Is he gold-digging? | Talks with Tony

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“A man ain’t going to be your friend longer than a year if y’all meant to be together.” TG

[@kishiamay3478]

These dudes don’t be looking for a relationship their looking for help. Sit back, listen and watch him reveal his true agenda.

[@angelbasham6631]

Amen

[@jsue6994]

My city is full of men like this. A small city with high poverty rate. Men are looking for their cash cow. Women really be thinking it’s love but he really just need somewhere to stay.

[@disnalee]

Right on

[@clarkclarke5321]

Yep...I saw a video the other day where a man was saying that he watched a video on IG where a man is teaching men how to trick women to get into their homes [ I'm paraphrasing ]

[@irenelaetitia309]

@@clarkclarke5321 daaaamn

[@nonikaallen2030]

They're called hobo-sexuals.

[@yeahthatsme921]

😆😆😆😆😆

[@shaybear9714]

I met my ex few months back. Broke up with him because I realized he was watching my pockets. One day he asked me if I made 80k or 100k as a RN. Told him what I make is none of his business. Next day we’re out and he told me I should cover the cost of something very minor($40) because I make more money smh, told him I’m not covering the cost idc how much I made. That was it for me. Just be careful ladies, they out here lurking.

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Good for you bow out quickly

[@annabanzon313]

That's my hubby 😆

[@ebonyflowers7599]

“I know a lot of women who rescuing men today.” Tony ain’t lying!

[@msladytrue6789]

If women stop doing what you mentioned men would step up!! I started to be in the same position trying to make a man be something that he is not. So i left. Point blank period!! I did not understand a man's character plays a big role in a relationship until tony mentioned a man's character and what it meant.

[@yeahthatsme921]

It's disgusting to watch

[@MarieMorgan218]

I recently dated a man for a few months but I wasn't really that into him. One day he said to me that I was perfect for his future because his plan is to quit his job and go into real estate and he needed a woman that could pick up the slack the months he didn't get a commission. My total gross income between my two jobs is about $75k and I work extremely hard on both of them. That statement was exactly what I needed to hear to realize he definitely wasn't the man for me.

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Yes bow out quickly sister

[@latiaavril9424]

A dusty 😩

[@amilllion1]

Yuk

[@Machenziethemodel]

Homemaker is almost being redefined. You can be a stay at home mom and own a online store.

[@asiaz248]

That's my goal!

[@rubycubez1103]

Just like many men blame us for having daddy issues, there's an abundance with guys with mommy issues. I feel like it's worse as you get older.

[@terib5467]

....and men with father issues too. Never got the validation from his dad who was in the home

[@kokoalaska9888]

Yes ladies. As a new nurse I’m nervous to even tell men what I do for living because of the trash cans that are attracted to me. “‘I’m in customer service” I tell them. 😂👩🏾‍⚕️💋

[@s.r.125]

🤣😩

[@VintageAfro91]

Smart 💅🏾

[@cemplygloria6261]

Exactly, "customer service representative" is my profession to everybody. It's not a lie, just not the WHOLE truth.

[@kokoalaska9888]

@@cemplygloria6261 exactly girl.

[@beefaye6861]

😂😂😂

[@BeautyWithinKakra]

Hence why I say I NEVER lead with my degrees. These boys are out here tryna come up and I’m not it!! Thanks Tony 👏🏾

[@Tatianarain]

A lot of men will begin by asking "so what do u do". I always respond with Nothing. Cus in Nigeria a lot of men are struggling financially and the economy is bad. A lot are looking for a come up

[@LadyAngela678]

I have a nice house and lifestyle, and easily pay all of my bills by myself. Why would I want a man talking about paying just half of the bills?? 🤔

[@minimalassembly7893]

Lol! Very True.

[@schoolwork232]

Good question! :)

[@Arizona_lilly]

Yepnwe can do it on our own. And no1 to answer too

[@tiawannarichmonde250]

Thank you! You don't need a roommate.

[@lovettatobeyea190]

A male acquaintance of mine was working retail and met a women who was an attorney. He proposed to her in 2 months, and they married within 6 months. Cut to 5 years later, he is now making closer to $50K, and all of a sudden, “they having problems” that he can’t fully articulate. 🤨🙄And he’s filed for divorce. So y’all better LISTEN to Tony.

[@Tatianarain]

Stop being builder wives ladies

[@babyramba3338]

Thank you for sharing this...

[@toriyt2714]

🙌🏾

[@cemplygloria6261]

He making close to $50k, he still BROKE for real. He need that $50k annnnd a side business. Smh.

[@Lawyerbaejess]

His problems sound like another woman he has his eyes on.

[@beefaye6861]

See....this is so on point....every man I meet thier 1st question is " so what do you do"? They lurking ladies be ready.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

My gosh I hate that!

[@Harlemsweetie82]

It’s true-some men are looking for an opportunity BUT...It kinda goes both ways because some men are asking what we do to make sure WE as women are actually working and have a life because some women are gold-diggers too!

[@shannysmith2020]

I normally say, "7 kids, living in my grandparents basement, and getting my G.E.D." Some of them were like, "so, when do you want to hang out"? Sir, 😳 😳 😳

[@beefaye6861]

@@shannysmith2020 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭Im dead .....good 1 Shanny

[@Arizona_lilly]

I sleep.

[@roja_xo5527]

He ain't lying about them degrees. I got my bachelor's and it took me time and embellishing on my resume, to sustain a honest income.

[@chrissy1448]

lol right... there are a lot of folks with degrees and no job.

[@JustBeYouTy]

Yup

[@Faith_therian960]

Depends on the degree

[@ThoroughbredDiva]

Okay?!

[@roja_xo5527]

@@Rashaadthegr8 lol well they didn't find out and luckily I don't have to do that anymore. Thank God.

[@dimediamond]

Ladies open your 👀 eyes be aware. A man tried to play me like this and I walked away. Its pitiful for a 6 foot man to want wear the panties in the relationship. Broke. Bad credit. Prior divorce. Lives with his momma. Low income job. I told him best wishes and stay safe. 🌹

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

I cut loose a 54 yr old living with his parents, complaining about child support, habitual liar, ect. Good Riddance

[@shaybear9714]

Lmao @ stay safe.

[@aleahlenard2313]

Sheri is so blessed, she gets to put %100 into her kids.

[@JustBeYouTy]

He is right about the military comment. Well at least in reference to black men. A lot of them are lost. And this is coming from a Army Vet.

[@allainsasha]

Absolutely correct... never again

[@travelchannel304]

What you think, or be around about a man, former Marine, now 1stRsp/PD, never married, no kids, 🤔, acting like hes not sure if its what he wants? Close to 50, white. Lol Works Alot. All his friends are married w/ kids? Interested in your impression.

[@texcoco41]

Facts!

[@Moneyandrealestate]

😂😂😂😂 That impression of them fast talking broke men trying to talk about what they can do with somebody else's money is ACCURATE! Hilarious.

[@toriyt2714]

I was shook. I said how Tony know my dumb ex from when I was 20 lol

[@yeahthatsme921]

😆😂😂😂😂

[@texcoco41]

😂🤣

[@toriyt2714]

Ladies, finessing is at a all time high.

[@attorneymom35]

Finessing?

[@toriyt2714]

@@attorneymom35 manipulation or tricking someone out of money or other valuable things.

[@hickslovehealing5887]

"Some of em' ain't gon' be gone bout yo business, but if you writing me, yeah, gon' bout yo business" 🤣🙌🏾 I'm here for it

[@jsue6994]

Ladies don’t let men make you feel like a fool for setting a financial standard. Especially if you are a high earner yourself. As Tony would say, Don’t get got! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Don’t let a man trick you into believing you should settle for less.

[@reinaquisha9418]

I used to be triggered when I heard Tony talk about folks not wanting to work for themselves; being content with working for someone else and following the norm of society. My rebuttal was always, not everyone can have their own business....our society isn't set up for that.... I had to realize that my thought process was toxic conditioning. We all have talents and a purpose that would benefit others and it's ok to be financially rewarded for those talents/purpose. I had to shift my mindset. I had to release the toxic programming. Y'all forgive me. I comment a lot now. Not because I'm attention seeking but because I live alone and this channel is a huge part of my daily life and I don't feel ashamed to say that. Blessings tribe 💯

[@erickagreene4041]

Me too, no need to apologize, we here to learn

[@TonyGaskins]

Keep being positive and productive, and you're welcome to comment as much as you'd like. Keep going! Do what's best for you!

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

I’m in the same boat. I learn from comments on here, so please continue to share.🤗

[@jsue6994]

Thank you for sharing. This gave me some insight as well. Just started my LLC after 3 degrees and climbing the corporate ladder, I get it.

[@toriyt2714]

Awww that’s so good. KZbin is my only social media I use right now. So Tony channel is heavily included in my day as well.

[@Tatianarain]

If a man has more to gain from you than you gain from him 🚩🚩🚩

[@LadyAngela678]

Facts

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Healthcare and Life Sciences require lots of studying. 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️ recertifications, license, constantly evoling. "Bio" means life

[@VintageAfro91]

Yay another episode of my favorite show! And this woman needs to abort mission immediately. Why is him proposing to her contingent on her finishing her master’s degree? And he’s only saying he’ll pay the mortgage only ( and that’s questionable). RUN! she was right to cut things off! Male gold diggers are very real!

[@Arizona_lilly]

Uncle Tony cousin Tony!!!!!🛑🛑🛑🛑 I want more videos on hobo sexual broke men. Hood men men who don't tske care their kids men who live off woman

[@allainsasha]

That part ‼️‼️‼️

[@reinaquisha9418]

🗣️🗣️🗣️One time for black women 💪🏿🙌🏿🤞🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@nikkinanette8807]

Ayeeee 💃🏾 ayeeee 💃🏾 ooooh 💯

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa👍👑

[@lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207]

No Come-Up Zone...PERIOD!!

[@tiarose5310]

Dropping these videos Back to Back✨ My daughter and I are HERE for them ALL💎. Thank you Brother Tony💯.

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

First and foremost, no man is coming to live with me. He has to marry me and move me to live with him or stay where he is and I stay where I am. If he dont make same money I make or more, he is not meant for me. God made Eve after Adam was given dominion over everything and not vice versa.

[@KandeeKane85]

🙋🏾‍♀️ (Financial Treasurer Here) SSI is a dividend that can only be paid out after the age of 65. Only exception to early SSI is with a classified disability. If you have a form a retirement through last employer; you should be able to cash out depending on employer’s retirement investment pre-qualifications. I would advise leaving it there and waiting to the age of retirement to cash out and you all should be paying into your own retirement packages tailored towards self-employed individuals! Hope this helps! 🙏🏾

[@intentionalgreatness]

Don't flaunt your career and what you do as a selling point..then you won't attract men who want to use you for that. Trust your intuition...if you felt specifically that he was looking for a come up..then he was.

[@PeaceBeStill-]

💯

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony you said if you friends with a man 10 years gone about your business. lol 🤣🤣

[@GlendaLove]

He's really not lying. I decided to date a guy I was friends with for 10 years a few years ago. Worst decision of my life.

[@shannysmith2020]

@@GlendaLove BINGO. FRAUDS!!!

[@muvaknowsbestpodcast]

@justglendalo exactly! This is because honestly he saw things in you and it wasn’t enough to tap into human nature to claim you and vice versa, I’m happy for you queen.

[@AidaRivera]

THIS IS SO TRUE 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Adele has to pay her ex husband. He was looking for a come up for sure

[@peacearise2157]

Oh God, I'm over here screaming laughing at Tony's impression of Thug Man from the skreets.

[@katherineguest2294]

A gold digger is a gold digger. It doesn't matter what is our income ladies. A man is out to get what they can from us. Be care and wise ladies. Beat them at their own game. You old your cards and no when to fold

[@daniellem578]

Like Sage the Gemini & Supa Cent’s relationship? Very much a reg flag.

[@magnolia2]

So that’s why Jay-Z just launched a cannabis business because he’s getting up there.👴🏿👴🏿👴🏿🤣🤣🤣

[@VintageAfro91]

Exactly! He knows with that being legalized there’s money in it. 😂 smart move though.

[@DsCompilations]

Off topic but welcome! 🤗

[@magnolia2]

@@DsCompilations It’s not off topic. He literally was speaking about Beyoncé and Jay in the video and how Jay is a business man constantly evolving. Maybe rewatch the video sis.

[@magnolia2]

@@VintageAfro91 VERY smart because he has the money to grow and produce top notch product. Snoop and Whoopi were one of the first to take advantage and get into the business. So I’m happy black folks are continuing to get into the business that once oppressed and incarcerated them. 👌🏽🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Mrs. Steph Curry is also Executive Producer on some cooking shows, as well as home decor shows, Cllothing line..so one day she may out earn her NBA player husband.

[@roja_xo5527]

"Cuz one thing bout me I'm from the skreets "😂😂😂 I swear to God, when I say my older brother use this line so many times. He even had the courage to use this line on me in a argument . I picked up my little binder, and left from the kitchen table. I refuse to listen to a guy, who don't know how to wash clothes and burn noodles. 😂

[@reinaquisha9418]

😂😂😂

[@saforniajohnson1676]

😂😂😂😂

[@alexism.7712]

😂😭

[@patricemurray6412]

Damn 🤣🤣🤣

[@blakstarrdiamond6869]

🤣🤣🤣😬

[@Arizona_lilly]

Don't talk about ur education money business abd live minimal or they known

[@jessepera2457]

You do not owe a man u don't know any details about ur finances!!

[@stephaniemodkins4624]

You told the truth in this video. My older brother manages the money his wife earns. He has never had a decent job, had an apartment in his name, or filed taxes.

[@LadyAngela678]

She got to be bat 💩 crazy!!

[@clarkclarke5321]

@@LadyAngela678 my ex tried to do that ...he was a musician ... all I needed was one time ...after that i was always broke ..no extra money ...naaaww

[@zh1408]

Foolish of her !

[@Kathyyyyy123]

“Go on about your business” 😂😭

[@natoshiastallworth1395]

Yessss

[@reinaquisha9418]

I love every time you start describing how a man needs to be dripping in anointing in order for these women to believe what they're saying. Lol "You need to look over there and see Jesus" 😭😭😭 I love these videos 🙌🏿💯

[@keehumphrey5284]

I fell out❗ He said they paid his wife '$4.50 more... Cuz she was light skinned' 🤣 Laaawd Bye!

[@NaomiRGlee]

Be blessed

[@reinaquisha9418]

@@NaomiRGlee you too 🙏🏾

[@reinaquisha9418]

@@keehumphrey5284 😂😂😂

[@micheleprice9771]

"WOMEN, " MEN ARE LOOKIN FOR A COME UP!" SO THAT THEY CAN FILL UP!" LET HIM BE ! AND " LEAVE !" TIME TO MOVE ON! THANK U TONY ! LOOKIN FORWARD TO MORE! GOD BLESS U AND YR FAMILY! AND EVERYONE IN THE WORLD! RIGHT NOW! SEASON BLESSINGS TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD! RIGHT NOW! 😊🙏💖

[@shannysmith2020]

Some men have MAJOR insecurity issues!!!

[@yeahthatsme921]

It's a turnoff

[@Maxxine40]

Too many educated women out here dealing with GED level thinking men. You cannot allow yourself to be managed on this level. Be content.

[@yeahthatsme921]

😆😆😆😭😭😭😭😭

[@zeebabi5198]

I just got used by ex boyfriend this message is so True.

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

Don't get what Tony's saying confused, with the man "TALKING" about his passion and big dreams but has no direction, plan and his ACTIONS don't ALIGN with his words. All should match: passion, dreams, direction, plans and ACTION!

[@ms.watson8098]

What you saying

[@delessadurham3823]

Hi tony, i am a white woman. I do need to hear your videos. U hit a lot of subjects that i need to hear. Especially the ones about being equally yoked. And what u give of yourself better kids, family and business and men with a vision. Thanks so much for your videos 🙂

[@MoodyA1999]

Can’t help but become irritated when I see 👎🏽on these videos. If you don’t like what’s being said stay off the channel 🙄

[@taurahelms3068]

Kicking rocks with open-toe sandals lol!

[@lyfesaquarium]

I never sponsor a man. I dont see how these women do it. Not judging.. I just can not. I WORK 2 DAMN HARD..LATER

[@visualdramadesigncompany4031]

Maaaaan, true story: There was a young woman in our town, who was a psychologist. She married a dude “fresh out”. He killed her. Court records revealed a history of abuse. I hope these ladies listen to you.

[@chocodiamondjewels3403]

One thing I can say about you is you are always TELLING IT AS IT IS whether its popular or not.

[@joycegoodwin5685]

"Economic..you don't know how to manage money because you went to school!!!" LMAO

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Yes like what does that even mean?? 😂😂😂 Boy sit down!

[@joycegoodwin5685]

@@PeaceBeStill- LMAO

[@SixFootofFitness]

Not at the house stringing guitars 😩😩😂😂

[@stubbinschantel]

Im not sending my gone bout yo business question tony😂 ladies take heed

[@Arizona_lilly]

Hes willing pay mortgage lol

[@ysmithriley]

@Lilly Gutierrez How generous of him to offer. LOL 😆

[@bdoe3591]

Facts,alot of guys nowadays can't bring nothing to the table but between their legs ,looking for a woman to take care of them.

[@sonjadf47]

Men scope out women that are willing to give him everything just to keep him around. I mean at ALL ages. Well, especially thirsty, desperate women over 50. I know plenty of women with men like this. Our societal problem is that not enough of us are willing to reject these kind of men, for whatever their reason, and as long as we put up with this type of behavior, they will continue to do this.

[@vchild]

I'm present in class today! Gaining more knowledge. Happy Holidays everyone!

[@chocodiamondjewels3403]

I know of some professional women who SETTLE with low poviding men who are living off them and treating them poorly. These men have really pulled the hood over these senses!!

[@jacquelinewilliams6572]

From the skreets! 😂😂😁😁🤣🤣

[@jessepera2457]

She messed up by telling all him all her business.

[@intentionalgreatness]

"Hitch their wagon to a woman's horsepower"👏👏👏 keyword horse..because you will get in a relationship and be the horse doing all the work. Lordt Tony you said somethin with that!

[@anointedstilettos]

I love to hear you talk about Shari. I'm praying for God to send me a husband who lights up when he talks about me like that.

[@blinghelmetsllc2439]

Cause she light skin 😂😂😂

[@Joycelang2495]

You are a wonderful young man let the lord keep using you if these sisters don't wanna listen they will learn the hard way God is first .💒💒💒💒⛪⛪⛪💝💝

[@SixFootofFitness]

Shaq getting all the coins!!! You here me??? Yasss🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nginajames4190]

I’d be interested to know what you think of Kevin Samuels video “you’re average at best” from a male, and spiritual standpoint. Thank you!

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

The spirit is speaking today this is 100% accurate what I been feeling with my ex

[@alicianolantillman3337]

Wow! TONY I love your transparency, and humor but it’s so real! Thanks for teaching us with such passion! Blessings to you and your beautiful wife! .......you’re sooo funny

[@mistybennett5040]

I left my husband because he's so cold to me n lying about money. We don't even hardly have sex he's constantly accusing me off cheating and were together every day. He pushed me till I left now he's putting me down n telling everyone I've cheated. He wants a divorce but I've never cheated. I feel like he just married me to use me and for revenge. He constantly says mean n hurtful things. But he's threatening people he thinks I'm cheating with. I just need a second opinion I know I don't need to go back

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

You know Tony I didn't want to be shallow, but I realize now this isn't something I can bend on. All of my relationships since high school I have made more than the man I was with. And the result has been the same. It's time to raise that standard & stick to it so that I can attract my husband. Because it's not an issue for me, but it clearly is an issue for the man.

[@MsFree2u]

Yes he more than likely is smh. Tired of sorry men

[@chickwitthagoodies]

Same

[@MsFree2u]

@@chickwitthagoodies it’s like a new weird trend or something

[@saforniajohnson1676]

Agreed

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Same as well!

[@elizabethschilling7178]

Tony doesn't give 100% and look at all of us can't wait to listen and learn. This is what you call an anointing.. 🙏👏🙌

[@patwilson1257]

You’re 100 Tony. We need the substance, not the “fluff”😊

[@tanbutterfly8282]

Military pays for housing so none of his actual money would be going to the household

[@iamsadeashley]

You talking about Social Security benefits? Lol 😆

[@danielam8298]

Uncle Tony is so right, military relationships can be quite hard 💯It takes people to know their path and gifts to have purpose in life, plus deployment could a affect communication too. Not impossible, just a bit harder.

[@mbalienhleearrings1289]

Tony is smart, I never thought of black men and women in that manner when it comes to longevity when making money or career wise; really interesting points and perspective there right there Tony. We learning here about EVERYTHING.

[@je39981]

I'm amazed that there are guys like that out there, oh my goodness. smh lol

[@tarshagreene4661]

I dated a man recently, which I kind of figured he was HAMPTON on the side about money. I process claims from home. I am a widow my late husband passed away 12 years ago due to a heart condition. So it is just me and my 12-year-old son. He was asking me how much I made and also asked if I get a Social Security check because of my late husband’s passing. As you know I dumped him and no longer dating him anymore.

[@Jkl306]

My moms 70 n a 50 year old loser is working her.. n she’s blind going through my deceased dads stuff she’s hook line n sinker n once she’s drained welp I’m sorry that’s not my problem 🤷‍♀️

[@lilpinkbubbles6592]

This was so good this morning. So glad I got rid of my gold digger. The 🎶 do do do do do do do do do do Talks with Tony 🎶 had me cracking up.

[@milliontimesover2180]

Stg I busted out laughing @work lmaooooo

[@KimG777]

Thanks, Tony, we women don’t take advantage of our strengths. Women, recognize your worth! 😍

[@AllEyezOnMeTMC]

You and your wife are so blessed to have each other.

[@Arizona_lilly]

Wow you're son was special needs omg. So hardnwow guys he seems healthy strong now. Wow

[@kokoluv21]

Hello Tony and The Blessed Tribe 🙌🏽

[@reinaquisha9418]

Hello 🙏🏾

[@crystaljRDH]

Double feature today. Yayy! Thanks Tony!

[@tinajones1932]

Listening.

[@isaiah483]

Tony Tony iam screaming in my vehicle 🤣🤣 stringing guitar 40on the road

[@wykitawest3736]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 you’re hilarious! I don’t even think you trying to be funny at the things you say. Great video as always.

[@khocolateable]

Sheri is an awesome woman ☺️

[@tammymargriter9085]

I've seen that where they act different get what they want and act the fool ect.

[@GlendaLove]

Boy that editing shocked me lol

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Yes I was like what happened?? 😄

[@DandyDuh]

😂😭

[@nikkinanette8807]

“Cuz see, I’m from the skreets” bwaaah ha ha ha.

[@VirtuousWoman1143]

YUP U RIGHT ABOUT ALL THIS TONY !!!!👍