtney4995]

@@jobrandnew78 you might be surprised

[@dustbgone8435]

Proud of you. Thank you for being brave enough to share.

[@lissiemc9243]

@bresnu joseph .... this prob goes without saying for most : your personal anecdote and experience does not necessarily indicate the pattern in society. I.e i'd have to disagree with the statement that because of being a woman, she is inherinetly more safe from this type of ridicule. I wonder where you have gained these facts?

[@bamboy1562]

There's nothing brave about saying this

[@GraveRave]

"Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know absolutely nothing about. Be kind. Always." -Robin Williams

[@bigrich6075]

💯💯

[@TheSneakyfiend]

Just be kind. It’s what life is all about.

[@iheartjbgccb]

Whatever happened to do unto others? The golden rule?

[@Sola42]

@@iheartjbgccb some people are weird.

[@Jasonhadjigeorgiou]

@@iheartjbgccb because nobody gives a shit anymore.

[@jenicafetters4245]

My Teenaged sons have autism ,and I worry about some jerk filming one of their meltdowns and posting it all the time. This breaks my heart. Be kind to each other.

[@popperv5742]

💙

[@MyGreenNest]

Hurts my heart

[@etrotm12thebluewolf15]

I have autism too and had past history of having mental breakdowns And the thing about having it is that people tend not to be comforting when we are in distress or sympathetic to most people suffering that mental illness. So I do hope they don't go through what I have myself.

[@indefatigableargonaut]

I'm glad that the general public have to go through isolation and uncertainty. I've dealt with this my whole life and now you normies finally want to give yourselves a pass for breaking down. I'm glad this guy is melting down.

[@sewerpeople346]

@@popperv5742 Hey sorry random question, does a blue heart mean something specific or do you just like blue? I just learned what black balloons mean and now I'm interested..

[@ldanielrsanchez423]

Like the Joker said, “The Problem with mental issues is that people expect you to act as you don’t have it”

[@DaughterOfLilith08]

This, exactly.

[@ziongamer6905]

“Just pretend to be normal” as they do nothing but rag on the people who are already struggle with this mental troubles. These people never make it easy to work through these issues. Then they wanna blame the mentally ill individual.

[@yes.ma_am]

That movie was awesome. Best one. They really touched well on mental illness

[@EricaL2024]

So true. Wow.

[@tankiesbot6578]

People expect those in these positions to behave like normal people. Nothing wrogm with that

[@viahlated8878]

As someone suffering from Severe Depression and Anxiety, this literally makes me sick to my fucking stomach that this dude would go this far clearly knowing that he’s going through it bad.

[@edwardrichard8093]

He doesn't care. His race is a higher priority to him.

[@dustbgone8435]

You're brave to talk about your condition, Devin. Sending you light.

[@SA-up8vo]

Same here I’m disgusted

[@lampad4549]

As someone who is suicidal ? No one cares.

[@dustbgone8435]

@@lampad4549 Not true. There are a lot of us that care. I'm glad you are here. ❤

[@uhkylie1274]

My heart dropped the moment I watched the guy start hitting himself. It was hard to watch, he was so overwhelmed and the guy who was recording just made it worse. He literally humiliated him and didn't even respect his privacy. This shit makes me angry.

[@kkibela]

And what no one is saying is that this is how people parent their kids..culturally.. that's all I'm saying about that

[@CheekyChan]

And most people are just gonna say he's doing it for attention. 😔

[@StonedGargoyle]

Right there with you.

[@Dakarn]

If it makes you feel better, TheQuartering and his fans raised $40,000 through GoFundMe to help this guy follow his dream to be a streamer.

[@corpsebanger]

What's worse, this bullshit is the exact reason why people who suffer don't go to seek treatment, or choose not to communicate their traumas...

[@hunterkiller1440]

People saying they have a mental illness to be quirky is basically down playing the severity of the situation where society won't take it seriously. This is why when this kinda thing happens, people just don't understand it.

[@Sims4T]

No for real. I’ve struggled with depression, depressive episodes, suicidal thoughts and anxiety both social and general most of my life because the chemicals in my brain aren’t at the right levels. There is nothing quirky about the pain it has caused me. And still does, any day I forget to brush my teeth or I’m so tired I don’t want to get up to pee but force myself to do it I feel like shit.

[@lucifer3416]

Exactly. When id talk about my hallucinations or hospitalizations people would say something like "oh yeah I'm like that to. Like when I got super depressed for like an hour after my favourite character died." No. Its nothing like that at all. Sooo many people in high-school faked mental illnesses to be "cool" or "quirky" and its disgusting. Actually the vast majourity that faked their problems did it for the medicine, which they then sold to other students. Meanwhile I couldn't get the medicine I needed because they accused me of being an addict, though unlike others in school I never asked for meds by name. I was mocked so much by so many people for my mental illness just to see them turn around and proudly tell everyone they are bipolar or something. Ive never met anyone who genuinely deals with mental health issues that would be proud to tell people their diagnosis. Sure I can say I'm schizoaffective here with anonymity, but in person I am so ashamed of myself and afraid of what people would think that I would never. The stigma around mental health would never allow me to feel safe telling anyone.

[@troubleclliff]

It's also just a given oftentimes that the 1st (and sometimes only) option is medication. As if trying to avoid drugs that trade your depression for severe fatigue, sexual dysfunction or turn you into a zombie is "stigmatizing" the use of pharmeceuticals. I have no doubt that sort of mentality could be contributing to the opioid crisis.

[@Twysthor]

YES

[@tomsellout9576]

Struggled with bpd most my life. It’s ruined every relationship, friendship etc. I’ve ever had. I have no close friends and suffer from chronic suicidal ideation. Everyday I regret waking up and I live my life with a constant empty feeling inside due to constant neglect and invalidation as I child. Now I can barely speak to people and find it easier to be alone even though loneliness and abandonment are also some of my biggest chronic fears. Life is hell. No one cares. Put your head down and work, do what your supposed to. When the bullet splits your skull then they wonder what happened. Why didn’t you say anything? Well when I tried you figured “ah it’s normal he’ll be alright” until that time comes when I won’t be able to push through it. Life ain’t shit but pain and disappointment

[@haraldisdead]

My son is a high functioning kid with autism. He's 8. I worry about him making it in our sick work culture every day.

[@rainbowmoon3998]

My Son too.. it was actually my first thought when I saw this gentleman lash out at himself. Instant tears.

[@Brotherkai11]

My little brother has autism and i worry as well

[@satiricalsartorial]

He can work for himself one day. Don't worry

[@haraldisdead]

@@satiricalsartorial what does that mean?

[@haraldisdead]

@@rainbowmoon3998

[@aitheuhc]

You guys, mental breakdowns aren't only for those who have mental illness. You can be perfectly normal but under stress and bad situations you'll break down mentally. Normalize understanding breakdowns. People don't just breakdown over minor stuff.

[@H0kram]

Yes, it can happen to anyone. Even with a very thick skin, there's a limit to everything. Actually the toughest you are the harder it is because when you keep holding for months, if not years, by the time it comes out, it's a tsunami. And the fact of not recognizing yourself in such behaviors, is probably the worst. Because those confusions lead to expectations of handling it and failing at it, which leads to frustration and shame. Fuck this person for recording it, it's more violent than punching this young man and kicking him in the face. I see people might realize that no one is protected from it. At least we may get that out of it. Any of you watching, you're only 2 or 3 steps away from breaking apart, especially these days. Same for people around you. It might already be the case. Be mindful.

[@dustbgone8435]

True

[@chaosismyjam8187]

Of course, but you shouldn't have a mental breakdown in the *first* place. People without mental issues can do this without any problems. People with some issues will struggle. That is what is mostly meant. Because c'mon. When was the last time you saw a sensible person have a breakdown this bad in *front* of someone - especially a customer - the person who was shitting on you?

[@neilcarter1504]

@@chaosismyjam8187 a sensible person wtf are you talking about clown. Having a mental illness doesn't mean you're not sensible.

[@irinaparent9066]

@@Luke-pd7xj they said in the video that he does. bipolar and schitzo. he has people who work with him to be able to get a job so he usually has someone who checks in at work with him for a whole shift. this time they were not there so they couldn't help him with these issues.

[@yaellara6702]

He was trying to break him down, at his weakest point, evil.

[@blindi6326]

Didn't the black guy call him a "white f*ggot" or something like that before he started recording too?

[@kokie2ya]

@@blindi6326 We don’t know if that was true. Was the white guy calling him the N-word? We don’t know. What we do know is the customer went to the staff to get his issue resolved.

[@lids5755]

@@kokie2ya Nah he went to rant and rave. This is not the way u 'resolve' or help urself or anyone for tht matter.

[@kokie2ya]

@@lids5755 The customer didn’t raise his voice one time. You’re adding to the narrative to take responsibility of the clerk doing his job. You’re allowed to complain when you spend your money with company with the expectation of good service.

[@k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181]

@@kokie2ya So what was the complaint again? Didn't hear anything legitimate, just a guy berating customer service, like DOUCHBAGS always do..

[@sirah1282]

No matter how angry I am, if someone smashed their face into a computer screen during a confrontation, that is a call for concern.

[@daindigokid]

Unless it’s a black man who Who beat an Asian to death. It’s the same disorders but people want to ignore it. the man was dangerous. It’s His responsibility to get himself medication to stop himself from hurting himself and others around him.

[@adio8824]

@@daindigokid huh? He beat an Asian to death and you think empathy should be for the aggressor rather than the victim? And how is that the same thing with banging your head on a computer?

[@sirah1282]

@@daindigokid exactly! Both are dangerous (this one to himself) and this man could’ve been just as bad as the one you’re referring to. Everyone is responsible for their mental health, but I do think everyone needs to learn to be considerate of others as we are all fighting our own demons. Does that mean it’s your fault for how they lash out? No, but you were certainly a trigger to push someone over the edge.

[@tazsaalim8710]

@@daindigokid nigga what

[@mikeyy2322]

I’d just walk away tbh it would freak me out I wouldn’t be recording and getting more attention my way 😂 I hate when unnecessary eyes are on me.

[@georgeyazbeck9157]

Imagine he went viral for being human and comforting this guy.. what a life changing moment it could be for both. The world is cold.

[@danielleb9781]

Right... no one has any compassion anymore 😔

[@weevilgirl7948]

Everybody in this chat sounds like they ❤️ care!! ☮️

[@Hoopty_Poopty]

Bruh I would have crossed the counter, hugged him, and apologized for the stuff I said

[@awesomemccoolname7111]

We live in a fallen world.

[@mourlyvold7655]

@@danielleb9781 Don't go there, my friend. All is not lost, you'll see...

[@theaveragesniper887]

That's the cry of a man who's being slammed with the possibility that he's going to lose everything... no man cries like that until he's at the bottome of his ropes in his mind. Pray for the brother...we wouldn't want the world to see us in our worst moments, why would you feel entitled enough to do that to others who you don't even know?

[@angeldejko8842]

“Why’d you hit the keyboard” he’s making it look like the worker is a child for breaking down.. but he’s the child for recording and bitching about something that didn’t affect him.

[@JaneQPublic]

That’s a narcissistic trait - it’s incredibly abusive to taunt someone who is clearly panicking. What people fail to realize is the intense pain that comes w that. And that’s just what we saw recorded- how long did this go on before he started recording.

[@JenellBC]

Who cares? This man is at work. If you can’t take working at a desk with customer you need to work at home or get a crazy check. His behavior is not ok.

[@phataldestroyer]

@@JenellBC Yeah working drive through in fast food You dont get to do this Customer service is hard and maybe this was probably his breaking point :( I always get snappy but being high as fuck helped. If i wasnt, man id probably smash my fist through a window. Messing up is so easy and hurtin the worker instead of the management is horrible.

[@xDRAGONSHAGGERx]

@@JaneQPublic yo I wish I knew that 8 years ago when I befriended a narcissist, he legit hindered all my mental health progress and I had no idea. This was one of his trademarks, to keep agitating me when I was clearly getting distressed...which, along with all his other trademarks, turns out to be exact behaviours of a narcissist :/

[@Dunnolol101]

@@JenellBC I have a person that I supervise that is a veteran that is perfectly cool with everything, works very hard, great customer service. But one day a customer wouldn’t quit repeatedly harassing them over a small issue with our stock and not having something advertised that we would have it later on for the holidays. This upset him and really messed with his PTSD.Should they just not have a job you’re saying?

[@brooklyngonzalez8549]

The customer wanted to make this “anti black” online, but in reality it’s anti mental health.

[@kimberlyrouse4741]

Agreed , this was heartbreaking 😞

[@akirahayama2653]

True

[@erossenpai2884]

I mean, we say these words but lets be honest here.. This isn't going to make anyone give a single fuck about mental health, and the fact that it's a guy? Hahaha just tell him to walk it off, the exercise will help him find his spine again.

[@bluewolf783]

@@erossenpai2884 How is your comment helping?

[@erossenpai2884]

@@bluewolf783 and what of yours? Have you brought anything to the table other this pathetic attempt at trying to get a pointless shot in? I don't see your attempt anywhere.

[@sergiosandoval7955]

I felt so bad for that person. I'm crying. That person filming missed a perfect opportunity to be a good human.

[@tentedkarma7465]

He isn't and he never was

[@Missjunebugfreak]

The person filming got what they wanted by instigating a reaction from the worker. He'd been hurling homophobic slurs at the worker before he started filming. It's really sad the lengths people will go to just to achieve a 'viral moment' on social media.

[@Themiddlingallotmentandgarden]

You aren't alone. I cried too. It was just heartbreaking to not only watch this young man suffering but also seeing a total lack of any kind of empathy in the moment. The fact this person the uploaded this video is a complete disgrace and he should be ashamed of himself, but he won't. I don't know what's wrong with people. I'll be thinking about that poor guy for some time and I really hope he's ok.

[@VividFizzy]

@@tentedkarma7465 bad troll, try harder

[@floritamendez3297]

@@tentedkarma7465 oh really why is that? Because he filmed a going going nuts over the customer service? Shut up

[@kugelblitzkrieg]

I remember first seeing this on Twitter. It’s disgusting how many people used the white guy card to justify the cameraman’s actions.The post I saw even called him a school shooter, and I’m pretty sure he tried to pull the race card when people tried to call him out on his bullshit. I hope that kid is doing better now.

[@xanderhug]

if he was a school shooter people would still try to defend him

[@vihansubramaniam3593]

@@xanderhug but hes not is he?

[@jeffreyali3644]

@@ix9280 not funny dude

[@neinja66469]

@@ix9280 you should too frr stop jokin abt that shit

[@megamanblack4309]

"Kid"?

[@TheRealAuroraEmily]

As someone with bipolar, I am grateful no one has recorded me. I couldn’t imagine going viral for one of the dark moments of my life.

[@jannettsnow2856]

I've been recorded it made me want to end my life. Luckily I'm still here

[@jmdrummond]

I hear you, I live with bipolar as well, have had eye witnesses to humiliating personal behavior displays others can’t even imagine. It’s hard to live down even without being recorded. I feel so much empathy for this man. I wish I could be his friend, and support him.

[@courtneyjade9963]

This makes me fear finding work. I'd be mortified if someone recorded me instead of helping me.

[@12235117657598502586]

@@jannettsnow2856 You’re strong... Please stay strong and live well! 🙂💪

[@12235117657598502586]

@@courtneyjade9963 If ANYONE treats an employee this way, then the employee should call their manager to deal with that abusive person...Because that’s a managers job (all managers are paid to deal with angry, rude or abusive customers) it’s not the staff’s job.

[@mholcomb12ify]

Camera man’s behavior is disgusting, I’m so sorry for this person being recorded at such a vulnerable moment 😞

[@jonnymur3808]

@@juandonentertainment7871 No, you Stop. WTF ist wrong with you?????

[@hellfirejahannam7734]

❤

[@zacharycollins1547]

@@juandonentertainment7871 if you can't understand how mental breakdowns work then you must've had a stress free life

[@thebezt101]

@@juandonentertainment7871 it's funny that you think that recording someone hurting rather then helping them is ok. 😞 I will never understand this thinking.

[@jjosifovic]

@@thebezt101 that way of thinking is called being a degenerate

[@Homicide2323]

My fiance recently had one of these meltdown because she got into a fight with her mother who kept antagonizing her. It's no joke. When people are pushed past their limits dangerous things happen. I feel sad for this gentleman and I hope he gets the help he needs.

[@hgnnnno7853]

Hope your fiance is doing well, make sure to be her rock when you can be, I hope she does the same for you.

[@MrMatFuchs]

@@hgnnnno7853 That's great advice

[@Maniacman2030]

@Berry Love Well, if you had frequent meltdowns, I'd be wary of you as well and it'd have zero to do with your race. I feel like we're not hearing the full story and I'm sure we never will. I doubt it has to do with race though. I'm thinking part of your problem is thinking that way.

[@partylike5445]

Damn right I have similar issues myself and I can get extremely irrational and even violent when pushed beyond my limits it's a hard thing to control point is dont antagonize someone when they are clearly going through this hell dont antagonize anyone at all.

[@amberpasta9379]

It’s so tragic... and even I had mental breakdowns like this where I actually hurt myself because of what my ex did to me. I’m much better now and I got help and I’m out of the relationship but this is real stuff and I hope everyone who has the same or similar experiences can get help and find mental peace. This guy deserves better

[@amaragrace94]

I cried right along with him. That was that "ugly" cry from the bottom of your emotional pit type of cry. I've been there...vomit and all. You feel stupid, inadequate, and worthless in that moment. You feel alone and like no one cares about you. It's an intense and scary emotional place to be. I couldn't imagine being filmed while going through that. I just wanted to stroke his back and give him a hug...tell him that he's not alone and it will be ok. If you see a grown man crying like that, he's clearly not ok. Just be kind please.

[@taytayqueen7024]

This is so disgusting. This isn’t a racial thing in any way. How can you not have empathy for this guy. My heart broke for him. He’s in pain. I feel so bad :(

[@once_upon_a_time__]

It is also ironic on the part of the person filming, if you want to be treated fairly by others and want others to have compassion for you why can’t you treat others the same, extend the same understanding to others that you also ask for from others

[@gretasstolendreams2154]

Dude. Its Tariq Nasheed. His literal entire career is race baiting and antagonization. In what world is this not racial?

[@joel3029]

How is it not Racial? The black fella recording clearly made it racial.

[@paulcooper5748]

@xXIDOLHANDZXx True it is.

[@jackgenre11]

Guess this is white privalledge the prvalledge to be abused and people to laugh at their pain and suffering because their only white so it's ok. When your first reaction to someone suffering is to film them rather than try not to make it worse your a piece of 💩

[@Zerum69]

You know what's worse? When the dude cries out "you ruined my life", he's not wrong... You got a man fired and ruined his reputation permanently

[@rome2568]

How did a customer ruin his life in 5 minutes?

[@masterhodir890]

@@rome2568 you think a hotel would let a person keep their job after having a breakdown in front of a customer? This guy pushed him to the edge and put this incident out for millions to see. Someone googles his past job this sht will show up, the poster is a POS. Man can't even deal with his issues without the entire world knowing about it.

[@piticofuentes635]

@@rome2568 I think its obvious how the customer ruined his life. Its understandable that customer service can be a shit place at times but that event in video is so...heartless

[@rome2568]

@@piticofuentes635 you people are damn fools. His life was bad long before that interaction. Customers ask questions all of the time. Ask them aggressively too.

[@megaclap4670]

@@rome2568 shut the fuck up

[@aguasanta]

Some people are so intoxicated with this racial thing that they're losing their humanity. (in essence, that's what racism truly is. A loss of humanity)

[@BM-fz9yc]

Well put.

[@mosesa.weaver3058]

Well said

[@Zer0TheProdigy]

Preach brother

[@CybertroninfiniteOfficial]

It's been flipped now

[@sbqntlyawake3813]

Amen!

[@crystallight328]

Stop recording ppl mental breakdown. Don’t care about the race. This is serious. So sad I hope he found some healing. Praying for you guy.

[@user-mt6pi3to1u]

Why did that guy even say "your company made a mistake so you're gonna take it out on me by hitting the computer!?! Huh!?" If the hotel made a mistake and he slapped the computer he's obviously mad at the computer not the customer... As in the boy was compassionate for the customer and mad he couldn't do his job correctly and that guy responded by yelling at him, nice

[@ElGreco15]

I didn't even catch that the first time. Now I'm even more disgusted by the clout chaser.

[@e_N_n]

I've dealt w this before, I understand how scary and upsetting it is to think that you have a hotel room when you don't, usually it is a third party booking companies fault for not correctly updating their system. It's a 50/50 whether the customer if gonna scream at you or not. It's really stressful as an employee cuz you try to call the customer, they have no phone number on file, try to call expedia, they cant help till the customer gets there, try to call another hotel and hook them up, the other hotel is having the same problem. There is no winning and the stress of someone being so mad at you for something totally outside your control is bad enough without any mental health crisis.

[@amneenja5720]

"take it out on me by hitting the computer" Stretch Armstrong takin notes rn

[@zo5679]

@@amneenja5720 maybe the costumer is a computer too so he feel attacked

[@skullcandy5411]

Exactly like how tf does hitting the computer mean he’s taking it out on u? Tf did that do to you lol what do u have to do with the computer

[@Shadowdragon_TV]

This is one of the main problems with humanity. We expect empathy but completely forget it exists when others need it most.

[@VGGamess]

Quick to remember and play the victim when its them though; the nigga recording probably would be the first one to say “you goin to hell” if somebody pressed him like this. That shit is wack

[@stephaniefarhoumand1175]

Right right

[@greg6812]

Thank u

[@mackprime6975]

I would also add that if the idea to be empathetic does come to mind, they will ignore it/justify not giving it in order to avoid being inconvenienced.

[@engineeredtruths8935]

This is a generation of narcisstic and psychotic people.

[@soapmanwuan4735]

if I seen a dude smacking his head on a monitor, I'd ask mans is he good. It's not even about my service at that point

[@watchumean2869]

Right, the whole employee/customer barrier completely goes away.

[@HerbaMachina]

Fr I'd be like wipe my schedule clean, homie and I gotta have a real heart to heart talk here man.

[@hashiramacells9845]

I would just ask if he ok and then ask if he could get someone else for me to talk to

[@mokushmasmo6009]

EXACTLY. We have mental illness to such degrees because countries naturally prioritize the country over the people. It's strange. People have more pride for their country then themselves. Hence money and war is prioritized over the health of people. Hence we always lose. FUCK USA, FUCK FRANCE, Fuck BRITAIN FUCK CHINA, FUCK RUSSIA. All countries harbor country preservation and not human lives. Simply.

[@MisterBehavior]

Seriously

[@fifthlevelbard9541]

"These are the kinds of people they got working here." The gaslighting......

[@minhasabdi7839]

Would you mind teaching me what gaslighting is?

[@fifthlevelbard9541]

@@minhasabdi7839 I don't mind. Gaslighting is a form of manipulative abuse that typically makes the victim contemplate whether or not they're the ones to blame for the abuse in the first place, with the abuser, through this manipulation, trying to convince the victim and the people around them that the victim is mentally unfit.

[@dustbgone8435]

Exactly

[@irinaparent9066]

@@minhasabdi7839 here is a recent example: transgender people saying straight men are transphobic just because they only want to date women. trans people calling others transphobic when you state that they need thrown safe space away from children and women. they will try to call you things just to try and make you sound like it is wrong for you to worry about the safety of others.

[@WWYD0]

@@minhasabdi7839 A classic example of gaslighting is the phrase "I didn't want to do this, but you left me no choice..." and then the person goes on to do something abusive towards whomever they were talking to. I know it's a bit late on the reply, but for others that may find your reply and have the same question.

[@gloriousgal9958]

This makes me want to cry. I have severe generalized anxiety and could not imagine how horrible I would feel if someone recorded me having an anxiety attack and posted it online to make fun of me.

[@BOB-di9ox]

I also have generalized anxiety and even just someone being close when I have an attack makes it worse

[@loganjanel]

Same

[@Пинагод]

And then they antagonise you as if you're in the wrong. God this is awful.

[@dakotamabry1645]

I found that I had to excuse myself and inflict pain on myself so my brain would quickly produce dopamine in my brain in a fix . It's better to naturally fix your diet and work out regularly to reduce your stress , keeping yourself busy helps reduce stress . I went from anxiety 3x a week to once every other month .

[@dakotamabry1645]

@Bitch Lasagna I love your user name 😂 , thanks its frustrating to think that their are others with problems that will quickly bypass my advice and act like I'm telling them go for a run 😓 no I'm just saying a change in diet and exercise will improve your overall mood and you receive less attacks , its an option for those that can't afford to take medication .

[@LolitaBonitaaa]

He literally said "because I have mental..." and after hitting himself "you ruined my life, you ruined my whole life" before running away to cry and all this other guy said was "wow." I am completely appalled and heartbroken. How can there be so much insensitivity in this world in just one person. I can't believe what I just watched. I'm so sorry for this employee.

[@squeaky_moths]

Because everyone HAS to be the victim. This guy, guessing by how he titled it, wanted to be the victim of racism.

[@tentedkarma7465]

Meh he's a man who cares

[@jamesklark6562]

From my experience the people that boast about mental health awareness the most are the most ignorant about it, putting themselves on high priority and then just ignore or respond with empty statement after empty statement to anyone asking for help. I mean I'd rather someone be upfront with me if they can't help instead of them spamming me with "feel good" facebook quotes and empty validation.

[@jessiejmoore]

Oh shut up... You have the luxury of watching the video from a safe space, over and over. The customer didn't have that time and space, he had to record to protect himself from god knows what might come after this incident. White people have police on speed dial ready to call on black customers... he was protecting himself.

[@pinexo]

@@jessiejmoore Did we watch the same video bro? You gotta be talking about something else.

[@LoneStoneMaalik]

It’s sad, cause he was tryna explain his mental health problems, but buddy kept interrupting him.

[@avrandlane2735]

it reminds me of the joker, when Arthur is on the train trying to explain his condition but the others don't care and only want to show them their side of things.

[@iheartjbgccb]

"The worst part about having a mental illness is people expect you to behave as if you don't"

[@Thuperman788]

@@iheartjbgccb This. This is absolutely one of the most frustrating and painful parts of mental illness.

[@SmokeOnTheWater108]

Folks behind the camera shouldn’t have their anonymity when things like this go viral

[@joshuafurlong5270]

@@SmokeOnTheWater108 it was indeed freddy gibbs. and let me tell you he is NOT in a good place right now. people are mad mad at him.

[@emmastephenson3198]

This made me cry. The disrespect that was shown while it's clear the employee was actually trying to help is disgusting.

[@Veziahh]

Not gonna lie but I teared up at him filming and continuing to antagonize him in his work job.. this is so heartbreaking.

[@KaeRoque]

Same )): hella mean ...

[@Delimon007]

Same, the moment I saw him hitting myself I could barely watch, you can just feel his pain yet this person continued to film and pester him.

[@elise8276]

the person who filmed him even called him a “f*ggot” but cut it out of the video on Instagram

[@lucapeyrefitte6899]

I kinda cried too because I would’ve broken down too if I was feeling how he was felt

[@anonymousperson3023]

@@elise8276 dont know if it was cut out or just not recorded. Based on the rmployees own admission, it appears as though it wasnt recorded. Not edited out

[@Diffy1991]

This hurt. To look at someone act out that way and to somehow thinks it's about you. To not see the human being in front of you.

[@Ab-Original419]

Yea some people think the universe revolves around them and they think everyone has their life together and every single person in the world has the same level of maturity. That's how dumb the camera man is.

[@Ab-Original419]

Dont get me wrong I would not act like the worker did but to sit their and record him and bitch like a cry baby as a grown man just makes u look like an idiot like the guy your filming.

[@gabbeskillz6262]

I've had an episode similar to this at school before and everyone just laughed at me like bruh

[@perigrinrose]

@@gabbeskillz6262 *hugs* I'm so sorry you went through this.

[@leesteal4458]

Powerful last sentence.

[@grimmiefan22]

The condescending “wow-you gotta be kidding me” I began crying immediately. This was so hard to watch. The way he walks away “you ruined my day-my life” This hurt my faith in humanity.

[@trottheblackdog]

Trust me.. there was no humanity in that video.

[@Legal_Sweetie333]

You're a lovely person

[@standan5084]

Don’t loose the faith, keep being the change you want to see in the world

[@mirandarodrigue3807]

I 100% agree. My heart broke for this man. It was incredibly hard to watch and then to hear people were laughing at this has really saddened me for my children. Just knowing what kind of world they have to grow up in,😭

[@YisraelPrince]

If this made you cry You shouldn’t be in society

[@e.paradigm7415]

I have a female coworker who had constant breakdowns, so I always make sure she takes her breaks on time and joke around with her to help her feel better. She's done so much better and I'm happy to see that for her. Customers can be straight up Aholes tho, I've seen clients straight up just be impatient and turn to being blatantly offensive, it happens a lot actually and that's not ok behavior, treat others with respect and *JUST BE PATIENT* if you're in a hurry don't take it out on the employees, straight up.

[@Lindraws04]

You’re a good person towards your co worker. I hope you know that

[@e.paradigm7415]

@@Lindraws04 At least I try to be, but at one point it was incredibly bad, when I first started at that business location all the other members warned me about her breakdowns, I didn't know what to expect until I saw it first hand. The poor girl would be assisting a client and just suddenly shutdown, shake her head and drop to her knees crying hysterically. The customers wouldn't know what to do and I would have to show up and talk to her and even give her an extra break just to get her head together, sometimes it was little things that would trigger her BUT I worked with her on that and it went from like a once a week kind of thing to two weeks and now it's been a whole year and I haven't seen an episode once, she's progressed incredibly well and I'm proud of her, I even explained to her that the company pays for some counseling so if she needed to talk, she had someone professional to go to and that helped, she didn't know this before I got there but overall my point is, as a leader you have to care about your crew and not only challenge them but also try different strategies to help them succeed. Now when i work with her she brings a strong positive attitude towards her job that I'll catch her singing and joking around even so that she's looking to move up with the company. Trust me, she's grown a lot, funny how sometimes taking the time to help others can make a huge difference, you wouldn't think taking a 15 min talk a day would have an effect but it does! Lol.

[@Lindraws04]

@@e.paradigm7415 That’s amazing! I’m glad she’s doing better. You did great. It makes me have hope for people more since I saw this.

[@e.paradigm7415]

@@Lindraws04 Thank you 🙂 I appreciate your feedback.

[@michelegray5970]

Poor girl may have not had any real support. Sometimes all it takes is ONE person ONE, to show compassion and kindness to help them through it. Bless you and continue being your sweet self! 🙏

[@ilya8132]

The man didn't even let him escape the recording. It hurts, man.

[@jaxsimmons5773]

Like let the man have a minute. When people get sad or start to cry I let them have their moment and once I see they are calmed down, I help them and try to understand.

[@jayvhoncalma3458]

@@ryguy2226 Tru

[@mikecimpu4077]

yeah...that's pure sadism and cruelty right there. Hard to watch.

[@zafiruzoma6234]

@@jaxsimmons5773 that's how it is in the hood fam nobody gonna give u space to breathe😭

[@wa-bu3ke]

@Hi_Nu Ver 0 Zero_Tester That wasn't Tariq Nasheed. You're lying

[@jwalker6260]

I have an autistic child. This is the type of thing that worries me. Not the melt downs, those are inevitable. People not understanding and taunting... the things I’ll do to em...

[@David-gu8hv]

I wonder if he might not be on the spectrum...

[@Aaronduhmoron]

@@David-gu8hv yeah I'm thinking he is. This is my worst fear - if I ever have a child that has autism, I just know deep down people like this will always exist and attack him/her in some way.

[@sguraya7223]

Don't make threats like that, you know full well the things you'll do to them are: nothing.

[@caleviwin]

@@sguraya7223 kinda like how your comment means nothing?

[@suescaletta137]

yes! my older brother has aspergers and people have been so mean to him all those years growing up. I'm sad that I did not understand it earlier but my parents always denied it. I wish i could have protected him more

[@leesteal4458]

The poor guy had a breakdown because he had an overload. It wasn't just that incident. It was everything. That was the straw that broke the camel's back.

[@MoneyGIitch]

@UC22V65LYUcVxW7eFW3dEE8w wow. You must be a phycologist to be able to know that from a Short clip. you’re pathetic.

[@ReisePiece]

I don’t think that is the first time he has done that, he has probably been acting out like that since he was a kid

[@michaelmeteviet9702]

@@ReisePiece what makes you say that?

[@sundevil2295]

I believe the employee was called a fag. I read a post supposedly that was from the man breaking down and he said what wasn't recorded was the man calling him a homophobic slur.

[@leesteal4458]

@@sundevil2295 Yes, of course he is not going to agree with that. However, as I said, it was the straw that broke the camel's back.

[@diluzo]

I have ADHD and Bipolar Disorder, when under immense stress I'll start to compulsively hit myself, sometimes I feel like it's the only thing that'll get me to "ground" myself so I won't tap out. I was super uncomfortable with the reaction people had to this poor man, and their general reaction towards an obvious mental breakdown. We're still so far behind as a society with how we regard mentally ill and neurodivergent people, I hope that we can at least get to the point where the consensus is that recording and laughing at someone going through this is wrong.

[@moonknight4053]

With adhd in adult men can it look like u don’t have it? Same goes for bipolar?

[@thefrog4990]

@@moonknight4053 It can present itself in different ways. There’s many people with these disorders that you wouldn’t even guess have it. Some people manage and hide their symptoms better than others.

[@ashura011]

People get a little sad these days and literally brag that they're depressed and when there's a situation like this they make fun of it.

[@dylanjones268]

Don't discount or assume someone else's pain is trivial compared to yours or your loved one's. Always assume they are telling the truth and offer the support they are requesting or that you assume they are requesting. It's this line of thinking.. that "mine is worse" talk is what has lead to this lack of empathy that you seem to acknowledge in this moment.

[@ashura011]

@@dylanjones268 never said mine is worse, Infact I'm lucky enough to not have mental issues as of yet but i personally know people that for a fact do not have any mental issues(which is why they never go seek help because if they do they'll be outed) but say/brag they're depressed so yeah.

[@KEVLAR420]

Personally, i don't go around complaining about my mental health, instead i express it in form of memes or jokes because otherwise i'll just end up pushing people away, i don't want that to happen

[@steel0koala]

@@dylanjones268 No, this is just flat out wrong. As someone with legit diagnosed mental health issues, nothing frustrates me more then people playing make believe at having a mental issue. They take up resorses from people that really need them, making the entire mental health system in my country practically useless. They are also perpetuating the idea that a mental health issue is something you just "get over" or "power through", because every one sees Sally who "has depression" is doing fine, so why aren't you? Because Sally dosn't actually have depression, they are an attention seeker who takes away resources from and delegitimises legitimate cases of mental health suffers.

[@kevinpaap2890]

@@ashura011 Dylan’s sentiment about people essentially trying to 1-up each other “Keeping up with the Jones” mentality about their grievances is true, but at its core I think it’s exacerbated by your point exactly: that people who *weren’t* having these issues felt “left out” on social media, so they started to either get involved with bringing attention to the matter (this route of thinking is good). But in reality, more people than that (typically sub-30 year olds I’ve noticed) just “play along” in order to get attention and validation, after which when they receive it, they fall into a feedback loop of “I need attention; I got attention on Social Media; Now I need _more_ attention” which feeds into a different part of the brain that causes its own mental issues particularly affecting personality and self-control. Just like a drug addict in their feedback loop essentially.

[@johndunkentell3388]

This make this so hard to have the talk about race. This guy was having a mental breakdown and he kept pushing him. My heart goes out the the employee

[@peachywe4310]

Actual race issues are avoided over “issues” like these.

[@Thewiseone344]

I mean, this had nothing to do with race.. just an ignorant statement from an ignorant dude

[@johndunkentell3388]

@@Thewiseone344 look at the beginning of the video when Rasheed Popped a tweet about it. Rasheed made it a race thing.

[@Th3_Gael]

No race issues in this video whatsoever. Unless you count a race baiter making homophobic comments towards a gay person Try taking the coloured lenses out a little while ffs. Not everything's about colour

[@Thewiseone344]

@@johndunkentell3388 it’s not a race thing, he just spewing ignorance. Everything that happened here had nothing to do with race. It’s so sad that this the world we live in , smh

[@GavinLeeto]

Update about the worker: KZbinr 'The Quartering' reached out to the employee and helped him out. A Gofundme was created for this poor guy. He's a lot better now but is slowly recovering. Aight peace & love people

[@kikim282]

Hi do you know how to find info or the Gofundme?

[@michaelriddick7116]

Saw this first on TheQuartering, Jeremy's a good dood!

[@GavinLeeto]

@@kikim282 Seems like youtube won't share the link. You can search for 'Holiday inn employee gofundme'

[@kikim282]

@@GavinLeeto Thank you!

[@GavinLeeto]

@@kikim282 Np, have a good day!

[@stuartcrofts8860]

There’s a service you can give to people for free called empathy. “Are you ok?” “Can I help you?” Just because they are behind the desk. Doesn’t stop them from being human. The guy filming was treating the employee as badly as a system treats employees. A replaceable number on a spreadsheet. He could have been a hero to that guy in a moment of need but chose to be Karen. “Why did you hit the computer? “is not the question you ask when someone hits a computer. Try “are you ok? Can I help you figure this out?” The employee will never be able to forget this interaction now. And now it’s been uploaded he will forever have a stigma attached to him. In these moment we need to act better as a community

[@yaoifinatic1]

Imagine telling someone your leg is broken and then they proceed to kick the shit out of it. That probably would’ve been less painful than this.

[@thadonjuan2339]

@@Name-cz5jj Get outta here with that lol

[@changeyouryoutubechannelna1434]

@@thadonjuan2339 racist

[@J-Hue]

Y'all are overdoing it. No one made him bang his head on the computer. lol Completely self inflicted. And that was nowhere near as bad as kicking someone's broken leg. He did that to himself. And realistically he's unfit to work in that lind of position. Where the F do y'all get this logic from?

[@AqworldsMew11]

@@J-Hue You're a lost cause.

[@DJRenee]

Agreed

[@xfaffy4283]

Man even if the kid pissed me off in that moment the second he starts hitting himself and breaking down.. I’m immediately like “bro cmon, let’s talk.. fuck everything else, how can I help?”

[@drown_n]

@Theft For The Righteous correct thank you for putting that here

[@cashondeliver]

Niggas be so cap online 😂😂

[@atmospheric_spirit4236]

@Joshua AB bullshit lol stop lying

[@ReeN1995]

@@atmospheric_spirit4236 The fact y'all think he would be lying about this just shows what sad world view you guys have. Not everyone is a shitty person like you.

[@fluidwolf]

@bill thorn That was one of my questions. Why are they taking him hitting the computer like it's an insult toward them? Not only is that not really weird since people sometimes smack their computers in frustration when they dont work or something but it's not something aimed at a person but the computer itself

[@Nat-fi5lu]

I hate to make this about gender but if that employee was a young women it would’ve been so different. Honestly, men’s mental health is treated like a joke. I saw a bit of myself in this young man and it breaks my heart. This exact situation scares the shit out of me.

[@Chely0321]

Totally agree and I’m a woman. I suffer from panic attacks and I had to take a break because I could feel myself having one and everyone was very understanding (with the exception of a couple) but there was a classmate of mine that has autism and he once started hitting himself and everyone looked at him like he was crazy. I felt so bad and I tried to help but he left the room before I could do anything. I’m 100% sure that if he were a woman it would’ve been very different for him.

[@Пинагод]

@@Chely0321 Yeah, I can relate too as a woman. I also used to have a tendency to hit myself whenever I get frustrated and the first time it happened a lot of my friends rushed in to help. Then this new kid who has a questionable and terrible history finally broke down after his first months being teased, everyone was actually surprised that he broke down. Maybe it was that "men are strong" stereotype, or that he looked exactly like that stereotype, but I'm happy that the class, especially the boys, stopped teasing him and started inviting and defending him more often. The girls though, oh boy were they bitching about it as if he isn't allowed to have a mental breakdown. He has said some perverted things (more of awkward attempts of jokes that came off weird), but no way were they enough to neglect his mental issues, yet I couldn't step up, even if I wanted to, so I just left them. I also remember finding out that his perversion came from mental issues as he never had a good father figure and his mom was always absent. I'm just quite glad that the guys has managed to befriend him, and the girls grew more mature and less toxic. Guy was also feeling better too and apologised to the girls.

[@bryantmontgomery2202]

And it always will be unless there is a change

[@namjesus3789]

True

[@osamabindiesel3389]

I had the same thought, you know the dude recording would’ve felt bad if it was an attractive young woman. The double standards we have is hurting emotionally vulnerable men and it just isn’t right, men cry too.

[@honey988]

I instantly broke out in tears, I wasn’t expecting this. But I feel his pain. I’m so disgusted by that grown mans actions behind the camera. What a jerk

[@aishaegal4514]

People mourn suicide in society, yet all the signs leading to someone taking their own life is taken for granted or they are deemed “attention seekers” or being dramatic,if you see someone struggling and can’t help them at least be kind...so many people taking their lives and still people act like mental health is to be taken lightly...😞

[@jaidev777]

It's like how a bunch of people you never knew existed show up at your funeral.

[@charissa6648]

😭 This truly touched my soul. You are so very accurate with this assessment, and it's so devistating to watch the continual hatred and complete lack of compassion every where! And for what? Social media clout? Attention?

[@rosalyna5004]

Underrated comment!

[@MokieHotSquad]

Etika...

[@richardnash6111]

Yeah the first thing I saw while watching this was the blatant self harm. Clearly this person is at risk of escalating and some random foo thinks it's because of prejudice. We live in a world of narcissists who project their own feelings of self importance on every situation. Even if something has very little to do with them and has other people that need help they instead try and twist on themselves. It's really disgusting

[@cipher5893]

Poor kids got a lot of pain inside him. Dude, could have just been a decent human and alleviated his stress with a compassionate, " Hey, you good, man? It's okay, don't stress. It's all good."

[@TheScience69]

He was hoping the white guy would call him a nig, so he could go viral as a race warrior. He didn't WANT the dude calmed down, he wanted him as agitated as possible. Happens hundreds of times every day all over the west.

[@nativesunnation8323]

Personally, it would have been a moment of compassion for me but you can't judge another person's choices. There have been several socalled Black man shot down or otherwise murdered in situations that started out like this. Keep recording because you need to protect yourself but my family, my people always look to de-escalate first if possible. My question is - WHERE was management???? The hotel failed this worker AND these customers who did NOT come into this establishment to be abused (even if it is true this guy has mental issues) nor to have the literal poo scared out of them.

[@TheScience69]

@@nativesunnation8323 I dno man. how many of the black men shot do you think would have been avoided if the black man hadn't provoked the situation, if the situation started like this? (don't take that as "it was the black persons' fault", I don't mean it like that at all) I get where you're coming from and I can tell your hearts in the right place, but to me it seems like trying to de escalate the situation while sticking a camera in his face is counter productive, especially with the way the world is these days. If it was me, I'd assume that you where filming for social media, and I can see that if someone is already having a mental episode and was having difficulty thinking straight, that could make things worse. the thing is...is there any real reason that the black dude needed to be in the store and couldn't walk away? the employee doesn't have that option, but the black dude could leave, give the white dude a minute and then maybe phone the store and resolve your problem that way, calmly. maybe wait to phone until you can speak to a manager. When I see video's like this, I cant help notice that the video always starts in the middle rather than the beginning, and we never actually know what caused it. all context gets edited out of the video, which makes me wonder what got cut off the start.

[@cipher5893]

@@nativesunnation8323 Yeah, as compassionate as I'd try to be it'd still trigger my social anxiety lmao I'd still try to yeet myself outa there asap.

[@nativesunnation8323]

@bill thorn I'd imagine the woman with him was scred 'poopless'. I would have been greatly concerned, myself.

[@xyz-iv6vx]

My question is how did the customer feel like the guy hitting the computer was a gesture of taking his anger out on him? He hit the computer, not you. He he didn't say anything negative towards you. He didn't even scream at the customer.smh Basically, dude is a troll with a camera phone.

[@minniemin1324]

he was trying to make it about race and make the worker look like the bad guy. smdh

[@SilkySnow_]

Simple. Narcissistic personality disorder. Its all about ME ME ME ME, omg they did something how does it affect ME????? Oh my god, "I" am such a victim, please apologize and make my ego feel better. These people are neglected 5 year olds trapped in adult bodies.

[@dylancross1039]

@@minniemin1324 I'm gonna parrot somebody else here and say it was a race issue. Just not the way people immediately thought. Tariq did this because the kid was white and thought he would get clout out of it. Edit: Before people come in accusing me of talking out of my ass, check out some of Tariq's tweets. The first thing he does when people call him out for harassing a mentally ill person is accuse them of being "anti-black" regardless of the actual race of the person calling him out.

[@coryjmacfarlane]

Self righteous asshole, mixed with victim mentality, with a sprinkle of insecurity

[@engineeredtruths8935]

@@dylancross1039 it is clearly presented as a race issue, like everything these days is being used to instigate anger, hate and divide.

[@ryryb447]

Thank you guys SO MUCH for bringing attention to this issue. My husband has BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder). This brought emotions hard cuz I’ve seen him smack himself and attempt to hurt himself in a breakdown before. It’s so upsetting. No one should be abandoned like this when they most need HELP, not judgment. Good job guys. Peace and love. ✌🏻

[@MrMystiriousman]

As someone studying to become a mental health counselor, this was hard to watch. I hate that people see this kind of stuff as a joke. He went into crisis mode and needed help, not ridicule. Thank you guys for calling out cruelty and offering an empathetic perspective.

[@rebeccataylor8688]

Yep im in the field too I wish I could jump in and hug the boy... had to skim through it incredibly hard to see.

[@MandoMTL]

Some people are devoid of humanity.

[@Africanhorror]

please research this epidemic of stupidity

[@bingram2011]

I just hope that young man gets help. People don't understand that this can lead to him harming himself of other people... then you have idiots that partake in bullying wondering why mass 🔫 happen.

[@withlovemiki]

This video kind made me want to cry... I hope this guy gets some help and the company allows him to take some leave time. He doesn't need to lose his job

[@rickynewman9808]

I got mental health issues and this is how I feel most days at work. People are suffering and taking it out on everyone else.

[@bellfitsu]

I am sorry you have to go through that.

[@bellagarzia9653]

Me too

[@rickynewman9808]

@@bellfitsu thanks.

[@rickynewman9808]

@@bellagarzia9653 sorry to know

[@reverendmary7237]

I sympathize, I felt the same way in my last job. No-one in charge was interested, had to leave. Thankfully I am in a better place now, I hope your situation improves. Seeing this guy break down upset me, because it's so relatable.

[@ericaruggles6309]

This is heartbreaking. I have a manager who is autistic and deserves the same respect and chances as everyone else. But when we get customers like him that likes to attack people they see less as them. I send them away. We do not serve bullies.

[@atropabelladonna3120]

In my city they opened a new pizza place run by people on the spectrum. People there watch each others backs and even the customers that go there are hella respectful (knowing what the place is about) Also their pizza is the bomb 💣. It's nice having places where people with any kind of disorder/issue can work in peace and make a decent living without fellas filled with ignorance coming in to harass them.

[@jamalwilburn228]

This dude was trying to race bait so hard so he could get some million dollar law suit and have an excuse for his lack of success in life.

[@dr.watson8880]

@Savetion You’re piece of trash.

[@edwardmitchell6581]

@@dr.watson8880 The kid looks like he is 8. I really hope you are also a child.

[@dr.watson8880]

@@edwardmitchell6581 No, I’m a 31 year old man, who by the way has worked a customer service job/security job. I’ve dealt with such disrespectful aholes. I have seen people pushed to a mental breakdown. Now after seeing this, I can now sleep at night when I have to place cuffs on idiots like the guy filming this. It’s one thing to record poor treatment, this is abuse. I have trespassed aholes like this, and if they ever get confrontational...... Pepperspray is the best tool to humble a ahole. Also security is better than customer service. I can curse at a unruly customer, also I had to been a supervisor to tell the folks that you asked for it, if it was instigated by the customer.

[@Thatransporter]

this issue almost brought me to tears because, ive had a mental backdown before. i had no one to help through that. but rather yall believe it or not my faith helped alot. also i did seek council, and it helped as well. I've learn that i never really go to people for help, i really just wanting them to listen without judgment. After i express how i feel, i feel better and ready to come up plan how to fix the issues in front of me. sometimes we just need someone to shut up and listen.

[@armaan8480]

Him crying when he went in the backroom broke my heart man....how can people be so heartless? back in my days of wanting to end it all, I bottled it all up until eventually I worked it out on my own (bad idea btw. do not repeat my mistakes.). this man showed how he felt inside for probably the first time and this is how he was treated....

[@cliffordcheatum-bey4954]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@viennasavage9110]

@@cliffordcheatum-bey4954 Funny, right?

[@KO-sj1pb]

Bottling up isn’t good for anything. Honestly a matter of time before it gets really bad.

[@oceanbreeze1162]

@@cliffordcheatum-bey4954 alright, here's your internet attention point.

[@lanceherrera2053]

To be fair. My dumb ass would see this out of context and start laughing. But when I hear the crying I would go hold up. This ma still recorded like a hart less prick

[@jenn2894]

this was so sad, there's no empathy anymore. he even followed him when he tried to leave the situation, to possibly save a scrap of dignity,smh. just triflin.

[@jenn2894]

@@Glol91ABC well, anybody working anywhere clearly has a reason. he wasn't there bc it was just a swell time😅 he isn't cut out for customer service, if that's what you mean. guy still didn't have to do him like that

[@jenn2894]

@@Glol91ABC noted. thank you

[@sibs544]

@@Glol91ABC how do you know he's drunk? Just genuinely asking.

[@sibs544]

@@Glol91ABC the worker or the recorder

[@grim_reaperkll1621]

@@jenn2894 to me he look like he was doing his best wym

[@samanthaloraine3129]

As someone with bipolar disorder, this is incredibly sad. Some people really have no empathy.

[@Peculiarsafe83]

I have mental illnesses as well and makes it hard for me to keep a job which is why I see a therapist for that reason, and I completely understand the guy in the videos pain, and the guy recording him if I was my old self before treatment I would’ve already lunged at him and attacked him and it wouldn’t have been because of his skin color, but because they agged me on to the point of breaking

[@Magenta.000]

@@Peculiarsafe83 I agree and even Regardless of disorder I believe that anyone with that amount of Stress, I think it normal for anyone to flip out, I would put the hands on him like no tomorrow

[@sopronunciareglignocchi7255]

That's Tariq Nasheed. He hates white people, that's why he did that.

[@albafioralba1264]

@@sopronunciareglignocchi7255 he's such a sad sad man, he only targets white people and his account is still up. Pathetic.

[@David-gu8hv]

complete and utter self-absorption

[@4-.Cryb4by.-4]

This is heartbreaking. I ran the front desk at a hotel during the pandemic. He tension was unreal. I had to cry in the back after a few interactions, and I'm NOT struggling with severe mental health issues. This dude was facing cruelty on both sides of that desk. So sad.

[@MADNESSMADEMVL]

He literally said “I have mental issues” Guy: wow he’s crying

[@maxjackson.7533]

legit, i heard him say that in the video

[@alecfleming373]

That took guts to say. Because life really is over if you admit it.

[@blackgold2521]

People don't care. People are insensitive. People are monsters. This man is thinking of himself. I would totally backlash against this black guy if I had his facebook - just deserves it.

[@AliceRinGameLand]

@@alecfleming373 it's not over. It just begun.

[@alecfleming373]

@@AliceRinGameLand See the comment above yours. The attitude in America is simple. It's not bad news, unless it happens to you.

[@Sldumas1983]

I am a mental health professional, you just never know what someone is dealing with try and have a heart.

[@harlequin2614]

👍 I am disgusted with some of the comments laughing at him

[@okimahitt7413]

You really don’t. If people could hear my inner monologue, I’m sure I’d be avoided too

[@luckyMrrpProduction]

I am not a mental health professional, you just never know what someone is dealing with try and have a heart.

[@WTFooLL]

You make a huge contrast with the pinned message saying "Blacks needs to record, totally fine". Sir I respect you and thank you for your work!

[@urbanasket4915]

Therefore, you are paid to "have a heart."

[@fe_mars7097]

I’m really glad that you are talking about this.

[@peachywe4310]

Me too.

[@youssoufcameroon2565]

Same here.

[@MobileGamingKing]

Same this is a topic that is under talked about

[@SoiBoi_Kelda1059]

#metoo

[@kingsadvisor18]

Yup

[@danielkennedy8355]

I don't get "triggered" often at all. But I've had a mental break down at work and one of the guys I worked with was filming me while I was going through it. Getting fucked with when you're at a low point in mental health is so scary.

[@corncobbob2326]

what happened next? bc from a work perspective, seeing one of the employees record another employee instead of helping out or minding their own business is unprofessional.

[@bruhelbruh6293]

I hid my deteriorating mental health from everyone I knew for that reason. I always knew cowards attack when you’re weak. The thing is you 300% need help to handle stuff, so you gotta take a risk. The sooner the better

[@alyssafoster4765]

People see employees as faces that represent the companies when really they’re just people just trying to get by.

[@communist-hippie]

So true

[@thelivingfreakshow5892]

Thank you!

[@greg6812]

Thank u

[@graceisadisgrace8625]

very true

[@Archonsx]

as someone who’s struggling with his mental health, i understand that dude, living as a broken person is excruciating.

[@dragantrivanovic3592]

@moko there isn’t enough therapy in the world that can fix your stupidity

[@90srapfan37]

@moko who’s to said they haven’t tried therapy? Therapy is a step but it’s not a 100% solution fix. Not everyone that comes out of therapy comes out better than they were. That’s why people see this halfassed “just go to therapy bro” advice gets mocked a lot. Feels more dismissive than actual genuine advice

[@idipped2521]

@moko Therapy doesn't do jack shit except give you someone to surveil you

[@angelphoenix7784]

I understand where you are coming from. I know how it feels to "live" as a broken person.

[@ashleynoe1378]

The dude recording it is an ass hole

[@vxBunBun]

As someone who struggles to keep a job due to mental illness, this REALLY hurt to see. I think a lot of people don't even recognize how serious mental health actual is. It's a disability. But because it's "invisible", people generally will not sympathize with you the way they would with say someone who is in a wheelchair.

[@vxBunBun]

@@joerasiah3519 thank you

[@drew1980ish]

Men globally are the highest with suicide rates and men don't have the help women have . Apple's to oranges , you could get help with women while . While majority women will use men's weakness against them

[@9sunsjuddleponk]

You’re not wrong, but I don’t think you realize how rare genuine sympathy is for physically disabled people: TBF I’m in a chair and got laughed at today, people who are shit will be shit to anybody. We just experience a different type of ableism, but we don’t have it easier by any means in the sympathy department. The sympathy we usually get is infantilism, or straight up advocating for our genocide in some twisted ‘greater good’ fallacy.

[@vxBunBun]

@@9sunsjuddleponk thank you for sharing, you have a valid point. I guess what I was trying to say was, when I tell people I'm disabled they look at me and don't believe me because I don't "look disabled". But you are right, and I shouldn't be trying to compare one to the other. It's two sides of the same coin.

[@robinb8432]

@@9sunsjuddleponk Omg, laughing at people in a wheelchair. I had to laugh about that in itself, such fucking low and pathetic behaviour. Such failures.

[@gw9363]

The initial clip was painful to watch. Seeing a grown man break down and cry is just painful. There’s really two reasons men breakdown and cry in situations like this. They’re sensitive and cry all the time. Or they hit a breaking point and snap because they’re dying inside. In this case it was the latter.

[@bruhelbruh6293]

I’m sure they exist but I’ve never even seen the first case

[@rochelleolivia]

I broke down and cried in a patient room at the hospital I work in this week because I was being harassed like this . I felt this.

[@Just_a_girl_in_the_world]

😔 i'm sorry that happened to you! Sending you hugs xo

[@athenagates6089]

OmG. Hugs. I used to go to the supply room. I knew I had to suck it up as soon as I heard them punching in the code and that helped me pull it together. I'm sorry, darling. Some patients are straight up demeaning on a personal level. Let your co workers know and guaranteed they have a story to share.

[@pinkkfloydd]

@@havi4979 Have a heart.

[@hentaireview9413]

@@havi4979 your clearly a child if you say grow up

[@shandinalani32]

I feel like the customer was the type to antagonize and abuse his girlfriend. Like he seems like a narcissist. People like this don’t leave it at home. They look for people they can run and walk on. Customer service sucks. I’ve been in it since I was 14 and I’m 34, I’ve had my fair share of “Karen’s” of every race. They don’t see you as a person. And when they need control Over people, they use their power as a customer and make u serve them like a slave.

[@IphiaCarlene]

The moment he started hitting himself and the computer. It was obvious that this dude was at his breaking point due to ongoing issues. Smh

[@mellohi2899]

@@Glol91ABC lmfao why are you so desperate to defame him you commented the same thing 6 times now we get it

[@mellohi2899]

even if he is drunk alcohol isn't enough to make someone do this

[@inzeez3721]

@@Glol91ABC alcohol can take over someone in a bad situation. Yes, it was irresponsible. But he is obviously not well he doesn’t need to be antagonized he needs help.

[@ceej3132]

@@Glol91ABC He said he was drinking AFTER the incident...and went back to work AFTERWARDS. He was NOT drunk nor was he drinking at that moment. Apparently, he'd been sober for a year before that incident. Mental breakdowns are haunting...

[@WeGetItOutTheMudTv]

He went went off after he said he was being recorded. That was the real problem. It could be that he knew that he was about to be exposed

[@qtslim83]

This literally made me cry. I’ve had a few of these mental breakdowns in my life...shame on that man for recording this for clout and not searching for help instead. Prayers for that young man behind the counter.

[@batko8596]

The man did nothing wrong. Look at you demonised a black man over nothing.

[@daallahw0lf130]

@@batko8596 Look at you obviously making an ass out of yourself by tryna find racism in every situation when there's none there

[@batko8596]

@@daallahw0lf130 race has 100% everything to do with it. The reaction to this incident is fueled by racism. You aheb customers screaming and doing a lot worse to service providers everyday of the week yet this incident as blown out and people are creating absurd racial narratives about how black people want a race war etc... Just because you're blind to the reality of the situation it doesn't mean we ought to be too

[@floritamendez3297]

@@batko8596 well said

[@daallahw0lf130]

@@batko8596 So when you die I should start laughing and start bad mouthing about you too? That's literally no different from what the ignorant guy filming was doing. It ain't got nothing to do with race it's just human decency in which is long gone and dead ever since social media came into society, doesn't matter what race you are, asshole is an still asshole.

[@keefer3826]

I feel for that guy, there is literally no joy or fun in seeing a person meltdown like this. This can happen to anyone, no matter who you think you are or how strong you think you are.

[@XxraexX1000]

I have epilepsy and worked retail for awhile and a customer tried to get me fired because I had a seizure while I was checking her food out. She actually asked to speak to manager and said that “someone like me can’t handle stress” and should be fired. I almost quit that day.

[@lifewithshenna1713]

Wow seriously?

[@cassidy18908]

You should quit. You can find much better

[@ferzinhaN]

Entitled much? 😳 They were insane!

[@kclauren6052]

This is insane! I would've taken up for you if I'd seen that mess ❤️

[@TheAwesomes2104]

One time a guy almost hit me when he ran a stop sign as I was pulling into work, then followed me inside and tried to get me fired, which escalated to death threats. Also said he was going to take a baseball bat to my 1996 truck with 360k miles bc that would teach a "rich, snobby college kid like you." If I was rich I wouldn't be driving a vehicle older than me and working at best buy, but some of the public are absolute hell beasts with the sole goal of ruining everyone's day. I've also been yelled at for not letting a customer let my service dog, so yeah, it doesn't matter if it's a minor traffic situation or a legitimate medical issue, they just do what they want assuming there will be no consequences on their part.

[@LEONARDW94]

Imagine he was filming someone having a heart attack or stroke and behaved that way. No sane person would condone that or even laugh at that. Crazy double standard!

[@gregbredenko2290]

Take a look at the internet. There's plenty of videos of people getting either killed or assaulted by random strangers and the person filming lauging about it. TONS of them

[@turtleflextwist4995]

Yeah this is a bad take

[@KickazzLamie]

My girlfriend deals with BPD and I've seen her have a breakdown and hit herself in the head just like this man did. There is nothing funny about someone who is struggling with mental health. Please everyone try to practice kindness and compassion because people need it now more than ever.

[@justinnegron4843]

This is what I have done and did it a month ago... now my boyfriend is kicking me out of the house and doesn't want to be with me because he looks as me as mental....

[@rchobby8892]

i have a really good friend who has bpd and she has told me that when she has a breakdown she hits herself or might have an outburst at someone else and i know its not her fault because its not something to easy to deal with so seeing this is sad.

[@johnnycage2746]

If you have a girlfriend with BPD.... f-ing.... run. Worst mistake of my life was spending 5 years with my crazy ex. Fits of rage, accusing me of cheating, trying to stab me then calling the police, f-ing her ex boyfriend who came to town then lying about it... man... good luck. You are probably caught in her honey trap.

[@tarisblvck2156]

@@johnnycage2746 Not everyone with BPD acts that way. It runs in my family, I have it, & I have never tried to hurt anyone I care about. Educate yourself on the illness before you tell someone else to abandon their partner..

[@johnnycage2746]

@@tarisblvck2156 Yeah,, I would avoid you too

[@lindaoakley3493]

My heart actually hurt watching this. Imagine if that was your child struggling. He wasn’t even mad at the customer just upset he couldn’t help due to the computer not working correctly 💔

[@bernpri7580]

My fuse just lit watching someone so thoughtlessly and greedily film someone's breakdown.. and still found a way to make themselves the victim. It's spiritually disgusting

[@gamebroy668]

So many mixed feelings. Im heartbroken for the guy but also absolutely enraged at the guy filming. makes me wanna train for a year and knock his teeth in

[@Sinkm2n]

Im actually shaking man I'm so upset

[@redshift912]

@@Sinkm2n might be time to take a rest from the internet

[@Shadow-nk5ml]

see as the guy has a mental breakdown the black man begins to chastise him but if the roles were reversed this would be some form of racial injustice

[@shanedenny2871]

@@redshift912 true, get a break from cold souls like you.

[@tokemob9346]

I don't know how the guy recording doesn't feel bad or scared for the poor man. I've NEVER seen someone hit themselves that hard unless they are under such distress that they snap. I feel horrible for that kid.

[@BrandydocMeriabuck]

It’s because he’s woke and black and the other guy is white. Didn’t you know that means the guy filming is the good guy and the poor employee is the bad guy?

[@AmaixKing13]

Im autistic and when I’m overwhelmed and overstimulated I have complete meltdowns and I have no control of anything it’s like I’m possessed and it’s terrifying

[@tokemob9346]

@@AmaixKing13 you're super strong for being able to deal with that. Like seriously mad props to you. I'm sorry if someone had treated you wrong for that, that stuff makes me sick.

[@tokemob9346]

@@BrandydocMeriabuck I know man. All this kindof stuff just makes a person not wanna leave their bed

[@maryamderakhshandegan2949]

How could he not help him????

[@arandomcatheehee]

God his crying made me so sad. Especially when he hit himself, since I do that when I get overwhelmed. I really really hope he's doing better now...

[@anabelgonzalez8984]

I wanted to cry with him. It's sad.

[@JadetheGoober]

Yea i was high key triggered cause the camera man is such a shell of a human. No empathy at all.

[@Chuck_EL]

@@JadetheGoober loved how aba said he already felt angry at how he was treated despite the employee came out and said he had bipolar

[@liloga7332]

God is crying????

[@arandomcatheehee]

@@liloga7332 A year ago, I forgot to use a comma. My apologies.

[@davmatheophilus159]

Obnoxious customer, a real sociopath tormenting an empath.

[@addyben3686]

That poor guy, breaks my heart how instead of offering a helping hand that guy choose to make it harder for the employee :(

[@gloriaestevez4874]

I know I cried when watching it

[@addyben3686]

@@gloriaestevez4874 me toooo : (

[@addyben3686]

@@venusbonjour9303 fax , it was like watching someone have a heart attack and just standing there making fun of them.

[@K6MILL]

The man is literally self-harming himself. The guy recording lacks compassion and I hope he receives all the backlash.

[@preztjuswoman]

Amen!

[@Mystixspiral]

Same because if the tables were turned

[@shahrikamin4699]

Apparently he was receiving support and the man having mental breakdown was being made fun of on the internet. atleast according to aba.

[@geralddrolet1]

You never mess with someone in a mental health crisis. People don't know it but if you antagonize someone going through one you are playing with fire.

[@coffintears5821]

Theres a saying never mess with a crazy person and theres a reason for that.

[@52andattitude48]

@@coffintears5821 Not really helpful to refer to people with mental illnesses as “crazy”

[@deltazero7012]

That was my first thought after having dealt with a fair number of people with mental health issues. The guy with the camera is incredibly lucky the front desk worker took it out on himself. He'd have sung a different tune if that guy came across the desk at him with something pointy. I've seen it happen. Not a pleasant way to go.

[@lamentspace]

Exactly, if someone broke down like that in front of me, I would’ve said “oh shit sorry man” and just try to make them feel or better or something idk

[@andrewhan1927]

mental health-related violence is statistically low. Go do some research before stigmatizing a whole group of people on the internet.

[@karisaysthings]

As someone who went through a nervous breakdown a few years back... Hell, you don't even have to go through this before to know that this shit hurts to watch. Fuck this guy for continuing to berate the employee and record him. I'm so disgusted.

[@Mobesly10]

Even worse than losing his job, what if he’s suicidal? When he said you ruined my life my heart broke. Customer service workers overall have such an emotionally demanding job bc of customers like this that have zero empathy or are on some kind of power trip. I hope he’s doing better. I will never work in customer service again, solely for my mental and emotional health.

[@junkyardsanta8814]

@Mony Rochelle gtfo

[@blessyourheart836]

@Mony Rochelle are you kidding?! Why not act HUMAN. and have HUMAN DECENCY when you see another person struggling. But now, nowadays.. let’s record a person struggling so that others on the internet laugh at him. Just wow. What a shitty person.

[@jack00141]

@Mony Rochelle to be honest, you’re a piece of shit. Just remember that.

[@doot_slayer]

@Mony Rochelle Are you familiar with the concept of basic kindness and empathy? Because honestly it doesn't seem like you are, and I feel sorry for anyone who has to put up with your bullshit. You're an immoral piece of shit with no perspective, f*** off.

[@kanikagaral7637]

I quit customer service job just coz of that. I was risking my health just to keep up with it. I know u meet such jerk customers who really won't try to understand.

[@iburntmytoe3470]

i’m not going to assume but the hitting yourself is very common in people with mental differences like autism and Aspergers. i’m on the spectrum and i sometimes struggle to communicate properly, leading me to get extremely frustrated and hit myself

[@joebaumgart1146]

I used to do it. It was to keep from hurting anyone else.

[@GSauce20]

My grandkid is 7 and this is the way he reacts when he is unable to communicate or is frustrated. It is the saddest thing. I feel for this employee and then I think is this the way my grandkid is going to be treated when he grows old?

[@tagert1975]

It's an anger control mechanism. It's either that or punch the other person. The society we live in no longer has the mechanisms for aholes and other tormentors to be properly dealt with by their targets. The targets have to sit there and take it. It's been like that starting in the schools for a good 40 years + now. People are free to treat others like crap with little fear of consequences.

[@justicebeske5704]

I've kind of stopped, I mostly do it when I'm alone and stressed. If I'm around people I sometimes lose the ability to speak properly and sometimes even create words at all. I can tell you I only do that in extreme stress and I'm sure if he felt the same way, I'd be worried for him.

[@YourNightmares333]

I'm sorry :( I would never do something like that to a person that started hurting themselves and crying uncontrollably. That poor guy was howling in anguish. It sounded like his soul was being crushed. Heartbreaking. Please take care because people do care. :)

[@allisonficsor1000]

Can you imagine having a mental breakdown, someone recording it and then having it posted for the whole world to see?

[@jmariehill9832]

Welcome to 2021...so sad

[@omgvague]

That's when my mental outburst would likely turn into a blind rage. That just isn't cool. Thankfully its never gotten that far.

[@omgvague]

@Jeff Depends on the state. Most states (38 + D.C.) have one-party consent which (surprise) means as long as the person recording wants to record, then it can be recorded.

[@robwill6134]

Yes, each time I see images of slavery and ignorance within poverty driven communities. It’s actually a mental breakdown on display. Yet, our society have been able to live with it.

[@omgvague]

@Jeff There are other laws that could come into play (such as harassment, or a "no recording in this area" regulation, or defamation, etc. depending on the context) but no, recording someone who denies consent in any of those areas that allow one-party consent is not a crime itself.

[@lightartorias552]

Dude. I’m so sorry bro. I hope that someone was kind enough to extend a hand of support to you. No one should ever need to feel that frustrated. God I hope he’s doing alright.

[@RickityKricks]

As a person who work in customer service with an anxiety problem I feel for this guy. I've felt panic attacks come on at work and all I could do was walk into a bathroom. To imagine a person recording it would make it even worse. I don't understand the lack of compassion people have for others who are obviously in distress.

[@Sappmattnyc]

Plus I didn't see any other hotel employees. This poor guy could have been holding down the fort all by himself. That video didn't show the other 10 problems that landed in his lap earlier in the shift.

[@mybestnugget7514]

I feel for him, but not that much. Better take your crazy ass home and chill out. Black man would have got arrested acting like that🤣

[@ruebascu]

You shouldn't be working in customer service. Working with the public is an extremely stressful.

[@euerhenning5780]

Also the way he was addressing and blaming him. So fucking unempathetic.

[@TheAfroGoddess]

So, perform badly at a job you're not qualified to perform, blame mental illness when you make mistakes, then call the customer on the receiving end of your incompetence un-compassionate. That's progress now?

[@hasphine7585]

I have a relative who hits themselves just like this man when they are stressed or upset. It always breaks my heart when I see that happen and I feel sick knowing somebody filmed someone doing the same thing and had the audacity to frame it as a racial conflict. Absolutely disgusting.

[@briel7904]

Some people with autism do this as well. It's sad that knowledge on ASL & mental disorder isn't more prevalent.

[@williammitchell8247]

I agree, I think that it is disgusting that people record people like this. I bet there are cameras in the lobby already.

[@Nga_Babaye]

This young man has schizoaffective disorder. He had just had his disability taken away from him because he had been doing well and wanted to work. He had been working closely with a team. Some people have set him up a GoFundMe because he will hardpressed to find work for a while and he'll probably have to return to disability.

[@rsgacolytefrost46]

@Jo Fugya lmao they hung ppl . Cooked ppl , taken family photos next to dismembered african vessels , they erected the “codes” you live under “UCC” “Maritime Law” i can keep going . & oh yea they not white. Pickup a “Blacks Law Dictionary” again… just my humble opinion

[@dragondreamerz9857]

@@rsgacolytefrost46 just a racist opinion

[@The-Famous-Davis]

That man is having a psychotic break. He desperately needs help and the fact that he is being ridiculed for it let's me know the times were living in.

[@controlman7490]

I won't lie our society is very cruel towards mentally ill people. However, we have to acknowledge it's not as bad as say 200 years ago where mentally ill people were experimented on and were considered possessed by demons. We've grown since then and understand what causes certain illnesses in the brain.

[@The-Famous-Davis]

@@controlman7490 To a degree I can agree with that but even then they didn't ignore it. Today's age, They can care less about what's clear as day in front of them.

[@nordictripods8485]

He's probably autistic or bipolar and having a meltdown because he's so overwhelmed by whatever that guy filming was doing beforehand and while filming him and most likely a multitude of other things that just added up and became too much... I myself am autistic and his behaviour looks VERY familiar, its hard for me to watch cuz I know how much physical and mental pain he's in right now and yet he's being treated so poorly

[@commandericeman8588]

What he needed was a hug, some compassion, some moral support, some comfort, some love.

[@timelkin838]

@@nordictripods8485 well put. I work in home health aid and I have seen it. Me myself as a child and for instance punching a wall as a man means I'm overwhelmed and frustrated. When I feel that way and I'm beating myself up I don't need someone to push me into it. It's hard to believe that every person commenting has felt this way. If a person goes through life never blaming themselves or beating themselves up then that person as an even more severe disorder in that they can't feel. This is a big reason why people shoot groups of people. We can't change unless we understand all sides. Society is sicker then any individual could ever be.