Hi ladies 😀 *Pain during sex is common and has many causes including physical and emotional.* Women often put up with this because they believe it is normal or due to the fact that their partner is too big. In this video I explain the different classifications for painful intercourse and the causes. Towards the end of the video I discuss the different treatments and my personal recommendations for reducing discomfort and pain. I WELCOME ANY OF YOUR QUESTIONS AS USUAL. 👩🏾⚕️️ 1:20 Female Bits - Vulva vs Vagina 2:36 Superficial Pain 2:59 Deep Pain 3:42 Vaginal Dryness 4:19 Vaginismus 5:41 Infections 6:00 Genital Warts | Genital Herpes 6:07 Thrush - Yeast Infection 6:32 Skin Disorders 7:42 Surgery, Radiotherapy 8:11 Fibroids 8:47 Endometriosis 9:10 Ovarian Cyst 9:27 Pelvic Inflammatory Disease 9:54 Cystitis - Urinary tract Infection 10:44 Emotional Causes of Painful Sex 11:23 Depression, Anxiety, Stress 12:27 Gynaecological Examination 13:56 Treatments 14:12 Recommendations: Lubricants, Creams, Tablets, Pessaries 15:20 My Final Thoughts: Pain During & After Sex
@obaayaapapabi62724 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to have both superficial and deep dyspareunia at a time?
@DrSimiAdedeji4 жыл бұрын
@@obaayaapapabi6272 Hi. Yes it is possible to have superficial and deep dyspareunia at the same time. For example having fibroids or endometriosis can cause deep dyspareunia and if a women also has thrush or vaginal dryness this will also give superficial dyspareunia. The sensation of the pain/discomfort can sometimes be complex to describe for women and the classifications are there to help to differentiate the pain and causes.
@obaayaapapabi62724 жыл бұрын
@@DrSimiAdedeji Thanks doctor
@DrSimiAdedeji4 жыл бұрын
@@obaayaapapabi6272 You're welcome!
@kaylastarks89764 жыл бұрын
I'm 22 i had sex recently for the for the first time me and my boyfriend have had sex multiple time since and it didn't hurt but recently it's hurting to the point where we have to stop almost instantly cuz of the pain it hurts during and after intercourse and when using the restroom it sometimes stings any suggestions on what it might be?
@cheerleaderMelanie3 жыл бұрын
I kind of want to cry reading the comments because I’m not the only one and that makes me feel better. I hope i can get this fixed
@IntegratedSpirituality113 жыл бұрын
Same, I feel kinda hopeless..
@Kiky8123 жыл бұрын
Same...i have a great sexual drive but i'm so scared of being rejected because of my difficulties
@TheStandardBearer4 жыл бұрын
I'm a man and I find this educational. I want my wife and I to have the best time possible so I want to learn too!
@funandlala4 жыл бұрын
I know she appreciates it ♡
@shastanwilliams224 жыл бұрын
I KNOW THAT RIGHT!!
@melissanicole76053 жыл бұрын
There should be more husbands like u
@clarakinser22633 жыл бұрын
If every man would feel like this their sex life would be better
@gsusmakama3 жыл бұрын
Cheers for this, been searching for "natural treatment for postmenopausal dyspareunia" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Siyrooklynd Eminent Secret - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? It is a great exclusive product for discovering how to end your fibroids problem without the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my partner got cool success with it.
@scarlettpulido4 жыл бұрын
You're so kind talking about these topics and you're recommendations are so honest like they sound obvious but many many people they don't even think of them, so I thank you so much for all the info.
@godslovepinky42003 жыл бұрын
It was always painful whenever am having s*x. But thank God I found doctor iyhere on youtube, he cured me with his herbal supplements
@catalinalobo85144 жыл бұрын
Why can’t i find a dr like you! :(( i feel pain since a year and no dr has given me a solution
@catalinalobo85144 жыл бұрын
I’m from Chile
@mklc_mary4 жыл бұрын
@@catalinalobo8514 Me pasa igual , pero por lo visto todo se puede tratar y mejorar.
@nullix33274 жыл бұрын
Same 😔 my doctor sent me home saying it’s because I’m not relaxed and that’s that. Good luck I hope you get well soon
@iheartmarkipliergame4 жыл бұрын
Mine sent me home with a suggestion to "try another position"
@nullix33274 жыл бұрын
@@iheartmarkipliergame imagine not wanting to look at someone’s problems because it’s inconvenient at that moment
@melissafranco73753 жыл бұрын
Why would people even dislike a video as educational as this?
@emdobz4 жыл бұрын
I know you highlighted endometriosis, but it would be really great if you could touch upon her lesser known sister adenomyosis. I was diagnosed 6 years after a laparoscopy and found little information online, most GPs I have spoken to have never heard of it. Luckily I found a good support group on FB 😊 I find that women’s health is often overlooked as we’re too scared to talk about it. Us women need raise awareness on these conditions so it’s much easier and quicker to be diagnosed!
@stargirlie52914 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much dr for explaining this. Sex is not what we see on tv and there’s so much pressure to look perfect and perform well during sex as women.
@solacelising25683 жыл бұрын
I'm a little scared now to have that pain in the future. I pray I wont experience that pain.🙏🏼 I used to suffer so bad because of Endometriosis 😭 doctors planned to remove my ovaries but I decided to not go for it because I want to have kids in the future. Stopped seeing my doctor for 2 yrs & changed my diet to more natural food. Went back to my doctor all my scary cysts are all gone & no more pain during period. I'm so blessed 🙌🏼💖🙏🏼 thank you so much Dr. Simi💖
@bernadettetongue72624 жыл бұрын
Pain during the thrusting stage and it feels like he is tap dancing on my bladder... it becomes very painful
@zanikwa4344 жыл бұрын
Me too
@gabbylopez2694 жыл бұрын
I feel like I am being socked and I refuse to have sex now it’s not enjoyable anymore it hurts so bad
@valhalla12404 жыл бұрын
I only have this after I orgasmed. I think it has to do with the muscles of the vagina being tense before the orgasm and then relaxed after... I guess the muscles work as a sort of buffer between the vagina and the other organs.
@chrissys_life4124 жыл бұрын
Same
@sunshinehahn19733 жыл бұрын
I have issues with this sometimes and my Dr has told me I have chronic bladder inflammation.. it’s very sensitive to touch, inside or out. Different positions can make it worse. If you push on your stomach about 2-3 inches below your belly button and have pain/severe uncomfortable-ness that may be the culprit.
@rockelleg.34063 жыл бұрын
I’m grateful to have found you. The topics are super important but silently spoken about or it’s met with embarrassment and discomfort but I’m so grateful to have found you and now I can teach my daughter as she grows up
@Mel-xp4kk4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Doctor for your detailed explanations, I find it really helpful, I think i might suffer from Vaginismus but i am not quite sure.. but at least now thanks to you I have a better idea of what it could be. I wished I could find a doctor like you in my country.
@morganjames65194 жыл бұрын
My doctor is useless, every time I have a problem no matter what it is. His conclusion is take paracetamol and rest.....
@s.sutherland39574 жыл бұрын
Mine all he recommend is antibiotics
@diegovalentina62084 жыл бұрын
Honestly When I found out I had herpes, I was completely lost because I didn't know what to do and I worried about how the incident would affect my relationship. I couldn't go about it but positive thinking and a healthy approach keeps me going. I tried finding help in all posible area but my efforts were to no avail. But with the help of Dr Okojie, I discussed the issue with him and I was treated after using his herbal remedy. I went back for another test which came out negastive and I was totally healed. And you can reach out to Dr Okojie on Email: drokojiesolutiontemple@gmail.com or WhatsApp/Call +2347064233454, and you will be the next to testify of his great work.
@floramansueto10774 жыл бұрын
Use bio sanitary its ok..
@dianavillegas13234 жыл бұрын
Omg mine does the same. I’ve have had pain during sex 3 years and all she says is that I’m okay make me put a cream but then she says I’m fine but I’m not fine 😭
@MaggiexFTW4 жыл бұрын
@@dianavillegas1323 I feel this! I think I'm going on 5 years of pain and everytime she just asks me about emotions. I've stopped bringing it up and have been thinking about going to a new Dr this year. I lost feeling for months and have had pain ever since, I miss the fun days 😔
@angieharris47152 жыл бұрын
This was such a good video. I was diagnosed with Vaginismus and me and my boyfriend I’ve been with for 5 years years is so supportive and knows and he actually thinks it’s special to him but to me it’s just painful at the vaginal opening and inside so sadly I deal with both my vaginal muscles are tight at the opening and inside my vaginal as well my doctor said but I have been going to physical therapy and also I am so scared to use dilators soon but I know I can do it! I have a supportive partner and that’s really good to have!
@struggledraw12203 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I just found you! I have skin problems and pain during sex and with both problems I've been at so so many docters. I prepared all the details, but none of them was interested and would listen to me. In fact all they ever did was telling me they can't help me and that I have to accept I have pain (and bad acne). You are a savior. Never ever did a doctor explain anything of this to me. Now I know that I have superficial pain and how I maybe can treat it myself. Thank you so much ♥️!
@Anime_no_joō4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I suffer from depression could that be the cause of my pain. Should I even get the laparoscopy? What if the pain is all in my head?
@perlahernandez56283 жыл бұрын
How are you feeling now girl?🥺
@mklc_mary4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this information , really thank you. It was hard for me to talk about this even to find information about this. Having a doctor making a 18 min video with a a profesional explanation is amazing. Thank you so much !!!1
@k.rabbit6719 Жыл бұрын
I love your content. I wasn't taught these things and it's great to learn this from an expert. It also makes me feel more comfortable to talk to my doctor on any issues.
@mozhdehmohammadzadeh18523 жыл бұрын
I went to 7 women dr and my sychoanalist.they did 2 operations to understand the reason of pain. and they did not even give me a name to understand what is going on with me!!! .how is it possible that a doctor behave me like something strange and unique going on with me, although this pain is so common? you just made it clear With all this details. that is already in mental level help a lot and decrease the stress. thank you🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
@bellealcalallaguno86693 жыл бұрын
I just love you :(. All my worries are gone now since I almost watched all your videos. I learned a lot from you. Thanks 🥺❤️
@viviannenge9982 Жыл бұрын
I love Dr Simi so much. I've never watched a video that covers everything in simple terms which is easy to understand. Thank you so much for this . Totally revelatory 💯💯💯
@Akinia4 жыл бұрын
One of your other videos popped up on my feed (the one about discharge) and sent me to this one. I just watched this one. I am currently thinking about changing my obgyn, but I am worried about going over all the tests again. Thanks for the informative video. The diagram of the vulva was really helpful lol.
@legoassignment40263 жыл бұрын
This is GREAT! Again, this was a frank, understandable, clear discussion! Thank you!! You are giving us the words to explain what is going on!!
@jabuhlatshwayo86954 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Simi, great channel ❤️. I've been in a relationship of 7 years now and I lost trust to my partner since the 4th month from the beginning of our relationship. Ever since I've been feeling pain and Dr's and clinics says it is an STI. I struggle a lot from depression and anxiety and no matter how much I speak about me not trusting him, nothing works. I would appreciate your advice and help. Thank you :)
@Thenoobestgirl2 жыл бұрын
Maybe start by getting a new partner...
@fa91832 жыл бұрын
But you were with him for 7 yrs?
@sharimrosenfeld71152 жыл бұрын
This video made it so clear as to what can cause the pain...i also saw on Google that having a retroverted uterus can be a cause I'm really learning a lot from you Dr. Simi...may you share more knowledge and God bless you always ❤️❤️❤️
@shaneikaneil893 жыл бұрын
I need a gynecologist like you here in Jamaica, ur KZbin channel as truly help me
@shaneikaneil893 жыл бұрын
Doc I want to say thank u from the bottom of my heart for this educated video, I got a check up and the pain I was experiencing was cervical Erosion and pevil inflammation, got some treatment and I'm better many thanks
@marylynharris14044 жыл бұрын
Excellent!! Thorough and detailed!
@acgu3 жыл бұрын
Can you show us how you studied in medical school please for students like me ? The way you talk is so concise thanks !
@hannahkoroma69123 жыл бұрын
This has been my problem since two years now
@ennove15354 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you soooo much for all the knowledge you are willing to share with us. I literally just binged watched several of your videos and these are all questions and concerns all females have. You make your following feel the comfort we all wish to feel everytime we visit our drs. I wish there were more Drs out there like you..... I wish you was my Dr heck lol. You have a new subscriber 🤗. Thank you and God bless you 🙏🏽🙌🏽🥰
@1reepaboss5053 жыл бұрын
Wen i have my period i have some really bad pain what is it happen to me
@roseonana99493 жыл бұрын
Thank you our medical doctor You are indeed blessed with your work 🙌🙌🙏🙏❤️🥰🇨🇲👌🏻
@becomealifestar50503 жыл бұрын
Omg that is awesome I've been having so much pain and I don't feel any pleasure and my husband is feel uncomfortable.
@kaymornasinclair50882 жыл бұрын
Very informative! She’s is a knowledgeable Professional !!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@ellasamuels14167 ай бұрын
I am so please that you have this channel. You are so helpful. Thank you so much. I always share your program with other and they are so helpful. God bless you.
@andreeagk30643 жыл бұрын
I am soooooo glad I found you! So helpful, to the point content. I made clear some aspects that I could not explain. Thank you soooo much!💗🦋
@ashtreylil13 жыл бұрын
Watching all of your videos to try to educate myself as a man.
@yawKim-qy9vi5 ай бұрын
Is there any drugs out there for the deep pain
@anafuentes84283 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m so happy I find this channel, I love how you explain everything now I understand a lot of my conditions thank you 🙏
@emili81944 жыл бұрын
A bit of a strange question, but as an asexual, I am highly uncomfortable with anything entering my body down there, and so if I ever need an examination that involves, like you said, a doctor having to use their fingers, would there be an alternative? It would be completely off putting, and might even scare me out of going to the doctor.
@tammystark6364 Жыл бұрын
I have had pain with sex for the last few years. My GYN says it is due to lack of estrogen since menopause. Well this doesn't make sense to me because sex was enjoyable for the 3 proceeding years after my change. I was non sexual for several years after being widowed and the Dr's other comment was well it is probably a psychological issue since the death of my husband. Also makes no sense because as I said I was active and enjoyed sex for a few years before this issue. Listening to you talk has helped me realize I need to change doctors. Because obviously this one is not listening to me. Next closest doctor or clinic is an hour away but I now know something can be done to help and I don't just have to "deal with it because of my age". Thank you for being forthright and making me understand I need to stand up for my heath and myself
@kissoaverage46213 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed to your channel & thank god you popped up on my feed because I would have never known lol now I have to binge watch these videos because I have certain vaginal issues and these tips could help me wish I could actually see you in person for advice also help, but any who I love seeing my black people winning & successful ✊🏾🙌🏾✨you go queen thank you for believing in us and solving all our girl problems we need more like you ♥️
@nasinandi45213 жыл бұрын
Doctor: at what stage are you having the pain? Me : at mention of the word 'sex' 😰😰😰
@goldenbenjamin9642 жыл бұрын
if you want the cure your genital wart infections or any kind of virus Or STDs visit Dr.Ani john on his KZbin channel he cured mine..
@IMETGODSHEBLACK3 жыл бұрын
So happy I found this video and I found your channel!
@aduwusalome93482 жыл бұрын
Wow! I really love this. It is educative. Dr Simi, more grace!!!
@Ethericrose4 жыл бұрын
I have an inverted womb, this causes issues with both external pain, ( my perineum tares and bleeds) and internal ( throbbing for hours afterwards) I went for medical support ( to a female gp) she was aggressive in her approach, I could tell she didn't have a clue, she said she would refer me to a gynecologist, yeah like that actually happened! Turns out she forgot. My partner and I stopped having sex because I could no longer tolerate the pain and bleeding. Our relationship is now non emotional and dying a slow death.
@RaelDanger4 жыл бұрын
Forgetting to refer a patient is extremely unprofessional. I'd complain and if your complaint isn't heard keep going higher up with it. Don't give up seeking treatment because of one crappy doctor.
@willyprecious47332 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏽 soo much GOD bless you 🙏🏽have this problem been confused think I need to see a therapist now
@Juices11113 жыл бұрын
I come every so often to remember the information that you giving me videos I have a cyst and teratoma but it's been recently where sex has been uncomfortable in the penetration part I do think I have to get the surgery I just didn't think that it will affect me that much because I've had it for years
@nihinlolablessed6292 жыл бұрын
All of your videos I've watched had been top notch 👌🏾
@Its_very_windy4 жыл бұрын
You are a need in my life... thank you so much for the knowledge
@deniseandrews71323 жыл бұрын
I've just found you and I must say I've learned a lot from your videos and a great lot. Thank you for this.
@soozanaabdul3333 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your message, it was very helpful. Can wait to hear from you again. God Bless you. 🙏❤️
@lavonnecurtain36403 жыл бұрын
I really found the information useful and will share it with my daughters
@noelpercy1601 Жыл бұрын
You're Amazing, and a Blessing. Thank you Dr. Simi
@marilynnelson2240 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found you a few weeks ago. Totally love your channel.
@DrSimiAdedeji Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! ☺️❤️ I hope you’ll continue to enjoy my content!
@marilynnelson2240 Жыл бұрын
@@DrSimiAdedeji Of course I will❤️
@joyinnocent87934 жыл бұрын
After breaking virginity How long dose it takes to stop feeling pain during sex
@jaynesemcfarland4 жыл бұрын
It can take up to a year
@shakamofaridah26054 жыл бұрын
@@jaynesemcfarland what ?
@suzyhemsworth64674 жыл бұрын
@@jaynesemcfarland what? Are you sure
@bridgetbema21664 жыл бұрын
@@jaynesemcfarland are you sure
@aaliyahwave.73864 жыл бұрын
Few days
@randsaloumi48543 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the great work and effort you put in to this video
@jennylynsantos80243 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this information. It gives me the background details and information regarding the possibilities and risks of experiencing pain after sex. I learned a lot for awareness as well.
@LanjoTv2 жыл бұрын
Ma’am my woman staves me for more than a month I really love her and I want to help her.
@peacymila40613 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ma for this, I was hoping you could give a safe remedy or recommendation for ovarian cyst 🙏
@mandiswakowane94674 жыл бұрын
You explain so well😩😊😊
@janechola58783 жыл бұрын
Am also going through the same problem. Thank you so much Dr Simi
@noxolomlotshwa70263 жыл бұрын
This is so informative. Thank you so much
@thatonlymoyin3 жыл бұрын
Doctor pls talk about Cystitis (UTI). The symptoms, causes and best possible treatment. Thank you 🙏.
@yetundetope18035 ай бұрын
Am glad you were able to cover this topic my pain is mostly after sex.i do I go about it.thanks
@miraclemercy24833 жыл бұрын
Wow! So clearly explained. Thanks so much
@arelialmazan93683 жыл бұрын
Always learning something new with your videos! Thank you
@DrSimiAdedeji3 жыл бұрын
So pleased to read this! 👀😊This is always my goal, to teach you something new/fascinating/useful with each video!🤓
@tweetybird65553 жыл бұрын
Wow, great doctor. I wish you were my GYN. I can tell that she will take time with you if you have questions, unlike my doctor, he is irritated when i ask a legitimate question. He just gets annoyed. :(
@animezinglife3 жыл бұрын
Yikes. Switch doctors. While it shouldn't be uncomfortable it's still a delicate topic, and you deserve better.
@jofrances32964 жыл бұрын
Hi Doctor, so glad I’ve found you, I’ve going through the change so that’s causing a few problems. The pain I’m experiencing is at the perineum entrance hurts on penetration and during intercourse feels like I’m cut and sore, had cystitis like symptoms two in the last month. Been particularly unwell this week, had antibiotics then 3 mg sachet of antibiotics this week one day treatment, to help with the burning and stinging when passing urine. I also felt very fatigued and bad headaches I assumed from the antibiotics. I sound like I need to be in a Tin lol 😂 any advice appreciated thank you for these informative videos 🙏🙏❤️
@evalynegithinji155 Жыл бұрын
Hey did you get help😢 i kinda get pain at the perineum
@lilyhong12202 жыл бұрын
I love your videos soo much! It's so hard to know when to see a doc and when I do see her and my symptoms are gone it's hard to explain in non-vague terms. Thank you for being a free and accessible resource for women out there!
@famlove6234 жыл бұрын
what if your body isnt lubracting due to birth controll? what do u do then?
@EmilyJane05294 жыл бұрын
I'm interested in this too
@dagmarvantilborg14144 жыл бұрын
Buy lubrication, but be careful if you use condoms. You need to but water based lubrication because silicone based lubrication can cause the condom to break.
@SweetyThemba3 жыл бұрын
Firstly you have no idea how happy I am that this video landed on my feeds and I learnt so much from it I suffer from vaginal dryness - no matter how aroused I am I’ve been experiencing painful sex for about a year now 1. It’s painful from the beginning - when he tries to enter I feel a sharp pain 2. Sometimes I feel like my muscles are closed in. So he has to push open again like I’m breaking my virginity which becomes painful 3. When he’s inside me for a long time it starts getting sore inside as well All of this results in 1. Pain after sex 2. Burning sensation when I pee 3. I’m unable to sit and walk without feeling the pain Please help. I’m a student and I cannot afford gynaecologists
@heleneiriba18523 жыл бұрын
Wow I just see your video popping out and I subscribed to this cause it’s helpful and educating
@MichelleAmalfitanoTwilight19873 жыл бұрын
You really help a lot with info I need to know and understand thank you again
@shockwaveviews14323 жыл бұрын
I love the way you talk .about it.am a man. And respect women so it is very important for as a man to know these things .why because I love my gf and she loves .me and it's important that I know.
@tippytoe1243 Жыл бұрын
Omg your the best I wish you were close to where I live DR.S you hit the spot thank you thank you
@AmySugg-zj2mhАй бұрын
So how is the issue diagnosed
@pumpkinpaws23634 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a doc like u my last few dident really do much they only asked and gave pills but I have had pain for years off and on
@carolinemak51134 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful 😭 though the camera going in and out of focus got kinda distracting. Wouldn't be surprised if the camera was trained on seeing lighter skin. It's so sharp when it is in focus, but maybe consider another camera that is more inclusive/actually can focus on your face no matter the engaging expression 👌
@472_d34 жыл бұрын
Wtf a camera that is racist 😂 and trained to recognize white people...this black lives matter is going too far 😂 accusing objects to be racist
@goodmorning30334 жыл бұрын
I feel like another factor is your menstrual cycle. Some times of the month feel great (during ovulation perhaps) but other times I get a deep pain from thrusting. Anyone else?
@sandcake4 жыл бұрын
Check out Alisa Vitti. She explains everything about your cycle in detail. She is a hormon expert. This changed my life. kzbin.info/www/bejne/b5nFeqKOgriEjpo
@iheartmarkipliergame4 жыл бұрын
That's probably dysmemorrhea, though I'm not too sure
@melaniecooke19234 жыл бұрын
Your cervix can move up and down during cycles! I find mine will drop lower during menstruation, and it feels sore when anything's bumping it, like during penetrative sex.
@ViolaA.Tendah-xn8nb Жыл бұрын
I'm diagnosed with superficial dyspareunia and need help
@janellejajeh34123 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS SO HELPFUL THANK YOU
@DrSimiAdedeji3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! 😊
@gabriellablessing49283 жыл бұрын
Pls what are the causes and how can I get rid of it
@cuzimcurly18507 ай бұрын
Is the estrogen gel a one time thing as far as treatment or would you have to do it regularly?
@dsocialchanger3 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with Endometriosis but nothing was found during laparoscopy and I still have the pain
@Ethericrose4 жыл бұрын
What makes me mad is? any male / female GP is quick enough to hand out testosterone or Viagra to a bloke to help him, yet when it comes to supporting a female with sexual issues, well, we're still waiting. Given most GP are blokes, maybe its a sexist thing. Makes you wonder.
@sashaaimey4 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen this video yet but I wish I had 12 yrs ago. I have endo and even using tampons is painful. So you can imagine how sex is like if you're not really aroused, or anxious about sounds, smells ect, and not allowing the cervix to retract. This should be taught at schools, and women need to stop talking about sex being painful as normal esp close to orgasm for the male so many women I've heard say it can be painful I just took it as the norm until a ruptured ovarian cyst got me a diagnosis and everything became crystal clear. My boyfriend at the time, an angel of a human being. Thank God for him.
@princessg92963 жыл бұрын
This is very educational .. I learned a lot from this thank u.
@DrSimiAdedeji3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!😊
@sharonbartholomew20662 жыл бұрын
I am loving your educational videos. Can women with a tilted uterus experience pain during sex?
@iamthatiam15683 жыл бұрын
I love you !!! - thanks for your videos
@tinaratan97222 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much dear for helping us
@michellenamala26853 жыл бұрын
Which hospital can I find u ? How do I make an appointment
@jn89223 жыл бұрын
Lol. I remember having to explain to my friend when we were about 30 that she didn't actually pee out of her vagina. Good video. Very helpful and comforting. I experienced a sharp pain and felt like something ripped and I bled but it was only for a second. I need to get it checked out but I wasn't relaxed because the guy was over eager. Just say no to eager beaver men and make them wait til you're ready.
@ChidinmaEmmanuella-w9v22 күн бұрын
please what causes dry Virginal
@cammyscantling10083 жыл бұрын
This was very informative and interesting thank you so much
@DrSimiAdedeji3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@lovethjame32802 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dr I wish I can speak with you one on one 😢😢
@stacywiseman44063 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I have excruciating deep pain to the point that I stopped having sex 2 years ago. I also bleed for several days if I have sex.
@lauraleehenry56573 жыл бұрын
I would absolutely love to have you as my personal doctor. Do you have your own practice, and if so, where are you located?
@asherleeclarke97854 жыл бұрын
Ur a good doctor
@saritaunni21683 жыл бұрын
Dr Simi, it was such a great talk.. really helped a lot. I have not had sex in last 3 yrs and when i tried to have, i found it painful on the right side. not sure what it was. what it could be doctor?