Is Marriage Worth It?

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Leave a comment below. Bottom line: marriage is a low risk & high reward deal for women BUT it's the opposite for men. If you want to learn how to vet women better for a LTR or marriage, here is the book I mentioned in the video: amzn.to/2evDpws If you need coaching, book my time here: clarity.fm/richardcooper

[@Zz33zzz]

Entrepreneurs in Cars . Superb videa. I'm 5 months into my divorce. 2 or 3 months to go. I decided to file for divorce but as in your 1st point. It was her who said she wasn't in love. Appreciate the videos. Really helping me through this tough time

[@TheM.A.]

Entrepreneurs in Cars it would be good to mention that women that are required to pay support when men get custody aren't held to near the standard men are. I have proof if you need it.

[@journeytrials]

Joe Jones which is a rear 9 out or 10 times the courts side with women!

[@charlesvonhollstein4341]

"Where Have All The Good Men Gone? They're Staying Clear Of Worthless Women" Have You Watched Some Of Her Vids? She Has 415,000 Views.. She's Using The "Cool Shades On While Driving" Platform Too!! She's Not A "Fan" Of The Stereotypical Woman Of Today... (At Least It Appears That Way) ;)

[@Zz33zzz]

I was so close to contacting the ex but didn't thanks to these vids I didn't.

[@schallrd1]

Women cry at weddings. Men cry after weddings.

[@luxuryqueen42]

schallrd1 roflmao 🤣

[@brillianttorquoise.1680]

@xc5647321 xc5647321 for the wife, and for the husband its the most expensive lol

[@ppumpkin3282]

Before I got married I felt incomplete. After I got married I felt like I was finished.

[@psgamer3741]

Lol

[@JoseSanchez-sp2ex]

Lol true

[@SilveryFoxster]

Instead of getting married, cut out all the pain and heartache and buy a house for someone you hate.

[@johnkoch9447]

Hahahahahahah!!!! Fuck that's good!!!

[@DarkiPoker]

Hahahaha nice one

[@chelsatabithavalley6685]

your dad hey dad don’t hate, it’s just another opinion lmao 😂

[@chelsatabithavalley6685]

DarkiPoker yes it is a good one ☝️😘

[@hurtlocker1040]

😂 lol

[@biffbifford402]

I'm living this nightmare now. Everything he speaks is the truth. Knowing what I know now, I would have never have been married and had a child. The ex will lie in court to ruin you despite having never done anything wrong. I'm paying 3x in support than what it cost to raise him. And still fighting in the courts to see my son. All this, DESPITE never doing anything wrong!!! It happens. I'm living proof.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Shitty story, but thx for sharing your experience. Time will make things a bit better.

[@papermario2169]

Ex’s are the worst at least with regular relationships you don’t have to see them again but marriage holy shit ur fuked

[@mortelk6104]

The problem is the goverment know about these woman. It knows that these single moms with children and this mindset/behaviour will cause a lot of trouble AND costs. And the trick of the goverment is im mostly of the western coutries not to deal with these high costs! And to give an example ... in Germany back in the days there was law written like: who is responsible for the end of marriage. And it had big influence to the whole money part. cus if the wife was a whore and slept with another men during marriage - she got nothing! But the fun part was they changed the law and now we have the situation as Richard described. Cus now men pay for all this insane crazyness. Not the goverment pays for a single mom and the kid (lot of them) ... NO the men pay for it ... even if they are not responsible for her cheating. Thats so insane and woman abuse this. As Richard describes they can end marriage whenever they want and they dont have to behave in and normal way in the interest of the kid(s). Smart goverment saves billions ... and men nowadays dont wanna marry anymore for very good reasons. I understand that it is not so easy to tell who is resposible for the end of marriage but the actual situation is not the solution. It makes everything so bad that it changed society hardly. In my opinion we have to go back to the old system. We have to stop this feminism crazyness and everybody should be responsible for their actions / behaviours. A better system, a fair system and trust me the amount of divorces and cheatings would decrease in a very high number.

[@Blazemoth]

I've seen your experience from the son's perspective, my mom fucked dad's life reaaaally hard and used us as trade coin.

[@wtfan8610]

Hi bifford, I'm sorry you're going through that. I can't imagine the hell you're through. Liars and manipulative people need to just live on another planet. I hope everything goes good for you and your son eventually. I'm too scared to get married because I grew up in a crappy environment with my parents fighting all the time. I honestly would be happy if my boyfriend just came back to our house everyday after work and that's all I need. He comes back LOL. I'm not saying I'm rich but I made about 4 grand a month for an easy driving job and this guy is a huge loser I dated worked at a just bit minimum wage job.. He overlooked what I had in my bank account every week when I was checking my bank account one day. so he start kiss my ass saying he want to get married then suddenly the company closed down and I got a normal job like him and he left. What a coincidence right? Then my stupid ass got back together with him because he found out I would be in inheriting money from my father. He expect me to give him some at money for his business which is a joke. Band banners actually, they're cool but you don't make much revenue on. And coincidentally I caught him cheating after I told him he's not entitled to my money even if he marry me because we haven't been together that long and I didn't tell them this but I had a underlining feeling that he was up to something. So yeah, women get gold diggers to just not often as you guys do. I wish the best for you you sound like a good person

[@xyzct]

Is marriage worth it? HELL YES!!! ... if you're a woman.

[@1cedamxya168]

Some women's

[@1cedamxya168]

Lets Go nope you never know other ppl opinions on marriage

[@1cedamxya168]

Lets Go Guess what

[@1cedamxya168]

Lets Go Good to know I didn’t ask for that.

[@1cedamxya168]

Lets Go This isn’t a roasting I don’t need to have a come back I’m just saying every women when their grown they probably wouldn’t want to Mary that’s my reason because you never know other women opinion yes I may be just a teenager and may not know much but some women don’t even like mentioning marriage so don’t try to assume things.

[@ovnilab]

Marriage is like a hurricane, in the beginning there’s always a lot of blowing and sucking going on… But in the end you always end up losing the house!

[@jayprrr1974]

Lmao Good one dude! 👍

[@edwinkamunge]

😂😂lol

[@bodhi9464]

Gold 😂 ... and true 🇦🇺👍🏽

[@zombies4evadude24]

Brilliant 😂

[@edkennedy7952]

LOL

[@haleytruslow7200]

Oh yeah and my dad was paying THOUSANDS in child support each month even though my mom made plenty of money. She just spent it irresponsibly.

[@Matthew-qt3jk]

@Insidious Sid The most financially capable parent should hold the custody, of course most of them are men so it goes to them.

[@shadowwolf2918]

My money is my money your money is my money is what a women thinks

[@s.boundless3163]

@Insidious Sid Another thing, if a Man actually wants to be in his childs life (which a lot of them do), then they should have 50/50 custody. There's absolutely no reason why a man should be on "child support" if he truly wants to be their for his children. Money isn't a replacement for having a father in life.

[@pedrocastillo2674]

You smart

[@SebiJupanu]

thanks for that

[@antonthemanton3065]

After 8 years of marriage, I initiated my divorce. The last 3 years of marriage it became a intimacy/sexless marriage. I was patient.... gave her 3 years without sex to figure out, discuss with therapist, marriage counselors, ect... to work with me to fix the intimacy problems. After 3 years I just told her I have no use for a sexless marriage.

[@Brascobadboy]

What was her response

[@piedramultiaristas8573]

...

[@Brascobadboy]

Kakejolas who killed who. Huh.

[@ssimon64]

@@Brascobadboy it was a joke

[@rickV-zy6eh]

More than likely she was banging someone else.

[@surfallday6583]

I'm in my mid 50's and see the look of defeat in some of my male married friends and when asked why I never married I just grin.

[@ThomasSDavis-mc9of]

Clearly, you've benefited from the power of simple observation

[@goldeneagle3678]

@@hogant.551 Yeah.. Hookers are always there they are so beautiful and can be used for sex only :D

[@harvestingseason2725]

Surfallday did you have kids?

[@emreduygun]

@George Duffy what?! are you effin' stupid?

[@feliciakidd9358]

🙂👍

[@m2goofy760]

A woman wants a wedding, and the security that a husband provides...and the guarantee of cash and prizes if he is unwilling to submit and put her happiness above his own. A man has absolutely nothing to gain from marriage, it is all risk and a diminishing asset that becomes less infrequent until the only thing she had to offer you you were interested in becomes a memory of better days... Now for those men who do not enjoy sex and like to be a punching bag...marriage is right up your alley! What blows my mind are the guys who marry more than once...how do you escape a prison only to knock on the door of another prison and ask the warden if you can serve some time there!?

[@dh12.]

I ended a possible "relationship" after just the first "date" after i witnessed her parking in the handicap space just to run into the store for a minute. That action alone told me everyrhing i ever needed to know about her!

[@frenchalpscycling5283]

Good choice!

[@jbscornerstore]

Yep!

[@findmeacrosstheroom]

@Joy Ellen If only female comedians just went on stage and casually spoke their mind like Joy here. Then no one would ever say women aren't funny, because they'd be too busy laughing to even try.

[@nellatl]

Dave H handicap parking spaces are a hot topic today 😂

[@wtfan8610]

This doesn't occasionally break a chance with a guy but if he's annoying enough this is the last straw, when somebody brings him a plate of food and they dump salt all over it before even tasting it, then they complain how it's too salty. I actually dated someone who did this all the time to my cooking and I would literally make chili for hours, soups, whatever. I like to cook, and I do that after a whole day of working 10 hours and cleaning my own house. Sorry I'm kind of ranting here LOL

[@VoIPPortland]

Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel. -Leonardo da Vinci Married men live longer than single men. But married men are a lot more willing to die. -Johnny Carson A man in love is incomplete until he has married. Then he’s finished. -Zsa Zsa Gabor Funniest contradicting phrases: 1.Clearly misunderstood 2.Exact estimate 3.Small crowd 4.Act naturally 5.Found missing 6.Fully empty 7.Happily married

[@CD-io2dm]

VOIP Portland This comment is pure gold!

[@lpd1snipe]

Happily Divorced, front tag on my car.

[@kenshowalter1679]

LMAO

[@fubar2231]

I remember Johnny Carson saying that when I was a young man and I have lived my life with this saying in mind!

[@Mack_Diesel_TBAS]

8. New and improved

[@drbassface]

Imagine if the Actual Wedding Vows were “LEGALLY BINDING” for both parties! Since they are not...Marriage is a joke and a scam. Lose, lose for men.

[@mcgyverb1664]

Life is so much happier without being married, I love the the gym, sports cars, and designer clothes, wife is when you're finished with life.

[@michelletonkin8855]

So she will care for you in your later years??

[@michelletonkin8855]

Marriage is to build a futute together hopefully in love. Praps you married the wrong person. Most girls want the fairy tale. They do not start out to deceive so something changed her praps. Show appreciation for each other may help stay in love.

[@conorallen100]

@people of the way ministries gen z here girls in my gen 22 and under are more for marriage than the melenials before us

[@Zeriel00]

Yea every girl is up for marriage the problem is STAYING married. Marriages now days are up until the women become dissatisfied or find a better man. The laws are in favor of this, men are disposable and the only alternative we have to win is just not playing the game.

[@terminatorx2545]

@@michelletonkin8855 It could be the reverse. My uncle had to be a nurse maid to his wife after she got ms.

[@ronbronb]

Kinda worked when life expectancy was 30 and there were no microwaves.

[@bigtravis1968]

20+ years and 3 kids later she grew restless Wanted the kids and the support and the visitation Our oldest son 13 at the time told her NO WAY I’m staying with dad When our younger son turned 14 he came with me She turned to drugs and I got my daughter at 12 Moms mostly am embarrassment for the kids now She’s heading for a nervous breakdown Couldn’t happen to a nicer person

[@fabulousdolphin4221]

epic

[@kanishk2643]

Great. You got lucky though. Only in extreme cases does that happen. Your guardian angel was on your shoulders.

[@davidturner1641]

I only dated 2 women last year. The first one manipulated me and showed her ex being mean to her.... She did that to him ALL the time. CALLED THE COPS... about every other week. When she realized i was no chump she started doing the same to me as far as setting me up to be ANGRY AND making it look like I was a psycho. Even though I literally never got mad, she made it look like I was mad. Saying things like"why are you upset" in front of people. She had done the same with her ex to get me to think he was psycho. ... Literally I asked her for ONE kiss at her house during a party, and two guys ran up and asked her if she was "OK," one of them was in a biker gang. (Two weeks earlier she had been asking me to live at her house, which I basically was living there!!!!! I said no, and then SHE WENT psycho and started all this crap). I left the party and blocked her, erased her and I only remember her to tell the story.... Half of all women these days HATE MEN and are EVIL.

[@OOTO.]

Men problems: Tryna make money and providing for family Wahmoon problems: I'm bored

[@OOTO.]

@ What a piece of shit of a human wow

[@raga7729]

Agree 100%. Going through divorce as we speak. We agreed to custody 50/50, money 50/50. Two days before I was supposed to move out she called police and said I assaulted her. So they kicked me out of my house. Two days later county sheriffs showed up at my door and handed me order of protection papers which included my kids. So 4 days prior I was good enough father to have them 50% of the time but now I’m a monster. Women make decisions based on emotions. Stay away. Don’t get married.

[@markwhite7437]

Dude. Yeah. I feel you there. Got that PO myself. Total garbage. Ex parte. No hearing for 1.5 years for me. That violates due process. Supposed to be 30 days. Right….

[@Doom5000]

“Guys it is your life and you only get one so make it a good one” words to live by

[@macfly7476]

So fortunate to have worked in a courthouse in my early 20's. I remember making a promise to myself to never put myself in a situation of vulnerability towards women (children, marriage, living together). I'm 44 now, it has served me so well particularly when I look at devasted guys around me. So sad.

[@mrmarkcima]

Fuckin A. I just ended a relationship today. She wanted marriage. I was so unsure going into it. I loved her and could’ve been a good life partner. Short term pain will be better than the pain and devastation of divorce and being obligated to pay for her future lifestyle and child support.

[@danielkliemczak3450]

I was the kind of guy who dreamed to marry... And always heard from other dudes I was better single... And usually I thought "nha... With me will be different..." Now I am going through a divorce... 😐 And thinking... "dang.."

[@EliteProAli]

Damn bro sorry to hear.. So depressing.. Hopefully you make it out in a better position 🙏🏻

[@jonathanLToronto]

I hope you are better now.

[@RandyFricke]

"When you're good at something, never do it for free..." The Joker Pay the man. He knows his shit.

[@hamza-kx8hv]

The jocker in that movie is not a villain but a man who understand the bitter reality of anarchy and human pschy

[@theshapeexists]

@@hamza-kx8hv he blew up a hospital and tried to kill boat fulls of people. He most certainly is a villain .

[@hamza-kx8hv]

@@theshapeexists still he represents the shadow in all of u . Carl Gustav gung was right .

[@Trip4man]

@@theshapeexists Did he killed anyone on those situations??? He was trying to prove something and you didn't absorb the main idea... When the chips are down EVERYBODY is in it for themselves! No time for humanity or civil behavior! When the opportunity arises... EVERYONE turns into an animal! There are some exceptions of course... But for the most part... No there isn't! It's like.... If you find a briefcase with a billion dollars would you give it to people or take it all for yourself?? Even if you gave it all to other people that would be considered somewhat crazy! The thing is, since it was a movie and nothing REAL was on the line... They had the luxury to make Joker look like a villain and it had an happy ending. That's stupid Hollywood - you can't make movies where everybody dies and show the dark nasty nature of people. That would be horrible. Oh, there's also another thing... For the smarty pants... When you shine these facts in the face of people they will ALWAYS chose the right thing. But if no one is watching, they'll do the wrong thing for sure! Out of sight, out of mind kind of thing. It's a mask, it will always be a mask...

[@freisein6554]

You are saving lives.

[@nellynelson6574]

People dont seem to comprehend one very important fact in marriage. A girl only stands to gain from marriage, and the guy only stands to lose. Thats it! There is no other possible scenario, this is the only outcome that will occur.

[@thealchemist91]

I'm 24 and i've seen enough in relationships and in your vids, to know that long term you can't trust women enough to bet half your money and goods on it. Still want to have a real relationship, but i'm never signing for marriage. Thanks for the video, very enlighting !

[@desertmav8632]

I’m SO GRATEFUL I’ve never been married and I’m SO GRATEFUL I’ve NEVER had kids!

[@elerlopez4770]

I agree but I still hopefully would like a family

[@feliciakidd9358]

🙂👍

[@chadguindon6909]

Lots of men are choosing not get married or be in a LTR, they are voluntarily single.

[@MB-md6fn]

So right ! 2years out from my divorce, and child custody war. Every point of this is 100% correct.

[@wronggg]

"Yes." -MacKenzie Bezos, 2019

[@rodpruitt8926]

Love your advise. It's good solid talk. I have been married for 29 years. I think it has been worth it, but IT'S VERY DIFFICULT TO KEEP IT TOGETHER. I tell my son to avoid women from Western cultures. Western women are more spoiled, aggressive, discontented, and poisoned by the toxic form of feminism. We have relatives in Africa who are going to help him find a good African woman. Also, I had a great woman from Haiti before I was married.

[@robertmassive5335]

Dude... Am from Kenya... It doesn't get more African than that... Women here are just the same... Woman's nature is the same everywhere... Our customs have been diluted by social media and all that... Trust me... Its the same here

[@SirusQZ]

You do have to be careful about the culture of the West being transported through the mass media which has been taken to another level through the internet. Information travels....and so does toxic feminism. So whether it is here in the West or in a more traditional land; vetting needs to still be quite deep. Perhaps years ago before the information age...being in a traditional land and culture would have almost been all the vetting you needed...but not in today's times. Check for a woman who has grown up in deeply spiritual and religious household where live out the truth about God esteeming marriage and hating divorce. Someone who really gets the mind of Christ when it comes to marriage. Otherwise, if you get married the post-modern secular way and everything that comes with; everything will be on shifting sands instead of the solid Rock of Christ. And make sure the woman is truly Christian in substance and spirit...NOT Christian in name only yet post-modern-anything-goes-secular-in-substance....such women are at high risk to betray the marriage bond just like any other secular woman.

[@gu2755]

I'm a lady from South Africa 🌻🌞🌈🦄🇿🇦 everything that is being said here is so true. It's very sad that women are trying so hard to be men it's like an endless competition most have lost that feminine thing that makes us great women and its only getting worse.

[@hanaah5385]

@@sbc4434 oh so its called fairer sex hahahahah

[@Random_Blip]

Point 5 (Desire tanks in women much faster than men), my guess for this is that a lot of women are like spoiled children and spoiled children get bored easily.

[@sunburntrambler7967]

Hit the nail on the head.

[@jasonf9506]

Love your videos. People very seldom question "The Script." Meet a girl, fall in love, get a job that eventually pays well but makes you miserable, have kids, buy a bigger house, count the days until retirement then spend your final years telling stories about your bratty grand kids and taking trips to Florida. Question the script gentleman. Find out who YOU are and what makes YOU happy. I know a lot of 'successful' people and very few of them are truly and genuinely happy.

[@tweeterthemonkeyman383]

Marriage is a deathtrap for a man.

[@tweeterthemonkeyman383]

Great, Great video!!!!!!!

[@travisodermatt2472]

I'm 44 and never married just lived together for 8 yrs and had a kid together.

[@MGTOWPaladin]

Marriage is like Las Vegas! If you bet wrong, you lose everything! It's not worth the gamble!

[@krispybacon1651]

The cold hard truth. Men,don''t get married. Pump and dump.

[@MrHkl8324]

They will "metoo" you. Just use hookers.

[@KILL16ONLINE]

@@MrHkl8324 costly habit

[@michaelangst6078]

until they reach their late 30's and are depressed as fuck, and random hookers don't do it for them anymore...

[@ssimon64]

@@KILL16ONLINE Far less costly than marriage! at least with hookers you're getting a fair deal.

[@michaeloesterle6652]

Men tend to stay in a marriage because he knows the game of divorce, that he will lose more than he wants.

[@_BobaFett_]

That’s why you don’t get married.

[@TinyCricket89]

I’m the 4th wife to my husband, who believe it or not is a great man who has a past of poor judgement in character. He’s an example of someone who matured later in life and I’m honestly lucky to have him. Despite that, I’ll be sure to warn my son to not make the same mistakes his father made. DON’T rush into marriage just because you think you’re in love. DON’T marry a woman who is either divorced, has kids or both. And DON’T have sex with just any woman. Being on the hook for child support without the benefit of a real relationship with your kids isn’t worth it. I’ve seen all of this blended family mess from the divorced man’s perspective and I’d be terrified of women if I was one.

[@SanaaStark]

Very educational. Most of the things you've said are accurate. Especially about women with disorders. I keep thinking of those uncompassionate, narcissistic women in desperate pursuit of a "high society" man as I'd like to call them. I've seen it happen many times, to friends and family members. Truly sad, if not pathetic. That's also why I want to remain single, happier too. Why imprison yourself in this old fashion constitution? Am a woman in my 30s, also an Early Childhood Educator (PreSchool Teacher)

[@josephstevens9888]

I had a friend whose marriage ended in a very nasty divorce. Much to his shock, he found out - during the divorce proceedings in court - that his ex was planning to divorce him for years! She was patient and plotting her exit/revenge strategy. Yes, my friend got screwed over royally by the state.

[@HerenowGoneforever]

Been married once...never again

[@deltaskyhawk]

I have been thru the divorce mill. I agree with everything you say! I have a 20 year-old son so what do I advise him? What makes absolute sense to me doesn't seem to register with him. He thinks that love is everything. I am afraid he will have to learn the hard way!

[@simranjitjawanda4923]

he will learn once he has a break up, thats what did the trick for me lol

[@Charliechorizo]

Let him follow his own destiny.

[@KJ-pu8dw]

Get him to read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi

[@alphaweeb5195]

He's 20, its completely normal to be naïve.

[@peterj.andros3996]

Yeah, I am afraid he will...tsk, tsk

[@BrizAU]

First, the engagement ring, then the wedding ring...then, the suffering!

[@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels]

I haven't watched any of Rich's older videos for a while. It's terrific, when you think about it, that there are blokes like Rich out there, advising younger guys on lifes pitfalls and opportunities.

[@MrAgsalud]

Thanks for reminding this divorced father of 4 to stay single, maaaa brutha from a diffint mutha!!!

[@jerrybruckhart9134]

Teach your children red pill philosophy!

[@danbruno5945]

My brothers living the dream he found a way, -He lives separately from his long term partner and has done for 10 years now - She also loves living separately -They have 1 son together so he pays he £60 per week support so not too much. -He enjoys his life because it's low risk,he has a woman happy with living alone. -They do things as a family like 3-4 times a week and they sleep over at each other places 3 or 4 times a week. -This means they both also have small time away from each other to recharge. -His partner changed her surname via deed pole so they all have the same name - No money arguments because he pays support for 1 kid rest of the money is his,she has his support and the Child benefits/housing etc paid for.

[@gu2755]

This is so cool very cool I love this a lot👌🏾 🌻🌞🌈🦄🇿🇦

[@than0s99]

Yep..I tell my guy friends this stuff all the time. My wax wife had an affair better part of a year I’m guessing, I took care of the kids while she was at work, over nights. We had our kids, plus a foster baby all in diapers, whom which I changed and feed, woke up constantly every night. All the while having a full time job doing carpentry, and coming home to grab groceries, and prepare dinners. When I went to the lawyer, he basically said I’d be paying an unrealistic amount, and what my wife had done the courts don’t care. Lost everything I worked so hard for, and eventually got tired of the drama, and walked away from my kids. I love them but mentally I wasn’t in a good place. My life is pretty good, and I have a wonderful woman. But definitely my life will never be the same.

[@HTownguy100]

I’m not going to even watch or listen. The simplistic answer is NO! Don’t think about it and don’t do it!

[@emreduygun]

Family law needs to get changed to level the field and offer recourse to millions of men who were abused and systemically destroyed. We need to get organized and particularly remain vigilant against those who oppose and refuse reform in family law and those who benefit from the current biased status quo. No buts, no ifs, no exceptions, get politically, socially organized, create grassroots and get this done.

[@slobooger]

Women have no incentive to behave through the friggin MARRIAGE!!!! Let alone the divorce! They have a lot more to gain by behaving horribly through marriage, and the divorce.

[@codyduncan6801]

Justin V Time to bring back "rule of thumb" laws! Lol

[@SM77785]

Is Marriage Worth It? Uhhh, no.

[@diyoverhauler5432]

Say No to marriage and student loans. Work hard and read every book you can get your hands on.

[@dashingmay]

My parents were married for over 27 years. And they had a loving marriage. My dad would have been lost without my mom, and mom would have been a boring spinster without my dad. They complimented one another.

[@_BobaFett_]

You’re in denial.

[@subzero4119]

So what?

[@judoka1976]

Is marriage worth it? Quick answer: no

[@alinastanescu4430]

Long answer:this video

[@brianhill5009]

At 71, I have long considered myself a confirmed bachelor. After seeing this video, I realize I am both lucky and smart to have never tied the knot.

[@slipshaft]

I dated a woman last summer that was recently divorced. She was living a somewhat comfortable life after raising 2 daughters with her ex. She still had some of the rental properties that they had acquired together and was selling them off. She mentioned that her daughter had a baby with a guy that refused to marry her. She said he was a "stand up guy" but just refused to make that commitment, but he would otherwise provide for the daughter and the child no matter what. When I explained why guys are now taking that approach, she seemed to quickly lose interest. She once told me she was my "equal," but funny if we did anything together I was the one that wound up paying for everything. Good advice bro! All men should watch this video!!

[@AUNTIE-DEE]

A handful of rational sisters, HAHAHAHA the very opening cracked me up.

[@raidx258]

I feel kinda bad for a lot of you guys honestly. Just because the world is full of bitches doesn't mean you have to give up on what could be a potentially rewarding partnership with a woman. My experience is a little different. I met my wife when I was 19 and she was 16 - im 50 now. I was dirt poor and she accepted me as I was. I knew that it didn't matter how high and far I went in life she would stick by me because I couldn't be any poorer. We had our ups and down but the base line was already set at me being a lowly minimum wage worker. I've been lucky and make a very good living now and i'm happy so share my wealth with a person who has proven to be a valuable and reliable partner in love and in life. I think if you wait until your too old and you are financially established then the baseline is that much higher. You can't drop below what she expects you to provide in a marriage or you're basically screwed because she'll leave if you are not able to provide above the baseline. So the bad news are really for all you alpha players. You all like to play the field but at the end of the day when the playtime is over you're all end up stuck with all the gold diggers.

[@mysterio1570]

My buddy DB was told after 4 yrs of marriage and 2 kids. He was told by his ex that she lost love feeling for him and counselling was not an option. Nothing he could do about it. She also had another guy waiting in the wings. That did not last as well. He is on woman #2 and engaged. She is on guy #6 and she was married before and DB got her out of it within the year that she and DB got married in 2004. The more I get older. The less I want to get married. I am 49. I can't see how I would get married now.

[@jakebogus5361]

Child support is illegal. 42USC666 and 42USC1983. Check the operating procedures for the court in your county. Follow the money. You are paying for your judgement against you in family court.

[@thediabolicalempath7246]

Jake Bogus It’s illegal and should be banned. Family court is a joke. They throw your child to a complete stranger just to collect child support.

[@EnoI539]

About time he's standing up!

[@jameskiai2514]

You are literally saving lives,sir

[@Matt-to1sl]

I wanted to get married, genuinely, but with the way divorce laws and family courts are, I'm left with no other choice but to say no to it. I'm not happy about it, it's depressing, but that's the reality of the 21st century🤷‍♂️

[@Driverswithattitudes]

Easily one of the most useful people on KZbin. No fluff. Just Facts

[@vickrichardson819]

Was in a relationship 23 yrs and overnight she changed.Started listening to hard core rap and hanging out with younger women.What happened next, she began banging young thugs while I recovered from a major injury.Simply put marriage is a waste of a man's time.When tough times come they run.

[@chebmikhaela]

Desire drops because there is constant proximity. I think that couples should in separate houses while married.

[@WayneTheWolf]

Women crying at wedding. Men cry during divorce.

[@_BobaFett_]

😂 I will never get married. I cry my *whole* life!

[@OviLVR8]

No! I know one man that is still married my age (others got divorces) and he's miserable! Women only want to use you until they find someone else to take advantage of.

[@lucascoelho1995]

That’s very true

[@benray4fun1]

Truth be told men don't even have to be married, all you have to have is a child with a woman to be raked over the coals. I have 3 kids from 3 different women & all have taken me to court for child support. You don't have to do anything for them do get the courts involved, the money alone is the driver....

[@robfromdownunder9894]

Never sign. Be together, but don't sign. If you have a house, sign it over to a family member.

[@BrittanyGates]

Marriage is now bad for both men and women because of the state and its laws. If you choose a bad person to marry, getting that undone is horrible. I'm not married and reconsider if marriage is worth it due to the legalities.

[@glogictechsummers3045]

I wish I had heard your message when I was going into high School you would have changed my life for the better

[@Cayuse2009]

Men, everything he is saying is right on, believe him! Until divorce laws are changed, don't get married!!!

[@workingshlub8861]

good idea anymore?? its been a bad idea for 30 years.

[@thyslop1737]

Not three minutes in. Good point. My wife changes her mind 40 times a day. Ivt is enough to drive you stark raving mad.

[@undrtow0515]

Guys that don’t get married but live with a chick for a number of years become considered common law, and practically have to go through a divorce in that circumstance too.

[@seasonedveteran7732]

As a matter of survival, marriage is not worth the risk.

[@southafricangirl1698]

Oh, and I have friends and family who have been in very happy long term relationships....both partners are very happy!!

[@goofistmcnutty3280]

Marriage is completely one sided right now. People keep asking me when I am gonna marry a girl and don't understand why I respond with "never".

[@dedeborya9015]

Never Wed, Never Bred - Never Will. #MGTOW for life.

[@azlondon]

Sad

[@Runny117]

I regret getting married and having a baby. Do you sell time machines?

[@kafelesalahuddin2839]

Endgame in avengers. Go back in time to tell yourself not to get married. I'm never marrying. Fuck these hoes.

[@Smoove_J]

Getting married was the worst mistake of my life.

[@jayjenkins7425]

These laws are ridiculous 😡, she can cheat and still get alimony, she can be rich and still get alimony...wtf. I love women, but I'm never getting married!

[@nycrl5228]

i does not matter what you say if shes a good person a good partner and lover you can trust shes worth it

[@marko651]

Your friend that you went to a wedding to doesn't watch your videos , should of watch this one on his bucks night .

[@lordbeaky3496]

He probably tells him for all we know but, most likely he chooses to ignore his advice

[@gottafigureitout3566]

Brothers from another mother and a handful of rational women...lol, that was classic. I decided to never marry in my twenties, I didn't want to have children after 25. With covid lockdown intimate partner violence is gruesome so my decision payed off well. We need to pray for people with children in such a time, we need Jesus Christ. "And woe unto them that are with child, and to them that give suck in those days!" Mathew 24:19

[@earthredalert]

My mother instigated the divorce. He gave my mother the entire house that he'd paid for, he moved out and paid substantial child support and my school fees. He thought that was "The right thing to do" and he cut his losses. Should be the end of the story right? The scary part is that my mother wanted to and could have taken him for alimony but was dissuaded on a moral basis by a close friend of hers. My dad could still be paying her monthly alimony 20 years later if it wasn't for that intervention.

[@polishpimp4233]

There was a time when a woman came with a dowry. Basically whoever married that woman was given perhaps a home or a fair amount of money to take her hand in marriage. Marriage is a social construct granted so it's understandable why it's pushed. A total wild west dating market like we have right now clearly doesn't work and leads to a destabilized society. Don't think for 1 minute that a 30-40 percent incel rate is sustainable.

[@dotcom3987]

This is all i'am going to say: There is a reason why clothing in marriages and funerals are the same.

[@stephenshelton4267]

Felipe Doege that's one of the best quotes i have ever heard.

[@ShubhamSingh-dv6nb]

Only 13 likes....what!

[@denitsonbrisita]

Amen

[@schallrd1]

Don't forget about all the flowers.

[@xm377Moyocoyatzin]

Funerals are cheaper tho... :-D

[@markas1987]

Rich you are an absolute legend. Your videos are invaluable. I'm 30, already been married, and divorced. Never again!

[@gmaxsc]

Mark S right there with ya, 9 years and two kids, Rich is right on with this knowledge. Facts are hard for women to understand for some reason.

[@734ch3r]

They are emotional thinkers, and the laws are this bad because they constantly voted to expand the size of the Government and the social programs that benefit only them.

[@user-gy9ne7ev1x]

Mark S what happened?

[@user-hz4lx8gn6c]

Same here I will never marry again. It’s a BAD business model. Women left traditionalism 40+ years ago.

[@EdMcCornhole]

Tits and vaginas are the bait....the lure. Learn how to dissconnect from it.

[@Richjunior1]

marriage is a workshop! you work she shops!

[@gooddaymate1171]

I have married friends with wives that have great jobs and work hard. They're building a great future together.

[@vm8444]

Good Day Mate I do too he's not the boss more beta simp to me she rarely says hi or to my bud an electrician it's a status thing for her I guess he's happy as long as he kisses her feet she was once very hot orthodontist I think he stays for the kids and cash benefits I think he's living a lie but oh well

[@axk6047]

oh my god loool

[@SuperQdaddy]

That's great...but she better work or back down

[@magneticlifestyle465]

ROTFL!!! Rolling on the floor...laughing!

[@jackb5708]

When I see other dudes getting married I just breathe a sigh of relief that it's not me.

[@curtislegall8324]

I understand, but we should also feel bad for them because each one is a horror story waiting to happen, and we as men NEED to get men to stop marrying and passing over resources to women, and thus deny them resources in the gender war.

[@jackb5708]

@@curtislegall8324 I agree with you 100 percent. We need to deny women our time, money and attention. They started this gender war and all we need to do is walk away. Game over!!

[@shadowwolf2918]

And my sister is getting married soon and I feel bad for the guy

[@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels]

Instead of saying 'congratulations,' I now ask, 'Why?'

[@konkhemkhonta2257]

@@shadowwolf2918 is she married now

[@mhan6601]

Short answer: No. Long answer: NOoOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooo.......

[@fredericmoresmau4303]

yes but I am a Codependent Person and I completely Lack the ability to give myself Goals and Tasks to do, so I cannot Sustain any Kind of Business

[@ddppbbqq]

@dig duck *repeatedly slams the table* NEIN NEIN NEIN NEIN

[@Edgeofdavid]

Lol

[@HelvecioGomes]

LOOOOL

[@nobs4689]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@giovannaroma9527]

In todays society why would any man in his right mind still sign a contract with someone who benifits from breaking it..

[@TheSeth256]

Because men are romantic, and believe in benevolence of women. That's how society tries to make us all think. If you are careful, you're often labeled as "cold" and "heartless". Society doesn't teach honesty, it teaches deceit and sadly rewards ones who cheat.

[@giovannaroma9527]

@@TheSeth256 And social media only made things worse..

[@machinized]

well said!

[@rahulvig5298]

There's actually very interesting biology behind that. Men are visual creatures. Hence they generally only judge women based on their physical capabilities. They are easily manipulated by soft skin, soft voice, and obviously other "soft body parts". They get manipulated by their biology that they are the ones who is in control.

[@giovannaroma9527]

@@justinacase2623 🤷‍♀️

[@chrisburger4518]

My marriage cost about $1500 to enter (tux and wedding band) and $130K to end (divorce and custody battle). You do the math...

[@R.O.T.C._SEEM]

Dude seriously I use to wonder why men just kill off their wives but after seeing that, I can see why. 130K on something you had literally no control over will piss anyone off.

[@philippesilva2275]

My cost 100,maybe free to divorce

[@bencruzguzman2562]

@chris burger are you serious man??? $130k?? Shit... Money spent on attorneys, and what other things? Hope to hear from you man

[@unvaccinatedmgtowfitness]

Dam.

[@jamesmadison7551]

Jesus christ, your making terrified of getting married.

[@MrAgsalud]

Marriage = skydiving minus the parachute landing in a crocodile farm...

[@uzernam3]

LOL

[@derektheproducer]

Erwin agsalud Lmaoooo

[@MrAgsalud]

Jay Evans that's right, it's called divorce court..

[@ChroniclesofAJ]

hahaha u got it

[@MrAgsalud]

Arturo Garcia be my guest.. for sure.

[@dataminer5549]

If you're male: NO. It is not a good idea to get married. I just saved you 16 and a half minutes.

[@cardelturner8116]

All of this is bullshit!

[@grizzlybear2702]

Cardel Turner if you want to invest half your money into a woman than go ahead. Its your fault if the stock crashes in value and you lose your house. You have been warned.

[@ArkadyRenko1]

Yes, all young men stay away from. Marriages. Believe me you will never get old and enjoy every day of life.

[@fabulousdolphin4221]

haha

[@IronAddict34]

There was a short time when I felt like "Oh my, friends are getting married, making babies, I am not.. what to do?", then... they started getting divorces, telling me stories/complaining about their marriages, some just began plain cheating, living a lie, some are same age as me, but already broken/fucked up from that stuff beyond repair, it's sad to witness... and I just... live worry free, making money, just enjoying the time I have here, life is good.

[@azzaman171]

People just encourage others to marry because in the back of their mind they are scared that the single person may actually lead a better life.

[@notrealy180217]

@@azzaman171 They don't live a better life if they mentally need companionship. Most men think they need that and will never admit it.

[@mellowmood2785]

Thank your friends

[@kbeknipmeijer4428]

Story of my life bro

[@MikeyBadabingBadaboom]

That's exactly where I'm at in life. What I wanted more than anything else (love/marriage/children) but never obtained ended up becoming the best blessing in life.

[@23ofSeptember]

Avoid hairdressers named Tiffany! lol

[@akfanfortyseven8375]

hahaha..and strippers and redheads

[@mamafi70]

lol

[@freeman1352]

Avoid all hairdressers they blow everyone off

[@The_SmorgMan]

That’s why I cut my own hair. Use my razor set at 4

[@FlexxSuavee]

Write down summer to that list lol

[@CJMajesty]

The laws need to be updated.

[@dh12.]

CJ Majesty the system works exactly how it was intended to. Break up the family unit because when that happens the powers that be can get away with anything because us fathers are too busy just trying to see our kids to keep the rest of society in check!

[@coolbuddydude1]

If it does, A lot of lawyers will a huge part of their income.

[@anonymousnearseattle2788]

Some day we'll look back at Ronald Reagan with the same contempt now enjoyed by Thomas Edison's legacy.

[@inpersonaDK]

Then men needs to work to forwards at update or else nothing happens.

[@Hibernial]

HandyMan101 Updated by getting the state out of marriage ; )? Lol

[@egyptianamericanpatriot1531]

If 50% of marriages end in divorce then 75% of marriages end in misery.

[@greencrocidile6246]

Lol there should be at least a 5% happy marriage

[@robertkaranja3113]

This 5 percent is just hard work. Nothing is as effortless as the bond between dudes....

[@juniorbonner2619]

50% end in divorce... 50% end in death!

[@EgalitarianWoman]

No, marriage is the death of your personal freedom.

[@azlondon]

Young Victor Same for women.

[@azlondon]

Young Victor Marriage is the death of your personal freedom. True for men and women. Why would I feel better about stating the truth?

[@TheWeekendFriend]

TheEgalitarianFemale ////// technically, MORTGAGE is the Law French term used in Britain in the Middle Ages meaning "death pledge" .. facts. im just saying, maybe marriage should include “death” in the name too so that we can settle this once and for all, and continue fapping to reddit threads and amateur porn.

[@EdMcCornhole]

What if sex is good but you can't stand her personality? Thats where heavy booze consumption comes in.

[@EgalitarianWoman]

@Super Girl You can be in a relationship without needing to involve the government and get married.

[@donbosco4856]

My divorce AFTER 18 faithful years cost me the following: - half of my pension - half of my 401k - half of my monthly income from a six figure salry job - my health due to working shkftwork and overtime to provide for her and the kids - time with my kids as they were growing up... see above - my ability to retire... at 4i i cant possibly save enough - my ability to be a father to my children since i dont get to see them much - my house... sbe wouldnt work or even try to work or take classes to improve her employment options. No amount of overtime was enough to pay our mortgage and we lost our house in 2010 - my balls... i got a vasectomy so she didnt need the pill that was causing her migraines In the end, i was a chump and gave my life to a shitty and selfish person. My fault. I will never ever get married again and im telling my son the same thing.

[@mrski749]

I feel you brother

[@Gavi-144]

5 years later, how u doing bro?