Is "MOM GUILT" Real? Is The Stanley Cup Toxic?

Grab a steaming cup of pour over with raw milk and honey and let's discuss the famous "MOM GUILT"? Where does it come from, why does it happens, and how do we overcome it. Here's the twist, Irene and Aileeah have pretty different beliefs about it, and how it affects their parenting styles. And that's okay. Plus, is the Stanley cup REALLY toxic? Also, a chicken update! Let's get started!
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[@Sanchez.77]

I love this podcast!!!!! I just want to let you know as a mom of three kids, this is all so relatable. Life is rough enough much less having kids but it’s all so worth it in the end and so wouldn’t trade it for the world. But I feel like these conversations are so important and I feel a lot of things eternally but don’t speak about them out loud. as a mom I tend to keep these things all inside. This was awesome thankyou guys!!! also with like telling your kids what to do I feel like I explain things to my kids mind you they are all at different age levels but I explain why they need to do something the first time around maybe second time then the third time it’s because I said so that’s why I’ve already explained to you several times why you shouldn’t do this. The older your kids get things change. I feel like I am constantly evolving with my kids. There’s no perfect way just what works best for you and your family p.s irene I went to school with you!!!! - Rebecca ♥️♥️♥️ Keep it up!! this is needed!!!

[@underthesunpodcast]

Hi Rebecca! Thank you for commenting 🥰 You’re so right, it’s always evolving. The best thing we can do as the moms is see it as an adventure vs a challenge which is not always the easiest 😅

[@arikay8841]

I 100% agree with Irene we SHOULD explain why to our kids. One of our roles as parents is to teach.

[@AileeahColganMusic]

I'm not arguing that we should never explain situations to our children. My argument is that we're not obligated to always give an answer or reason for why we make certain decisions as the parents in the situation. But like we said in the episode, it's okay to disagree! 🖤

[@Chelseabee55]

I hate what the term ‘mom guilt’ has become. ‘Mom guilt’ is supposed to be something all moms feel when they’re doing their best but not harming their baby at all. For example when I was a baby I would NOT latch. No matter how my Mom tried to breastfeed it would not work. She felt so much guilt giving me formula. She shouldn’t have felt guilty, she did all she could but she needed to feed her baby. I get accused of ‘mom shaming’ or causing mom guilt when I criticize women for having a family channel, aka pimping out your children to all the ped0s of the internet. Or by saying that babies having hours and hours of screen time every day is not good for them. That’s not mom shaming/mom guilt, it’s pointing out things that are without a doubt bad or unsafe.