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🙅🙅 Do Nice Guys Finish Last? - Ultimate Guide on How To Stop Being A Nice Guy 😏😏
We always try to be nice guys because that’s what we have been told since childhood.
Also, what’s wrong with that?
I am sure we have encountered this scenario.
When we were being really “nice” to a girl,
We were buying her expensive gifts and doing her favors to try and impress her.
But in the end, the girl chooses that “a*shole” guy over you.
She starts dating him while you treat her like a princess.
Why does that happen?
What are the traits in a*shole guys that get all the girls over nice guys?
Why do nice guys finish last?
If you’re a nice guy, this video is for you.
I am sharing a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy,
And become a person that everyone loves and respects.
First, let’s talk about some traits of nice guys and playboys.
Nice Guys
- Are the ones who go beyond their ways to help a girl.
- They do her favors and buy her gifts.
- They are always there for her and keep checking on her multiple times a day.
- They fight with other guys who talk about their girl, like Will Smith.
Playboys
- They do not buy girls drinks in the beginning.
- They’re not a girl’s puppet; they stand their ground and maintain their boundaries.
- They do not offer undeserved favors.
- They are clear about what they want.
- They inform the girls they don’t want to be in a relationship.
Playboys put their priorities over others.
It is not about nice guys vs. bad guys.
It comes down to strong man behavior vs. weak man behavior.
Playboys are strong, and nice guys are pushovers.
Nice guys are weak; they go out of their ways to help others,
To try and impress them. They are people’s pleasers.
Girls treat them as a shoulder and take advantage of them.
You need to stop that. You must start standing up for yourself and not let others treat you as a doormat.
In life, we want a win-win situation where both sides are happy.
But nice guys feel shitty inside while making others happy.
They let others take advantage of them and lose their sense of self.
Even as kids, our parents showed us love, when we did things according to them.
You need to stop this pattern and become a strong man.
In the video, I talk about five steps you can take to become a stronger, grounded man.
Watch the video to get a step-by-step guide on how to stop being a nice guy.
#1 Start Having Boundaries
#2 Do Not Simp For Her
#3 Pedestalizing the girl
With this video, you will have a clear idea of why girls hate nice guys, the truth behind most nice guys, and what you can do to be a more grounded, stronger man.
Love,
Kshitij 💖
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@Anonymousman005
@Anonymousman005 Жыл бұрын
Always be a nice guy at any situation. “Be nice for your goal, Not for a H0le 🕳️” -Master Oogway 😂
@themodernscholarm
@themodernscholarm Жыл бұрын
exactly, don't spoil your goal for a hole
@brownboiirohan
@brownboiirohan Жыл бұрын
Bro kyaa tum khud ise follow karte ho kya
@Anonymousman005
@Anonymousman005 Жыл бұрын
@@brownboiirohan I follow the moral of the quote, Don't distract and achieve the goal.
@manishjawadekar
@manishjawadekar Жыл бұрын
@@brownboiirohan bhai chut ka chakkar maut se takkar
@harshitsingh7521
@harshitsingh7521 Жыл бұрын
@@brownboiirohan i also follow there is nothing hard in that
@skbeatz3648
@skbeatz3648 2 жыл бұрын
This is the type of content i paid my internet bill for. Haha! Great video Kshitij
@ankitjadhav6641
@ankitjadhav6641 2 жыл бұрын
Hii bro are you from Mumbai
@kangtheconqueror2540
@kangtheconqueror2540 2 жыл бұрын
@@ankitjadhav6641 kyun bhai krage hse
@ankitjadhav6641
@ankitjadhav6641 2 жыл бұрын
Need a wing to go with for daygame
@priyeshchoubey3015
@priyeshchoubey3015 Жыл бұрын
Chtya ho fir bhai
@MohitMaheswari
@MohitMaheswari Жыл бұрын
The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain...... Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother
@undertaker1965
@undertaker1965 Жыл бұрын
I'm going to spit some facts: It is true that the society takes advantage of nice people, it's not that only woman takes advantage, men's also take advantage. If a woman is mature and intelligent she will definitely chose a nice guy, (not the wannabe nice guy). Only immature and fool people go after assholes and consider them as cool. Thank you for reading this 🙏
@amitjesur
@amitjesur Жыл бұрын
Agree bro💗
@sachinpatil-px9yt
@sachinpatil-px9yt Жыл бұрын
This is real truth
@helloworld2054
@helloworld2054 Жыл бұрын
Yeah there's nothing wrong with being nice but don't be a pushover and clingy
@meghnabaruahbaruah7518
@meghnabaruahbaruah7518 Жыл бұрын
That's 💯 correct. Thats why I am single.
@amitjesur
@amitjesur Жыл бұрын
@@meghnabaruahbaruah7518 me too. Don't wanna get into relationship with who just craves attention. 😊
@akashverma5756
@akashverma5756 Жыл бұрын
Summary:- Treat any girl as you treat others. Don't change yourself for girls.
@pareshkasundra5485
@pareshkasundra5485 Жыл бұрын
Women's brain wired and design is not suitable nice guy. Don't be nice guy to women. See this video twice. He is talking truth.
@coral8551
@coral8551 Жыл бұрын
but my real nature is nice guy !
@Notsad69
@Notsad69 Жыл бұрын
@@coral8551 just treat everyone like he is your small brother or sister
@coral8551
@coral8551 Жыл бұрын
@@Notsad69 noted !
@SumitKumar-pv6wg
@SumitKumar-pv6wg Жыл бұрын
@@coral8551 be nice to people those are nice to you. Don't be nice to toxic women and people in general those are taking advantage of you. Just ignore them. When you find a good girl to respect your true nature love her. Being nice to toxic people is not stupidity
@sarveshm6779
@sarveshm6779 2 жыл бұрын
let go of the girls who hates nice guy; its their loss; not of the nice guy ones; they later on will regret their decisions in life; but sorry, im never stop being a nice guy; and that doesnt mean being innocent n dumb;
@SumitKumar-pv6wg
@SumitKumar-pv6wg Жыл бұрын
Man I'm too nice guy. My father is a nice guy who genuinely love my mother and my mother is very mature good girl. They all love each other and never fight. So I'm also not going to stop being nice guy but now with boundaries. I will be nice to only my Loved ones. Being nice to toxic people is idiotic. First search a good girl and then be nice to her. Enjoy with her. Dont behave like dick to her becoz I can't live happily after putting my family in sadness. All these immature women dont deserve a good husband they are like use and throw for bad boys. I wish body counts can be visible on head of women so we can easily identify good people.
@sarveshm6779
@sarveshm6779 Жыл бұрын
@@SumitKumar-pv6wg yes, i know friend; but i love a girl ; who has been used by bad boys; she is from a very nice family background; despite knowing that i love her too much; maybe she now knows what true love is; but at one point i feel she will use me too; for her own benefit; to get ahead in her career; jst not able to decide; havent talked and met her; but i know some things abt her; she's a local tv actress; and you know how life of an actress is; what you suggest?
@SumitKumar-pv6wg
@SumitKumar-pv6wg Жыл бұрын
@@sarveshm6779 That's victim mentality. Some people loves to suffer. Dude you have only 1 life don't waste it on any hoe. Not everyone deserves kindness.
@sarveshm6779
@sarveshm6779 Жыл бұрын
@@SumitKumar-pv6wg bro, she's not a hoe.dont call her that;her father is wll known businessman in her town;
@jeffzee3791
@jeffzee3791 Жыл бұрын
Girls hate nice guys BUT MATURE WOMEN DON'T AS THEY WILL REPLACE YOU IF YOU IGNORE THEM
@harshvst1
@harshvst1 2 жыл бұрын
well, most girls are intrigued by what you define as "asshole" as both of the parties crave for attention, validation, and they are in the same boat, ready to drown anytime. Some people just want solitude and someone with values, loyalty, and genuine attraction which is and always will be maturity.
@Darth8304
@Darth8304 2 жыл бұрын
bhai pura video toh dekh le thik se
@naveenmalik8100
@naveenmalik8100 2 жыл бұрын
Samajh nahi aaya lekin, sun ke achha laga👍🤓😂
@amitjesur
@amitjesur Жыл бұрын
agree. They (Assholes and the girls who like them instead of nice guys) wont understand the value of relationship, honesty, loyalty. They end up Alone with mental illness.
@kuldeepsingh-un4cn
@kuldeepsingh-un4cn Жыл бұрын
Simple Thing Bro :- Respect Yourself . Don't Be A Good Guy Or a Bad Guy.✅
@kermitdaphrogge525
@kermitdaphrogge525 Жыл бұрын
Don't stop being a nice guy. Just know your self worth and when you're being used. If you aren't getting respected, ghost them. Build yourself, achieve financial freedom, level up yourself. You'll find the woman of everyone's dreams.
@bluexwave5930
@bluexwave5930 Жыл бұрын
Bhai ye phonecall reject ho gya tumhara hota hai kya btana jraa
@hirenahir76200
@hirenahir76200 Жыл бұрын
Bro muje nahi lagta ladkio ko nice guy Pasand NAHI ye log content bane ke Liye kuchh bhi dikhaye Matlab ladkio ko puchho unhe to nice ladke hi chahiye wo NAHI Jo Kisi bhi ladki ke Sath frenk ho jaye ya ego leke ghume
@tejas6323
@tejas6323 Жыл бұрын
​@@hirenahir76200 sahi kaha bhai...ladki ho ya ladka dono ko nice partner hi chahiye hota hai 😂 ye kuch bhi bakwas karte hai
@hirenahir76200
@hirenahir76200 Жыл бұрын
@@tejas6323 issiliye muje ye social media influencers Pasand NAHI ye Kuch bhi afwa ko Sach bana sakte hai which is scary
@inzu4151
@inzu4151 Жыл бұрын
@@bluexwave5930 bro, mere whatsapp message ak ladki ignore kar rahi thi, and I was really depressed about it.. Later I realised, the problem was with me and I was being too needy.. Boom I changed myself, now she's really close to me
@devendrapisda3528
@devendrapisda3528 Жыл бұрын
Be a nice guy and let women hate. Dont chase them, chase your goals.🌻
@jeffzee3791
@jeffzee3791 Жыл бұрын
Iska circle wahi logo ke sath hai jo attention seek karti hai😅
@faizalmemon1947
@faizalmemon1947 8 ай бұрын
Bhai sexual feelings zinda hai ke mar gayi.
@joyboy6513
@joyboy6513 16 күн бұрын
True ..☀️🌻
@aksourov4632
@aksourov4632 Жыл бұрын
Broh You just helped me change my thoughts about my life and relationship. It's time to break that nice guy mentality. My girlfriend just broke up with me this Evening. I never found the reason why she doesn't like me . Now I got the actual reason. Because iam too nice and everyone is taking advantage of that .Time for a change. No more Mr. Nice Guy. Time for a change. Thank you man 🖤
@MohitMaheswari
@MohitMaheswari Жыл бұрын
The truth is boys (nice boy) are innocent Aur ladkio ko ese ladko ka faida utha ne mai maza ata hai...... Its a fact and Truth This video have no logic.. Khud ki aur apni jesi soch rakhne walo ka logic derah hai yeh Ladkia nie soch te ak bar v ki innocent boy jisko soch reh hain na wese ladke hie jindegi bhar real sath dete hai Ladkia bas temporary khusi ke poche bhagte hai.... Aur (Asshole) ladke ke piche jate hain...... Agar duniya mai survey kroge na toh 100% ladkia bolenge they regretting q ki unone fuclboys (Asshoe) le chakar mai ache bande ko chodiya....... Reality bro Apni logic /apni soch apne pas rah brother
@aksourov4632
@aksourov4632 Жыл бұрын
@@MohitMaheswari It's complicated broh 🙂 GIRLS are the most complicated species on earth 🌎. Nobody ever understood what they really want actually. They are interested in fun things fun boys cause they don't think long term like boys . Tell me your opinion??
@MohitMaheswari
@MohitMaheswari Жыл бұрын
@@aksourov4632 yes
@hopestar5287
@hopestar5287 Жыл бұрын
Us bruhhh
@aksourov4632
@aksourov4632 Жыл бұрын
@@hopestar5287 hm 🖤
@Leviathan-
@Leviathan- Жыл бұрын
I think that's clear difference of a husband material and boyfriend material 😂😂
@souravmandal6417
@souravmandal6417 8 ай бұрын
May be ❤
@gulraizkhan6158
@gulraizkhan6158 2 жыл бұрын
Can anyone describe me with few habits ? 1. I'm the man with attitude 2. i hate girls even look at them 3. I'm feeling less person with no expectation 4. Love is a joke to me 5. i love to live alone specially apart from girls. Who would be the most expert to understand me
@mihirtyagi1117
@mihirtyagi1117 2 жыл бұрын
Incel energy
@turing4991
@turing4991 Жыл бұрын
Bro your literally me. I cant be arsed to even talk to them now, just gave up. I thought some one will be different, but believe me they are all the same. They all want the same shit like, funny guy, great instagram, bike, body building and all. Im not a loser, i am a country level hackathon winner. Even this is not attractive to them.. They have always liked and will like garbage.
@rohitnayak9952
@rohitnayak9952 Жыл бұрын
Fake account with anonymous name 🤣
@biswarup21
@biswarup21 Жыл бұрын
@@rohitnayak9952 lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sujalverma4326
@sujalverma4326 Жыл бұрын
your pronouns?? 😂😂😂😂
@rudrakshpangotra
@rudrakshpangotra Жыл бұрын
when i was in 10th standard i spent 2000 rs on a gift for my girl.(she had both mercedes and audi in my tier 4 city). At that time my pocket money was 300rs(My parents Were Strict). And she Cheated me On day Of her birthday.
@HimanshuSingh-gu4cs
@HimanshuSingh-gu4cs Жыл бұрын
Brothers going on a date with someone doesn't make you socially strong. Date is not a destination, it is the by-product of the respect that you have given to yourself over a period of time. You are waking up early, achieving your daily tasks, dressing well, going out socializing, travelling etc. These things increase the masculine energy which reflects beautifully when you are around women. You feel more confident because you have practiced respecting yourself. Women respect the guys who respect themselves.
@subhajitmajumder9888
@subhajitmajumder9888 Жыл бұрын
so true man
@prataptiwary8555
@prataptiwary8555 Жыл бұрын
Dude, You changed my thinking process completely in this 26 min videos, I can say with bet this is one of the finest content I watched. Thank you so much
@Munmunlifestyle-ou6uj
@Munmunlifestyle-ou6uj 11 ай бұрын
Exactly 😊
@mohitrajpal266
@mohitrajpal266 Жыл бұрын
Why to change our identity for women?
@souravpaul7653
@souravpaul7653 5 ай бұрын
Sometimes change is the only option
@EpicBongBoy
@EpicBongBoy 4 ай бұрын
Not for women bro...for this generation...being nice is worthless today...you have to change yourself.
@ashwinmiyer6159
@ashwinmiyer6159 3 ай бұрын
​@@EpicBongBoy Nah... Being nice and being innocent/stupid are too different things.
@KhushalBadal
@KhushalBadal 2 ай бұрын
When u decide to be real whatever the situation is...U r a real man🫵. But if u have to change a little bit in ur personality temporarily so that things would go in ur favour... It's absolutely fine.
@29.ispeakpower
@29.ispeakpower 2 ай бұрын
Its not about women... Sex... Love... But not being a nice guy will increase your chances of survival in this uncertain society!! Be nice ... But not for everyone
@AUSTINGANGAR123
@AUSTINGANGAR123 Жыл бұрын
Guys there's nothing like Nice guys. It's just about having self esteem and respecting others. Give respect Take respect..!! Simple Giving is the Best Virtue but only for those who value it.. Now a days there are 1000's of people who are waiting to take advantage of people with low self esteem..!! Don't be the one..
@tusharmhatre4360
@tusharmhatre4360 Жыл бұрын
Yes, i think defining clear values and principal like health, career and family over other bulshit and fake social media thing will keep balance in life and will not cause regret later in in terms of health and career. Be truthful to own self and others make life alot easy.
@DualxBlades
@DualxBlades Жыл бұрын
being nice is good unless one becomes a despo
@devanshgupta4107
@devanshgupta4107 Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@piceditz6334
@piceditz6334 Жыл бұрын
So true
@jeffzee3791
@jeffzee3791 Жыл бұрын
Yes it works on immature women only who seek attention
@garimasapkota6772
@garimasapkota6772 Жыл бұрын
Actually I like people who have wisdom and are in control of their emotions but still share happiness and are playful but still impactful!
@garimasapkota6772
@garimasapkota6772 Жыл бұрын
@Angaraj Boruah at least I have control on my emotions can't tell for other human beings.
@amanansari7319
@amanansari7319 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing everything happening to me from someone other. It's painful realising all this but enlightening too. Thank you brother ❤ for this counselling.
@DesireNSuccess
@DesireNSuccess Жыл бұрын
I m like you may be more than you
@garymonteiro
@garymonteiro 2 жыл бұрын
The part about being the clown of teh group is interesting but I have a different take from Kshitij. One can successfully get one self to be treated better...for that you wil have to stop meeting that group for a short while (1 -2 months) so all the memories around you being a pushover are gone for you (and also for your friends). then reintroduce yourself into that group and it wil be easier to quell down any signs of the bullying starting again...if it still doesnt work , please take the advice that Kshitij gave and leave
@benclaude6932
@benclaude6932 2 жыл бұрын
Don't ever leave making videos , love your content , improving India's confidence
@vishal99300
@vishal99300 2 жыл бұрын
Dont be a nice guy, instead be a Good Man. This is all I try explaining my people.
@atleastvicky
@atleastvicky Жыл бұрын
Bro...your words are amazing! This video is around 27 minutes, but believe me, I've watched it for 40 minutes 😂 No, seriously, just to hear some particular lines again. Hats off. 🙌🏻
@korchageen
@korchageen Жыл бұрын
I am a nice guy, and I have friends who are nice too. After a certain time and marriage, women say that, it was a mistake to not to marry you. Don't change yourself nice guys. Have the fun later.
@whoami-qc9pn
@whoami-qc9pn Жыл бұрын
Lier
@dhirendrarath8001
@dhirendrarath8001 Жыл бұрын
I don't want to be that nice guy who has no self confidence, no self respect willing to sacrifice his money , his peace for any girl .. ♥️de na nice 🙂🙂🙂
@bhabanishankarpradhan7237
@bhabanishankarpradhan7237 Жыл бұрын
If your income will more than her husband then she definitely going to tell that..not marrying you was a mistake..other than that no way 😀
@saurav999
@saurav999 Жыл бұрын
Ha pehle c@ck ride baad me tum financial help ke.liye baithe hi ho chutiya wali baate mat karo
@saurav999
@saurav999 Жыл бұрын
@@dhirendrarath8001 bhai yeh chutiya hai women baad mai nice guy paiso ke liye chahti hai pehle fun baad me settle
@sandipupadhyaya8017
@sandipupadhyaya8017 Жыл бұрын
I don't think it's bad to be good. I have always been a nice guy since my childhood. And it's very interesting that, I didn't have any girlfriend till the age of 21. But finally a mature and beautiful lady chose me as her lifepartner forever. One thing I came to know about girls (thanks to her who told me the secret) is that, "Girls like 'the so-called alpha/sigma/bad guys' only as their boyfriends, but they don't want them to be their husbands or lifepartners, because those assholes are quite immature and impractical about their lives and it's very unsafe for the future of their relationship." Soooo, Be good... it's not so bad
@sandeepchoudhary7257
@sandeepchoudhary7257 Жыл бұрын
@@vysakhr5888 Thailand chaloge
@abinashdehury8922
@abinashdehury8922 Жыл бұрын
@@sandeepchoudhary7257 3000 baht
@sandeepchoudhary7257
@sandeepchoudhary7257 Жыл бұрын
@@abinashdehury8922 😋😋😋hehe boiii
@sahajsoni3946
@sahajsoni3946 Жыл бұрын
The thing is here that girls always have that sense of excitement for those assholes always. Its just that they have tasted them and now they fear about their future so they settle with a comparatively balanced guy
@saurav999
@saurav999 Жыл бұрын
@Fek Smile YT bhai yeh bhi chutiya hai women ne ise paiso ke liye chuna kyuki usne badboys ke sath fun kar liya uska man bhar gaya ab settle hona hai
@choudharysahabmusic3513
@choudharysahabmusic3513 11 ай бұрын
women love nice guys when it comes to marriage. Not as a boyfriend
@parthshah3718
@parthshah3718 2 жыл бұрын
I experienced that trauma bonding in college and made cool friends as I was academically focused and had friends in school who had the same mindset ....all those college friends had very influential parents and well connected to top people and had achieved whatever they had by their parents help ...I wanted to learn so called coolness by being with them...ultimately time came where as you mentioned I couldn't control and had to beat the shit out of one of them ..it was the best feeling in the world ...bc kisi ka baap mere age kuch nai bola
@myworldofanime7552
@myworldofanime7552 Жыл бұрын
Bro, Any tip for me to attract girl
@Followwithshibin
@Followwithshibin 2 жыл бұрын
Bro that's the main problem.. if i leave my friends group i would be more lonely because i'm too much introvert and shy person. Doesn't have a confidence to talk to new people and because of my introvert behavior and low voice pitch they bully me with spontaneous words and things
@ABHISHEK-id2eb
@ABHISHEK-id2eb 2 жыл бұрын
Brother take some time. Sit alone and think carefully. That you're really a introvert or you're just shy. People often misunderstood introvert and shyness. I myself thought that i am introvert but I was just shy, had low confidence. By reading your comment i assume that you want to talk to new people. But you can't. And if you want to make new friends , talk to new people. Then you are not introvert , mate. You're just shy. Like i was. In my opinion i think you should start by talking to atleast one new person daily. No matter one minute talk or long talk. Or just hi , hello. My friend you need to get rid of your shyness. I was also a shy person. And i misunderstood myself as a introvert. But now I can talk to any new person. I know what i have told you to do is not easy. It was not easy for me either. But if you do the same, you will definitely see the difference in yourself. I hope that helps you. Good luck Mate 👍 And the meaning of introvert :- a person who enjoys to spend time alone or with him/herself. Or A person who gains energy in other words a person who feels amazing by spending time with himself.
@ankitjadhav6641
@ankitjadhav6641 2 жыл бұрын
Hii bro
@harshgoyal4952
@harshgoyal4952 2 жыл бұрын
Man, just go out and start giving genuine compliments to people walking on streets. Kshitij has a separate video for it, you can scroll the channel but don’t just watch content, apply. Within a week you’ll feel great energy and high confidence inside. And you can join some networking groups or maybe a team sport, class, event if you wanna get over your previous friend circle which is hard to avoid. Let’s make happen man, awaiting your positive reply on this thread as soon as you start working on it! Cheers.
@rahuls8613
@rahuls8613 2 жыл бұрын
Man this is the same problem I am facing. Basically I am very shy and a very low voice. I have suffer from past traumas. And I have done some mistakes. All these things are holding me back. I want to grow,meet new people , make connections but my mindset and past experiences are stopping me.
@ankitjadhav6641
@ankitjadhav6641 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone in Mumbai wants to go out for daygame sometime???
@world_explorer69
@world_explorer69 Жыл бұрын
Being nice is always good for me but if you be tooo nice you will find problem 🌝
@adityabhardwaj5424
@adityabhardwaj5424 Жыл бұрын
अखंड सिंगल मैं जो ये वीडिओ देख रहा हूँ।😅😢
@rishikasinha5424
@rishikasinha5424 Жыл бұрын
Immature girls like as*hole* but mature women will prefer a nice guy, who is humble but would have a self esteem! I as a women will look for maturity, sincerity and self esteem in a man!
@Hey-Women-iam-bear-choose-me
@Hey-Women-iam-bear-choose-me Жыл бұрын
Lmao 80% good women like aasholes aur wo us ladke ke chakkar me fas jaate hai fboy ko chunne ke baad hahaha my friends are fboys they sleep with many women and don't even respect women but my whole life I respected women not a mysoginyst still I am an incel meanwhile friendzoned guy thinking what went wrong they don't want nice guys and they don't want fboy if he is toxic not the problem jab wo settle nhi hota chhod ke bhag jaata hai tab yaad aata hai achha admi jisne hamesha pyaar Kiya kabhi disrespect nhi kiya yahi aukat hai ham logo ki second option ki tarah dekhti hai dunia hame like "yaar main uske sath hoti to wo Mera achha dhyan rakhta" but it's too late now yahi aukat hai hamari hahahaha 😂😂
@mohammadaaquil4007
@mohammadaaquil4007 Жыл бұрын
People should learn to say No to others... Because everytime we are agree with them, if it's not true and making you fool then disagree with them and your relationship get harm then it's okay, it is better than for made joke of your to them..
@armouredwisdom
@armouredwisdom Жыл бұрын
she called me at 12pm to come pick her up, like begging but i was sleeping so i rejected but after that night she never called me... she had an accident
@newdivide6770
@newdivide6770 Жыл бұрын
The fact is a woman with values and self respect prefers a nice guy but the one who's arrogant, wants attention, prefers toxic relationship want bad boy. I always had problems in relationship because i was way too nice but one day i realised women don't want me because i am too nice so i lost the hope but one day i met a beautiful girl online, we started talking and i really liked her and i told her i am into her and she said yes. She's beautiful, talented, kind and peaceful, she is involved in my life completely. She cares about my family, takes news always, remembers every small thing about me like she's my mother, her character is pure, no male friends, not so many ex boyfriends and whatever i do to her as a man she's putting the same efforts to keep this relationship going in the direction. One day she told me that i am so nice to her that no man will ever treat her the way i do. It's been more then 1 and half year we are still together and planning our future together. Many times came when i felt she will go away because of my situations but she stayed and stayed, when i could not talk to my mom i talked to her and she listened to me very carefully and motivated me. The point is being nice is always good you just need right woman to appreciate that, bad boys works too but that relationship won't last long. Nice man with bad women - you'll get dumped Nice woman but bad man - one day she'll give up on that relationship Bad man with bad women - no hope but toxic relationship Nice woman and nice man - great future and blessings. Some people in comment down here saying i am lying, well to be honest i understand that knowledge and wisdom is not for a fool. My only intention was to let guys know the reality, i don't watch porn so obviously i don't live in world of fantasy..
@aryasartistry
@aryasartistry Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@itznav_sin
@itznav_sin Жыл бұрын
Hat's 📴
@inf783
@inf783 Жыл бұрын
dude literally wrote a whole essay 😂
@sabijatt8449
@sabijatt8449 Жыл бұрын
@@inf783 Bhai jhoot bol Raha hai je reality me aisa nhi hota 🤣🤣 ye sala fantasy story likh ke self satisfy kr rha hai
@inf783
@inf783 Жыл бұрын
@@NeerajKumar-tr5jr you also have a fantasy like that guy?? bro wtf happened to you guys?? 😂
@niteshdey8138
@niteshdey8138 Жыл бұрын
The main thing is Self respect barao...Dont be a slave and agree to do anything to take her on bed or OYO..Dont Grant her wishes...Be Selfish..or Diplomatic...Ye sab Bollywood ne sikhaya hai...toxic love
@vyavahareaditya5936
@vyavahareaditya5936 Жыл бұрын
Ladkiya patane se kuch nhi hota career pr dhyan do
@theprogrammer6815
@theprogrammer6815 2 жыл бұрын
Hey kshitij, please make a video on "How to not give fuck about what people think about you....??"😀😀
@simulatorlover3042
@simulatorlover3042 Жыл бұрын
Be a nice guy but don't be too much that other people will take advantage of you. Help others, be kind, earn lots of money, have vacations, also have badass bike & cars but above all this make your parents proud, be with them for lifetime they are the only people who truly loves you. It doesn't matter if you get a girl or not, perhaps you can live your life alone.🙌
@viraj5132
@viraj5132 Жыл бұрын
The big brother advice we always wanted but never had.
@Sinha_jee_09
@Sinha_jee_09 Жыл бұрын
Now I'm gonna say all of this in front of my friends when they tease me because i don't have a girlfriend 😂 Awesome kshitij bhaya❤
@debdutchakraborty6417
@debdutchakraborty6417 Жыл бұрын
Thanks God I'm in a committed relationship with someone who's childish like me❤️
@piyushsharma8295
@piyushsharma8295 Жыл бұрын
Bro , I am in engineering college and here no. of girls are very than boys so every girl has around 7-10 boys simping around her because of this expectation of girls from boys are very high . Here boy still gets rejected even he is so far good in every way than that girl . And I'm type of guy who talk to girl only if she started first and if she is intrested to talk to me because i don't want to be the guy from a crowed those are simping around girls and i ended up being single for this year in this college😅😅😂😂😂 any suggestions for me??
@prashantbagade2541
@prashantbagade2541 Жыл бұрын
Great be like that let those girls be cheated and cut into pieces like shradha and now tunisha sharma. Ache ladke ladkiya pasand nahi karti lekin sense of humor wale entertainment dene wale ladke hi pasand aate hai aur jab wo ladka aur ladkiyo ke saath bhu ghumta phirta hai sex bhi karta hai tab phir wohi ladki jisne tumko reject kiya tumko yaad karti hai tab aake sorry bolti ki maine tere pyar ko thukraya aur ab bhugat rahi hu.
@piyushsharma8295
@piyushsharma8295 Жыл бұрын
@@prashantbagade2541 bhai kitne hi dhoke mile ladkiyo ko unki niyat vesi hi rehti hai so never expect anything from a girl
@manavsarkar18
@manavsarkar18 Жыл бұрын
Mai abhi class 12 me hu aur pata ni ladkiyo ko lafange aur chaddar ladko me kya dikhta hai. Ladkiyo ki choice itni kharab hoti hai science ko achi ladki commerce ke ameer aur lafange ladko ke peeche bhaagte rehti hai. 😢
@atharvamahadik216
@atharvamahadik216 Жыл бұрын
Usse Acha Misogynist banke carrer pe focus Karo nhi to sabse simple military join Karo kiy ki stree jat ka asar vah pe nhi chalta 🤣🤣🤣
@vishalsadat1997
@vishalsadat1997 Жыл бұрын
But Sad Reality is.. Aghar Iss Tarah Ka Attitude Rakhenge To Koi Log Zindagi Me Sath Nahi Rahenga, Aakele Reh Jaoge..🙂
@malcomnoronha4828
@malcomnoronha4828 Жыл бұрын
MR Bean Deka hai bhai, Kitna Kush rayta hai. Focus on yourself and life. Aaj kal kon sab apnay baray Mai e Soch Tay hai. Its about keeping myself first then others.
@anil6191
@anil6191 Жыл бұрын
@@malcomnoronha4828 bhai wo fictional character h
@malcomnoronha4828
@malcomnoronha4828 Жыл бұрын
@@anil6191 Pata Hai bhai, all I am saying is put yourself first and then others.
@warrior1219
@warrior1219 Жыл бұрын
Bhai already akele hi hae aur kitna akele honge
@coldbloodstorm9729
@coldbloodstorm9729 Жыл бұрын
Mutual respect and care both matters...not any single thing
@Shalini7448
@Shalini7448 11 ай бұрын
Galat... Aisa kuch nahi h... Women always like nice guys.. Please stop following ths chapri people.....
@DeadAlready07
@DeadAlready07 11 ай бұрын
I like a girl in the neighbourhood,and she likes me too but when i try to talk with her she doesn't reply,what could be the reason,if you were at her place. Just asking feel free to ignore
@rashmii_kashyap02
@rashmii_kashyap02 Жыл бұрын
"Mistakes and experiences makes you a human better person"☺️ Life mein ek insan ekdum se mature ni banta,,,dheere dheere hi chinjen samjh aati hein... Har insaan ke life toxic log aate hein and tough phase....yeh humpe depend krta h ki humein unhein kaise handle karte hein
@RG-iw4c
@RG-iw4c Жыл бұрын
Mistake nhi vo jrurte hoti h jo puri kre Vhi premi Na koi acha psand krte na koi bura.
@faizalmemon1947
@faizalmemon1947 8 ай бұрын
Their are many mistakes of Indian Men in their approach to women and one of their famous ones is being nice to a women. Well this is what Kshitij is saying to not be nice for no reason. We Indian Men are learning the hard way ha ha.
@otakuROHIT
@otakuROHIT Жыл бұрын
I will never change my self unless I feel it's bad for me.
@gauravkumartrader
@gauravkumartrader Жыл бұрын
Just be real and don’t change yourself for a girl( a human with opposite sex) You can be comfortable in your own personality rather than being someone and the right person will find you for sure. This person is just gathering audience for selling his course because he knows very well these days boys are very insecure.
@UnShEeP924
@UnShEeP924 Жыл бұрын
The video's topic is true but it's also true that if you're truly NICE , then STAY NICE. Changing yourself for anyone even for women won't give you peace in life. you have to find someone who's going to be ok with how your temperament is.....
@shamimanohar
@shamimanohar Жыл бұрын
Be nice. If she goes away, then let her go, she wasn't worth your time. Only be with people who deserve to be around you. And also, there are no nice guys. Stop seeing in Black and White.
@staunchpatriot8584
@staunchpatriot8584 Жыл бұрын
अच्छी लड़की इसलिए पसंद नहीं होते क्योंकि क्योंकि घटिया लड़को के हाथ थप्पड़ कहना जूते खाना उन्हें अच्छा लगता है,,, किसी को मेरी बातें बुरी भी लगेगी,,,पर ये सचाई है मेने देखा है एशा
@96parmeet
@96parmeet Жыл бұрын
I don't see any females in the comments validating this content ! Only single men looking for answers 😅
@ganesh_2365
@ganesh_2365 2 жыл бұрын
bro, I think, be a "psudo nice guy" because "act like a fool and think like a brillent" ye concept muze achha lagta hai !!!!!!!
@anonymous6910
@anonymous6910 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video when I was 14 years old. But I'll make sure I will teach these things when my child will be of 14 years of age. Thanks for the video !
@jaymishra5284
@jaymishra5284 Жыл бұрын
We need more people like Kshitij out there . Thanks man for speaking truth
@harrychess9532
@harrychess9532 Жыл бұрын
Bro 100% relatable content... Thanks bhai 🫂
@addykaesthetic
@addykaesthetic Жыл бұрын
Worth my time watching this video!! Keep making such type of content broo ❤️ wish you good luck 🤞
@johnnys8691
@johnnys8691 Жыл бұрын
Trauma is a big factor, I still very careful while talking to anyone,so that I might not offend that person, or I just avoid talking to anyone most of the time. Picking up phone is still like an impossible task for me, I mostly stick to messages.
@anmolbajaj1178
@anmolbajaj1178 Жыл бұрын
This video in two words-- self respect
@RockStar-ox3qf
@RockStar-ox3qf Жыл бұрын
Dont bhi a nice guy or an ass****, rather bhi behti paani mein haat done wala guy 😎, thats what girls like nowadays, as they don't like commitment
@RizzLord95
@RizzLord95 2 жыл бұрын
Nice guys are basically are simps so stop respecting unworthy girls and priorities your needs✌️
@artistshreeraj6008
@artistshreeraj6008 Жыл бұрын
One of my friend chasing girl she ran away n hookd up with tiny ass then he took her to hotel then broke up then she married guy who was ass x 2 and then he left her also after got to know she is not vergin now she is behind my friend 😂😂धरती गोल है भाई 😂😂
@parthrajpal3574
@parthrajpal3574 Жыл бұрын
This is awsome this video helped me ov from my ex after 3 years of breakup thank you so much khitij sir you're my inspiration ❤️🔥
@ajaymotla1000
@ajaymotla1000 Жыл бұрын
I am 10 months late watching this GEM, Thanks alot bro, You cleared my doubts, You cleared that thin layer becoming a Nice guy & a fool.
@belief1111
@belief1111 2 жыл бұрын
Another good video to watch on this topic would Be "the nice guy trope explained" by :the take
@ap10235
@ap10235 Жыл бұрын
To hum log itni mehnat larki ke liye thorina kar rhe apne passion or goal ke liye kar rhe or bahut larke change ho chuke hai larki barki gyi bahar mai apne goal mai hard work kar rhe 💪💪💪je larki is just a waste of time trust me
@arbaaz3490
@arbaaz3490 2 жыл бұрын
It's simple aag dono taraf brabar lgani chaiye
@b.biswal8235
@b.biswal8235 2 ай бұрын
Bhai aap jo quality "nice guy" ke liye bol nahe ho usko nice guy nahin "dump guy" bolte hai.Aur nice and dump mein jamin asman ka pharak hota hai.....😂😂😂😂😂😂
@adityanag8934
@adityanag8934 Жыл бұрын
Apart from the amazing explanation I must say I am really happy listing to an Indian coach (I usually listin to foreign coach) having a High energy Vibes 😁 , and cool explanation. Now come back to the topic I shall surely apply this teaching in life . Thank you sir 😊❤️
@sankalpgupta1566
@sankalpgupta1566 Жыл бұрын
Many of you thinking how is speaking so many facts , so for you people let me tell you there are so many online dating coaches in foreign countries for e.g USA and many of them have written some best books also and this guy is also trying to that by his youtube videos. So he has read ample amount of books and he picked up the content according to India. So good analysis i must say so people can learn something. Although in India we also have relationship coaches and marriage counsellor which we often heard but not so common in our country where people will buy dating courses but definitely in future this may be the biggest market.
@MohitMaheswari
@MohitMaheswari Жыл бұрын
Bekar logic de video mai bol rah hai tu bhai Ladki Keliye khud ko change mat kro Kuch Ladkia bad boys ko pasand krte hai Because they are bad
@Astromission
@Astromission 11 ай бұрын
Mujhe nehi banna koi bad boy ya nice guy..i am enough for myself no musterbation no porn..don't need any girl or relationship..i am deep into my ambition..i am enough...
@ajaydev7427
@ajaydev7427 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome men you always comes with a fucking crazy content. Keep going......❣️
@AjayThakur-uf3hd
@AjayThakur-uf3hd Жыл бұрын
Girls like nice guys when they give money 🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
@varunsharma410
@varunsharma410 Жыл бұрын
Gentlemen this one is for you , A book named "No more Mr. Nice Guy " By Robert Glover (psychotherapist) . Trust me , worth the money 🤘
@Kalinga_yodha
@Kalinga_yodha Жыл бұрын
Why have you put specifically a foreign woman in your thumbnail? Stop colorism.
@aamchikhandwa4707
@aamchikhandwa4707 2 жыл бұрын
Why this men has less subscriber 🙂☹️
@pratikdutta3879
@pratikdutta3879 Жыл бұрын
Fuck it. I don't want women. I will keep being a nice guy, it makes me happy and at peace with myself.
@Lnpuniverse
@Lnpuniverse Жыл бұрын
🍺😜🍺😜😜😜🍻 Respect u brother..a lot of to learn from u..been a simp guy..n I really really regret that thing...I'm a emotional guy but I'm improving. Thnks for the guidance.💖
@alexdunphy4358
@alexdunphy4358 2 жыл бұрын
Love is a wierd drug which makes you strong and weak at the same time.
@mr.billionaire_76
@mr.billionaire_76 Жыл бұрын
this channel is so so underrated and this man is also so underrated....more Men should reach out to his content and his value
@BOMBA.EDITZZZZ
@BOMBA.EDITZZZZ 3 ай бұрын
You need nothing work on yourself..........no need girls learn to love yourself
@ramchandratudu9704
@ramchandratudu9704 Жыл бұрын
I just broke up with her....due to being in my boundaries...
@swabhiman_1998---
@swabhiman_1998--- Жыл бұрын
Iske short vedios mein ek hi ldki bar bar hoti ha ... jisko khud ldki ni mil ri woh batayega logo ko ... really ? Aur jo ldkiya ya ldke bad boys n girls k peeche ha leave them because woh kabhi ap k badass attitude se b bore ho jayenga and leave you ... So apply some brain...
@pratham7878
@pratham7878 2 жыл бұрын
Gift karega Gucci Milegi free mein chuchi
@sahilgoel1309
@sahilgoel1309 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahaha
@aakashkashyap2838
@aakashkashyap2838 Жыл бұрын
The best options is to be an a**hole hot guy in your teenage to attract immature hot girls and eventually be nice to date mature girls and marry someone mature. Spolier: not gonna happen😂
@frigontech
@frigontech Жыл бұрын
Imagine seeing this as a 16 year old
@thericcks
@thericcks 3 ай бұрын
us bro us
@meandmyenfield2417
@meandmyenfield2417 5 ай бұрын
The most depressed section of people are Actually here . Modi ji should focus on these viewers 😢
@lawjeet7088
@lawjeet7088 Жыл бұрын
I have all the qualities hence I not end up in relationship. 😂
@kumarabhishek8852
@kumarabhishek8852 Жыл бұрын
Acha, mai to nice samajh raha tha apne aap ko.....ab pta chala bad boy category may hoon.... 😂
@vishalsalunkhe1512
@vishalsalunkhe1512 2 жыл бұрын
bhai 22.40 😅 badhiya joke tha
@Satyanarayanvalkundakar
@Satyanarayanvalkundakar Жыл бұрын
He is reading from the book "No more Mr.Nice guy"...
@sashankakumarnath7809
@sashankakumarnath7809 Жыл бұрын
A true man doesn't stop being a nice guy because his self respect is more important than a girl's attention towards him. In this world there are also women who love nice guy because not everyone is made my the same viewpoint.
@ashuuuu4023
@ashuuuu4023 11 ай бұрын
Gym jao kush raho....
@lyricalada5106
@lyricalada5106 Жыл бұрын
Me To Thumbnail :- Because It's Kaliyug😆
@NiltraGaming
@NiltraGaming Жыл бұрын
Boy you're the best. Fuck sigma male concept. I'm grinding Alpha mindset 🎉❤
@kxbir_est
@kxbir_est Жыл бұрын
Adding values to the men.... Keep going brother👍
@harshdhillon6263
@harshdhillon6263 Жыл бұрын
i don't know why i start laughing when someone try to manipulate me like look at this guy speaking non stop for 26 minutes even when he is not totally wrong but being fake is as cringey as being pervert revolving around girls, be yourself, some peoples are kind heart and they kill themselve just because social media told them to be a bad guy yoo, be balanced or be yourself, rudeness or kindness is not something which you have to shape yourself in, if call of moment is rudeness it will come automatically if call of moment is kindness it will come out automatically as well, just be yourself instead of being fake, gandhi is funny cringey guy so is andrew tate...
@dad-ms8mz
@dad-ms8mz Жыл бұрын
I am a nice guy and no matter womens likes me or not I will be a nice guy.😅
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