Ireti Doyle confirms her divorce to Patrick Doyle on

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[@okonkwotina2172]

Ireti is such an embodiment of class, elegance and calmness. She made understanding and emotional intelligence seem so easy with the way she entertained those questions by Chudy. “My life is not an Animation, That I ply my trade in the public arena does not make you entitle to my personal life”. this speaks volume especially as a celebrity standing out from the crowd. I love you mama ❤

[@unyimeudom9017]

Ply** my trade

[@austinjohn8713]

nonsense. who is she . proud for nothing

[@austinjohn8713]

what class?

[@adubeaasiedu4644]

"My life is not an animation and i cannot sacrifice my life at the alter of your imagination or fantasy" - Ireti Doyle 💯

[@aishatlawal]

Gbams 👍🏿 oro yen niyen!!!

[@megaglory5094]

Absolutely

[@rolisegun-ajala4626]

Gbamsolutely 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@pricelessjezra5833]

You don't have to be sorry Ireti....you're absolutely spot on! Your life ain't an animation!

[@fauxgars736]

That is not what she said

[@fasakinkemisola5285]

She speaks like Adesua Etomi...they have similar voice sef

[@angelaodah5690]

When a woman has grown into knowing who she is as a human being worthy of love and respect , you can't push her around. Ireti Doyle is a woman of substance, graceful and confident. I wish her all the love, peace and happiness she deserves.

[@joyakahome1551]

Yessssssssss! I love how you make sense of her, knowing she is more mature and happy with her present life.

[@ceegeebeloved8158]

Amen! Same here! Have always admired and loved her!

[@alaintafe6354]

The truth is that when a woman becomes financially made there is a big danger she becomes uncontrollable she becomes dangerous and again in the movie industries so many handsome young boys is not easy for a woman of this age she will obviously need fresh blood

[@ceegeebeloved8158]

@Alain Tafe Uncontrollable? In life or relationships? No human, no woman should be controlled by another human. That's manipulation! A woman is not to be controlled by a man because he or she is in a relationship! That's absolutely wrong!

[@joyakahome1551]

@@ceegeebeloved8158 please tell him!

[@daninwangabia6270]

Ireti Doyle is of the old-school. That group of people had a deep of knowledge of self. They stay unplugged from the Matrix. They don't need media attention to value themselves. Kudos Ireti Doyle. Thanks for carrying yourself in a queenly manner and upholding the standard. I'm a big fan.

[@opeyemiadegoke361]

Heh Andrew Tate's secretary Weldon you self to dey talk maxtrix the nija wet you dey no worse pas matrix ni..

[@majorbriggs8876]

@@opeyemiadegoke361 him no even sabi wetting him dey talk self oponu

[@alananice9179]

I nr sure say na the same comment when I see dem see oo 😅

[@samuelonyenwe4469]

Then why is she doing this interview if she wants to remain private? I am just acting the devil’s advocate!

[@Victor-fg1ky]

@@opeyemiadegoke361 Even though Andrew Tate has used the word "Matrix" repeatedly,the term has always been nothing new. In fact, several people have used it since the movie came out in the 90s which has based on a reflection of how the society works. Patrick O'Neal, Shaharazad Ali,etc the list is endless 🤷‍♂️

[@Mo-pg8ei]

Now I know why my sister is so obsessed with this woman She is so graceful

[@olufemi42]

Your sister needs to get a life! Obsessed with someone that doesn’t know you exist!!

[@MonumentalInflow]

My Dad as well..during Fuji House of Commotion..my Dad love her movies...her articulation of English no be for here...I wish I can get the full video..to watch

[@evanselvis-nzerogu6176]

When you get to that point in your life when choosing yourself is the best way to find your peace, you will understand what she's saying.

[@epereomins8971]

Perfect!!!

[@oluwatosino.4707]

She's such an epitome of class & elegance 🖤

[@ehinmitantimilehin6617]

Likeeee

[@zweeadams2819]

Trust me.

[@sumbianielsen3850]

I Really admire her so much! ❤

[@austinjohn8713]

what class?

[@adakuchibuzor1984]

If one can have this level of emotional control, it makes it easy.

[@Queeneth_Jumbo]

Honestly!!

[@dzifahbethel1745]

You don't have to tell everyone everything. Not because it's a secret,but because it's non of their business,I love this Woman😘😘😘

[@newsongjoy8982]

Always loved Ireti Doyle as an actress!! Something about her personality sasiness, and poise!! I respect a woman who knows what she wants and not afraid to speak the truth about!! Ireti, you are charisma, beauty, brains and elegance put together!! A model of modesty and intelligence for the younger generation today!! Wish you joy and happiness in all you do. Keep doing what you do best!!

[@ChaChaGiftBenson]

Awww, Ireti Doyle!!!💕 Such a noble personality! I was privileged to share same PRIVATE WARD with her in Ayinka House, almost 28yrs ago when I had my daughter & she had her's a day or two before my baby arrived. It was fun & pleasure with her all thru. Patrick Doyle was also a very light minded gentleman & a TV personality then. Quite unfortunate they've gone their separate ways but LIFE happens all d same. I wish you all the best sis & hugs to my baby's birth month sake....(MAY 1995)💕

[@chidubemnjoku9821]

OMG, I love, love, LOVE this woman. Such class and elegance; absolutely quintessential. Ireti Doyle, you're the best! 😍

[@ChichiEfe]

She is strong, her sense of self awareness, the way she talks, her cool and calm exterior signals that she has mastered herself and her emotions. You can't help but listen to her soothing delivery with rapt attention. There's really something about Ireti...🥰

[@jamesdennison2671]

Omalicha after all this your grammar the Koko be say e don happen be say e don happen🤣🤣

[@alananice9179]

@@jamesdennison2671 wetn happen ?

[@adwoakoranteng]

A woman of great substance and class. An expert interviewer. So impressed

[@Mide_Stacia]

When it comes to emotional intelligence, self-awareness, class & eloquence, I struggle between Aunty Shaffy & Ireti Doyle. They both ooze a certain kind of energy and a pure aura laced with serenity, calmness and genuity. I love you ma'am but loved you more when you handled your daughters issue with her clients the way you did...

[@abimbolafadeyi-sorinolu5324]

I add Bimbo Akintola

[@rachaelgbasai1]

"That i am an actor and i ply my trade in the public arena doesn't make you entitled to my personal life"....Nigerians need to learn when it comes to this!

[@emmanuelezele7281]

then stop nigerians anything from your private life

[@adwoaa7419]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@TOOO951]

"I had to choose me"! That's heavy. I wish people know choosing themselves first, brings peace.

[@Jlosworldng]

For God so love the world that he gave ..... A Christian mind is not about self but considering others .

[@TOOO951]

@@Jlosworldng Nigerians and always misquoting the Bible just to satisfy their ignorance. The same Bible says "love your neighbor as you love YOURSELF" It never say love more than you love yourself. Using the Bible to justify something not tenable doesn't make sense.

[@HeIsWorthy247]

I don’t think that statement was from a selfish place. We are taught that self love and preservation is selfish only to end up beat down defeated drained and regretful. Sometimes you have to choose yourself to be the best version of yourself and for those important to you.

[@ogoanioke9864]

Wow, this woman is class on a whole level. She is the GOAT of class and elegance.

[@gloriaosagie9699]

Girl of all talent (GOAT)

[@ewaali8279]

Mad respect to you Ireti! You will find a love deserving of you.❤

[@Shayoyeye5223]

That’s why I do not idolise anyone, I might like their style of expressing themselves etc but that’s where it ends. Her life her business really. I don’t know her personally and she don’t know me

[@florenceflourish6367]

Brave Woman....I grew up watching Aunty Ireti on New dawn with Aunty Funmi' Iyanda.....Such an intelligent Woman ......BRAVO......Marriage should be ENJOYABLE and not "ENDURABLE" When you know you have lost yourself, you better find yourself....That is marriage

[@funwithprincy]

About 13 years ago, I walked up to Ireti Doyle and said to her, "May God bless and reward you for your labour of love, and may God honour you" If I remind her of the place and time she might remember me well. And so today, I still repeat the same prayer for you sis, may God honour you and reward your labour of love. For whatever reasons... you have done well. @IretiDoyle #iretidoyle

[@iheanachousoh5276]

Thank you, Ireti. You are radiant and beautiful, and none of us has the right to judge neither you nor your ex-husband. The truth is that I am always happy to see you in movies. Enjoy life to the fullest, beautiful lady.

[@dianayibowei5153]

She is so intelligence and very eluquent. Her spoken English is so on point

[@pedrovibes2089]

Then your written English is 💣🤲

[@ladyc5303]

@@pedrovibes2089 yes o! Her written English is an assault to the senses 😢

[@akinolaoyelola690]

From the first time I saw her on screen till now she remains an amazing person to me. She is a person that is true to herself and what she believes..... If you have someone like her as a friend you have a rock. Never met you in person before, but God bless you Ireti for choosing you.

[@reginaurenchris-ogbodo14]

She is calculative, secure in her skin and just enjoys her . She earned my respect since her early days on the tube. I watched her since my secondary school days when she was in Uni( Uni Jos I think). Respect Ma'am

[@beea.9435]

Maturity and Wisdom speaking.... All those upcoming, wanabi celebrities that live for social media and online in-laws approval that don't care jack about them but feel obligated to wash their dirty laundry in public thus causing President Buhari to classify "all youths" in Nigeria as "lazy" , LISTEN and LEARN.... that's all I'm going to say. @Mrs Ireti Doyle... Hats off 👌. Radiant as always and very well spoken.

[@omoveesvlog9854]

I love this woman sooo much

[@bensonbeylarus]

I was going to say she's moving real fast with this interview but then again I'm an outsider in the situation. Anyways I hope they both heal from the situation. God bless. Love you Ms Ireti

[@Womenswell022]

Always loved the way she speaks, good command of the English language.

[@Styledbylizjerb]

Chude is very smart and intelligent

[@thandibaloyi4411]

She is one of a kind. Strong beautiful black woman.

[@jaque4593]

Commenting from Detroit, Michigan USA. Loved this snippet. Ms. Doyle, one of my favorite Nollywood actresses. Beautiful lady.

[@sumbianielsen3850]

She’s such a Calm and perfect woman! ❤

[@iretioluwacraig2939]

Just 5 mins and I learnt so much. Her calmness, elegance, and poise, has to be studied.

[@WithChude]

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[@goodman4093]

Just simply arrogant. I wonder how someone cà live with her

[@kingdomfrontiers1013]

@@goodman4093 You must be weak minded to continue to see this as arrogance.

[@folupaul-odeniran6372]

Can people just look beyond the exterior before idolising a fellow human? All celebrities have the “personas” they sell to the public. It’s all part of the trade. Using the dominant comments about Ireti Doyle as an example - she’s classy, confident, self-aware, speaks eloquently etc. Yes, she’s all that and much more and she has successfully sold that to us like others have too. However, for all these people, we should ponder more on their “off-camera”, real-life character, guiding principles, attitude to issues and pressures. It may shock you that a significant proportion will score a flat-out zero. Gush on people, celebrate them but don’t get carried away. All the best madam

[@gospeltruth6368]

There's no virtue in uniform

[@dj-nikky1]

My woman my everything ❤️I love her personality and her self confidence...

[@omodavids4339]

I pray to see Mr Chude someday Such a calm spirit!!!

[@HeIsWorthy247]

I love Ireti Doyle! Her acting skills is impeccable. I discovered her in the Fifty movie, but for me it was Fifty the series that really showcased the ranges of emotions she could take on. Not many actors bring me to tears but in that series I really felt Lizzies pain. That was some outstanding work. I’m really looking forward to Fifty the series season 3 🙏🏽

[@Wendie_hiltonb]

Same here. Been waiting for Season 3 since. She really nailed her role.

[@HeIsWorthy247]

@@Wendie_hiltonb Yes! I know I will finish the entire season in a day.

[@adadiamond3062]

Am a ghanian but i really love this lady am so happy seen her been interviewed 🫶👍💋🇩🇪❤️

[@onlyhuman776]

Wrong flag bro

[@MISS_SHERRY]

She’s the woman who has set the standard of class even when I don’t understand the accent with love from 🇺🇸

[@uyodhuochoma9249]

We love you right back 💕

[@saintdami]

It is important people understand that people grow, people evolve and personal experiences and exposures change people. Being married doesn’t mean you will remain the same person (mentally, financially, sexually, spiritually, professionally etc.) you were pre-marriage. Couple who aren’t growing, moving or evolving in the same direction may eventually part ways and that doesn’t mean either of them are bad human.

[@faithapoede9902]

Gbamsolutely...

[@tierraokonkwo6671]

Some are actually bad people, but you are right. Some partners deliberately walk alone

[@queen.esther.]

What she said from 1:03 - 1:27 is what many people, including myself, need to learn ❤

[@xDaughterofaKINGx]

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable. C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves

[@FelixOzor]

Dont learn to be single. Soul companionship has lots of benefits mentaly

[@maxa6453]

women are increasinggly becoming unmarriageable

[@Fae_Florence]

I love this woman too much ❤ She’s super classy and elegant.

[@samuelmbuk7756]

God bless you, aunty Ireti Doyle. Your command of English, calmness, and sanity. Your life is not an animation.

[@victorkoladeige4353]

There are 2 sides to every coin. I hope everyone finds peace and commitment in the people we love.

[@Jlosworldng]

Am happy your views are slightly different. Ireti and Doyle were not a match, the death of the real wife of Patrick Doyle was a great woman that death snatched away. May her soul continue to rest in peace , she fought and won even in her grave. May God almighty continue to bless the children she left behind. Amen.

[@frances-salt7382]

@@Jlosworldnghow did you know that they were not a match?

[@tierraokonkwo6671]

@@Jlosworldng Nothing like a single match in the world for someone, if it does not work, find another match or stay out of the match altogether. We meet people for a reason.

[@ehinmitantimilehin6617]

I think the calmness in her movie roles is a reflection of her in real life. I miss watching your movies ma'am...Keep being you. Btw, people don't have to know everything about you cos you are a "celebrity".

[@nadinelubs]

I love this brilliant actress… so composed, poised … never gets old. Her way of thinking is what we need. People are so intrusif in personal business. Well answered Ireti😉

[@aliceusenideh2348]

I love you aunty Ireti. God bless you. May absolute happiness be yours.

[@annyrhoda3578]

It's he class for me😩😩😩. See calmness and mad class

[@user-lg6mh3hl3g]

I can listen to this woman talk all day

[@mitch401k]

There is a thin line between emotional control and coming off as arrogant...Chude handled this interview like a pro

[@lamz83]

Rightly worded!!!

[@MaverickAoko]

Confident women are often misconstrued as arrogant by weak minded simpletons

[@mitch401k]

@@MaverickAoko simpleton or not, Chude still handled it like a pro...got the information he wanted by diffusing the tension created in the room...kudos to him once again

[@MaverickAoko]

That Chude is an impeccable moderator is not in contention. The calibre of his guests speaks to this assertion. It's you thinking there was tension and perceived arrogance that I'm responding to. Work on your insecurities

[@mitch401k]

@@MaverickAoko work on your etiquette

[@serwangerstark8406]

Ireti a woman I admire! I wish her and Patrick every good things they deserve as they go seperately.

[@olutobilobataiwo5934]

If I have hurt anybody ,I am sorry but I have to choose me. --- Ireti Doyle.

[@paleraluswinga]

Chude, handled the interview very well.

[@longlongwayway]

Yes o. Cos there were lots of parts that could turn awkward

[@olaoreoreoluwa3221]

I love ireti gosh,the perfect response for those who go about speculating about other people's business.

[@godfirst7479]

This woman must be into one of these like yoga, meditation, words of affirmation, Tai chi, Qigong to be so calming. She is so in the moment and focused without struggling. self awareness and spirit of gratitude. I always love her and how she carries herself.

[@eyllieprecious4704]

Not Tai chi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I’m so dead

[@nomagugu1174]

@@eyllieprecious4704 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@goodman4093]

And became possessed with Chinese demons 😆

[@Avy999]

So you need all that to be calm?

[@godfirst7479]

@@Avy999 No you don't need all that... Just one or 2 of those are enough to help you relax and balance blood pressure.

[@ufuomaidogun1750]

Wow wow wow... if confidence was a person. What a classy and confident lady.

[@aleruchiojigburu874]

I could see the maturity in this conversation..Ireti Doyle is the goat

[@theplugmerchandise]

I saw this coming a long time ago... When it was finally put out there, I wasn't surprised.

[@DoyinVoice]

Grace, Elegance and Class Actress from day ! Love from uk 🤍

[@truthislife4387]

She is so beautiful.

[@susan8576]

Aunty Ireti has always been such a beauty. Great job Chude.

[@fatimaaliu3361]

Ireti Doyle has class, so poise and very skeptical about her stuff.

[@ngombaflora8035]

I so much love this woman🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲

[@yaaasantewaa8567]

I just love her, my RESPECT FOR HER is epic

[@victoriaeffiong1261]

My life is not an animation ........uhnnnn this got me. Love you Ireti

[@fortune_isaac]

I just love this woman ❤️

[@olurotimiakintan7916]

Just want to say l love ireti and will always support her decision. God bless you my sister

[@ugonmaogbu1175]

It's Chude's subtle interviewing skills for me 😁 He still got Anty Ireti to give out some juice right after she said she was not going him to tell him anything on this platform. 😂😂 Anyway, Anty Ireti is the perfect case study of elegance. She also glided over it so smoothly even though I could tell she was quite uncomfortable with the line of discussion.

[@SAMUELBELA]

I was stunned 😂

[@chinonsombaebie2475]

That Younger Boy your dating now will destroy you. All of a Sudden self realisation dawned on you. Nawaooo for this gender

[@hlengiwemasondo2858]

What a gorgeous looking lady!

[@drariwodosegunuchechukwu7114]

Ma, I owe you a gift😍😍😍 Class, intelligence, subtle response... C'mon 🔥🔥🔥

[@zweeadams2819]

All of the above 💯👌

[@uniqueclothing5187]

I too love this woman

[@edehesther2629]

I love this lady and enjoy listening to her..... and I wish you happiness.💝💝💝💝

[@deowapkofi8061]

"It was a picture; a pretty picture, but there was a wide lacuna between the picture and reality" - Too deep

[@UK-sm4co]

I love you ma, will always. God bless you Ma

[@justcruisewithsimply_esthe2967]

I just love how she talks❤

[@augustaezenwa5635]

Having a Mother-in-law like this

[@Onomen]

I LOVE, LOVE THIS WOMAN SO MUCH ❤️❤️❤️

[@ShinningMedia]

I just love this woman ❤God bless you, I pray you find joy, peace and plenty love going forward in all you do. Best wishes mama.

[@Kingsdaughter68]

Well said. It’s is all about maturity. I love her.

[@user-oy1hi2sw7s]

I love this woman,ireti!❤

[@maureennwankwo8801]

Aunty Ireti, (Sheila) you're one woman I adore. I wish you all the best . May the Lord direct you

[@anniedaniels9937]

The class and elegance she embodies to me is fascinating

[@oghenefejirobenson5706]

I love her so much ❤❤❤

[@ndengayumbi7682]

This lady has class

[@anabelchristopher1809]

My lady I so much love her so much

[@tjandcj123]

Excellent interview. She’s so elegant. Please change the smoke detector battery, it’s beeping throughout the interview.

[@DOyana-hz8rm]

This woman's power level na another level

[@balogunadefunke5178]

I love this woman like ki lo de

[@bissybeauty]

I really like Ireti , she is always stands out ,like sisi Joke Silver blessings are yours keep the perfect up

[@kojoagyekumboateng1997]

I admire this woman so much

[@user-uw3cf2rz5j]

Tru definition of knowing they self... love anty ireti..

[@iamcedure]

I can listen to this lady all day ❤

[@iFliQs]

Ireti Doyle, I LOVE YOU ALWAYS. God keep you and sustain you.

[@oluyinkafakunle1092]

Good for her. Do whatever gives you peace of mind

[@seuncoker]

Wow, she is SOLID

[@gen-tovlog8781]

I have always been a fan of her excellent command of the English language.

[@patapreku4992]

Such intelligence @Ireti Doyle