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Is It Okay To Have A Preference Of Race? Interracial Couples Agree Or Disagree - Jubilee | Reaction

[@Rob_M_8]

Racial preference has always been kinda weird to me because I find people from all races attractive. I can’t imagine picking 1 and preferring them to the others

[@blakleyblankets786]

Same

[@Sweetheart7179]

Same here I dont care what your race is as long as you have true genuine respect and love for me you good

[@B702]

See how you're in the minority in terms of likes vs ppl sayin they wanna stay within their race? Fools cry about racism while being racist. Ridiculous

[@Rob_M_8]

@@B702 staying within your own race is not the same as picking out a group of people and saying you’d never date them. It’s not ridiculous for people to want to date their own race. It’s usually a cultural thing, or some people think that they’ll only really be understood by people of their own race

[@B702]

@@Rob_M_8 and that's a selfish thing, eliminating everyone who isn't your race. No reasoning justifies it, its Racist to write ppl off based off their Race, hence the base word Race

[@abnormpsych17]

I think people from all races are attractive and datable. I'm just at a place in my life where I probably would not date a non black person for many of the same reasons Dee shared and also because I don't want to think about racial dynamics in my relationships. Just kinda want to be in one.

[@darrenwatkins5466]

Makes sense

[@user-qy6tu9ip9v]

Same... I just want my own ethnicity.

[@shanejohn-lewis3715]

Facts

[@oldschoolchallenges8588]

“NO ASIANS” is sadly so common on gay dating apps/hookups. It’s so gross when anybody writes that and NO Blacks. Like wtf.

[@basebenthem1080]

People have to realize that none of the preferences we have are random, it’s all due to societal conditioning and how we’re socialized as human beings. Girls don’t just come out of the womb saying “I want a tall man” and guys don’t come outta the womb saying “I want blonde hair and blue eyes”. I think it’s really naive to think preferences are just something we’re born with, they’re absolutely not. Preferences is definitely nurture over nature, with that being said you have to ask yourself if it’s okay to have preferences thats rooted in how society is against certain people and discriminates against them.

[@djrichardson2000]

I definitely agree that society plays a huge influence in people’s preferences, but I also think that ppls preferences can come out of a genuine place.

[@basebenthem1080]

@@djrichardson2000 It can but its rare that they do since everyone is subject to societal conditioning. I know for me I prefer black people because I wanna be with someone who understands what it’s like to be oppressed as a black person in this world and if god forbid anything happened to me can pass that down to my children, but even that’s a result of the society we live in and me reacting to anti black racism. To act like most people’s “preferences” aren’t a result of the society we live in would be naive and gaslighting to the people who bear the brunt of these “preferences” that most people have.

[@djrichardson2000]

@@basebenthem1080 100% agree. I just think that the societal influences aren’t necessarily wrong or bad, but can easily be taken to a place that hurts or demonizes another group of ppl

[@DeeShanell10]

You betta fuckin’ spit! 👏🏾

[@goncalodias6402]

no one has a say on who you choose as a sexual partner. no one is entiteled to be attractive to everyone, for whatever reason, even if its racist. So, should a black person who doesn't like Asians feel obligated to have Asian sex partners? you cannot judge the personal decisions of others in that way. they are not refusing a job or refusing to offer a service to someone because of the individual's race, its about intimate relations. your body, your choice, your not denying anyone any rights so nobody has a say in your preferences.

[@youcantsaythatpodcast3290]

I'm black. And black people are super judgmental with each other. Love who you love. I've been screwed over by black people just the same as other races.

[@dominiquejohnson8690]

Same, dude! Really sad and frustrating!😒😞

[@sagittarius420cheefie]

Facts, I think this is very true for be as well. They should date who they want and forget what others say. A lot of them get shit for dating out, I know it.

[@aaronvod]

As a lgbtq person of color , uhm the gay community has a lot of racist tendencies. I live in the Midwest so it’s common for me to see on profiles “no black” or they fetishize you for the “BBC” myth . Some will say it’s their preference, but I feel they use it to deny a whole race of people instead of individual basis. It’s gets very discriminatory at times .

[@couturafly26]

Social issues in the lgbtq+ community are the same everywhere. I'm from NY and this mirrors what goes on in other communities including classism and colorism. In terms of dating apps and visual media caucasian men are favored over men of color. You can be intelligent, cultured worldly and come from a good family and you won't even be considered because of the internalized practices taught from their parents and community growing up. But ultimately I've found that safe spaces for our community are important, such as bars and clubs, as it really creates discourse for this conversation and exposes all of us to learning about other people and not solely on what they perceive ad should be protected. Did I just say online dating is fucked up in way too many words?

[@serumbae7879]

but in hindsight, isnt it better to know everyones preferences? i mean in terms or sexual activity, shouldnt be everyone allowed to be discriminatory in some degree? if not, you will be just saying YES to everyone who ask you to have sex. If that person say, no fat no femmes no asian or blacks. Would you really wanna hook up with that kind of person also? Because i feel like, people who gets angry to those who has "preferences", are the people who are actaully atttracted to the "bad" person

[@aaronvod]

@@tgosselin2528 are you saying my experiences (which of course I can easily validate ) are B.S? Or the fact that it does happen is BS? Even a quick Google search of how racism plays a part on gay apps will show . Then look up where the Midwest ranks in terms of gay dating , then specifically the experience for minority gays . I’ll wait .

[@once861]

This times a thousand. preferences is an excuse for their racism or fetishization. a preference is like their height. not "no black people"

[@aaronvod]

@@once861 yes I totally agree with that . I can see height and weight etc as preference but to deny a whole race of people because you don’t like their skin color is beyond me . I was just pointing out that in the lgbtq community esp where I live it’s common , but on the other hand you have to watch out for those who fetishize you . Some will date you just because you’re seen as less desirable (so they don’t have much competition or have to worry about cheating ) some men only want to date black when other gays consider them too old , or when they want “bbc”. It goes for other races too . I had several gay men say they date asian/ Latin because they are more submissive. It’s so much to unpack

[@thatsojordy]

If we vibe, we vibe at the end of the day. Now where it gets messy is when people have a "preference" but they are actively excluding other races or their preference is more for surface level reasons/stereotypes.

[@_.-_Crimpy-_..-.]

Can’t control what you find attractive, so yeah it’s fine when it comes to just attraction. If you choose not to date a race solely because of negative stereotypes or because you have hate towards that race, then yeah, it’s an issue. At the end of the day, who somebody dates is nobody else’s business.

[@j.m.t.p7806]

Out of all interracial couples I think it is harder for someone who is black or Asian dating out of their race because both races are I conservative for different reasons though.

[@isabellesapphirethomas1681]

I feel like that heavily depends on where said person was born; the only reason I said that is because it's pretty common for an Afro-Jamaican to marry/have a child with an Asian (predominantly Indian or Chinese).

[@Reyes-Latinos]

Dude all these statements can be said about anyone 😂 same thing with Latinos. It all just depends

[@j.m.t.p7806]

@@Reyes-Latinos I never said it only applies to black and Asian I said that they have it the hardest when dating someone outside their race and latinos is an ethnicity so they aren't part of the interracial couples conversation.

[@Reyes-Latinos]

@@j.m.t.p7806 yes but when you mention Mexicans and Central Americas we basically created a homogeneous race and how would you know? What im saying is people just be saying random statements when they don’t know what there talking about

[@j.m.t.p7806]

@@Reyes-Latinos I don't think you understand anything you are saying Latino isn't a race it's just something people came up with to identify a person of Cuban, Mexican, Puerto Rican, South or Central American, or other Spanish culture or origin regardless of race. There is no such thing as an homogenous race search it up and the closest thing to that is a homogeneous country and Japan and Korea are the most homogenous

[@XFry333X]

I think people are mixing Race with Culture. Anything based exclusively on Race is problematic. But Culture is different and that could be interesting to partner with someone outside of your cultural sphere. I can see that. Typically, when people say "I prefer X race" they usually describe a stereotype of a culture too. Unless it's straight up racist like saying "so and so people have this genitalia".

[@dshunhall3793]

@@mikko3 nah

[@MikeNj]

Race and culture do go hand in hand, when it comes to black people in America

[@yigs598]

no it doesnt people who are African are considered in african culture@@MikeNj

[@breezycool2183]

"Look at his big coolaid smile!" Aaaahhhh!! Hahaha

[@marciaveronica3140]

"back in her days things were diferent" Trust me... We Know

[@fdoctor79]

It's okay to have a preference just so as long you are not fetishizing or bashing the ethnicity/culture you are not attracted to. Character over Color!

[@fdoctor79]

If someone have a racial preference that's their business. I don't have to date/married them. lol

[@ly-sh1oy]

I think it's fine, you should be free to be with whoever you want but there's that and then there's trying to conceal racism with it, tbh is doesn't matter in love, it's just about a connection 🤷🏼‍♂️♥️

[@ly-sh1oy]

@Gio tayyy You don't seem to understand what I said

[@serumbae7879]

@Gio tayyy in way, what that person is saying is, you have to discrimnate who would you be with. You can't say YES to everyone who aks to have sex with you, if you are a striahgt guy and a guy guy ask to have sex with you, does that mean you are homophobic? of course not. Is it mysoginistic if you refuse to have sex with a girl and you are a str8 girl

[@catierollins8493]

All the black people (and the mixed guy) said they feel guilty. It’s makes a lot of sense now. I’ve always wondered why they avoid eye contact or look like they are about to throw up if you smile at them.. Most are ashamed.

[@biggrimdog8825]

It's okay to have a preference, but you have to ask yourself if the underlying motive for why you have that preference is racism or if it's simply just a preference. Some people simply have a preference maybe based on where they grew up, but there's also people who say shit like, "I don't like black girls because angry, ghetto, loud, etc." That's racism.

[@jrdb04]

That’s stereotype but still facts

[@biggrimdog8825]

@@jrdb04 The two aren't mutually exclusive. Stereotypes can be racist. The ones I named definitely are.

[@jrdb04]

@@biggrimdog8825 kinda but still that’s more of a stereotype cause a lot of public black woman are like that and u see more of the famous people and influencers than everyday people on social media not saying it’s right but that’s not coming from a racist mindset for most people

[@aceshouse3389]

No the problem is too many people want other people to explain their preferences no one owes anyone else a explanation

[@imtired6530]

@@jrdb04 but if someone were to constantly use those stereotypes as a reason to not like black women that's racist since they don't bother to even look at the majority of black women that don't act like that. Media does show people black women that act stereotypical sometimes, but that doesn't excuse people that know damn well black women don't all show that stereotype then proceed to project the stereotype onto black women and refuse to date them, especially if they know black women in real life. Also doesn't excuse them since believing the black women that do fit in that stereotype only revolve around it diminishes their actual personalities and is also racist.

[@ajbagby7805]

Ivan was kinda off to me and I know I can’t be the only one thinking that😭

[@wwmexd4451]

We can all tell, some people just already know that they are a little bit too weird so when they get someone who actually shows interest in them they stick by that person.

[@OnGodsLevel]

I read the comments before seeing this video and didn’t catch their names, I knew exactly who u were talking about

[@quinnhayes3046]

yep

[@jackward9901]

I understand preferences, but for me they're cultural rather than racial. I don't wanna date somebody who'd find my world alien and vice versa. For me it only becomes problematic when somebody claims to only find one race of people attractive, or says they'd only date a specific race.

[@adriananyarko2160]

Dee’s “Ion give a fUCK” sent me!!😂😂 I wasn’t expecting her to say it when she was literally agreeing with him before.

[@TevySoundMusic]

Lmao, you really called that man 4 eyes 😭😭😭

[@SMFCAWFAN]

2:13 you like NURGER LMAOOOOO 😂😂

[@biggrimdog8825]

3:50 He could say the same shit about the n word too? That ain't it, sis.

[@callumpritchard8044]

tbh i think its okay, people dont choose who they’re attracted too

[@RAY300064]

I can see both sides of the argument. I really like the idea of marrying a nigerian like myself to keep the bloodline going, but its not like I've completely ruled out other races. Just depends on where you're from to be honest.

[@deus_vult8111]

But even then Nigeria itself is diverse with different groups like the Igbo, the Hausa, the Yoruba etc. which have had big conflicts in the past etc.

[@RAY300064]

@@deus_vult8111 Correct which makes it even more tough

[@goncalodias6402]

i think that even if you are racist, when it comes to choosing sexual partners nobody should have a say about it. that is one domain where i think the slogan "my body, my choice" really aplies. why should you have to justify your taste in partners to someone unless they are trying to guilt you to have sex or a relation with them? you're not denying anyone a right by not dating them, its your right to say no, if the person doesnt accept a no, well....thats called rape.

[@daringroses]

Yeah, I somewhat agree with you

[@abnormpsych17]

@Goncalo I don't think anyone is arguing that racist people should be open to dating all races. Like what lol? I think most people are actively trying to avoid dating. racists though.

[@derrick1288]

???? Why would I wish my partner was the same race as me? If I wanted to date someone as the same race as me then I would have. I chose this man standing next to me, because he is the person I wanted to date.

[@preciousbrown7962]

😂 Dee I appreciate your reactions bcuz we say almost the same things around the same time. Lol 😂 I love it here 💕

[@wife0fsunwoo]

I think its preferential based off what features and cultures you find most attractive. In that sense, I do have a preference, BUT, at the end of the day, I'll date whoever I love that loves me. You usually never end up with your preference anyway. Also it's constantly changing anyway, you could be blocking your blessings by focusing only on one specific group as well. My boyfriend is black, black men will always be at the top of my list because of how much we can relate to eachother (something that's very important to me). It differs for each person though.

[@kingmedjai9433]

The term racist has been watered down to much. A lot of stuff that people call racist is just ignorance or preference. Like how is it racist that you prefer one ethnicity over another? Now if you go on to talk down about those other ethnicities then that's racist.

[@dshunhall3793]

Race is NOT a preference… that’s weird…

[@kingmedjai9433]

@@dshunhall3793 what are you talking about? You can 100% prefer something like that. Don't act like if there was a room full of people you wouldn't PREFER to sit with a particular ethnic group. Most likely the one you grew up around.

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love... But don't put your life on hold waiting for love. 🦋🦋🦋

[@michaeljordan7733]

@7:43 dee face took me tf out🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Koalatronic]

I've dated across the spectrum of race really, but in complete honesty I think it is just less complicated to date your own race. I absolutely believe mixed race relationships are beautiful and enriching, but it's more complex too and whilst I won't avoid another race, I do expect I'll end up just settling down with someone from my own race as it is less complicated and more familiar.

[@vibez.no.cartel]

Lol I can tell you're white🤣

[@puriodt7194]

Daamnn these questions go DEEP

[@hsfan876]

Actively involving race as a factor in the dating world or really any social interaction is really foreign to me. I grew up and I naturally neglected the entire concept of race because the environment I grew up in thankfully didn't teach me to make distinctions based on race and skin colour. Some of my closest friends have been Black or Asian or Mixed-Race or whatever else and I never thought about their race until I became more active on social media and saw conversations online where race was discussed. And what's more, is that my environment isn't even the most diverse environment to grow up in. Majority of the people I know are also white but I was never taught to discriminate. Australia being Australia, casual racism towards Asians, in particular, has always been normalised but that's about the only racist/racist-adjacent attitude or behaviour that I had to be mindful of and make sure I didn't adopt. This experience solidifies my opinion that racism is taught and to think that the solution (to not teach it!) is so simple yet complicated is infuriating.

[@Michael-bx4ql]

Yooo lmao Chris(tian) is my brother. And when they got to the "betrayed my own race" topic I was like 👀👀 cause we've had those conversations before...

[@xorock9387]

4:41 WHEN I TELL YOU I DIEDDDDD AT THAT

[@soggytomales893]

I think it's OK if you like a certain races features. Say you like dark skin, or you like curly hair, or like blonde hair, or monolids. But going as far as just like that race cause they are that race is weird af. Like them for them not cause they are a certain race. Don't fetishize a race

[@AP.lovetoAll]

‼️🤔 The whole “not with us” thing is foolish. We are all one people, AND the fact that black people are more discriminated against, face more prejudice and treated unfairly doesn’t change the fact that we’re all one people.. so to make it like group against group MAKES IT WORSE. Common sense shows you can’t put out fire with fire. When that’s realize on a larger conceptual scale, we will overcome for real ‼️love. Bless ❤️‼️

[@jaymar6821]

Dee speaking factsss‼️‼️‼️‼️ Like that’s why I be afraid to date any person who is not a POC. In the back of my mind I think of some situations when racism could be used even by accident and then if views differ like I say BLM and in turn, they say ALM oh no 😂

[@wwmexd4451]

2:39 LOL YOU BETTA SPIT

[@motopaii]

I feel like it’s ok to have a preference towards your own race/ethnicity (like me) but to only want a specific race/ethnicity, to me, that’s kinda disturbing and needs to be looked into

[@King-zx4qr]

Damn you coming after Dee

[@kyraely2186]

I had some much anxiety through this Chile I just idk I think for black people it just does us no good we end up conforming to the idea that we are and will never be good enough to stand or gain anything as one unit. We are stronger when we come together and I think they know that so I feel like there’s always a agenda to get the black women and the black man to separate that’s my issues with it but it’s gon take generations to undo what the white Man has to done to the way black men think ..so just prayers to us in black community it runs so deep

[@chriscomedyy3298]

I just find it weird the same race of people who put u through all of this is now tryna make black people feel bad or look rasict for not wanting to recreate with them.

[@amourtoujours779]

I don't understand why bw make these comments. Your men clearly want nothing to do with you. You're in that fight ALONE.

[@vibez.no.cartel]

@@amourtoujours779 yh but in that sense you could say the same for most white women in he younger demographic nowadays. Most of them marrying and dating interracially, cos they're an easier access. At the end of the day just like what you like and get on with it, without dissing no one else.

[@lovelymelanatedbuttercup6560]

Preach👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯

[@Jay-tk2lw]

didn't know you got to choose which side you want to be on when you mixed👀

[@Jay-tk2lw]

@Gio tayyy oh ok, didn't know that.

[@evd8175]

Genuine question, why does it matter if I completely deny dating a certain race? It's not my obligation or responsibility to be open to everyone, just as much as it's not your responsibility to date me just because I begged you for a date. It's no one's responsibility to date anyone if they don't like the way they look. My preferences developed naturally over time and I never let society influence my attraction. As a bisexual person, I don't call gay men sexist for refusing to date women. If I'm not attracted to a certain group of people, I can't force myself to date that person because it waste both of our time. I like who I like 🤷‍♀️

[@nisi9634]

Its mostly whether that certain face group is denied bc of ignorance or racism. If you like all other race groups except one, that's definitely stemming from some type of racism. There's nothing wrong with not dating specific races, as long as it doesn't stem from someone bad

[@Sandland113]

I come from a multiracial family so when it comes to dating women I don't have a preference & I have dated every woman on the book including black women & I would never disrespect black women I actually put them first but I love all women!

[@poopa7642]

I had preferences for every color woman except black. But this only happened because my time in HS, the black girls were brutal to me and were kinda not just for me in certain ways. But I left my state and met more black women and shh. Now I love them.

[@luiszapata513]

Preferences are weird if you like someone you like someone regardless of race

[@DanielDimov358]

2:20 - Well, in that case, if you really can't tell when your partner is just joking versus when he/she is trying to offend you, then why are you together? I can understand this argument only if you've been in a relationship for some time and they know you don't like it when they call you this word.

[@octane1713]

I Can personally never understand closing myself off to one race. There are so many different races, and you could give me a race for me to easily find a beautiful individual that fits the bill.

[@jevislife5675]

11:44 they were all capping

[@bluebear9228]

Racial preferences are dumb for me particurely if its ur own race cause the reason behind it is always streotypical n negative. Like how u not gonna find someone the same skin colour as u not attractive?

[@hers6694]

@@manolo5042 that’s fine as long as u not putting those other races down in favor of whoever u with, but it’s still just a weird mindset

[@cadyg2531]

Thank you! Self hate

[@bluebear9228]

@@manolo5042 exactly

[@hers6694]

@Gio tayyy that part ❗️

[@mystomachhurts4826]

I think the biggest thing is that so many people don't know the difference between them having a preference and them not automatically dating a certain race because they don't want to date a certain race

[@humblegrind8]

That question when they asked if they felt like they betrayed their race, I felt that.

[@kkbae2327]

2:10 she was speaking facts though ngl🤔🤔

[@Rope24KK]

Dee preaching at the end‼️💯

[@SmallLegacy]

Alot of things people saying here are common sense, like duh preferences are not something you're born with. A lot of your preferences come from your upbringing and life experience, your sexuality. People don't date other people who they don't find attractive. Period.

[@Nene_760]

I don't think it really matters . As long as yall vibe an push each other in life . Just my opinion. My ex fiance was black/Mexican. Maybe thats why I think that .

[@Jsixlmeyxilanzyisnaizj]

@@FatalCorleone07 lol no.

[@joelx3612]

@@FatalCorleone07 Hispanics don't even like black people like that, so no

[@Xanderxindershin]

@@FatalCorleone07 They are not the same. And I’m tired of seeing black dudes trying to equate a “latina” to a “sista.” Just gone get you one and be quiet. And, hispanics are actually from Spain. That’s what the term originally denotes.

[@joelx3612]

@@FatalCorleone07 How I'm a liar when I face it first hand. sounds like your in denial. Do you see how they treat black people in other countries?

[@aengusog3415]

@UCe9szOgC3TalEZusD-v40HA sir imma need you to shut the fuck up cuz hispanics aren’t black, they’re colonized Spaniards

[@ashuntilong7931]

I feel like it’s only a preference in the black community but they really colorist!! I feel like black girls the only female that have to deal with things like this! Like we all black why y’all like a certain color? When we the only race that goes thru this when u have a type u say I like black girls or white girls not brown skin ligh skin y’all get what I’m saying!!

[@vibez.no.cartel]

Realise non black men are just as colourist towards black women too. Because if they do date a black girl usually she's mixed black or lightskin black. Even if they did follow BW on socials, its the same case idk why yall choose to be delusional

[@brykoech]

4:39 I'm DEAD

[@NaturallyZandra]

I agree with you Dee. I think I’d rather take my chances with my people. It’s too many risks associated with dating another race with the climate of the world right now

[@hopefaith1138]

8:54 bless my ears 😁😭 .

[@Dennis-zk4wv]

For someone to be racist, there has to be some form of intention involved. That's my opinion at least

[@MrMarkelis]

Every girl I dated has been Mexican honestly I didn’t plan it that way just happen now the first one her grandma was kinda racist and was really the reason we ended up breaking up but not gonna go into that haha but It didn’t turn me off to dating outside my race

[@doernbecherr]

W🤝

[@justhere7745]

Old heads tend to be more racist unfortunately

[@MrMarkelis]

@@justhere7745 so I have been told haha

[@Xanderxindershin]

@@doernbecherr How is this a W?

[@ley5230]

@@Xanderxindershin thank u

[@youalreadyknowwhoitis4904]

You should react to jack harlow & druski Goat talk on complex it’s funny asf 😂😂😂

[@deqwannash2345]

You guys got us fucked up so badly lol

[@Chris-id3vt]

Dee mad fine idc what y’all say✋🏽❤️

[@jonc5451]

@18:30 If you are going to make a video on this Topic, Cynthia G has alot of content on her page.

[@besrqq]

imo if u look good u look good💀

[@samuelk1717]

4:41 💀💀💀

[@yigs598]

I could never feel like I betrayed my race for someone I love , you expect me to feel guilty about how people who have the same skin color as me who I dont know will never know feel about someone I do know

[@PaulChapmanPcTech]

Why wouldn't it be ok to have a preference? I'm about as white as they come but I love Black and Latino people the most. As Zach points out here kzbin.info/www/bejne/aZjQfKuhh7-thpY The nicest people and the best food.

[@Shadowblade_-yi5hr]

5:40 she just contradicted herself cuz she’s basically saying that it’s okay to get into a relationship based off of fetishizing that person’s race as long as you grow and realize it’s wrong in the end. So if she herself realizes that it’s wrong from the jump, why is she giving other people a pass simply based off of the notion “as long as they realize it’s wrong in the end”? If she wouldn’t do it herself why is she letting other people slide if she knows it’s wrong to begin with? Just a weird mentality/mindset to have 🙄🤦🏾‍♂️. Like no one should ever get into a relationship with someone outside of their race simply cuz of a fetish (that quite frankly, they shouldn’t have to begin with tbh) about that persons’ race that they have.

[@thefirstsurvivor]

Yes perfectly fine

[@yams.4308]

4:40 LMAO!

[@divine-aliharris4553]

Road to 800k

[@legitjustice]

sounds like the same thing my big sis went thru dee must have adated the same guy my sis did they all from the same place

[@aaronvod]

13:03 😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😭😭😭🤣😂

[@Jas_24]

I’m early for once lol

[@simazenji4025]

2:56 I could tell just by looking at that white Girl that she likes black guys 😂😂🤣😂

[@pattycarljackson]

I mean society does play a role but at the end of the day why does it matter? people can date who they want and it be nobody else's business you cant force someone to date another person who they aren't attracted to. It doesn't matter how we feel about it it snot our business or place to ell others how to feel or think and who to date.

[@wwmexd4451]

This was juicy

[@antoniosshampoo3365]

I can find myself being with any race no doubt no second thoughts so…

[@b_v1]

2:13 😭😭

[@stolencomment666]

4:41 I'M DOOOONE

[@yoli4390]

mixed race is pretty interesting not gonna lie like wow u mixed Asian n black or mixed white n black that cool

[@legitjustice]

u fetishsizing them rn just by saying they cool cause they mixed dont do that

[@dominiquejohnson8690]

Character over color!

[@bynahelemaal]

For me it’s become more about culture, religion, rituals, and traditions… almost all are oppressive towards girls or put pressure a couple to do things a certain way, the way family wants, while I’ll do it how ever I want, which includes none of the above, other than, if I had kids, for them to be educated about other cultures, but not to live by those rules! Nobody’s gonna interfere and demand or decide how I should be or what I should do in a relationship! Tradition is just peer pressure from old/dead people! Other than like food/music/clothing/art, anything else in all cultures, any set of rules/demands is unnecessary! I saw somebody once post that “to her religion should be limited to don’t kill/cheat/steal/lie and that’s it!” And I agree!

[@whip1720]

The black gay guy definitely has some self hate in him

[@jaydenmaragh4110]

Yes why shouldn’t u be able to prefer a race just cause you don’t find a race attractive don’t mean u dislike the race and then as human beings/individuals

[@imaniluvsu1]

Every man in my family has been in relationships with yt women. Now I'd PREFERRED if they'd be with Black women but I also know that they weren't purposely choosing them. One of my brothers did have a relationship with a Black woman and has adult sons with her who now have been in relationships with yt women. My son has been in a relationship with a biracial Black girl and has dated yt women. Between him and one of my nephews they both said they'd PREFER to date Black women but the only Black women they've come close to dating are African women. The problem with that is they're too YOUNG because they're studying at the university.

[@luxoclermenceau2935]

Culture is more relevant then race

[@hoihoii914]

race is a American thing I dont care about race I only date my own ethnicity

[@deqwannash2345]

Not even so close

[@rinam3324]

It is your right to be as selective as you want about your partner. As long as it is legal under the law, it is no one's business or concern. Anything else is coercion and rape culture lite.

[@kadeemmarajeen1879]

Hy it’s okay to have a preference, that’s what makes us humane, imagine everyone liking the same thing, the world would be so boring

[@tredeen97]

I wanna see your garden

[@ayoolukoga9829]

Place your faith on Jesus. Jesus died so that you can have everlasting life. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one gets to the Father but by him. Trust Jesus. Repent. Have a good day

[@xhaosreigns]

No

[@deqwannash2345]

You know very that's very weird

[@deqwannash2345]

Really bro

[@Xanderxindershin]

Black only for me. Maybe mixed. But I don’t have time for the race games. I’m also on a mission in life and I can’t do that with someone non black. They’d literally slow me down or stop me from making progress. Also, I just don’t like paleness… 😬

[@beary523]

Yikes

[@kilisloe3474]

This is the most racist thing I've read all year TBH.

[@ltgaming1190]

@@kilisloe3474 how bc he only likes black girls lol he black to

[@kilisloe3474]

@@ltgaming1190 No, it's because of the last sentence. Also being blck doesn't give an excuse for such blatant racism. Edit: I forgot to put 2 for last 2 sentences.

[@ltgaming1190]

@@kilisloe3474 what did he say that was racist lol

[@deqwannash2345]

Oh shittt lol