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The Comments Section with Brett Cooper

The Comments Section with Brett Cooper

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Жыл бұрын
Jubillee never fails to pick out the absolute worst contestants for their videos.
@tbp_Nxon3727
@tbp_Nxon3727 Жыл бұрын
They pulled them off the street💀💀💀💀
@captainkenzie6873
@captainkenzie6873 Жыл бұрын
I think I've seen one of them in a crazy feminist video online.
@Iamachad-qf6qj
@Iamachad-qf6qj Жыл бұрын
Wemen make my blood boil. Make babies and shush. Dont try to vibe with us. Just practice your throating skills and we'll be happy as men.
@TheGumbyGuy
@TheGumbyGuy Жыл бұрын
It does make them more entertaining.
@InexpiateShade
@InexpiateShade Жыл бұрын
Jubilee's tea is the same as buzzfeed except its built like a sippy cup for even less concerned individuals. And yes. Most self proclaimed MRA speakers are terrible examples for men to cosign with. Alot of jilted men that have let bitterness skew their outlook, world perspectives, and approach to life's problems. Salt is cheap. Use it and stay keen bros
@thiswillnotendwell4402
@thiswillnotendwell4402 Жыл бұрын
The problem with “toxic masculinity” is it’s just toxic behavior. Behavior that men and women both can have. Yet, it’s considered “masculine” as if toxic behavior is tied to males. Toxic behavior is tied to human emotions. It’s not a “male” issue.
@Helloguys_c1p
@Helloguys_c1p Жыл бұрын
YES!
@AnyDoubtUnreasonable
@AnyDoubtUnreasonable Жыл бұрын
"Toxic masculinity" was coined by the feminist movement (hence, "masculinity"), but it's really a toxic person that is responsible for the types of experiences expressed by these young ladies. Feminism seems to believe that ANY truly masculine behavior in a male is 'toxic'!
@polrusstomakriss9001
@polrusstomakriss9001 Жыл бұрын
Omgoodness Thank you & well said, someone fucking said it goodness!!!?!
@polrusstomakriss9001
@polrusstomakriss9001 Жыл бұрын
Big Ups for a screenshot, I'm framing the fuck out this shit if I have to
@dude8223
@dude8223 Жыл бұрын
Anyone who does not know the words toxic masculinity is a oxymoron has no idea what masculinity is.
@RileighAsh-ys4uw
@RileighAsh-ys4uw Жыл бұрын
Went out to dinner with my husband at a very fancy restaurant. A black women at the next table was obviously on a date and spent the whole dinner talking about generation teams and how she feels trams from her slave ancestors and how much trauma she feels. My husband and I soent the whole dinner listening and laughing hoping that guy runs for the hills
@ShootingStarStudio
@ShootingStarStudio Жыл бұрын
i cackled at this 🤣🤣
@flowersent9614
@flowersent9614 Жыл бұрын
BWHAHAHHAH FREE ENTERTAINMENT😭😭
@syenest6415
@syenest6415 Жыл бұрын
So angry I'm italian cuz we don't have this type of free comedy😔🤣
@ShootingStarStudio
@ShootingStarStudio Жыл бұрын
@@syenest6415 that’s the beauty of the internet 😂
@chillbuni
@chillbuni Жыл бұрын
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@Chris_Cross
@Chris_Cross Жыл бұрын
That Asian guy is boss. Meanwhile that "incel advocate" was just destroying any progress. And then the third guy just got no time given to him.
@Max4Z
@Max4Z Ай бұрын
The third guy was actually doing really well, he was prob the smartest in the e whole discussion
@jacobstevens7046
@jacobstevens7046 Жыл бұрын
I feel like what makes a good man is just what makes anyone a good person. What makes a good woman is also what makes a good person.
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
So you don't think a good man might have different characteristics from a good women? Like you can't think of any ways we might behave differently or have different expectations based on gender? My cousin once stepped into a fight and saved a guy that was being attacked with a hammer. I don't mean to offend anyone but if he had been a women, he wouldn't have been physically capable of doing that. Unless a women is armed, she would probably be of more help getting help. Knowing that the police were called might chase away the attacker before anyone dies. Why is everyone trying to abolish gender? with both have a way to contribute and we shouldn't expect that contribution to always look the same.
@loresdallagamer
@loresdallagamer 6 ай бұрын
Maybe its just that many of the good attributes are being labelled as specific for either males of females. That said, there still are good gestures and practices that are most seen in one or the other, like emotional strenght and problem solving for men and insight and detailed empathy for woman
@l0pez721
@l0pez721 Жыл бұрын
A year ago I made a speech in my class why feminism should no longer stick around. I vividly remember a few of the girls in my class giving me the death stare 💀
@codtrl08
@codtrl08 Жыл бұрын
What a brave soul you are
@MKG_
@MKG_ Жыл бұрын
​@@Iamachad-qf6qjwhy would he want to date a bunch of b**** that want men to actually die or think they are a superior type of human
@Iamachad-qf6qj
@Iamachad-qf6qj Жыл бұрын
Why did you deliberately destroy your chances of getting vajayjay?
@l0pez721
@l0pez721 Жыл бұрын
@@Iamachad-qf6qj Because there’s more to life than just vajayjay
@shakybarbarian8460
@shakybarbarian8460 Жыл бұрын
​@@l0pez721I applaud you soldier! Stay strong!
@Beanie1879
@Beanie1879 Жыл бұрын
Vulnerability is different from crying. Sure, crying is vulnerability, but communication is also vulnerability. Trust is vulnerability. Honesty is vulnerability.
@CaptainFracture
@CaptainFracture Жыл бұрын
This. The whole “crying” nothing is a buzzword that people throw out when self expression for men is the core. It’s about not judging us for the bare minimum
@ma_de_sa5848
@ma_de_sa5848 Жыл бұрын
I hate how "vulnerable" has basically replaced other words like opening up or crying. When I see women say they want a vulnerable man, it creeps me out because by definition, vulnerable is not something you should desire in anyone or want then to feel around you. These women need to earn mens trust if they want men to be comfortable opening up or expressing certain emotions. Because as it is, a lot of men do feel vulnerable because they will be judged and mocked for expressing these things because society isn't doing anything to facilitate it. If anything the opposite is happening, I've seen enough t shirts and mugs with slogans like "male tears" and a smug women in frame with it to know women have very little empathy for mens issues. Vulnerable is a feeling/state, it's not an action so I don't know why it keep being talked about as such.
@haworthlowell805
@haworthlowell805 Жыл бұрын
​@@ma_de_sa5848I find it interesting that the same women that want a man to be emotional are the same ones making fun of men who are.
@Ironica82
@Ironica82 Жыл бұрын
I like to define vulnerability as giving someone the means to destroy you and trusting that they won't.
@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь
@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь Жыл бұрын
Men's vulnerability = women's power. It's kinda ok for creatures to strive for power, just don't give in those sweet speeches about good intentions. I have no clue why women cannot respect men's desire to stay safe, and just believe in him and support. Just be aware and comfort him from time to time, why it must be a therapy session?
@Michael-gd8op
@Michael-gd8op Жыл бұрын
Derrick is a good representation of why boys and families need strong and confident male role models in their lives.
@opinanlosjovenesrd3477
@opinanlosjovenesrd3477 Жыл бұрын
True
@midnight7877
@midnight7877 Жыл бұрын
Derrick was the one in this video that pissed many ppl (including me) off in the video……..
@derick6267
@derick6267 Жыл бұрын
👁👄👁Thank god my name is slightly different
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
Cut the bullshit, holding wo-MEN accountable is more important than posturing & swagger
@midnight7877
@midnight7877 Жыл бұрын
@josephesposito3499 if your going against derrick then I agree....but the other two men were great
@tomdenne863
@tomdenne863 Жыл бұрын
I am so dumbfounded by this girl trauma dumping, then saying shes all about giving put empathy but she wants it back, then questioning the guy "do you feel empathy for me" over and over after being completely oblivious to any problem a man could possibly have
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
Empathy is just projection after all. It's not possible to actually feel what someone else does so we put ourselves in their situation and ask how we would feel, which is better described as projection. This trauma dump shows what it is she is projecting when she tries to imagine what a man feels. That's the issue with empathy, it stops working as when you get an emotional stake of your own in the topic. Compassion keeps working because it is a conscious choice not based on feeling. I would have told that girl, I have no empathy for you, because I have never had that experience. But I have compassion for you, and can tell you if I was there he wouldn't have gotten away with treating you like that. And then they would probably call me toxicly masculine.
@oblepihovoe
@oblepihovoe Жыл бұрын
hi brett! russian girl speaking 🙏🏼 i’m watching your videos on a daily basis, because i’m very into western pop culture and was confused. i was and am in love with feminism but then i realised the idea right now is very triggering and wrongly used. we are very conservative here and grow up with the understanding how important family is. most of the men still pays for the dates, bring flowers and are taught to give every single penny to their loved ones. honestly, i have never felt abused as a woman. because the idea of abuse is wrongly put in one gender!!! like, there are so many horrible people and it doesn’t accrue to people, that no race or gender actually depends on that behaviour. i have so many privileges that i’m grateful for, from the ability to choose my lifestyle, career and etc. the things that are going on Tiktok really surprise me everyday. if people could just chill for a while, and start working on themselves without trying to accuse every single men in their problems, we would have such an open-minded, friendly society. don’t forget ladies that today nothing is stopping you to achieve any goals🤍 be a cosmonaut or a stay-in mom, just try not to abuse everyone around you for thinking “wrong”, which today means having different opinion.
@Софија-крафт
@Софија-крафт Жыл бұрын
Russian men are also drunkards and super abusive Just like German men, yeah Russian society is not traditional it is filled with sorrow and depression i dont know why you're lying like this
@lordofthunder4065
@lordofthunder4065 10 ай бұрын
Very well said!
@DaRThVadAr314
@DaRThVadAr314 Ай бұрын
This should have more likes
@datsko6339
@datsko6339 Жыл бұрын
If Jubilee wants to make a particular side on a viewpoint look bad (usually always the more conservative opinion), they bring in people like Derrick or other looney bin types. They try to seem like a nonbiased media company because they don't actually speak themselves, but they still control things based on who they choose to bring in for these episodes.
@idorus
@idorus Жыл бұрын
there are plenty of dudes who agree with Derrick though.
@datsko6339
@datsko6339 Жыл бұрын
@@idorus a VERY tiny minority of men think like Derrick and jubilee knew that. Derrick is an incel. He said it himself
@lizzyseashore4431
@lizzyseashore4431 Жыл бұрын
good point! Although I wonder if another reason that jubilee didn't have any good traditionally masculine men in that interview was because they were too smart to be there 😅
@TrowaBarton1455
@TrowaBarton1455 Жыл бұрын
Very much so. Though I think it's more on the liberal side versus conservative side. Jubilee easily orchestrates how they show their biases and views via cuts. They will typically show the clips/uncut portions of a person's opinion of the side they wish to push or what they believe and not show as much of those they disagree with. Take this video for (granted, this is a reaction of the video, so I'm sure Brett cut the video as well), they showed the incel Derrick guy a lot and how he bumbled a lot and less from the other two, etc.
@dandanhoughton
@dandanhoughton Жыл бұрын
Men's rights are human rights!!
@sharkwarrioryt
@sharkwarrioryt Жыл бұрын
Not anymore
@liamhalla6803
@liamhalla6803 Жыл бұрын
Yup
@liamhalla6803
@liamhalla6803 Жыл бұрын
@CamronLummus-mx6zj deada**
@sharkwarrioryt
@sharkwarrioryt Жыл бұрын
@CamronLummus-mx6zj you forgot being robbed when it comes to divorce
@andilemvalelwa7229
@andilemvalelwa7229 Жыл бұрын
And we should have a right to abort without consent of a birther / bonus hole owner
@timothyspory6475
@timothyspory6475 Жыл бұрын
Why do people look at abusive men and say that kind of man represents masculinity? I don’t get why masculinity has to mean aggression.
@creaturetransylvania8943
@creaturetransylvania8943 Жыл бұрын
Aggression is fine,just needs to be put towards the correct things.
@jonnjones8263
@jonnjones8263 Жыл бұрын
Aggression is a male tool. It depends on how you use it. Thats what determines your masculinity.
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro Жыл бұрын
People used to (and often still) do that with femininity, specifically with being emotional. Women are more emotional than men, which isn’t a bad thing. It can be a bad thing if a woman lets her emotions run her life and supersede her reasoning. For whatever reason, it’s seems impossible for either men or women to understand that the differences that are innate to our sexes do not make one or the other lesser. It’s almost as if we complement each other!
@BloodAngel_San
@BloodAngel_San Жыл бұрын
no one actully does that, Weak men has no self control and beat women. In this modern society, It is adviced women during midllife crisis to have a break from marriage so they can have sex with other men to find their faminity back
@FullCircleTravis
@FullCircleTravis Жыл бұрын
It's like guns. Perception of guns can be weapons or tools. We have bigger guns, and they have no way to disarm us.
@brtt150
@brtt150 Жыл бұрын
He wasn't comparing women and children directly. He was giving an example of how society treats groups differently even if they're equal. For example, women tend to receive less harsh punishments for the same crimes that a man commits. Does that mean they're not legally equal? No. They're still being held accountable by the law. But they're receiving different treatment. Children legally have the same basic rights as well but surely you can see they're treated differently based on social conventions?
@andrewyoung749
@andrewyoung749 Жыл бұрын
children are children there is no reason at all why a fully grown woman with full mental faculties and the right to vote or run a business etc etc should not be held as accountable for her action. the only reason they arent is to reinforce actual gender privilege and make it clear to men that they are the worthless ones who will get no respite. twisted stuff..
@supernicktendo64
@supernicktendo64 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for noticing this very distinct point that seems entirely lost when the video is viewed. It's an instant snap judgement on hearing trigger words that made him lose all credibility which was, honestly, pretty unfair. He was shut down so hard that he then wasn't allowed to form a complete opinion because he became "the enemy" instantly. I do think he was presenting an idea from an easily misconstrued way by the words he selected and the order of the things he was saying. That can be very difficult on the spot when put in an unfamiliar place and discussing topics that are very heavily viewed. It also is something I hope he is able to learn with maturity as time passes. Just, again, whether he had a good point or not, thank you for listening to what he was saying before making judgements.
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
@@supernicktendo64 Exactly, he stepped on a verbal landmine and never recovered. "equal" is a messy word we all have to pretend to believe in when speaking even though I don't think anyone actually wants the implications of it if we take the time to unpack the meaning rather then just using it as a slogan. We all need to remember that women were equal in the Soviet Union, I think we can do better then that in how we treat women.
@lujlp
@lujlp Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but that one guy comparing women to children was right Case in point, the reasonable guy asked about systemic discrimination against fathers in divorce court What was the response justifying such discrimination, the overly emotional woman had been illegally assaulted by civilian men on the street who were not part of said divorce courts So because "Man A" committed an illegal act against her she is perfectly fine with thousands of men being discriminated against because of her need for personal revenge against men who did nothing to her That is the reasoning of a child
@thing1thing2themediamaniac43
@thing1thing2themediamaniac43 Жыл бұрын
I AGREE COMPLETELY 💯%
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
I think the issue was that the guy who said it was also acting like a child. And he let a bunch of extra implications in by wording it so poorly. Like using the word equal before saying it... I have noticed that women prefer when I tone done the aggression of how I talk. Meanwhile men get insulted as they start to feel like I am treating them like children. It's a crude way of saying it, but women do want to be treated like children in temperament. And there is nothing wrong with that, it's just a preference as they are more adverse to conflicts then men. This is just a comparison of manners, and women's preference actually makes men more civilized and suitable for interaction with children. Safe spaces are different though and I think more in line with what your saying, they are for actually children. Anyone who admits they are a child can have a safe space. Anyone who can function without them gets respect regardless of which gender.
@shanenolan5625
@shanenolan5625 Жыл бұрын
In criminal law men and women are treated differently. Sentences. Men serve 3 times as much for the same crime
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
Brett is oblivious to MEN'S lack of rights, because she is a closet case lesbian, a trad con, and an entilted little witch
@blackmarala
@blackmarala Жыл бұрын
Yeah and men are now entering female jail.
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
@@blackmarala KARMA! I support trans genders is wo-MEN'S sports. fe-MALE athletes are #DIE *KKS anyway
@gabeo9474
@gabeo9474 Жыл бұрын
_"Men live shorter lives because of...the patriarchy"_ _"It has been shown that a person's lifespan is shortened when they are not able to express their emotions, when they don't have physical touch, or when they don't have a partner to keep them company."_ The audacity it takes to make these two statements while a large segment of the male population is openly ridiculed, condemned to isolation, and labeled as "creepy" simply because they didn't win the genetic lottery.
@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь
@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь Жыл бұрын
Don't see lines of women waiting to prolong life of another pathetic loser that being ridiculed by accepting him and having his babies "you don't need to prove anything for damn patriarchy!"... What's the point to live longer without a family?
@idekwhy
@idekwhy Жыл бұрын
Men shouldn't be considered creepy by default unless they act creepy and same goes for women
@teehee440
@teehee440 Жыл бұрын
To be fair women face the same thing they’re just called ugly and condemned for that. Men actually have in easier time finding a partner despite whatever they look like because women don’t care about it as women typically.
@gabeo9474
@gabeo9474 Жыл бұрын
@@teehee440 What makes you think that men have an easier time finding a partner?
@SirDankington
@SirDankington Жыл бұрын
@@teehee440 "Men actually have in easier time finding a partner despite whatever they look like because women don’t care about it as women typically." Nice to see we've finally achieved interdimensional travel, because you sure as hell don't live in the same reality as the rest of us.
@kaydraws1082
@kaydraws1082 Жыл бұрын
You know it's gonna be an episode when it involves feminists 💀
@Vex-2114
@Vex-2114 Жыл бұрын
Fr
@tbp_Nxon3727
@tbp_Nxon3727 Жыл бұрын
Fr
@thesobber
@thesobber Жыл бұрын
Fr
@Iamachad-qf6qj
@Iamachad-qf6qj Жыл бұрын
Femin1sts dont live in reality. They think men are equal to wemen. Wemen are a few tiers below us
@Kayleetomioka
@Kayleetomioka Жыл бұрын
Fr
@kitkakitteh
@kitkakitteh Жыл бұрын
I was First Wave feminist: freedom to work, freedom to own property, freedom to open a bank account, freedom to choose your medical treatment. The new “equity” shit is wack. And, I don’t like that freedom to get a job became “you must now leave motherhood to support your household.” That’s corporate, and governmental. Maybe cultural too. With marriage so iffy, child support so iffy- you probably SHOULD be able to solo support any offspring you create. That’s where we start remodeling social structures, and where it all failed us.
@JasmineVanessa3
@JasmineVanessa3 Жыл бұрын
Brett YOU need to get in on one of these conversations! You would kill it!!
@inanis6707
@inanis6707 Жыл бұрын
I would like to add that men as well as women should be more emotionally mature. I really hate the fact that women just are allowed to be very immature with their emotions and ppl let it slide like "typical woman".
@beans4853
@beans4853 Жыл бұрын
You're 100% correct. Women are allowed to be irrational and childish, but men are allowed to be vicious and clueless for the same reason (typical men)
@asunahusama
@asunahusama Жыл бұрын
I agree
@anthonyschutz7201
@anthonyschutz7201 Жыл бұрын
Not just that, but that people say men should be more emotionally immature with their emotions like women. Everyone should learn the balance between saying nothing and telling everyone everything and being a "victim"
@7shinta7
@7shinta7 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! And it's harmful to the women as well, because in the long run it won't do them any good. As an adult human, who has to function within a family or a structure you have to keep your emotions at bay - and I don't give a crap about hormones and stuff. Of course you eventually have to work through your emotions, but there's a place and time. Just like Brett said, it's about self-control. That's what differentiates adults from children.
@fieryblaze75
@fieryblaze75 Жыл бұрын
Completely agree.
@hud5692
@hud5692 Жыл бұрын
Men and women both have different pros and cons and it’s important to see that both men and women are acknowledged for what strengths god gave them
@run2cat4run
@run2cat4run Жыл бұрын
While many think women shouldn’t be equal
@Iamachad-qf6qj
@Iamachad-qf6qj Жыл бұрын
​@@run2cat4run Yes thats me. What do wemen bring besides baby making?
@hud5692
@hud5692 Жыл бұрын
God created both women and men for a reason. Women bring reproduction and then there is some girls like Brett cooper who bring amazing entertainment
@belivuk2526
@belivuk2526 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Men and women are not created equal and they are not equal in the eyes of the law. The law always favours a woman when a man and woman are involved and it's always more lenient on women who do wrong. Men are assumed guilty until proven innocent if a woman is involved instead of innocent until proven guilty as it should be. Men are forced into drafts in many countries while women are not. If a woman does something sexual to a man against his will, no one bats an eye. If a woman abuses a man in any way, no one bats an eye. Etc. We are not equal, but it's not men who have more rights
@TheGumbyGuy
@TheGumbyGuy Жыл бұрын
@Iamachad-qf6qj certain jobs are much more often done by females and others are much more often done by men remove either men or women from the equation and aside from the obvious population issue certain jobs just wouldn't get done. Men and women have different desires and we balance each other out.
@jamesredline1352
@jamesredline1352 Жыл бұрын
We have the same rights. But women have WAY more privileges. Goodness. How is this still not understood.
@kumeoii
@kumeoii Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! Women get all of these privileges that men don’t and they expect men to just go along with it like it isn’t sexist to men.
@Iamachad-qf6qj
@Iamachad-qf6qj Жыл бұрын
This may not seem like a big deal but in so many parties wemen can enter for free. Wemen privilege
@kumeoii
@kumeoii Жыл бұрын
@@Iamachad-qf6qj Exactly!
@Iamachad-qf6qj
@Iamachad-qf6qj Жыл бұрын
​​@@kumeoiiI could have sworn you said you were under 18 in another vid. How do you know so much about greek life? Thinking of joining one? If you're a man join it, if you're a woman dont, youll be converted to a 304
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro Жыл бұрын
@@lsn0851specifically, women are benefitted more than men in places like family court, insurance benefits, and crisis situations. Some of these make sense, like in the latter, a woman may not have the strength to save herself in a dire situation whereas a man could, so the woman should be aided before the man. Another similar situation is with military drafts, which women aren’t subjected to despite being allowed to join the military of our own volition. Men are subject to the draft, even if they don’t want to be in the military. Those cases have to do with the biological disparity between men and women for the most part, thus they make sense; however, family and divorce courts especially are not this way. They give unfair advantages to women based on laws and practices that were implemented over half a century ago, when women were less likely to be financially independent. Hope this answers your question!
@SlabbyPatty
@SlabbyPatty Жыл бұрын
I’ve always been told “toxic masculinity” is revolved around men teaching other men to hide emotions, etc. like how our society evolved to think men are “weak” if they cry. That was a toxic masculine trait that was normalized, think guys are weak because of feelings. That kind of stuff.
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
You are correct that is the definition and what many people mean. But it's not correct to say it was normalized, men inherently are this way and it's not toxic at all. Men and women process stress differently, and they develop different disorders from failing to manage stress (internalizing vs externalizing disorders). Toxic masculinity is literally women seeing that men function differently and assuming their is something wrong with them. It comes from denying biological difference between men and women.
@willythemailboy2
@willythemailboy2 10 ай бұрын
@@viperstriker4728 The best counter to any "toxic masculinity" argument is the Darwinian one. If acting like feminists want men to act was a successful mating strategy, we'd already be doing it because those that did would have outbred the ones that didn't generations ago.
@richardgray2706
@richardgray2706 5 ай бұрын
It is usually the mother that first teaches boys to suck it in and don't fuss. It is usually a father, or other male person that explains to him why and when it is important to do so. It is an important skill for everyone, male and female, but it is more likely to come up in dangerous situations and jobs that are usually done by men. Example: Not freaking out and losing control while operating a car or heavy equipment when a wasp stings you...
@livlaine
@livlaine Жыл бұрын
Educator POV: This Jubilee episode had so much potential, unfortunately it fell short due to formless opinions/arguments. I feel bad for Derek, he should have more of these conversations to practice articulating where he stands and why. Maybe he should practice writing so his opinion/arguments are sussinct and stay the course.
@kokuutou92
@kokuutou92 8 ай бұрын
Hey Ms. Educator...it's succint. But good point.
@AdamPruett
@AdamPruett Жыл бұрын
Always a good day when there's a 25 minute Brett Cooper video to watch.
@kumeoii
@kumeoii Жыл бұрын
Yep
@tbp_Nxon3727
@tbp_Nxon3727 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@dillpickle7611
@dillpickle7611 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@thesobber
@thesobber Жыл бұрын
Yep
@flowersent9614
@flowersent9614 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@gemini_1085
@gemini_1085 Жыл бұрын
Don’t sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it. I would love to hear Brett’s take on the paternity court system, child support and divorce laws. The VAST majority of men are invisible to the VAST majority of women.
@BB-ed4om
@BB-ed4om Жыл бұрын
That’s not true. Most men I know are regular guys who married regular women. Where is this invisible vast majority?
@jonathandevereaux298
@jonathandevereaux298 Жыл бұрын
​@@BB-ed4om"That's not true because anecdotal evidence"..... name a women's group fighting for equal rights for men (choice in protecting their unborn child, women entering the draft, unbiased courts in all manner of rulings). But you can't so just say something stupid about you knowing six people.
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
Brett is a closet case/ have you noticed? She's also a trad con/ spoiled little broad
@danhaycraft9321
@danhaycraft9321 Жыл бұрын
@@jonathandevereaux298 Honey Badgers
@gemini_1085
@gemini_1085 Жыл бұрын
@@BB-ed4om there are several dating app studies that have been a good source of explaining it, but it’s not just dating apps. The determination has thus far been that 70-80% of women find 10-15% of men “attractive”. Personally, my experience has always been that in person is better for everyone but that’s still a pretty awful statistic. And we wonder why young men are quitting the dating scene.
@SirKnight1096
@SirKnight1096 Жыл бұрын
She screwed it up. "I don't need you to protect me. I need you not to harm me. I can protect myself." Sounds like she cannot protect herself. Very clear.
@BloodAngel_San
@BloodAngel_San Жыл бұрын
if she can protect herself then why tell other not to harm her? isnt protecting supposed to mean facing harms bravely?
@TheXXIIIrdVet
@TheXXIIIrdVet Жыл бұрын
That entire exchange made me shake my head. Both sides either didn't articulate themselves effectively, or haven't thought out their positions very well.
@remyllebeau77
@remyllebeau77 Жыл бұрын
She'll change her tune real quick the bumps in the night happen or if her house got burgled.
@Czaint
@Czaint Жыл бұрын
@@BloodAngel_San​​⁠That’s not what protecting means. Protecting means keep safe from harm or injury it could be done bravely but that’s not necessarily always the case. She’s basically saying that if their wasn’t any men she wouldn’t need to be protected by a man because it’s common for men to be violent as they make up about 80% or more of all crime.
@notahuman4902
@notahuman4902 Жыл бұрын
it was a very knee-jerk reaction on her part.
@TomCat777
@TomCat777 Жыл бұрын
Why is it that most women think that they should not be eligible for the military draft but they want equality?
@msnewsenior
@msnewsenior 3 ай бұрын
Because the draft is not a part of the constitution
@book-addicted
@book-addicted Жыл бұрын
So many people are so focused on equality but they totally ignore EQUITY
@KravenMoorehead674
@KravenMoorehead674 Жыл бұрын
As they should. Equity means equality of outcomes, which requires giving more opportunities to any person or “class” they’ve identified as oppressed, at the expense of people or “class” they’ve identified as to oppressors. Examples would be things like affirmative action, which used skin color as part of the decision to hire someone or accept them into a university, or offering scholarships to students of a particular race or gender and excluding anyone else. This is done under the assumption that it would make the outcomes of everyone the same or equal. But it’s just discrimination under a different title. It also teaches the class that received the extra opportunities to not take responsibility for themselves. “ oh you are 35 years old and haven’t done anything to improve yourself? It’s not your fault, whity’s ancestors enslaved Africans who may or may not be your ancestors hundreds of years ago, so it their fault you have no desire to get higher education or get a job other then selling drugs or joining a gang. You’re a victim of white supremacy. Equality of opportunity, however, gives everyone the same opportunities and teaches them the skills necessary to succeed. But it’s up to each individual to use those opportunities and skills to succeed. Equality doesn’t take away resources from one group and give it to a different group.
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
But that is the trick, they have always been the same thing.... The Soviet union had gender equality.... I think we can treat women better then that.
@blip-2024
@blip-2024 Жыл бұрын
My husband gets paid almost double per hour than I do and you know what...he deserves it! I physically can't do his job. He works his butt off doing concrete. He works outside all year, freezing cold, pouring rain, blistering heat. I can't push a wheel barrow full of concrete uphill in mud, he can...we are PHYSICALLY and EMOTIONALLY DIFFERENT! We celebrate those differences in an equal partnership.
@beans4853
@beans4853 Жыл бұрын
Great outlook! I make way more than my husband per hour, however I make a quarter the amount he does per month. I'm home with the kids, running the house and throw in a bit of work. He's working all day, keeping us financially secure and throws in a couple chores when he's home
@bolivia.j
@bolivia.j Жыл бұрын
My husbands a plumber. Love blue collar men 🥰
@Idkanymore567
@Idkanymore567 Жыл бұрын
Im glad you feel that way.
@OfficialTaylormade1
@OfficialTaylormade1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for pointing out the fact that some women lie.. I’ve seen innocent men go to jail because some bitter ex called the cops and lied SMH
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
Some? 98% of rape claims are LIES.
@kailarutherford8309
@kailarutherford8309 10 ай бұрын
As a woman, yes. Women lie and I deal with my husband’s ex constantly lying with every breath she takes.
@suzannahmeir7741
@suzannahmeir7741 Жыл бұрын
Great episode! Don't let the sound of freedom controversy slip under your radar I'd love to see a segment on that.
@silver9wolf6
@silver9wolf6 Жыл бұрын
Yes please!
@The.Dark.Dominion.
@The.Dark.Dominion. Жыл бұрын
The guy in yellow is misunderstood . He meant to say : ONLY CHILDREN are treated differently by the law, MAN and WOMEN should be treated THE SAME. Children can not vote, buy a house, drive a car ....
@mr.e1026
@mr.e1026 Жыл бұрын
I know Ben Shapiro has gone into detail about this, but, I challenge any feminist to give us one legal right a man has that a woman doesn't, because I can list a number of them that women have that men do not. In his exchanges, he was asking for legal and definitive rights, not speculative privileges. For example: 1. Women have the birth right to genital integrity. Any circumcised male had that right refused at birth. 2. Women have the birth right to vote without agreeing to die or be conscripted into war. Selective service is required for men to vote, as well as many other things like going to college, federal assistance for anything. That all by itself is a HUGE list. 3. Women have the right to choose parenthood. A man has no such rights. She wants to kill her unborn baby, the father cannot do anything about that. She wants to keep the baby and he doesn't, he cannot be absolved of his responsibilities. They will be enforced at the point of a gun. 4. Women have the right to be assumed (competent) caregivers for children. Any man who has ever faced down family court knows this to be 100% true. Men like me who managed to get custody of their children from their mothers did so against all odds and probabilities. 5. Women have the right to call unwanted, coerced sex rape. This includes when female teachers rape their students and end up pregnant from it, only to file a support order on the underage father....AND FUCKING GET IT!! >:( 6. Women have the right to lower jail sentences for the same crime. No matter the age, women never serve the same amount of time a man does for equal crimes. Some can even get away with them wholesale. 7. Women have the right to not be assumed sexual predators. This is court positioning, which has spilled over into societal expectations, not the other way around. 8. Women have the right to government departments that solely serve their interests. Even the Veterans Affairs offices treat their female clients differently than the male ones. 9. Women have the right to government-enforced gender quotas. Someone please contest this one. 10. Women have the right to exclusive tax benefits for being a business owner. Check out tax laws on that. 11. Women have the right to domestic violence shelters. Rest in Peace, Earl Silverman. It's a shame your death has been ignored by so many for so long for daring to do the unthinkable. 12. Women have the right to not be assumed the primary aggressor in a domestic dispute. Fuck the Duluth model!! >:( And that whole "wage gap" thing... I'd like to see how this supposed "wage gap" would look when we factor child support and alimony into the mix, because I'm not incredulous enough to believe child support is anything more than alimony for unmarried mothers, and more often than not, it doesn't go to the children for their upkeep. And by "factor in", I mean 'subtracted from the Obligor and added to the Obligee'. Once we start seeing those numbers, men everywhere will know just how savagely this country hates them. When I was young, I only had my mom. No dad. But she told me, and taught me in a very harsh manner to only cry when I was REALLY hurt. I was going to be expected as a man to hold things together when everything around me was falling apart. I am about 50, and I live in constant pain. I'm in enough pain that autonomically, I have tears forming in my eyes during the worst of it, but the act of crying doesn't actually happen. When you experience this degree of pain constantly, the threshold goes beyond the point where you cry over pain. But to experience the sort of pain that would cause me to cry... that requires someone dying. That requires a pet dying. That requires something to cause such an unfathomable sense of loss and grief, that the stoicism fades away. Someone explain to me what good anyone gets out of me breaking down, other than the satisfaction that I am seriously hurt. I NEVER espouse vulnerability as a virtue. The only reason a man would do this is to give others ammunition to use against them later. Bullshit on that.
@peterpwn255
@peterpwn255 Жыл бұрын
That makes absolutely no sense : "I don't need you to protect me, i just need you not to harm me. I can protect myself, im very capable..." She can protect herself, but not from a man, but she also doesnt need and want to be protected by men from men!?
@rioku2083
@rioku2083 Жыл бұрын
Weird comment but I think the idea is that men should learn how to control their emotions. I think it’s more of the emotional toll it takes more than physical.
@peterpwn255
@peterpwn255 Жыл бұрын
Men can control their emotions, but stupid men just won't give a damn about their actions. The problem is, most woman are attracted to stupid "manly" men, even if some aren't aware of it. They chose the bad guys over the good guys, ending up in an abusive relationship, saying "men are bad". All women have some guyfriends that they know is into them and would treat them good, but still they chose the next pumped up monkey with an IQ of 80 for a relationship
@theworstcatholic7247
@theworstcatholic7247 Жыл бұрын
@@rioku2083 The thing is, men do. Otherwise the majority of men would commit those acts instead of the minority. And that extreme minority doesn't give a crap about others opinions on it because they are screwed or evil. It's literally just the naive take of "Well bad people should stop being bad!" instead of actually having an argument. Sure they should. Will they? No. So what are you going to do about it.
@brittanyc7358
@brittanyc7358 Жыл бұрын
"I don't need you to protect me, I need you not to harm me, I can protect myself" .........sooo she can protect herself only when nobody is trying to hurt her? Alrighty then
@watevatube
@watevatube Жыл бұрын
She sounds like the type of person to say that we should teach men not to rape and telling women not to walk down a dark alley is sexist. As if violent criminals can be logically reasonable and convinced not to attack women......
@bowlinbob6
@bowlinbob6 Жыл бұрын
To the woman saying she doesn't need protection and she's capable of defending herself. Sorry, no. An average 17 year old boy, untrained, will mess you up without much effort.
@himarei
@himarei Жыл бұрын
She could carry a weapon.
@meriambenouis5318
@meriambenouis5318 Жыл бұрын
​@@himarei one on one, no weapons...the 17 year old will win. There is no problem in admitting that most women are not as physically strong than the average man. I'm a woman and I know this and accept it. Would I train myself in self defence? Absolutely! Do I try to keep myself safe by being wary of when I go out and where? Yes, this is self preservation. If you don't believe in it, then might as well invite crime over
@goldfox177
@goldfox177 Жыл бұрын
She would have one big weapon to use a kick to the balls that’s the only way she would be able to defend herself all the man needs is a cup and she is screwed unless she has a gun of course
@Spartan_014
@Spartan_014 Жыл бұрын
@@himarei A firearm would be one of the few effective options in that realm.
@TheCharleseye
@TheCharleseye Жыл бұрын
Okay but that's exactly why people stand against the rampant gun control. Everyone has the right to defend themselves. That right is meaningless without the ability to do so. I'm a grown man and I would shoot someone to defend myself. Why would I expect less of someone significantly smaller and weaker than I am? Sure a 17-year-old boy could probably kick her ass. So, why would she give him the benefit of the doubt, and walk around unarmed? Point being, there is no such thing as a fair fight on the street. Train, carry, and defend yourself to the best of your abilities, no matter who you are. Don't assume anyone who wants to hurt you is going to stop before you're dead.
@adym15
@adym15 Жыл бұрын
The paragon of masculinity is Aragorn from the LOTR books and films. There are videos on this subject that are really good to watch.
@Espeo
@Espeo Жыл бұрын
I like how the woman was like "men and women are created differently" and that was fine, then as soon as the man said it, the woman was like "are you saying men are superior to women" like no? you literally just admitted they were different too
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
It's because the man use the word "equal" when he said it. Our culture is obsessed with "equal" when I think no one actually wanted to be treated "equally". It's such a low standard really. We treat others how we WANT to be treated, we don't treat them the way we ARE treated. Best to explain the concept, get them to agree, then say the word. If they disagree, ask them what the word means. And by they, I don't mean women. I mean feminists, as no matter the gender feminists use the wrong definition for many words. The left in general redefines words like this to make the conversation a minefield. If you hit a mine, they tune out and stop listening. Most socialists will agree with capitalism if you describe it from the bottom without ever using the word capitalism. But if you dare use the word, they will disagress with everything you say.
@Norbiej
@Norbiej Жыл бұрын
"Men should" is the moment i stop listening to anybody honestly. Having strong morals is great, but always stay who you are and don't live up to expectations of others.
@polrusstomakriss9001
@polrusstomakriss9001 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, it's definitely a problematic if someone is demanding you when you shouldn't be demanded by it
@fox1actual
@fox1actual Жыл бұрын
That’s typical of women wanting to control men.
@houseofhas9355
@houseofhas9355 Жыл бұрын
Any one who say "men" instead of the person's name should not be listened to. They are cowards who are afraid to call out someone, so they stick with the safe sexist monker of "MEN" ( millions of men) 😂😂
@ydid687
@ydid687 Жыл бұрын
yeah why be a better version of yourselves and determination/discipline is totally an innate thing that germs without external stimuli look at those monks in secluded monasteries, their skills and competency totally match that of a brain surgeon or a JPL specialist no, men (my brethren) definitely should
@theworstcatholic7247
@theworstcatholic7247 Жыл бұрын
What if who you are is a liar? What if who you are is weak? What if who you are is aimless? What if who you are is depressed? What if you who are is anxious? Humans are not perfect, and often outside opinions is the only way to get the perspective to change. Men absolutely should be honest, they should be strong, they should have purpose, they should be happy, they should be confident. Why? Because they are all positive traits that will make their life better regardless. The only people who think they don't need to change are people who have no will to better themselves, or narcs who think they are perfect. Don't be like that as a person in general and absolutely never believe you are the person with all the answers.
@lylea9352
@lylea9352 Жыл бұрын
If toxic masculinity exists, then toxic femininity exist, But I think toxic people exist not a whole genders.
@dancostello4872
@dancostello4872 Жыл бұрын
Men's rights? Most people exclusively talk about men's wrongs! 🙈
@seb3661
@seb3661 Жыл бұрын
bc men do a lot of fucked up shit don t we?
@freedommobile-zh7oy
@freedommobile-zh7oy Жыл бұрын
So true
@SirBrass
@SirBrass Жыл бұрын
Not a single one of those women have a shred of empathy for the other side. Not one.
@dinahsaur7999
@dinahsaur7999 3 ай бұрын
They need to get rid of their hatred for men first to really hear the other side.
@DavidECoy
@DavidECoy 27 күн бұрын
That’s the other thing she’s asking if he feels empathy for her but ask her if she feels empathy for men wrongly accused of the things that happened to her and they get completely destroyed by it. Then when we find out finally it was all untrue it’s too late.
@arostilis
@arostilis Жыл бұрын
Empathy is relating to someone’s situation b/c you’ve been in the same situation; sympathy means you can care about someone’s problems without experiencing it.
@Chris_Cross
@Chris_Cross Жыл бұрын
I always think of it as Empathy is sympathy with Experience.
@Iliadic
@Iliadic Жыл бұрын
I always had it the opposite way around. Sympathy = Sym = Same. Like Similar, or Symbiotic. Both parties have a foot in this thing. Empathy on the other hand I always saw as sitting on the sidelines being like "I'm rooting for you"
@lordofthunder4065
@lordofthunder4065 10 ай бұрын
It's the other way around
@oldtimegamer2.098
@oldtimegamer2.098 Жыл бұрын
Derek seems like he is that kind of guy who spends way to much time on the internet trolling around
@Triaxx2
@Triaxx2 Жыл бұрын
Derek's the kind of person they point too to show all the bad points and explain why you should hate anyone like him.
@neobahumut707
@neobahumut707 Жыл бұрын
@@Triaxx2 He's the kind of guy they make movies like "50 year old virgin" about.
@rockishigh
@rockishigh 8 ай бұрын
he honestly seems a little neurodivergent so is probably mislead by others in his friend group or life without entirely realizing it
@Sandi.Beyette
@Sandi.Beyette Жыл бұрын
An episode on how transmen don't want to go into the men's bathroom. But it's such an issue for transwomen would be AWESOME!
@MACHOFREAKMACHOFREAK
@MACHOFREAKMACHOFREAK Жыл бұрын
The best answer that I have heard to "What is masculinity" is one simple word...Stability.
@Roshan_NSG
@Roshan_NSG Жыл бұрын
Remind me again, when did he say that women are children because he specifically said "Men & Women aren't equal under the law" and "Children are not equal under the law", then saying "They are not worst overall & better overall" then Brett concludes that he says that women are worst, AGAIN Assumption are the mother of all F-ups so please stop making assumptions and putting words into others mouth, because you all sound the same if you're going to act the same way as those feminists.
@megatron3437
@megatron3437 Жыл бұрын
Women and children are a protected class...They are protected coz they're valuable. Selective hearing is what is...
@evanblankenship5887
@evanblankenship5887 Жыл бұрын
So glad I’m not being told to be a toxic man or a effeminate man but my dad being here to help me through it all.
@AdamPruett
@AdamPruett Жыл бұрын
I think what Derrick was saying wasn't coming out the way he meant it, he's a good guy, just bad with words.
@cisuminocisumino3250
@cisuminocisumino3250 Жыл бұрын
It's actually kinda funny, because I understood what he was saying, and everybody else seems to be misinterpreting what his saying.😂
@AdamPruett
@AdamPruett Жыл бұрын
@@cisuminocisumino3250 same
@maxhunt8923
@maxhunt8923 Жыл бұрын
No he just sucks. Not all of his values are bad but his beliefs on how to reach his values sucks
@batfuzz1681
@batfuzz1681 Жыл бұрын
He seemed nervous and it's a whole lot harder to get out what you want to say when you're nervous. And I think she could of tried to look at his behavior as maybe a indicator of why he wasn't wording things right instead of just being offended by what he said because I actually agree with most of what he said, he was just either nervous or didn't know how to word sentences correctly.
@davidjames2788
@davidjames2788 Жыл бұрын
Derek looks like the “on all levels except physical, I am a wolf.” guy.
@MyWorld-eb9oz
@MyWorld-eb9oz Жыл бұрын
11:22 Okay Brett. *That's what he's saying.* He literally just said men shouldn't be emotional over small things, like a cut, but it's fine to cry over more personal things. This sort of deafness is where you lost me. I definitely don't agree with all this "express your emotions" bs. I believe men should be more emotionally quiet, and only cry over very serious things like crushing stress, death, and someone they love being deeply hurt. I actually struggle to *feel* emotions anyway, and even if I want cry, I can't, even over death, and I've been to almost 10 funerals in my sixteen years of life, one of which was my sister's best friend. In fact, I didn't shed a tear throughout all of 2022. It's a hard thing to deal with, but it keeps me strong.
@ginzingtonschnizer2330
@ginzingtonschnizer2330 Жыл бұрын
I don't need you to protect me, I just need you to not harm me. I can protect myself.... insert confused pikachu face. I think she doesn't know how protection works.
@RaxeOnYT
@RaxeOnYT Жыл бұрын
Everybody says Jubillee will never run out of ideas, but I think they will never run out of bad contestants
@gabeo9474
@gabeo9474 Жыл бұрын
It's not about _expressing_ emotions; it's about having your emotions validated by someone who understands and cares. I can express my emotions in isolation all day every day, but it's not really going to do me any good.
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
But it's also about having someone who cares enough to invalidate your emotions. Just because you feel something, doesn't mean it is true or good. It may hurt but the friend I have that are willing to call me out I value the most. And discipline (mental strength) is blocking the backlash at those people who are trying to help. Because the backlash is the natural reaction when getting called out on something. But just because the brain tells us to be offended, doesn't mean we have to listen. And that is what it means for a man to suppress his emotions.
@VforVictory00
@VforVictory00 Жыл бұрын
These videos always put somebody like Derrick in a group that they don't agree with (ie. Anti-feminists, men's rights advocates, patriots) that is far to the extreme to try and boost their narrative showing that their opposition are "evil" or inherently bad. They do bring up good discussions, but more often than not, they try to paint a particular side as bad.
@melissam597
@melissam597 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately there are many Derricks around
@remyllebeau77
@remyllebeau77 Жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with Derrick, and he really wasn't extreme enough. Feminism was a lie from the start. Equality isn't possible nor should women want equality, nor do their actions show that they really want it. Their actions prove they only want "equality" when it benefits them, like putting in quotas for women as board members, not for making women work in the nasty jobs. I can give more examples if you want.
@GeorgePalmer-m8m
@GeorgePalmer-m8m 6 ай бұрын
As a 65 year old male, I have problems with women claiming too much control over public spaces. For instance, one time I was in a bookstore in a mall, and the new female manager approached me. We had what I took to be a pleasant conversation, but then she broke off and started instigating for me to leave the bookstore. I thought this was ridiculous because I had done nothing wrong. I had bought books in that bookstore, and I was likely to buy books in there again. So I waited until I was ready to leave before I left. Then, the next time, I wasn't even in the bookstore. I was looking at these kittens on display in a pet store across from the bookstore. The manager went and got two security guards and had them check out her bookstore. Nothing came of the guards being brought in because I had done absolutely nothing wrong. I have gotten in other situations like this in public spaces.
@FatalS420
@FatalS420 Жыл бұрын
You are completely misinterpreting the guy in the yellow jacket. He doesn't need to cater to others' feelings and how people interpret what he is saying. If you can't simply understand where he is coming from, that is your issue, not his.
@denisemarie4905
@denisemarie4905 Жыл бұрын
I am a female. Watching this @ 2:14 I moved my whole body and made a very obvious face.. I then looked over at Brett making the exact same face I was. 😂
@watevatube
@watevatube Жыл бұрын
True, if women were denied a right , a massive lawsuit /supreme court case would soon follow....
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
So you're BOTH lesbians?
@elizeviktoria
@elizeviktoria Жыл бұрын
"We are equal but we are not the same." If there are any Christians out there, I had an interesting discovery a few weeks ago as I was reading Genesis 1. God says in v 26 "Let US make man in OUR image, according to OUR likeness." The Father, Son and Holy Spirit are three people, yet one. They have different tasks, different functions. And for me the woman and man is the same picture of that. We have equal value, but we reflect the different attributes of God. This is so powerful🔥 Together when man and woman join together in marriage they also become one.
@liamhalla6803
@liamhalla6803 Жыл бұрын
Are you single?
@tokyogojo9431
@tokyogojo9431 Жыл бұрын
We have gotten to a point that even men need to get their rights, absolutely absurd
@TonyDowlen
@TonyDowlen 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing 😢
@PainbowSheep
@PainbowSheep Жыл бұрын
Brett showing the colors when she said "Men should be able to process emotions for the benefit of the women/family/work but not for himself.
@whatislove10
@whatislove10 Жыл бұрын
you obviously didn’t understand what she was saying cause that’s not at all what she ment 💀
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
@@whatislove10
@kennethsmith6367
@kennethsmith6367 Жыл бұрын
@@whatislove10So when she uses words they have a different meaning?
@kitsukii_9526
@kitsukii_9526 Жыл бұрын
@@kennethsmith6367she talked about the rise of mental health issues within men many times??? She may have worded it that way in that specific context, however other points she’s made proves she understands the mental health struggle men go through. Nitpicking individual statements out of context to find some way to see yourself as the victim isn’t cool. If you actually listened to many of her points within the video, such as her acknowledging that suicide rates in men are due to extensive mental health issues, shows that she understands men must learn to process emotions for their own mental well being. she was simply stating that IN ADDITION to individual benefits, proper emotional management has positive outcomes on not only the family, but everyone said man comes into contact with. Approach things with more of an open mind before you comment next time, political topics and takes are not something you can approach with such a close-minded ignorant perspective.
@kennethsmith6367
@kennethsmith6367 Жыл бұрын
@@kitsukii_9526 Men’s mental health is not as big a problem as the media would act like it is. Our numbers are getting better, not worse. The gender with the obviously growing mental health care problem is women. The self deletion rates are rising. Along with the depression and delusional mental illness. Women are also becoming less healthy and the average age of death for women is going down instead of rising like men’s average age of death. Mens numbers are improving, while women’s numbers are declining. The biggest difference seems to be that larger numbers of men have recontextualized how to deal with our problems and came out better with long term results. It seems that women’s new ways of dealing with the world has not quite worked out to improve their long term results and women are complaining to men that we aren’t doing what women want to us to do to fix their problems.
@ToSense
@ToSense Жыл бұрын
Love your commentary. Men today are treated like villains. This treatment makes it somewhat difficult to date a woman, because we don’t know what to expect when we approach a girl we find attractive.
@microwave8931
@microwave8931 Жыл бұрын
On the flip side, women are afraid that they're gonna get killed if they talk to the wrong dude. Tough world out there
@andrewyoung749
@andrewyoung749 Жыл бұрын
@@microwave8931 yeah but thats a false fear caused by feminist fear mongering. in the real world a woman is a full 3 times less likely to be murdered than a man is. pretty impressive of feminists to have convinced the safest people to live in fear...
@bluecollarbuilds
@bluecollarbuilds Жыл бұрын
I can tell you what I expect as a not so good looking guy. I expect an extreme negative reaction. I don’t even look in their general direction unless I can’t avoid it. If I can’t avoid it then I keep my eyes straight ahead at all times and focus on where I’m going. Unless they talk to me first I just assume they’ll cause trouble and move on.
@tbp_Nxon3727
@tbp_Nxon3727 Жыл бұрын
I'm officially calling July mens mental health month and men's rights month
@TopG-1234
@TopG-1234 Жыл бұрын
June is men’s mental not skittle month look it up
@Iamachad-qf6qj
@Iamachad-qf6qj Жыл бұрын
The corniest thing ive ever read
@Idkanymore567
@Idkanymore567 Жыл бұрын
@@TopG-1234i just found that out yesterday and people were mad about it saying that we have to share it with pride stuff. Made me kind of mad.
@KyleT1990
@KyleT1990 Жыл бұрын
Women are so naive. When that lady said “I don’t need you to protect me”, I cringed so bad. She would be long dead if it weren’t for the strong masculine urge to protect, and she doesn’t even realize it.
@madkabal
@madkabal Жыл бұрын
I wanted to ask her if she has a gun. I know what she was going to say. 😆
@Lillireify
@Lillireify Жыл бұрын
Yeah but a lot of, or even most of male protection consists of protecting women from other males. I'd really love to live in a world where women don't have to be afraid of men hurting women physically. Mentally both sexes have a lot of place for growth.
@madkabal
@madkabal Жыл бұрын
@Lillireify then you would live in a world without men fun for 80 years then everyone dies off.
@melissam597
@melissam597 Жыл бұрын
​@@Lillireifyexactly. Women aren't much threat to each other.
@madkabal
@madkabal Жыл бұрын
@mirthzest473 so you're theory is that that would create artificial sperm and impregnate themselves? Or would they create "synths" that look exactly like humans to carry on the species? You didn't think about that one did you sparky?
@spesago2
@spesago2 7 ай бұрын
Masculinity means being strong, not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, morally BUT not using that strength for your own benefit. A real man has emotions but controlls them and processes them, they are a rock to support their family in hard times. They protect their family not only by fighting but by building a better world where their family can be safer, giving others the respect they want their loved ones to receive. The problem is not masculine men being bad, its that there are bad people, men and women. "toxic masculinity" are men that use their strengths for themselves.
@cocoapuff8302
@cocoapuff8302 4 ай бұрын
You are a blessing! I love how you have a balance with what is right. I feel like I am unlearning things I was brainwashed to believe in.
@ChickenSpeed
@ChickenSpeed Жыл бұрын
When I cry I have to be alone just how I process my emotions
@rioku2083
@rioku2083 Жыл бұрын
I relate
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
I have cried inside my head when surrounded by people, none of them saw anything but a blank face. But when alone, it comes out. It seem like men are better at this with how we internalize vs externalize. So while I usually don't care, I wonder which gender you are and if you relate to crying inside your head?
@patrickpelletier9298
@patrickpelletier9298 Жыл бұрын
Three and a half years ago I filed for modification of custody, citing the belief that my daughters weren’t living with their mother I still have yet to get a court date. Her parents, who have been taking care of the girls since before I filed, are now arguing they deserve guardianship. That’s discrimination
@teresawise7331
@teresawise7331 Жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson had one of the best quotes on this topic. I’m paraphrasing… “Men need to be capable of great harm and then have the strength to reel that in and conquer it.” To me that’s the sex appeal of men. Strong & capable of violence to protect their friends & family, but they do not revert to that unless those skills are called upon.
@silver9wolf6
@silver9wolf6 Жыл бұрын
Uh-huh, i think you're thinking of this one, "A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very, very dangerous man who has it under voluntary control."
@bradwhitt6768
@bradwhitt6768 Жыл бұрын
Just because i'm not imprisoned does not mean I can't destroy another human. Women are notoriously bad at choosing partners and have 0 clue about men.
@AmericanRanger420
@AmericanRanger420 Жыл бұрын
The yellow shirt kid is an example of ''toxic masculinity''
@nickcox1408
@nickcox1408 10 ай бұрын
He's an incel so no surprise
@TSte18
@TSte18 Жыл бұрын
17:27 i thought she was about to sing a song lmao😂
@inhale1
@inhale1 Жыл бұрын
She felt perfectly fine making assumptions about men and their situation without actually listening to their side?? Amazing... typical modern women. Edit: Then she watches a video with three of the worst reps for men's right in it.
@Idkanymore567
@Idkanymore567 Жыл бұрын
Uhhh she mostly supported the men im confused
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
Brett is no doubt a closet case lesbian, and trad con, and a spoiled entitled little broad
@josephesposito3499
@josephesposito3499 Жыл бұрын
Um, NO she did NOT support MEN, she supports MEN as servants to wo-MEN, you are a FOOL! @#
@rememberurbeautifuljustthe8449
@rememberurbeautifuljustthe8449 Жыл бұрын
19:53 exactly, don't generalise genders and their behaviours as a way to deal with the problem, focus on a specific incident or experience as a way to deal with issues.
@ianmeadows6941
@ianmeadows6941 Жыл бұрын
The discord moderator comment got me, I remember writing in a forum called controversial opinions and they banned me for playing devils advocate saying “if sex work is real work then to stop the stigma the military should get first dibs and be given an optional catalog of workers to choose from. It would boost morale get more men to enlist”.
@British_Rogue
@British_Rogue Жыл бұрын
😂 You have a point.
@michellelashay3
@michellelashay3 Жыл бұрын
Heres the thing about life experiences, if multiole people are having the same experiences then we have a societal issue. Theres too many women coming forward to say that our 'No' isnt being respected. But its thrown under the rug as "not being a right" or "thats just your experience." NO its the experience of countless women thats being ignored
@viperstriker4728
@viperstriker4728 10 ай бұрын
So throw the r a p i st in jail after due process. Safety is not a human right. You can take responsibility for your own safety or delegate it to a man in your life that you trust. But don't give me this crap about the government being responsible for keeping you safe. The government can't help you until after the fact. And this is hardly just a women's issue. Men get r a p e d too, usually it takes drugs though. "multiple people are having the same experiences then we have a societal issue" So alien abductions are a societal issue?
@RedMan-zy3kz
@RedMan-zy3kz Жыл бұрын
I don't even agree that there were limits on women historically. Every right that made it to the average man, made it to women in record time as soon as we made sure it was a good system. No one in history has been spared more carnage, death, and misery than any given woman
@DTPr0ductions
@DTPr0ductions Жыл бұрын
The problem is reality vs feelings. The problem is that when one's experiences make a belief that everyone else should have rules bound by them because the person involved has hurt, it makes that person look really shallow because they incorporate that all of one side should be forced to have more regulation than themselves when the situation flips. My right to life should not be infringed because someone else experienced something bad. That's not how any of it should work.
@musicianethanhopper
@musicianethanhopper Жыл бұрын
I think an interesting thing people should bring up is biblical masculinity. The idea that men should be full of “righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness” - Paul There’s more to it than just that but I’m still learning about it and honestly that’s the definition Google gave me.
@AceoftheDragoons
@AceoftheDragoons Жыл бұрын
Amen to that. That and also during a lot of the video when Brett was talking, I was brought to mind meekness is just strength under control.
@pleasearguewithme5924
@pleasearguewithme5924 Жыл бұрын
“It’s like steroids but with all the nasty side effects “ I think that’s the first time I’ve seen a mistake in her videos 😂 love to see it
@jennythapamagar7914
@jennythapamagar7914 Жыл бұрын
I'm very committed to my woman, (this is her account) but we love each other so much and we hold the utmost respect for each other
@johndoe-xc4hl
@johndoe-xc4hl Жыл бұрын
If women who are friends treat each other with vile content then why on earth would I want to be abused in the same way? Been here from the beginning, keep up the good fight 💪 😊
@gabeo9474
@gabeo9474 Жыл бұрын
Turn Derrick into a 6'4" athlete and suddenly he's "insightful and funny"
@tinkornhardfist7574
@tinkornhardfist7574 Жыл бұрын
Man said: "We're just built different." 💪
@samknorr7
@samknorr7 Жыл бұрын
First woman speaking facts based common sense great to hear
@remyllebeau77
@remyllebeau77 Жыл бұрын
100% she was either kicked out of the left, or she is toeing the line now.
@Robert-r6u
@Robert-r6u Ай бұрын
I cried at work when my grandma died and was upliifted by coworkers and custumers
@chrismiezianko427
@chrismiezianko427 Жыл бұрын
That's the biggest thing. Treat everyone with decency and respect,till they show you otherwise
@Impala64.
@Impala64. Жыл бұрын
6:05 "Its like steroids but with all the nasty side effects" - Brett Cooper 2023.
@davetdowell
@davetdowell Жыл бұрын
Awwww! I found something you are wrong about. Men are not less emotional creatures, we just have to be in control of our emotion, anything else is dangerous. So we teach our sons not to allow their emotions to project into the world by their behaviour, thus we learn not to harm other humans who emotionally hurt us... and there is the danger... we are (in general) capable of feats of immense strength and violence, and that has to be controlled and as much as possible disconnected from our emotions. You talked about men who will hurt women earlier... they're the ones who never learnt to disconnect their behaviour from what they feel by controlling their emotions.
@KaiTheGuy_158
@KaiTheGuy_158 Жыл бұрын
If I got a dollar for every guy who simps for Brett, I would be a millionaire
@jonasvalero
@jonasvalero Жыл бұрын
Brett would soon realize that this "job" aint for her since she is biting the hand that feeds her. 😂
@shaekelley6500
@shaekelley6500 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Even that video she made 2 to 3 weeks ago is still getting people calling her out on her chameleon colors probably shining through.
@fein-z9b
@fein-z9b Жыл бұрын
it all comes full circle
@priyaramesh7196
@priyaramesh7196 Жыл бұрын
@@shaekelley6500 which video?
@Markus2E5I6
@Markus2E5I6 Жыл бұрын
​@@shaekelley6500what chameleon colours?
@JamesVestal-dz5qm
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Man I had better bowel movements when I started chilling and stopped tripping about females.
@glennearl5621
@glennearl5621 Жыл бұрын
Takeaway: the only safe thing to do and the only reliably honorable solution is to not socialize with Feminists at all and keep any interactions to the minimum necessary. How is one to know that an individual is a Feminist?: Unknown. However, the repercussions of minimizing contact with a non-Feminist are insignificant. The consequences of contact with a Feminist can be dire. The safe thing to do is aviod interactions, at least until you know where they stand. Granted, this will probably get you friend-zoned but it's better than gambling and losing.
@kaidenhall9818
@kaidenhall9818 Жыл бұрын
About to become a passport bro because The entitlement of western women
@mysurfing3550
@mysurfing3550 Жыл бұрын
No you're just not a person capable of having a decent personality so you have to hire someone to pretend to like you as an employee because you're entitled to free labor since you're not capable of being decent to be around.
@nilssonakerlund2852
@nilssonakerlund2852 Жыл бұрын
Take it from me, you won't regret it.
@kaidenhall9818
@kaidenhall9818 Жыл бұрын
@@nilssonakerlund2852where did you go? I really like Vietnam
@Drayton226
@Drayton226 Жыл бұрын
I've actually never heard of men's rights
@Kloyster2010
@Kloyster2010 Жыл бұрын
Same that’s new to me
@houseofhas9355
@houseofhas9355 Жыл бұрын
If you look into. You can clearly see gender based discrimination against men. Especially when it comes to parental rights. In my city. A grandfather had the cops called on him because he was sitting on a bench watching his granddaughter. He was put in handcuff for being a man. All because a woman said so. That's discrimination due to his gender.
@diondixon3349
@diondixon3349 Жыл бұрын
One area where men and women are still not treated equally is the draft. All men in The US must register for the Selective Service at age 18 and face up to $250k fine and/or 5 years jail for failure to do so. Despite all restrictions on women's service in the military being lifted, they still are not required to register for the draft.
@squidward645
@squidward645 Жыл бұрын
It makes sense but also doesn't. We could extend the draft to women with the expectation that most won't meet the physical standards for ground combat even with strength and endurance training so they can be placed in non- ground combat roles. Republicans would never go for that because of their "women in military bad" mindset.
@belivuk2526
@belivuk2526 Жыл бұрын
​@@squidward645there are different things that women could do to replace a military draft. A caretaking draft or something like that. Have them go through the training to raise a kid and care for the elderly with community service in caretaking facilities for a bit. It's nowhere near demanding nor potentially life ruining as a military draft. And the op missed another few sections of the right where men and women are not equal. - assault - snuggle struggle (you know what i mean) assault - child custody - marital separation
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro Жыл бұрын
I think women being exempt from the draft did and still could make sense, as long as there are some expectations set. Women are weaker than men. We can’t fight like they can, so in a battle we are more of a liability than anything else. We can do well in other military settings, but not the main one-fighting. We can’t even carry as much heavy equipment as male soldiers do, so we wouldn’t last as long on a dangerous mission. Furthermore, if all young men and women were drafted, who would be at home to continue managing the workforce? It makes sense to apply women to this, and have fighting age men go and handle the war effort. However, the draft isn’t as practical as it once was, because standards have been artificially lowered to allow women into areas of the military that only men are strong enough to make effective. Women can’t be navy SEALs on our own strength, so the standards are lowered to let us in. This is a huge problem, it greatly compromises the efficacy of the military. This shouldn’t happen. My opinion is that draft should stay as it is, with only men being allowed in. Conversely, women should be removed from certain services that we practically should not be able to get into in the first place. Instead of trying to ignore the innate disparities between men and women, we should be working to use those disparities to our benefit.
@sebastiansuarezcruz
@sebastiansuarezcruz Жыл бұрын
@@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro Modern feminists only want to choose the cherry pick the equality aspects that favor them as women. But the moment they have to endure some negative aspects or hardships about equality, they suddenly change their colors and stop being feminist. If modern feminists truly want equality, they should get not only the same privileges and rights as men, but also endure the same hardships as men. In honor of modern feminists, women should also receive the same jail time as men, do the heavy lifting in construction, receive the same false sexual harassment claims as men an endure the same punishment that comes with participating war. Also, no more separation by gender in sports. Women will now have to do martial arts against men twice their size and play american football against men 3 times their size (very unlikely to realistically win... but since modern feminists think so then; "yass queen, slay queen).
@toddpacker1015
@toddpacker1015 Жыл бұрын
​@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro If men and women are equal women should be drafted. If not, women can't be allowed to vote and speak in matters pertaining to war and foreign policy.
@Eusong
@Eusong Жыл бұрын
Being a survivor of sexual assault and personally knowing numerous people who also were, all but two of the people I've known were raped by women. All but one of them, and myself, it was done when they were babies or very small children. All of the cases, including my own, except for one of the two cases where it was done by a man, the perpetrator was never punished. To be fair, it's a small sample size. But from my own personal observations, women are far, far more likely to commit sexual assault, to be p3dophiles, and to get away with such crimes. It's disgusting. Also, a lot of these feminists need to realize that a quick slap on the butt by some stranger walking by is not a fucking sexual assault. Saying it is downplays actual assault.
@sophielesher8002
@sophielesher8002 Жыл бұрын
BRETT that squeaky toy sound around 11 mins in… my dog suddenly got so curious and hyper and confused at your video 😂😂❤
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